I Left South Africa!! | I'm Back In Bali, Life Update and MORE

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I'm Back In Bali!! I Left South Africa, Life Update, Day in My Life.
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@MJHarrisSpeaks Жыл бұрын

What do you want to see me on on my next vlog?

@tbj1315 Жыл бұрын

MJ I am so happy you went back to BALI alone to get the full experience of life there. I just can't help to wonder about Marco coping with you not around to guide him. I hope your MOM is there, because he doesn't quite make good decisions on his own yet. DJ is so laid back, trouble won't find him, but Marco? Have fun and live your best life. BTW, I love that shirt.

@deborahphillips854 Жыл бұрын

Night life in bali...

@Gigi-fc6lj Жыл бұрын

show the beach

@ll9212 Жыл бұрын

A tour around Bali 🧡

@DoctorJoanieTool Жыл бұрын

If you are ever coming back to the US? A talk about that.

@freeajackson5115 Жыл бұрын

I'm so happy you're doing things to focus on you. You look great and I'm so happy with the growth you have made as a parent ❤

@paulajohnson420 Жыл бұрын

I’ve made the same decisions you’ve made. We train our children and let them exercise those lessons …life is short enjoy it and we still can love our children.

@ilovesilver205 Жыл бұрын

My daughter is moving out of my house and moving to Texas on the 1st of June. She will be 9-10hrs away and I know, this is what the both of us need. My husband and I were very young when we had her. I dedicated my Life to raising and nurturing her. She is a college graduate and is in a solid relationship. It's time for us both to evolve and become our best versions of ourselves. It's also time for my husband and I to focus on our bond. Taking advantage of our empty nest 😜 So I totally understand what you are talking about.

@kimberlygray7629 Жыл бұрын

BELIEVE IT OR NOT YOU WILL FEEL LOST FOR A MINUTE, THEN YOU GOING TO BE LIKE LORD MY CHILD BET NOT HAVE TO COME BACK I LOVE NOT BEING RESPONSIBLE FOR NOONE ITS A GOOD FEELING,I KNOW EVERY TIME MY PHONE RING I HE THINKING 1 OF MY KIDS BET NOT SAY THEY NEED TO COME BACK HOME.

@ilovesilver205 Жыл бұрын

@@kimberlygray7629 I definitely felt that when she left for college. This time when she leaves my wallet stays with me 🤣🤣 and I've already made plans for her bedroom. So I pray it works out for her 🙏🏾😂

@GabbyNurse Жыл бұрын

What's your secret? My daughter is 27 and still live with me! 🤦🏿‍♀️

@GabbyNurse Жыл бұрын

Tell your daughter "Welcome to Texas!"

@eringiselle81 Жыл бұрын

Omg… I did the same as you ❤! I love to travel and I want to save money for a home. Plus, my jobs consulting as chemist has been remote since Covid luckily (documentation, GMP audits, and management mostly now). So, I decided to put all my items in storage, travel the world 🌍, visit friends and family, and live my best life before I buy a house and one day have a family with kids hopefully. I stayed in Accra, Ghana for six months last year because I met a boo thang. We just moved to his home country of Cotonou, Benin since he found remote jobs too (super cheap here to rent an apartment near the beautiful beach). We are living our best lives. I’m still traveling in between times. Sometimes we go together, but it’s tougher for him to get visas to some countries. I must admit us Americans have it easy traveling around the world and getting visa approvals so easily. I just love hearing stories like yours, because it inspires me and confirms that I’m right where I’m supposed to be in life! ❤

@demetricepryor6016 Жыл бұрын

This has really help me in my direction with my son. I have become so consumed with making sure his 23 yr ahh is good that I have put myself on the back burner. NO MORE! Thanks you MJ

@bkkid100234 Жыл бұрын

Your message of setting boundaries and doing and thinking for yourself instead of others resonated with me ❤ thank uou for sharing MJ

@MJHarrisSpeaks Жыл бұрын

Yea yes!! Boundaries is the word of year!! ❤

@ciarak3468 Жыл бұрын

It sure did resonate. I’m 33 & I feel like I do things to satisfy my dad because how hard he is on me, but I know what kind of person I am. I just want to enjoy myself sometimes. I feel like I’ll be an old maid if I live my life trying to please him.

