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Dongin is so right. Letting go of Stuff with emotial value is hard but so necessary because it will make your mind so much more free. Take pictures as a memory. Go Farinna. You can do it :)

I can relate to being attached to inanimate objects and "trash" as my parents say and it is EXTREMELY hard to let go of! I took a bunch of things with me to college that three years in I realized I didn't need, but I just couldn't decide what to take and what to leave, I kept saying things like "i'll need this" "I might use this" "I wanna keep this with me" "this reminds me of this" "you'll break this if I leave it here"... You're doing great Farina! Moving is hard and moving to a new country is even harder!! I'd suggest you sort your boxes slowly and maybe leave a box at your parents or Dongin's parents house if possible with the items that you can't take with you but you can't let go of as well Cheer up you're doing great, I'm proud of you

I like his outlook but i also understand you! I used to be so attached to things because of the sentimental value but eventually you do have to let go because the memories will always be there i hope this helps you! I know how hard it can be but i know you can do it!

Hi Farina! I just wanna tell you how you're inspiring so many people out there~ Thank you and we love you alot! Just became a new fan but will always be forever by your side😭💕

I just moved to a different country for the second time in 3 years. I hate moving, I always have, and it certainly doesn't get any easier (for me personally). Every time it's been one of the hardest periods in my life (the organisation of an international move). Allow yourself the space to feel your feelings. It's super overwhelming and it's only normal. Don't be too hard on yourself for feeling sad when you "should" be excited. The excitement will come after, once you're settled in your new place and once you realise you took an amazing big step that will benefit you for the rest of your life. Moving to new places really does enrich your life!! You are doing the best that you can!! I promise you won't feel like this forever!

Really appreciate you for showing your true feelings because it tells how normal it is to have those hard feelings as a human. Love your honesty as always. We all know you’ll get everything done nicely.💓

I totally can relate to how you are feeling. I am also a really sentimental person. I moved to Korea in 2019 and it was certainly overwhelming to pack my whole life into three suitcases. And not gonna lie, being in a new country was also overwhelming for a while! But now I have my own family and a beautiful son who is almost one year old! You have a great support system, and I know it will get better soon! Korea is a wonderful place and you’re gonna love it here~

Farina, you gotta give yourself major credit for taking the necessary steps to deal with these stressful times. You're keeping yourself hydrated, doing yoga, taking therapy and even being open to share your emotions. Not many people can do that. Most people lock themselves in their shells. Stay safe. You're a great inspiration for a lot of us.

Hey Farina, I totally get you on finding it difficult to let stuff go. I've had moments like that too. One thing that I got as a tip back then, which I think was a great tip, is to take pictures of the things that have sentimental value for you, but that you won't be actively using a lot. That way you can still look back at them and enjoy the memory that's attached to them, but you can also let go of the object itself. In the end it is the memory that it holds that is important, not the actual material. It's totally okay to keep a few things that are really close to your heart, that you really feel you can't live without!! But all the other stuff, you can let go with love, and maybe you can make a nice picture album for yourself eventually (when you've moved and you have time to put the pictures together), so you can occasionally grab that and flip through it.

GIRL. I feel you-on like, everything. Seriously felt like I was watching myself 😅 I’m also prepping to move to Korea, and I’m feeling that overwhelm and zombie-mode. It feels like there’s this giant wave of to-do’s hanging over my head and it makes it hard to be completely excited about going because everything is so daunting. But, I know we’ll get through it-we just gotta take it one day at a time. Steadily chip away at the to-do’s, but make sure to also take some breaks from it. You got this ❤

Farina, I could tell you really needed a hug at the end. Moving is so stressful and overwhelming. I’m about to move myself and I’ve been hit with a whirlwind of anxiety. I couldn’t imagine how you feel moving to another country. You’re doing great, and like you said, everything will work out in the end. You and Dongin are about to start a whole new life! No matter what happens or how you feel right now, just know some happiness is around the corner 💜

Believe me I know that feeling, not wanting to let go because it carries a sweet moment and each time you look at it it reminds you of that time. but...When you give them away or recycle etc. those memories don't go away with them. It's about letting yourself to accept making new memories with new stuff. Then the cycle goes like this. If you still struggle whether you should keep it or not, ask yourself "Is this going to be useful for me more than 4-5 times in the future?". As a person who usually put too much meaning to by old stuff approaching with a rational mindset works much better for me. Hope that helps. Good luck :))

I hope something nice happens to you today🩵

i have a lot of moments in my daily life where i feel alone and overwhelmed so seeing you also experiencing it and then dealing with it in a healthy way or the best way you can is uplifting :( especially cus i look up to you guys a lot. i hope yo get all your things done and that you finally get some rest soon!

