I have mixed feelings about this content. Jonna is a man. You say you value honesty, yet you lie about that basic fact. Would you sleep with him? I'm betting no.

You stand to lose more than you gain, when validate them.

I don’t love the idea that (according to you) a man making an “effort” - to present as a woman - is well within his right, to call himself as lesbian. He’s a MAN, he can NEVER be a woman/lesbian. There comes a point, when you must decide whether you want to entertain delu$ion - for the sake of being kind - at the risk of losing everything... or stand on the side of reality and preserve our identity/spaces.

its great your getting this info out there but that was a confused explaination - Blanchard says autogynophiles can become gender disphoric

Both of the dudes in the thumbnail are Males. Arielle, you are the only Female in this video. Joana talks and acts like an 'effeminate gay Male'.

Obsessed with themselves as something else. It's narcissism.

You are not alone

God knows. I came out at 14 in 2004, I’ve never been this obsessed with my sexuality. It’s only part of who I am, something that is a small part in my personality, which is made of lots of different parts. That’s how I’ve always been, and I genuinely can’t understand being this self obsessed where it’s your entire personality.

Nope. Not alone.

@@ZombieSazza thank you for your input, I support everyone in doing what is right for them I just feel like it isn’t good to make your sexuality your identity, seems unhealthy unproductive and a waste of time . They should Read a book about something other than your sexuality , learn an instrument , build something , write something , just stop giving your sexuality 100% ownership of your self. Anyway good on you for bot making it define you !

Trans man is ftm. Was born female transition to male

Everything...EVERYTHING eventually becomes corrupted by bad actors. There was a time when kids could play outside unsupervised. A time when houses didn't need locks. A time when medicines didn't need tampering seals. But the lax attitude was welcoming to those wanting to do harm. But that doesn't make those situations innately wrong.

@Milk Dud if you are implying that the majority of trans women are attracted to men, i.e., homosexual transsexuals, you are dead wrong. In 2010, Blanchard estimated that it was about a 75/25 split, with the 25 being HSTS. Now, it’s even less.

@@katieandnick4113 Look. Ladies are dope. Be one, be with one, grow old with one. Hell, grow old with a whole village worth of them.

@Milk Dud to each their own.

Let's not forget to add children, to that equation.

By that logic we shouldn't take anything the male psychologist says about autogynophilia seriously.

💯👌 this can only happen in a misogynist society

@Milk Dud I mean you can love your dog too, doesn't mean you see it as your equal or think it should have equal rights

@@alaes3570 the fact that you compared women to dogs is your own misogynistic tendencies coming out without you realizing

Recently been caused of invalidating trans and nonbinary people and their experiences. What really gets my goat is that I personally see them as people first and foremost, their sexuality and gender identity are perhaps the last thing that are on my mind, as that is not why I am around them in the first place. I just find the whole community thing to be more cult like than for actual support for people in general struggling with gender and sexuality issues. I understand much of what they go through and those I've talked to and interacted with have one thing in common in that many grew up in a narcissistic or cult like environment and seriously hate being taken advantage of by those who have something to gain from it. So have set up boundaries for the sole reason of growing up not having them and when those go up they get a lot of hate but sometimes if taken to the extreme end up on the other extreme where their boundaries are too high where they pretty much shut out anyone and everyone who so much as toes the line, creating an air of resentment towards not just that individual but to an entire community even. And that's what we're seeing more and more of today.

Right , most of gen z grew up on it and it didn’t affect us, we understood them. But now they are trying to replace us , so crazy

Let them call you whatever they want. It does not matter.

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Yea

No kidding.

I guess it's safe to say that South Park is definitely predictive programming. It's hilarious though.

@@lunamoth7044 My most favorite episode is when they went to music camp and discovered a tone that makes people shit in their pants and it went world wide.

PERIOD. Seriously leftists have gone to far jeeze

Love that man

He's a modern day god speaking up the way he does. I'd kiss his ass on the courthouse steps. I'd even give him 15 minutes to gather a crowd to witness it. Yep.

@Lana Anynamewilldo invite me, please

@@IDontKnow-pf6en Sure thing!

Or Katt Williams: "When somebody says 'youre messing up my self-esteem..' -- BITCH, it's called SELF-esteem and I don't have anything to do with it."

