I Keep Quitting Jobs: What Am I Really After

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I keep quitting jobs: What Am I Really After// Are you finding yourself going from job to job? In this video, I talk about quitting a job you just started, signs to quit your job, and should you quit your job. Quitting a job can create so much anxiety and uncertainty but if you follow these steps I outline you will be moving towards the right career for you faster.
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@michaelabenton4457 3 жыл бұрын

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@garouuchiha4041 Жыл бұрын

Normal day jobs don't work for me and I am thankful, it is slavery. I am joining the military. Ladies and gentlemen, it is okay that working at a normal day job makes you hate and quit and so forth...you are meant for something better. It's high school crap at working at a normal day jobs.

@harthart7529 8 ай бұрын

stop with the bs banking and sales jobs. That stuff doesn't work for you because you took that job assuming it would be easy. That shouldn't even be a consideration. Go get a certified skill and start making 6 figures.

@ChristineCircelli 5 ай бұрын

This is why we absolutely need a Universal Basic Income regardless of whether or not people male or female want to work.

@curious_puspin_cat 2 жыл бұрын

I'm glad I'm not the only one in the world who have this problem. I get hired then id give up on the way... and then I get depressed for being unemployed and seek for jobs again. Once I get hired... when i started to hate it... I give up again. I dont even know what i wanted.

@tamiaa01 Жыл бұрын

I’m literally in the same boat… I’m just not meant to be a worker… I feel like I’m giving up my time for money and I absolutely hate it

@ghosthunter7258 Жыл бұрын

Yup me to life is fucked

@goldenape2490 Жыл бұрын

Same right now im about to quit the job i have its only been a day

@BGfilmsIt Жыл бұрын

Guilty 👋🏼

@santaigomontano2216 Жыл бұрын

Same here, and when the tax return come I have to pay the irs

@SergioGonzalez-oc3gy 2 жыл бұрын

Always being on the job hunt is tiring.

@crazyhat15 3 жыл бұрын

I’ve quit around 4 jobs in the past year ,I just have such a hard time staying at a job that I dislike and I get so depressed that just stop showing up.I just started my current job about a month ago and I hate it already.I’ve already started filling out applications and going to interviews.I hate quitting and disappointing myself but I just can’t force myself to stay somewhere when I know there might be other options

@michaelabenton4457 3 жыл бұрын

I get it, and the thing we need to understand is that there are always going to be better options whether it's a job, better-looking boyfriends or girlfriends, etc. Unfortunately, we can't take every option but we can take an option that leads us towards our ultimate goal in life. My advice is for you to take out a piece of paper and write your strengths, weaknesses, likes, and dislikes when it comes to working. ask yourself questions like; what could I see myself doing every day, what would be fun. From there you can start to write down all the different jobs that include your strengths and what you're into.

@Deelow909 2 жыл бұрын

damn, I tho that I was alone ! :(

@air10_32 2 жыл бұрын

Factz...i thought it was just me..and im pushin 40yrs old🙄

@yuni62 2 жыл бұрын

Girl me too

@IzzyAariel10 2 жыл бұрын

Same!!! Once a job start causing depression it’s time for me to go!!!

@brittanysapology9528 5 ай бұрын

Times have changed and we are a different generation of people. We don’t stay at jobs 10,20,30+ years anymore like the older folks do. Our mindset towards the average 9to5 work life has shifted a lot since these past few years. We want to start businesses, we want to explore different ways to earn money, we want freedom, we want time with our families. We are awake now and we know that this work life is misery

@michaelabenton4457 5 ай бұрын

Couldn’t agree more

@melvonjohnson5711 Ай бұрын

I quit so many jobs man--I just can't phantom the fact going to work with people that I don't want to work with- Every job I had, it was the same people with same drama, problems etc I came to realization that I would never work a 9-5 job ever again.

@AlexM-vt5pu Жыл бұрын

I just quit a 76k job after 2 weeks of working there and completely hating it. I went back to my 46k fully remote job. I feel like I'm crazy for doing this, but I couldn't imagine myself working in a grey lonely cubicle for the rest of my life.

@Nusaiba89 Жыл бұрын

I’m about to quit my $75k a year job and it’s really weighing heavy on me. But I’m not happy. 😔

@emolaine 9 ай бұрын

Wanna try travelling?

@lau77771hh 7 ай бұрын

In fact yes, you are crazy. Life is about making sacrifices... What a waste.

@kolimprio1234 7 ай бұрын

@@lau77771hh Making sacrifices yes, but we also have choices (at least most us, the lucky ones), he chose the least paying job but peace in mind (from my understanding at least). If he can live with 45k and be peaceful day in day out why not?