@Em.ThaGem Жыл бұрын

I know exactly how you feel! I’m 34 and I always do things to satisfy my mom. I’m just slowly getting out of trying to please her and others.

@qweezybabyfasho7363 Жыл бұрын

You live your life for YOU..

@Chrissy411 Жыл бұрын

Y’all better live life. U only have one. I’m so upset with myself that I didn’t do me. Please change that mindset and enjoy life. Safely. MJ is a great inspiration

@pythomas29 Жыл бұрын

I’m 42 and I can IDENTIFY!!! I have so many regrets caring about what they wanted. I retire in 7 years and IM GONE!!!! Be of luck to you!

@KamillesKind4565 Жыл бұрын

I felt ever moment of that life update. I'm 43 almost... And last year I started back with art learning a new technique and now I'm praying everything goes right for me to do my first sell and showing next month. So all good prayers for this next chapter. I still have a 15 and soon 18 yr old and a 23 that's beginning not to be let go but I had to let him fly okay. And now his room is my studio which can always be changed but at least resort okay 👍🏾 and bless all a good future. So I definitely understand this whole life update 💖💪🏾🦄

@luvlyelle Жыл бұрын

This video resonates with me from beginning to end.. I’m about to travel.. My girls are grown ups now it’s my turn!!!..I am confident in how I raised them( no I didn’t do everything right)so they can be productive in whatever they choose to do with their lives. Thanks MJ ❤

@deborahlevesque4362 Жыл бұрын

Your so very right!! I’m so busy taking care of everyone that I have forgotten about living my own life ❤

@MJHarrisSpeaks Жыл бұрын

It’s time for you to focus on you ❤

@Gigi-14 Жыл бұрын

It’s lovely to be free and travel. 😊

@portiarenee1537 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing. I’ve been struggling with letting our young adult daughters live life and learn from their mistakes. I am so concerned and want them to be safe and make good decisions. The only way that I can do that is to let them live and make their own decisions. Thanks for the confirmation 💕

@letticiamutama6860 Жыл бұрын

Chile! Let me tell you. I binge watched your videos from years ago until the current ones. Chile let me tell you that they helped me a lot. Very therapeutic. By the time the guy I was dating was very sus in terms of cheating but I was just too weak to let go. Until one day I discovered that he married someone behind my back (we had plans to get married). I took it so well that even he was surprised at how well I was taking it. It would actually make him angry that I'm fine. Until one day he tried it with me and to his surprise I am now in a very stable relationship with a mature and masculine man. Thank you mj. What I am trying to say is the therapy I was getting from your videos allowed me to truly move on with my life and learn to appreciate the new good man who is in my life now.

@queenmoebetter6470 Жыл бұрын

Hey 👋🏽 MJ and enjoy! Thanks for taking us along with you until we can go. Much love ❤️

@bonnierantz6440 Жыл бұрын

Love seeing you happy and in a sense care free. Its inspiring and I know liberating for you. Enjoy every moment of this new journey!

@maryihezie1190 Жыл бұрын

This is exactly what I needed to hear! Thank you for everything that you said, for being your authentic self, and allowing the world to see! :)

@PresenceWithPurpose Жыл бұрын

Good on you, MJ! I can sense how you have come full circle in your parenting! Love it! ❤

@blkradiance Жыл бұрын

Yess MJ is getting back to MJ. I just had this revelation for myself this past Saturday. I love it , this was great. Congratulations I'm happy for everyone getting back to themselves.

@cajkali Жыл бұрын

I LOVE YOU MJ, listening to you has really encouraged me to set my boundaries and stay firm on my peace💕

@HouseOfBlessings2023 Жыл бұрын

You are so correct MJ!! My children are ALL GROWN UPS, if I do not see their problems or hear about them, I can enjoy mines'. Worrying when they do not appreciate your advice.

@Ms.Bree8403 Жыл бұрын

I'm so happy for you, MJ. This video just confirms that I need to live my best life. Thank you.

