5:09 I just want to say. I was raised Eastern-Orthodox, coming from Romania, an Orthodox country. Our priests are way more caught up with concerns about their spouse, their kids, and that brings along other concerns. You mentioned being in a lay prayer movement. Here you have to make an appointment to go to confession, because priests simply don't have time for you. The devotion Catholic priests bring to their church, is a blessing.
@satyannair4837 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this perspective from the other side. We only seem to get the Catholic perspective, and the liberals among us seem to find every nonsensical excuse to justify marriage of priests. Again, it's Catholics living in Protestant countries that are more sold on to the idea.
@navinfernandes747 Жыл бұрын
Thank u.. I find the married priest concept even an aberration.. if the priest marries then will he able to commit himself to the church completely?? Well, I have small children and let me tell u, they take away all of my spare time.. so, a married priest might find it really impossible to manage his priestly and family duties together..
@janetharrison9807 Жыл бұрын
My priests are not married and I still have to make an appointment. I am not distressed by that though, I think it's perfectly ok to make an appointment because even though they dont have families as they do lots of church and community work.
@cassiehunt26867 ай бұрын
I’d also point out a married priest bring a valuable perspective on marriage, parenting, and being a caretaker.
@amyocrowley59075 жыл бұрын
Oh I totally fell for the clickbait, but it was worth it. Great video, thanks Father!
@moments223 жыл бұрын
Catholic priests , bishops and popes where married up until the 12 century because one pope decided to change the rules .
@mathewjose47532 жыл бұрын
Not really. By the 5th century, the trend was Preist celibacy
@carterandrylandtractortime49702 жыл бұрын
5th or 12th. What’s the difference
@foscavapi4767 ай бұрын
@@mathewjose4753 but not in the apostolic age
@ProtectorOfIsrael2 ай бұрын
Celibacy is better according to St. Paul as well. If you cannot control your own desires you're not going to be effective at helping others with their own. I love being catholic.
@halcyonechase102518 күн бұрын
My high school crush is a priest… wished if he felt the same about me 😭🙏🏾
@mylaganda15 жыл бұрын
Awesomeness!!!! Thanks for this post Fr. Brad... & more POWER & BLESSINGS to you!!!!
@ladyglittersparkles864 жыл бұрын
Thank God you said you were married to the church. Thank you for making this video, Father!
@versatilelord88933 жыл бұрын
I understand the theology of the priest and nun being married to the church but that’s not really the reality. The church is Christ’s bride not the clergy’s bride. The celibacy discipline is still a holy act and it’s great but doesn’t mean that some who are ordained shouldn’t be allowed to marry if they so wish
@hillarymary2 жыл бұрын
Let priests marry AGAIN!
@neilsanjeewa28883 жыл бұрын
You shock the people man!!! A good video Fr, God bless you 🙏
@Adam-gm3mw4 жыл бұрын
Phew, I got worried when I read the title, lol
@rc591913 жыл бұрын
You against priests being happy?
@Kelle02842 жыл бұрын
Why are you so worried? LOL.
@krystalharwood63592 жыл бұрын
i have a friend who married a priest and he was ashamed to tell all his friends at the retreat he lived at. but he did and guess what? they said its your life brother. god will judge and we all know he loves us. congrats
@krystalharwood63592 жыл бұрын
fyi the friend was the woman he married
@matthewgreenrod3652 жыл бұрын
Hi Fr. Brad, thanks for your vid, great content and presented by a lively priest great job. Could I ask what your thoughts are in regards to clergy returning to ministry? Should they be allowed, what are the pros and cons? Do you have any stats on returning clergy? Thanks and God bless your ministry your in our families prayers. Matthew
@sujeyperez19973 жыл бұрын
You had me lol God Bless you Father 😁
@KB_Grimweaver5 жыл бұрын
I knew it was "clickbait" because I didn't see a ring in the thumbnail lol. But I watched anyway cause God said I needed to.
@FrenchAnglican4 жыл бұрын
Eastern catholic priests are married...
@TheTenthLeper2 жыл бұрын
Golden video
@christusvincit66965 жыл бұрын
You got me Father!! I thought you looked a little young to have transferred over from the Anglicans etc. with a wife.....you are a funny guy!!