@temprary580 7 ай бұрын

@lau77771hh it is about sacrifice, but we get to choose what we sacrifice. What's money worth if you are miserable

@soulseeker1651 Жыл бұрын

Man, the longest I have held a job was 2 years. Than I quit. I did uber for the longest time, got back into a w2 because money from the apps is no longer good.... half a month in and I wanna quit already lol. Been like this forever. Im 30 years old now, I cant work for anybody man. I dont take orders, I hate people, I love money but tbh, if anything this pandemic taught me and during this post pandemic world is time is more valuable. Which is why im an advocate of seasonal work. 6 months working than 6 months off. Work sucks. America sucks. I want out of this shit.

@michaelabenton4457 Жыл бұрын

The most important thing was that you found what works for you.

@shaunhourigan5820 Жыл бұрын

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@dorisfashion Жыл бұрын

I thought I was the only one feeling this way

@manicmurph 8 ай бұрын

I feel that way every day. I just quit a job my buddy got me as a merchandiser. Basically they were unprofessional from the start. One day of training and on day two I was on my own and not in a Prius like they said but that I had to use my own car....lol. Red flag one, then my friend who is lazy was taking advantage of me by telling me to stay late to finish his stores so he wouldn't have to do anything the following day. Plus it's a whole different side of town that I don't know. It was too much work and too little pay. I took a pay loss cause I ran CNC machines and was making $20 an hour and was only making $15 on this job.

@mateaukalua4426 8 ай бұрын

The longest I worked a job was 2 years and 4 months. I am plenty loyal as long as they don't screw me over. Also 30 years old with that being said I am no fool when I see the writing on the wall I leave. The problem with always quitting your job is that people will be less inclined to hire you.

@johnconnor210 2 жыл бұрын

I've quit 2 jobs this past month. I can't seem to find a good fit. I'm getting worried. I feel like I have no direction.

@wildwindings 2 ай бұрын

We are looking for conection and a life that allows us to live authenticly. To follow our longings and intuition. A conection to our authentic self. And we live in a society that is the complete opposition of what it is to be a human being.

@michaelabenton4457 2 ай бұрын

Very well said🙏🏾

@AngelaBivona Ай бұрын

Mine isn’t so much of quitting, just companies expect unicorns anymore. Have little to no training, then expect you to know your job within a month. Completely amazes me of unrealistic expectations.

@christinesentman5437 6 ай бұрын

Tired of being harrassed

@ripruthie1997 22 күн бұрын

That part

@frida_m4426 8 ай бұрын

I don’t see quitting as giving up. We have to look out for ourselves.

@hellawave7005 3 жыл бұрын

I just left a job I barely got , 😔 couldn’t make it through ....... hate when I give up on myself...

@josec4916 3 жыл бұрын

I am the same 😭

@Spartan-Of-Truth Ай бұрын

You gave up on a potentially crappy job. You’re still here and searching or you wouldn’t be on this thread. Keep your head up.

@Native722 4 ай бұрын

I feel guilty for quitting jobs due to letting parents down.

@chronicfatiguehermithiker3022 8 ай бұрын

Putting yourself in a calm state and maintaining it is right, because if you are calm, you’ll be able to have a higher tolerance for miscellaneous stupid/hard stuff.

@quaycee7404 10 ай бұрын

The purpose is to build skills and use the job as a stepping stone. Having multiple skills is the end goal. Dont quit from fast food to go work another fast food. Etc Use great wording in your resumes or hire someone to create one for you . Thats how you move up. In these current times there is no job security like there was 30 , 40 years ago. Wages arent increasing but bills are . Dont ever feel bad for leaving a job if you have something greater in mind, but NEVER leave a job without having some form of income set up. Struggling to pay your bills is a pain .

@cornbreadpapi 2 жыл бұрын

I really needed this. For years I've been quitting jobs and trying to get to the next shiny thing, but now I'm broke miserable and aimless at the age of 30. I know what I need to do now and it's all thanks to this video. Thank you man.

@michaelabenton4457 2 жыл бұрын

Go get what’s yours Tristian!

@jackiemaldonado7777 2 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

@iamsexxy 2 жыл бұрын

Im nearing 40 and im still not stable in job.

@americanatheist2306 Жыл бұрын

i can relate, then i applied for the city. just hit 4 years now, i work outside, good hours and weekends off. most coworkers are 40 to 60, ready for retirement. get the work done first and take it easy the rest of the day/

@Javi_quinty 2 жыл бұрын

Been thru jobs like crazy these past 2 years. I quit a job earlier this week but I’m a disappointment to my older sister now so. I’m getting a new job Monday but I’m done working for people.

@michaelabenton4457 2 жыл бұрын

I feel you, bro, I knew working for someone else and helping them achieve their goals was not it for me. So I started to make moves that would put me in the position I'm in now to own a few businesses. It takes time and a lot of hard work but defiantly worth it. You got this!

