this literally made able to cry after 2 long years of not being able to and it has been the biggest relief on those 2 years
@Karuyine5 ай бұрын
Well I will use this pin to send a message to anyone who feels as if they have to be something more... Important people like Elon Musk or others are no more important than you yeah you heard me right and I am NOT liying I will explain why now. So yeah important people isn't as important as they seem to be, because truly what they discover just isn't something they did themselves, (in most cases and actually when it isn't this way is when it is people that is WAY less famous) but why again? Because they are just like the conductor of a orchestra they just maintain everything together and give a bit of guidance which is something very important, but that actually doesn't make them more important than any of the musicians in the orchestra. This in discoveries or science-related things is the same except for the fact that the "conductor" doesn't give guidance because they can't so literally in most cases people like Elon Musk or others just maintain all together, again in most cases sometimes theres people that also work themselves but that still doesn't make them more important than any of the others. Now this misunderstanding has probably been the main reason for the pressure society puts on all of us, the pressure that makes many of us think we have to be more, even when what we thought doing was literally impossible in the actual society, like I mean you can try to do a BIG discovery alone, but because of how hard it has become it will take you as much time as any other scientist of the past and this only if you have the luck to be in the limit of the discovery because if not you will just be someone that apported to the final result and that isn't something bad. The thing is that the society of these days has actually made it seem like it is something bad or that it is best to be the one to discover it even though it wasn't actually just you, but also everyone else before you and you don't have to go for a job of science or something related to be important because even something as making tattoos will end up helping someone in a way so they also help someone or apport something to a discovery even if it is small and at the end when you apport to a discovery you are helping someone else you just have to do what you like at the end you will always be as important and significant as anyone else. Finally I wanted to tell you all of this because I was actually feeling pretty bad yesterday (the day I made the original comment) and also today, but now that I realized that I just had to do what I orginally wanted to do and didn't need to be a literally impossible genius what I have to do feels extremely easy and I feel as if a very VERY big weight has now dissapeared from my back, now I feel extremely good. Also I hope that if you were feeling meaningless I was able to show you that you aren't meaningless or if you were feeling as you had to do more, I hope I was able to show you that you don't need to be more, just don't overstress thinking you should be more, although that obviously doesn't mean you don't have to work in the slightest or anything like that, but know that every good action you have made (because you have made many good things even if you don't believe so) have made possible a greater good I really hope this was able to make you feel as good as I am feeling right now or at least to get some of that weight out of you. Love you all, because you all are important even if you don't believe so, goodbye ❤.
@Dutch_van_der_linde1232 ай бұрын
I will always look at this comment to make me feel happy thanks friend ❤
@Travelguru1182 ай бұрын
How did you do it
@Karuyine2 ай бұрын
@@Travelguru118 I'll be honest... I don't really know, it just felt when I watched this video like a moment of peace in which I could just express myself in any way, the tears then just went out, gotta say I am also much better now, so I hope you maybe get to get those bad feelings out, just stop trying to make an image at least for a moment, nobody is going to put blame on you because of it. This is all I can truly give you of advice, but maybe if you search for other similar videos like this one or maybe search for a video specifically made to help you release those, it will probably help, I wish you the best 🫂_you done everything well don't worry_ PS: I gotta clarify this, I didn't like completely go out with tears, but definitely had some that were more than enough to relieve all of this, just let them flow, get that "gut" feeling out, that feeling that maybe makes you feel like you gasp for air... damn really... just be yourself
@nathanielsuministrado60072 ай бұрын
Haven't cried for 8 years and I'm 19 years old
@Oddpod_TV Жыл бұрын
The tears of a man are the silent language of a broken heart
@CoachDavidAdes Жыл бұрын
P R E A C H
@KennyCornelis10 ай бұрын
To be honnest has this nothing To be between a man or a woman I whas really An emotional person I cried alot. But now i cant and it's sucks Becouse crying is actualy Is An beautyfull emotion. It's like it's pulling weight out of You're shoulder
@nokia-gm8gv9 ай бұрын
shutup
@Oddpod_TV7 ай бұрын
@@brysonsextonthat is like being lonely and solitary being alone is not having anyone well it is but it is also being surrounded by self absorbed people who do not care about your feelings
@person60705 ай бұрын
but i am girl and ive never cried over 2 years
@A5TR0-B0T9 күн бұрын
Recently a close family member of mine passed away and I couldn’t cry or really express my feelings about it. it made me feel like a horrible person, I wanted to cry but I just physically couldn’t. Using this and a few other sources it helped me really connect myself to my emotions, thank you
@subhasish1718 Жыл бұрын
idk why but a drop of tear came out as i watched this. i just felt like someone understood me even if a little. i feel much better after that
@CoachDavidAdes Жыл бұрын
Look for this feeling until all the tears come out.
