I Spent 8 Years LETTING GO... (95% Of People Get This Wrong)

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JulienHimself

JulienHimself

11 ай бұрын

This is the "letting go technique" that I've personally used the past 8 years... Discover HOW to let go using these 3 simple steps!
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Julien Blanc (AKA JulienHimself) is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.
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I Spent 8 Years LETTING GO... (95% Of People Get This Wrong)
How to let go! In this video, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) reveals how to let go using the letting go technique... Discover the art of letting go!
How to let go in 3 simple steps:
Step One: Become aware of what you want to let go of
Step Two: Allow yourself to experience it fully
Step Three: Let it come up and let it out
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@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself 11 ай бұрын
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@TomfromSES
@TomfromSES 11 ай бұрын
honestly my biggest takeaway is that I realized I'm wasting time on KZfaq and Netflix every day, if I'm gonna accomplish my goals I should let that go.
@divingdeepinthought7609
@divingdeepinthought7609 11 ай бұрын
Every attempt at finding a distraction from the unrest of our inner state is actually forming layers away from this peace within. We learn so much that the process of learning and searching in itself is the distraction we seek to avoid. Do less, be less, feel more deeply. Thanks Julian for your work is has helped me navigate through tough times.
@adrianpribill7487
@adrianpribill7487 11 ай бұрын
To FULLY experience the current moment/feelings inside, as much as I can. Im gonna do that now :)
@frozenking2642
@frozenking2642 11 ай бұрын
😮Hey Julien. You make awesome content. But still waiting for you to speak about Porn and Masterbation? @julienHimself
@starseedstudio17
@starseedstudio17 10 ай бұрын
My takeaway. Be genuine be authentic! I don’t think anyone else can “play” me lol 😂
@DawnMontefusco
@DawnMontefusco 4 ай бұрын
“It’s at that point where you can be okay with it being there forever that it’s gone” I NEEDED THIS more than ever and finally it really made sense to me. Thank you.
@Mixo1998
@Mixo1998 2 ай бұрын
Yeah that's what I thought too.
@thijmen2646
@thijmen2646 Ай бұрын
its a mindset change, which sounds counterintuitive as doing act but afterwards it isnt.
@bighonkies
@bighonkies 11 ай бұрын
Not gonna lie I felt my defenses go up when you mentioned how sad some people's existence is with how much they distract themselves. Even though I know you weren't talking to me specifically, I had the same feeling as if someone literally said it right to my face. I know I spend too much of my time on distractions and that I'm just putting off things that I know I should be doing instead, but don't want to do. I just didn't want to admit it to myself. Thanks for the wake up call Julien!
@ritagordon9859
@ritagordon9859 10 ай бұрын
I stopped my distraction 8 years ago and FELT my emotions for the first time - changed my life You can do it 🙌
@robertyates
@robertyates 9 ай бұрын
With such beautiful honesty and insight, I know you got this brother. I wish you all the best
@4Mikes4Mindset4
@4Mikes4Mindset4 9 ай бұрын
​@@robertyatesagreed 🔥
@nonzenz
@nonzenz 5 ай бұрын
Did you stay on the call or went back to sleep :D ? Checking in.
@Partoftheratpack
@Partoftheratpack 4 ай бұрын
But I’m still gonna watch a film and not feel guilty
@lizanderson9
@lizanderson9 10 ай бұрын
I "exist" every sunday when I get my day off work. I go sit at the ocean and just sit there for a few hours. Sometimes I write in my journal, sometimes I watch the fish swimming in the river, sometimes I just listen to the waves or the wind through the trees. It's my favourite time of the week.
@jeh-ruhd4466
@jeh-ruhd4466 10 ай бұрын
This really sunk in for me today. I simply ALLOWED myself to experience whatever came my way, and I let go of trying to control or deny it. From there, I just naturally RESPONDED with what felt right, instead of REACTING like a child would. Great day so far. The difference is ENORMOUS, and I could feel it, and everyone around me could see it.
@MU80k
@MU80k 11 ай бұрын
I have lied to myself all my life that I am an Introvert and don't need people to be happy. I have been looking at this channel for the last few weeks and the truth is I am scared stiff of letting go. Thank You Julien - I have made more progress in one week than I thought I would ever make. However, I know the journey has just begun.