@renee.apodaca Жыл бұрын

Yaaassssss! Thank you for those critical reminders, and for doing / being You! And encouraging us all to do the same … wishing you a joyful and exciting day ❤❤❤

@jacklynnenita Жыл бұрын

I love you MJ. You are 100% correct. As a parent myself and ex caregiver, I've learned the importance of detaching and taking time for yourself. Currently exploring different things and enjoying myself for the first time in a long time

@selfdiscovery.7052 Жыл бұрын

You better speak a whole word! Yes that definitely resonates! I am so glad for this chapter in your life MJ!

@idawilcox5275 Жыл бұрын

Im sooooo glad you are living your best life for you. Love you MJ

@autumncast6280 Жыл бұрын

MJ they needed a break. MJ you are a beautiful person and you have the most loving and beautiful family. The young men needs a break to become strong Black young men.

@marniceblakemore Жыл бұрын

This vlog hit so close to home for me. Thank you MJ because you said out loud what I have been holding in.

@kirbyrose1299 Жыл бұрын

I Love you & THANK YOU❤ Take us everywhere with you! Needed this inspiration 😘

@PaulinePopoMoyo Жыл бұрын

One person who I watch and just smile throughout the video…MJ Is just a breath of fresh Air🥰🥰

@lynnelspringer1394 Жыл бұрын

I just love your energy. The jewels you speak are so much needed. We are never to old to learn.

@CookingwithAbigail Жыл бұрын

MJ I love you..... I been following for years and you always been very transparent .... I needed to hear this message today because I been making a lot of changes in my life and loving myself... Continue enjoying your life, you deserve it MJ ....

@TTTarot Жыл бұрын

Love you love you love you! Thank you for all the inspiration❤ thank you for living BIG and showing us that we can too!

@anelisahephzibah Жыл бұрын

I just love you MJ. Your solid sense of logic and overall wisdom around the intricacies of living life and parenting. I wish you all the best on your “Do you” era! Blessings ❤

@unicornrainbow222 Жыл бұрын

MJ I really appreciate your message about putting yourself first. I work full time in healthcare and it’s draining me. I think every day about how I need to switch to part time! Need to figure out another source of income still. But it’s nice to be validated that I’m not wrong for feeling the way I do about my career.

@earlenefranklin5620 Жыл бұрын

Yes it very much did MJ. I did it for 18 years helping out ungrateful entitled people not anymore it's time for me to focus on me

@mattiea7801 Жыл бұрын

I LOVE that you are enjoying this journey! The learning and discoveries, chiiiiile😅 Happy, looks fabulous on you😃❤

@sandracornelius6200 Жыл бұрын

I was wondering what happened to you guys. Glad that you are safe and involving us in your day to day. I have been following you from the first days on videoing. Boy have you grown and changed…only for the better. Keep living your best life you are a true inspiration.

@sallyrivera3591 Жыл бұрын

I love your life MJ! I live vicariously through you! I enjoy these type of vlogs. I absolutely agree, tomorrow is not promised. Live life to the fullest. I spent so many years working two jobs with no vacation. Last year, I finally took a vacation and I did not want to return, lol. I'm making it a point to take a vacation each year.

@pennygillespie8210 Жыл бұрын

I am so glad that spoke on doing you. Basically let go others to allow them to find their own way. Getting back to you.

@johntirado-glover3574 11 ай бұрын

Yes!!!. Living your best Life. So glad your traveling the world. South Africa is my heart.❤

@leslieselby8274 Жыл бұрын

This so informative as well as pleasurable and one of the reasons why I started following you way back when. Thank for getting back to the basics.

@fonzg78 Жыл бұрын

I so needed to hear this! Thank you!

@folaketaylormd Жыл бұрын

Great share MJ! Our daughter is 15 and autistic, just finished 10th grade (barely!) but I’m starting to also live in my purpose too. Hubby and I are figuring it out to where even though she will likely need us more and for longer, we will not revolve everything around her to the detriment of self or our marriage. She WILL be OK. Periodt! 👌🏾

@mztheresajohnson1070 Жыл бұрын

Thank you. I needed that affirmation it was a confirmation ❤. Enjoy

@westcamille11 Жыл бұрын

I knew it. You seem to be happier in Bali. Good for you!

