I spent a day with KIDNAPPING SURVIVORS
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Күн бұрынI spent a day with kidnapping survivors to learn about their horrifying experiences and how their lives have changed since escaping.
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❌KIDNAPPING RESOURCES
▸ If you think you may have seen, or know information about a missing child, please report it immediately at: report.cybertip.org
▸ Program for Preventing Abduction: idsmartz.org
▸ Services and Support to Resolve Missing Persons Cases: namus.gov
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▸ JAN BROBERG - / janibroberg , / janbroberg
▸ ALICIA KOZAK - / itsaliciakozak , aliciakozak.com
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@leahstarz2345 3 жыл бұрын
HI ( I was first lol)
@emielbouckaert1520 3 жыл бұрын
Ok sounds good
@jdwmyt 3 жыл бұрын
Q: How does the ocean say hello? A: It waves.
@jakevanduine 3 жыл бұрын
YAY
@mehcomix4361 3 жыл бұрын
Ooh that’ll be so cool!
@tir3d_al1za 3 жыл бұрын
being kidnapped even for an HOUR would be so terrifying.
@kayquesada47 3 жыл бұрын
alizasucks for 5 mins even. These horrible people. Thank goodness these people r alive today to tell their tale, since not a lot of people have survived💔
@editswyaofficial531 3 жыл бұрын
just a second would be traumatizing
@luzi8044 3 жыл бұрын
@@c4tm0chi45 kid
@ven.9531 3 жыл бұрын
@@c4tm0chi45 ehh ur mom is just crazy not a witch
@ven.9531 3 жыл бұрын
@@c4tm0chi45 can I make a anime about this
@m4R.s_222 3 жыл бұрын
4 days is 96 hours 5760 minutes 345 600 seconds one second is enough to get one punch. let that sink in before saying it's not big.
@wockstarsavv 3 жыл бұрын
thank you for this comment!
@Bella-fm4zx 3 жыл бұрын
Hey is it okay if a put copy and paste? I am going make sure they know I copied and I found it from you I already have the comment made if you wanna see it but it is clear that I found it from you
@topaz6995 3 жыл бұрын
345600 seconds. each one spent fearing for your life. who ever said or is saying "only 4 days?" needs to be more empathetic.
@reichr 3 жыл бұрын
OML Thats actually true- maybe its actually 5 seconds but, yeah
@themadlad7051 3 жыл бұрын
It can take less then a second to get punched accutally so its even worse, i hope these people who kidnapped them burn in hell
@kittyratrawr Жыл бұрын
Those jail times make me sick. 19 days. Kidnapping and violating a CHILD should be at the LEAST like 50 years. Absolutely unforgivable.
@marissa._ Жыл бұрын
It should be death penalty!
@kittyratrawr Жыл бұрын
@@marissa._ i'm fine with that!
@xarathos5168 Жыл бұрын
Anyone who would sexually assault a child deserves a painful death
@manojayyappan2970 Жыл бұрын
no it should be life in prison
@Arcadiabaezz Жыл бұрын
Atleast 20 badgillion years😻😻😻😻
@briannalee1998 Жыл бұрын
Once a creep kidnaps a child, they should NEVER be released from jail.
@Colecruzin Жыл бұрын
Afuckinmen
@Chocolicious_Star Жыл бұрын
and should be tortured very badly (:
@sighems Жыл бұрын
LITERALLY… nobody would change after willingly kidnapping
@shloprop4751 Жыл бұрын
At a minimum they should never be let out ever.
@Spinzgoat Жыл бұрын
@@PydroAJ kidnapping doesnt mean rape, torture or any of those things you listed its just taking someone hostage
@darkswarn 3 жыл бұрын
only 4 ?! How dare everyone who says that. I saw and interview about a woman being abducted for "only" 8 hours in these 8 hours he tried to drown her 4 times, raped her multiple times, choked her, beat her so all her rips were broken and she had inner bleeding plus multiple fractures..again in "only" 8 hours. Image having to go through this for 4!! days
@PopsJoe 3 жыл бұрын
That would even feel longer. Imagine waiting 10 mins while bored, it feels longer than it should be. More so when you are in a dangerous situation without any guarantee of escape. Every hour would feel like an eternity, it would would be scarring mentally and emotionally. What really sucks after this is you'll never be the same after these kind of incidents.
@ladymercy5275 3 жыл бұрын
They were trying to help the person move on, emotionally. Your outrage makes you feel exhilarated, and is predicated on a lack of empathy, ironically.
@starrynight1165 3 жыл бұрын
@@ladymercy5275 what are you on? Invalidating someones trauma isnt going to help them get over it, itll just make them feel worse.
@pearl92391 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, 4 days isnt nothing.
@ImBlueDaBaDeeDaBaDaa 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, time means nothing if you're put in a stressful, painful situation. It doesn't matter if it's a few days, or even a few minutes, or even a few SECONDS. In that moment, every single second is horrible, and intensified. Every moment dragged out to seem like it lasts longer. The fear stays with you, changes you. People who told her that to her face clearly don't understand, and they don't care to either.
@mattayotte8681 3 жыл бұрын
Saying “iT wAs oNlY fOuR daYs” is like saying they only cut off your feet and only ONE of your hands you have your other hand your fine
@bois-se8id 3 жыл бұрын
When did he say that
@Lore.n 3 жыл бұрын
SADBOYS production he never did, she’s saying that people who told her that
@strudelh 3 жыл бұрын
@@bois-se8id its just an example.
@satanssweetheart8197 3 жыл бұрын
SADBOYS production it’s just an example
@rooracleaf561 3 жыл бұрын
Would you rather spend four days in an unfamiliar place, or PERMANENTLY lose 3 pretty important body parts. It really isn’t the same. Yes, it would be better if they never went at all, but leaving with all your limbs after a 4 day stay with a stranger is much better than dying
@williamhunt704 2 жыл бұрын
Imagine going through major rape or sexual assault, and people say," It was for only 4 days. It wasnt THAT bad." It doesnt matter how long it is,it is of the trauma that the victim has
@YukiSilverFox72 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, like when someone says they are wary of dogs because one bit them in the past. A bite/attack can range from moments to a few minutes. Or even a car crash. These events can happen so fast but leave years of trauma to resolve. People drown in 3 feet of water and in 10 feet and so on. Don't discount what has happened to a person.
@DAREDEVIL-dm4yh Жыл бұрын
What kind of people are they??? Man 😔😔
@EggsToYourBacon Жыл бұрын
@@YukiSilverFox72 Exactly. The most traumatic experience of my life only lasted about 10 minutes, but it took me almost 10 *years* to start recovering.
@armdick1801 11 ай бұрын
No like being r3ped once is horrible in itself but over and over for 4 days where you can’t escape and then someone has the audacity to say it wasn’t that bad what the actual hell is wrong is people
@kristiestorie6978 10 ай бұрын
I admit I was shocked that people are so BOLD to say this too her! What a bunch of assholes! Those FOUR days probably tore hear moms/dads heart out! Caused tons of physical, mental and emotional damage to her and they say “that’s NOT very long!” Oh I wish I was there when they said this! I would have snapped back! ❤
@ddrw1 Жыл бұрын
“4 days ain’t that bad” I can’t believe there’s people like that. I bet they would be crying and sobbing from just a couple minutes of what they went through.
@BobBob-vy9ds Жыл бұрын
Yeah, a lot of the times when ever I think of someone going through a r@p3 then I forget and often times am in disbelief that it could really only last less than ten minutes sometimes, yet the person is still most likely scarred for life.
