FACTS! I remember when the in thing was “I don’t live by a label” and here we are 20 years later. Pushing to be the 1000% opposite.

The difference is most of those 2021 label seekers were born after 2001.

Sooooo freaking true!!!!!

2100: "My Citizen ID Label is IW-732, Gender MD-2, Sexuality B-2 and my Occupational Licensure is Cosmetics Rank C. Please stamp my citizen ID to confirm to the authorities we've spoken today." Citizen 2: "What are we doing.....can we even say we're happy?" Citizen 1: "What is happy, Neighbor?"

Earth was sucked into a alternate dimension through a micro-singularity in 2012.

Agreed -JACK

True

Just wait until they call themselves Fridaysexual because they only have sex in a Friday

They are turning the whole thing in to a huge joke.... It's getting to the point where there are so many labels people will start disregarding them all together because it's way too constant..... It's getting stupid.

@@iel8797 With all due respect, you say this in jest, but things like 3:13 were deemed a joke some time ago so i'm not sure for how long this comment will remain a joke.

Yup

for realz

Literally!!! I remember that was like the “in” thing was not attaching labels to people.

It seems they just feel lost so they try to fit in somewhere by putting labels on themselves to be included somewhere. That‘s my best guess🤔

Thank you, I totally remember and seriously miss those days!! The labels today are just killing me!

What does it even mean?

@@niklasvilhelm7247 Anyone that doesn't identify as man. I'm tempted to just say women, though.

@@Slowed--plus--Reverb anything that is not a man is a woman

@@Slowed--plus--Reverb the interest part is that you dont want to identify as a man, but the label itself contain the word man hahaha

So she'd date me if I identified as a non man eh

It's the part where other people take them seriously instead of the brush-off they're supposed to get that scares me. If we can't discern real things from a crazy person screaming they're a crow-sexual, stuff that shouldn't be normalised might slip in through the cracks. The push that sexual orientation is fluid is already concerning, and the inability to differentiate between an orientation and a fetish is disturbing. You can't even opt for no label because they labeled that too😭

And there's about the same amount of substance and credibility behind both.

Ask your terrified doctor if SapioNonBinaryCisHateNapileonMermaniaFurryKinSexualiry is right for you. Symptoms may include making smug TikTok videos. Acting as if this is the key to your life, before finding a new label from an anime you like the next day & yelling at everyone for not knowing the new label. And being a confused jack ass for social media clout. You may also lose one, nonbinary both, or all of your genitals.

Hahahah like a pharma commercial I can’t hahahaha

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😂😂 fact, idk what is happening but these people are so self obsessed it's insane. They are so privileged they have convinced themselves they aren't.

Same I just a regular straight girl who has anime crush. 🧍🏾‍♀️

Back in my lonely angry teen years where I felt like no one liked me, I know that all too well.

Same

I used to have a crush on Trent from Daria back in the late 90's. My bff had a crush on Jane. ...and as far as celebrities, who tf HASN'T had a crush on at least one somewhere throughout their lives?? That's just called fantasizing a bit, NOT an "LGBT" thing. Jesus, this crap has gotten beyond insufferable. 🙄😑

Exactly

Exactly

Meh... That's old-school thinking hon. Not allowed to have those opinions anymore. Like remember when we were taught to be colorblind and not look at skin color? Well that's literally considered racist and regressive now. I mean, shit, our schools are starting to re-segregate based on race again, by claiming it's anti-racism. Yey "progression!!" 🎉

THANK U!!

@@Anne_Onymous Well, we did look at color in terms of a broad category that might expose systemic issues. Now, they just change expose to impose.

AH, but then those people aren't special enough (yes that was sarcasm)

This needs a million likes

Their hobby is making up and collecting fake labels.

Same. I'm a late 20s cis straight woman with 1 oppression point for being a POC. I support LGBTQ people but can't stand this performative, ultra-fake wokeness. Esp as an immigrant from a country where sexism is rife and gender roles are rigid. Is there no home for us? I can't stand the other side either with Steven Crowder and Fox News.

