I'm Heteroflexible ... and also Straight

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Andy Hartley

Andy Hartley

Күн бұрын

Happy Pride Month to everybody! As it's Pride Month, I'm going to let you into a bit of a secret. I'm heteroflexible, and also straight. This might seem confusing as being heteroflexible surely means I'm not totally straight ... but I've decided to use both identities, as I explain in the video.
Again, Happy #Pride!
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@rebeccahardy5216
@rebeccahardy5216 2 жыл бұрын
Finally! I've used the term bisexual for myself for ages but it never felt right, this definitely does!
@Tipsy_Turby
@Tipsy_Turby Жыл бұрын
OMl. THIS IS ME. I've been thinking of myself as a type of Bisexual for a bit now, but this is the term I was looking for.
@jmh086
@jmh086 Жыл бұрын
I've been dealing with a sexual identity for a while now because I would say that I was straight with a bit of curiosity. It's nice to have bit of understanding about this term
@gwish222
@gwish222 3 жыл бұрын
I'm surprised to see how underrated you are. I think that your videos should really reach out to more people.
@trogdortheburninator3621
@trogdortheburninator3621 Жыл бұрын
I'm heterofexible and straight as well.
@Nekotaku_TV
@Nekotaku_TV Жыл бұрын
That's an oxymoron. Unless you're saying you shift in and out.
@kbanghart
@kbanghart Жыл бұрын
​@@Nekotaku_TV why is it an oxymoron?
@Nekotaku_TV
@Nekotaku_TV Жыл бұрын
@@kbanghart Haha, because straight means you aren't flexible, that you only like the opposite gender in that way. Heteroflexible is straight plus flexible in that you can do stuff and have some interest in the same gender. You can't be two opposing things at the same time, literally impossible unless you factor in stuff like switching back and forth or having multiple personalities.
@kbanghart
@kbanghart Жыл бұрын
@@Nekotaku_TV well, if it works for me, it works for me. You can define it however you like. I suspect we're talking about the differences between sexual attraction and romantic attraction.
@Nekotaku_TV
@Nekotaku_TV Жыл бұрын
@@kbanghart That makes no sense, you can't just make stuff up and not care about what words mean. But sure you can be wrong if you want to, but you're also gonna confuse and misinform and lie to people.
@curtrupp4259
@curtrupp4259 6 ай бұрын
It's actually astonishing how many people dont even know or are so dismissive of hetero flexible people I think it's sad
@HairByJamesAnnabel
@HairByJamesAnnabel 3 жыл бұрын
Never heard of this before. Thanks for sharing 🥰
@ciaranwalshe_vocalist
@ciaranwalshe_vocalist 4 ай бұрын
I’ve just come out of the closet and this has given me such solace about how I feel. And who I am. I never felt like I aligned with being gay, bi, or pan but I have urges now and again to be with a man. It’s so confusing and your experience just makes so much sense to me. Thank you for sharing x
@andrewmiller4753
@andrewmiller4753 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you - I feel the same.
@madmonkee6757
@madmonkee6757 Жыл бұрын
bi-lite
@syb_764
@syb_764 2 жыл бұрын
Finally I’ve found what I am lol
@thomasandrews2935
@thomasandrews2935 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@ntobekoluthuli1997
@ntobekoluthuli1997 4 ай бұрын
Finally finded what I'm
@juratory8876
@juratory8876 2 жыл бұрын
Hey there! I just came across this video, and you knocked it out of the park! I first considered myself fully bi, but then I realized that I'm occasionally attracted to other women, while I'm constantly attracted to men. And that's okay. I also call myself sapphic because of that degree of romantic and sexual attraction to other women.
@nitrous9291
@nitrous9291 2 жыл бұрын
What is the frequency like how many times in a year
@everythingispolitics6526
@everythingispolitics6526 Жыл бұрын
@@nitrous9291 what is your business?
@nitrous9291
@nitrous9291 2 жыл бұрын
Hii man plz help me iam straight but I had a few same sex attraction in past like 3 years ago right now I am 20 and i am really afraid that what if my orientation complete change and I wil become bi or gay plz reply
@anne-claudelparr-rousseau4299
@anne-claudelparr-rousseau4299 Жыл бұрын
First, ask yourself the question: Why are you so scared of being gay, bi or pan ? It shouldn't be view as a bad thing. We have to stop viewing the LGBT+ community as a bunch of weirdos. Those millions of people who are part of the LGBTQ+ community are different from each other in every shape and form. Many so called "heterosexuals" have homoerotic thoughts and feelings but are afraid to admit it (are themselves) because they think it's shameful or they think being LGBT+ comes with a flamboyant look (or any other stereotypes attached to being LGBTQ+). I'm a sexologist. I spend a lot of time thinking, reading and writing about sexuality and sexual orientations. I sincerely believe than A LOT of people are on the bisexual spectrum (I would say probably 20-30% of population). Sexual orientation is composed of 3 thing: attractions (romantic and sexual), behaviors and auto-identification. If you have either attractions (sexual desire or romantic attraction), behavior (if you acted upon those feelings sexually or romanticly) or auto-identification (how you decided to identify yourself) for 2 genders or more, you are technically bisexual or on the bisexual spectrum. Whether you choose to identify as bisexual or not, will depends on your internalized biphobia (ex: thinking bisexuality is not a real or valid orientation, thinking it's a 50/50 thing, thinking you are "different" than other bisexual folks as if they were all the same, etc.). To answer your question, sexual orientation (sexual and romantic attractions) is NOT something you can control. Auto-identification is something only YOU can decide :) Just know that some labels (heteroflexibility, homoflexibility, bicurious, etc.) COULD contribute to bisexual erasure and reinforce biphobic stigmas.
@anne-claudelparr-rousseau4299
@anne-claudelparr-rousseau4299 Жыл бұрын
@Javier Sierra Yes of course :) Everything you are experimenting is valid. It sounds like you might be bisexual (physical attraction to 2 genders) and on the spectrum of aromantism.
@lauramarieke3172
@lauramarieke3172 Жыл бұрын
love!
@anonymousdetective3786
@anonymousdetective3786 2 жыл бұрын
Same.
@Bdb83
@Bdb83 2 ай бұрын
Your bisexual
@73ND41
@73ND41 2 жыл бұрын
You can't be straight and Heteroflexible at the same time, that's contradictory.
@andyhartley
@andyhartley 2 жыл бұрын
Presumably you didn't watch the video 🤷‍♂️
@73ND41
@73ND41 2 жыл бұрын
@@andyhartley only for few minutes
@andyhartley
@andyhartley 2 жыл бұрын
@@73ND41 Exactly.
@73ND41
@73ND41 2 жыл бұрын
@@andyhartley I'm Heteroflexible and not romantically attracted to men but I have had sexual encounters with men and I find men like Cristiano Ronaldo physically attractive.
@Nekotaku_TV
@Nekotaku_TV Жыл бұрын
@@andyhartley You don't need to watch the video to understand that. Just understand the meaning of the word... then you are just switching.
@Nekotaku_TV
@Nekotaku_TV Жыл бұрын
That's an oxymoron. Unless you're saying you shift in and out. You can't be both at the same time. No you can't just give yourself any label... unless you're lying. =S
@kbanghart
@kbanghart Жыл бұрын
Fake comment
@Nekotaku_TV
@Nekotaku_TV Жыл бұрын
@@kbanghart What?
@kbanghart
@kbanghart Жыл бұрын
@@Nekotaku_TV what what
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