@Nekcrop 11 ай бұрын
if I spent 20 minutes in a car being kidnapped I would literally shit myself
@FancyCat-jw2qz 10 ай бұрын
@@NekcropIf I spent TWO SECONDS in a car being kiddnapped I’d pee and poop myself
@luna_elvenstar 4 ай бұрын
FR the SECOND i am in that car i have passed out from terror😭😭😭
@-RAIN03- 7 күн бұрын
1 second is terrifying
@sarahmichelle1006 3 жыл бұрын
CHILDREN CANNOT AND WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO CONSENT TO ANY ADULT SEXUAL ACTIVITY.
@Shadow-vd7es 3 жыл бұрын
And that’s a fact
@anderson-skatervibe775 3 жыл бұрын
@@Shadow-vd7es nice
@theunicorn1167 3 жыл бұрын
Period.
@MrSlimeMan01 3 жыл бұрын
Fax
@monbub 3 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@katie3250 3 жыл бұрын
why is no one talking about the fact that the kidnappers got like NO JAIL TIME
@K.Adler1120 3 жыл бұрын
It pisses me off too much to even think about it....
@urdaddy8801 3 жыл бұрын
It's becuase the cjs look out for their own. Why do you think rich people get like no jail time? They're also rich. Same with rapists.
@strawberrymilkshake9074 3 жыл бұрын
@@davidela9022 all child molester and rapist, once undeniable proof is given, should have an immediate bullet to the head! Natural selection. Then they can't ever hurt anyone again. And people will be deterred from doing it. People will continue to do this if they know they'll be out of prison in no time.
@Kelslshea 3 жыл бұрын
Strawberry Milkshake in my opinion, that’s the easy way out. I respect your opinion, but pedophiles get treated so poorly in prison (as they should) and I feel like it’s much better for them to have to go through the torture that they put on others.
@Kelslshea 3 жыл бұрын
david Ela I respect your opinion as well my dude(:
@jdot3345 Жыл бұрын
I know this video is old, but as a survivor of kidnap & rape by multiple people (including family members) I have to say I am incredibly proud of what the 2 women have done. My long, multi-year story isn’t public & never covered by the news, so I don’t know what it would be like to deal with the emotional trauma in a public way, but I do know how I dealt with it in a very private, hush-hush environment. My trauma wasn’t recognized, nor was there any justice served. I was shamed as a child if I mentioned anything about what I went through. In fact, in January of this year (2022) did I finally admit to someone what I went through. While I have openly talked about a few things, I’d hid the entire horror from my husband, kids & friends. I appreciate you supporting surviving champions who have been through living hell & came out with a an immeasurable about of strength, grace, empathy & resilience in order to help others understand how to do the same, no matter their story or own experience.
@icyhot9850 Жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of you for continuing on with your life and for continuing to do so. It's terrible you went through that, and I'm so sorry it all happened. But I'm glad you can open up about it now and heal further. Thank you for living, internet stranger :)
@blorblin Жыл бұрын
You are so strong and I hope you can live your life freely from now on.
@jdot3345 Жыл бұрын
@@icyhot9850 Thank you friendly stranger! There are no words that can ever express how appreciative I am for the kindness, support! Thank you
@jdot3345 Жыл бұрын
@@blorblin Thank You so much! After finally opening up about what happened, I definitely noticed a more positive shift within myself & my relationships which is amazing!
@Diana3229 Жыл бұрын
Can’t imagine how incredibly difficult that must have been. I hope you are in a better environment and can continue to heal. Sending love your way ❣️
@SkrymNV Жыл бұрын
When i was 15 i met a girl online. We started talking and she said something along the lines of "we should meet up in person". I was seriously debating it but decided against it in the end. I don't know if this was a dangerous person or if this really was the girl like she said. If my parents didn't teach me about internet safety i'm pretty sure i would have gone. Knowledge is power.
@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans Жыл бұрын
in 2020 i talked to this boy on playstation messages, (his voice sounded maybe 16) and we never really talked much and when locations were mentioned, he said his actual state but i said a general location (north/south/east/west) and i never even specified in what country either but then my father found out and i lost all devices up until the middle of 2021 that time alone was filled with the most crippling depression i’ve ever felt, but it was for the best, i guess
@goofyahh_9215 Жыл бұрын
My dad once told me even if the person IS who they say they are its not worth risking it because it could cost your life
@cooldog69 Жыл бұрын
W parents
@porfiriato84 11 ай бұрын
Dude I'm surprised I never got catfished or got in any danger after meeting so many girls thru dating apps. I don't do that anymore but yeah you just never know. So many creeps out there
@ellecimz6618 15 күн бұрын
@@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans I get if he was trying to protect you but I wish he had done it in a more reasonable way. Cell phones were barely even a thing when I was in high school but once they were if you didn't have one you didn't get invited places usually. I wish parents understood to use discipline sparsely and to communicate and watch over your kids. They can't stop you from using the internet as it is intended. Chatting with strangers is a part of a lot of games. Sounds like you were smart and I am sorry you were punished for it. That's not fair in my opinion.
@nyah6987 3 жыл бұрын
Why would someone ever say "only four days" like that's fucking disusing .
@cloudedcreator 3 жыл бұрын
Right
@ktvvitch8323 3 жыл бұрын
I agree, she was terrified for her life... she knew the day she was rescued that she was going to die.... don’t down play the trauma she went through by saying “only _ amount of days”... the time period doesn’t matter, it was traumatizing and shouldn’t have happened..... PERIOD
@yea9677 3 жыл бұрын
It’s only four fays
@lily_Hef 3 жыл бұрын
@@yea9677 are you kidding me?! Four days is a long time. For you to even comment that is disgusting
@bbycheetahgirl 3 жыл бұрын
@@yea9677 you can't even spell right so you're clearly not educated
@decaf-but-tired6488 3 жыл бұрын
For reference to people who say “4 days isn’t that bad”: Sexual assault can happen in seconds, and that can be a life altering event. Imagine how much assault can happen in in 4 days, even one.
@LeneChibi 3 жыл бұрын
My trauma happened in 10 minutes. I can't even imagine what it's like to endure even 4 days of torture. My heart is broken, I want to protect all of them :(
@decaf-but-tired6488 3 жыл бұрын
LeneChibi I’m so sorry that happened to you!
@iamkitty1192 3 жыл бұрын
Ray Of Fucking Sunshine oh my gosh that’s horrible
@DesertThorns 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly, it only takes one moment to ruin a lifetime.
@someasiankid6323 3 жыл бұрын
@@LeneChibi F
@oliviapasquarelli99 10 ай бұрын
When I was 13, my best friends older brother, who was a decade older than me, attempted to convince me to sneak out and get in his car via AIM messenger. I almost did. At 13, I thought it was cool that someone older would want to ‘hang out’ with me. When I look back on it, it gives me goosebumps imagining what could’ve happened. I wish I had more knowledge about how to interact with people online. I can’t blame my parents because at that time, the internet was so new.
@certifiedgreg_rose 10 ай бұрын
Thank god you didn't get in that car.