@TheNightOwl01858 Жыл бұрын
@@CoachDavidAdes I felt the urge again but was unable to shed a single tear have been so for the past 1 or 2 years can't remember when I cried last time I want to cry am o only 15 yr old to top it of.
@ethankoontz2079 ай бұрын
@yourbuddyboy2086 take care of it now. Im 24, cant remember the last 8 years of my life and still have this problem.
@imtakinguhome89068 ай бұрын
Same:)
@Karuyine5 ай бұрын
@@TheNightOwl01858 how are you now? Because i literally have the same situation just now i was able to cry again with this video after 2 long years and i am 15 years old too the only difference is i was able to have 9 tears come down my face with the help of watching similar videos but now only if it was 9 small tears i feel like my eyes won't cry again for a very long time again
@_quixote Жыл бұрын
I haven't properly cried like a baby for years. The most I get is a tiny amount of a few tears, like one or two, but even that is rare. Ive experienced neglect, abandonment, bullying, low self esteem, depression, social anxiety, feelings of being left out, etc.
@vestigex Жыл бұрын
same
@_Butterfly_Kate_ Жыл бұрын
Me too man
@CoachDavidAdes Жыл бұрын
It's a paradox. We need to weep to resolve this pain, but our culture and everything around us pressures us to focus on "progress" "productivity", "be rational", etc. Our body, too, does a great job of preventing us from getting it all out. It represses the pain and creates depression, it tenses up and creates anxiety. This was too much pain, and the body struggles to cope. So, we struggle as well. To heal, we would need a safe environment/relationship to explore this territory and these feelings/experiences. That is the point of speaking with a therapist as far as I'm concerned. But this is complex territory, and not every therapist knows what their goal really is. I've gone thru 4 therapists to find the one I've stuck with. My first one called himself Dr. Happy, haha! If his goal is to make people happy, that reinforces the pattern of avoiding pain. We didn't last long together. Maybe it is time to find someone to talk to.
@user-bj6nk7wk3v10 ай бұрын
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@Skiamakhos9 ай бұрын
I don't feel like I can cry around my wife & kids - like, I get it rising to the surface as David says, might shed a tear or get a wobble in my voice, but I feel like I'm at risk of losing them if I express my sadness or worse, my grief or my depression. I lost my parents 2 years ago - separate things, dad had dementia & spent his last year in a home while we were all on lockdown, so in a way it feels like one day he was fairly hale & hearty, then the next we're in the hospital watching this yellowish skeleton of a man breathe his last. 9 months later Mum got COVID and died within a week. I haven't had a proper cry "get it all out" about either. I'm afraid if I do I won't be able to stop, like I'll just fall back into depression fully.
@CAT101YOBOI25 күн бұрын
This is so accurate, I cried to a video that shows a korean show where a kid was being monitored why he is acting strange in the eyes of his parents but in the middle of the video the boy said he felt lonely, he wanted to play with his dad and wanted to be loved by their mom. Then I lost it and start crying because I relate through the kid feeling abandoned by his parents
@stellahvanaernam6084 Жыл бұрын
I’ve always wondered why I can’t cry when needed. It’s been happening for a while but i never knew this is what it was.
@CoachDavidAdes Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment Stellah. Maybe you just need to connect with someone on this feeling, and it will come out. Feel free to schedule a free 15-30 minute chat with me at www.calendly.com/coachdavidades/introduction. You should connect with someone on this, whether it is myself or someone else. More power to you.
@mamadoom972419 күн бұрын
Thank you so much. I haven’t been able to cry in so long and I’ve really needed to. This video opened it up and I’m finally crying.
@tsl-2024mАй бұрын
That’s me.. literally me everyday.. I exploded last month after 3 years of not being able to cry
@lordxuthane3294 Жыл бұрын
Huh, so that's what that feeling is, that's good to know!
@user-pc9hx9bb4x11 ай бұрын
Thank You Coach Favid for validating me..I live with such emotionally dead neighbors they flash uo on my screen to make loghtbif me about mybskcholodm treatment furv39buears trying to provoke me into my PTSD Dussbikity so they can every city cop doen here arresting me sgain..theater favorite passtime..they should be the ones can ever retrospect enough to cry one tear over their obviously damaged Lil Chile which they stay stuck in terrible 2s
@Eric.434 ай бұрын
Couple years ago my depression was so bad ive had many sleepless nights, i felt like i forgotten how to sleep and if i drift off it was only for an hour or less i guess what im trying to say is i believe i was severely scard by from that stage of my life i just cant cry anymore
@ArtemisiaDS32 ай бұрын
Last time I cried was at my uncles funeral. That was about 6 year ago. Wish I could cry but it never comes.