@AshutoshSingh-wg5km
@AshutoshSingh-wg5km 10 ай бұрын
What was the starting point? How did you find the exact feeling? How did you start letting go? Thanks.
@SoundsBogus
@SoundsBogus 9 ай бұрын
We are all social creatures and need people contact. All of us. Those who Really need others to validate them; tell them they're smart, or pretty, or have a great hair cut ... compliments and such, are called Extroverts. They need others to define them. They look outward for validation. Introverts are already secure in who they are; they consult with themselves inwardly, with their higher selves, to determine their place in the collective. Those labels are largely misunderstood. Are you Really an introvert? Most people are a bit of both. I know many introverts who are Very sociable, but at the end of the day they find solace and peace within themselves and quite like spending time alone. Maybe if we stopped labeling ourselves and limiting ourselves by those definitions we can discover All that we are.
@arthurlockwood8735
@arthurlockwood8735 7 ай бұрын
Its difficult to. Let go of adultery but you are different from the other ones thanks good stuff good lad. 🤔🙏🇬🇧From Lancashire England UK pendle witches country
@IrohsTeaShop
@IrohsTeaShop 6 ай бұрын
How is it going?
@gasmith7486
@gasmith7486 5 ай бұрын
You don’t need people to be happy. Happiness is an inside job and it’s not contingent on who is or isn’t in my life.
@retardedphil
@retardedphil 11 ай бұрын
It's definitely worth re-explaining in different ways so that others can understand, but the book definitely does mention the 'how to' of letting go. It describes the exact meditation-like practice. From the book: "Letting go involves being aware of a feeling, letting it come up, staying with it, and letting it run its course without wanting to make it different or do anything about it. It means simply to let the feeling be there and to focus on letting out the energy behind it..." and so on.
@alexfinn7989
@alexfinn7989 11 ай бұрын
Is it ok to cry until it is gone? Thank you.
@TAC3O
@TAC3O 11 ай бұрын
@@alexfinn7989 Crying is not a barrier, quite the opposite, it can be a sign of opening, leaving resistance behind and finally letting go.
@alexfinn7989
@alexfinn7989 11 ай бұрын
@@TAC3O thank you.
@retardedphil
@retardedphil 11 ай бұрын
@@alexfinn7989 Absolutely! It is a sign that you are releasing trapped emotions - of course, as long as that is your intention. Try to understand in your mind that you are not a victim, while simultaneously feeling the emotion fully in order to release it and improve yourself. If you are just crying and dwelling on your problems, and maintain a 'woe is me' attitude, then it can be negative.
@alexfinn7989
@alexfinn7989 11 ай бұрын
@@retardedphil thank you!
@heartsofgoldenrod
@heartsofgoldenrod 10 ай бұрын
Great presentation! Just one thing to note, (at the end) he says that letting go makes you whole. It doesn’t make you whole. You’re already whole. It just brings your consciousness back to seeing and knowing that as the truth because you’ve now removed the false filters through which you’ve been looking at your life experiences.
@pgryan1057
@pgryan1057 10 ай бұрын
I would say fine, but not whole, idk... That's just my take anyway... Like y'know...
@pgryan1057
@pgryan1057 10 ай бұрын
Actually feeling like there's something missing, is what I would call this... They're not whole in the sense that they actively are holding back a part of themselves, or it's been blocked or locked away, and they would have to put in necessary effort to overcome that and resurface it...
@pgryan1057
@pgryan1057 10 ай бұрын
Like... Idk...
@pgryan1057
@pgryan1057 10 ай бұрын
I would say that the "being fine" or that in your take, being "whole" is like something imo perhaps you would tell someone who is delusional, like psychotic or smth... But hey that's just my take, I would like to hear yours and perhaps we could learn something from each other! 😊
@pgryan1057
@pgryan1057 10 ай бұрын
Also... 😁**
@konantj
@konantj 11 ай бұрын
1) aware of what you want to let go. Is it out of your awareness ? You want to tune into sensations: your heart starts beating. 2) Allow yourself to express, its natural. It's human. Distraction, doesn't help. Social media, movies, KZfaq. Numbing: food, alcohol, drugs. Is it gone? No. It's move away. Letting go happen through feeling, not thinking. Feel what you've been refusing your whole life❤ Feel enough approval? Control? Safe ans secure?
