I Have 6 Girlfriends & Men Hate Me | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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FOR LX Xander, one girlfriend just isn't enough. The music producer currently has six women on the go, but he's always looking for more. Speaking to Love Don't Judge, he explained: "It wasn't really a conscious decision for me to all of a sudden become polyamorous. I just found that traditional monogamy didn't really work with me in how I function as a human being." But not everyone approves of his unconventional lifestyle and LX Xander explained: "I definitely receive quite a lot of judgement. 90% of it is from men. They'll say things to try to make it look like it's fake or like I'm paying them. I think for some men, seeing the way I live is quite a hit to their ego." In this episode of Love Don't Judge, two of LX Xander's girlfriends, Nia and Avery, come by to hang out with LX Xander and meet Dani, who is potentially going to become girlfriend number seven. Dani said: "When he told me he had six girlfriends it didn't really bother me. As long as they're ok with doing what he does, I don't really see the issue." LX Xander's friend, Eli, will also reveal what he thinks about LX Xander's love life. Concluding on his polyamorous choices, LX Xander revealed: "I think people don't understand that actually I'm quite affectionate and warm. I really have real, meaningful relationships with people."
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@deppheadsunited2924 Ай бұрын
Be honest we all judge these people.
@tobiaslawrence8928 Ай бұрын
I judge everyone, and people judge me and that's cool.
@DDRWakaLaka Ай бұрын
@@tobiaslawrence8928i don't judge you, Toby. you probably don't have face tattoos like a damn fool 😂
@Bbyblu96 Ай бұрын
Isn’t that the point ?
@skunkie110 Ай бұрын
Everybody judges everyone and everything, whether we want to admit it or not, that’s just the truth.
@mozesberrospi Ай бұрын
Yeah because this is basically a man’s dream
@zekethewise7042 Ай бұрын
He has a type that I can say
@kaylao.3326 Ай бұрын
Beautiful black women are his type obviously
@vanessarickford6260 Ай бұрын
@@kaylao.3326 Yeah but 6 ??? Man i wish better for women fr
@MrFwlger Ай бұрын
@@kaylao.3326 he might have been a slave owner in his past life
@brandy7893 26 күн бұрын
@@MrFwlgerlmaoooooooooo I hate I laughed at this comment 😂😂😂😂
@elsugga3736 23 күн бұрын
@@MrFwlgeras a black woman im literally gagged
@dgirllamius____x Ай бұрын
I suppose if you're desperate, you'll settle for anything...
@ranirice157 Ай бұрын
It's his haram
@vanessarickford6260 Ай бұрын
No lies 😮
@dogsandyoga1743 Ай бұрын
@@ranirice157it's also haram 😂
@Storm_And_Reign Ай бұрын
I constantly make sure my teenage daughter understands her self-worth, and tell her the importance of respect and how to identify when she is being shown respect.
@dingo1666 Ай бұрын
Nobody hates him. Men will feel sorry for him having to deal with 6 women [I say that as a woman], and women won't be jealous because most of us prefer to have someone who loves us exclusively. So point being, his self esteem is so low that collecting ladies and putting it on video makes him somehow feel better. I kind of feel sorry for him if anything. Nothing beats a soulmate!
@Silvermoon1100 Ай бұрын
These people doesn't understand the real meaning of affection feelings it's something spiritual not only physical contact 🤢
@shibalogic5269 Ай бұрын
People think they understand what spiritual affection is but they are just setting goal posts their church set for them.
@RichHandsome Ай бұрын
@@shibalogic5269bingo 🎯
@Diamondr11Blue Ай бұрын
These women should respect themselves and not be his multiple options tho
@blossom1290 Ай бұрын
exactly, all these loyal dudes out here smh🤦🏽♀️
@ChristophSanAndreas Ай бұрын
@@blossom1290 but that’s what these female love. Toxic relationships…so they can whine to their friends loo
@NoorkeiBoston Ай бұрын
I agree
@BunBun2626 20 күн бұрын
@@blossom1290 Some women don't want monogamy my dude.