@fidelisrickie58354 жыл бұрын
Praying for all priests. Thanks for the truth express about priestly vocation. God bless.
@purnimamukhia85924 жыл бұрын
Praise the Lord fr
@tesschavit30093 жыл бұрын
God bless you father for answering the call of God.
@njohn69954 жыл бұрын
Keep praying for our priests 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@ELA7337a4 жыл бұрын
Orthodox priests can get married and also Ukrainian Catholics can do.
@srgeraldineoffor5702 Жыл бұрын
God bless you ❤️🙏🏽
@jonnavelenopia93253 жыл бұрын
Can you give father an explanation about dispensation for priest...after the dispensation, priest can get married since that an ordained priest is already a seal til he dies....am just confused about it....
@tammiecurrie9303 жыл бұрын
Clickbait worked! So relieved though to find out that this wasn't a "let's bash the teachings of the faith", Thanks Be To God! Will pray for u Fr!
@hillarymary2 жыл бұрын
It's not a teaching of the faith. It's a discipline, not dogma.
@mjmtz76783 жыл бұрын
Thank you thank you very much. Yes may the Holy Spirit strengthen n protect you alwsys and in All ways 🙏💖
@bkelly8215 жыл бұрын
Hey Father Brad...I love coffee!
@invinciblemindset66093 жыл бұрын
Which rites do you belong?
@servant57955 жыл бұрын
If I could react with a laugh emoticon like on facebook, I would. But I can't so cheers Father (invisible coffee in hand--I'm imaginative). 😂
@chackojegan68682 жыл бұрын
My goodness, for a second i thought you had a wound on your hand!!!!! Thanks for talking to us Father..Love from India
@kingirene17003 жыл бұрын
The Priests in the bible were married. In Luke 1:5-25 Zacharias was married to Elizabeth and had John who baptized Jesus. Jesus and John were cousins. There are many priest that are married in the bible. Who said that the priest can't get married today?
@valentineeyumsama43358 ай бұрын
Please which scripture teaches that priests are married to the church??
@museluvr Жыл бұрын
Pray for our priests... the enemy is bent on making them fall, so we the lay people are left shepherd-less.
@Melissa-ek3ce9 ай бұрын
God bless you Father 🙏
@vincetheworldly5373 жыл бұрын
Omg another adorable priest.
@Beesay19784 жыл бұрын
Father what if some priest wants to have a girlfriend? Why shouldn't he have the right to be happy? Why would God not want him to be happy?
@Kelle02842 жыл бұрын
Having a "girlfriend" is not scriptual. The goal should be toward marriage. There is a window of time for you to see if someone is compatible for you. Then you should either leave them or marry them.
@belinabergendahl46652 жыл бұрын
At first I thought you were a Protestant priest, because they marry. But when you gave the analogy, you are married to the bride, which is the church, I got it! You're cute with your joke. God bless you and keep you!
@Hopefulhearts3339 ай бұрын
Amen
@sherimacervantes3765 жыл бұрын
Waow father, you really caught me there! And you were right, Jesus was present aswell ❤ Like if you love jesus!
@dorothyanbrose23182 жыл бұрын
💖💖💖
@ariston88554 жыл бұрын
Oh I thought you were going to say you were an Anglican priest that became a Catholic priest. We have 2 married Priests in our area. Both were at one point Anglican Priests. Both have children as a matter of fact they are father and son. Both were ordained Catholic priests at the same time. First time that has happened in over 900 years👍🏻
@markv19743 жыл бұрын
Eastern catholics have married priests too. And latin catholics (roman) its also allowed to have permanent deacons who are married. The rule though is you have to be married before becoming a priest, thats same for eatern catholics, anglican ordinariate catholics and permanent deacons. Once in the clergy (priest or deacon) you can no longer get married
@magiccitymelkite61614 жыл бұрын
I thought this priest was going to be Ukrainian or something. I saw the Icon in the background and I thought he was a married Eastern Catholic priest. In the Eastern Catholic Churches, the majority of our priests are married with children.