I mean, I'm a 33-year-old lesbian who taught myself how to make soap. I just can't even try to relate with these people.

I'm a 50-something Husband and father...and I just want to find these idiot's mothers and just ask them point blank just how many times did they drop their children on their heads...or did their children just like bouncing their heads on walls like they were basketballs being used by the Globetrotters...

These are uninteresting people who want so desperately to join the lgbt movement without being lgbt. I think it's homophobic, because they aren't trying to be the average gay person, they want to be the super stereotypical gay person homophobes came up with in the 80's.

"Do you have a stable, present father?" "No."

@@leogol6045 "Do you have a brain?" "What's a brain?"

10/10 for this comment

I cant even finish this video, the woke explanations make me cringe.

@@tubester4567 I am right there with you. I have shut off a lot of videos recently because the world just stopped making sense. The struggle is real.

Not in their circles at least.

The Organization of Hermaphrodites is upset with that definition...

@@vocexseta that's...I mean, being inclusive is great but it feels like it's erasing a group to make room for other groups.. I am so glad we don't have that here..yet

@@KatzeDerNacht22 You have hit on what makes this political movement different from many others. It doesn't just add new meaning to words, it tried to make any previous meanings now "wrong". It doesn't just add new voices to the table, it tries to actively suppress any voices it disapproves of. It doesn't just include more people, it traffics in exclusion as well. It talks about love when it's trying to portray itself as morally superior, but adherents in reality post a LOT about who they are hating on. I hope the wave will break before it gets to your location. It's not evenly distributed in the US or the UK either tho - it's far stronger among the cultural elites than in the masses, very much a top-down movement.

Nope! Right back under the patriarchal umbrella we go!

exactly

Yes! This is what happens when overly-educated people get bored 😑

At first, I laughed, because the comment is ironic and amusing. Then I realized; OMG it's true!

This comment is amazing. And really defines the evolution of everything related now to sexuality and gender.

They're turning thing into french lol overcomplicating things lol

Oh, now we have to try to catch up with new nomenclature, screw that I say, I’m not changing anything I say with crazy pronouns for anyone and that’s my God given right. 😀

Amen!

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I know right. They always have a holier than thou attitude and if you're over 30 you are to be dismissed as a "boomer". Well I am not a baby boomer but I served on a boomer... en.wikipedia.org/wiki/USS_Florida_(SSGN-728) (well, she is an SSGN now but before being converted, when I was assigned to her 1999-2002, she was a boomer.)

Most children are pretentious little twerps I thank you for articulating that in a better way than I could have.

@Solitude Standing11 So right! 👏👏👍👏👏

Don’t the majority of us aren’t this, these people are a minority lowkey yet to meet one

@@bearythebear69 yea like I know maybe one or two people that are like this but unfortunately they are the loudest and most in your face on social media so people think it’s the norm and it’s conditioning those to young to know who or what they are

@@bearythebear69 I feel bad for them too - but what I mean are some of the younger ones growing up on social media and having this loud minority as role models. When I think back about my own confusions and struggles, I suspect I would have gotten fairly messed up trying to find myself within the social pressures of today.

@@sexyworm1000 the reality is they probably are the complete opposite irl, the internet is a place where you can be whoever you want. Personally, when I was younger just a couple years ago I was confused VERY CONFUSED about who I was, my life and why everything was happening, the Internet was a safe place. I tried finding answers and with the logic I had back then, it was easy for me to believe labels are the answers.. most of the kids here, confused about who you are, don’t worry about it . Don’t worry about your image, what’s cool or trendy fuckin DELETE TIK TOK it does not help you and just keeps u in this little bubble..

Just enjoy ur life, life isn’t about labels. we’re all gonna fucking die as a skeleton

Underrated comment

exactly. tiktok isn't the real world.

