"I'm not ready to form any connection with my mom, I don't need it "- James Brown.
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@MwaleWaGitau 2 жыл бұрын
There is a difference between Forgiveness & Reconciliation. You can forgive someone but you don't have to accommodate them in your life - especially if they are toxic! 😳 APOLOGY ACCEPTED. ACCESS DENIED!
@mbalukamara7683 2 жыл бұрын
You’re absolutely right
@amarachianyalewechi5269 2 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@justinafalesi3670 2 жыл бұрын
Very true
@fredajohnson7393 2 жыл бұрын
Oil dey your head
@kofo2196 2 жыл бұрын
I love that description of Apology Accepted Access Denied.
@ifielawyer319 2 жыл бұрын
Oh dear! I’m almost in tears. Never judge a person until you actually know their story. I feel so sad knowing that this strong individual was traumatised like this as a child. How amazing how far God has taken this lovely young man. Really proud of him
@Eremina0820 Жыл бұрын
Watch out for people like James brown who go through things like this from childhood, most people don’t come out of it , but those people who do, and I repeat again those who do! They come out stronger and tough… and one of those people is James.
@zainabibrahim293 2 жыл бұрын
Althrough the interview I was imagining how the people that abandoned him look at him now. Lastly, I have a strong conviction that those of us that believe in God, heaven, hell and the last day, will be shocked on the last day at what will become of those we thought were not good enough to go to heaven. Let us profess love for one another and be humane. That is all!!!
@Abebi07 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly Hajia Zainab👌 Love is all we need💯💯
@idkt98 2 жыл бұрын
love this
@heroicverse5620 Жыл бұрын
Very well said.... Heaven and hell is in Nigeria... Work your heaven or hell out, be wise. If there was heaven the west won't allow any black African have an idea of it let alone let us into it.
@fureraisiaka3363 Жыл бұрын
Zee.
@pepelenassir3240 Жыл бұрын
Love the pedophile , the criminals … you are speaking non sense and total anarchy
@anitaambi4536 2 жыл бұрын
Oh Lord, this man is still traumatized. Please, meet him, Holy Spirit and draw Him to the Father. Help him live above His greatest temptations. Amen!
@zeea6507 2 жыл бұрын
Nigerians do not like differences. This is why his story is so interesting to a lot of people. He seems expressive and Chude is a great conversationalist.
@macvoice6098 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@mrrocrocmoney3924 2 жыл бұрын
Whatever you are keep it to yourself..Don't Force it on people to accept your differences and sexual preference
@joylm9108 2 жыл бұрын
@@mrrocrocmoney3924 who is holding gun at head to accept it?
@JR-ek4xy 2 жыл бұрын
FACTS
@zeea6507 2 жыл бұрын
@@mrrocrocmoney3924 LOL so many people are doing it but Nigeria like fake undercover LOL. WHAT IS MY OWN lol. YOU CAN ONLY CHANGE YOURSELF NOT OTHER PEOPLE. I AM HETROSEXUAL BUT DO NOT WASTE MY TIME OR ENERGY ON OTHER PEOPLE'S BUSINESS.
@annabellasergey9482 Жыл бұрын
You can see how growing up shaped him both negatively and positively....This guy wears his growing up experience like skin🥺...God bless ALL loving grandmother ❤️❤️🩹💔
@greeniribomam5263 2 жыл бұрын
I pray for you James that the will of God is fulfilled in your life and that Christ becomes the Lord of your life. Through you millions will receive the beautiful gift of the gospel of Christ.
@TheNyakaat Жыл бұрын
Amen
@leemahbak7067 2 жыл бұрын
My Love for James just increased❤️ I’m proud of his journey👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@dietriamichelle494 2 жыл бұрын
That's why I don't judge people, you never know what they have been through. It seems like he was rejected, I can imagine how painful that was for him and still is. I pray God protect him.
@Lifestyle_and_Healthy_Living 2 жыл бұрын
Amen! I feel for him! It must have taken strength and a great deal of it to move on and not be a failure 😞😔🤗🤗🤗
@muoboentertainment 2 жыл бұрын
Amen. It's hard building your esteem if you were hated by a lot of people growing up.
