All he has to do is give her attention and make her feel special. It’s boring in there. Once you’re out there’s so much more that can complicate a relationship. It’s not a good idea to get married before you’re living in the real world together because the dynamic is different.

I laughed when the woman in the wedding shop said "ok cool" 😂

“I was worried about the fact he’s a criminal” 😂😂😂 the way she said that

She is so cute and nice but I see so many red flags with him being controlling... Calling each hour is not a good thing.... Also he should of laughed at her saying black dress but he went straight to a controlling tone of she can't do that.... It also controlling to want her to be married straight away instead of getting to know her more. Wish her the best of luck and I hope I'm completely wrong as she seems so nice!

She didn’t say on the video, her insta says she’s a mum to 3 children. I hope for the kids it works out

So many red flags here....she is probably marrying a narcissist....he is making her feel special (red flag), everything feels so intense (red flag), he love bombs her (red flag). I feel sorry for her...

Stop putting money on his books and then see how he acts towards you. This is not a good idea sweetie. It's your life of course, but you've put this out there for everybody to see and dissect and my vote: horrible idea.

this girl have such a big heart and a good heart too. i have studied social work and we have madatory psychology classes throughout the diploma duration (wich is 3 years or more if you asked to the person assigned to your filed at the college to extend it to 4 or even 5 year for either family, work or even mental health reason like anxiety, adhd or any problem that can make it more difficult to have too much classes at a time so they can spread it out over more time to help you at succeeding) and like relationships/behavioural related classes too and this girl is one of the most well rounded or the most balanced mentaly about her reflection on her choice regarding marrying/ dating an inmate that i ever seen. i have watch a lot of documentary on the subject from all around the world and most women were like "i always wanted to talk/date a prisoner" or like "i dated x number of prisoner before this one" or "all of my exs are in jail or have been in jail before". it was a very rare occurrence to see someone that was like meeting in a "normal" way like through social media and people she knew like she did and who decided to wait that the guy get out to make the move. many women in those documentaries marry guys while they are still inside thinking it is a good idea but they dont even know how they are outside

To tell someone that you “Love them,” before you even know how to like them, is ridiculous!

I was gonna mock this girl but I actually feel for her, she could be getting screwed over for money and all she wants is love bless her, can tell she’s been through a lot and only ever having been with one man your whole life can make you very naive when getting back out there

Oh girl the second dress looked absolutely breath taking on you! I hope you chose that one. I bet it'll look so gorgeous in the light with all that sparkle! I can't wait to see the update!

I was not expecting that myself, but I actually like and admire her. I thought watching this video I'd be go like "oh stupid girl" but she has been though some stuff and still standing up for herself knowing that she deserves true love (also if this love is questionable).

I would not trust him.

It's not based in reality,it's mostly fantasy. They dont really know each other,they have both fallen in love with the idea of it,imo,as an outside perspective. Hope I'm wrong and it works out as she seems like a nice girl

I feel for her. I wish her all the best and happiness.

Those of us who enjoy freedom couldn't find love at 35 while prisoners found love easily

The saddest part is shes only just gotten her kids back from social services :( and now shes marrying a man fresh out of prison, theyll probably get involved again. i dont think she would listen, she just wants to try her hardest and hope it works. It sounds like shes had a hard life. Hopefully itll be a new start for her.

Those eyelashes needs an episode of their own

What a shame .. it’s completely obvious guys in prison will promise u the world .. what’s wrong with people doesn’t anyone aim high for a relationship

She’s so gorgeous 😍Great energy and wishing you the best xx

This story brought back memories from this movie called Mi vida loca. It’s a Chicano movie, there’s this girl they called blue eyes felt in love with a guy in prison and was in love with his letters.