What has really helped me in letting go of things when decluttering is to thank the things for their use and purpose for the time I’ve had them, it makes it so much easier for me to release my emotions around them. The Konmari method taught me that ❤

I was the same. I just closed up shop including selling/ donating all my belongings before heading off to live as an international wandering nomad for the next year (including two months in Korea in the fall). At the last minute (the last month) a billion things went wrong. With my apartment and the deposit, with emergency dental work and sudden last minute medical tests. Money and time were rapidly pouring down the drain. I started to physically fall apart (no sleep, eating bad, sleeping on an air mattress and destroying my back etc). So because I needed to keep going and couldn’t afford to fall apart I hit the big internal OFF button. Turned off all emotions and became a machine who looked ahead no more than one hour at a time. Who finished a task and just moved on to the next, then repeat until I literally couldn’t keep going. Pass out, wake up, pick right up where I left off. Never think about what I was doing or why. Just push forward. It was a little sad when I had originally planned to spend the last couple weeks saying goodbye, sentimentally visiting my favorite spots and people. But that deadline was out the window now. My only mantra was “do as much as you can as fast as you can until you run out of time”. I say this now, coming out the other end of the madness, that it takes a minute to recover. Even once you arrive at the new destination you were originally excited for, you might just need to rest and do nothing before positive emotions come back. But they do! One day you’ll look around at the start to your new life and finally feel the joy and thrill of adventure you worked so hard for. Hang in there! It’ll all work out ❤️

You look GREAT in bangs Farina, it's your thing for sure! 🌸🌸💕💕

I 100% understand how you're feeling right now, especially the zombie state where everything feels void of feeling, which is really frustrating. But you'll get through it, Farina! ❤ moving is very stressful and not very enjoyable; you have to say goodbye before you can say hello to your new place and that feeling of change can be extrmemly overwhelming. We're here for you, though, and we're all proud of you for trying to work through it!

17:31 as someone who has been watching you for years, and just as a person, I feel you here. and I felt bad that dongin kept telling you what you have to do. absolutely nothing against him as a wonderful human you are sharing your life with. it’s just that I hate when I feel the way it seems you do after that whole talk. I just went thru a huge downsize and I needed my mom to help but I still have stuff in my garage now bc even with forty days notice, and only two blocks away, surprisingly this entire house holds less than a third of a house did. bc there’s not enough storage here. so many books and clothes and stuffies are gone or with the stuffies, the remaining ones not on my bed are in nets in the corner like I’m a little kid lol I wish you the best of everything with all you have to do. come June you will be more upbeat and happier. your therapist is right and you need to allow yourself to feel it all. I trust you’ll get out all done in time and dongin won’t let you feel bad for too long. he seems to be so good to you.

Oh Farina girl :(( I wanted to give you a big bear hug at the ending clip. I'm so sorry to hear that you're sad/depressed and having a hard time. But I know you're strong, you can do it, and it's okay to feel overwhelmed. ❤ But one of the best things about you is that you are resilient and you will be able to manage it. Sending you a big virtual hug. 💖💖

I myself know that zombie-like state. I'm about to be 18 in a couple of days. ( may 13th ) and it's really hitting me the reality of how I am about to be an adult and so much stress and worries have hit me. its really hard to handle and I am trying my best with no help. You helped me understand how normal it is and how it's okay to feel the way I am and to stay strong. I love you so much !!! Keep up the strength.