@Partoftheratpack
@Partoftheratpack 4 ай бұрын
So what are you supposed to do?
@ledavid3333
@ledavid3333 7 ай бұрын
"The only way out is through." The whole process in one sentence.
@Pavelek88
@Pavelek88 11 ай бұрын
Took me 6 years to let go wrong person. I'm still stuck to some other minor sh*t but now I know the mechanism... and that relief when you truly let go, priceless.
@amirqazvineh3575
@amirqazvineh3575 11 ай бұрын
I'm still struggling with this shit. Although we're not together she's on my mind. Hope I can let go of her some day.
@clairec8496
@clairec8496 11 ай бұрын
Going through this too - been about 2 years. He has moved on but I cannot! :(
@ola...o1009
@ola...o1009 11 ай бұрын
Wow that’s long. The maximum detox time for me is 1 to 2 years
@Mikodemuz11
@Mikodemuz11 11 ай бұрын
On year 4 here.
@spikyblackblur
@spikyblackblur 11 ай бұрын
​@@clairec8496Im in the exact same situation, except switched genders. You aren't alone.
@Involent
@Involent 6 ай бұрын
My father used to say, “If you have to cross the street to be happy, you’ll never be happy.” Pity he never found a way to take his own advice.
@avikchatterjee1945
@avikchatterjee1945 11 ай бұрын
Letting go is just not falling into the same repetition loop. Yes it needs practice to release the sensation first. So you are spot on. Bingo.
@i..am..
@i..am.. 7 ай бұрын
This is absolutely esoteric information. I've tried telling many people these concepts... It's like they can't process it if their soul isn't ready. Also the ego is often tuned to resist the second it feels threatened. This letting go is so simple and yet complicated.
@aaronbell5994
@aaronbell5994 9 ай бұрын
Thanks for the book recommendation! I now see the source of the "Apathy, grief, ... desire, love" chart.
@rvbball1
@rvbball1 11 ай бұрын
Dang this was surprisingly one of the best videos I've ever watched on youtube. So much great info in such a small amount of time. Right to the point.
@1nf1ni7e_GG
@1nf1ni7e_GG 11 ай бұрын
Beautifully done bro. Been listening to "Letting Go" audio version on my phone and in car rides a lot lately.(also have a physical copy) This is an amazing video to go along with it.
@johnd1282
@johnd1282 11 ай бұрын
This is by far the best version of letting go that I have heard. I actually downloaded letting go when I heard you talk about it a year or so ago. Listened to parts of it but wasn't until I found untethered soul by Michael Singer did I get the concept of this. Fast forward to this morning while walking and listening to this I can honestly say you summed up the entire book of Hawkins and Singer in these 11 minutes. Folks listen to this over and over. Letting go NOT being afraid has changed my dialog in my head. I still have alot to go but I am learning, much less fearless, less scared, not afraid to more door, NOT all lol but I'm getting there.. I'm curious Julian what you thought of the untethered soul?! P.s the breathing technique from over a year ago definitely helps in some situations as well and I use in some moments. The breathe in 7, hold, for 3, breathe out for 7 hold for 3 3 times works great..
@metanoia6033
@metanoia6033 6 ай бұрын
I love Julien's talks. They're so real and brings genuine peace and connection with yourself.
@annamorgan5909
@annamorgan5909 10 ай бұрын
I REALLY appreciate the "visuals" in your explanations. I think in pictures, and this helped tremendously. BY FAR, THE BEST TALK I'VE EVER HEARD ON LETTING GO 💯
@swedensufal
@swedensufal 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. I tried letting go for about a year. But I haven't been able to. Today, I tried to focus on the feeling of the raw physical sensation at a particular body part (not even the vague emotions). This time it worked. I feel lighter. Later I watched this video and am surprised to see that you teach the same things. 😊 I feel like it is the most helpful video of yours. ❤
@matanatarot
@matanatarot 5 ай бұрын
Such a beautiful explanation of letting go. I found it out myself, by following the sentence: ' you got to feel to heal'. So for me it is a confirmation. But I would've liked to hear this earlier.😊
@marcuseldridge8948
@marcuseldridge8948 7 ай бұрын
you make a huge impact on people and i’m happy to say even my self. I’m finally on my path to healing :)
@Hexenmeister999
@Hexenmeister999 11 ай бұрын
Your videos are the biggest distraction for me, but I can't let go😋 Seriously, thank you for your videos. You really know what you're saying. One of your videos helped me a lot to let go of a guilt that accompanied me for over 20 years. I haven't been able to "remove" this guilt yet, but I've learned to accept this feeling and at the same time to shut up the little man in my head who tells me these lies. You are a great person and I wish there were more role models like you. I try to follow this example for others. Many greetings from Germany.