@gatestimonymiracle1302 2 жыл бұрын

29 here and thinking of quitting tomorrow

@indiasurgeon1487 5 ай бұрын

I legit had the same issue. I don’t think humans should have to work the way we work.

@Megasupercoolest 6 ай бұрын

Same here. I barely tolerate with fake people. I don't mind working hard buy just toxic boss that I can't tolerate. I want to be able to wake up happy and fresh going to work. I try to fit myself in that environment but it won't last long.

@gusklemp3477 3 жыл бұрын

Become a master at what you do. I quit 4 to 5 jobs every year and I could not care less. Just work elsewhere.

@Edgesofnowhere008 2 жыл бұрын

It's hard being a drifter Gus. But it's a good thing a lot of the time.

@SharlenesJourney 2 жыл бұрын

💯💯💯 gotta do what’s best for you

@mateaukalua4426 8 ай бұрын

I took a nap and forgot what my job was 😂. I have been at this same job for 4 months but I have spent so much time in my life working for stores and restaurants. Tired of that shyt 😂.

@Spartan-Of-Truth Ай бұрын

@@mateaukalua4426😂😂

@KevZen2000 3 жыл бұрын

There's plenty of jobs, but most are shit. As for a good job, they are few in number.

@air10_32 2 жыл бұрын

Agree

@mateaukalua4426 8 ай бұрын

I definitely agree. I tried to tell my bro to vet his jobs more but he's just about having any job. Sadly he averages about 4-6 months at each job.

@maternitymaternity2773 8 ай бұрын

Michael, I can truly relate. I have spent my entire life trying to figure out why I was created and why I'm here. I still don't know. I have been in a survival mode for most of my life. I know how to survive that's it.

@michaelabenton4457 8 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing. I’ve been stuck in survival mode for so long I find myself tinkering with the idea of pursuing something I feel passionate about but running back to that feeling of certainty and security in a job I don’t like because it’s familiar and safe. My advice to you as it was given to me and that is to trust your intuition. Trust yourself. If your body and mind are strongly urging you towards something don’t run from that feeling, move towards it.

@maternitymaternity2773 8 ай бұрын

Thank you for this channel and all of your encouraging content. I think you have found your passion. Keep making content. You are changing lives.@@michaelabenton4457

@LordJesusEvangelism3158 12 күн бұрын

Jesus Christ created you. Please read the Bible and you’ll find the reason you were created

@savannahdebose757 2 ай бұрын

What I am trying to understand is how all these people who make these videos live in these nice homes/apartments etc. and able to go from job to job?!?! 🤔🧐

@briantep458 7 минут бұрын

social media is fake

@Turanic1 Жыл бұрын

because the cycle works like this : Old job (more demands, payment not growing > new job(more pay, new workplace excited about you> new office decides to demand more from you, but not pay you more) > you quit, you move into >new job(more pay, new workplace excited about you)

@Belihoney 8 ай бұрын

This is exactly it lol once the new person thing wears off and I'm no longer motivated by making a good impression... I could care less

@mateaukalua4426 8 ай бұрын

You have to discard your emotions on jobs. I want to be in a position long enough to master it. This usually takes a whole year. If you're there less than 6 months you barely know what you're doing. To continuously quit jobs is to never master any of them.

@briannajoyce3950 2 жыл бұрын

I quit 2 jobs these past two weeks :(

@shothao8375 2 ай бұрын

you just want what's best for you , you should be an entrepreneur you are you own boss

@Dreas_Redpumps 2 жыл бұрын

Well my current job is front desk as well as my last job I quit, I’m about to leave my current job because of the lack of training and staff changes. I figured I’m the type of person that don’t like distractions on the job, and front desk work is constant distractions, and I get burned out from it. Today is possibly my last day on my job. I have a part time job lined up job driving auto parts to shops, this will definitely a pay cut, but at least I’ll have a peace of mind....this job will allow me to focus on my business I started last year...and to focus on myself 👌🏾

@Dreas_Redpumps 2 жыл бұрын

Update: I’m driving delivering auto parts and ironically it’s more peaceful for me because that all I do. Would I like to be back in the office..absolutely. I got a little down because I started to feel like I made a mistake leaving my job but realized this was the path for me to get where I want to go. I want to get into HR so I’m studying for my certification for that. If someone is thinking about doing it, just have a plan, hard times will come but keep going..it’s only a season..and seasons change 💯🤞🏾

@teearrawright2549 3 жыл бұрын

I stared college in 2018 and I've been a habitual job quitter ever since your tip about being honest with yourself sticks out because I thought that since I only used to work phones that I had to stay stuck on call center floors until I realized it was ok to be burned out, but learn to do something new to change that situation thanks for your video!