@obzidian3746 7 ай бұрын
Or maybe he really wanted to hang out🤷♂️
@char6081 5 ай бұрын
@@obzidian3746shut up
@the1Goatee 3 ай бұрын
@@obzidian3746 💀
@EditorRosalind 3 ай бұрын
@@obzidian3746 😶😶😦😶
@Kaylee.lastname Жыл бұрын
As a SA survivor, Every minute that things went on, was a minute too long. It’s absurd that someone would say that four days being KIDNAPPED, TORTURED, and ASSAULTED isn’t “that bad”. And it was live streamed? The hell. The ignorance of some people
@abigailcanales5590 3 жыл бұрын
Im sorry, LESS THAN A YEAR FOR REPETEDLY RAPING A CHILD?!?!?! I can't even fathom how that judgement could be just in any way.
@crystalwolcott4744 3 жыл бұрын
It's so messed up. I can't even press charges against the man who repeatedly sexually assaulted me as a child because, get this, the statute of limitations is 7 years in my state. Seven years after he stopped he still had complete control over me financially and since I was still a child I wasn't even fully aware that what he had done was wrong.
@supergabee 3 жыл бұрын
Crystal Wolcott I am so sorry that you had to go through that. I hope that you were able to get help to deal with that and that you are able to have an absolutely beautiful life from now own.
@keylimetea 3 жыл бұрын
Rape charges aren’t taken seriously enough and neither are pedo charges... like they should get the death sentence
@tibetanmonk385 3 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the American justice system
@youratowel97 3 жыл бұрын
Crystal Wolcott I’m so sorry that happened to you.. I hope you’re in a better place. ♥️
@honeybakedkae 3 жыл бұрын
“4 days? that’s not that’s bad!” most abducted children are murdered within 24 hours of being taken so like... 4 days is actually REALLY bad
@eclipseisbmyt666 3 жыл бұрын
It was like a slow murderer
@MN-ys2pe 3 жыл бұрын
Even worse most places don't take missing reports until its been after 24 hours since the person has gone missing. I'm not sure about this though I've just heard it somewhere
@eclipseisbmyt666 3 жыл бұрын
Hay Thi That is only a myth, however I believe that myth is starting to become a fact...
@BecBoops 3 жыл бұрын
@@MN-ys2pe this is not true for missing kids
@MN-ys2pe 3 жыл бұрын
@@eclipseisbmyt666 I hope it stays a myth and not become reality
@codigutierrez5281 Жыл бұрын
I haven't been kidnapped, but I have been a victim of brutal abuse, sex trafficking, torture, neglect, and a list of other things. And what I gotta say for those who wanna victim blame and for those who want to minimize or degrade all of us who went through those traumas and traumas of all sorts, walk in our shoes for the amount of years, months, hours, even minutes of the trauma we've faced. People need to be aware of these things and need to be taught how to avoid being in these situations. These girls are heroes in my eyes. They deserve every inch of respect. They are trying to make a difference for this world by talking about what they went through and teaching kids and adults how they can avoid these experiences. These women are brave. They don't just speak for themselves, and they don't just speak for other survivors of kidnapping, but they speak for all of us who went through some serious trauma and are our voices. For that, I thank them very much.
@bkn1210 Жыл бұрын
this is the most terrifying video i've watched compared to the nutty putty cave incident. i don't EVER wanna trust strangers. i feel so bad for Alicia too, she got rap*d and tortured, it was terrifying to listen. i learned from this video, i'm never letting go of anyone i know and love.
@Jappa3 Жыл бұрын
Oh yeah I remember the nutty putty cave incident…
@bkn1210 Жыл бұрын
holy crap 101 likes?
@eriven_tq Жыл бұрын
@@Jappa3 the hell is that
@Jappa3 Жыл бұрын
@@eriven_tq some dude got trapped in a cave upside down in this very narrow area, he was stuck for days until he eventually passed away. Dude was an experienced cave explorer whilst also being pretty flexible, which is the reason why very few people even managed to reach him
@eriven_tq Жыл бұрын
@@Jappa3 ye I just watched it I was curious, that thing is scary
@ErikaChristinaGdA 3 жыл бұрын
Imagine saying: “that’s not that bad” to someone that has been raped, beaten and kidnapped for four days I-
@savannahssuffering 3 жыл бұрын
Anonymous bruh are you making this a gender competition, keep that on tiktok my dude
@ihjtmq 3 жыл бұрын
@Anonymous Well yeah obviously, but the VAST majority are men. Plus starting a sentence with "I felt really sorry for these women *but* " doesn't look too favorable for you
@Chrismosis 3 жыл бұрын
@MB i have seen cases of women commiting equal or worse crimes, i am not saying that there aren't horrible men out there that commit terrible acts against women. but there are just as many women commiting terrible act to men and the truth is that the justice system is far less fair to men than it is to women, women often get lesser sentences for the same crimes, and the system has a nasty habit of siding with women no matter the circumstances, with questions like "what did he do to make her mad?" the male version of "what was she wearing?" once again i am not trying to make light of what happened to either of the women in this video or anyone else for that matter, just saying that horrible things happen to both sexes and are commited by both sexes.
@crazygal9957 3 жыл бұрын
@@savannahssuffering we get that this happens to men too, but you're dismissing what happened to her making you apart of the problem
@mickey5712 3 жыл бұрын
*_KIDNAPPED IS KIDNAPPED MK_* (sorry I'm just saying that kidnapped is just kidnapped it doesn't matter how many days or the gender or age oof this might look like I'm saying it's good to kidnap but it's just the opposite of that qnq)
@RoyalRoses 3 жыл бұрын
Who ever told that brave woman, "4 days?? Thats not that bad!" Is a rotten and sick person.
@mcnugsbitch7266 3 жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t say that. I think they just don’t understand because they haven’t experienced anything like it
@Bilbosh4ggins 3 жыл бұрын
They’re probably 12 ur olds that think they can say anything bc “it’s just a word”
@bhavikakosambia3307 3 жыл бұрын
I'm a little scared tht they had to suffer much longer and thts why 4 days seems less?
@Bilbosh4ggins 3 жыл бұрын
bhavika Kosambia r u saying that bc of longer experiences 4 days seem less?
@TheseUseless 3 жыл бұрын
The majority of kidnapping victims will be dead, by then.
@remirusaiki Жыл бұрын
"I didn't know that I wasn't the only 'special one' that grandpa had." This shot chills down my spine...
@Dreamingforinfinity456 Ай бұрын
Honestly But what exactly did he mean when he said “special one”
@vadamoser3376 Күн бұрын
@@Dreamingforinfinity456 like jan said, this man would take advantage of his young granddaughters and s*xually assault them for years until they were 16-17. "special one" is a way of convincing them that he loves them different than anyone else, and that what he's doing to them comes from a place of love when it does not. it comes from a place of control
@goodnightkaden 2 жыл бұрын
I’m honestly in constant fear of being kidnapped. I side-eye people suspiciously when my gut and intuition says to, I stay away from creeps, I watch true crime to defend myself, and then hearing voices who speak out about educate me. Hope these women are doing okay.
@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans Жыл бұрын
my father has been teaching both me and my brother self defense at the gym i’m so grateful for him for that, i know not everyone has that
@elvenkind6072 Ай бұрын
@@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans Great dad. I've been thinking of figuring out some way to make my son join a self-defense thing of some sort, because he's a fragile, very kind and good nature and have Asperger, but with low self confidence I think.. I've been training HEMA (Historical European Martial Arts), and can probably knock out almost anyone if I just have a stick or similar, it get built into muscle memory, and tried to bring him once, but he thought it was scary with the swords, and perhaps too rough for him. Do you have any advice of what made you interested in it?