Brains aren’t fully developed until we reach the age 24-27 so hopefully by that time they will have some life experiences as well as some help so they can figure out there trauma and pain. Labeling each aspect of your character is an internal journey that stops the moment you give that power away to the world.

You are more optimistic than me. I hope you're right.

Not all Young people are lost. We deserve to be heard. As you people who claim to be fully developed sure can filter the dumb young people and the great non lost young people

@@Abcdefghijajajaja The brilliant young minds need to speak up more. Stupidity is loud and insufferable.

Yep yep yep. Thank you

yup. its a fear of intimacy and relationships it is a struggle to deal with it turning it into a "sexuality" is dangerous imagine turning those who like to have sex on meth as a sexual orientation

Bingo

We truly live in the darkest timeline.

Definitely. I used to be on Tumblr during that time and it was no different than what I see on Twitter and TikTok these days. I already thought people on Tumblr were nonsensical what with all the made-up genders but I never thought it'd become so mainstream. We're doomed lol.

What the heck IS tumblr? I always think of coffee or tinder when I hear it.

the older ones pray on the youngers ones. The older ones are grown up and got a life, and they like young people. It is called 'grooming'.

@@sabineford1877 prey

Agreed. It’s normal adolescence behaviour to rebel against everything, want to feel special and part of something, get irrationally angry at any thing really. But I have to wonder about the adults getting involved. I can’t help but feel their intentions are not pure.

The older ones never grew up and never got a life. Now they see they can be a part of something and be “somebody”. They found that attention they lacked and wanted as a young person and are a part of a “community” of like minded fools.

Im scared they will never grow out of this phase because it’s become a sort of civil rights movement.

You clearly aren’t gay enough for gay females , sorry but perhaps you have to accept that maybe they don’t trust you cos they may fall for you and you much prefer the D. Hell when you’ve finished bashing the gay community we have it harder than you to find love , you can float anytime you like into heteronormativity!!

Gold tier comment.

Yes! I couldn’t say it better.. how about the American flag that’s my flag 🇺🇸

Schrodinger (I totally butchered that I know) cats of sexualtiy. One may be in every box but no one can know which one. Ha ha

It's currently the main tool of the Marxist takeover (the war). We have an entire generation of young people now who are entirely confused about reality- which makes them fantastic candidates for brainwashing.

Might want to archive it all because Marxists are already trying to gaslight our history textbooks.

@Get Real a lot of people are without purpose in their lives, or have failed to fit some strict cultural expectation without any room for failure, rebelli g against the system seems to be the natural response. Problem is the elites make it worse.

@Get Real I noticed this all the way back in the 1970s, and it's continued unabated, ever since. In the '70s, it was all these people "doing their own thing," and with the long hair, blue jeans and paisley, it was like a UNIFORM! They all looked the same. Punk came along, later, and the mohawk hair, body piercings and such started out as a statement, but ended up just like everybody else, and people wore the uniform like armor, to hide their actual insecurities. These extremes are all an attempt to set yourself apart by outward appearances, which shows a lack of actual self-worth, a lack of individual identity that most of us acquire by our ACHIEVEMENTS.

Yuri Bezmenov would probably have something to say about this.

Humans are programmable.

This

This 💯

Ever see those people with 1,000 buttons on their jackets and stickers all over their belongings? Same idea. They don't want to put the effort into human communication, or face the risk of rejection that goes with it, nor do they want to acknowledge that everyone (namely them) can't have everything or be everything. They're just greedy.

BUMP

Pretty much what I just tried to say, too. When you're secure your self, your abilities and accomplishments, you don't need to go around "Hey look at me! Look at me!" You don't NEED that, and what's more, you don't have TIME for that, or for the people who are influenced by the trappings. Substance > trappings, and people know this, deep down.

Exactly, thanks!

this is definetly the "i need to be unique and special" issue. this generation grew up constantly hearing how they are special and different, but grow up and realize that, oh shit, I'm not the only one that likes (insert hobby/sexual orientation/Gender/literally anything) and then they feel lost. but whenever this comes up I always think of "once everyone is super, than nobody will be."