@ortallevitan4586 3 жыл бұрын

SPEAKING TO MY SOUL! so much yes

@jasminearcher7241 Жыл бұрын

You’re not alone I’ve been doing it for years I can’t to the conclusion I don’t wanna work & not for anybody I can only work for myself I need to see how I can get income

@sweetiepie1110 2 жыл бұрын

I just realized I’m incapable of following orders I like giving orders instead of receiving them so I’ll go head and try to be my own boss let’s see how it goes

@michaelabenton4457 2 жыл бұрын

With persistence and dedication, you'll be your own boss!!

@SharlenesJourney 2 жыл бұрын

Samee I hate following orders either I suck at it or I don’t want to do it

@thismissivemisfit 7 ай бұрын

The longest job I had I stayed for 6 years. I genuinely enjoyed that industry and would have stayed longer until we got a new CEO (who had a political agenda when he applied to that post) and I quit. This was in the beginning of the pandemic. I got a part-time job to help pay off my bills, and was pressured by family to find a full-time job in the meantime. Eventually I found one, but it was a miserable experience. I quit and upgraded my skills, then tried my luck again. Holy shit, the next one was so much worse, and lasted even shorter. Went back to part-time and I'm much happier. I suspect that I'm on the spectrum, and I can't mask anymore. People who suck up to upper management just make it suck for everyone else, and I can't deal with that anymore.

@WestKingz-nb7gg 8 ай бұрын

Thought I’m the only one always quitting

@briantep458 7 минут бұрын

this generation man, generation ME. Back in my day, we stayed at a job even if we didn't like it because we had responsibilities. At the end of the day we were deemed more reliable, experienced, and more likely to promote

@nataliemonroe3031 2 жыл бұрын

I've had 6 jobs the whole year of 2021, and I'm going into 2022 with a new job. So far I have 2 jobs I'm moving forward with, buy whichever one I officially get first, I know i have to stick with it until I can get in & finish school. I'm more motivated than any year. My problem is that I can't stand working for other people barely making enough to get by. I'd rather be an entrepreneur, I always liked to set my own rules & be my own boss. However, until I get to that point, I need to settle for a job & save money.

@michaelabenton4457 2 жыл бұрын

Definitely have to crawl before you can walk. I’ve always wanted to have my own business but I knew if I was going to be successful I had to squire certain skills and I needed jobs for that. Aquire the skills you need and pursue your own thing if that’s what you want to do. You got this!

@themost8310 2 жыл бұрын

And working for yourself is harder. You will only have you to lean on. Good luck

@jennifer_reyes_9490 2 жыл бұрын

It seems like your chasing the money like he says in this video figure why your doing two jobs for.. money is not the answer if you can only think of money then you might not stop if there is a reason you’ll continue wthought the side problems like employees or whatever’ difficulties

@leena8696 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the video!

@IntrovertRockstar 8 ай бұрын

This is true, my KZfaq channel started to do well and I was just burnt out of trucking. So I quit and now I’m full time KZfaq. No looking back. Everything you said in this video are facts!!! Thank you! 🤟🏾

@michaelabenton4457 8 ай бұрын

Thank you!

@Alpha-Scythe23 7 ай бұрын

Literally trying to get to where you are bro, I’m sick of trucking; I have my KZfaq channel (Not this one) that I started and I am gonna work hard to do it full time. Cant stand working for other people.

@RicoPlays 2 жыл бұрын

Going through some tough times with work, 8 months in a corporate role with KPIs is absolute mental torture. Your videos really helped shine a light on things for me. Thankypu

@michaelabenton4457 2 жыл бұрын

Glad it could help. Best of luck to you

@RicoPlays 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks michael, my purpose to stick it out is because I have a home loan approval in the pipe works in 3 months time. This videos helped to reignite my purpose and seeing everyone else in a similar situation makes me feel like I'm not the only one

@SixFigureBusinessCoaching 3 жыл бұрын

this is a great video! much help from those who are currently feeling this!

@AmiraKrim Жыл бұрын

I have this problem. I started working in 2019, then i quit after 4 months, i started another job and I worked there for a year then quit and started another one i quit after 5 months. And now i have a job with the lowest income amongst all my previous jobs but it's surprisingly the one i feel most comfortable with. I also love writing books, i still haven't published one, but i hope if I would i could make a good living out of it cause i absolutely adore it.

@michaelabenton4457 Жыл бұрын

Hey Amira! You’re current job may be the lowest paying but you actually like it and with that you’ll create more value to get raises and move up if that’s what you inspire to do. Although money is important it’s not always about the money. Money comes to you when you’re enjoying what you do.

@AmiraKrim Жыл бұрын

@@michaelabenton4457 Exactly! Thank you so much for the advice Michael 😊

@HODL_BTC Жыл бұрын

Great video - appreciate the honesty.

