THIS. So much of this. We're discussing Imposter Syndrome at work and people treating you like this really feeds into it.

I work at a power plant, maybe 20 women in all (not the office women) of operations and maintenance 250 men... I experience this everyday. I can determine what problem we are having and a possible solution then they wait for the guy on the next shift to come in, tell them the same thing- while he tells them how great he is and then it's settled- I know nothing and he flies in with his cape! Very difficult to over come that mentality. But I get up everyday and do it all again- that's what we do.

ZiranaCain Gaslighting.

If somebody doesn't take you seriously, ok fine. RETURN THE FAVOUR. Remember them individually and don't take them seriously when they talk. Purposely ask someone else's opinion in front of them right after they give you theirs. Push away these people and don't get too close to them while at the same time pull in people who do value your input and surround yourself with them.

Women do this to me, Youngest son, raised by all women, father was always working. Funny the cycle never stops. Narcissistic traits are learned not horned.

That’s happen because men’s knows as we women know that we also have a lot of privileges .We women’s don’t have the same hard sentences for the same crime that man. We almost always keep the children’s on divorce and money from our ex husband that we never have to work too. We generally don’t work as hard and as many hours but expected to be pay the same. And do the most dangerous jobs.I remember not long time ago man have to go to the military ( obligation by law in my country) but I never have to. I can give sooooo many examples ... We even live longer. We women’s used our privilege all the time. I love men’s and I love being a woman . It is been a privilege

@@livingthedream8539 Exactly, women have also lot of privileges. They just always complain how they have it hard. I think there was a woman who did a transition to a man (and back) and was shocked how hard is it to be a man (there is a book about it).

Livingthedreem 80 That’s a good point. I wasn’t denying the fact that women have privileges too, but since the video was based on male privilege and how being a woman can be hard obviously the women will relate more. Toxic masculinity *is* still really dangerous though and it does need to be addressed . Also I know you were saying that women have it easier, but a lot of women want to work longer or harder but are denied that because men are favoured to be hired for jobs like that. So I guess the issue here is not to figure out who has what privileges but just to work hard until everyone has the same ones 😊

@@livingthedream8539 Bro stop saying "we" you're a man...

@@redteeth4890 No offense but what evidence do you have of that?

Nope. Won't do that.

@@relaxingsounds1386 Spoken like the true narrow minded misogynist male that you are.

If by profound you mean literally meaningless

@@Jonabob87 it’s called getting to know another person and respecting them, their unique challenges, and what they have done to address them.

@@relaxingsounds1386 why?

I feel you. I personally am giving up the STEM field because of that, too not only but it's a factor. I don't want to work in an environment where I constantly have to prove myself. Where people constantly check what I've done because it couldn't possibly be right.

My ex boyfriend used to constantly put me down over little things to the point I was never quite sure about sharing ideas with him or anyone else My current boyfriend does a bit too but I'm not sure he knows he's doing it 😅😂

Good luck in your career. I hope you find a team without too many boneheads on it.

Gaslighting

@@lottiecharman6946 I'd get rid of that boyfriend & find a man who values you properly. Always better being single then in a bad relationship!

He was willing to try to understand as he is in his 90s, has really learned about life + possibility realized whats really important. So glad he did, many don't ever.

@@lee02jepson ...exactly :-)

What got me was the last part, about her dad wanting to try.

i cried too...

same here ✨❣️✨

I apologize for everything

You used to get killed for being right in earlier times. Still you have to apologize.

I see that a lot in the work place.

Women are taught to apologize before correcting a man to diffuse the impact that the man feels is a "blow to his ego" at being corrected by a woman. Women are taught kindness is more important that just pointing out his error. So we apologize....A LOT!

@@user-jy3zl2vp4b sorry, but I have to disagree with that statement, good courtesy and humility is shown by apologising and is some thing many people of all kinds are taught.

I wish everyone could learn to accept, and be open to, others.

Yeah, I get it. I’m just glad she specified the advantage that privileged white guys have. With that; I hope we can focus on and encourage underprivileged young people of all races. That seems less divisive than current policies. I’m happy that we are trying to understand. I hope I will some day. I need more exposure. There will be rich and poor transitions people. I’m sure the poorer people will still have a harder time.