@CommonSenseSisters 2 жыл бұрын
There is power in telling your story unapologetically without regrets about your journey thus far. That’s strength right there!!! We have listened to his interview on @Tea With Tay Podcast channel in the past👏🏿. Kudos to James💐 for driving the narrative about his life✊🏽 & creating his own stardom 🌟
@addykins100 Жыл бұрын
“I have forgiven you but I cannot vibe with you, don’t you get it?”……..so so true….forgiving ppl does not mean you have to let them back in.
@ogbongeafricanmama2993 2 жыл бұрын
I love this guy for one thing, the truth and being blunt and real
@Mariposa_6 2 жыл бұрын
James please leave literally alone😂😂😂
@jemimagana7668 2 жыл бұрын
This is the first time am crying watching an interview, I know where he is coming from emotionally, may God bless you James
@RealityStand 2 жыл бұрын
You mean she?
@langobryant8972 Жыл бұрын
Stop calling God’s name this mess
@francisadodo9399 7 ай бұрын
@@RealityStandno I mean he
@adedolapoadedayo23 2 жыл бұрын
James is an impressive human. Once you're able to look past all the things on the surface, you find out how resilient he is. He is also a very good businessman. He saw an opportunity and seized it and is still using it to his advantage, not very many people can even recognize an opening not to talk of using them. I understand why people make fun of him, but I have a newfound respect and admiration for this young man. I hope you continue to soar James; all your prayers have been answered.
@thegracetofollow4194 2 жыл бұрын
Am glad you are addressing him as young man thank you
@nuelonyedikaokpala 2 жыл бұрын
He is actually a smart guy and he is so real. I wish him the very best. What an interesting conversation.
@sheilakienntongalah1007 Жыл бұрын
Omg,James im proud after all we went through, your still bold and trying to make things happen in your life. May my God bless you mercilessly
@TheNyakaat Жыл бұрын
At the end of the day, everyone has a story. When you listen to it, you understand why folks are the way they are. He has gone through a lot of hardships and rejection from family. I pray he finds the peace that surpasses all understanding.
@MVPMoe4ever 2 жыл бұрын
To be honest I was surprised at this intelligence. You never know one until you hear their heart, where they have been and their dreams. Wow! Really impressive and motivating. I never took to all the bobisky and likes of him but I see James Brown has different and real. Impressive eye opener. Kudos to him.
@mhiriaridy5816 2 жыл бұрын
Funny enough femme boys are so intelligent
@no-one00 2 жыл бұрын
@@mhiriaridy5816 that’s so true
@TosingerT 10 ай бұрын
You don't have to vibe with who you have forgiven, family or not. I feel you.
@stephnoraeddyson2177 2 жыл бұрын
Jamesbrown is down to earth 😂 he said let them be calling me that her first🤣
@sohniya7681 Жыл бұрын
He is still hurt, but he is using the regular Nigerian strong eye to suppress it💔. I wish he could get therapy. Poor guy. I hope he finds peace and I wish him all the best.
@myraessien8964 Жыл бұрын
Omo! Everything he say tough me. At the same time he made me smile 😊 I’m rooting for you James😘
@ogooawele1159 2 жыл бұрын
E hugsss to james 🤗🤗,,this is so deep ,,tnxs chude 😘
@nkolemwaba2526 Жыл бұрын
Forgiving people doesn't mean that you have to reconcile and I hate thus thing in families where they act like the injured party is causing division.
@TheJilo Жыл бұрын
It’s him walking James to the car at the end and giving him a hug before he boards for me - so adorable
@debbieshuaib8467 2 жыл бұрын
So much complication, so much pain. I pray he finds healing
@annabellebaldwin57 Жыл бұрын
Hummm if only faces could tell what we’ve been through.. thank you for sharing your story with us
@eat_to_fill 2 жыл бұрын
James has a very good heart 🥺🥰🥰💜💜💜💜
@GloriaOtikor 2 жыл бұрын
Waoh! His English is so improved,princess of Africa and Duchess of London.
@mzd3792 2 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful soul. I love him I swear!
@cebilendwandwe6857 2 жыл бұрын
Chude is a great conversationalist
@0loriEne0 Жыл бұрын
Wow! You've been through a lot. God bless you James.
@Annie-tx1ry 2 жыл бұрын
I am so happy for him....God bless you James
@MarvelCakes Жыл бұрын
Just be calling me "her" first. 😂😂😂😂. This got me laughing hard.