@viviansolomon1808 Жыл бұрын

Hello Mr. Harris I would first like to say I enjoy all of your content. You have said some things that hit home for me and I'm using some of your tools to work on myself to be a better person to me. Please keep up the great work. I'm looking forward to what you have next. ❤

@reneeknight1028 Жыл бұрын

Thank you, great information and a blessing to you and us by sharing details.

@okaygworl Жыл бұрын

Glad you made this! This vlog is so useful for me because I plan on visiting (then maybe moving to) Bali or Thailand!

@lovely.nellie 6 ай бұрын

MJ you're like sunshine, and I absolutely love the wisdom that you poured into us on this video. Cheers to enjoying life🥂

@helenawooden-aguilar1587 Жыл бұрын

This is exactly what I needed to hear! TY

@valerieanderson4864 Жыл бұрын

Hello Butterfly! It’s good to see you sooo happy.

@nicholediamond2430 Жыл бұрын

MJ, you are totally 💯 correct. I've dedicated my life to raising my daughter and she's grown now. That's where I'm at, trying to figure out my next chapter in life. We do need the time and freedom to do so. You're such a blessing and I appreciate the inspiration. Looks like you're having a wonderful time and I'm very happy for you🎉🎉🎉

@bintajammeh3637 Жыл бұрын

Much love to you! I hope every parent will reason like you MJ

@carolkirkland819 Жыл бұрын

Yes be intentional and explore and find your best self you deserve it🤸🏿‍♀️

@BabyGrand77 Жыл бұрын

MJ, you are speaking to my soul right now! I’ve spent my life trying to please the people around and caring for others more than I care for myself at times and I’m tired of it! I turned 46 this year and I’ve drawn a line on the sand and promised myself that I am going to spend the rest of my life living for me and prioritizing myself because no one else is going to do it! Thank you for posting this video…I’m taking this is a sign to do me going forward!! ❤

@darleenmatthews3190 Жыл бұрын

MJ ain’t nothing wrong with choosing you & living your best life….you are sooooo on point with the video I to have had to face this….& I’m trying to live my best life rn & STOP ppl pleasing…..Thank you I needed this convo 🥰

@lite403 Жыл бұрын

TRULY love this video MJ, ♥️all the tips🙌🏽

@CBrown9758 Жыл бұрын

That joy is radiating off of U!😘🥂🫶💯💫

@sonyacameron6489 Жыл бұрын

Thank You 🙏🏾 I Needed That Pep Talk, Thank You!

@kaneshakeeton8612 Жыл бұрын

What I needed to hear!!!❤

@iriscummings7750 Жыл бұрын

MJ, this is so appropriate for me at this time. I have been waiting to make moves. Blessings brother

@aroundanni3630 Жыл бұрын

I like your energy in this vlog!keep your spirit up!

@honeyitslisa Жыл бұрын

your energy is different here, you are glowing! I love traveling and gives me so much joy and energy! Loveeee this video!

@nessaj4522 Жыл бұрын

I AM so happy for U that U have U for U now. Stay happy and continue your gr8 journey.

@innovativeworks146 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing the fact that we need to live life!!! I’m taking your advice and running with it!!!

@lorrainemuringi8020 Жыл бұрын

So happy to see you happy. Lesson learned, Knowing When To Let Go and Live Your Best Life !!!

@healingvibestarot9137 Жыл бұрын

so glad to see u in your energy .. this is why i subscribed!!❤ life be lifing but cream always rises to the top!! love u boo❤

@Olwethuster Жыл бұрын

Content I signed up for. Thank you for always being inspirational and uplifting us. A lot of nuggets of wisdom in this video

@thequeendiva72 Жыл бұрын

Yessss honayyy 🌞🙏🏽. MJ you're Glowing 👍🏾👍🏾. I Luv it. Thank You for this fun video. I Luv to see people Happy and Enjoying Life 🌞 🌞. I also Luv that you took your 2 Nephew Sons 🤗 🤗 and helped them to grow in Good Young Men. We need more people like you. *NOTE TO SELF...... Now that my kids are Adults it's time to live my Best Life. I needed to hear that. That Family, Friends, Spouse, Mate, Etc "WILL BE OKAY". I felt that in my Soul. STAY SAFE EVERYONE. GOD BLESS US ALL 🙏🏽 🙏🏽.