​@@HeronCoyote1234g

Goob​@@lesleyt8984

great job thinking critically

I completely agree. A long time ago women used to lift each other up. Now I just see them tearing each other apart. This MUST STOP!! Good luck on your journey, and keep your head high. ♥️♥️♥️

Because women are famously treated so well in Japan

@@larapalma3744 ….Read “I left Japan because I wanted to get away from it”.

​@@karolmarcellin6236 Japanese society imposes huge expectations that is why. It is not because she is a female living in Japan. Average work hours in Japan is more than 40 hours per week.

right ??? I mean that was one ridiculous comment lol @@larapalma3744

That's hilarious! If you stopped for me, I'd let you explain to me what's wrong since you obviously know! These guys were fricking jerks!

haha that is ridiculous, but maybe if you stoped and showed them to not judge you so soon, they would treat other woman with greater respect. I know its not your job but you could still give it a try.

@@fabianaparedes124 Oh thats what I do most of the time :)

Lol

I had a flat tire one night. I was asking guys to change the tire and I'd pay them. 4 or 5 guys ignored me. A girl offered to do it I said sure. Than a man came up to do it for free

yeppers

@Hugh Jaynuz LMAO

Honestly there are many Areas Where Women get treated better than Men. . Life is more depressing for men compared to women, There is a reason why Men are 80% suicide victims compared to women.

@@mikebanning1773 it's not about better or worse. She in this video is especially talking about not being taken seriously or being talked down to. Of course the masculine stereotype also comes with struggles, which is called toxic masculinity: telling boys they always have to be strong, not show emotions, be the leader and so on. All this pressure is one of the reasons why male suicide rates are that high. Good thing tho is that it's not a comparison or competition to whose life is more depressing. You can understand and care about the struggles that gender stereotypes put on all genders simultaneously.

I know my dad named me Sue

Wailed like a baby.

I started crying even before then.

@@CandaceLeAnne yess dear

@Yanagami Art, her emotion was so deep just a few seconds bevor that....that was the moment, I started to cry. What a beautiful Ted!

Kelly Marie Technically, it is. Your brain is shaped like a different gender from your body. Your brain is the engine behind your body, and it can physically hurt you to stay and/or present yourself as the gender your body is. Hope this helps. And yes, we shouldn’t celebrate mental illnesses, but the people, need support and love. I’m not sure if you would say that same sort of things to someone with autism.

Me too!

Is this to confirm your delusions, no one needed to tell me I was a male, biology and science dictated that

Paula is a man.

@@themeangene my guy stop getting so upset I see you under every comment. Get a hobby and an education

​@@lucius8111then who are you following a doctrine that's not based on science but from delusions of men?

You needed someone to tell you that?

Men do it too and men that think they're women do it too. Humans apologize for no reason all the time. Amazing.

I also do that, and I'm a guy :/

Best sentence.

IF and WHEN you’re right. If not, then don’t say anything. Lol

Trying is step 1 but the second step is to fully appreciate and understand.

Karen Carney why can’t he have a different opinion though? Like he can love his kid, but also want his son that he raised back.

He called her Paula!!!

Stefania Smanio (

@@IWantToMature85 Because her existence as a trans woman isn't an opinion? This is her, this is how she lives. If he wants to claim her as his child, then he absolutely needs to accept that.

What is a woman?

him*

@@themeangene bahaha yes

Maybe your a dummy if your swallowing

Maybe try pretending your a man?

There are other people who try to empower other people only not exclusivly about women but they talk to every gender But i get you and wish you well lol

And when she said “the call toward authenticity is sacred, is holy, it’s for the greater good” I really felt that too. People who feel miserable about their lives usually want to make other people miserable too, and because of that, if more people accepted their call to authenticity I’m sure that this world we live in would be a better place. Knowing yourself and having the courage to openly BE yourself is an extremely brave thing to do.