@Krmtx 2 жыл бұрын

I feel so lost in finding a career. I try to go for positions that can challenge me and make me into the best candidate. I recently came to a conclusion that I want to pursue HR since I have my bachelors in communication but I get no calls back. I know I’m a great leader. I hate disappointing myself and quitting jobs. I go back to jobs I have had but I hate being boxed into one type of job title. over time I get bored of doing the same stuff and eventually end up of this cycle of leaving jobs. I’m glad I came across this video because I felt alone.

@michaelabenton4457 2 жыл бұрын

If HR is something you feel is a calling for you at this time then pursue that. Ask yourself what are you missing (experience, education, etc) that will get you into that position. Nothing is impossible, bro you can do it.

@Krmtx 2 жыл бұрын

@@michaelabenton4457 thank you for your motivating words. I’ve felt lost for so long thank you for the video

@HEATWAVEKICKS 8 ай бұрын

I have a hard time staying at jobs that I feel are soul sucking. I once quit a car dealership job on my first day. I went to lunch and never came back. Nobody even called to check on me or see what happened.

@user-dq2ym1nn9k Ай бұрын

I once opened up a bar for my morning shift, put all the stools down off the counters, let the 3 regular drunks waiting in to sit on 'their' stools, walked calmly to the parking lot, got in my car and drove away. I saw their jaws hit the floor as I laid rubber out the driveway and honestly it's one of my favourite/hilarious memories I hold to this day.

@nitika008 Ай бұрын

Oh my… this shows employers are least interested to invest in their employees.

@theamethyst93 2 жыл бұрын

This resonated with me, thank you

@exploringlife4559 3 жыл бұрын

Really need this one. Thanks for the up. Got a new friend. Stay blessed and connected.

@dudeman0811 2 жыл бұрын

I have the same problem. My manager asked me to stand on a pallete while he raised a forklift. I told him no. The next day he had his son do it, shaking scared. I quit. I had one job for a temp agency repeatedly tell us friday we "have to" come in for saturday. Then, within the same day they said no more phones in the building and we'll be doing 2 weeks in a row (14 days and weekends) which is illegal. I walked. I had a boss at Wal-Mart repeatedly tell everyone to keep doing something, like he would not let up. I actually had my fingers exposed once a few years ago until they were purple so now they DO NOT do good in the cold. they go dead, and sting. As soon as he asked me to go push carts (just to keep telling people to do things, he had FOUR of us out there believe it or not) I walked when my fingers started to piss me off. I know to some people these are "low" jobs but I graduated a trade school and worked with computers and in offices and there is always something. SOMETHING to piss me off. sexism, classism, whatever.. wish I had something positive to say, just sharing experiences. I think Im about to go work fast food 7 days a week. To me its about luck. Good co workers or not. Thats all I care about anymore not work money anything... just no bullshit

@mateaukalua4426 8 ай бұрын

You really have to vet your jobs the way you would pick a relationship. Most jobs suck that's why I am always competitive and do research on the company. Emphasize my skills and my ability to learn skills. Let them know you can adapt to the culture. Be positive and energetic at least at the interview. No job is perfect but I can guarantee you that being picky and getting some college especially like Penn Foster can add value to your worth.

@sandycheeks1580 4 ай бұрын

🎉😊You need an office job in the mailroom or in the back of a clothing store. A nice quiet job with nobody micromanaging you. Just do the job and go home 😊💰happy

@gregmcmillan3503 8 ай бұрын

My life mirrors yours almost exactly with different jobs like Marketing, Mortgages, Life Insurance etc. Even with the chasing money and new hobbies. It turns out I had ADHD and im now getting coaching. Medication has really helped me out as well. Im not saying you have it but I literally could have made this exact same video as you today.

@KuchKahiSuniBaatein 7 ай бұрын

100% correct.. i already was checking all the adhd videos and i am pretty sure i have it too.. exact same life experiences and habits..

@AZs00Buck 7 ай бұрын

They just prescribe you amphetamines and of course you'll focus better and accomplish more, that's what amphetamine does.

@NatoriZhane 7 ай бұрын

Are we lazy or do we KNOW that there is something out here better for us ? Like all the business ideas ,that promotion , or that book we keep saying we’re going to publish ? 🤔

@michaelabenton4457 7 ай бұрын

I think that’s a great question everyone should ask themselves. If everyone was truly honest with themselves they know the answer to that question. Some will SAY they want more but aren’t willing to make sacrifices to get more so they settle. Others know they want more and are willing to make changes but they’re stuck because this is new territory for them, they’re not sure how to proceed so they get overwhelmed, paralysis by analysis, procrastination, etc.

@livex38 6 ай бұрын

Bro finally someone who can relate! I keep quitting jobs and reapplying jobs in different places..