@asantebychoice Жыл бұрын

you seem so happy MJ. love it for you ♥✨

@reneelb7 Жыл бұрын

Love this video!!! Fun and interesting! And ummmm yes parenting is REAL!!! Definitely resonated with me times 1000x! I am going through the same season with my 19 year old daughter.

@lavernehicks6269 Жыл бұрын

Thanks MJ. I needed to hear this.

@mstea4325 Жыл бұрын

Yass! I just love you, MJ.... Live your best life!!!🥰 I made the mistake of being so focused on my daughter that I forgot about me. I really had a hard time when she was no longer my motivation. We mom too hard! Live this life! 😉

@rhonda3384 Жыл бұрын

Omg. This stepped all on my toes and I needed to hear these words spoken into my life. Thank you so much for this inspiration❣️🙏🏿

@nessaj4522 Жыл бұрын

U seem more comfortable in Bali. Still so good U got that experience. Good 4 U Malcolm Xxtra. Geeet in here!! 2023

@shirleyadams7887 Жыл бұрын

Hey MJ you are amazing! Enjoy Bali🙏🏾❤️👋🏾

@MsKarissaM Жыл бұрын

Yea. This resonates with me but definitely with my job. Thank you for this.

@aarinade.8168 Жыл бұрын

MJ my best video from you yet thank you I’m just in that space you are talking about and feel so liberated ❤️❤️❤️❤️

@donnamekgwe6315 Жыл бұрын

You are glowing, and I love it on you ❤. I have been enjoying your videos and learning a lot from your experiences. I m happy I came across this video. I m traveling to Bali next year.

@BayouBellePhDBe Жыл бұрын

I love these updates and traveling with you🤗.

@shartice1588 Жыл бұрын

Enjoy your journey!

@MsDeeNicol3 Жыл бұрын

You’re so full of light😊 I have a teenager waiting for graduation and honey I’m ready to move to Bali too!!!!

@jacquelinesequira2210 Жыл бұрын

MJ, I am so happy you’re taking time for yourself. Enjoy! 🤗🇯🇲🇺🇸

@keesha1232 Жыл бұрын

Hi MJ, So glad you are happy and doing you now!😊👍🏽 This was a very informative video, wisdom!😊 Take care of yourself and stay out of harms way!❤️ See you in the next video!

@01291915 Жыл бұрын

This is so helpful to me because I need to start putting myself first. Thank you MJ! 💜

@feleciasanford3402 Жыл бұрын

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Love this. Thank-You Soooo Much!!!❤

@behealthymindbodyspirit9016 Жыл бұрын

I love it MJ… Choose YOU as you care for and care about them…

@yvonnecherry Жыл бұрын

I so need to get back to myself. This message was for me.❤ Learn to live again. Thanks MJ

@monique0534 Жыл бұрын

New subscriber, when I tell you everything you said hit home, I needed to hear every word

@tareskahairston8044 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for this… I needed this confirmation.

@wutevaskunk496 Жыл бұрын

You’re so motivating. ❤❤❤

@CarlaThomas37 Жыл бұрын

Enjoy yourself praying for your safety and the boys be blessed.

@Rozlyn07 Жыл бұрын

Much needed ❤ Thank you MJ 💕

@lbailey502 Жыл бұрын

I’m proud of you, MJ! ❤

@melodicdreamsentertainment Жыл бұрын

Live out loud! I love it! Enjoy

@goldenb1592 Жыл бұрын

Yes MJ, I feel you on this, my mom is retired and Thank GOD in pretty good health, but sometimes I tend to not do anything for myself because I wanna make sure she is good. But I do need to say yes to myself and take a trip, hey maybe even Bali. Your such an inspiration! Thanks for sharing❤❤❤!

@butta487 Жыл бұрын

Live your life!💕

@angelabraxton-jones3036 Жыл бұрын

Good info/insight. I have 2 adult children, 1 who is married w/kids. BUT "helicopter" parenting is all of the things you described. Especially when your makeup is caregiving, protecting, providing, teaching. Good stuff!!