@ogochukwulucia3743 Жыл бұрын
Thank you James for telling your story
@seyedanny4790 2 жыл бұрын
Literally he has improved
@oyedolaoyedepo4693 2 жыл бұрын
It is the literally for me 😅🤣. He has actually, and his story is touching.
@atinukeolowe5263 2 жыл бұрын
James will kill me with literally 🤣🤣
@tuneshaedmondson4137 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story to the world I know it's so courage to open up and I think all of us should be the same
@herexcellencymumtv 2 жыл бұрын
The ever funny James Brown 😂 Toxic family unit can run one mad. Everyone has a story which defines their entire existence.
@ChasteInegbedion 2 жыл бұрын
I CELEBRATE YOU JAMES AND THANK YOU CHUDE FOR AMPLIFYING HIS STORY
@oifiodagideon3531 2 жыл бұрын
Literalllllyyyyy😂😂😂 Lool If I had a dollar every time he said this.
@jennifersombo 2 жыл бұрын
Literally, we’ve come to the end. 😂😅
@FaAriella Жыл бұрын
James is just someone i would love to have as part of my family member coz with her i won't be scared of taking risks, her story is just similar to mine
@henriettaokpala9642 2 жыл бұрын
You're enough, James. I'm glad that you didn't allow your past to destroy you. Keep being genuine, never stop learning. God bless you. Sincerely hope parents out there would learn a thing or two from this video. Be present for your children. Whipping and traumatizing them will never bring out the best in them. Take a look at our country with it's religiosity and overly strict parenting, why aren't we doing great? Weren't our rotten politicians, lecturers, civil servants, MOG etc whipped as kids? Honestly, we need to do better for our kids, we need to adopt a change of approach cos things are getting worse.
@hopekarigirwa3806 2 жыл бұрын
How else do you want him to be destroyed? He is already more than destroyed. Perhaps not by his past but the present is doing so. Sending love and prayers that God heals him and give him light
@henriettaokpala9642 2 жыл бұрын
@@hopekarigirwa3806 My dear, did you take time to listen to the young man? Yes, I also understand that you feel that in being different, he is making mistakes but the truth is that you never give up on anyone as long as they have breathe in them. Another question I have for you is Do you sin? Have you ever had sinful thought that nobody knows? Are you aware that your action can also destroy you? Do not in any way feel that you are better than this young man cos if you think he is sinful, he is no better than all of us that committing sins in various ways. So dear Hope, be kind. Learn to hate the sin but not the "sinner" because He is still well loved by his Creator. Have a fulfilled day.
@carolokoli7874 2 жыл бұрын
@@henriettaokpala9642 we all sin o but nobody goes around wearing a shirt with the logo "Sinful and proud" sinful and happy, created sinful will remain sinful and infact come and join me in my sinfulness. The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom.
@henriettaokpala9642 2 жыл бұрын
@@carolokoli7874 That fear of God should propel you to avoid sin at all cost whether hidden or in the open. The fear of God is indeed the beginning of wisdom. And if truly you love God, you will love ALL creatures of God whether you think they are wrong or not. Who knows, by your unbiased and unjudgmental love, they would be attracted to your God. For now, quit pointing accusing fingers at James, His Creator still loves him and isn't done with him yet. Rather, look inwards and think of ways to be like Jesus (I'm guessing you're a Christian).
@Miyyah_mo 2 жыл бұрын
@@hopekarigirwa3806 Assistant God! It’s actually the way a lot of people like you are so quick to judge others whereas you do unspeakable things behind closed doors. It’s well with you soul.
@uchy8905 Жыл бұрын
He's been through a lot. It explains a lot of things. I pray God's healing upon him.
@EmmanuelleIk 2 жыл бұрын
We love James here❤️❤️
@RealMe-tn5dq 2 жыл бұрын
This interview is amazing just watched over and over and not bored
@AnitaAnita-rc9xv 2 жыл бұрын
Awwwwwwww that’s soooo deep,I didn’t care about what Nigerians will say because they saw him as trash . God is perfect & truly not man. May God lead you
@florencearong4216 2 жыл бұрын
Oh I love this guy, James I am your fan . God bless you dear
@mimisunny3625 2 жыл бұрын
Literally love James😂
@bernardayuk7335 2 жыл бұрын
I enjoy watching this interview
@DearOmolara 2 жыл бұрын
Literally literally I love james
@RealityStand 2 жыл бұрын
I love you too.