HARD hard!

^^ Gen X here. People used to pick up a musical instrument to appear exciting and interesting. Rolling my eyes 360 degrees for sure

I work with the military and to be fair these people aren’t exactly the type to join.

As a Millenial I'm appalled these freaks get airtime to spout their idiocy.

@Aeru self knowledge is internal. It stays inside, and you dont expect others to have to keep up with it. you don’t need to take PERSONAL GROWTH and tile over it with language. Doing so takes away from the actual DIRECT, felt experience of being present and human. If it werent a social identity, these people wouldnt bother sharing it with others. It’s okay to indulge in escapism but know where the lines of reality are drawn and don’t expect other to participate in your fantasy and internal dialogues.

@Aeru Good points. Especially self-chosen labels vs those applied by others. #2 is another way of saying "youthful exploration of self as it manifests in this era", something most will outgrow. One thing which I find interesting however is that there seems to be a tendency towards framing everything as social justice, rather than owning it as personal choice. So rather than saying "This is how my psyche works, this is what I like and dislike, how I feel", there is a tendency to create a group identity label with which to affiliate (hoping others will join and validate your identity), and to lecture the world (from a place of moral superiority as a mis-understood tiny minority) about the correct meaning. I find that less healthy in several ways, but the proof will be in the in pudding: we will see if it results in mentally healthy productive adults down the road or not. Let me illustrate my concern with a real world example. Somebody in one of my (huggy) social circles decided that they didn't want others to stoop down when giving them a hug (an optional practice which most of the shorter folks DO want and appreciate). Rather than make a personal request for something else for themselves, they brought it up to the group by labeling such stooping for a hug as a "microaggression" serving to highlight a person's shortness and thus marginalization. Now it's a matter of making people "wrong" for doing it, asserting that so doing is a grievance and thus violates the (newly asserted) tribal norms. It inhibits genuine empathy, and substitutes "correct behavior". I see something similar here. Rather than saying "I don't tend to be attracted to people until I feel there reciprocal attraction", a young person is taught (via modeling) that one needs to create a group identity with a label, then identify as a member of that newly invented group. Identities are sacrosanct after all, especially small minorities. Can young folks not have individual pesonalities with a customized set of traits any more? Does ever personal trait need to be validated as a group "identity" to be real?

To quote Blaire White: All I am hearing is, "I have no job. I have no hobby. I have no personality."

Or maybe their parents bully them and they have no clue what love is.

That’s the thing, they don’t hate labels.

Same

It's tiring. If you decide to care about any of these topics, it's at your peril

@@MikeBarbarossa thank god I don't follow this and social media

Sooo fucking true in high school in 2000s I just remember the phrase "don't label me" was common. And now it's just insaneeeee

I miss the 90s when everyone was sane and telecommunications was new to the pleebs and we were still using the BBS. Back then the dream was to use computers and technology to connect the world so we could all communicate in a new way, who knew it would lead to this tik tok bullshit.....

Try going back a few more decades, sexually attracted to cartoons, time to see a therapist. All these people sound like they’re under a certain age and immature.

This could be the comment of the entire debate never mind video... dayumm take a bow

@@amyfox5191 thank you , thank you , hahaha I was wondering if that would make sense to anyone else

@@squabknob almost too sensible but still I think you might be on to something here x

This wouldn’t surprise me, they’ve been stuck trying to figure out who they are with almost no positive or negative guidance and now just make up nonsense to feel some sense of stability. Easier to slap an arbitrary identifier on their forehead than truly address the trauma.

Its hard to date when people label them selves and only socialize within their label.

They're asexual because they say they're asexual. I'm pretty sure that's how it works. You say it, it's true.

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It's tortuous to endure. There's a - self professed - autogynophile, who is also a linguist smh hr found himself lost, in a sauce of disorder & meaning. - he now realizes the social labyrinth, that's been created 🙄 and wants to help kill the beast he helped splice, together. It is supremely, frustrating.