Dániel Faller So? Just because she focused her speech on empowering women, doesn’t mean her speech is less valid than more general ones. It’s not a competition. Also, the impact of the words of empowerment that come from someone that has been through the same as you is greater. Trying to empower every single human being on the planet when you haven’t even educated yourself on their struggles feels dishonest - we can all feel empathy for each other’s struggles, and accept that sometimes certain struggles of certain groups of people are going to be addressed uniquely, but that doesn’t mean other struggles aren’t relevant or that nobody cares about them, and suggesting so is a consequence of a very simple minded perspective.

​@@danielfaller5617 I don't understand how you think she was only speaking to empower women? Can you not see what she said empowers all people? The more knowledge you have of your environment and the individuals who exist within it, the more agency you have. This gives you the ability to make better choices for yourself and everyone around you. That's empowerment!

​@@silverco2560really well said ❤️🤝🌈

thegreentaxi Yes! It’s so nice to see this

you sound like a great human being, I'm glad you exist

Thank you for making the world a little better 🌸

That's amazing! I'm sure that with that mentality you'll have no issue!

❤

As long as you're able to listen, introspect and change when your own female bias is exposed to you, it's a two way course.

Our daughters, no every woman, mothers and sisters

This is a man

@@themeangene do you really have nothing better to do with your life than to reply to multiple comments saying the same thing? please, get a hobby, a job, anything and do something more productive with your free time

@@themeangene Austin Powers...🤣

@@alliekhani7873 do you have nothing better to do than complain about facts

simple. he's not muslim

@@user-ej3iw8lw3w what is a Muslim ?

@@AzabArch 🤪

"stop feeling so threatened" - says it all. It's the one and only "reason" for gender inequality - dress it up in religious or pseudo-science how you like, insecure people have to push others down so that they can stand above them and feel "superior"

@@user-ej3iw8lw3w - misogyny isn't the sole preserve of Islam. Take a look ac Christianity sometime.

@L It's because it's the view of one individuals experience, which supports the meta narrative influencing mainstream society today which suggests that women have life much harder, which trivializes men's ordeals. Allow me to suggest that it's possible the reason this speaker struggled with becoming a woman is because they spent their entire life up to that point being a man. Try taking a professional wrestler and shoving them into professional ballet dancing, two very difficult careers that require completely opposite skill sets to flourish. Where before bullish strength was required, now it's a hindrance and lithe grace is the leading trait. If you do a thing for 30-40 years, then try something else, that something else will seem a lot harder than the previous thing. This is just one possible plausible argument completely overlooked in the current narrative.

@@pieskmista The condescension and not being taken seriously is real, though there are some other things where women have it better.

@@Evija3000 Yeah I'm very aware that some men do this. But In the majority of cases where it does occur it is much more likely that the woman is expressing lack of confidence through both body language and voice. Some occur because of assumptions based on the stereotypical woman not liking or being aware of something they are talking about, which ends if and when the subject displays confident knowledge in the subject in most cases, when it doesn't the leading factor is because the person they are talking to doesn't actually know the answer and is floundering to not lose face, as is very likely the case in the bike situation in this video. There's a myriad of other reasons that such an interaction may occur that having nothing to do with gender, and this fact is not just overlooked in modern days but burnt at the stake. The VAST majority of human communication completely ignores the words you are saying, the way you say them is much more important. Body language is the biggest factor, followed by tones and other effects, while there are studies that suggest less than 10% of the impact of how we communicate is in the words themselves. What I'm saying is, take any woman that is suffering from this problem, and have them take lessons in confident/assertive communication and I guarantee their life changes. It's only in very rare cases that the reason a man treats a woman differently from a man is because she is a woman.

@OzarkoBlam Oh, that is SO well said, it deserves ALL the likes. Since it can't garner all of them, I here submit mine.

So beautiful really..this is true courage staying true to yourself no matter what others whant you to be!

Maybe he should open his mind to the fact he's a man

I was willing to try meth when I was 17. Now I have a deviated septum. Not even once

@@noxaurum1 nobody asked

It is the context and word use that makes it so.

She can't really tell that because she is not a cisgender woman.

Her story being in essence that "life is harder for women" and "male privilege is everywhere"... deeply profound and highly original stuff! lol

You call him a She..................