@wonderverse9 3 жыл бұрын
19 DAYS FOR KIDNAPPING A CHILD FOR 4 YEARS? WHAT THE HELL-
@samb2814 3 жыл бұрын
ikr
@savageskittlez4896 3 жыл бұрын
They should get 50 to life
@milknotes9918 3 жыл бұрын
WHAT THE HELL
@akiramireina1244 3 жыл бұрын
IKR TF
@Its-kien 3 жыл бұрын
like i don't understand why people just wanna make people lives worst and just kidnapped them like ugh-
@marieharris8095 3 жыл бұрын
In my opinion even one day is terrible and awful..
@ivonnecaradenacho3726 3 жыл бұрын
heck Hours and Minutes are awful
@derpoverload 3 жыл бұрын
When she said she was tortured for four days I was shocked and horrified. Every second must feel like forever.
@kivella 3 жыл бұрын
Even milliseconds and nanoseconds...
@bluemood6125 3 жыл бұрын
derpoverload yea and people have the ordasedy(sos I’m bad at English) to say OnLy FoUr DaYs
@lukagikic9077 3 жыл бұрын
In my opinion, even a few seconds is atrocious
@stillakilla3598 Жыл бұрын
One thing about when you are kidnapped, yeah it may have only been hours, but it may have felt like days, and if has been at least 48-72+ hours, then it seems like the days merge, and the only things you can really think about is death, hope, and the how helpless you are. Its a sad, painful, traumatic experience.
@vecina_101 Жыл бұрын
Yup I agree and it’s true. When it happened to me all I could think about was if I would be killed and all I did was pray. Also yea even a couple hours can seem like years and years.
@blisserio Жыл бұрын
The fact that it was all live streamed is traumatizing yet it was her life savor.
@najahw1566 3 жыл бұрын
Pedophilia will never 👏🏾 be 👏🏾 a 👏🏾 sexuality 👏🏾.
@d5madeit 3 жыл бұрын
its sad asf this world is literally legalizing it and making it normal
@alexisstormy 3 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏
@elisabethjones9576 3 жыл бұрын
PERIOD
@JC-cn9yj 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes on rare scenarios people don’t act on being sexually attracted to kids but like so rare it should not be legal period
@PastelFire99 3 жыл бұрын
Children cannot consent. That isn’t an opinion, it is a FACT.
@maisiedatson 3 жыл бұрын
kidnapping is my worst fear. I have so much respect for these people. edit: thanks for all the likes :))
@tessa9201 3 жыл бұрын
User damn i hate the world bc of the fact u have to say that
@starrynight1165 3 жыл бұрын
@User yep, but sometimes there may be someone so far gone that they just dont feel it which us scary, thats why a weapon is needed and not just the spray
@toweldog355 3 жыл бұрын
My worst fear is being trapped in a tiny metal box sealed tight, and I have to escape in like an Hour, or else it will slowly start getting smaller and smaller until my bones break, blood will gush out from every opening and I slowly and painfully become a mangled corpse
@KiX-K4T13 3 жыл бұрын
If I ever have kids, this will be my biggest fear.
@spokyjuice.5268 3 жыл бұрын
Tha-that’s not a very pleasant thought..
@yeeeeeet3498 Жыл бұрын
As a kidnapping survivor myself. This video was so well done and well handled by Anthony and it felt so nice to watch this and feel less alone in such a scary world. Sometimes I watch back at this video again for the comfort. Thank you Anthony ❤️
@miyaibrahim5744 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so inspired by Alicia and Jan for being strong enough to come out and speak about that in this video. Alicia is honestly working so hard to prevent others from experiencing what she did, because she went through it and no one deserves to go through what these brave women went through. Lots of love to anyone who went through such a thing, you don't deserve it and if you haven't overcome it yet (which is a huge step) then I hope you do.
@DB-wb1tz 3 жыл бұрын
If someone told me “Just 4 days?” I would have responded with “Well, how many days have you spent in a strangers basement getting tortured and sexually assaulted?”
@PusheenPoprocksIsTired 3 жыл бұрын
I know right??? Like, excuse me, have you gone through the situation? No, you haven't, so stop pretending like it's no big deal. People can be such idiots.
@MADEbySOUL 3 жыл бұрын
Say “rape” for some reason “sexual assault” makes people not take it seriously.
@meyu1468 3 жыл бұрын
Sirama This. I despise when people label something like forcing a peck on someone’s lips as sexual assault. Was it not good to do? Yes. But was it sexual assault? Absolutely fucking not. It gets downplayed so damn much that talking about rape even sounds like a joke. People literally use rape as a joke these days, like “don’t turn around or i’ll rape u”. I can’t take it, it’s so fucking insensitive.
@leamartin8392 3 жыл бұрын
Right? 4 days must seem like a lifetime, when you don’t know if you are going to live or die. Being terrified for every single second of that time must really mess with your head.
@brittanyboudreau3514 3 жыл бұрын
Seriously!? Could you imagine someone just torturing you for even an hour?
@d3adyoutubeaccount 3 жыл бұрын
To all the toxic people who say “only four days” it was four days of hell.
@julietphilips2329 3 жыл бұрын
who is even saying four days
@julietphilips2329 3 жыл бұрын
who is even saying four days
@d3adyoutubeaccount 3 жыл бұрын
tiffany philips Watch the video first Moron
@aang3267 3 жыл бұрын
The people saying those things deserve 4 days in hell
@elizabethbooknerd5429 3 жыл бұрын
4 days too long
@marcc.2365 Жыл бұрын
Hearing this is so disturbing. I hate the feeling, and I can’t see these things too often. Alicia and Jan are so strong.
@lesleyella Жыл бұрын
I remember being groomed by lots of men when I was 12 (2009) it really is scary. Luckily I didn't meet anyone as they didn't show up and I went with my friend to the cinema so I wasn't alone and another time my mum read the messages and called the police to protect me but they definitely sent extremely explicit messages and showed explicit things on camera as well as asking me to. I feel lucky for never being captured physically but it's still traumatising and I can't imagine the fear these women felt, I'm so happy to see them thriving now.
@masteryoda5931 3 жыл бұрын
Love how Anthony respects everyone who is on his show no matter their situation or wellbeing
@xxnoisysisterxx1361 3 жыл бұрын
yess
@cosmixdust 3 жыл бұрын
yess
@captaindystopia 3 жыл бұрын
everyone should do that.
@emielbouckaert1520 3 жыл бұрын
Yess
@volcanoacid1 3 жыл бұрын
Call it opposite of keemstar
@ariisair 3 жыл бұрын
The fact that they were willing to share their stories at all is admirable on its own.
@queer-ios3155 3 жыл бұрын
Reliving the worst day of their lives again. They are so strong.
@ann_gaynor7112 3 жыл бұрын
@Alexis telling the story allows one to control the narrative.. they werent in control of what happened to them..but they can control how their story is told.
@ashariea_8088 3 жыл бұрын
Yes
@evie37 3 жыл бұрын
@Alexis it was a heartbreaking experiance and they were very hurt in those days eveb months its hard to tell about something that could have hurt them almost to death so its hard to say that relive it in words
@leethompson3118 3 жыл бұрын
So true that they do it is bound to be hard but they did it
@ravengray3095 Жыл бұрын
When I first started going online, my mom sat me down and drew a diagram with just two circles, one smaller and inside the larger. She said “the smaller circle is the people you can tell everything to, inside the bigger circle is things you tell some people but not others, and outside the circle is people you can’t share anything with.” Then she had me go through and put a dot for where family fell on that scale, friends, and online friends. When I was done she explained the dangers of meeting people online and made sure I was aware that I can’t tell people online anything that could lead them to me. I think that every parent needs to have this conversation with their kid
@miaalvandi Жыл бұрын
It’s so incredible to watch these types of videos and see the kidnapping survivors point of view and see how they escaped and what happened to them!