@TheBrokeBoyMycologist
@TheBrokeBoyMycologist 11 ай бұрын
Your videos over the past week and a half of absolutely changed my life. I will watch one of your videos to the start of every morning just as a subtle reminder of who I am being aligned with where I need to be I love God and I’m a Christian, I read the Bible very often, but I never understood the concept behind letting go because I was never taught that so even though the Bible talks about that and giving these things to God, I never truly did I’m thankful for you Julien.
@KRAZEEIZATION
@KRAZEEIZATION 5 ай бұрын
Great advice. I just realised this week that I’ve all I need in my life. Anything else that enhances is the icing on the cake. Anything that hampers will be cut off immediately.
@tiffany8028
@tiffany8028 5 ай бұрын
BEST VIDEO ive ever seen on letting go. Ive written & read many stories on letting go/detachment and this is SPOT ON! Thank u thank u thank u!
@getlitoff961
@getlitoff961 11 ай бұрын
phenomenal content julien
@Badfriendsfan101
@Badfriendsfan101 5 ай бұрын
I am completely overwhelmed everyday with regret and obsessive thoughts about my past. This helped me tremendously he spoke to me cus I compensate with every grip detail of my life being displayed on this video
@gertrudekorley10
@gertrudekorley10 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for your videos. You are a life’s saver. Please continue to touch lives. More blessings to you
@RockyBoltzano
@RockyBoltzano 11 ай бұрын
Thank you Julien, amazing content. It made me think about my life and do some analysis, so here we go. I'm 44 now. I consider myself a sensitive person, external approval used to mean (still means???) a lot to me. Since I was a child I tried to run away from myself, to be someone else, someone smarter. I can remember specific episodes from my childhood when I felt embarrassed for not being smarter. When I've met somebody that I considered to be smarter than me, I unconsciously tried to emulate them, I picked up their mannerisms (e.g. way of speaking, gestures, etc.). I was unconsciously trying to be them. I know this might sound funny to someone, but that was me for a long time. I am not 100% sure what caused that behavior but my guess is that it could be the big contrast between the love I was getting as a child from my warmhearted mother vs the lack of emotions on my father's side, who only seemed to give out some signs of approval when I did well in school. I guess that made me subconsciously think I was not good enough, I constantly felt the need to prove myself. Coming back to your video, I think I want to let go of this strong need for external approval.
@annamorgan5909
@annamorgan5909 10 ай бұрын
Hello. When reading your comment, I felt like you could have been talking about me. I grew up with similar parents, it sounds like, and I've lived a similar way throughout my life, as well. I can remember being a little kid...I would do something specifically to receive praise and/or approval for it, specifically from my Dad. His approval and praise equaled love. I'm 42 now, and I still struggle with this. As much as I tell myself, "I'm doing this for me", or "I'm doing this because it needs to be done, and it's my responsibility"... I can't shake that feeling of "needing" approval/praise for it. I intentionally don't mention to people when I do something I know doesn't need to be recognized, but that feeling still exists. Your comment reminded me of this subconscious trigger, and how much I would love to let go of it. Take Care.
@Le_petit_Vince
@Le_petit_Vince 6 ай бұрын
thank you a millions time for your videos..... since i discovered your channel a couple months ago i started working on myself and recently i just started to feel more excited about my life. big love
@manojsubramanyam
@manojsubramanyam 11 ай бұрын
I'm proud of you Julien. This is gold.