As someone who moved a lot and is also from Europe but abroad in Japan with mental health issues, it’s totally ok to keep some of the things you really like Farina and to have emotional attachments like for the plushies ❤️ Don’t force yourself if you’re not ready, maybe you can let things at your parents house or something like that, if you’re not ready to let go of a few things it’s ok (I personally took years to get rid of some few things I stocked at my mom house and my mom house is very small yet we found a way, mentally it’s way better to wait to be ready), yes it might be just things for some people but we’re all different and it’s not just things for everyone, your feelings are totally valid as it’s ok to feel stronger emotions about objects, obviously when having too many things it’s important to get rid of a few things but the ones you like the most with the best energy and memories and that still make you feel the best then you should keep it, there’s always options even when moving to a smaller place and in another country I promise as I’ve been through that more than once, sending hugs ❤️

i love you guys! you're so cute and domestic together lol😭💜💜 ANDDD I LOVE YOUR HAIR OMG! and much love and virtual hugs coming your way Farina🫂 I've been through the same situation, and trust me its hard. But i know you're strong enough to push through any inconveniences, know that you have us too!! 💗💗💗

I love it when you guys speek german together, we don't get to see it so often❤ Getting rid of things is hard, but after you do, it really helps you to be more free. Good luck with the move, I know you got this!

Thank you so much for the 40 hearts! 🥺❤️💖 Thank you for appreciating me and giving so much. You're a wonderful, kind, generous person and my life is richer with you in it. You inspire me creatively, your videos are so positive and your glow is infectuous. I'm a jotato through and through. 🥰 And supporting you will forever be one of the better decisions I've made. ❤️ On a different note, since this move is probably super stressful, I just wanted to remind you - you are strong! YOU'VE GOT THIS! 💪💖

I just finished a big move from Sweden to Canada. I know how overwhelming it feels ❤. The procrastination is real with things like letting go of some items because the move itself is so overwhelming but you can do it! I agree with Dongin that it's best to start now. Don't do what we did lol got overwhelmed and pushed things last minute until we panicked right before moving lol that was the worst stress of my life lol. You can do it!! 💪

Ich versteh das mit der Schwierigkeit sich von Gegenständen zu trennen, weil man mit ihnen viele Erinnerungen verbindet ,total. Du bzw. ihr macht das aber großartig! Versuch nur von Tag zu Tag oder momentaner Aufgabe zu Aufgabe zu denken,dass hilft mir immer mit meine Anxiety bzw. wenn mir alles zu viel wird. Liebe Grüße und viel Kraft ❤

I know how hard it is to get rid of your stuff. I recently moved back from an apartment back to my parents (same city so not that big of a deal). We plan to move abroad in couple of months, and I have SO MUCH STUFF to get rid of and organize, I know how overwhelming it is. I feel like crying everyday looking at all of this and thinking I have to get through it and throw most of it away. You can do this. It will be hella hard but it's needed.

I'm 42yrs, I feel like an old lady. I have lost all my possessions 4 times in my life. I know it doesn't feel good, moving past all the stuff is possible. I was forced. It wasn't by my own choice. Don't think of it as getting rid of, you are making room for all your new... adventures, memories, loves and favs, etc. I know this is KZfaq so I'm not sure of the actual state of your relationship. But you two seem to be maturing nicely into each other. All your negative emotions about pressure are temporary. If you let them simple pass through, that's exactly what they'll do. They are not you. I say this with much respect for you both. Good luck!

I was just looking at your old videos when you posted~ Love you guys, good luck with the move

Wish you guys the best! I hope your transition to Seoul is as smooth as possible! 💜

Farina you're doing a great job just doing something, it seems so hard and we can only support you, but please know that we see how challenging this is and understand how emotional and stressful this part of the journey is. Just keep reminding yourself that you are powerful and keep repeating: I have enough, I do enough, I am enough. 💜

It's soo relatable the overwhelming feeling and struggling with letting go, when I go through that it gets really scary the only thing that seems to work for me is visualising the after - that once this is over how proud I'll be of myself to have completed all of it, to have pushed through, to have finally let go and realised it's the memories that matter evidence or no evidence the precious feeling will always stay. Hoping it's gets smoother for you! Can't wait to see you relieved once it's all done! All the very best, hope great things come you way soon making everything worth it! PS : You have a lovely smile !!