@humanthatexist8257 3 жыл бұрын
Stupid people: ONly fOUr dAYs Could be just me but I’m pretty sure any amount of time spent being tortured in a basement is too much time spent being tortured in a basement.
@rocki7426 3 жыл бұрын
bruhh imagine having to go to sleep 3 times in a row inside a torture basement, not even knowing if you'll wake up 😭
@soapmeister7713 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@jayden7736 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly I couldn't even imagine an hour of torture. Torture is torture either way and people who think "4 days" isn't bad should learn that so much can happen so easily in such little time
@allisonhogarth2983 3 жыл бұрын
XRYING 5 minutes of torture would break me forever. one minute.
@s0apy-_-bubbl3s 3 жыл бұрын
10 minutes or 10 hours. it’s still torture
@amberchaba1148 Жыл бұрын
This video made me almost cry 🥺 their so strong, for sharing their story and living a lovely life, despite what they have gone though. It reminds me that no matter what happens to you in life you can be strong and move through it.
@azulebabes9141 Жыл бұрын
These two are so brave and inspirational...I cant even fathom how traumatic these experiences must have been
@missmadison9258 3 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe someone actually told Alicia that “oh four days isn’t that bad/long.” Trauma doesn’t have a shelf life.
@TestChannelOfcourse 3 жыл бұрын
Yes it does
@zenzonerzz4789 3 жыл бұрын
@@TestChannelOfcourse no, it really doesn't...
@missmadison9258 3 жыл бұрын
FamousBump Elaborate.
@zachbocchino5501 3 жыл бұрын
People who think that a minute is fast they clearly have not done a plank. Some people are idiots.
@mono8476 3 жыл бұрын
I mean, when u compare it to people who hv been kept it captivity for months or longer (like jaycee dugard), then yea. But in no way am i discrediting wat she went thru. Im just saying theres worse out there EDIT: btw im not referring to the trauma. Im referring to the sentence in commas
@CC-tc7fp 3 жыл бұрын
It doesn’t matter if you were kidnapped for an hour, a day, or a year. Being KIDNAPPED is terrifying and horrible.
@amethystt_ 3 жыл бұрын
exactly.
@landonkuenzi8330 3 жыл бұрын
Yyyyeeeeeeeessssssss
@mattheo4709 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@reynakondaveeti8346 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly it’s a traumatic experience that I would imagine you won’t forget
@shutupidiot4006 3 жыл бұрын
Yea and the kidnappers should be torture just like they did to them
@echoeurope Жыл бұрын
Giant respect to the victims that can tell about the experiences.
@juliafalandocoisas Жыл бұрын
You know, this is the second video I watch from this channel (the first one was about the morticians). At first I thought that it would be anoying because Antony seemed to me like someone who would try to make fun of the situation just to keep it "chill". I have been surprised with how sensible and gentle the conversations have been handled so far. Loving it!
@camilachavez1791 3 жыл бұрын
Once my therapist said to me. “Trauma might have been a few hours or even a few days, but for trauma survivors it is like a million years long. Your brain keeps repeating that event pretty much everyday and you keep reliving which makes it feel like that”
@yiting7456 3 жыл бұрын
🤯
@careygrubb6649 3 жыл бұрын
So true ❤️
@alaskankara 3 жыл бұрын
Trauma could also be a few seconds for all that matter. A car accident, an explosion... I've been through a very bad earthquake that damaged my house quite a lot 4 years ago: it lasted less than a minute but I still have ptsd from it
@starzforever7905 3 жыл бұрын
Camila Chávez That’s basically PTSD
@a_gurl596 3 жыл бұрын
Basically: ADHD
@alisea..7250 3 жыл бұрын
I hate that people actually say stuff like “It was only 4 days”. It doesn’t matter if it was a few minutes, a few hours, or a few days, it’s still a very scary and certainly traumatic experience. A lot can happen in a few minutes and she was there for 4 days! These ladies are so strong, I can’t imagine how scary it must have been to be abducted and feel that sense of hopelessness and not knowing what’s going to happen next.
@ScrubF4ther 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah. Death can happen in a few seconds
@sumacberry 3 жыл бұрын
Who tf even says that- "only" 4 days- this one of the major reasons why people are afraid of opening up.
@minikawaiiworld3429 3 жыл бұрын
So true...i feel when ppl are ignorant they need a taste or wakeup call. Though I don't wish that on anyone.
@thatgirl4652 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr they annoy me so much. The worst part about judging someone is that you can never know what they went through. You always tend to imagine in the negative way.
@yopawpaw7408 3 жыл бұрын
4 days..... do people not know how quick death is? It only takes a moment for people to decide to end your life even when its not your fault.
@lovenestnurture5934 Жыл бұрын
I am so proud of these women for sharing their stories. What a traumatic experience they had to go through. Even an hour being kidnapped could feel like a day. It must be hard for sharing what happened, and I hope these men who had kidnapped you both stay in jail for life and starve. All kidnappers should just go crawl into a hole and stay there forever. Proud of you both for surviving such a horrible time and getting out. So sorry this happened to you both at such young ages, however it is in the past now and I hope kidnapping never happens ❤️ Focus on the future now, live your best life, and try not focus on those traumatic memories that may flash back. Support and love to you guys and again, so proud of you ❤️
@robyn220 Жыл бұрын
This is just so mind blowing to think about. I just cannot imagine. I am constantly trying to teach my kids to be alert and safe as possible but u never know it could be anyone. These women are amazing!!!!
@auggieb618 3 жыл бұрын
“Do not question yourself. Do not judge yourself. Take your time with yourself. You’ve fallen down before and you got back up. That strength is still in you” Such powerful words to live by. This narrative applies to everyone, abduction survivors or not. (P.S. for anyone who doesn’t know Alicia said this in the video)
@qt4906 3 жыл бұрын
Well said!👍
@aliza1973 3 жыл бұрын
true thatttttt ....🥰
@Official.Youtube 3 жыл бұрын
I never expected a dog to say such things
@auggieb618 3 жыл бұрын
Avinash Jain I myself am not a dog, but my profile picture is of my dog, though. :-)
@auggieb618 3 жыл бұрын
Judah Hernandez I was clarifying and trying to make the point that this comment/topic shouldn’t be joked about.
@littlebottleofink 3 жыл бұрын
He’s going to be released on her birthday. That is horrible.
@a.l5320 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah ikr
@drista6648 3 жыл бұрын
these people don't deserve to be free they deserve nothing they deserve to be hated by everyone fear for their life i don't care if this is dark they deserve nothing. nothing
@arianan2601 3 жыл бұрын
The fact that he’s gonna be released at all is horrible..
@brady9618 3 жыл бұрын
The fact that people like this exist
@Shreksleftnutsack 3 жыл бұрын
@@drista6648 for a second I thought you were talking about the kidnap survivors
@certifiedgreg_rose Жыл бұрын
I love Anthony Padilla's way of interviewing. His videos are always fun and interesting and never biased. Thanks for creating such wonderful content!