Of course her first marriage didn’t work, she was a baby herself and lets not forget it was “arranged”. No disrespect to any cultures but that is so f’d up. It’s kinda like arranging people to just breed. And being a teenager, you don’t know the world. When I was 16 I was barely able to keep a job. As a parent, this isn’t an ideal relationship, BUT if she’s happy and if he treats her like a queen and he’s hard working, then her friends and family need to be happy for her. Otherwise they arent good people and she doesn’t need that toxicity in her life. When she said you have to stay married because “you made your bed so you have to lie in it”, that broke my heart. Those girls didn’t “make their beds” Someone else arranged it for them. Sending good vibes to her and wishes that this works out for her and Tommy. 🫶🏼

Lovely story.. hopefully I get my ring too this year 💕✨🍾💍

My heart does break for women with such low self esteem😢

Poor girl. I hope he is a good person and isn’t a player. I personally wouldn’t date prisoner because I don’t trust, I’m sorry. Even thou I know that some people do change but I’m not ready to get hurt. I just wish her the best.

That's so heart touching 🥺♥️

Be the change. All the best for you . ❤

You go girl do what makes you happy

Ah, arranged marriages. And here I thought humantiy had moved out of the medieval period. If this lady wants to get married to a man of her own choosing, she'll hopefully be better off for it. I wish them both all the best. And have a wild Irish party. I'm an American, so I don't know much about other places than my own. One of my life goals is to (hopefully) travel the world and learn history from the perspectives of the countries I'd visit. Ireland and Scotland have always been the first places I'd go.

Why can't they wait until he's out of prison so that they actually get to know each other in person? He's out in a year, that's not too long.

“I wanna look like a big crow” 😂😂

I hope they're happy together. There's been some interesting studies on women who choose men in jail.

Forget oppressive groups and do your best life! Love you hope you guys have a great future! We aren't cattle. 🙃🙂 women are free individuals to love who they want! Yay!

How on earth does a prisoner get married? 😮😮 This is crazy.

Love During Lockup, Love After Lockup...It's reality..

Can she have her own show please because she's amazing!! I love her personality!

Both dresses looked amazing she's gorgeous. I'm so happy for her, what a strong and wise young woman. Wish her and Tommy every happiness xx

I follow you on ticktock and your An amazing girl I wish u all the happinesses in the world not all people who go jail are bad 💯 some people make mistakes but learn from them hope u and Tommy have a happy life together ❤

Congratulations Bridget and Tommy 💝 so happy you guys found each other .best wishes loves.

I read a book like this. It didn't end well

I would never judge someone else's relationship, if they are happy, good for them! However, I'm going to judge the hell out of those curly false eyelashes. 😳

Respect to her she could do well on social media etc. Hope hes good to her. I believe she deserves to be talen care of.

My bf is on his way to prison, there's a good reason why he is ending there and why i am not marrying. He is putting up a front

Do we have an updated yet? 👀

I’ve followed you for quite a while on tick tock. I think your amazing. Your stunning and you have been to hell and back. You have come along long way. Never give up love seeing you with your beautiful babies. Can’t wait to see what life has in store for you. X.

Good luck girl

I couldn’t understand what her fiancé was saying on the phone. It sounded like he said he doesn’t want to talk about wedding dresses anymore or right now. Maybe, I misunderstood.

I just can’t understand why they feel they need to rush to get married. Is it really love they are feeling or just lush? Oh well, who am I to judge anyway. All the best for you both in the future. Hope it works out!

They are still together. They had a real life connection (sorta he was interested in her from her TT) before he went to prison. It's a bit of a different story than some girl writing to a guy in prison that she had no connection with & falls in love because he lovebombs her because he had all the time in the world. I feel like those stories don't end well when the guy gets out of prison. So many either leech off the woman or they reoffend. Bridgey has a better story & they have a real connection. It's working, they are happy, be happy for her too.

