The fact that the SJ members were only supportive of the fan and didn't seem to mind he was a man and if he's gay or not makes me want to stan them

The fact that him being fan of a boygroup is treated as a concern, makes it a concern.

*"I AM SORRY WE MADE OUR SONGS SO CHEERFUL"* *LMAO SHINDONG IF YOU DONT*

"Why do people misunderstand my purehearted fandom?" same

*"And he always says he's broke"* HAHAHAJAHAHAJAHWH DONT WE ALL!!!

What I love the most is that suju isn't "disgusted" with him or anything.

The most feasible solution to this is have a girlfriend who is also an ELF. That way, you both spend time liking Super Junior 😉

I mean who doesn’t love Super Junior? They’re really nice, funny as hell, and always treat their fans like family. A legend indeed.

Okay but the fact that SJ were the only ones in the room who loved the fact that he was a fan of theirs despite him being male instead of criticizing him AND how they said they’d do better to help males feel accepted being their fans is exactly why I stan them.

Ain't nothing wrong with this guy. Let him enjoy the things he likes. The world is hard. Being interested in something is the only thing that can keep you sane.

AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO THINKS EUNHYUK DEBUT PIC LOOKED AMZING HES PRETTY GODDAMIT

it's 2 years later and i hope that fanboy met genuine friends who accepts his love for suju and left these "friends" either that or these two "friends" realized how toxic their thinking is

This dude is just the visual representation of the kpop fandom in a nutshell 😂

My little brother has loved GOT7 for three years and he got so tired of explaining himself that now when people ask if he’s gay he just says “yes. Leave me alone.” Even though he’s actually straight. I don’t think fangirl/fanboying over the same gender should be seen as a concern. It’s actually more concerning that some people refuse to be open minded and refuse to listen to an explanation.

People are always surprised when they hear I like boygroups for their music and not their looks Like goddamn they're artists not models

The members would always say that Eunhyuk is the ugliest member but he has sooo muuuch charisma and i can't deny how in love i am with him💙💙💙💙

HE IS SO PRECIOUS!!! This is not a concern and it doesn’t make him gay. I am completely in love with Sunny from SNSD, she is my everything, but I would never go lesbian for her. It’s so frustrating that it’s ok for girls to love girl idols but if guys loves guy idols they are gay and weird.... such a double standard.

I’m a 25 year old man who’s been a fan of Suju for 11 years now and I feel his pain.

I like how he only looks at his bias and not the other members

the homophobia coming from his friends reeks

Well his friends were mad homophobic. The fact that his friends would treat him as less of man or say he's living incorrectly because he acts "feminine" and loves a boy group is the actual concern.

I'll be extremely happy to have a bf like him, we'll go to concert together, screaming our biases names together, singing their songs everywhere, and dancing as many times as we want. it's like the ultimate relationship goal in my life!

SuJu is so appreciative of him They don't act weirded out by this young man's love, they're happy! I love SuJu

Eunhyuk is soo darn handsome😍😍 He still looks like he's in his 20s

Double standards are super high in Korea... So girl groups can have 'Girl crush' image and have numerous Girls as fans for themn and no one bats an eye but guys liking a Legendary Boy Group for 13 years is doubted as Gay? What kind of logic is that when he even had a gf He bettered his health and mind bcoz of being inspired by SuJu! Thgat's an accomplishment in itself... I feel you, Bro bcoz I'm a guy too loving SuJu as a group since last year I've entered into kpop and became an ELF and ReVeluv ... DON'T CARE WHAT YOUR SO CALLED FRIENDS SAY BECAUSE TRUE FRIENDS DON'T JUDGE YOU HARSHLY FOR YOUR INTERESTS !!!

16:19 when the fan says he might lessen his obsession, and eunhyuk does that angry little "eh??" lmao scolding his own fan

Lol dude, I'm a 24 year old straight man and Super Junior is my favourite guy group lol. Of course I love girl idols too, but they have different vibes. I only like cool older idols like SuJu, TVXQ, Big Bang and for younger groups, Winner and BtoB. For girl groups I love SNSD, CLC, Sistar, AoA etc.

