I got rid of 90% of my possessions in my 50’s to move abroad

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9 ай бұрын

In this video, I'm sharing how I decluttered my stuff before moving to Portugal in just 10 days. It was 90% gone after I was done, and I learned a lot along the way. If you're looking to relocate, then this video is for you.
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@ianworley8169 9 ай бұрын

We sold our house in Hampshire, England and decided to move to Portugal. We bought a Land Rover and agreed whatever we couldnt fit in the car, we would just give away to family, friends and neighbours. We gave away pretty much every thing we had accumulated over twenty years together, except clothes, laptops, a stereo a few precious mementos and our music collection. It felt incredibly liberating as we drove onto the ferry to Santander. Literally a few weeks later, we had found a house to rent in Alentejo and a home to buy and renovate. The following months were spent buying many of those self same possessions we had so recently given away. New life, new home and new things. That was in 2002. The house was finished in 2003, but there are always other projects. We will NEVER leave our beautiful home in Portugal. We both agree that letting go of our old lives was the best thing we ever did and we still have our old Land Rover.

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

Wow what an incredible journey 👏 thanks for sharing

@cryptopatient2574 9 ай бұрын

I don’t think I’ve ever come across a KZfaqr who has got my interest as much as Daphna. It’s the mix of beauty, honesty, openness and courage that’s so intriguing.

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

The only reason you can recognize these qualities in me is because you have them within. Thank you!

@Lyn-ky9vr 2 ай бұрын

word!

@investimentossamurai 9 ай бұрын

I have 2 pair of jeans 2 shoes some underwear a notebook and that's all albuns photos were all digitalized... at the end all disapear and it's OK, we are just a dust in the wind... after we're gone, only few people will remember and feel sad, the rest will forget us like in 2 weeks or less... the only thing we can leave to people is some type o knowledge or a legacy 🙏

@SuperBotanica 9 ай бұрын

I learned when I moved, that most of the things around me were actually just ballast. Memories are stationed in the head. Learning to let go is the key

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

You're absolutely right. Its only when you let go of material things that you make room for new adventures

@Toobenator 14 күн бұрын

@Daphna, I found your channel today and I’ve been binging through it. Thank you! I left my former home with what I could fit in a van, and I have since given away even some of those things. For the last couple of years, I’ve been living a nomadic life, and I’ve realized I don’t need those items, which now fit in a two-meter by two- meter space. I travel for months with a carry-on bag and a briefcase. It’s liberating! I hope to leave the US and settle down in Europe soon, but for now, these boots were made for walking.

@Daphna. 4 күн бұрын

I'm really grateful you are here sharing your story and thank you for your kind words ❤️❤️❤️

@BlueJeansandJellyBeans 6 ай бұрын

I am so engaged. I am in my 50's and just gave away almost all of my belongings. You are right I had paid storage fees for a total of about 5 years. When I decided to do this, I too went through everything. I looked at each item and asked myself is this a reminder of a time you have moved past? Most things I did not want to bring into my new life, so I donated everything except what I could fit into my suv that I chose to keep. It is weird not having things but regreshing a freeing at the same time. I need to work on income streams. I procrastinate but after decluttering have more gumpshin to get started. I began 2 projects a day ago. I think once I can see the benefit the less procrastination. New sub.

@Daphna. 6 ай бұрын

Hello 👋 tnx for sharing! It seems like are 50s are a time for a more manageable lifestyle. Best of luck on your journey

@TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle 9 ай бұрын

This is so raw. Getting rid of them is like getting rid of a piece of myself. These videos are so good.

@tanyar8761 25 күн бұрын

I’m 37 yo and live in Tel Aviv. I love your channel! It gives me so much inspiration and courage to strive to build the life I want. ❤

@Daphna. 23 күн бұрын

omg thanks for writing that ❤️ ❤️

@claudettekeene5540 8 күн бұрын

I found your channel this week and watched a few episodes. I'm from South Africa. My husband died in November and I have never been alone before. It's very scary and daunting . Thank yo for your honest and practical conversation, it's really opened my mind to a different mindset

@Daphna. 8 күн бұрын

Hugs❤️❤️❤️

@annahopp 9 ай бұрын

Portugal has already stolen my heart. Leaving the United States sounds better every year. Watching someone coming to a similar conclusion is very helpful. Thanks, Daphna!