@markv19743 жыл бұрын
I thought so too. Western catholics can have married deacons, and there are some married priests from former anglicans (anglican ordinariate) but not that many.
@Eli-me2vs4 жыл бұрын
I actually know 4 or 5 married priest (they were all in another religion that allowed them to be married) they all transitioned when the pope allowed them to, but they are not allowed to be a bishop, pope, etc.
@Vurbanowicz4 ай бұрын
Jesus never wore trousers either. And he only lived about 33 years. As an itinerant preacher he probably couldn't afford to marry. For the first thousand years, parish priests were allowed to marry. After that the church had to find holy reasons for the celibacy requirement.
@CHRISTLKE4 жыл бұрын
The explanation does not make sense
@johnknight20125 жыл бұрын
We have a priest Young Married to his wife on the third child. He's a Diocesan Catholic priest at St Rita's in Dallas Tx. We need to throw the doors wide open to men married to women. ( He was Episcopalian convert) Everyone loves him. Celibacy should be optional not a Force choice which keeps married men out of the priesthood. Also priests were allowed to marry for a long time before 1 Pope came along and just changed it right out of the blue
@danielfortier26295 жыл бұрын
One CANNOT serve the Church and take care of a wife and family too. 1 Cor 7:8 - "To the unmarried and to widows I say: IT IS GOOD FOR THEM TO STAY AS THEY ARE, like me." 1 Cor 7:32-33 - "I should like you to HAVE YOUR MINDS FREE from all worry. THE UNMARRIED MAN GIVES HIS MIND TO THE LORD'S AFFAIRS AND TO HOW HE CAN PLEASE THE LORD; BUT THE MAN WHO IS MARRIED GIVES HIS MIND to the affairs of this world and TO HOW HE CAN PLEASE HIS WIFE, and he is DIVIDED IN HIS MIND." If you believe in the Bible, you cannot believe in married priests. As an authentic Catholic I would NEVER attend a mass where there is a married priest. ALL priests should be heterosexual, celibate virgins, and nothing else. That is what I was brought up to believe, and that is what I will believe until the day I die.
@luxperpetua10005 жыл бұрын
Hey guys, thanks for responding. I'll address both comments here. We too have a married priest in our diocese and I greatly appreciate his ministry. I am open, as well, to the possibility of married priests in the Catholic Church. As long as it's not just a reaction to scandal or a misunderstanding of the theology of celibacy. John, I think the history of celibacy in the Church and the priesthood is more complicated and rich that 1 pope changing it "out of the blue." As Daniel pointed out, Paul references celibacy. St. John was a celibate. It's a thing from the beginning. It is though not a necessity from the beginning. But Daniel, it is also true that it is a possibility and that the sacraments are valid when said by any ordained man, whether he be married or not. I think it would look more like what's in the Eastern Churches. Pastors and Bishops chosen from the celibate, because they more specifically image Christ as the bridegroom, and others filling in the gaps.
@johnknight20125 жыл бұрын
@@danielfortier2629 maybe you should start by researching what you were taught was not the case for the 1st 1000 years of the Holy Church. Like the fact married men could be priest and were priest. Now You being an authentic Catholic wouldn't take communion from a Married Priest who not a virgin well you would have to reject receiving Holy Communion from St Peter because St Peter was married with a wife and he had sex and some of the other apostles were believed to be married as well. Question: "Were any of the disciples married?" Answer: We know for certain that Peter was married because he had a mother-in-law (Matthew 8:14). The apostle Paul, who was not married, asked the Corinthians whether he also did not have the right to take a believing wife (1 Corinthians 9:5), as did “the other apostles and the Lord's brothers and Cephas [Peter].” From this, we can assume that Peter was not the only one to have a wife. There's nothing wrong with marriage God created it he highly spoke of it that's how we got Eve. I can also sling up Bible verses saying how great marriages is and that it mans choice. Also all Eastern Rite Catholic like Byzantine like Maronite like Orthodox Catholics married men can still become priests and have kids and wife and a dog and they still take care of their parishes quite well for 2000 years..... They been able to have marry men as priests since the beginning of the church history... 100% for married men to become priests we'll get a lot more heterosexuals priest that way .👪 💒 PS the whole church watched our married priest baptize his daughter using the ancient Rite a baptism it was beautiful it felt pretty authentic with God being there.