@adrianaortega7406 Жыл бұрын
I so much like the love James is getting, it's so good
@tifeblessing826 2 жыл бұрын
All the best James, stay happy. I pray your dreams and aspirations comes to fulfilment.
@fasakinkemisola5285 2 жыл бұрын
If "Literally" was a person...lol The way he uses the word.
@viralsnigeria2359 2 жыл бұрын
Bruh! James "Literally" Brown. Say wetin!?
@ritaarchibong4150 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Crystal4ya Жыл бұрын
I might not agree with who James is but, I like his personality. This guy is funny😂😂🤣😂
@loubnaarianne2498 Жыл бұрын
You do not have the power to accept or tolerate anybody. It’s doesn’t matter if you agree or not. They will continue to live their life either way.
@francisadodo9399 7 ай бұрын
@@loubnaarianne2498yeah the same way it roesnt matter if they live their life , some people will never accept you .
@rukiattyson9172 Жыл бұрын
So much wisdom...see beyond people!everyone is acting!
@jummyalfred2909 2 жыл бұрын
This interview is so inspiring, made me cry. Congratulations James brown
@sapphireglow7250 2 жыл бұрын
😃😃😃😃😃...see me laughing when he talked about Bobrisky
@AnkaraHotspot 2 жыл бұрын
Since I heard his story, I fell in love with him. James Brown is indeed a child of destiny. A true survivor 👏🏾 🤎
@folashadeopeyemi2313 Жыл бұрын
Bob is really nice and always reach out to people
@isabelfeny4507 2 жыл бұрын
I love this interview
@altheah.1251 Жыл бұрын
I hope he finds DELIVERANCE
@xunxtazchrison1719 Жыл бұрын
The vibe you give to this word "literally" always makes me want to use it😅 In all,thumbs up dear,your God did it for you.
@oluwarachel 2 жыл бұрын
What doesn't kill u makes you stronger, experiences are a part our individuality.
@zinnykalu1308 2 жыл бұрын
Principarls teacherrrrs😅😅😅 Odogwu bold and smart😀
@vanesaabraham1479 2 жыл бұрын
I wish you well in all you do james
@exploretheword 2 жыл бұрын
God bless and keep you James amen❤️💜
@RealMe-tn5dq 2 жыл бұрын
I love you James and I know they did not caught you🤣🤣🤣🤣
@puritydecencia9574 2 жыл бұрын
The smartness.....👍👍👍👍
@mayliss120 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your honesty 🥰. Toxic parents are real in Africa
@jonelnelson9943 Жыл бұрын
She’s so funny lol ”just call me her first “ 😂😂😂😂😂
@MoMo-br4bp Жыл бұрын
HE. A REAL MAN 👨
@naijawoodtv3608 2 жыл бұрын
James is everything u need to stay happy...such a sweet soul
@shiningstar80 2 жыл бұрын
Omg, i wept like a child. James Omo logo, great job Chude!
@folasade85 2 жыл бұрын
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son,that whosoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. Repent dor the kingdom of God is at hand. Shalom
@Adaibeh44 7 ай бұрын
I pray you find healing 🙏. Titus 2:11 For the grace of God has been revealed, bringing salvation to all people.
@sukieoduwole 2 жыл бұрын
We go through what we go through in our past because of where we are going in the future. Forgiveness is very important. Everything we went through prepared us for where we are today.
@the_jemimaa 2 жыл бұрын
Laughed and learnt watching this. God be with you, James 👐🏿
@ritalinus5097 2 жыл бұрын
Jesus love you James brown, we all have a story. People who really love you from their heart will tell you this lifestyle is not good. It might have a good beginning but the ending is very brutal.
@evelynejeka7182 2 жыл бұрын
Who are you to decide for him
@idrisglory1674 2 жыл бұрын
I beg carry ur hypocritical talk go one side I beg😏😏😏, face ur religion I beg
@naomisamphilip6016 2 жыл бұрын
I feel for this guy honestly but he was supposed to prove his parents wrong. With what he has become, they wouldn't be regretting throwing him away. Jesus is always there to help u James. U are loved🙏
@islamiyyahnaallah1916 2 жыл бұрын
Alabosi
@francisadodo9399 7 ай бұрын
@@evelynejeka7182I'm jesus's PA
@irenetonyin4385 Жыл бұрын
He prayed to God to make him a star and he got what he requested for. Many more blessings to come, the sky is the limit.