Chameleonred5 Could your argument be a little more VAGUE??? Obviously you don't have a good argument to offer.

When we live in a world where wrong became right, not sure if there is a right and wrong anymore.

Unless you're British... then you apologize for being right

@@DanielOrtiz-dl8eo Canadian also. I found it more strange to think that American men DON'T apologize for correcting people than that women do.

@@johnkidby7948 what??

No but a person doesn't have to be right in smartass or demeaning way. Arguments can start because the way a person talks.

One of my favourite TED talks in a long time.

Really well done, everything so on point and well thought out

@@ruthiemay4799 Give it a rest already. We are all fully aware of what her biology dictates. This was never a question that needed an answer.

we must of been watching difrent videos

@@ruthiemay4799 Can you just chill a little? If it doesnt hurt anyone and that person is happy. How does it matter seriously? Its still debatable if the transitions are a good longterm solution or just consulting a psychologist until the problem is solved. I don't see what you think is the problem.

Always tiptoeing around the male's ego.

So why apologize, no one told you you have to? You ever think about that?

No one told us we have to, but just asserting the truth like a normal human being is seen as us "being hostile" or a "know it all" and they get very defensive and often double down or make a joke at our expense. We learn how to gracefully let a man down easy when he's wrong. I think that a woman pointing out something incorrect is deeply humiliating to a certain kind of man and they can fight back aggressively. "I'm just trying to say, I think we might actually be going north on the highway, but I could be wrong, what do you think?" "We're going the wrong way, we need to turn around" can get all kinds of pushback and hurt feelings. Sad but true in some cases, so we learn to soften our language.

@@tres32100 dafuq

In this context, an "apology" is nothing of the sort, but rather an introductory phrase which indicates a feigned openness to discussion. Alternatively, you could always say "Or alternatively...", "" to the same effect. The bottom line is, it's your goddamn choice to be polite. Nobody should expect any more or less from you.

@@bojjaragadeepika7624 you sound confused too

She's indeed an inspiration all women, I listen to her speech and she made too many sense. I pray God gives you lots of beautiful days, I'm David Greg originally from Spain Granada i live in Austin Texas and you?

Nobody cares~~~~~If you cry!

Your son is always be a son. He will never be a woman no matter what clothes he wears or what surgery he has he will always be male. You obviously did not bring him up in the fear of the Lord and that's why you have a basket case for a son.

@@nathanhood4873 shut up

You are a great parent ❤️❤️ all the best to you and your family!

reported for child abuse

'He'

@@relaxingsounds1386 why are you people still breath the same air as she does. dont try to start a fight bro, you aint getting one.

@@namelesspeach5231 He/She is correct...

He. This is a man in a dress.

@@namelesspeach5231 lol!! cope.

When a woman no matter the subject knows what she is talking about men will respond in kind. We all have encountered a couple of A holes in our lives but the majority will explain or converse with a woman if she knows what she is talking about.

He's a dude and everyone talking to him knows that he is a dude, no one thinks he's a woman. You can't relate to him.

I'm a woman and I have never had this problem. People always assume I am a professor or doctor or lawyer, even when I am only wearing a T-shirt and shorts and flip flops. I'm not sure why. I have a very deep, masculine voice and masculine features though, so maybe that's why.

Everyone struggles and fights to be taken seriously. Not all men have power. In fact, very few do.

@Juliana Silva hahaha women can't relate to men and men can't relate to women. That's like when a women says "she's having a girls night out" men seem to think she is going out on town and having fun but she's actually trying to cheat. Men just bluntly ask for a side chick. You'll generally know where you stand with a man but not a woman. Also everyone dealing with this guy knows he's a guy so his whole talk is redundant.

So sorry your life is like that😳 I live all the way over the other side of the world ( Caribbean) over here men take advantage of women's strength while still trying to put them down. Women are expected to work outside the home, cook, clean, do the laundry and of course fulfill the man's s*xual needs! In short they expect the woman to take care of them fully while they do little to nothing but enjoy..being male!😡 I have refused to marry any of them and my mother understands and doesn't pressure me..I wish All women were as fortunate, I hope your future will be brighter meanwhile stay strong! 💪👍

I live in Switzerland and theoretically, men and women have the same rights. In reality, we're still miles away from real equality. But I'm not complaining, my life is pretty ok. Still I always doubt myself all the time and I'm always very surprised if a man takes me seriously because it's so rare. Well.. I'm sending you both love and strength. Respect yourself and be confident in your abilities. At least we as women should try to empower each other instead of bringing us down.