@420yoloswag4jesuss Жыл бұрын
She is very right about it happening a lot within homes and people avoiding talking about it is very true, thanks for telling us your stories ladies, very strong 🥰
@jay-xl1vd 3 жыл бұрын
4 days- that's 96 hours of just torture and abuse....people are so ignorant i swear
@jakeknight9885 3 жыл бұрын
Fr. 8 seconds is incredibly long for bull riders. Imagine 96 hours of torture 😣
@alessandrahernandez7016 3 жыл бұрын
Ong I wouldn’t even last an hour
@masonm4925 3 жыл бұрын
jordan it's not 96 hours strait but yes it's annoying they say it like it's nothing
@jasdil7928 3 жыл бұрын
Time
@fredericliebert4099 3 жыл бұрын
Wait who The fuck said tuhat wasnt a Lontoon time
@Annie-kj4kf 3 жыл бұрын
“Just four days? That’s not that bad!” This is the problem I have with today’s society. No amount of trauma is bad enough. We downplay and compare every incident.
@agaz2272 3 жыл бұрын
It is so retarded to measure drama with a certain amount of time. Jesus Christ. Agree 100%
@starfruit3575 3 жыл бұрын
AG AZ don’t say the r slur!! It’s ableist
@Iiterally 3 жыл бұрын
So freaking dismissive. “4 days??? That’s not bad.” If you were held captive in a dungeon, deprived of socialising and sunlight, and then r*p*d against your own will... 4 days will feel like 4 years.
@gachaeris9732 3 жыл бұрын
star_fruit Retarded isn’t a bad word so many people saw there a words that people say that are worse
@adrienagreste1762 3 жыл бұрын
I think 4 days is horrible even an hour could be horrible
@Frost_Phantasm 11 ай бұрын
Having these conversations with children is so so so important!
@cinderthedonut9107 Жыл бұрын
If I was kidnapped, I don't think I could think straight or even bring myself together enough to try and get out of a kidnapping situation. These people are amazing ❤
@leneeh.4383 3 жыл бұрын
the fact these people are allowed out of prison makes me beyond angry and disgusted.
@julianpratt526 3 жыл бұрын
Hi
@rocki7426 3 жыл бұрын
what's even worse is that a lot of rapists don't even get a day behind prison bars
@thefuryofthedragon8715 3 жыл бұрын
@@rocki7426 In Saudi Arabia, rapists are beheaded then their heads are thrown down to the crowd and they are hanged
@cricketjuice 3 жыл бұрын
TheFuryOfTheDragon we should normalize that
@julianpratt526 3 жыл бұрын
@@cricketjuice i love your pfp
@caylalynn5340 3 жыл бұрын
Could you do a day with sex trafficking victims? I was sold into sex slavery when I was very little. I'm out now but there's so much misinformation and a lot of us are brushed off and ignored. Not getting the proper help we need after escaping.
@whoa8363 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. We empathize with you, and appreciate your voice. It would be lovely if you could clear up any misinformation to better educate us
@aqilahsdead 3 жыл бұрын
whoa Letting you know that you’re probably one of the strongest human being ever. Its so fucked that you and other people have to go through that. I hope you have a blessed day x
@vicks99vl 3 жыл бұрын
I hope you're better now and I'm so sorry you had to endure that, you didn't deserve that
@wiam510 3 жыл бұрын
I wish u r doing okay now please take care of yourself
@ziadirayene9879 3 жыл бұрын
Im sorry that happened to you, and i hope you're doing better now ♥
@-YourLocalHomosexual- Жыл бұрын
Kidnapping is one of my biggest fears and it breaks my heart to see how much they suffered, I wasn’t “kidnapped“ but I was often trapped in a room with my abu$!ve boyfriend for many months every day. It makes me feel better that there are other people out there who have experienced it too. But I hate when people say “you have to forgive and forget“, So, I have to just ignore his touch every time I ever shower, or his glares whenever he sees me?! I hate these people. And “just four days?“ Just. Four. Days. Of. FVCKING. HELL!
@christelarmstrong3843 Жыл бұрын
Im so grateful that these girls are safe and got saved and god blessed them!!😊
@notrlysuretbh 3 жыл бұрын
That one girl, not only was she kidnapped, but tortured. I can imagine how much that destroyed her. Mentally and physically. Thank god for that man who recognized her. Who tf would respond with “ONLY 4 DAYS?!” someone was tortured and almost killed. And THAT is your response?!
@anonymousmoose193 3 жыл бұрын
StrawberryCowCharlotte wait who said “only four days”
@Arasie_Saros 3 жыл бұрын
@@anonymousmoose193 some random person said that to her. Idk how someone can be okay with saying that.
@mogbama 3 жыл бұрын
they forget she was literally 13
@atarice8897 3 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY
@haleybutler5796 3 жыл бұрын
Who tf is that dubm like omfg it was probably the worst four days of her life like i cant imagine how hard that was i feel so bad omg
@reysay6974 3 жыл бұрын
They actually made a Netflix documentary about Jan’s story called “Abducted in Plain Sight”. It explores her case much deeper and is honestly so sickening. I cannot imagine the trauma she must still live with...
@hollymaha4937 3 жыл бұрын
I thought I recognised her story. wasn't there a whole thing about her kidnapper also romantically and sexually manipulating her parents so they allowed him to abuse her more.
@s0lastsummer7 3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry I gotta be that girl! I have it pulled up on my screen rn, and it's "Abducted in Plain Sight" although I guess perhaps it translates differently in other languages? Regardless, if you start searching Jan Broberg, it'll come up in the results so you can find it that way. 😊
@reysay6974 3 жыл бұрын
s0lastsummer7 Oops sorry it is actually “Abducted in plain sight”. Thanks for the correction💖
@reysay6974 3 жыл бұрын
TheBananaCat Absolutely agree! I’m sure she has forgiven her parents for everything and in the end it definitely is the perpetrator’s fault. But I cannot get over the fact that her parents were so passive in the whole situation, due to their own emotional dilemmas, that they failed to protect their own daughter from that sicko. They even allowed him to share a bed with her!
@musio3438 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah I saw that
@Ajtheengineer Жыл бұрын
The survivors are so brave to say something it makes me sad that this happened to them.
@swansonly Жыл бұрын
alicias story reminds me of the toy box killer, poor girls, they mustve been going through a lot after these experiences. Being kidnapped is my worst fear ever! My heart goes out to these strong brave survivors.
@conconcrete 3 жыл бұрын
Pedophilia is not a sexuality, its a disgusting crime
@AdamYeatesyuh 3 жыл бұрын
wait who said it was?
@AdamYeatesyuh 3 жыл бұрын
@@randomguy9108 that’s gross as shit wtf
@The-mcnuggit-man 3 жыл бұрын
@@randomguy9108 their called maps cause they are leading themselves to hell
@dyamondwomack549 3 жыл бұрын
random guy WTF
@musey2694 3 жыл бұрын
@@randomguy9108 AYO TF
@DulceReposa 3 жыл бұрын
It's amazing how 19 days can seem like nothing to a criminal but 4 days can seem like a lifetime for a victim
@hahaoml2812 3 жыл бұрын
I was just thinking this
@lilyyyy7306 3 жыл бұрын
i was was kidnapped by my biological father when i was five, only for 24 hours. but, it felt like days
@hilol2220 3 жыл бұрын
@@lilyyyy7306 i’m so sorry about that. i hope you’re doing okay.
@lilyyyy7306 3 жыл бұрын
@@hilol2220 i am doing better! thank you for asking!
@hilol2220 3 жыл бұрын
@@lilyyyy7306 that’s good! i’m glad to hear :)
@Lizabeth_Yacoub 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so proud for them for being so brave for sharing their story being kidnaped is hard to share on the internet I can't imagine the stuff they have been through it must have been so hard for them they were so young when it happened.