His friends are absolute jerks and I hope he dropped them after this. There's nothing wrong with acting feminine, nor with him being a fan of Suju. He's not a crazy fan and they've obviously bettered his life. I like how the band stood up for him, really shows you that they appreciate their fans.

I don't get it.. I'm a girl but... Just think about this. There are also like tons of guys fanboying over their favourite NBA players or other athletes. Why should guys fanboying over male idols be a concern?

You can see he is so sincere in his love because Super Junior brings him so much joy. He isn't a sasaeng fan and his love has brought him more benefits than negativity why can't they just let him live.But on the bright side he got to meet his favourite idols and sit next to his bias, congratulations to him=)

Well how come girls can like girl and boy groupa, but boys can only like girl groups ?!

Heenim should be there to educate this narrow minded sheeps. I love how Shin Dong Yeop actually defended this guy. Little did they know that SDY has been rooting SJ since beginning. There’s nothing wrong with being a fanboys. Smh 🤦‍♀️

He is so sweet. I mean he is a fan for 13 years. This is truly amazing

He also likes TVXQ..This guy has great taste in groups 😁

I had a classmate in high school who used to like SuJu so much he'd dance to their songs (and he danced well tbh) during our breaks and stuff. Even when the teachers in P.E asked the class to have groups and perform, he only danced to suju's songs and even led his groupmates well. We didn't really think he was gay or something tbh just bc of that... I even ended up stanning suju (and him lmao he's too cute and he danced well and even sung well so how could i not 😂) because of him. That wasn't really a concern, objectively speaking. Idk how this would be a concern for koreans :/ the people coming to hello counselor mostly are concerned because koreans (not all) just give out unnecessary judgments. We must all live in peace despite our different preferences and Y'ALL JUST STAN SUJU

He is a true definition of FAN. He love suju, went to their concert, buy their album, listen to their songs but not stalking them. He try to promote suju to his friends till they feel annoyed but doesn't do any harm to suju member.

Damn he's a lucky fan! And I'm so happy for him to sit right next to his bias and suju. 😆 This is not a concern at all in my opinion. I agree with Yesung's opinion.

Literally me ... I feel you bro.

Eunhyuk looks so good in orange. My harttt 😭💙💙

I have to admit that it was the first time I saw Eunhyuk and I swear my heart is beating so fast whenever he is on screen woow!!! What a man...😲

*he's so adorable when he's flustered around Super Junior xD*

OMG, what's the problem here tho? He makes money, spends it on what he loves. His friends are the problem, asking him if he's gay bc he likes an artist? Even if he was, then what? No one would look at him the wrong way if it was a girl group. It's the culture in Korea to buy a lot of albums, go to fansigns, concerts. It's a great hobby to have. Keeps him active, helps him meet new ppl. His friends could show a little interest or just ignore the messages, its not that hard. Also if he doesnt want to spend money on eating out with them, they can just hang out somewhere, cant they? Is it necessary to spend money on someone to keep the friendship going? I say, change your friends lol

Being in love with SuJu, and having Eunhyuk as a bias .. this is so relatable 😂 💙💙💙 ! There's nothing wrong with him, fanboys are amazing ! Seeing SuJu being so supportive and sweet to him made me so happy !!! That's why they will always be my favourite !

I love how eunhyuk and the members protect their own fans and makes it nature and not being stereotype a guy loving a male group

why is it boys cant be a fan of boy groups when girls can be a fan of girl groups? well, that's double standard mentality Jinseok ssi~ good job! spread the love :))

Man I almost cried when Eunhyuk was reading his letter! You can feel the how much he looks up to these guys, I hate that there is that conception that bc you love an artist it means you’re attracted to them. As if they are only there to be sexualized. Like damn did his friends ever think wow he looks up to them and all the positive change they have brought him. He better himself physically and mentally as he said he was shy before and became more out going bc of them. Smh

He likes Eunyuk's teeth 😆 I love Shingdon for been not the standard size male idol! Let's love the uniqueness in idols 🙆

2:28 EUNHYUK WAS STARTLED

Shindong: How did you lose weight? Tell me." lol. HAHAHAHAHA.