I knew she looked familiar she was on my gypsy wedding

When I see this Love After Lockup comes to mind

Wish they done an update on this couple.. she seems so nice

Soulmates ♥️

The new couple on the next love after lockup? 🤣🤣

One life to live,do you❤️

Good for her , be happy, life is short , hope they have a wonderful marriage 🥰

Strong gril and god bless you guys and i will pray the lord bless you with more love and take care with happy with new life.

“Whatsoever” 😂

I like her I can't wait for an update

First red flag 🚩 he is telling her HE doesn’t want a white wedding dress when SHE wants to wear black (sounds controlling already) I could be wrong after all I do not know the relationship personally… buuuut I do know to get married to someone you never spent time with to see if it’s right for you is NOT a good idea 😮 kinda like an arranged marriage already!… then add the fact he is in prison is😮😮😮😮 I wish her the best

Love after/during lockup up

This woman is gorgeous and seems so switched on. I hope it all works out for her and Tommy. ❤

0:21 can someone tell me the name of this soundtrack?! I would appreciate it

Is he talking to other women tho? Cuz I doubt any prisoner would write only one letter since they probably crave human contact and what’s his crime

The second dress what shop is this

This is given Momma i'm in love with a criminal~ Vibess and i love it❤

And now they are having twins ❤❤❤❤❤❤ absolutely amazing news

Congratulations you deserve all the happiness in the world ❤🎉

She has the same mental capacity as the creators of this show..............which is that of a a turnip. We need to do better America! Cancel MTV finally!

The big question: what is Tommy in jail for?

You know what I it’s Love Don’t Judge I’m dating someone over the internet sure I’ll have hate comments but I love my bf and I hope she is happy and they live a happily ever after best of luck

Good for you.. ❤️ ur happy that's it then . And girl he is fineee... 😉

🙏🏾♥️

Misogyny isn't tradition, its just misogyny. No culture has any excuse for treating women this way, including the traveling people Also she does look like beyoncé ❤️✨✨✨

I think she should raise her standards. She’s a beautiful woman. However I understand fate and if this is it for her, it’s her life. I just hope she’s happy

That's so true that she said not all people in prison are bad people. The only difference between people in prison and people that aren't is the fact that the latter weren't caught. It doesn't take much to end up there sometimes. Speaking as someone with family members and very close friends that have been in prison.

Ok no matter the race or country , men in jail ALL TALK A GOOD GAME while INSIDE.

I wish them only the best.

This how they end up on those true crime shows

I guess this is how Joran van der Sloot married his wife.

You deserve it all use are ment to be beautiful couple 💑 🥰

You go girl don’t worry about what anyone else thinks, if tommy makes you happy then go for it u deserve to be loved and be happy.❤ xxx

Wedding dress...Crazy 😂

Shes a beautiful gypsy with a lovely Irish personality

The fact he followed her, mesaged her and she ignored then shows shes just doing it for attention

Im not familiar with irish traveling families, she said the women aren’t allowed to remarry, but are men from dissolved marriages allowed to move on? The way she met this bloke checks out for me. Im completely against the crazies that go seeking a mate from a prison. This two have a connection outside of the jail. Hopefully it lasts once he has access to all women.

No one is perfect you choose your mate

All the dresses were nice

Good for her! When you find the right one you know, and those who don't care to support you can go elsewhere!

Your life, your business. Good luck.

Love u bridgey xx

Soooo what is he in for?

Love her

Does he get out of prison? I really want to know now

So annoying when videos like this don’t mention age or anything. Such a basic thing to say about someone when you give their name. It’s hard to put an age on her so I was interested to know.

If anyone is without fault raise your hand. No one is perfect and people need a chance. Life take us through all sorts of journey. Our righteousness are filthy rags. And none is without sin. Pray for them. But don't destroy them. God is gracious to sinners like us. Be gracious to others.

She loves him? She doesn't know him! Lol Desperate woman!

It’s sad I tried finding her on tiktok but she got banned 😭

Girl 😂 this is the biggest case of desperate I have ever known

Alvan love did you watch the story