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I stopped working. How do I start over? | get ready with me

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Brenda Tan

Brenda Tan

Күн бұрын

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@VirtualTear
@VirtualTear Жыл бұрын
Missing you and your long form content, so happy you’re in a good place now. Proud of you for having the courage to take the necessary break. Notion Tour please! 🙏🏼
@wordweed
@wordweed Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!! Hehe definitely, let me continue using it and troubleshooting for a couple of weeks and then I’ll definitely film it!! ❤️❤️❤️
@manurra7816
@manurra7816 Жыл бұрын
Missed you, welcome back 😭♥️ Been an og viewer since your uni days hehe pls bring back storytime 🥹😭 MAJOR LOVE FOR 1 HOUR CONTENTS, my ultimate therapy 😶‍🌫️🫶🏼
@starstrucklights
@starstrucklights Жыл бұрын
It's great you got to take a break to recharge. I actually took a break too after resigning from my previous workplace and before starting at the new one. I took like a 9 days solo vacation but I truly felt it was not enough. I would not say I was burned out from my previous job but I had too many things that going on at work and outside of work that I could not concentrate on truly enjoying my vacation. I kept checking emails and making sure things were still going smooth without me. It really does take a while to come out of that mental headspace. It's scary and weird isn't it? How we can physically remove ourselves from something but mentally it takes WAY longer. Anyway glad you're back - loved this chatty GRWM. Looking forward to more in the future!
@wordweed
@wordweed Жыл бұрын
Ugh I totally feel you on this!! It’s so strange to rewire your brain after it’s been in that work work work mindset for years. Anyway I hope that vacation was tons of fun, and thanks for sticking around for years!!! Definitely looking forward to making more GRWMs ❤️❤️❤️
@themusingsofhuman
@themusingsofhuman Жыл бұрын
You're a rare breed whose long form content is enjoyable. Like who knew I could stay focused on a KZfaq video for 30 mins until I watched your content. Keep going! :D
@Su-ng6be
@Su-ng6be Жыл бұрын
Missed you and your GRWM videos Brenda. I'm so so so happy you're back stronger and better but still have not lost your authenticity! I can't wait for your upcoming contents 🥲
@wordweed
@wordweed Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!! Looking forward to your comments every upcoming vid too hehehe 🎉
@Irislsy
@Irislsy Жыл бұрын
We still love long form content! Glad that you’re back! ❤
@wordweed
@wordweed Жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭😭 i've missed you all so much truly!!!
@briennelove
@briennelove Жыл бұрын
Brenda! This was such a joy to watch. I love watching your glow up. Long-form content is still a win. Glad you took a break! Can't wait to view your upcoming creations! ❤
@wordweed
@wordweed Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!!! I’m so glad you still watch long form content too - it’s definitely irreplaceable for me. Excited to make more vids!!! 🥰🙏🏻
@Adelinegwt
@Adelinegwt Жыл бұрын
Hey Brenda, been watching your videos for quite some and I wanna let you know that your content & conversations have helped us navigate hard times (we are about the same age) 🤍 I still stream your videos while bathing, before getting to bed like podcasts & it just feels like you are an online friend I can hear & relate, keep doing you!
@wordweed
@wordweed Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, you made my day!!! 😭😭😭😭❤❤❤
@mustloveaiiha
@mustloveaiiha Жыл бұрын
I too quit my full-time job in healthcare and switched to a part-time job. It was my first week, and I do feel a lot of doubts and anxiety at first however my husband's support, has been comforting. Although making less money than before, my mental health has been looking great so far. I'm just relishing my moment as i go by :)
@Platefly
@Platefly Жыл бұрын
Please give us story time on how you met your current partner!
@wordweed
@wordweed Жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha it’s a funny story but ok!! I’ll plan for it!!
@kadckadc
@kadckadc Жыл бұрын
TikTok is for the MRT KZfaq is for before bed and I mean this in the best and most comforting way
@nadia.2521
@nadia.2521 Жыл бұрын
hey brenda!! i'm so happy to be watching your video again!! have always admired your personality and always enjoy the way you tell stories that i kept going back to your old grwms and videos during your break haha :") love seeing you thrive, it motivates me too! looking forward to more of your content from here on out!!