@18T220 Ай бұрын
6 girlfriends, lives in a dump 🤣
@m1ssjuju Ай бұрын
A dump? It looks clean and decent to me lol
@18T220 Ай бұрын
@@m1ssjuju You must also live in poverty
@m1ssjuju Ай бұрын
@@18T220 haha 😄
@18T220 Ай бұрын
@@m1ssjuju jk 😇 what dogs you got?
@JE-zj3fm Ай бұрын
They’re sucking up all his money on tampons and shampoo 😂😂
@rosieb714 Ай бұрын
No one is jealous of him
@Scarlet_Soul Ай бұрын
I feel bad for the women more than anything. Have some more self respect
@vsmith6109 Ай бұрын
It would be bad if they all live together in a weird commune/ sister wife sort of way. I think the women really consider him a "situationship" where he is a fun escape from responsibility and stress one - two days a week and none of the responsibilities of a relationship. They don't seem to expect anything from him besides his company at the moment. They don't have to stress on him or show up for him. They can date other people to find a reliable relationship and leave the situation.
@BunBun2626 20 күн бұрын
@@vsmith6109 EXACTLY, I'm shocked how narrow minded people STILL are on human sexuality and lifestyles.
@blossom1290 20 күн бұрын
@@BunBun2626 that's if these women want this though, they can be naive, it's only benefitting the dude in this video
@blossom1290 20 күн бұрын
@@vsmith6109 makes sense lol
@Diamondr11Blue Ай бұрын
Bro is for the streets. He is NOT tengen uzui😂😂
@leeloo9402 Ай бұрын
😂 flashy
@Misandrist-hitler Ай бұрын
At least tengan can fight 😂
@Diamondr11Blue Ай бұрын
@@leeloo9402 real
@Diamondr11Blue Ай бұрын
@@Misandrist-hitler YO WHAT IS THAT NAMEE
@konstantinospapaioannou2588 Ай бұрын
Ok, I can totally understand why he wants to have 6 or 7 girlfriends at the same time. But I will never understand how these “girlfriends” accept this humiliating role.
@BunBun2626 20 күн бұрын
Humiliating, why cause women have to be monogamous or shame on them? It's okay that man wants this but women aren't allowed to?
@blossom1290 20 күн бұрын
@@BunBun2626 what the comment means is him using those women.
@Ravenonweed Ай бұрын
Nah bro Im judging you 💀
@lyd98208 Ай бұрын
😂
@Latte-dq1tb Ай бұрын
“I’m a producer”. Well, that explained everything
@Danafeuer Ай бұрын
If I were a man, I would be inspired by this story, as he is the living proof that you don't even have to look good to have several girlfriends.
@Diamondr11Blue Ай бұрын
If it was a woman she'd be called named
@Silvermoon1100 Ай бұрын
You only need to have MONEY and benefits and that's common lady
@courtneyriley185 Ай бұрын
😂 does he have a A mustache tattoo by his eye?
@tobiaslawrence8928 Ай бұрын
Or have low-self esteem problems.
@Qthe2 Ай бұрын
That's such a back handed compliment 😂😂😊
@alijane6675 Ай бұрын
I don’t believe this is legit. At. All. Just a schmuck trying to get his five minutes.
@frankn.7883 Ай бұрын
Anyone who allows more than one person at a time, is unstable in their relationship. Theirs a cost for having more than one partner, it could cost you all your life 😮
@kclink1579 Ай бұрын
No they dont, they think you are pethetic but in your deluded head you assume they are jealous because thats the only thing you know.
@wig.snatcher Ай бұрын
where is the "love" part?
@sarahortiz8191 Ай бұрын
I assume this is short term and for fun. I dont know how anyone can settle for being in a serious relationship with this man. Especially after him saying "I dont see some of them as a girlfriend, but these two are close". He has a careless mindset.
@auzientertainment7771 Ай бұрын
This is so disgusting and disturbing.
@S.Shea2432 Ай бұрын
They all sound the same.
@Posionmoni7267 Ай бұрын
I personally don’t see a problem with this, he’s not holding any hostage, he tells them up front and it’s their choice to walk away or stay
@sunnywintermorning1941 Ай бұрын
Would you be happy for your daughter to be one of his girls?
@Bigmike55626 21 күн бұрын
@@sunnywintermorning1941you can’t control your kids. Sorry to break it to you.