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

You're very welcome Anna

@Michael-0000 7 ай бұрын

I enjoy your insightful and carefully curated videos. I’m in my 50s and based in Europe but have homes in three countries and connections with four, none of which are the land of my birth. As I grow older, I’m finding material possessions increasingly burdensome and am gradually clearing out and letting go. So my focus now is on decluttering and simplifying a life that has grown increasingly complex. It’s not just the unnecessary cost of accumulating objects that are seldom used, it’s the emotional capital of administering it all which consumes valuable time and energy. I try to remember that when life finally ends, you can’t take so much as a ring with you.

@Daphna. 6 ай бұрын

What a thoughtful and beautifully curated comment. I appreciate you taking the time to share your perspective; it certainly resonates with thoughts that cross my mind. I'm guessing you may be older and certainly wiser

@stela_solar 9 ай бұрын

I also never really identified with my original country in South America and decided to move away during my forties to settle in Europe. To do so I got rid of everything I owed (I sold/gave) and retained just the very essential to me, both emotionally and materially (believe it or not, it all fits in two medium-sized suitcases). When I'm around my 60s, I plan to finally settle down somewhere as a minimalist, a style that I embraced for the rest of my life. You have an amazing channel: keep carrying on! 🍀💐

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

Stela, thank you for your kind words! I'm curious to know where in Europe did you settle, if you don't mind sharing

@stela_solar 9 ай бұрын

@@Daphna. Now in Paris, but I'm doing my best to move to the countryside in southern France.🎉🌷

@christerwogel138 9 ай бұрын

I did the same as you, moving to Portugal when the time was right. I sold/give all things away before and bring only the essentials with me. There was things everywhere in my house. But in our age things has less value and now it is more about enjoying the day, and when all the things are gone it gives a bit of relief. You would regrett it later if you don´t do it now when you have these thoughts, opportuniy and energy!. Later it is always easy to move back if it doesn't work out well. Also Portugal is a great choice. For me It is as you think and described in one of your previous videos. Good Luck!

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing your own journey to simplifying life and the freedom that comes with downsizing 😊 I agree with your perspective on enjoying life at our age. And yes you can always move back if this doesn’t work

@viosabarileva8810 9 ай бұрын

Daphna, I came across your content during a particularly challenging phase in my life. We're around the same age, and I've been feeling quite discontent with my current living situation, especially since my daughter relocated to Europe for her studies. Your words provided me with valuable insights and comforted me, reminding me that I'm not the only one going through these emotions. I hope that soon I will have the courage to take the first steps toward relocating back to Europe, where I truly feel I belong.

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

I'm touched to hear that my content has been a source of comfort and inspiration for you. I wish you all the courage in your journey to where you truly feel you belong 🌟

@TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle 9 ай бұрын

WOW!!! That’s such a great share about your grandparents ❤

@MrChazz965 7 күн бұрын

We’re moving to Huelva region of Spain and are in the process of packing. We are leaving all of our furniture and just taking clothes, kitchen items, important papers & some memorabilia. Looking to ‘right size’ my life and lose all this material stuff.

@n_i.c_k.y4820 9 ай бұрын

Wishing you the best of luck! I am very interested in your journey and thanks for sharing your thoughts. I can relate to a lot you are saying. I seem to be on the same path, as a woman now in the second half of my 50ies, wanting to move to Portugal for many of the same reasons. Somehow I stumbled upon your channel at the right time. I am planning to declutter over the next few weeks too, as one of the steps to prepare. Your honest and open insights are very inspiring to me. I have to go it alone and seeing another woman doing something very similar, is really nice. So thank you for your videos and please keep it up! 🙂

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

I am so thankful to be able to inspire!🥰 Wishing you all the best 🫶

@paulc1352 9 ай бұрын

Portugal captures my interest with its history and culture. I may go there next year to explore this country. I've lived in the US all my life and our large cities are no longer safe. Sad that this is happening. My country has changed so much from the time I was a child. I admire your courage and determination on this move. I know you did a lot of soul searching prior to your move. I'm sure you're very excited to discover this new land.

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for your kind words Paul and for sharing your perspective

@raphaeleskenazi343 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your Journey. Good luck in the new chapter of your life.

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for your kind words🙏

@macaccount4315 9 ай бұрын

If you land in Porto, I’m happy to grab a coffee with you. Cheers. Relocated from the USA to Porto at 55 and happy with my home.