@wordweed
@wordweed Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much nad!!! The fact that you even go back to my old videos just makes me all teary eyed HAHA I'm so so honoured!!! Excited to come back with fresh new content!!
@collonbiscuit
@collonbiscuit Жыл бұрын
A few years ago, I chanced upon your video talking about how you managed to move out at such a young age and how did you handle it financially etc, and since then i've always felt very inspired by you and not to sound creepy but I felt like we could be friends, or rather i would love to have friends who are such a go-getter like you. I too took a break from work (2 months) and in that 2 months I felt the happiest i've been in many years. Also, I love how you sat with yourself, have a clear thought process and acknowledged how you're feeling and took steps to prioritize yourself (afterall no one can love you like you do). Sending you so much love and light Brenda !
@zhiqi9121
@zhiqi9121 Жыл бұрын
missed you so much! been loving and enjoying long content which is so rare nowadays! life have been tiring tho felt like my mental health is suffering so much lately
@wordweed
@wordweed Жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!! Omg ya 2023 has been absolutely flying by and it’s been really overwhelming for me too 🥵🥵
@machah.8084
@machah.8084 Жыл бұрын
im so genuinely happy that you're back! the number might be smaller but it'll be fine, it'll raise babe! i was kinda sad because i dont have that many youtubers that i watch constantly. but im so glad you're back, and seems a lot happier. looking forward to whatever content you'll create! warm hug and love from indonesia 💕
@wordweed
@wordweed Жыл бұрын
Awww omg I felt your comment so much!!! Thank you so much for your support and motivation, it truly made me feel so much better. Sending love right back from Singapore!!! ❤️❤️❤️
@genevievechin4024
@genevievechin4024 Жыл бұрын
welcome back brenda!! i've missed your vids 😭
@Ahsraviman
@Ahsraviman Жыл бұрын
Omg I’ve really been considering taking a break from my corporate job. You go girl! Glad you got to do the stuff you really love and enjoy. 🎉
@dchew5552
@dchew5552 Жыл бұрын
im in my mid twenties, and I never experience working, I was badly traumatised by school bullying back when I was in secondary four. back then I started struggling to falling asleep, my bed time was at 10pm, but I could lie on my bed for many hours and only fall asleep around 4/5am. by then I have to be awake at 6am to prep for school. I was so sleep deprived to the point I couldn't handle stress. I gained so much weight as I couldn't sleep, I would go to the fridge and binge drink. and when I was in school, because of my weight gain, I was being targeted by my classmates "school bullies". one would joke about my weight or shout across the classroom saying im fat. and that remarks happened daily for several month and during weekly run I was so sleep deprived I wasn't eating well, I only had one meal a day, during the rum I dont have energy to run, but back then I was an introvert, im scared of almost everything especially scoldings so I didnt dare to voice out to either of the teachers. while running I couldn't breathe so I walked, ended up a teacher from other class would run beside me and kept asking me to run, I felt so pressured/stressed. back then I feel something's wrong with my health as run during physical education lesson. while others ran very far from me, I experienced breathing difficultly and my eyes and head feel numbed. my eyes would see everything darker than usual and numbed, everything was in tiny pixelated. the school bullying got worse, my textbook would get stolen, my stationery was daily got stolen, and when im back home I would found other classmates' trash in my bag. i remember around after the June holiday, I started having ebs exam. we have to do our exam during lesson, and have to save the files and transferred into our thumb drive provided by the school which we have to save it before the lesson end, I was so heavily sleep deprived, instructions given I couldn't hear and couldn't understand, I asked around everyone's respond was "I dont know" so I didn't back up the files into the thumb drive, the next lesson I thought would be carry on with our exam preparation so I opened the files and carry on, suddenly one of the teacher walked towards the door, and suddenly went back to the teacher's table, he saw I was doing the exam prep and told me to delete the files immediately so he won't report me to the examination board as cheating, but back then I was struggling with the exam duration being