Even after going through all the stuff and some still can't throw away for whatever sentimental value and still usable, then packed them into just 1 big box and stored it away at your parents' house for the time being. That's what I did when I moved abroad for 3 years. If something you have not used or touched for a long time, it's likely you can throw it away. Too much clutter also clutters the mind. Keep only the things you really need. Now I buy only the things I truly need, so I don't end up with cluttering and then later have to declutter. I'm minimalist now, easier for me too if I move again.

Don't worry ! I know it hard sometimes but ykw everything will be fine. Do things with schedule and rest enough for your mind to be on ease. We here to cheer you ❤

Liebe Farina, ich konnte dir gerade so nachfühlen, als du vor deinen ganzen Sachen gesessen hast. Ich habe auch zu vielen Dingen eine emotionale Beziehung. Ich versuche auch immer wieder mal was auszusortieren oder zu verschenken, aber es ist hart. Bin echt emotional geworden, weil ich dich so gut verstehen kann. Es ist schwer loszulassen, besonders weil ihr auch noch unter Zeitdruck steht, aber du schaffst das!!! Ich wünsche euch alles Liebe für euren Start in Südkorea 💜

Its ok Farina! It'll get better! That has happened to me and it was just one of those phases. It is just sometimes to stressful and makes you feel down and unexciyed , but I know it'll get better. It did for me.

I really love both of you guys 😍 good luck 💕

It is rarely that I see really nice tatoos, but yours are so pretty!❤

Hahah I can picture him doing the BTS move pointing at his DNA tattoo, going "DNA!" Such a flex others won't be able to copy xD

love you Farina! you're a ray of sunshine, and even if youre feeling like a grey rain cloud one day thats okay! cause to get rainbows, we need rain! stay positive and youre not alone feeling like a zombie haha!

letting go of memorable stuff is HARD 😭🦋

dongin is the best❤! dongin is also a keeper and wants to be there for you ❤❤❤ I love you guys so much! Please make sure that Korea works out in the end as your life is important including health ❤😢!

Farina, I have the same struggles going through my things and getting rid of stuff when I have to move. I get so attached to object because they hold precious memories for me. I have slowly been learning how to let go of the objects and hold on to the memories, but it's still difficult every time. Even though my heart breaks when I give something away, I have to remind myself that I didn't lose the memory which is the important part. Thankfully it gets easier every time.

I moved from Canada to the US last year and it was the hardest thing I’ve ever done. I empathize with you so much. Moving countries is so hard especially parting with our belongings.

Hey farina sis !! Following your channel since lockdown i love it !! How u express you real feelings always !! U and dongin both are really cute together !! I wish a lot more success for you !! I know you must be feeling a bit down moving and leaving things behind is always hard but it is a part of life !! Hope u get over it quickly and swiftly hehe !! lot's of lovee !! 🌺💗

I don’t normally comment but I just wanted to say how seen I also feel watching your moving/declutter process. ITS HARD, I completely I understand 😭 I felt like I was watching my boyfriend and I have the same kind of talks (I’m actually going to show him with video later) I’m a little craft hoarder and have a lot of sentimental value to soo much of my stuff, I’ve moved house a lot so over the years I have been able to cull some things but I still have a lot. I don’t know if it’s also an ADHD thing, I remember you saying in a previous video you had your diagnosis, Im also in the middle of getting assessed. But I’m excited for you guys to move and have a fresh start! It’s going to be an amazing journey xx 💖

You can do it 💜 be happy and don't be stressed 🥰

Finally got ur vid!! I was checking everyday whether u r uploading a vid or not

Hi! Moving over seas is so challenging! We were military so multiple moves. When I was over whelmed with what I had to sort or get rid of I would set a timer and just do 15 minutes. If I felt like quitting I would but most of the time I would work for a while. It helped manage feeling overwhelmed. .

i know its hard but he is right, sweetheart. Keep some really important things like that adorable squishy youre hugging, of course. I promise you will feel so much lighter and free and proud once you get rid of most of those items. It IS hard but you got this! xx

Wishing you all of strength and success for your move and ambitions, you two! :)

It’s so hard You’ve been doing great Thank you for posting this❤️🥺

I know it's hard to let go, especially when each object has a story and a meaning. But letting go an object doesn't imply letting go the memory and feelings it brings you. What I usually do in this cases, is taking a picture of the object and then I write down what it is and why is it meaningful, and save it in an album of "meaningful things". That album is now the only "thing" I truly need, and can get rid of the other ones when the time comes.