LOL! That guy is so into himself. I doubt it was hard to talk about being super in love with himself.

@@MiddlePath33 auto sexual transvestite

Dude for real. If that were me, the only person I’d tell would be a therapist.

@@MiddlePath33 as a man who suffered from AGP. Not life long. Just a big episode during my twenties, fueled by drugs, porn and toxic relationship with a woman. This shit eats you alive. Basically demonic possession. So yeah this guy is ultra brave.

Brave to tell the world knowing everyone is going to take the piss, trans women are going to bully him, bio women are going to mock him, his friends are going to be embarrassed by him. It's something most people wouldn't talk about or explain so hats off to him.

That’s what is exactly is happening 👏👏👏

As a transsexual who fully passes and is medically transitioned and attracted to men I agree. All these fetishy trans “lesbians” who dress like 14 year old girls creep me out and have completely erased any distinction between the types of people who can be labeled as “trans”. Use nuance. Most of us, especially the ones who like men, are harmless.

Well said

Right! Someone using people in public for their sexual fetish is a form of sexual assault.

It's like the colleges became so full in the 2000s that people started just making ish up to fill thesis pages. And then with academic legitimacy people thoight these theories were real and "capitalists" used these ideas to sell airtime and armchair psychologists picked up these terms and took them as gospel. I mean on one hand it makes sense because you can only write about so many topics before there's nothing new to say, but now it's gotten a bit ouroborosic.

Crossdressing is not necessarily a fetish. It can be, but the term encompasses a lot more people than the ones who do it for a fetish. Crossdressing is just dressing up as the opposite sex - not really going deeper into the reason why they dress as such.

I agree cross dressing is not always a fetish. Some men just like to wear women's clothing. It depends on how far they go, like if they do the hormones and surgery then their masquerading as a woman and it becomes a fetish.

False cd is only a wardrobe not body wise

An actual crossdresser are "straight men" that like wearing women's clothes. Nothing to do with fetish.

They resent lesbians for not wanting them. It's rapey to want to trick a lesbian into sex.

We all know Reddit is a China communist-owned echo chamber dwelled by a bunch of Lefties that are out of touch with the real world. Anything they don't like just gets banned. There is no free discussion or exchange of ideas.

That's because most of them on there did the same

It really is a shame, because, as I've gone through my gender transition, I have come to realize that AGP's are not "fake trans," they are just dealing with different issues. If they ghettoize all conversation about AGP, they will push people who have a perfectly valid erotic fetish, into making irreversible, painful, and destructive life choices. I can't get over the number of trans women I know who destroyed their families over transition. It's one thing if the male role is a source of constant pain, but if your femininity can be put away in the drawer with your sex toys, then don't push a person like that to transition. Reddit makes people feel like that's not valid, only totally lifestyle reversal is acceptable, and that's not fair.

@Camille sex work is probaby #1.

Autogynephiles have a high propensity for narcissism and can be incredibly abusive. I’m sorry you went through that. There are online support groups for trans widows.

And this is why female spaces need to stay female only .. I hope you’re ok & have support xz

@Milk Dud Your naivete speaks volumes

@Milk Dud My point exactly.

@@katieandnick4113 no they dont

thank u!

Oh yes, that would be really nice! Thanx!

Rational?

@@meandepiphany aware that their “transition” is body mods and not because the magical gender spirit that everyone has to obey is calling them

People dont use that term anymore? I hear people using "trans" all the time

Look up the subcategories of autogynephilia. It becomes SO clear once you read them.

Honestly it's more than a fetish, it is an orientation unto itself. It hits the parts of the brain responsible for love and affection, so the man begins to genuinely love and care for the female side of him. This often supersedes his own heterosexual impulses towards his wife, girlfriend, etc, leading to trans widows.