@mayaflo7948 Жыл бұрын
These woman are so strong I’m so glad they survived to teach us the importance of being safe on the internet they deserve so much
@emelyblanco5637 3 жыл бұрын
It’s awful how they are letting her abuser out on her birthday, it’s totally ridiculous
@vertigowastaken9534 3 жыл бұрын
It’s ridiculous they let him out period.
@dcchaos6409 3 жыл бұрын
Seriously like what a greeeat birthday gift /s
@zassassin4950 3 жыл бұрын
LudoTheMeh exactly
@Dubstequtie 3 жыл бұрын
@gamingwith me here is not the time for stupid memes.
@sorriari 3 жыл бұрын
if i were making the decisions it would be therapy, mood stabilizers, fifty years of prison, and possibly a mental institution
@catisadisaster2269 3 жыл бұрын
I've noticed that a lot of other interviewers and documentaries refer to kidnapping survivors as "victims" whereas Anthony refers to them as "Survivors" Mad respect for you, man
@willo4719 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah I noticed that too
@joanna4655 3 жыл бұрын
This. So much of this. All of this. Calling someone a victim is so awful. No. We survived this. We are survivors, damnit. 💙
@minicloud450 3 жыл бұрын
They are Warriors amazing! ❤️
@dinopines9191 3 жыл бұрын
Survivors are some of the bravest people I know. They are survivors. ♥️
@Cat-xo8zz Жыл бұрын
One thing I've always remembered is to be comfortable with being uncomfortable. For there to be change, you have to get used to being in situations or being a part of conversations that are hard to swallow.
@fusi0nv1ds 2 жыл бұрын
It is so traumatising to think there is at least, AT LEAST 70,000 CHILDREN are missing as we speak💔 They will be in my prayers
@cassiejcm 3 жыл бұрын
That “only 4 days?”, annoys tf out of me. Like okkkk there is a reason anyone found is found in a short period, bc any longer and they’re usually dead. SHE IS LUCKY, and 4 days is a long time and a scary time Don’t ever belittle someone else’s trauma
@sophiafury3089 3 жыл бұрын
especially the fact that in those four days she experienced brutal trauma
@pingusman9715 3 жыл бұрын
I have personal experience not a kidnapping something else
@shadowgamer-nv1dk 3 жыл бұрын
some roblox noob on the internet what is it if you don’t want to share it’s fine
@shailukala 3 жыл бұрын
cassie u r not that lucky becoz u will b kidnapped n will not b escaped obe day
@shailukala 3 жыл бұрын
@@sophiafury3089 sophia hiw u know u she faced brutal trauma
@catisadisaster2269 3 жыл бұрын
I highly admire these survivors for being able to speak about their experiences. I can't even begin to imagine the trauma they must have endured
@congaegg2313 3 жыл бұрын
It must have caused so much trauma, im so proud of them for being so brave, sharing their past and their feelings.
@goldendragon5259 3 жыл бұрын
yes it is, must have been trapped in like a prison all year
@tomfoolery9280 3 жыл бұрын
if this happened to me i probably wouldn't be strong enough to talk about it
@silviaducoli2515 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, me too... I don't know how they do it.
@marginjinkbirdie9241 3 жыл бұрын
@@goldendragon5259 4 days probably would've felt like 4 weeks if you had to go through something like that
@irinaferguson8618 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for sharing this video!!! I hope everyone will pay attention, especially those who have children.
@annejia5382 Жыл бұрын
when i first heard jan's story on stephanie's channel, i felt so terrified and sad and hurt imagining a child going through such thing specially her case was the 'complicated' kind because it's a family friend. i was crying so much at the first encounter of her story. it could have happened to anyone specially with the type of situation she was in. i always go back rewatching this to hear jan tell the story herself. she was so vulnerable at that moment and i would have been so scared as a kid if i was the one in her position. she was so brave for everything she did and no one deserved what she had gone through. jan, you are such an inspiration to young women and female kids. 💛
@kayleedill1340 3 жыл бұрын
“4 days?! That’s not that bad!” 4 days of torment = a lifetime of painful memories for her.
@itsfrance6500 3 жыл бұрын
Also u don't know it won't be 4 days ur not counting, it seems much longer
@heyimhere7048 3 жыл бұрын
@@itsfrance6500 and u wont even know how long it will last Its useless to say, “u will be free in four days” or something
@jclyntoledo 2 жыл бұрын
People are mean, it takes effort to actually care and put yourself in the other person's shoe's that's why most can sympathize at best but not empathize.
@Why-jl7sy 2 жыл бұрын
Amen sis
@sobosoup 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly I live a perfectly normal life and it feels like an eternity to me. Imagine for someone who, A: doesn’t know how long they’re gonna be there. B: getting beaten and r*ped all the time. And C: You probably think you’re gonna die so you don’t even try to keep up to date.
@christyjm11 3 жыл бұрын
So many people downplay and blame these women because they don't want to think that something like this could happen to them. We need to stop victim blaming and downplaying the impact of abuse.
@jemadamson2715 3 жыл бұрын
I got that a lot in comments from when i was on a tv show talking about abuse from a guy. I to this day never knew how to respond to those comments until now. People at work found the episode and i heard comments like that from them as well. It was even harder in person lol but now i know what to say! Im extremely grateful for this video.
@coolworms7297 3 жыл бұрын
exactly!
@elishaso 3 жыл бұрын
Victim blaming and gaslighting is so toxic
@Theconfusedace 3 жыл бұрын
People sometimes get on my nerves
@atarice8897 3 жыл бұрын
@@Theconfusedace mhm
@eileencita Жыл бұрын
It requieres a lot of courage to talk about things like these in such detail and stay put. I really respect and admire these two brave women for this and for finding the strength to survive and live. ❤️💙
@gillian3510 Жыл бұрын
i remember watching a documentary on jan's story a while ago and it will ALWAYS stick with me. honestly all of these stories will.
@maturelydisapointingmember2699 3 жыл бұрын
4 days. 4 straight days. That is a LONG ass time. 4 days is 96 hours. 96 hours is 5760 minutes. 5760 minutes without love, a family, pain. And she was a *child* I'm sure every minute felt like an hour. Every second passing by, and it feels like you're never going to go home. And to ever blame these people for what they had to go through is disgusting. These woman are strong, and empowering, and brilliant. Never downplay a persons suffering, ever.
@zootednoodle2639 3 жыл бұрын
this comment deserves more likes.
@s0lastsummer7 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly, EXACTLY. She had no idea she was going to be saved. She thought she had more time before her own murder, but she thought that time was going to be spent being tormented and raped indefinitely. The strength and courage that young girl showed.... to fight strategically for more time, knowing that time would be the worst time of her life.... wow. Powerful.
@Ax00xL 3 жыл бұрын
I remember watching an interview with a guy who was kidnapped for "only" 40 hours here on youtube and I remember seeing some salty comment about how that's not even 2 full days and the guy's a pussy, because I guess man aren't supposed to get hurt by this? Seriously, the length of it or their gender shouldn't invalidate anyone's trauma.
@dskshs 3 жыл бұрын
also, she didn’t know how long she would be there and that just is worse
@katharine8006 3 жыл бұрын
@@Ax00xL I agree. A lot of times, men have their emotions invalidated because of their gender. I feel like it's way too often that men who are sexual assault survivors or just assault survivors in general feel like they aren't allowed to be upset about it because "men are supposed to be strong" or even worse "emotions are for women!"