You guys are amazing 😍💞

It must be really hard but you are doing you best 🥺 You are much stronger than you think and I know that it will all turn out much better than you could ever think in the end.☺️ In the end you will be happy that you pushed through all the hardships and there will be much more happiness and opportunities waiting for you❤❤ I'm always cheerring for you guys❤️ don't lose hope✨

Everything is gonna be alright. I wish you all the best guys!!! sending warm hugs🫂🤍

Moving is one of the most stressful situations a human can deal with…it’s even by the side of grieving. It’s ok to be overwhelmed

I think it's completely fine and understandable to feel like that, it's a big change in live. So to anyone who need to hear it: I hope you can fine joy in the little things and know things will get better. Fighting!!

Es fühlt sich manchmal schwer an Sachen loszulassen, das ist bei mir auch so gewesen als ich umgezogen bin es ist weil man so viele Erinnerungen in/an diesem Ort hat. Aber am Ende hat es mir gefallen woanders zu wohnen auch wenn man davor eigentlich auch zufrieden war, ich bin mir sicher dass du es nicht bereuen wirst auch wenn man am Anfang unsicher ist 😊❤

Hi, Farina I just wanted to leave a small message for you because you have been someone who inspires me and makes my day many times. Moving out of your home country forever is hard and scary, letting go of so many things for change is a big process and that "zombie state" I understand it, moving out brings so much emotions it's overwhelming. It's okay to feel sad or scared, give yourself some spaces to feel that. Thanks for being a ray of sunshine in dark days. I hope the best for you.

Farina, I love who you are, you are such a strong and admirable person. Your videos and presence always reassure me that I am doing my best. I hope you know that too, you are doing your best! I am so glad that I am subscribed to you and I always look forward to your videos, no matter what the content is. You are a shining star brightening up so many lives

Farina loves this cardigan so much 😂 and it looks so cute on her ❤

Letting go is really hard. Try not to force yourself to let go before you're ready, though. I also have major issues with sentimental attachment to items, just try to think hard about why they mean so much to you and if its worth keeping or if you can let it be a happy memory that you look back on once you dont own the thing anymore

Love u Farina and Dongin❤

Farina its okay to be sad , lost in what we do🫂, life is not for living in but living through❤️ im glad that you're here keeping going because the existence itself is hard and exhausting. You can fall but have to get up by you feet❤️ i wanna give you a big big hug 🫂 , its fine to be attached to things its the signs that you're human and well surrounded🫂 but sometimes we have to make choice for our best ❤️ you can see it in good day : a new pages/step of life ❤️, as long as we grow life is evolueing we have to take some of the pages of the past to make place for the futures things memories that thos new pages will give🫂❤️

Wishing you the best❤

Feel better soon Farina! 🩷

I enjoyed your new vlog tonight

Good luck with all your packing! Seems stressful now, but there is an end in sight.

I feel like in that moment of unpacking and overwhelme ask her if she wants solutions or support/comfort. It gives a sense of control when you feel none and also shows you are willing to help them in a way that is comfortable and manageable for them in that moment. My partner and I do this regularly as I have many health disorders and he gets stressed too. I hope this might help anyone reading this.

Thank you for showing us this side of moving to another country, I really appreciate it. Also, thank you for your recommendations to take care of our mental health, I'll start yooga soon.