It’s a type of paraphelia

People can and do have gender dysphoria as a result of their AGP. We just aren’t allowed to talk about it

you "knew" it but where is the proof? kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bMmqhal92JuugaM.html

Arielle seems to be quite confused about autogynephilia. She seems to think that, if you pass well enough, that means you’re not AGP, when in fact, as far as AGPs go, the more they do to alter their appearance and the way they live their lives(medically transitioning and leaving their family, for example), the MORE autogynephilic they are than someone like the guy in this video, or you. I don’t know anything about the person sitting next to Arielle, but I would not be surprised at all if they are an autogynephile, and maybe they don’t even realize it. As far as trans women go, the split is about 80/20, AGP/HSTS. With all of the pornography very young boys are exposed to nowadays, combined with the cultural acceptance of trans, AGPs are transitioning younger and younger, so they are able to pass far better than AGPs of the past, who usually didn’t transition until they were in their late 40’s at least. By doing this video, Arielle certainly isn’t helping women; she’s pushing a false narrative that if you transition, that means you’re not an autogynephile. It’s ridiculous.

@@katieandnick4113 What a horrible way to view trans women

@@katieandnick4113 In my opinion she isn't entirely wrong to believe actual trans women are more likely to transition than someone who is agp. I dated someone who identified as mtf trans (mostly friend group indused belief) i asked him if he thought about transition and he wouldn't even research it but insisted he was a trans woman. Later he stopped identifying as trans but still likes the idea of being a woman dating a woman i do believe it was a kink of his more than anything. So my point is in this instance the willingness to transition was the tell sign.

I think Blanchard is trash, but he has a very important quote at 2:11: "Autogynephilia and transsexualism are NOT mutually exclusive." Saying someone is AGP in no way implies that they are not trans. If you have AGP, and experience gender dysphoria and feel like you'd have a happier life if you were a woman, you're trans. Too many trans women use AGP as a way to cop out of starting their transition. (Only to regret it later)

@@jdoe834 Ann Lawrence is for trying to identify males with severe AGP who would benefit from transition (not sure how that would be figured out).... and assisting them to delay/minimize masculinization the same as severely gender dysphoric HSTS males. Either should be recognized for SRS being greatly beneficial for their quality of life. But.... that would take some serious self knowledge and acceptance and transparency. I think as she looked back on her life, after she transitioned, she felt it would have made her life infinitely better. And... the AGP isn't a factor anymore after medical transition.

@Milk Dud so then why don’t you date one?

They also view u in public so what's the difference. What makes u think that. What if a woman don't want to be watched by a lesbian girl like u

@@edgarsanchez1869 it's easily more accessible to slide into DMs than it is to walk up to someone and talk. Also those apps are purposefully exclusive because of it

@@Taylor_mamaof2 they are not a lesbian

Block them ignore them move on Be happy.

I didn’t ask to be autogynephelic and I certainly don’t want to transition, I’m just trying to live a normal life. Just consider yourself lucky that you weren’t born with it and try to be more understanding.

I would give literally anything to be normal

Yes.. and he wastes away…

Yes!!!! This is true it is a form of narcissism…

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Bro why is that the only black mirror episode I watched cuz it was too weird

Not gonna lie that episode was weird but it was also intriguing. I wonder who all would have sex as the opposite sex just to find out what it was like? Who would be curious?

I see this a lot in roleplaying games and online stuff. I'll know someone that identifies as their born gender. They don't in any way act like the opposite sex. They'll get obsessed with a game where their avatar is the opposite gender, focus a lot on lesbian or gay sex in the game. After years of it, their main focus on the game is lesbian/gay sex instead of what the actual game is for... and they'll start saying they are transgender but still act, look, dress irl etc like their born gender. And it seems a lot more like a fantasy for rping gay sex. But also you can't say anything or point this out or people will get mad.

love that! if only these AGP dudes could keep it to virtual worlds, maybe we wouldn't have these issues.

​@Haydee Gloss I think what you do in the privacy of your home or with friends who are comfortable with it is your business. The only real issue with AGP folks is when they go out in public and are forcing others to participate in their fetish. A man wearing feminine clothing is public completely fine, clothing is just clothing, but it's when it becomes "woman" roleplay that others become a part of their fantasy whether they like it or not. That's my take, anyway.

It's also insulting for male people to call themselves women. That is such an insult...

Effort doesn’t matter. We will always see transwomen as men no matter what.

@@empressapache7413 yeah,we don t care about transphobes like you

@@alex.profi27 Yea, we don't care about AGP Males like you.