I think she meant to bring it back to the real definitions of words, but I do think saying we need to "redefine" sounds as bad as what these xyz label people say when THEY say they want to redefine words

I too am a white man 58 years old. Isn't this mind boggling? LMAO

Calculus is easier to memorize. Because it makes logical sense. This is just a huge mess...

they dont realize how much theyre hurting our community!

So how would you distinguish inventing micro-identities from a hobby? 🙄 Maybe you mean a healthier hobby... for all of us.

For myself, my daughter came out as gay last year and it's left me torn. I support her 100% but she's now part of a community that I don't feel comfortable supporting because of where it's headed and the ideology it's been hijacked by. I feel that by actively supporting LGBT movement, I'm also enabling the politics in some way, something I believe to be dangerous and harmful and against my values. I wish there was a separation between just being gay, bisexual or trans, and the politicising of sexuality and transgenderism, which is the thing I can't get behind. At the same time, I don't want to make my daughter feel that I don't support her by openly rejecting the LGBT movement for the activism aspect of it. She is young and I fear she would misunderstand my position. I think this dissonance is something a lot of people who do support LGBT rights feel when it comes to supporting the movement these days. The community itself is so ideologically divided now that I feel that it would be better and less confusing for it to separate into different groups with different goals anyway.

@@loud6037 I hear how you are torn. Some unrequested suggestions. Remember that most regular LGBT people are not the crazy fringe, they're just folks. I would prioritize supporting your daughter over expressing your dislike of the activist community. I think we are heading for some degree of reckoning, where the excesses of certain political subcultures are going to bring down their standing and power. For one thing, more and more long term liberals are becoming disenchanted with the radicals - sometimes when they find out that ANY dissent from the narrative brings down nasty repercussions - they get to see the ugly underbelly of neo-progressivism when it come for them. And they start to feel some empathy for others who have been targeted for not being sufficiently dogmatic. Many even avoid "the community" as understood by activists (ie; a community including only other activists). She may know that you are not very supportive of the strategies of some LGBT activists, but keep it low key and distinct from your support of her. At some point, she may begin to see the cracks herself, and realize that she is ready to talk more with you - without needing to eat crow based on previously feeling a need to defend them from your dislike. In other words, don't push her, don't force her to harden her beliefs into dogma because she feels attacked by you. And feel free to ignore all this; you know your daughter better. I'm just writing because I've seen and heard of some well meaning efforts that went south by being too confrontational, before the other person was ready to hear.

Very much so, people that identify as gender fluid make no sense when gender is looked upon as a social construct and they rebel against social norms. So to say that one is gender fluid makes absolutely zero sense, I’ve heard people say well I’m gender fluid because some days I feel like really crying and women are emotional. Ok, but isn’t that a social construct that women only cry and men aren’t supposed to?. Just utterly stupid.

@@cicolasnage5684 I'm a man (I REFUSE to use the term "cis") and I get emotional and cry sometimes. Yep. Utterly stupid. I always want to say, "Claiming something is a social construct is a social construct."

@@cicolasnage5684 It makes perfect sense that gender might be fluid. Their definitions allow for it to be possible. If they see genders purely as sets of social norms, stereotypes on personality and preferences, then it is normal that one can feel comfortable being once "a man", other time "a woman". If you seperate being a female from being a woman, then you can have gender fluidity as much as you want.

@@hyawill8944 Sorry Charlie, your labyrinth pop psychological definitions collapse under its own weight just like the rest of nonsense labels. It still makes zero sense when it’s socially constructed that only women cry or feel emotional or men feel... whatever it is men do. Those are social constructs.

@@cicolasnage5684 Yes, it is quite idiotic. I don't agree with such a concept, but it is consistent. Women cry. Now I am crying therefore I am a woman currently. Later I will dominate my coworker in a discussion. Men dominate. Therefore I will be a man. See, gender fluidity. Nonsense, but consistent with their definitions.