@ichbindumm6851
@ichbindumm6851 10 ай бұрын
First of all. I like the way you simplify things. It's better than any studied psychologist could explain (imo). You are kind of describing the acceptance therapy, but in a way more practical way. In that way I actually understand it way better. We can not compare ourselfes to dogs, because they dont have prefrontal cortex, but I get the point. Also, are you provoking with that gucci shirt? If yes. I like it
@meeshapip4409
@meeshapip4409 6 ай бұрын
It’s the same concept that I learned to deal with labor pains. I had an epidural with my first child and I hated how out of it I felt in what should have been such a special present moment. So I read and listened to so much advice about natural labor. The biggest advice was to go with the pain. Ride with the pain. Accept how horrible it feels. Don’t demonize it. Fear of pain makes it hurt worse. I was blessed enough to find the advice and take it and have a very present second labor. Thank God for people sharing this wisdom
@disappointedmother1271
@disappointedmother1271 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for the wake-up call. I needed it. 😊
@jeremiahduke3602
@jeremiahduke3602 6 ай бұрын
I really respect you for teaching this stuff man. I’ve learned so much and will keep learning from you. Thank you🙏🙏
@DFCE82
@DFCE82 10 ай бұрын
Eye opening speech! You deserve my subscription! Thank you 👏👏👏
@thijmen2646
@thijmen2646 Ай бұрын
slipping into reality might be the most underrated high feeling, you forgot to mention that ;) great work
@krishosler4951
@krishosler4951 10 ай бұрын
WOW. So powerful. Too many aha moments to count. Thank you for sharing this 🙏
@statusqrow8264
@statusqrow8264 10 ай бұрын
Keep up the great letting go!!!!
@turtles3035
@turtles3035 10 ай бұрын
Being with my own thoughts used to be hell, and I'm still working it out. However, Working as an Iron Worker, at 20 yo as of now, one of the main jobs apprentices get is Fire-watch. You stand there, 10 hours a day, 6 days a week. That time, being forced to stand there with my own thoughts, was excruciating. Every day was pushing more and more into it. I grew so much by just simply being with myself, and after listening to your knowledge and experience I feel I've made leaps and bounds of progress in just a couple days. There is way more to come, but that only makes me excited because being uncomfortable is the stimulus for growth
@RyaTrades
@RyaTrades 10 ай бұрын
Hands down the best video I have ever watched. Life changer
@ThisIsNotMyHome
@ThisIsNotMyHome 10 ай бұрын
I was called out on so many levels, and I NEEDED it😊
@ivanvorel7991
@ivanvorel7991 11 ай бұрын
You are saving my life. Thank you!
@flybyefish
@flybyefish 10 ай бұрын
Beautiful, such wisdom in a man so young.
@mofrare
@mofrare 5 ай бұрын
These concepts are not easy to communicate to westerners. I am grateful to those who do it so well. Brilliant
@jcgarcia1931
@jcgarcia1931 9 ай бұрын
Emotions vs Sensations and Acceptance vs Resistance... This hits the nail on the head for me.
@PiggoNZ
@PiggoNZ 6 ай бұрын
This is SO good. Saved, downloaded.
@Leoo0459
@Leoo0459 8 ай бұрын
It’s unbelievable, how much discontent is actually worth . Only if you trying to seek truth and dealing with yourself to become a better person, you will find this pure gold
@SamHandwiches
@SamHandwiches 6 ай бұрын
this is one of the best explainations of letting go I've ever heard
@luisalbertonina797
@luisalbertonina797 11 ай бұрын
This is a Masterpiece! 25 min of genius! Thank ypu!
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself 11 ай бұрын
You're so welcome! Glad this resonates!
@arjanblad416
@arjanblad416 11 ай бұрын
Awesome... Bless you... Greetings from the Netherlands
@Lu-bz1jg
@Lu-bz1jg 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video ♡
@user-kd9ev8rh4d
@user-kd9ev8rh4d 10 ай бұрын
What a brilliant soul you have. Thank you for showing! This is what I try to make people in Sweden to see…
@Kay-zv3mk
@Kay-zv3mk 3 күн бұрын
Bruh this is GOLD, thank you
@kaylacrowe5168
@kaylacrowe5168 10 ай бұрын
This guy is amazing!!