@Milk Dud U can’t tell real women how we view transwomen. Lol Male privilege at its finest. Failing as a male doesn’t magically make u a woman.

When asked what the hardest thing about being a woman is, Caitlyn Jenner answered "deciding what to wear". Womanhood is not fashion and it illustrates perfectly that they will only ever have a superficial understanding of the female experience.

@@jessam4875 I agree. Also, the fact that she did not identify as a homosexual prior to transition is also indicative of AGP. She was heterosexual as a man and continues to be attracted to women.

Caitlyn is 6”5”. Deciding what to wear is probably the most difficult thing. He is already a self made millionaire and Olympic gold medalist.

@@myrtle1234 yep. Caitlyn is a lesbian transwoman, very into *other* women. not autogynephilic as far as I know.

@@bostenlemaire6895 Males are not lesbians.

No. They aren’t busy.. they are busybody’s doing nothing.. god help us in 40 years.

First world country problems, LMAO

They don't.

Do you ever stop to wonder if they already have well enough paying jobs to afford the luxary of self reflection?

@@tempesttossed6029 Since so many of them are in college on parents' dime, I highly doubt that.

Nobody should be rushed into medical decisions. But the real issue here is informed consent. The WPATH standards of care make many recommendations regarding verification of gender dysphoria and minimum ages for hormones and surgery. But there is nobody enforcing the standards of care. You can walk into Planned Parenthood, tell them you're transgender, answer a simple questionnaire to demonstrate that you understand what hormones will do to your body, and get HRT. Even if you have major red flags that any competent psychological professional would want to address before considering endorsement for HRT.

I concur

Gatekeeping is key

I'm almost 30 and I'm with you.

Can you imagine the future?????

@@alainaruble163 its gonna be cool as fucc

ditto

Yeah because you were purposefully mixing transwoman with them

We sure did! I've been told that autogynephilia has been "debunked" yet they're quite happy to play along with Judith Butler's queer theory as gospel.

@Anni Runaway It is your fault.

There are plenty of better reasons to hate Radical Feminists, so I'm not surprised you guys didn't have people outside your ideology coming to your rescue.

@@ANPC-pi9vu There are lots of terfs who aren’t radfems.

Kudos to him for his honesty. This has to have been super confusing to work through. And hopefully it may help other lads feeling the same way.

I think the main problem is the gender ideology pushed by activists lately. That is what is causing confusion and people thinking they need to make their outside match their inside. In a sane society, he'd just look for a GF who has a fetish for feminization and cross dressing... they exist. Then they can have fun together. He's a good looking guy. Also, why do people think one must be gay to do crossdressing and drag these days? He could have a lot of fun in drag, or going to conventions in cosplay. He just needs to find where it's ok to express this side of himself so that he can connect with others who are into it. MG, I'm a JoJo's Bizarre Adventure fan, and you should see all the fanart of the more bara characters in women's lingerie and sexy feminine costumes and high heels and dresses and such... a lot of it drawn by women. He can be the dream guy for the galls who are into that.

@@ANPC-pi9vu all good points. And that's why he needs to reflect and know all of his options before making any permanent decision.

He’s better off than the ones who take hormones and get surgery. Hopefully, he can keep it somewhat under control.

@@katieandnick4113 Couldn’t agree more, I’m 18 with agp and his video is the only thing giving me any hope of a normal life. I didn’t ask to be like this. I certainly don’t want to transition, I’m just trying my best to live a normal life.

Couldn’t agree more. I’m 18 with agp and his video is the only thing giving me any hope of a normal life. I didn’t ask to be like this. I certainly don’t want to transition, I’m just trying my best to live a normal life.

@@GregSeath There aren't any normal lives mate, we're all fucking weird. Welcome to the human race. You have a kink that some people may not share or understand. Others will love you for it. And, you will be loved mate, have faith and be brave x

Look up the murderer Russell Williams. He had it. He would steal women’s underwear and take photos of himself wearing it.

The ones who transition do.

😂😂😂

Oh my word 🤣🤣🤣🤣

wouldnt voldemort turned into dressing as a woman

'Often this autogynophilia is paired with exhibitionism'. Any academic proof beyond your own subjectivity?