I am so sorry you're going through that, I hope you get the courage to leave that place, that's so unhealthy for your mental stability

You are not less than a man, it makes me sad to hear you are treated so! You deserve to have independence if that is what you wish , you have a gentle strength in you as all women do, my heart is with you and i hope you find peace and equality, as i hope we all do eventually. We are building a better world, i believe, though it can feel slow in progression. xxxx

I feel sorry. It is not possible still to hear things like these.

Nah Paul is still a man.

thank u so much, I appreciate that

Eyes wide open💛

Locedamius Dont let these libtard cunts brainwash you and punish you for being a male!!!

i hope you're joking, cause i'm imagining a crazed old man typing this furiously on his computer before he goes to the gun range ;)

Locedamius I'm a welder, and one day I had someone come up to me...just to see the spectacle that is a female welder. I was tempted to put up a string of lights and a banner that said, $5 to see the female welder. My venting to my male colleagues didn't go very well either. They were all clueless how dehumanizing it was.

He has a pretty interesting story

@@MrWesford *she

Because it's confirming your identity , by the one you love. I really hope that some day, in any way, we'll all be free to be who we are without any fear and judgement.

I've always considered myself a trans ally. I certainly call anyone and everyone by the names they choose. But this video, along with some other things, is why, for the first time this semester, I made a point to tell students my pronouns and invite them to tell me theirs if they so desired.

Melody Roses

She's amazing. She's been thru so much. I could feel her triumph in her small emotional voice at that exact moment.

@@klaasboukezwaan6700 what exactly were u trying to say...

Oh wow. I hope you have sometimes taken the opportunity to just stare at them and wait for them to acknowledge their mistake. A little embarrassment might help to get them thinking.

i've heard that it's only in western countries. muslim and african countries are more tolerant

@Ayşe Ece Ayhan No suprise there. If I can tell that you are with your boyfriend, i would look at him instead of you. Looking at you can cause discomfort since your boyfriend will notice. He can then persume i have interest in you and all sorts of things. Ive been in this situation many times. Its not that im doing it cause i dont like you or think you are not intelligent enough to understand me, its about avoiding conflict and respect.

Penguin My boyfriend says the same thing but you are missing something. You are missing the woman who looked at you and asked you a question. It’s okay to look at both of them but just looking at the man just because he is a man is problematic. She is the one who asked you a question and not the man.

Next time, go stand before your boyfriend, look the guy angry in the eyes and ask him: Are you trying to flirt with my boyfriend?

@@davidyatesmckay Because it's human nature to be set in yours ways by the time you reach that age. It's pretty special when someone in their 90s is able to be open minded like that

everyone has issues, income, health kids etc.; don't make yours their unwanted show; live your own life

smblaze 92 I saw your comment and I feel badly. As a society, I think we have come a long way in terms of equality...but our journey to equity is really only beginning. We have much to do...

just start demanding more affirmative action and positive discrimination

smblaze 92 society sucks

Spawny Chancer, another and perhaps more functional idea: People of good will and a sense of humanity can start demanding more equity and fairness in all their spheres--home, school, work, play. The US's biggest affirmative action programs have been for white men; they weren't called "affirmative action" because the creators of those programs had a mission of normalizing inequality and hierarchies with white-skinned men propped up on top. You don't name programs if you want them to be accepted as divine right and normality. The 1944 GI Bill is a good example of affirmative action for white men: the government-backed mortgages, tuition payments, business start-up loans and jobs commensurate with WWII training went disproportionately, and in some states solely, to white men. Add to that roughly 322 years of laws written [by guess who] to not only thwart but criminalize progress of American Indians, Africans, Chinese, and white women. IF you've got the nerve, you can read all about it in the well researched book by a judge--A. L. Higginbotham's "In the Matter of Color: Race and the American Legal Process." Or just read the GI Bill, then imagine that those in charge of implementation were--guess who.