@anikai.11 ай бұрын
it's like trying to sneeze but it stops from letting you and it will be frustrating
@Oliviamsoleil7774 ай бұрын
Loving this🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽So on point!!!! And definitely resonates. Emotions. Like waves, can not be stopped. Did you know that Guilt, Shame, Abandonment, Powerlessness, Boredom, just to name a few, all fall under Sorrow? The charge of each emotion creates and enforces beliefs that initially may have served in whatever capacity. But no longer serves after the event or incident.
@sweety28174 ай бұрын
Thank you soo much...I really needed this clear explanation
@niacrockett72934 ай бұрын
I’ve been this way since my tbi and stroke. Smh
@LetsTalkBball20 сағат бұрын
I’m 15. Haven’t cried in 8 years. Lost multiple family members, and my best friend all in a very short timeline and nothing. I’m hollow. I don’t feel emotions. I act like I do, but I couldn’t tell you the last time I actually experienced happiness and didn’t just put a mask on that made me look like it. Been abandoned by everyone close to me, and I am so scarred to the point nobody even tries anymore because I don’t ever let my guard down for anyone anymore. Since when I do I get hurt. And the sad part is nobody knows. Everyone around me thinks I’m a friendly, happy guy. No, I just need some way to blend in with the crowd so I don’t seem uncanny or desperate or like a creep. The only emotion I ever have in the overwhelming sense of regret, and to call myself depressed seems so cringy but when you are this emotionally numb, scarred and empty you don’t know what to call yourself. Did I just vent to strangers on KZfaq…
@Elvaskez652 ай бұрын
I have been feeling that way for years now. Even right now I’m going through a lot and I feel like crying but right at the moment it goes away.
@chasebell14146 күн бұрын
Good luck dude, I hope things get better for you. I would look into this further (I’m doing this too probably :)
@Linogiven2 ай бұрын
I feel like something cutting my chest inside and I fell the pain, I can't cry. I live a life full af adversity.
@hatsuneonline. Жыл бұрын
I’ve had this feeling for 2 years and I have spoke to people and it’s making it worse. Family doesn’t really do anything and I’m scared to actually talk to a professional incase they say i’m just over exaggerating and wasting their time when someone else can use it instead
@CoachDavidAdes Жыл бұрын
The fear that prevents you from communicating openly with someone (who cares) about your sadness, is a reflection of the exact same reason your sadness will not communicate openly with you. If you want the sadness to be heard, so you can be free from it, you have to break the chain of fear with conscious intention, find someone worth talking to, and open up to them. The question is, do you want to be free from it? It is not an easy answer. What scares you more: being consumed by sadness, or leaving it behind? What will happen to you if you let it sit inside? Or, who will you be without it? I offer a free 15-30 minute meeting at calendly.com/coachdavidades/introduction.
@who2449 Жыл бұрын
A good professional would never say you're over exaggerating, a good professional will listen to what you have to say and ask you why it makes you feel that way. As someone who wasted years on a psychiatrist that was neglectful of my feelings I'm telling you, if the professional you're talking with makes you feel worse - find another one. Don't doubt yourself.
@CoachDavidAdes Жыл бұрын
I thought I responded to this far earlier. You are stuck neglecting yourself. I hope there has been some development in the last month. You can schedule a free 30-minutes with me at www.calendly.com/coachdavidades/introduction, and it will not be a waste of time regardless of how it goes. Do yourself a favor. If not me, then someone else.
@BlackoutPatriot9 ай бұрын
Your an adult now . Suck it up and move on
@strawberry949727 күн бұрын
It’s ok to can’t cry. It’s not you don’t wanna cry it’s just can’t explain and can’t cry out when you wanted to. Take a deep breath and try to take care of your inner child
@Karuyine2 ай бұрын
It's the third comment I will make on this video, but it was incredible I have to say it, I feel that after I watched this video everything started to pretty much go uphill, as in the good meaning, everything started to become better, there were still some though times even after I watched this video, but now I definitely don't feel that weight I felt before, now I feel much more free. You *_REALLY_* changed someone's life to better David, if I can call you like that, I hope you get the best of the best on your life because you damn deserve it
@chasebell14146 күн бұрын
I’m so happy to hear this :) have a great life ❤️
@Karuyine6 күн бұрын
@@chasebell1414 thankies :3 you do too uwu Also as you may have suspected already, I am a femboy now owo feels great x3
@chasebell14146 күн бұрын
@@Karuyine good for you! Seems like you’re happy with yourself, that’s what matters :)
@caresseabarquez1483 ай бұрын
This is me, it’s hard for me to cry even though i’m experiencing a very sad fleeting moment.