@@Verticaldiscourse I believe they are right. I am certain my husband has this and he gets off on being seen in public looking girly.

​@@Verticaldiscourseevery video with "transwoman" j*rking off in public, twitter and p*rnsites are full of them

Same here. Though sex is nice too. But trading all the sex I’ll ever have in my life for the ability to be myself is worth it

Then they’re not “straight”.

@@Woodman-Spare-that-tree why are they not straight? I believe my husband has this and am trying to get my head around it?

Big agree!

Beyond brave? Please some being so dramatic. Beyond brave is jumping in front of a bus to save someone or running into a burning building, or being in war.

I completely agree. Also he called himself a hetrosexual male (although he's not 100% sure.) I think it needs to be aknowledged that there are a lot of straight men who have autogynephilia, that it isn't an LGBT thing & they aren't trans women.

@@NotAnotherKuromi Time to add an A, I suppose?

You’re not his type. You’re not him 😂

too bad he is only into himself hihi

I agree.im pretty sure that's quite unusual.

Agreed. Hopefully he can handle the oncomibg backlash well and not hurt too much from it all. He should be happy with his introspection.

It's not courage it's narcissism.

I’m on the highwaaaaay to Hell

Narcissism is the key word.....all they think about is themselves!!!!

Agreed. I think this whole self love, obsession with identity and social media is literally making many of us into depressed people who develop narcissistic tendencies. We are the most privileged and yet most depressed people in the USA. Mental illness abounds. Simply we have too much time on our hands to obsess on the superficial. I don’t believe the answer is to love yourself more, maybe the answer is to stop obsessing about ourselves, and instead focus on what we can do outside of us. Like giving back to the world with our abilities, helping the less fortunate and investing quality time in our own household members. I’m also a believer (Christian) and Jesus tells me in the Bible to “deny myself” and that means to me a common sense approach to not being self obsessed. We can’t look to the cause of our issues as the solution, it makes no sense.

100%

Yeah. Narcissism for sure. If someone tells me they have to fantasize in a specific way about them self to even get turned on... Well...narcissistic.

woah

With old rp in the writers world, we had a lot of people coming into the RP community not even caring about their character/writing but more so getting straight to the smut. Which I understand but yeah, a lot of the time we are female being make characters and vis versa. It can get very immersive and addicting. But a lot of the time you do form relationships with these other writers and RP’ers. And I can imagine it being a problem in someone’s life. It can easily take over and become dysphoria. I can definitely say around this time it really triggered a part of me that made me think wow, “would I be happier if I was a male satisfying a female?” But here it’s somewhat different. I think in this philia it’s sexual arousal at the thought of you being the opposite like your genitalia. Not necessarily being the opposite and getting fucked and fucked with**** very different. This philia is more of the idea of being sexually aroused at the idea of yourself being THAT body type you know? It’s different when you’re roleplaying and enjoying the idea of being a girl when you’re not, and a guy when you’re not or a dog when you’re not or ….you know?? Hope that explains it better

I'd wager that most men have a degree of AGP, it's totally normal. Those kinds of themes have been very common in media for a long time.

I think once it devolves into degradation that's where I draw the line. People have no dignity anymore.

I dont think transition works for anyone.in the long run and if it does it helps such a god damn small portion of people that it shouldnt be handed out like candy the way it is.(hormones) most transwomen" are autogynophiles.

Now that makes sense to me. (I probably wouldn’t have posted my long question if I’d seen this comment first! Lol) Thanks!

Yes!!! My husband thought he was gay/bi because he is turned on by male private areas, however he is not turned on romantically, emotionally or secksually by the male body and men in general, in fact men turn him off as much as any other hetero guy. After exploring this phenomenon, he understood it was simply a kink. He hasn’t found a name for it though

I'm a transwoman and I agree with you

@@joeblogs5858 ur husband is probably gay 💀

@@XxAshaWxX 🤣

If you don't have the words to describe how you feel then you SHOULD be looking up terms and self reflecting to describe what you can as succinctly as possible.

Or not even AGP as much as true misogynists that this is their way of getting off and hurting women. They get off on hurting women.