@fisayoagunbiade 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your life and struggles, James. It's incredible, your story and you deserve all the great things that are happening to you. You inspire so much
@mariankwocha5242 2 жыл бұрын
I understand how you feel about your mom, most people are going through the same thing, we have the same story
@otuokpaikhianpetereromosel1531 2 жыл бұрын
Inspiring all the gays, nonsense
@RealityStand 2 жыл бұрын
@@otuokpaikhianpetereromosel1531: Gay are still human and shares same blood with other humans. I was discriminating against them before but I have outgrown such hate, no human is perfect. Them being gay doesn't means their world has ended, Michael Jackson, Barack Obama, Steve Job the inventer of IPhone was gay. If you found out your child is gay, will you kill him or accept him? Learn to accept what you can't change. Hate won't change anything but love wins. We are all humans. If someone behavior and attitude towards me is very good, I would care if he is gay as long as he didn't cross boundary.
@donaldmag8998 2 жыл бұрын
@@otuokpaikhianpetereromosel1531 his not a gay but cross dresser.
@LADYJACKSON 2 жыл бұрын
“I knew me being in London will go viral, because Nigerians saw me as trash “ James just pointed why no matter what anyone, life throws at you. Defy that storm cus they’re 10 billion hoping, watching, betting and fight that you fail. James is an ICON!!
@cocobutterchin6768 Жыл бұрын
Some of us are still struggling with what happened to us when we were younger in the hands of our own close family members
@Psychehealthymindhub 2 жыл бұрын
You're enough James, love you
@BlessingAdachukwu 2 жыл бұрын
Great interview, inspiring and educational. Don't judge people because you don't know their story
@wisdomemmanuel6665 2 жыл бұрын
Ah this guy pass through alot oo💔😭
@akinyemiseyi8144 Жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed this interview
@Beebaby8254 2 жыл бұрын
His family messed him up real bad. He needs therapy and I pray God heals everything that is broken in him.
@tosingbla2652 Жыл бұрын
Amennnn
@michellemutuda5010 2 жыл бұрын
Authenticity is something we now lack abeg that’s a free soul he deserves more blessings stay true to yourself and do what makes you happy whoever is judging JB you irrelevant it’s funny how people judge it’s a shame my question is are you God his journey was way too rocky but glad he made it keep winning n shine through out love you soooo much
@Abebi07 2 жыл бұрын
I would love to read James Brown's story...the struggles from the horses mouth💯
@garthybrookens4839 2 жыл бұрын
Never Judge people Until you know their story. This was the interview we needed. i'm Happy for James brown and his success..
@Royalilsbraids 2 жыл бұрын
So fun to watch, so eloquent. Just love him
@lotus9259 2 жыл бұрын
James my dear, you have risen above all your adversaries. Keep on rising. Love from the Caribbean💜💜
@osereosime7309 2 жыл бұрын
This guy passed through alot
@amandinetk1231 2 жыл бұрын
I have learnt a lot from this video… look beyond what you see in people.
@georgemankind6020 2 жыл бұрын
Jude knows how to handle a good conversation with anybody on earth. Nice one James Brown.
@MeetAda1 2 жыл бұрын
Ó⁹ ⁿi8iìii⁹
@Blessing_tv 2 жыл бұрын
This was literally the best interview of the year, love it!🥰 You people should be calling me her first keed me😂😂😂😂😂
@TakeATrip. 2 жыл бұрын
James is actually proper funny! Her transparency and sincerity is quite inspiring. And she is her own biggest fan!
@mrrocrocmoney3924 2 жыл бұрын
Which her? 😂.. hypocrites
@mrrocrocmoney3924 2 жыл бұрын
I pray your son changes to a her in Jesus name Amen
@RealityStand 2 жыл бұрын
@@mrrocrocmoney3924: Hahahaha OK we will use he-she.
@yemiadebisi8732 2 жыл бұрын
Literally 😂😂😂😂😂
@travelwithchioma2549 2 жыл бұрын
Justice for literally.....😂 Your sucess story is amazing
@chiomaodoemelam9870 2 жыл бұрын
Literally!
@agboolaoluwabunmi9710 2 жыл бұрын
Just start with the her😂😂😂😂
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