This fanboy may start making all fanboys in Korea being brave attending Boy Groups concerts

16:15 SO CUTE HAHAHAA EUNHYUK ALMOST DISAPPOINTED XD

I just want to say one thing that the moment he hold EUNHYUK'S hand my heart said: he's an EUNHYUK fan in SUJU. The way he was flustered/shy around SUPER JUNIOR would be totally me if I was in place of him. Just the difference is I would not have been conscious anymore and specially beside EUNHYUK coz he's my UB.😘😘😘😘

“Did you hear the definition of a friend from him?” Damn 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

So "he's not a man" if he's fan of a boy group, covers his mouth when laughing, and acts feminine?? Wow true friends there 👏

6:08 "it's hard to love someone who looks like this" Me: *choked*

What’s wrong in him liking suju? You can’t help loving suju, they are addictive! ELF forever ❤️

Why am I falling for Eunhyuk? 😂

Eunhyuk is such a cutie! He's so nice and sweet towards the fan. All of SuJu were really kind and supporting, that was so nice to see ♡ The 'friends' annoyed me so much though, like seriously, it's not a concern or weird at all, he's just a great fan and that's awesome 😊

His friends scream “insecurity” lmao , they need to get out of that damn closet

He’s so adorable, fanboying over Eunhyuk

FANBOYS NEED TO BE PROTECTED WHAT KIND OF FRIENDS ARE THOSE

Same. I like, no I mean I love Eunhyuk oppa ever since I knew them 💙💙💙

after seeing this i wanna stan sj, they are so lovely. the way they all smiled and laughed when he was dancing. so precious

yokhshi my eunhyuk.. he respond to the fans so well.. i love youuu

May we just speak about how brave this guy is?

I hope the stereotypes of 'boys liking boy groups are weird' would be gone, cause there's completely NOTHING wrong with it! If girls can like girl groups, guys should be able to have that choice as well :) And tbh, there are many boy groups out there that are very charming, be it Gen2 era or those existing now, and even if they have fanboys, I can totally get why. There's is just simply nothing wrong with one being happy over the things that he/she likes as long as it doesn't cause any harm to anyone :)

I understand friends being embarrassed in a fun way when one goes overboard with any fandom but the other reasons by those guys are so homophobic and toxic.

I always tell my friends to listen to music I like and I don't think it's frustrating. It's not like I force them into it. I just tell them to listen. And the way Eunhyuk toned down his dance moves to match the fan ❤️

Seems like his "friends" are more insecure about themselves tbh

He needs new friends. Just cuz he likes a male group doesn't make him weird or gay and even if he is so what? He seems like a decent person and super junior helped him feel better. If a girl was obsessed with a female group no one would care. Ugh, this makes me so upset......

I love the way eunhyuk looks at him

He puts me to shame No joke I’ve been a fan for 13 years and I was screaming at how much he knows at all the effort he’s made to do something that brings him so much love and happiness 😭💕💕 I’m so glad eunhyuk scolded him when he said he would lessen even if it was playfully.... you should never lessen doing something that you love this boy is goals like even getting there and getting to meet him that’s just elf goals 🥺💙😭💙💙💙💙💙💙

I agree with Super Junior, the reason this is a concern in reality is because this is a concern to some people, the issue here isn't that he is a fan of a boy group; it is because people think that that is a problem. Besides, if I'm honest I didn't expect the MC's (who I love and support) to question his sexuality, I understand that its what the majority of people may question when they hear of the 'concern'. But I dont think anyone would expect him to openly announce he is homosexual or heterosexual. I love how Super Junior (Eunhyuk in particular) treated him, like they say, they want to appeal to males and females and to make a male being their fan not a problem anymore.

It's a concern. But only because of his friends. He needs new ones! Friends need to respect and accept their friends for who they are! Male k-ELFs should maybe make a sub fan club to support eachother and connect with eachother? There's nothing wrong to be a male fan of male kpop groups! 💖 And on a sidenote i just need to say that it's nothing wrong with being gay either!