@gelf63035 жыл бұрын
priests that can balance a family and church duties are the rare exception and not the norm. One of the key reasons against married priests is that many of them will always put their family before the church much like how some of those megachurch pastors end up using a lot of their "churches" money to buy their wife a new bugatti ect. It's human nature but that is how it is.
@jimmymehjohn81072 жыл бұрын
How many times have you insulted a demon :)
@anthonyesparsen77768 ай бұрын
The bible ie the word of god actually says if you are a leader of the church you must be married ok
@lindaismail48113 ай бұрын
A practice? Not complete as a preist?
@boldorbroken9 ай бұрын
St Paul recommends celibacy. St James recommends marriage. I take St James side. But I don't require either as mandatory.
@sniperpronerfmods9811 Жыл бұрын
best kind of click bait lol!
@jennardotaylor48422 жыл бұрын
Christians also marry the church but Jesus still allow for marriage with an individual
@rc591913 жыл бұрын
Eastern Catholics are allowed to marry there is zero reason why priests can't marry in the west it's ridiculous.
@_kidtripp77724 ай бұрын
It's important to note, (I go to a Byzantine Catholic parish and the TLM), that a married man can become a priest. In the East, once you are a priest, you CANNOT get married. You have to be a married man and THEN you can become a priest. However, if you are a married priest, you cannot be raised to the episcopacy/bishopric. The Western tradition of celibacy should stay because it is a beautiful tradition. If it is that big of an issue, then I believe (I hold this view) that the Eastern Catholic Churches should expand. It would, 1. Allow for married men to become priests, 2. Demonstrate that the Catholic Church isn't merely the Roman Church, and 3. It could improve Roman Catholics spiritual life (they may find a greater connection to God in the Eastern rites).
@nickh4954 жыл бұрын
So Christ was also perfect. It wouldn't have been right for him to have taken a wife of those who are meant to worship him. As a man I would have a hard time listening to another man on what a husband should be when he has no clue what it's like to be a husband. I'm not saying that I'm perfect in that, I mean I was divorced by the age of 23. But that being said I have always gotten the best advice about marriage from those who have been married and have seen hardships, yet worked through them. If a priest has never known this then all they can tell you is the little they do know, and what the bible says. Which the bible does have some great answers, however I have had a priest quote scripture to me that made no sense to me and he couldn't explain it any further because he couldn't relate to what I was going through. He told me that divorce wasn't a solution, which I already knew but it wasn't up to me. I lived in a no fault divorce state so no matter how hard I fought it, my ex was going to get it as long as she wanted it. So i didn't know what to do. Then I left the church even more confused. Granted I'm also not Catholic but I don't see how it could have made much of a difference considering the verse he quoted was in the protestant bible as well and I already knew the verse.
@sreamwalker244 жыл бұрын
Its sad that the first pope peter could not even be priest and that what Paul said about the qualifications of being bishop being married pointless and it means nothing
@Kelle02842 жыл бұрын
In the new testament Jesus Christ is the only high priest that is talked about.
@LoLo-jk4lv5 жыл бұрын
This is healthy for your church.
@Mouqawem18 күн бұрын
Priests can be married f it was before being ordained
How does the church verify that someone is actually asexual and called to celibacy to avoid the rampant sexual scandals from people who were clearly not asexual? There has to be some kind of definitive fruit of that to make sure someone is not a charlatan.
@FrVladZablotskyy2 жыл бұрын
All of the apostles but one were married. 😉
@phish_110 ай бұрын
Is the Pope aware of you?
@jcpark72424 жыл бұрын
Sad
@SonofthekingJ5 ай бұрын
You're not Jesus to marry the church We're the church, God made a helper to Adam.
@patrickjoeodwyer3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha clickbait master
@joedees86872 жыл бұрын
Click bait
@realhawaii5o4 жыл бұрын
Repent your clickbait!