@sunnywintermorning1941 21 күн бұрын
@@Bigmike55626 that’s nothing to do with my question.
@Bigmike55626 21 күн бұрын
@@sunnywintermorning1941your question is moronic. Has nothing to do with the context
@sunnywintermorning1941 21 күн бұрын
@@Bigmike55626 it was a question; it doesn’t require a context. It requires an answer.
@hollyblack1034 Ай бұрын
The comments are very judgemental. He is just poly. All the girls know it and accept the system, i don't see the problem.
@gwenx4400 Ай бұрын
Thank you, I was hoping to find a comment like this. I don’t understand the negative comments. He’s honest to them, and if the girls would want more boyfriends they’re free to do whatever they want. He’s not cheating on them, so what is the problem? It could never be me, but if they all agree to the situation who are we to judge? They’re not harming anyone…
@Jass951 Ай бұрын
Having 6 girlfriends is beyond poly at this point, this is a harem. Plus, is he even planning on marrying them? He's just using them in the name of poly so he won't be judged.
@hollyblack1034 Ай бұрын
@@Jass951 marrying is not an obligation in life... not every girl wants to marry :)
@criminalconcept7126 Ай бұрын
@@Jass951ur a jealous virgin
@tobiaslawrence8928 Ай бұрын
It's crazy, many men out here who are single and lonely like myself can't get one girl, these fools got multiple? This ain't fair man.
@Shayistic Ай бұрын
Life's unfair bro
@ananimity7332 Ай бұрын
I'm female but honestly this kind of man does nothing for me. He's a player and players can't be trusted. Trust is important to me
@blossom1290 Ай бұрын
@@ananimity7332 facts
@blossom1290 Ай бұрын
@ellobo4033 this the reason plenty dudes can't get a good women, fools like these take advantage of the nice women cause their naive, but this is all for money too
@Diamondr11Blue Ай бұрын
@@ananimity7332 if thia vid was about a woman with a lot of men we all know the comments would be different
@rococochocolate479 Ай бұрын
It’s disgusting these young ladies need to look a job or go back to school he is just using them cult this
@Legacybyt Ай бұрын
The only way I would find this great is if they were all asexual people meaning that they do not have sex because who wants to keep up with all of their medical backgrounds on a regular basis? Because if he’s sleeping with six of them, they all have six men on the side as well so now we have 12 people swapping body fluids on a regular basis is just dangerous. It has nothing to do with, you or not it’s just dangerous
@felixortega4669 Ай бұрын
He's in a polyamorous relationship
@silentgamer2074 Ай бұрын
6 wives. 7 days in a week. 1 per day. Rest on the 7th day. I see what hes going for lol
@courtneyriley185 Ай бұрын
He has money. No personality.
@billymadden7676 Ай бұрын
And probably not much money at that. He makes beats for a living. That’s not a real job. lol
@Ahahahhaaah Ай бұрын
He has money? Lmao he lives in a dump.
@emillychen888 Ай бұрын
he thinks he's cool 😅😅😅
@dolliilov3144 Ай бұрын
No, thank you! I want to be the one and only and won't share. Plus, you don't know what type of sexual diseases people have these days unless you ask them to get fully tested with you only if they're not offended. 🤨
@blossom1290 Ай бұрын
exactly, I wonder what type of sexual diseases he has?🤷🏽♀️
@freedomofspeech2420 Ай бұрын
So one thing I will say is they seem to get along, this is very weird for me but it’s their lives. He’s not against them just being with him, so it doesn’t seem to be a control thing. So weird but whatever.
@Emma-fn4yd Ай бұрын
At least everyone is a consenting adult and they know about each other but don't see the attraction myself.
@Never_Give_Up_88 Ай бұрын
Hey they're young and fabulous, as long as he's treating them right by not putting his hands on them and taking care of them, then have fun. Eventually they will all grow up and move on.
@anbailey319 Ай бұрын
he definitely has a type for sure........
@Ahahahhaaah Ай бұрын
Dudes an absolute loser and lives in a dump lol.
@criminalconcept7126 Ай бұрын
Gets more girls than you
@creatormanualdarytendotmve4748 Ай бұрын
6:49 He has a better romance with Eli than all thoes girls.