I get it. I'm a grown ass woman with grown ass kids and I'm in my fandom for life. Look how happy he is. He's made positive changes in his life. How could this be a bad thing. I guess it is a cultural difference I cannot appreciate.

ELF only can relate!!! I’m in love with them for 12 years now

But like side note: I'm literally him when it comes to sending random kpop vids and pictures to friends so I GET IT PLEASE DONT FEEL ASHAMED OF BEING AN AMAZING FAN😄😄😄

I'm a fanboy of EXO, and I don't find that a concern

I feel him. Eunhyuk is also my bias. Also I love Suju even more after this video bcs they are okay with having male fans and I honestly think that is okay. I think is okay for males to love male groups and artists

It's so amazing that Suju has such a positive effect on him! Losing 50kg is INCREDIBLE!

His friends are the problem ! What's wrong with being a male fan of Suju ...

I lost it When shindong asked "How did he lose weight?" OMG HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

it's not concern... I love them... Thanks Super Junior, because of them I live my life more brighter day by day..

This is the third time i watch this video and i never get bored. He a big fan and i am so respect him alot. And we have same bias aka Eunhyuk 💙 I hope he still big fans of super junior and i wish his life full of happiness 😊💙

so amazed he could keep his cool enough to do the dances with his bias!!! lol i would have just died

I’m so happy that Super Junior was supportive of him. I remember a while ago there was a male fan of Sungjong from Infinite, and the Infinite members seemed put off by him. I wish people didn’t poke their noses where they aren’t needed, so male fans like him can live in peace. On a separate note, SuJu (especially Eunhyuk and Donghae) looking on fleek 👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼

my love for super junior grows more..they are so optimistic...they seem to welcome him and does not show any weird looks..😚😚😚😚

He is indeed a really TRUE/PURE FAN! many non-kpop fan would really get annoyed with what he do but if your a kpop fan too like him you would understand... Because i was like that too🤣 I'm sooo into kpop that even my normal(non-kpop) friends get annoyed everything time i talk about kpop🤣

I understand him totally. I'm a girl and I like boygroup (im inspirit), I don't like any girlgroup. So people assume that I'm straight. But when they found out that im lesbian, they are all shocked!! They be like "thats no way u r lesbian when u r a big fan of a boygroup". I don't know why they all said that, I mean I like infinite cause they are all talented, they sing and dance well, also my bias is sungjong, i like him bc his bright personality attract me like i want to be his friend. I like them not in a delusional way that I want them as my boyfriend. People should know that. Stop assuming ppl sexual orientation just by looking at what they like

This is far from a concern. I find it more troubling that in Korea it seems strange that a man like a male group. Liking Super Junior has had a positive impact on his life so how can this be a concern?... Maybe he should find other friends instead. These friends don't support him as real friends should do.

I feel him LoLs.. When you hear Super junior songs you just want to dance to them.. And the ballads are so fantastic I fell In love with them and made them my favorite songs I listened to when I go to sleep.

He is ADORABLE ♡♡ who wouldn't love Super Junior?? It is not a concern at all!

I feel so touching, I only see a true ELF on him... He already became an ELF for so long time and never distract by other groups makes me wanna cry... he's so faith (I think he would do the same with his future girlfriend who understand him) T.T Thanks for the good job, let's continue support them ^^

That was cute. It makes me happy he's such a pure-hearted fan

Can we just talk about how lucky he is to meet his favourite group and sitting next to your bias?😳😳😳

this guy is literally the sweetest fanboy.

If it was BigBang noone would blams him... Or some K HipHop rapper or even crew... Why does it have to be this way? Enjoy what you do and do not change^^

I will be honest this is the only episode that made me cried! I feel the same way with Kpop, they saved my life I even wanted to end with my life but their happy songs and their vibe saved me, I am a fan just like him fighthing bro you are not alone

Girl likes girl group and boy group Boy likes boy group and girl group Isn't this so simple ? There is nothing more to think in this.

Sitting beside the people you look up to.. Woah! I'm happy for him. We all deserve a share of joy in life 💚👍