too short for me, I even opted to see psychiatrist just to have extended exam time, I was granted but because of this incident I was so traumatised, I stopped going to school. when my cohort teacher and my co form teacher came to my house, I didn't dare to face them.i locked myself up in my room. and during my n level exam, I only attended English exam and oral as I know I wouldn't pass for the rest of the subject and thought I would aced it as I once got the highest for my class and came in first. my anxiety was terrible and very timid, I get traumatised easily. since 17 I stopped further my studies and stay at home since then. I tried getting a job which was recommended by my father's friend but I didn't understand the jobscope and was badly traumatised again at the first day of job as I was told by my colleagues that my role, nobody worked for more than a month as the role, was too complicated. currently, im still hiding myself at home. part of me wish there's a job which I could earn an income while working at home but with my qualification it seems impossible with an n level cert. I start to worry as my parents start telling me life lesson, saying they won't be there for me forever, hoping I'll be strong career women just like my sis who's earning more than $5k figure, as they're rather sure my sis wouldn't be the type to be generous to provide me a living as she have been splurging her income on all the unnecessary, like ipl, nail, hair salon and all these were packages which cost a lot. currently I was fortunate to have my aunt to give me $100 monthly for living expenses but im pretty sure it wouldn't last long as she currently have thought of retiring as her work load was insanely stressful as new colleague makes the job even more difficult, extremely complicated and complex. my entire savings were wiped out by my dad as he previously during my start of secondary school, as he couldn't find a Job so he started a business with a friend which after three years decided to not further the business, so he took over and ended up with business getting terrible due to crisis back then, even till today he still have a levy debt. which initially I wanted to help him, but mom felt that he wouldnt return the money as prior, she gave my entire savings to him, which he didn't return. my mom was worried that in the future, when they aren't around which I hope that wouldn't be the case, the debt would be passed over to us. and worried that the flat we current live in would either be collected back due to it was paid using cpf, or have to be sold due to the debt. my mom was also worried if neither of it didn't happened, the lease wouldn't cover till even if I ever lived pass the age of 101. I dont think I could ever afford a home as the fear of not having a home start to scares me in the recent months as the recent months I started to think so much which probably all my peers have thought through many years ago. I only started to figure it out the task of an adult. ever since at a young age I had a thought of when I grow up, I dont wanna get married because of the pain I see my mom goes through, she was sacked by her boss just because she was pregnant with me more than two decades ago. since then she dedicated her whole life taking care of me. I truly appreciate, but somehow growing up, part of me I could be like her, having a partner to rely on so that the future seem less scary.
@sweephitrun
@sweephitrun Жыл бұрын
YOU ARE GLOWING!!! So happy for u!! And glad to have u back! :D
@irawkz4ever
@irawkz4ever Жыл бұрын
Yessss house tour please!!!
@wordweed
@wordweed Жыл бұрын
Soon!!! 😝😝
@slevin787
@slevin787 Жыл бұрын
👏 👏 👏 sounds like u found your soulmate! She brings out the best of u😊
@wordweed
@wordweed Жыл бұрын
It definitely feels like it!!! ❤️ I love her so much, she’s truly the best person I’ve ever met in my life
@Numbnuu
@Numbnuu Жыл бұрын
Your videos always pop out on my page, usually I will use it as a background noise but less than a minute after that, I would restart the whole video again and listen to what you had to say. 😅
@joleneyeo3028
@joleneyeo3028 Жыл бұрын
Looking forward to your weekly videos! I'm glad you are back :)
@listgirl
@listgirl Жыл бұрын
Girllll, I don't consume short form content, too. Ok, maybe sum reels but only in passing because Insta forces them down our throat. I make time to sit down and watch KZfaq videos still. There is space for you because there should be space for us. Haha. My suggestion is you make a cute little reel out of teasers for your long form content so you still have them and it markets your YT videos. Best of luck!