@bh7742 3 жыл бұрын
For the “only four days” people, remember, a thousand days of evasion is better than one day of captivity. Trust me.
@edelleaa 3 жыл бұрын
to those people, i would like them to experience what she did just for 1 day since 4 isn't that bad, 1 must be easy for them...and see how not bad it'd going to be for the rest of their lives. obviously i don't really wish something like this to happen to anyone but comments like that are so incredibly ignorant i can't even believe it
@giornogiovanna4456 3 жыл бұрын
@@edelleaa agreed
@Aiden-fb5rh 3 жыл бұрын
Preach
@craftcorner3312 3 жыл бұрын
Wats evasion )sorry about the speling)
@faithlynn821 3 жыл бұрын
@@craftcorner3312 to evade something means to be free of it, to avoid it. in this context: evasion = freedom
@Kifford Жыл бұрын
I watched a documentary about Jan's case. That man spent years manipulating, blackmailing, and brainwashing the entire family, including Jan's parents, all to get to and have access to Jan. It was sick. She's so brave. The mental recalibration you would have to do to recover... I can't fathom the strength.
@aliteralwarriorcatfan4720 2 жыл бұрын
I am so happy that those people survived-I was crying while watching this it makes me so happy to see these people still living
@carltonbanks2351 3 жыл бұрын
"He's going to be released next year on my birthday" I can't imagine the anger and the pain she must feel toward the system. I have no words, this is disgusting.
@nopenopeson2370 3 жыл бұрын
I literally tore up. The system is fucked man
@cecefernandes5657 3 жыл бұрын
Even I'm so angry and upset over it so I can't even begin to imagine how she could be feeling towards it. It's deeper in than heartbreak and terror....💔
@ThatCuriousArtist 3 жыл бұрын
The death penalty has a place.
@carltonbanks2351 3 жыл бұрын
@@ThatCuriousArtist I'm normally against but I'm not even going to argue on that, some people just deserve hell.
@cloudyisaliveandhere 3 жыл бұрын
God...and on your birthday? Not a good gift at all...
@hestiaa3624 3 жыл бұрын
"it was only 4 days"... I got sexually assaulted for just under 15 minutes and it permanently changed me as person and made my whole outlook on life different, not only that, my sexual assaulter got ZERO punishment for what he did to me. Imagine getting kidnapped for 4 days and your kidnapper/r*pist/assaulter barely getting any jail time. Even a few minutes can change someone entirely. Stop excusing the kidnappers behavior and realize that no matter how long something occurred, there will ALWAYS be some form of trauma. Edit: I wanna also acknowledge the immense fear women/men face after seeing their kidnapper/r*pist/assaulter. These women are so brave for being able to face them in court proudly. For me personally, he works at my local grocery store so I have to see him all the time. I always feel very unsafe and tense seeing him waltz around as a free man. It was to the point I refused even working at that grocery store because I didn't want to see him.
@chuuchuutrain5976 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry 😞
@iangehrlich-orr1869 3 жыл бұрын
Was the woman in the story sexually assaulted or beaten. I didn't really understand? Also was the other woman taken into a cell by good law enforcement or people in on her kidnapping I am genuinely confused.
@ashleyh2578 3 жыл бұрын
That's exactly what I was thinking! If you've been in a position like that 1 second feels like an hour, an hour feels like a day... it probably felt like forever. I could never understand what that must have felt like for her.
@marli8907 3 жыл бұрын
Mr Helo yes the younger woman was sexually assaulted. Beaten r@aped (the word is bleeped in the video because KZfaq will take it down) for four days. She was kept in a torture chamber and tortured physically, emotionally, and sexually. The other woman, the older one, knew her kidnapper. Neither of them were arrested. The law enforcement wasn’t “in on it” when the first describes being rescued she THOUGHT it was someone coming to kill her not to rescue her. The older woman her kidnapper was arrested, and she was allowed to go see him in jail was what she was describing. There’s a whole documentary on her. It’s very sad and very strange. She’s endured so much.
@smeebsmob3468 3 жыл бұрын
Why was there zero punishment??? They've probably done it to more people then..
@Kyle_The_Cuber Жыл бұрын
This is absolutely heartbreaking, being kidnapped and assaulted is one of the worst things to ever happen to a person, I’m glad they’re doing well now
@Spaceczarina Жыл бұрын
i watched a documentary some time ago about jan's case, and she did not nearly completely the full story here. a horrendous case from start to finish. my deepest sympathies to both of these women, and i hope the both of them have been able to recover from their traumas
@vicksjenkins3608 3 жыл бұрын
Wow. The way Anthony speaks to people is so respectful and empathetic. He is so good at what he does
@rhiannon2028 3 жыл бұрын
He asks what we all want to know but in a respectful way that leaves them feeling comfortable!
@-AnnaDeWitt- 3 жыл бұрын
It could be because of the anxiety. I believe my anxiety is partly the reason I am so empathic. Regardless of the reason, Anthony seems like an amazingly kind person❤️
@hanaeve__ 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed 100%!
@ars0on 3 жыл бұрын
Better than Shane Dawson
@chloejenkins7922 3 жыл бұрын
I got the same last name than you
@deeznuts1033 3 жыл бұрын
the fact the man is going to be released on the girl's BIRTHDAY is horrible. You'll never look at your birthday the same.
@tigerplays-roblox4405 3 жыл бұрын
😡
@bluemood6125 3 жыл бұрын
THE JUSTICE SYSTEM IS S*$& (I don’t usually swear but this is a serious topic)
@PassionPno 3 жыл бұрын
He's back in jail.
@lilscenechick1995 3 жыл бұрын
Filth like that should be purged from society. Call me an edgelord. They just re-offend. Nobody worth "rehabilitating" would ever do that to another human being.
@jinkieez 3 жыл бұрын
@@lilscenechick1995 exactly. sadists like him don't deserve a life, they are only a danger to others
@Ace-ace-baby 5 ай бұрын
I heard this a while ago and I think it's similar: "it's easy to say you should have done this that and the other but your not in the heat of battle" I think it's a good message
@Vvzyn77 2 жыл бұрын
they are so brave and so strong to talk about this.
@barbmore 3 жыл бұрын
can’t even begin to imagine the trauma they have to endure.
@haleybutler5796 3 жыл бұрын
Its probably the adrenaline sadly sometime its not enough
@truicide4054 3 жыл бұрын
jk lol
@LizzyGMusic 3 жыл бұрын
For anyone that doesn't know: Jan's story was made into a documentary on Netflix called "Abducted in plain sight". It's really good.
@tinyapples9583 3 жыл бұрын
I will look into it..
@lucyclark1690 3 жыл бұрын
Thx
@waltersalas6276 3 жыл бұрын
@@tinyapples9583 so how was it?
@danielarevilla2565 3 жыл бұрын
I watched it about a month ago, I’m glad she is safe, Jan didn’t really know what was wrong, she was small.
@DarkStriker1-1 3 жыл бұрын
Omg thx u I was like I remember this
@carnngi Жыл бұрын
torture can make even an hour feel like an eternity, just imagine yourself being tortured for an hour, I cant imagine how she felt during those 4 days.
@dotdotdot...176 Ай бұрын
The fact that there are people out there who torture and violate and brainwash children is sickening. I'm proud of these women for getting through what they've through (and for. being able to work towards closure for their own sake), though they shouldn't have to be "strong". It should never have happened, full stop. Especially to children.
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