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for your kind offer🙏😊

@andreamar6044 9 күн бұрын

What a great video. Your reflections are thoughtful and inspiring. Thanks

@Daphna. 8 күн бұрын

thanks for these nice words❤️

@francoisrochat2625 2 ай бұрын

Dear Daphna, Leaving for Portugal is certainly the best move you ever made looking at how radiant you are. Wishing you all the happiness you deserve. FDR

@Katerinajacobs 9 ай бұрын

Admire your adventuress spirit! Keep updating us on your fascinating journey

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much Katerina for your kind words and warm heart

@catherineshaw3197 Ай бұрын

Thank you for all your tips l love your videos. We can all accumulate too many possessions. It is fabulous you moved to a new life.

@kylejulius9596 5 ай бұрын

This is so inspiring

@TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle 9 ай бұрын

Yes. I’m a realtor and I’ve seen many clients struggle to let go of stuff.

@wendy-annpoorter1799 Ай бұрын

Your spirit of adventure is delightful. It was lovely discovering your heritage and your educational background.

@Daphna. Ай бұрын

😘

@qarionlineeducation 9 ай бұрын

Thanks a lot Daphna for inspiring and motivating people like me who are stuck in their Past. You are saying what people like us feel exactly but I don't have enough courage to say that now

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

Best of luck

@jacquelinemcgowan8164 7 ай бұрын

well said all round, and for sharing.

@Daphna. 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for your comment 🙏

@julioalvarez2836 9 ай бұрын

This is so nice to see, I am very excited that you're starting a new life in another part of the world. I hope you're able to find your new home in Portugal! I feel the same in the United States, I am unhappy with the current political climate and how the culture here in the Washington DC area is all about your career. I plan on retiring early and going back to Mexico, where I was born. The older I get the more I realize how important being close to my family is. I wonder if I will have that emotional process when I decide to clear out my personal belongings.

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

I wish you the best of luck with your plans. Your way of thinking seems to be balanced and independent. I hope everything goes well for you

@julioalvarez2836 9 ай бұрын

Thanks you very much@@Daphna. you are too kind! Hope you're having a wonderful time in Portugal!

@SuperBotanica 9 ай бұрын

In the last few years I have moved several times - Dubai, Thailand, Germany, Austria and back to Thailand again. I'll never pack a container again. There are always problems at customs, where you have to buy your property freely. I made the last two moves with two suitcases, rented furnished apartments until I finally moved into a house and gradually settled in. new and used items for the furnishings. If I had to move again now, two suitcases would be enough. the containers and delivery costs add up. You can save yourself that and use the money for the necessary furnishings

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

You've had quite an adventurous journey. It's amazing how simplifying can make life better

@TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle 9 ай бұрын

I love this video ❤❤❤❤

@Daffodil729 9 ай бұрын

Daphna - I am looking forward to hearing how your journey goes. I am 73 years old and intend moving forward in my life , but not sure yet where my right place is. Briefly, I am British ,but after a 47 year dysfunctional marriage I ended up staying with family in the US . I later married , but sadly things haven't worked out . I have never been to Portugal, but it seems like a great 'fit' for me and I am seriously contemplating visiting as soon as I am able . I would be interested to know the parts of Portugal you like best and why those places appeal to you. I admire your passion and courage and wish you all the best in your adventure.

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

Best of luck. You deserve being happy

@GruenerGummistiefel 13 күн бұрын

Very nice to get to know you .

@sdbrickoven 9 ай бұрын

Hello, I completely understand your situation. I'm also in my 50s to be exact, 56 and I just moved to Portugal from San Diego, California. I bought an apartment in Lisbon, but a few months later I discovered Madeira. Now I'm here in Madeira and I'm in the process of buying a home here, I prefer Madeira over any other place I have traveled so far in my life. I wish you lots and lots of fun, I know people say luck but you don't need luck, I think Intelligence is more useful than luck, (Luck doesn't last forever) and from the looks of it, you have lots of intelligence so have no worries. Enjoy your new life.

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your story, and I'm inspired to hear you've found happiness in Madeira. I truly appreciate your kind words

@stuartoconnor538 9 ай бұрын

Another great video Daphna, what area of Portugal is that, It looks green and very pretty?

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

I think you are referring to the Alentejo coastline, which is indeed an incredibly beautiful and enjoyable place to visit. I feel so lucky to have followers who have an ongoing conversation with me. Thank you!