I'm trying to bring back the term "transsexual." AGP's and NB's don't want to be called transsexuals, but I don't mind it at all, it seems to fit me. They would rather use "Transgender" which, for all practical purposes, means nothing at all. If you make a mistake with the clippers, you're transgender now.

​@@sarsarsvintagejewelry God, I wish I could refute your statement. The trans women I've known all my life were never like this, but now, I see this rage, this anger in the trans community that didn't exist ten years ago. It's just so... masculine. But my own trans sisters won't call out this nonsense, and it's destroying our social status. Who would trust any of us now?

​@@silentstarlight3322 You are based as hell, Kate P. Please don't take this post as trying to start a fight, I just wanted to comment on one aspect of your post. I don't disagree with you at all, you have obviously been doing research and introspection, which, to me, is a sign that you have been looking for answers, not seeking excuses to make your own 'choices.' I think that is one of the truths of an HSTS, we seek to know what is going on inside us, because we have the dilemma of knowing it's not normal, while knowing it's not going away. I hesitate to call AGP's "fake" or "not real," though, because their situation is real, and shaming them with negative language is part of the reason they are causing so many problems. We feel like being HSTS is unavoidable nature, while AGP is an act of will. I'm not convinced they have a choice. No one minds the furries because generally they limit their fetishistic expression to places where appropriate, while AGP's feel they must inhabit a woman's social space in the real world to be 'legitimate.' I personally would rather the gamestop tranny got all dolled up at home and jerked it, than going into a store and guy-raging on store employees. Social pressure to be female/trans instead of being comfortable with your fetishes is not good for anyone. I really think we should try to normalize AGP as what it is, a legit fetish. Personally, I have gone back to describing my self as transsexual, not transgender, because there is a valuable specificity there. I'd use "HSTS," but no one has a clue what that means. In fact, my whole point here is probably too esoteric for the majority of people, but I hope we can find some way to solve this problem of lumping so many different types of people together. It's hurting us all so badly. Love you, love yourself!

@@silentstarlight3322 She’s close though. Thanks for your account

Naw it's normal, and it isn't really a fetish so much as a typical response.

You like being dominant... that's not so out of the ordinary! But... do you get aroused at imagining yourself as an actual man?

​@@michellestamper5527no its not tipical🗿

It’s George who dates the woman who looks like Jerry

She’s attracted to men, thus she cannot be autogynephilic

@@MrAfrodisiakOo And if he disclosed private feelings of dysphoria would Arielle be taking it down and apologising profusely to this Genuine Transwoman? No mention of gender "euphoria" in this video either, and the guest seemed conveniently clueless 🤷🏿‍♀️

@@MrAfrodisiakOo "dragged a person unrelated" Jesus, stop being offended for others and get a life. I highly doubt he gives a damn if his pic is in a thumbnail.

Hurt feelings hurt feelings. Why are you people obsessed with hurt feelings? Have you never been really hurt so that hurt feelings is some horrible thing to you?

AGP is just a fetish. The ones who do it in public and force their way into women only spaces are sexual predators. Keep it in the bedroom with consenting adults, or on forums and events for the purpose, and it's not a problem.

@@ANPC-pi9vu it’s a paraphilia, not a fetish.

I never made the choice to be like this. I’d give anything to be normal.

@@GregSeath first of all you did make the choice prior to incarnating. If you feel you are in the wrong body that is because you are in a different gendered body than you were used to incarnating into as a human. This is a normal response. You are learning how to operate a different gendered body and how to move through society in that new body experience. It usually takes three incarnations before you will acclimate. You are on the path to become a Singularity which means you have integrated both genders together and can now choose from a wider variety of incarnation learning lessons. Keep moving forward.

@@cassandraelliot7878 Ok believe what you want to believe, but I don’t think that I was born into the wrong body or whatever. I’m more than happy being a male and couldn’t be paid to transition to a female. All I know is that I for some reason, myself and others, feel aroused by the thought of inhabiting a female body and I am incapable of feeling aroused from the idea of sex.

@@GregSeath It is not a belief, it is something that I know from being aware prior to incarnating. Now that you have explained your situation, all I can write is that I sincerely wish you good luck with your lesson.

@@cassandraelliot7878 cheers bro

Do people like that actually get any dates? Because I'm gorgeous in comparison. Maybe I should try it.