@redstarz14 6 ай бұрын

This video is right on time. Thank you 💯❤️

@michaelabenton4457 6 ай бұрын

Glad you found value in it!

@harthart7529 8 ай бұрын

Young people often don't have realistic expectations from a job. All you can expect from an employer is for them to be respectful and pay you on time. If they're doing that you should stay until you have a bonafide plan together. The key to a better job is certifications/licenses. Get a certified skill and you'll be on your way.,

@princeair7782 2 күн бұрын

I find them paying me but they bully me in the process.

@user-vx6fh9md1i 7 ай бұрын

I quit jobs...because they lie about hours and pay. The only reason employers do this is because you and you and you, let them.

@anonymoushuman8443 7 ай бұрын

Same. I’m a people pleaser and always say yes 😔

@Gemisnotmyname 8 ай бұрын

Ive quite 3 jobs in a year and i thought i was the only one it feels good to see more people going through same

@KuchKahiSuniBaatein 7 ай бұрын

Michael. Don’t stop making videos. I saw this today. After 3 years of posting and it is so relatable.. congrats on showing up .. all the best ❤❤

@michaelabenton4457 7 ай бұрын

I appreciate the kind words🙏🏾💯

@superlicious13 2 жыл бұрын

Hey , I just wanted to say that your videos are amazing and it really helps people out! Keep making videos, don't stop.. I see success eventually in your channel :)

@michaelabenton4457 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the kind words, Elena! I'll definitely be checking out your content as well.

@anonymoushuman8443 7 ай бұрын

I had my first day at my new job and I want to quit already 🙃

@ccalexander1924 3 ай бұрын

I think it’s pretty typical to job bounce a lot. It wasn’t 40 years ago but most places dropped the pension so there isn’t a lot of incentive to stay at the same place for 35-40 years.

@EnglishWalk 3 жыл бұрын

I love your bedroom decoration!!!

@michaelabenton4457 3 жыл бұрын

Aprender Idiomas Sozinho haha! Thank you

@Spompee111 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video

@michaelabenton4457 Жыл бұрын

I hope it helped you🙏🏾

@Lifeofpeace38 Жыл бұрын

Oufff 😮I remember they never trained me at my job then they would kick me off the company saying I’m not doing the job right man

@suzanaandrade2125 3 ай бұрын

Listening to you is like someone talking about me. I feel the same way and it's a terrible feeling of unsettled person. I'm ashame fir being like that.

@michaelabenton4457 3 ай бұрын

If I can offer any advice it would be to give yourself grace. Understanding of one’s self is a sign of growth and maturity . So, what will do moving forward? How will you go about changing what you don’t like? Blessings to you as you move forward🙏🏾

@JamesJones-kb2tw 6 ай бұрын

I think a lot of people (even successful ones) don't do this sort of self introspection until very late in their careers. With things changing so fast in the workplace these days, everyone will need to ask themselves some very difficult questions sooner or later.

@st-qp4mr 5 ай бұрын

Great video ...really needed this..thx

@michaelabenton4457 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching!

@axelgranzini6797 2 жыл бұрын

I thought I was the only one Edit after 2 months; After seeing this video i realized I was looking for all the wrong things in my career and kept burning myself out. I’m 24 and start my dream job in less than a week. Thank you.

@Jack510 Жыл бұрын

How are you mate . How's your dream job

@Belihoney 8 ай бұрын

Same, I'm want an update from you!

@dragonofthewest8305 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much

@shaylove5362 20 күн бұрын

I’m glad I found this video, I’m currently going through this and it’s exhausting.

@michaelabenton4457 20 күн бұрын

Shay, I’m so glad you found value in this video. Continue to learn more about yourself, what you want in life, your goals, values, beliefs. This will help guide on your journey❤️ Your one step closer to finding your way. Blessings to you

@Marks2Chill 5 ай бұрын

Proper shirt right there..... I'm just glad I have a barber license, something to fall back on. My advice is to develop a skill/trade you can always have for a safety net. Great video.

@michaelabenton4457 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for watcthing man!

@fk-on7pw 2 ай бұрын

Wise words

@LyssieLysse 11 ай бұрын

I’m glad I found this as I’m looking to transition out of my current job into something else. I did speak with my pastors and they gave sound advice, but this video really made everything come into full view for me. I am unhappy with where I’m at. The working conditions are unfavorable, the management is terrible, and I still don’t have what I need to fully work in my role. Plus, there’s no growth financially or position wise unless I go back to school (and I’ve had my share of school) and even if I was to level up there, I’d still be miserable. My only options left is to do the traveling portion or just relocate to another city. However, will I still be satisfied even after doing that? I definitely have to think about why I chose what I chose and what for because I’m tired of all of this back and forth.