@wordweed
@wordweed Жыл бұрын
Yeah right!! Hahaha I’ve been doing that for the Japan vlogs, and honestly I’ve been enjoying them too! Thank you ❤😊
@llixxuan
@llixxuan Жыл бұрын
I missed your presence, welcome back! 🥹
@wordweed
@wordweed Жыл бұрын
Good to be back!! Thanks for sticking around ❤️
@jialing4021
@jialing4021 Жыл бұрын
first timer to the channel. 👋 clicked cos you titled the video “i stopped working “. i’m in my fifth month of not working and feel like a blob floating in unknown waters, not knowing where i will head. somehow i was consoled to hear that you had a blast doing things you love. i don’t intend to find paid work anytime soon and have no timeline set. no discipline, i know. but good to hear that the guilt of not working is real 🫶
@wordweed
@wordweed Жыл бұрын
WOW hi!! Omg thanks for giving me a chance. I’m glad you found some solace, cos you’re definitely not alone. Life outside of work/productivity can be uncertain and scary, but also so enjoyable once you get over the guilt and truly believe that you deserve the break. Sending you good vibes all the way, I hope you find joy and excitement during your break too ❤️
@jaydenation
@jaydenation Жыл бұрын
I still watch long form KZfaq from time to time! Sometimes I play GRWMs in the background and listen to it like a podcast while I plough through photo editing work.
@wordweed
@wordweed Жыл бұрын
Aw Jayden!!! I feel you on that - I like to play long form chatty videos while doing chores HAHAHA. I’m a big fan of your work too so what an honour srsly 🥹
@marinahm6220
@marinahm6220 Жыл бұрын
i still love long videos, in fact i watched this while sewing, felt like i’m on a facetime :)
@wordweed
@wordweed Жыл бұрын
Hehehe that’s so cute! Honestly when I talk to the camera too I also feel like I’m recording a video message to someone LOL
@chanyilin1997
@chanyilin1997 Жыл бұрын
i love love love your earrings btw its absolutely gorgeous and glad to see you back~
@wordweed
@wordweed Жыл бұрын
Heheheheh thank you!!! They’re actually the Rio earrings from Go Margaux!! 😝
@sicajeslee
@sicajeslee Жыл бұрын
Do share how you utilise Notion for your productivity! I find it super tedious. Sorta set one up but ended up not using it cos I fell back on my google calendar and apple notes more haha.
@lingying3264
@lingying3264 Жыл бұрын
Happy that you are back, been waiting for this for the longest time ever 💖💖
@wordweed
@wordweed Жыл бұрын
Thank you!!! I’ve missed you all 😭 stay tuned!!
@lingying3264
@lingying3264 Жыл бұрын
@@wordweed AHHHH can't wait for story time/ grwm videos 🥳
@Tyenrasif
@Tyenrasif Жыл бұрын
I LOVE YOU BRENDA!
@wordweed
@wordweed Жыл бұрын
Miss you!!! 😭❤❤❤
@xinminang291
@xinminang291 Жыл бұрын
I watch KZfaq everyday! And I don’t use TikTok never will cuz it gives me headaches
@wordweed
@wordweed Жыл бұрын
Hahaha same!! For me I’m just lazy to keep scrolling LOL
@tanyingyu9730
@tanyingyu9730 Жыл бұрын
Show us your notion!! I've tried using it but struggled too
@wordweed
@wordweed Жыл бұрын
Ok!!!
@slliew1
@slliew1 Жыл бұрын
looking forward to more vids from you!! long form content for the win :))
@wordweed
@wordweed Жыл бұрын
More to come! 🎉🎉
@vhalia
@vhalia Жыл бұрын
Missing you and miss listening to you talk with so much gusto…
@wordweed
@wordweed Жыл бұрын
😢😢😢😢 I’m back baby
@vocaliise
@vocaliise Жыл бұрын
I missed your vids ❤❤❤
@wordweed
@wordweed Жыл бұрын
😭😭😭
@eldervasquez5776
@eldervasquez5776 Жыл бұрын
Bonito video Linda bella princesa 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🙏🙏🙏
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