I was the same way but I took pictures of sentimental items. Then I was able to get rid of alot of stuff. Fews months later I looked at the pictures and was like I don't need them and deleted them. It's wild that getting rid of them was difficult but once gone I couldn't care less

Remember Farina, the fruit bore from endurance and hard work is the sweetest! It'll all pay off and you'll find yourself in a place that is happy and exactly where you wanted to be!

don't worry farina !! everything will be alright 💞

Fighting girl!!! You can do it.!! Something nice and wonderful will come in the future 😊. LET'S GOO!! 💖💖💜. It's difficult and frustrating but you can fight because you are a brilliant woman and kind you can do it 🙂💖💜

I just wanna give you a big hug Farina .... Stay strong girl everything is gonna be alright ❤

😢he is so cold about it at least give her a hug everyone is different

❤️ These things where in those boxes for over a year. You didn’t need or miss them throughout that time. So just marie kondo it. If it’s broken or you don’t even know what it is, you don’t need it. You didn’t need it for all the time it was left in those boxes. If you look at the object and it immediately sparks joy or if it’s some lame adult shit that needs to be kept, keep it. If you start thinking yeah but it might be useful or I might still need it in the future, ditch it. You didn’t need it for the last 365 days aka all most likely situation you’ll meet in the future. About that computer and similar stuff, I’m sure your parents or brother are willing to help you out. They know how much you have to do and how complicated moving is. You got this Farina! I believe in you! 💕

Its only hard now but once you throw everything out you'll feel much better. You got this!!!

You didn't finish the video in the usual way and that worries me. I'm just not used to. Be good in a healthy way, Farina. So much love and support🌔

Für mich das beste Video bisher!!

You don't have to throw stuff away if you're willing to pay for a storage. I don't know how much it costs where you live but for $50 a month you can rent a small space for stuff that will be waiting for you if you decide to go back. If you manage to get a bigger place in Korea later on, you can also bring some stuff that you want back to Korea each time you visit the old country.

Good luck!

Hang in there Farina. I know it’s hard to get rid of things. Honestly if I didn’t look into a box in years I asked my husband to go through it and get rid of it. Whatever it is I forgot about it so I let him pick out if there was anything important. Once you look at things it will bring back memories and you will re-attached yourself. It’s better to hold onto was in front of you then what is in a box in storage.

When you said you felt like a Zombie it totally reminded me of the song Zombie by DAY6 ^^ it's a bop and totally represents how you feel atm. But hang in there, you can do it!!

Love youuu

Girllllll that car alone would be therapy for me lol (just kidding of course, hope you feel better soon, you are both strong! I struggle with mental health too and it's nice to see some influencers not being afraid to mention it, we need to destroy the last remaining stigma!!)

The reality is so true I deal with the same difficulties of starting tasks

If you have to let go of a lot of stuff you would really like to keep take a picture of it. You can look at the picture(s) and recall the memories. As a frequent mover during my childhood, I learned that things aren’t as important as you think...memories are. Plus pictures are a lot easier to carry. Good luck! ❤🇨🇦

I just wanna give you a big hug and say that everything is going to be alright sweetie ❤ You're not alone and you're going to be just fine

I really understand the whole feeling down from approaching deadlines and less interesting things, paperwork and the part where farina said she forgets to eat and hydrate. Honestly, as a person with adhd, somedays even basic tasks feel hard and overwhelming. Take your time farina, please rest and I hope you realise your struggles are understood.

I feel like giving u philosophical take on this just to help u out 😬😂 Nothing is permanent, everything is in flux, if u embrace this truth it would be easier to let go. Like every passing moment, changing seasons, cycles, birth to death. So, don't cling onto things, appreciate it, say thank u to what u had n let go with gratitude with the knowing that something better comes in. When u lose something u gain something. Everything balances out. Give urself time to process ur emotions on it, u let the old go to let the new in. Attachment leads to suffering so embrace change n let go with gratitude. Idk if this will help but i felt like writing it so, i know transitions r always hard but i hope u do well as u make this transition u got this! Love u 💓

Love you farina❤️❤️❤️❤️

The part of the video from 15:41, I could see myself and my bf so hard in this!! I am exactly like you farina, even the laptop! and my bf would say the exact same things as dongin did haha, I was getting stressed for you

OMG i used to hoard so much stuff which i thought had “sentimental value” too, but i realise when i was moving to my new place that all the stuff was just gonna take up space and become clutter instead. I found this AMAZING solution which was to take pictures of all the stuff that i want to remember and print out the pictures and keep it in a folder!! That way i can look at and remember all my stuff but i wont need to have it physically taking up space 💯 it worked out great!!

Hi ; dongin is such cuuuuuuuuute 🐺💗💗

You are doing amazing

Keep fighting 😊 you can do it