@friederikefrohlich4250
@friederikefrohlich4250 11 ай бұрын
Thank you! I like it very much! Especially not using the mind but only feeling it. For me the problem is sometimes sharing with people - it took me long to see my shadow and then I shared it too soon and now I judge myself viewing myself with the eyes of others.. also in away I feel a bit fixed now.. any suggestions? I guess I would always recommend everyone work on yourself first, get in a new state and then open up about your past 🙃🙏🏻
@pc.9008
@pc.9008 9 ай бұрын
Gold what is being said. All about memory renegotiation I've been learning
@Atmanyatri
@Atmanyatri 3 ай бұрын
Thank you julien, you are helping me a lot
@kathythompson2710
@kathythompson2710 10 ай бұрын
For 30 years my husband would ask me how I felt about something when I told him he would tell me " you're wrong you don't feel that way. So I just stopped feeling. He died and now I want to feel again.
@sonyavincent7450
@sonyavincent7450 8 ай бұрын
Now that he's gone, this is your time to reclaim your life and learn to feel your own feelings. Also to make your own decisions and they are yours to make, and the outcomes are yours as well.
@seahorse196
@seahorse196 8 ай бұрын
I started the Sedona method 2 years ago and it's been great! Now going into nondualy. What ride but I'm really happy to see we took a similar direction. Thx btw for helping me to get laid when i was 20. Keep spreading the word of peace ! Would love to see you in person one day
@benbelaboehm
@benbelaboehm 8 ай бұрын
He's so on the point with this one! Sums up the letting go book and somatic experiencing by Peter Levine in this little KZfaq video❤
@sandra8991
@sandra8991 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for this 🌺
@magnellah
@magnellah 4 ай бұрын
Very creative way of describing Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
@djordjedjordjevic8085
@djordjedjordjevic8085 11 ай бұрын
Thank you Julien. I really appreciate you.
@kyul9357
@kyul9357 5 ай бұрын
Absolutely nailed it. Abraham Hicks also teaches this method.
@lmf3880
@lmf3880 9 ай бұрын
Kudos. Youve just solved 99 percent of the worlds problem in a 25 min video. Keep up this work!
@unknownhybrid4496
@unknownhybrid4496 10 ай бұрын
Wow i love you man. You help me think in different ways.
@vortexfx420
@vortexfx420 11 ай бұрын
I let go, I clear my thoughts and it goes away. Practice it over again if it pops up in your head. Simple 💓💓
@kd-1-9942
@kd-1-9942 9 ай бұрын
This video is crash course of many life changing programs. Just it’s very difficult to actually understand it from heart. So will watch it 20-30 times. I am not comfortable with the part which asks to feel it as that thing didn’t work for me yet. Very great work! 👏
@stephanijeopdevelt5600
@stephanijeopdevelt5600 5 ай бұрын
It's Not about feeling it alone. It's about accepting the sensation the feeling Highlights in your body and to kind of allowing its existence and relaxing Into the sensation. At least that's how I understand it. Maybe this helps?
@christiangasior4244
@christiangasior4244 8 ай бұрын
You guys will all be okay. I have schizoaffective disorder, adhd, ptsd, social anxiety disorder, substance use disorder, and suicidal ideation and tendencies. I recently just lost the plot so bad but also I took a good look at myself and didn’t like what I saw. Basically watching one of these videos sent me into a psychosis but now I feel more adult and I’m gonna leave this house with my family at 38 years old using my ssi and some HUD housing.
@h.saied12
@h.saied12 5 ай бұрын
Hope you find peace of mind and all what you wish for
@christiangasior4244
@christiangasior4244 5 ай бұрын
@@h.saied12 Aw you’re sweet. Thank you so much 😊. I hope you’re doing well and happy holidays.
@electricityofmind6300
@electricityofmind6300 29 күн бұрын
how did it go, are you feeling better today?
@Chaon_ality1111
@Chaon_ality1111 10 ай бұрын
Spooky timing, I really needed this.Thanks!
@ozzyakram441
@ozzyakram441 5 ай бұрын
julien absolute legend man
@christinehallfeldt4280
@christinehallfeldt4280 14 күн бұрын
This makes sense in an insane level. Basically breaking down the barriers we place to not feel something especially after something traumatic as your mind is in survival mode and places up defenses to protect you inadvertently cause you harm in the long run. Very deep and insightful this topic as is the first real thing that's benefited me personally. 😊😊
@zewmania
@zewmania 5 ай бұрын
Most impactful video ever… excited and scared to try the technique
@alexinivai08
@alexinivai08 Ай бұрын
This video has been life changing for me
@meeshapip4409
@meeshapip4409 6 ай бұрын
Also this advice just freed me from the fear of not being able to quit all my bad habits. Thank you
@jewel2022now
@jewel2022now 9 ай бұрын
Awesome!!! Love you talk. So true. And.....so hard
@Analysiscapital
@Analysiscapital 5 ай бұрын
When I was in high school, I remember calling a friend one time. We started talking about our parents/family, and we got emotional and started crying on the phone. I straight balled my eyes and went over the abuse I felt and it felt more liberating.