@michaelabenton4457 11 ай бұрын

I’m sure you’ll find what you’re looking for!

@Kharsh0 Жыл бұрын

Man this is some good stuff. You speak very relative to where I’m currently at. Funny- I chose the work life over college. BIG BIG mistake. I have a gift for communication, I’m sure I could still use it though. I’m currently 19, and I will say (honesty with self) is about the toughest thing I need to get under control.

@michaelabenton4457 Жыл бұрын

I'm glad you took something away from it and you're right honesty with yourself is the key to unlocking everything you want.

@masteryoshi5685 Жыл бұрын

I started having this issue in 2018, when I was heavily depressed and couldn't manage my workload well. The jobs did have managers that were unreasonable to a degree but looking back I left each time because of deep stress I brought with me. The jobs were stressful in some cases but they weren't the source of it. I was depressed and anxious before I got there and the job and the people were easy to blame. The pandemic and some life changing events helped me be more aware. I find myself wanting to quit a job whenever I feel deeply stressed, and once I handle the stressor I'm OK again. Self awareness is key, no matter how much we don't want to face it. My biggest issue now is being consistent and self aware during stressful times and disruptions. I tend to go down hill whenever my routine is interrupted, which causes high anxiety. I'm working on rebounding faster while still acknowledging that shit happens and it can be upsetting.. but all in all life isn't over. I've still got a ways to go but any little bit helps, like you said.

@graciamuzima5234 Жыл бұрын

Omg same! Thank you for sharing! I thought that I was the only one ❤

@Belihoney 8 ай бұрын

I'm the exact same!

@jackyunlucky8432 4 ай бұрын

I quit my job after 2months, now I’m depressed and I feel guilty because I let my parents down, I’m a disappointment

@Satsui_No_Hado Жыл бұрын

Big bro, You have no idea how timely this video is everything happens for a reason when the student is ready the teacher appears , This is exactly what I needed to hear This is exactly what I need moving forward, This is a brilliant video delivered brilliantly, More people need to see and hear it I know I did thanks for taking the time to make top notch quality content like this I'm a subscriber now and I appreciate you 👊🔥

@michaelabenton4457 Жыл бұрын

Mike, I appreciate it bro. When you’re ready to make a change, that’s when change will happen. You got this! Go get what you want!

@Satsui_No_Hado Жыл бұрын

@@michaelabenton4457 I appreciate it my bro Yeah I'm about to leave something I've been at for about 11 months close to 12 months It's not my wheelhouse I'm going back into sales wireless I'm about to go back there in about a month I'm taking 2 weeks just to refresh and reset and this video I'm going to watch multiple times cuz you would 1,000% right It's never them it's always us if we were not trained correctly then it's on us to tell them that if they won't do it then it's on us to train ourselves if there's no way to do that then we contact HR if there still is no way then we find a place where we can be our own advocates that piece alone made this video a masterpiece, thank you again I'll let you know how it all goes and again I'm going to watch all your content now

@user-bv4wn8ei5z 27 күн бұрын

Well my brother you are the chosen one I believe... you are more intelligent than the average person and want to be free... be yourself and never let society shake your path....

@michaelabenton4457 26 күн бұрын

Whoa🙏🏾 Thank you, that made me smile from ear to ear😂 I’m glad you found value in the video. Stay blessed

@ninabrown1437 10 ай бұрын

I know I’m not necessarily “a man”, but I appreciate this kind of content a lot. Thank you! More growth to the channel :)

@michaelabenton4457 10 ай бұрын

I’m glad you found some value in it.

@Lott0Jay 3 жыл бұрын

Man thanks I needed this

@michaelabenton4457 3 жыл бұрын

Glad it helped bro!

@Thedesertguy75 2 жыл бұрын

I can relate, Its like leap frog. It gets old and the outcome is always the same. Personally, i think everyone is tired of bills, lol. Working a meaningless job day in and out, after last year, its reevaluation time. I was at dennys the other day, i swear the waitress was doing the job of 3 people. How can this last? The restaurant industry was completely using people. they would pay below minimum wage because of tips, but like this lady said, if there's no one in there, you make nothing. If you dont work, you make nothing. My last job was at a restaurant. As the expo, i was being paid 9 dollars an hour with tips....9 bucks an hour! Meanwhile the owner was telling us how his other restaurant made 4 million last year. I decided he can go run the food to the tables since he obviously gets paid well for it. I walked away. Its funny how management always says. " Give us 2 weeks so we can replace you." More often than not, once they know you are leaving, your sent home way before the 2 weeks. So if they wont give me 2 weeks to look for another job, why should I give them 2 weeks? I want meaning in what I do. Ive done the soulless, meaningless jobs, they fill nothing.