Its all training and preperation, not terribly difficult if you practise :)

He, didn't you listen? She was a preacher before her transition. That was her job!

Congeats on hitting 100 liked

Vi lär oss varje dag!

You sir do not have enough likes

Yeah that's a dude, biology doesn't care about your feeling, if they dig this guys bones up a 100 years from now, they won't know what mental illnesses they had, but they will know it's the skeleton of a male.

@james trista literally. These people are insane

Same... That whole "why are we apologizing for... being right" ?? First thing out of our mouths to say what someone else incorrectly stated or, to add a point, jeez... sometimes, to even speak... or at a store too... is.... "Sorry, but........" "Sorry.... were you in line.." "Sorry, I think I was next" , "Sorry, I think this change is wrong...." ..... etc. Never even realized I do that OR how ridiculous it sounds now, being pointed out.. =/ A LOT of great points made here... some of those, "things that make ya go, hmmmm" moments for sure. ;) Stay safe & be well.

But still questioning our knowledge is important because knowledge might change as scientific research accuracy do, too :) So knowledge can become "just" beliefs :) Would be very helpful if men would do so but they are often too confident ...

@@mmanda515 Yes. Another one is "I think..." Men just state everything like it's fact.

Because of the way things are, even if you state it just like the men do, you will be questioned. If not questioned, then disliked for being exactly as assertive as the man sitting next to you. That's what I've seen anyway. We all have to make our choices about what we're willing to accept. I don't blame other women for choosing the subservient role we are taught.

@@l.silcher Or arrogant

You're speaking for 3-1/2 billion people right now. Sure you're up to it?

Yea..unless u dress sleazy and pretend not to know..maybe you'll be 'lucky' enough to get a Discount (note the sarcasm)

@@Aizouli She didn't ask you. That's kind of her point.

@@tracink She? didn't ask anything, she made a blanket statement where JWF pointed out the categorical part of it... Basically all women i know, don't mind asking either a man or a woman if they're in doubt about something. So her 'point' is kinda moot.

I mean... Please let's not segregate each other, it will just make things worse

She's indeed an inspiration all women, I listen to her speech and she made too many sense. I pray God gives you lots of beautiful days, I'm David Greg originally from Spain Granada i live in Austin Texas and you?

She's indeed an inspiration all women, I listen to her speech and she made too many sense. I pray God gives you lots of beautiful days, I'm David Greg originally from Spain Granada i live in Austin Texas and you?

Nobody sees him like a woman...so how would he know?

😂 Witty irony, I like it

@@annabatcheler1905 if you bought them for the pockets how did you not notice they were fake lol

But how good are skirts and dresses with pockets?!?! 🙌🙌😁

Yet they cost 10 times more. Great point!

yeah cause women's jeans are usually tight, which makes it difficult to add pockets to them.

Sealdude isn’t HE?!

@@Noah4evaa What?

@Big Smoke How do u expect to be taken seriously with that username lmao

MRN W ok boomer

Yeah she's great, I kind of want to hear more talks from her.

Yoda?

authenticity? this man has adopted a false self, he's pretending to be a woman.

Ted Myrrh I think you mean woman. She is valid and happy.

Man*

@@josstrebe6302 woman*

Thank YOU for being brave enough to open your mind to the unknown, You can be proud.

Everyone needs to accept everyone else

It's not hard, just remember the definition of Freedom lol

Men often do have preconceived notions. It's a shame.

Paula tells it as it is. I too am a transwoman and she expresses the differences that we all learn about when we transition. She's exactly right

Hahah same

that's why we have purses

@@maevemcgale4077 Screw purses! I hate purses about as much as I hate not having pockets.

Female clothes are Not practical at all.

That's why designers who put pockets in dresses have loyal consumers. Women's Jean's are also too tight and too short

Well, that’s the world if women for ya

Jean Rivard Bertrand exactly, we (cis people) have a lot to learn from trans people

TRANSGENDERS ARE CONFUSED ! THATS AS DEEP AS IT GOES !!