@FinalLugiaGuardian2 жыл бұрын
I met a Catholic priest (I think that is what he said he was) who was married. Both he and his wife converted to Catholicism. However, even though the church let them stay married, because he is married, he can never become a bishop. The inability for advancement in the church though did not seem to bother him. He was very happy with his role in the church best I could tell.
@tesschavit30093 жыл бұрын
Let us pray for all faithful priests who dedicate themselves to their people with generosity and unknown sacrifices
@websiteckron8591 Жыл бұрын
God bless you father!
@petermckenna8073 жыл бұрын
How do you know jesus wasnt married? I cant see how a loving relationship with another person, how fathering or mothering children makes you less qualified to speak the truth that jesus was trying to teach. Surely these experiences make you more qualified to understand the human condition.
@lilbutthead21074 жыл бұрын
You seem like a genuine person, and quite nice. I'm glad celibacy works for you. But I find it hard to stomach the history of the catholic priesthood. I do not understand why the priesthood is so rife with pedophilia. I hate to think its repressed homosexuality. My boyfriend is catholic, who gets upset anytime I bring up pedophilia in the church. Idk. I love god and god loves his children. Please do not hurt them
@cbooth1514 жыл бұрын
The Catholic Church is involved in many false teachings. Priestly celibacy is one of those teachings. The Church knows that requiring single priests to remain unmarried is unscriptural. Consider the following Catholic references: 1. “We do not find in the New Testament any indication of celibacy being made compulsory either upon the Apostles or those whom they ordained.”-The Catholic Encyclopedia 2. “The oldest evidence of a law on priestly celibacy is Canon 33 of the Council of Elvira [Spain], circa 300 C.E.”-Dictionnaire de Théologie Catholique 3. “Celibacy of the clergy is nowhere demanded or even supposed in the NT [New Testament].” --Encyclopedic Dictionary of the Bible 4. In the preamble to this 1967 encyclical, Pope Paul VI admitted that “the New Testament, which preserves the teaching of Christ and the Apostles . . . does not demand celibacy of sacred ministers.” 5. “Ecclesiastical celibacy is not a dogma. The Scriptures do not impose it."--Pope John XXIII Many Catholics believe Jesus encouraged priestly celibacy. But did he? Absolutely not. Jesus was born under the Law of Moses which REQUIRED priests to be MARRIED MEN! As Lev. 21: 1, 7, 13, 14 says: "Yahweh said to Moses: 'Speak to the priests descended from Aaron and say: "They will not marry a woman profaned by prostitution, or one divorced by her husband, for the priest is consecrated to his God. He will marry a woman who is still a virgin. He will not marry a woman who has been widowed or divorced or profaned by prostitution, but will marry a virgin from his own people." So, if Jesus had told unmarried priests to remain celibate, he would have been encouraging them to break the Law.
@sustymenko4 жыл бұрын
did He break the law, Himself? I'm Eastern Orthodox, our priests are married, but boy, is your screed misguided!
@t.j.elkins85272 жыл бұрын
You can not be married to the Church. WE are the Church. YOU are the Church. And, yes, we are the Bride and Christ is the Bridegroom. The Church is married to Christ. You can not marry yourself.
@petrichor52944 жыл бұрын
Then your not a priest.
@calinative53024 жыл бұрын
With respect Father, this is an extremely stupid traidition that you and I both know came about hundreds of years after Jesus! How can you even speak about marriage if you yourself have never been married? Jesus was a Jewish man that WAS OBLIGATED TO FOLLOW JEWISH TRADITION AND DID SO UNTIL HIS DEATH!( His death ceremony was even Orthodox Jewish) If you want to argue Theology and Judaism to contradict my point then get ready; I considered seminary as well
@ayushdas74474 жыл бұрын
You are not father. I don't consider married persons as priest. 😑😑😑
@sustymenko4 жыл бұрын
then you disobey a Catholic teaching. ROC, just like the Orthodox, accepts that a married man can be ordained as priest - it just chooses not to in vast majority of cases.
@putodango3 жыл бұрын
Someone didn’t watch the video.
@Kelle02842 жыл бұрын
Priests in the OT were married long before the Bible was put together. In the new testament Jesus Christ is the only high priest that is talked about.