@SpiritBae 2 жыл бұрын

I made 1700 dollars in tips. I got back 700! After my hard work and time they just took everything from me. I have a college degree done getting less than I deserve.

@Thedesertguy75 2 жыл бұрын

@@SpiritBae wow, that is BS....

@SharlenesJourney 2 жыл бұрын

I work at a restaurant too and so relatable

@_eeps_m 8 ай бұрын

Hey.... To think this is from 3 years ago and it mysteriously comes up at a moment that the topic is so fitting really confirms some major decisions I am yet to make. I feel like water inside a clay pot that's just been set free. Thank you!

@michaelabenton4457 8 ай бұрын

Blessings to you, bro!

@charleterjay8481 Жыл бұрын

This is so me I thought I had ADHD for a sec I quit a job like it ain't none get depressed don't like it and out

@michaelabenton4457 Жыл бұрын

Haha.. you’re fine it’s just something a lot of us go through. You’ll figure it out I’m sure of it🙏🏾

@benitshi Жыл бұрын

I can 100% relate to this

@ElizabethSampson 3 жыл бұрын

I love hearing your story! I am going to share this with my niece because she needs to hear this right now!

@michaelabenton4457 3 жыл бұрын

Elizabeth Sampson thank you! I truly hope your niece finds the right path for herself.

@ElizabethSampson 3 жыл бұрын

@@michaelabenton4457 thank you!

@montana7 Жыл бұрын

Yoooo. I thought it was just me . Thanks for making this video

@michaelabenton4457 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching

@mateaukalua4426 8 ай бұрын

I spend about a year at every job. I usually don't leave until I see something better or the job I am at screws me over. Reading books really helps me stat grounded.

@Belihoney 8 ай бұрын

I've been thinking about doing this! Getting more into books and media, not social media. Glad to know it works for you

@mateaukalua4426 8 ай бұрын

If you have solid goals for your life you won't be so quick to quit a job. I can tell you why I have had so many jobs in the last 4 years. Things happen and sometimes I work 2 jobs at once. However eventually I get burned out. In 2019 I worked at a warehouse for a year my boss was a weird man and kept saying weird jokes so I quit in Oct 2020. That same month I had a temp position for 11 months also worked fast food for 5 months in 2021. After the temp job and fast food job I had left both by August 2021 because one had expired and the other was just a POS 😂. Anyways I have been working at a bank for 4 months it's not easy but my life has a purpose and future.

@ArturoJohnson 3 жыл бұрын

Great video! New subscriber here!

@StevenCudnoch-oo9gp Ай бұрын

ADHD. A beautiful gift given by the gods. A combination of that and self-sabotage

@MotorCityRealness313 2 жыл бұрын

Yes iam going through it now

@tigerbarksdale6899 7 ай бұрын

I'm in same problem right now. Since 2021 I been in and out of jobs. I get so sad after a while. It wasn't my co worker. It was job It self. Smh.

@elena-ri6pq 3 күн бұрын

I understand u completely:(, i started working in 2022 and ever since then i have had 5 jobs, nothing seems worth it... I am trying my best to study and earn certifications but it just seems like not worth it at all

@1misshorsefan 2 жыл бұрын

Im a 23 year old girl... got my first job when i was 15... i have worked at 20 different places in the past 9 years and im sorry to say its not an exaggeration. It sucks and its exhausting. I need to get my fuckin life together man. Hopefully this video can help me.

@dejaunajackson7666 2 жыл бұрын

You’re 23, give yourself a break. Sometimes you have try out different things to figure out what you do and don’t want.

@mateaukalua4426 8 ай бұрын

Most Gen Zers quit jobs a lot so it's pretty normal. I have only been through so many jobs as a Millennial because they really fxcked me over.

@jackajicka2178 5 ай бұрын

Your mbti is ENFP. Same here. We have that shiny object syndrome and look for opportunities, always. That's the first part in our function stack. Extroverted feeling.

@michaelabenton4457 5 ай бұрын

I sure am an ENFP, lol.. I found that out several years ago after taking a personality test but never indulged in the information too much. Defiantly, great to know!

@BruklynGam3r 5 ай бұрын

Same thing!!! That’s happening for me now I’m chasing money

@andreannapero7276 11 ай бұрын

I thought it was only me that was experincing this God led me to this video.

@michaelabenton4457 11 ай бұрын

I hope you found some value in it. Thanks for watching.

@GoldenBrown30 13 күн бұрын

Nah frfr , this year & all last yr after I got fired ‘22 , it just went down or jobs not hiring as fast but the one I’m at now is great pay , I wish it was morning , but 2 new interviews this week and next , really feel I’ll get the next week interview job , would like to keep this one as well for some months but idk , my energy levels is down a lot , compared to this time last year , I’m def chasing money