@manojaniroshini7970 8 ай бұрын

Very interesting video

@OsherAstrology 9 ай бұрын

מקסימה דש מברזיל מאחיך (בדרגת הנשמה) ❤

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

מעניין התוכן שלך אושר

@glidegirl2 9 ай бұрын

😃👍 Best wishes on your adventure

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

Thank you! You too!

@spkaiser1 9 ай бұрын

I'm thoroughly enjoying these videos. Such a fascinating spirit. I was about halfway through the video when it struck me that the "decluttering" wasn't only physical and external things, or even the emotional connections they embody, it was also a deeper, spiritual and psychic decluttering. Viva a sua melhor vida!

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

Yes Stephan, its a spiritual journey from start to finish, not just the decluttering, the whole process of finally listening to yourself

@spkaiser1 9 ай бұрын

@@Daphna. That's so true Daphna.

@jonathannamir3636 9 ай бұрын

Hi D Thanks for sharing! Your thoughts, ideas, life stories, and cool inputs. As we share a common Background, Life perspective and Loves (Portugal, Japan) I find your channel inspiring. I would like to wish you the best of luck in your new adventure in Portugal, AND here with the YT Chanel ..... By the way, could you let us in ona secret? Where in Portugal are you heading? It looks like a beautiful spot, a bit off the beaten path. J

@jonathannamir3636 9 ай бұрын

Algrave ? 🤔

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for your warm wishes 🙏

@ema-b1h 9 ай бұрын

About your hat box -Store textile and leather and actually everything in cloth old towels are good. And than in a box. Plastic created humidity. Since i started doing it the past years i have way less issues with things im storing

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

Thank for the tip Anna👍

@hammoussiu.c.w8816 9 ай бұрын

Your vedio very interesting

@trudiegordon6327 9 ай бұрын

Gosh where do you start and I think I would be daunted by what you are doing although I go through things often as I don't want lots of stuff. I think if I moved how difficult would it be and that motivates me but also if I died how much to clear out. It really helps. I have decluttered alot especially during Covid times. I love what you are doing and know it will work for you.

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for the kind words

@Carpe-Diem 9 ай бұрын

Good luck on your journey. We got down to five cubic meters of stuff to bring here. So can relate closely to de-cluttering!😂😂

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

5? respect!😂

@life4youtoenjoy 9 ай бұрын

It is just a stuff . Don't let past hold you back and step in future with clean plate . Those paintings you should try to sell Daphna or donate I am sure somebody would gladly show those .

@annalytic 9 ай бұрын

Love your lipstick in this video - what is it? Love your top too - where is it from?

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

My top is from a 2nd hand store, my lipstick @charlottetilbury beauty light wands and pillowtalk

@jijib7691 9 ай бұрын

Hi Daphna, I think I've manifested your vids today. I was just thinking of wanting to move back to the Caribbean when I turn 50 next July 😊 You mentioned in a video to click on another called From $0 to Millionaire but I couldn't find the link. Will you be posting it?

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

It's fascinating how sometimes things align just when we need them. Its called serendipity. Wishing you all the best with your move to the Caribbean

@danielspoerle9657 9 ай бұрын

This is awesome! All for the better. There is no law saying you can not reinvent yourself. Take what you have learned and wipe the slate clean of all the rest ( That is negative anyway).

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

Reinventing yourself and having new adventures is the secret to staying young. That's my take on it

@jaanaprall9961 9 ай бұрын

Would love to connect! We have moving continents in our 50's in common & choosing Portugal.

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

I'd love to hear, if you'd like to share, and I'm sure many other people on this thread would be interested too, why you chose Portugal

@Frag_Limit 9 ай бұрын

I would love to visit Portugal one day so viewing it from a foreigner's point of view is interesting.

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

I'm sure you will enjoy your visit. Is there any particular region you’d like to visit on your future trip?

@Frag_Limit 9 ай бұрын

@@Daphna. I'll just follow your video recommendations 😁

@dianasharonschenker7046 Ай бұрын

NOW I KNOW! YOU ARE ISRAELI. FIRST COUNTRY I WENT FROM LONG BEACH, CALIFORNIA TO WAS ISRAEL IN 1965 WHEN I WAS 21. I FELL IN LOVE WITH THE MED. MADE ALYIAH WITH MY SON AFTER MY SECOD DIVORCE. I UNDERSTAND PERFECTLY THAT IS WHY I LIVE IN MONTENEGRO. SAFE NO STRESS, MOSTLY NATURAL FOOD VERY DOWN TO EARTH PEOPLE.