@shibalogic5269 Ай бұрын
The only problems here that i see is that logically past 2 partners he will start having problems financially and emotionally because the more people the shorter the time to split to make the all feel like they are getting the same amount of affection
@DeshawnLT Ай бұрын
Was that Hurricane Chris talking to this dude on the couch at the end? Ay Bay Bay, Ay Bay Bay lol
@mr.Herculesidrewthismyself217 Ай бұрын
The type of women who willingly be a footrest to a particular guy lol
@nalwaddabenardatte7850 Ай бұрын
All the 6 girls have side dishes. They have other men that assist the guy.
@Okaminitro777 Ай бұрын
He definitely picked the right ones. They'll do anything for his "type".
@thouwow4284 Ай бұрын
Lot of haters in the comments lol the girlsactually look happy
@averyjaneofficial Ай бұрын
Thanks Love Don’t Judge for letting us share a tiny snippet of our unhinged silly lil lives 🥰 So much fun!
@Fnaro Ай бұрын
as a brit myself, I'm disappointed in him, for this type of lifestyle but any who it's his life he can live how he wants to.
@BunBun2626 20 күн бұрын
Some people aren't monogamous, some women don't like the idea of a man constantly clinging to them or they themselves like dating more than one person. I get why women would want to have this, human sexuality is complex.
@blossom1290 20 күн бұрын
Makes sense , just be careful for what ever sexual disease 🤷🏾♀️
@S_H9260 Ай бұрын
6 seems excessive. You can't give proper attention to that many women. 2 or 3 if they are friends and everyone has a good relationship and can rely on each other maybe. But I would not be okay with more than that.
@saviibes Ай бұрын
some people really hating on how others live their lives 🥺 😂
@erinnicole477 Ай бұрын
Dude is a clown. He's selfish
@VancouverCatDogLover 24 күн бұрын
Just having one girlfriend is super time consuming. I love being single. This is insane.
@Percs84 Ай бұрын
Trash attracts trash😊
@thefashionally2285 Ай бұрын
Dating in LA is rough but I just don’t see how the ladies got to this point.
@KellyBrown-qh1oy Ай бұрын
Why is this funny 🤣
@lotussong1 Ай бұрын
Hmmm…🤔 I think he’s using the word “girlfriends” as an excuse to cheat. On camera, none of the women mention money, but I’m pretty sure that’s the main reason why they’re with him. In other words, he’s just pimping.😒
@elizabethjoseph87 Ай бұрын
He seems like a scary guy with all tatoos😮.
@user-jw1nc4oc4o 18 күн бұрын
Tattoos are cool. I don't judge regular people but celebrities if that makes any sense to you.
@user-od4yl3rf4n Ай бұрын
This guy is living his life. His love is enough for all of them.
@user-iq8tk9iv4h Ай бұрын
Love? U mean his money? Cuz I see nothing about love in this video but tons of dogshit
@NoorkeiBoston Ай бұрын
🛑 The delusion is grandeur. He is setting up himself for failure. i.e., legal issues, lawsuits, potential sex crimes accusations, etc. all from women. 🛑
@JamesWest_III Ай бұрын
Bro got 6 lumps of coal. I got the diamond
@jinchuriki7022 Ай бұрын
When hes broke, its over
@mendoza19751 Ай бұрын
Do what makes you happy
@shatterdpromiSes Ай бұрын
He’s probably just collecting these girls and calling them his “gfs” to boost his ego and not because he actually loves them or enjoys spending quality time with them
@HydraCoffee42-wj5ir Ай бұрын
Nope we honestly all don't judge these people, some do, but we aren't all self righteous haters
@justb4769 Ай бұрын
I don't agree with this but at least everyone is upfront and honest. I always respect honesty.
@m1ssjuju Ай бұрын
I rkn some men will be jealous of what he has. I mean the men that like cheating and not sticking with the one woman. Emphasis on "some", but then again, I am a female so I could be completely wrong haha It just seems weird reading comments stating the opposite just cos they don't like the way he dates & possibly not attracted to him. Btw, I'm def not attracted to him nor am I into poly relationships, however I can understand. Not my life, don't know him and he's not doing nothing to bother me, so to each their own and live ur life!!!