Bingo...no skills, hobbies or RESPONSIBILITIES!

Don't worry a fork in this timeline will occur soon. Probably will not be fun, but at this point who cares lol.

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Much of what you say makes sense. I'd like to hear more about why you think you think that there is so much power in "the social expectations that a male-dominated society places on us" today? I'm not questioning that there are pressures, what I'm asking is how male dominated society really is today, in terms of everyday life (99.99+% of us are not going to be a big CEO or supreme court justice or president, regardless of sex). I perceive a lot of the pressures as coming from other women. For example, a LOT of women's fashion appears to be about impressing or competing with other women, not men. Women today select their partners and mates at least as much as men do. There are nearly half again as many women as men in college. At least around here, there's a lot of support for "girls in STEM", for those who want it. A great deal of legislation has made family court very woman friendly. Please do not impute to me anything about saying men are the real victims or anything silly like that; that is not what I'm saying. I'm saying that overall, for ordinary folks, the "system" today seems to give advantages to women in as many ways as it gives advantages to men, and often gives advantages to neither. The featured young women on TikTok seem to be largely influenced by other females, less by men or "male dominated society". Their behavior does not seem aimed at pleasing men, nor does it benefit men. Nor does it benefit the young women themselves, in their relations with men - tho it might affect their relations (of status or friendship) with other "non-men". Why does this matter? Well, it's not intended to "defend men", so much as to avoid convenient - but inaccurate - scapegoating, BECAUSE if you obsess on an overly simplistic or outdated blame target, you get no traction on the real causes of a problem. It's like the police being so obsessed with "the usual suspects" that they stop looking for the real perp. So I'm questioning whether the traditional targeting is based on a deep or shallow understanding of the mechanisms causality in today's reality. (And of course, men and women both will be relevant).

Male dominated society? 90% of trans in this country are trans woman (born biological male). If this society is so male dominated why do men become women? Because it's an easier life with less expectations and to be looked at as the fairer sex.

“Male dominated “ society? I honestly don’t think that’s true of today’s culture at all. Ever cultural pressure is about the empowered woman- all the movies are female remakes, all the advertisements aimed at strong women, all the songs and lyrics, our current vice president, the absolute worship of pro-choice… This current culture for women coming of age is not at all male dominated, in fact it is quite female dominated!

@@zephsmith3499 A very well articulated response. It's a shame that this doesn't actually get more info out of the OP, my guess is they're threatened by informed articulate responses so you won't hear another word from them.... EVER... Rinse, wash repeat.... This is what it's like living in 2021

Disturbingly accurate

Thats because we didn’t stop after B.

Eehhhhh don’t make me analyze my relationship history like that Such a bummer

I remember when it was normal to not feel "in the mood" fir a day or two and it was just "not being in the mood". Now it's being "asexual today" and having a today's pronoun sticker on your forehead.

People had personality. Now they make up their personality.

What about Asexual?

How dare you call out 15 year old me! 🤣 However I never tried calling myself a vampire, it was just a fun romantic fantasy. Imagination has basically gone wild now

@@jwolf5604 Calling myself out too! Hell, there's a bit of Don Quixote in many of us, but that doesn't mean we need to scream our delusions out to the rest of the world.

ouch

@@radubradu yeah, gut punch right to the ego.

It’s as I used to say, “You’re unique. Just like everyone else.”

That's true to a point. The difference is that GenX and Boomers basically told our parents "Hey, you don't understand us.. let us do things our way as you do things your way." The 90s and later crowd be like "We do things our way.. and YOU'RE gonna do things our way too! We demand that you obey and conform."

Exactly. Because tradition is the result of thousands of years of tried and true evolution of realizing what works and what doesn't. Case and point, there is a big influx of women deciding to be stay at home moms especially when their children are younger and they receive push back from society and men as well who are quite used to sharing the financial work load. But there are many spaces where these conversations are being had and people are realizing that throwing out tradition all together might just be throwing out the baby with the bath water.