@dianasharonschenker7046 Ай бұрын

Hi Daphna, You did not reply? When in High School. I read Exodus motivated me to go to Israel. I met students and teachers from all over the world. I hitch hiked the country with soldiers' protection, worked on Kibbutizm, and became a stronger person. Very tuff life then in Israel. One of the characters in the book was Daphna. In 1987 with my teenage son immigrated as a single mother to work as a dental assistant and learn Hebrew. My son wanted to go back to the States. Went again to Israel 1998 when we vacationed in Florence, Italy, with my Israeli partner. So this is why I have no fear of traveling or relocating to a different country. Most of my life I felt uncomfortable in America. My son married a Ukranian/Bulgarian woman. They live in Varna, Bulgaria, with my teenage grandchildren who were born in the States, raised in BG. They speak English, Russian Bulgarian so far. Ciao

@shaunbat5097 4 ай бұрын

Im now going through belongings, most is going to charity never had lots as dont like clutter but still accumulated, also selling few things,i will own very little. Then i need to work on income .

@Daphna. 4 ай бұрын

Good luck on your journey. It sounds like you’re on the right path

@shaunbat5097 4 ай бұрын

@@Daphna. It's definitely a start... Thank you!

@katemlcochova7228 4 ай бұрын

I just started watching your channel and maybe it was mentioned somewhere already, I am wondering if your dog moved with you.

@Daphna. 4 ай бұрын

Unfortunately, Belle isn't my dog, but she is indeed an incredibly special dog and a wonderful companion

@daviddjerassi 5 ай бұрын

A small correction please firstly the factory outlets in Italy will sell you this worthless bling with 50% off even 70% off they call them seconds but in fact they are not they are factory over stock i have purchased these before i discovered the special markets in Turkey where you can purchase exact copies for between £ 5 and £ 15 believe you me you cannot tell the difference i have purchased many of these copies during my three visits over the last ten years and have great fun showing them off am i rich no but i love poking fun on those people that pay out absurd amounts of money on total bling I loved your honest advice and straight talking in this video thank you.

@Daphna. 5 ай бұрын

You’re the second person telling me about buying these things in Turkey for a fraction of the price

@daviddjerassi 5 ай бұрын

its a fact truth i have purchase dozens of items for family and friends they are exact copies providing you don't re sell as being the real thing then its good fun.

@davidgoode5768 9 ай бұрын

How do we pronounce your name, Dap nah, Daf nah? I'm also curious as how the Portuguese say your name because my name is David but the Portuguese always address me as DaVEED and the ph in your name would really confuse the Portuguese

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

My name is pronounced "DAF-nah." I've noticed that Portuguese pronunciation can sometimes be quite different from English, as you mentioned with your name

@livelaughlove4635 11 күн бұрын

David is not a Portuguese name but people in Portugal know it because it have seen it more over the years. Especially with the children of Portuguese people who immigrated to other countries decades ago. So people pronounce it that way, they are used to it. I don’t think her name is as popular in Portugal so just don’t think they have a way of saying it, like yours.

@pt6304 9 ай бұрын

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@JOATMOFA 9 ай бұрын

Have you purchased any property yet?

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

Coming soon on my next videos

@mihaelafilipescu5818 9 ай бұрын

I can see lots of American citizen moving to European Continent, and they are moving to, France, Germany, Portugal. Selling EVRITHING and crossing the pond. Portugal have an excellent public transport, cars are luxury.

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

You're absolutely right! Many people are discovering the benefits of life in Europe. Thanks for sharing your thoughts! 😊🌍🚆

@eliv.7062 6 ай бұрын

A peaceful place is Everything! Guilt and declutter come along but eventually it'll feel fine, I think.

@tamar535 9 ай бұрын

לגמריי מבינה אותך. עוברת פחות או יותר אותו דבר. גם אני בשנות ה50 שלי ועזבתי את הארץ. גם אני לא הרגשתי שם במקום אף פעם ומרגישה שאירופה היא המקום האמיתי שלי ומקום אבותיי. עוקבת אחרייך כדי לחזק ולהתחזק.

@Daphna. 9 ай бұрын

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