FLAT EARTH you need some serious help. They’re not confused.

@@nicolel.6316 NOT CONFUSED ?? THEY DONT KNOW IT THEY ARE A MAN OR A WOMAN !!

FLAT EARTH she’s clearly a woman...? She’s male to female.

je suis mal à l'aise

@@user-ej3iw8lw3w Why's that?

{} Whatever. What’s your problem with her?

He is so brave

i disagree, i had low confidence and i used to be treated like that, i could be 300% right people were still doubting about everywords i said. Now this changed cause i learned how to express myself and show confidence

@@virgileusa I'm glad you had a better experience than me and the 90 people that liked my post! It's good you gained confidence too :) Just a side note, I'm NOT being sarcastic. This often goes wrong on the internet so just putting that out there. Sincerity all over.

@{} who tf asked

@@delivermypain I mean of course they all asume your a male, its a fact that there is more males playing videogames, like wtf do you expect, they have to guess your gender now? Also about ehat you said of you dont say your gender anymore cuz you are treated different, its also normal, its rare to see woman playing with us, so its diferent and we treat you different to have fun, you could have fun trolling them or whatever you want, dont take everything that searious men, like wtf, it would like a group of girls on a Kitchen treating different a men like he knows nothing even if he knew more than them, and its way to normal, we all have those steriotypes.

@@miguelgt2010 In what era do you live?

she did not transitioned into woman for you to still call her "him/she" is just she, just get it

Janis Cortese, well said.

Nate Bruffatt, more man than you'll ever be and more woman than you'll ever know.

That is a man

"wonderful head on her shoulders" That is because he was born as a man. He thinks like a man. There is nothing feminine about him. (Maybe a little confused.) Plastic in our food which is estrogen similar, creates emasculated men. And he is an actor. A Liberal propaganda agent.

me too. I think all harmful gender stereotypes should go die. humans are humans

@@COVID--kf3tx .. The reason stereotypes exist is because generally they are true. There are differences between men and women, and nothing is going to change it. That doesn't mean we can't treat each other with respect.

Josh Herbert 100% agreed

Yes Josh you know it!

JG Alegria it’s a good thing we get to see the perspective of their people’s lives. People tend to think that just because they haven’t experienced something, then it must not never happen.

I ended up just shortening my name, so the first time I was called "Cass" after coming out was nice, but I didn't get a sense of euphoria. When I was referred to by the correct pronouns though... bruh... I think I experienced Nirvana LOL

i had the same experience a couple days ago when my best friend said "good night cameron" for the first time! sending love to you

@harleylopez My most favourite times are we God reminds me: You are MINE. 💟💟💟

She's indeed an inspiration all women, I listen to her speech and she made too many sense. I pray God gives you lots of beautiful days, I'm David Greg originally from Spain Granada i live in Austin Texas and you?

yeah, Right power!!

Yessssss

Exactly the same here!

Same Daniela... Same...

Hey daniela, I do drag it's really empowering. Try it if you ever feel like it might empower you too :)

But you are not a man. You're a women there's a difference.

Trust me, you do not.

Skipp Andover yes!!

JESUS KNOWS

I can guess they are often VERY uncomfortable - that much I get :)

@@wordoflifejd I love not knowing if this is saying nobody knows or yelling out GOD KNOWS ALL. It's hilarious, without a hint of irony.

I agree, this is especially so for women who never understand guys who are forced into National Service and the army. Having to give up many years of our lives when our female counterparts can move on without a worry in the world

So glad to meet her here! She is wonderful!!

It's not a TED talk. It is a TEDx talk. They are different things.

What does that mean? I didnt really understand that part.

@@vasudhakota972 It means that because of their brown skin, they probably experience racism and stuff that Paula, as a white woman, won't know or understand :)

@@nopenope4502 Thanks for explaining it🙂

​@@vasudhakota972 No problem :)

Not even far enough!

Yes we have come far but that doesn't mean we are there yet!

We shouldn't want more? That is great that you see there has been improvement in treatment, but I honestly see those things still happening today. I don't think we have come as far as you think...

If only they were laughing at those victims because when men are abused by women people tend to laugh.

It still goes on……!