@@trublgrl yeah some get dates, but you’ve got to sift through hundreds of men just to find one woman, so it’s a lot of work

@@ZombieSazza Not a problem, I'm looking for a fella anyway. I'm not even picky. He can be beautiful and poor or ugly and rich, I like both kinds!

I know two women who are hirsute and rock their beards/mustaches well.

Serious question, because I know of this condition, but I'm not well versed on it. Can women with this condition get something like laser hair removal or electrolysis, or is it not effective in permanently removing the hair? I'm honestly just curious.

@@mmontes15 Another thing to add on to Lalogue's comment is that hormones can trigger new hair growth anyway (idk if it's creating new folicles or revitalizing the old ones though? i'm guessing the former). Pregnant women often see basically a reversal of the laser hair removal because of the surge in hormones. As well as certain colors don't see great results, for example if you have pale skin and blonde hair it's a lot less effective than pale skin with black hair.

@@mmontes15 Electrolysis is not one hundred percent effective at removing all hair permanently. It is still highly efficient, just not as much so as laser hair removal. Both kinds of treatments are painful, and require multiple visits. It can clear a large area of most hair, most of the time, which can be great for at least minimizing how much shaving, or waxing/tweezing, would need to be done if one wanted a bare face.

Yes!

He didn’t seem resentful, being jealous of someone can eat at you so someone who can’t get off because they don’t have a vagina (or a penis) may act resentful I suppose. There may also be some men on those sites who just want to sleep with a lesbian for whatever reason. I suspect there are a lot of reasons why trans people could be resentful and confused biology and psychology are both extremely complex subjects and I suspect both are having different effects on the different people.

@@glenecollins if you had dated any of them or done a little reasearch you wouldn't have to "suppose".

@Milk Dud do they go on gay or trans dating sites much? I have never heard any of the gay blokes I know even mention it. They don’t seem to have the same problems getting a date as the lesbians, trans and even straight people I know so perhaps the signal to noise ratio is just a lot higher? I do remember it was a thing in high school but the girls (as far as I know) never did anything about it. Dressing up in a suit or something to appeal to gay men also wouldn’t necessarily be as noticeable in society as a straight man wearing makeup and dresses or whatever to try to pick up lesbians. It may be noticeable online but there are some very feminine guys out there. I never used a dating site I have been married longer than they have really been popular and I am a straight male so I have only what my friends talk about to go on from a personal level. I am friends with a fair few lesbians and they have talked about people who purported to be trans women but who pretty obviously hadn’t done much to transition being fairly aggressive online. I used to be security for a gay and lesbian club and we did get drunk straight women either trying to sneak in (it was open to everyone who wasn’t intoxicated) or getting really offended because a gay bloke didn’t want to date her. So I know some women want to they just weren’t subtle about it.

Yes. So distorted… are they just so isolated ? And influenced by the culture at the same time

i get turned on by myself when i’m looking super hot. and i’m a straight woman

@@thesupreme950 still narcissism

Actually I guess I'm used to men that transition always seeming to wear skirts and stuff I as a woman hate to wear. I see what you are saying.

Agree

I agree. I'm a trans woman, but wearing dresses just isn't for me.

As a tomboy, I hate wearing dresses. And I also hate wearing makeup. I’ll do it for fancy events like weddings and stuff but I much prefer just being me and wearing jeans, t-shirts, sneakers, leather jackets. It’s comforting to see trans ppl who understand that being a woman isn’t about the rigid gender stereotypes. The activists seem as rigid about gender stereotypes as my 70+ year old mom. Makes it feel like things are regressing. So thanks for saying something.

@@umiluv Makeup just seems way too time consuming for me, and I've watched a lot of videos thinking that maybe I could get into it but no.

One must know the self before trying to know others.

did you become trans? just curious

@@lovelymill NOPE. I took a self-inventory, and thought: "I love my male friends, I love computers, I love role playing games, I love motorcycles, I love movies made for men, I'm bored to tears by chick flicks, I love ideas, I love all these various things that men love, and there's nothing in me that's really a woman." And when I realized that, that was the end of it. Case closed.

This is offensive but hilarious! 🤣 Lol

IKR, they’re protected more than real women there lmao

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