@Bigmike55626 21 күн бұрын
He’s a certified pimp. Much respect
@miannalee1616 12 күн бұрын
Gotta be scripted. 😂😂😂 ain't no way they that desperate
@Bilah_dafit1 Ай бұрын
A I rock with this Anybody hating is just jealous He’s mad cool
@averyjaneofficial Ай бұрын
Let’s goooo 🔥
@UniqueLivingGreen Ай бұрын
Sisters....why...he is not Elon Musk lmao. I don't understand how they are truly benefiting from this if this isn't a SD relationship.
@averyjaneofficial Ай бұрын
For the people in the comments confused: - We are all consenting adults - We all make our own money & don’t need to use LX for his - Poly dating, with proper communication & sexual health practices, can be fun! - Don’t take life (yours or stranger’s on the internet’s) so seriously 😂💕 Thanks for watching! 🥰
@hardworkingdiva Ай бұрын
He looks like Hard Rock Nick cosplaying as Post Malone. The poly part is whatever (a complete non-issue IMO), but that beard is a complete intentional choice. 😮💨
@AuzSanchez Ай бұрын
I don’t think anyone is confused
@marsramirez9350 13 күн бұрын
Does he atleast buy you guys gifts and pay for your dinners? I’d hope lmao
@masterhazevienna Ай бұрын
i mean, do whatever you want....but i think he is very manipulative...poor girls...if i am wrong...sorry^^
@sureshchatriya1848 Ай бұрын
Oh! God 😳❗ He is a modern day latest Krishna. 🤩 Krishna had 16,000 wives who were the concubines of Narakasur first. Raped women had no place in society then, so Krishna accepted them as his wives. Krishna had 8 main wives, totaling 16008. He had 10 children with each of them, so his family members itself totaled exactly 1 million. After his demise, nothing was left. His city Dwaraka submerged in sea.
@ananimity7332 Ай бұрын
I'm nauseous! Men hate him?!!! What "kind" of men would hate him for his lifestyle?!
@KeithsTVHD1 Ай бұрын
Wow I can't even get one girlfriend
@movtipsislee Ай бұрын
Whatever rocks *your* Boat 😅
@caitlinlaga1856 13 күн бұрын
These girls dont understand what being free means 😂
@cleantageorges7809 Ай бұрын
HOW MANY HEARTS DO YOU HAVE?
@ciganyweaverandherperiwink6293 Ай бұрын
Oh don't worry mate, I don't judge you or your birds; I just find you very funny. 👍💯💯🤣
@maxineperez3141 Ай бұрын
His eye tattoo Uhh No 😂
@mozesberrospi Ай бұрын
6 girlfriends. What does he do and people of the uk this is normal.
@cocosheabuttarosemaryqueen9204 23 күн бұрын
He paying them...next case
@KrystleVoss2013 Ай бұрын
He being used too his fault
@KellyBrown-qh1oy Ай бұрын
I don't wanna get married 😢
Ай бұрын
May be called Romeo pimp?
@guillaumecorrea4151 Ай бұрын
Try 1 but beautiful😂😂😂
@maxineperez3141 Ай бұрын
I feel hes probably fun person idk im getting that vibe 😮
@RainWalking Ай бұрын
Seems the women get played
@JandyElijahYT Ай бұрын
Not sure Judge having to much
@playboyprincess4436 15 күн бұрын
They're his beard!!!
@KellyBrown-qh1oy Ай бұрын
Is this for real
@ananimity7332 Ай бұрын
Sadly
@qo6099 Ай бұрын
It’s giving colonisation.
@blackmalelifecoech103kevo3 Ай бұрын
devisters are sad
@averyjaneofficial Ай бұрын
I hope everyone in the comments judges us HARDER 🤤
@Kondohgirl Ай бұрын
Pim……LMNO….P perhaps?
@_TheEndless_ Ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@Ahahahhaaah Ай бұрын
Absolute clown 😂
@dogsandyoga1743 Ай бұрын
Eh, if they like it, I love it 🤐
@HajileLezcnev Ай бұрын
Gross
@sabrinasuzukioficial23 Ай бұрын
beautiful❤❤❤❤❤
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