@jvyas76
@jvyas76 3 ай бұрын
Bro... you are the best!! Thank god for RSD....
@spicayellux4036
@spicayellux4036 4 ай бұрын
Thank you, it helps a lot
@lucaberg8789
@lucaberg8789 11 ай бұрын
that cliff metaphor is sooo good
@rafalmik
@rafalmik 5 ай бұрын
This is the best, most eye opening speech I have ever heard. Can’t even … This should be thought at school.
@pratham3537
@pratham3537 11 ай бұрын
Avg self help consumer :- cold is the enemy . julien :- You have no enemies
@PhsychoSomatic
@PhsychoSomatic 19 күн бұрын
I noticed it with cold showers. Once you ease and relax into it, it doesnt bother you at ALL. I imagine whatever blockage one might have, same approach applies
@nicholasherbert5367
@nicholasherbert5367 9 ай бұрын
It all makes sense now! I would always hear “Let it go! Make peace with whatever is bothering you.” I tried to make peace but it never let it go. I used to have people I was really close with to release my negative energy on. They also did the same to me. It wasn’t much but having an attitude at times. I moved 1000 miles away and I no longer have them people around me to have an attitude with to release this energy. How do I release this energy now if not through attitude?
@stephanijeopdevelt5600
@stephanijeopdevelt5600 5 ай бұрын
My suggestion: Move your body. Sports, dancing, household chors etc. Release the energy trapped as Adrenalin in your muscles.
@luxonful
@luxonful 10 ай бұрын
One of THE most eyeopening videos on KZfaq. I think everyone has to fall down so he/she can rise🙋🏻‍♂️
@onaligan
@onaligan 11 ай бұрын
Nice content !
@TrueMG
@TrueMG 11 ай бұрын
You always upload these bigger videos when I need them the most. Very appreciated.
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself 11 ай бұрын
You’re so welcome!
@henryviii4010
@henryviii4010 9 ай бұрын
The physical feelings in the body are EVERYthing. On year 2, amazing leaps and bounds. Some really dark and painful days but all worth it.
@RPGyourLIFE
@RPGyourLIFE 10 ай бұрын
Julien i want to be my best self just to meet you one day and thank you. Thanks man
@Lover-of-wisdom.
@Lover-of-wisdom. 6 ай бұрын
Good stuff 👍
@336snake
@336snake 8 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@NikiLivi5
@NikiLivi5 9 ай бұрын
I never had anxiety or depression until I had Covid then after I found out my spouse had been cheating for 9 months. But for the few years prior I didn’t realize he was fussing at me when I’d get ready to go somewhere telling me to hurry and we would be late even if I wasn’t running late. So it caused me to stress out to get ready to go anywhere and I stopped going. I used to be the happiest easy going person you would meet. Now I can’t stand being around anyone. Thank you for this video!
@Erika_Kelly_Apparel
@Erika_Kelly_Apparel 9 ай бұрын
That letting go book will change your life!!!
@chaz7604
@chaz7604 3 ай бұрын
Said two comments, but this is my third (just to myself in the ether)… this is amazing x
@lollybagmike2502
@lollybagmike2502 11 ай бұрын
Just got laid off from my casual job I had for the last four months, I knew it wasn't gonna last forever and it lasted longfwe than it was supposed to, but still sucked that I didn't get any notice and just told me after work finished this afternoon, I've already applied for nearly 10 other jobs and am keeping a positive mindset, I really enjoy watching videos like this and just look at this situation as an exciting new turn of events haha, just wanted to vent a little here to some lovely strangers on the internet, thanks! 😂😊
@Mikodemuz11
@Mikodemuz11 11 ай бұрын
It's gonna get good Mike! :)
@SuperQdaddy
@SuperQdaddy 10 ай бұрын
Balance and focus...work hard play hard chill hard...breathe
@elephantapede
@elephantapede 9 ай бұрын
Thanks bro.
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