@jk550928 ай бұрын
I've been trying to get myself to cry for years now, about 2 I'm guessing, I'm still under 18 so I live with my parents, they had fought about over 5 times this month. Last night was my last straw, When my father was telling my mother to get out the house and she wouldn't get me or my brother when she did, That was my final straw only about 5 times of him telling her to "get the f___ out" My brother was asleep and he usually stepped in.. SoI finally had to do my part to end the fight, I gathered my courage.. And got out of my bed. (It was 12:52 AM btw) And walked to their room which is right next to my room.. And finally snapped. "STOP FIGHTING." I didn't care when my father said I wasn't apart of this and to not interfere again, I walked into the room and hugged my mother, nonstop repeating "Stop fighting.." And that was my edge.. My last straw. I burst into tears after..
@CoachDavidAdes8 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing. The phrase "drastic times call for drastic measures" comes to mind. You say you gathered your courage--I think you're right. Much love.
@Riddle_wright11 ай бұрын
I’ve felt this way for 10 years now… I’d much Like it to come out finally. Please
@dinfluence307 ай бұрын
Hey, hope you fine. I also dealing with it for 10 years. Im really tired of it. It disturbs my sleep, my mood, everything is being affected. What do you feel exactly in your head,..some kinda pressure and sadness?
@Riddle_wright7 ай бұрын
@@dinfluence30 in 2015 I lost my son, there's a constant pressure in my abdomen, emptiness in my chest, and scatter in my head . A feeling of a never ending anxiety due to the feeling of loneliness even when I am not alone. just like you it has disturbed my sleep, mood and everything. at its worst I feel the swelling in my temples but nothing comes out.
@dinfluence307 ай бұрын
@@Riddle_wright Thanks for telling me your story.. I can image how hard it can be.. I wish you all the best and hope you find a solution to temper this. Do you visit a therapist?
@chasebell14146 күн бұрын
Sorry man that’s horrible, you really do need a good cry. It will come.
@Riddle_wright6 күн бұрын
@@dinfluence30 I have a few times with different therapists. Some days are worse than others. But I do get by
@Skwisgaar_Skwigelf Жыл бұрын
Man, I haven't really cried in like 16 years now. I just can't seem to do it.
@ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx Жыл бұрын
Omg I’m ok. Cuz I worried about myself. I have not in years either
@scientificallyilliterate120 Жыл бұрын
I'll trade you problems - I used to not be able to cry and now I can't stop crying even at work
@CoachDavidAdes Жыл бұрын
Being open with one's own feelings comes from being connected with oneself. Feeling connected with oneself comes mostly from feeling connected with others. There is an element of connecting with oneself as well, but there isn't much of a self without real connections to relationships and environments.
@CoachDavidAdes Жыл бұрын
@@scientificallyilliterate120 the grass is always greener, no? Why are you crying?
@aarooofficial Жыл бұрын
i didn't cried for 10 years 🙂
@aliceDarts6 ай бұрын
I neededvthis video... I haven't cried in years. It is good to know that I am not alone.
@CoachDavidAdes5 ай бұрын
Quite the opposite, judging how this video has been performing. So much unfelt pain in the world.
@priyanshuvettori517910 ай бұрын
I want to cry out so loud, but I am unable to, please help me cry out, someone out there.
@chasebell14146 күн бұрын
Hey man there is nothing wrong with crying, even if you are in front of your entire family. It is not shameful. It is not weak, or something to hide. Let it flow the same way you let your smile radiate when you’re excited!!! Have a good cry man.
@netrox00726 ай бұрын
I think I have this. I have been depressed for a while now, I thought crying May resolve this, But I Just can't do it. I used to be able to cry easily, now I Just can't.
@susbedoo7 ай бұрын
I have only cried once in my lifetime. I want to cry but I can't. It's up to my throat but I just can't make it go all the way out. I kind of live with it now, it doesn't bother that much now
@chasebell14146 күн бұрын
Good luck, I would try to discover yourself more and keep working at it. Don’t give up!
@themislies75097 ай бұрын
I just type “ I wanna cry” and I saw this reel. You definitely made me cry rn. Thank you.
@LaserrSharp5 ай бұрын
Been trying to cry. Only thing that comes out is rage. How do I cry? I wanna cry. I need relief.
@chasebell14146 күн бұрын
Do You have someone you can hug and talk about it?
@Jayden-yb5bq Жыл бұрын
I don’t want to cry but I cry, is like my brain automatically sends water to my eyes, even tho I don’t feel sadness, or any negative feelings, only feeling neutral, idk why this happens, but it happens often like when someone insults me of say smt bad abt me
@Nerdvpnpro Жыл бұрын
Well heres how i like to get a good cry out, first things first(this is completely unrelated from the situation you are in) find a text from a loved one that says something like "i love you" or "lets play minecraft tommorow!" And start thinking about the future, about how those ppl you love and care for will eventually die, then put on some music and use that as the spark to light the fule
@smacadoodles8508 ай бұрын
I always felt like I was alone sometimes and one of my cousin always belittle me for some reason.I feel like crying but I can’t.But I make other people happy so I can make myself feel happy
@chasebell14146 күн бұрын
I’m so sorry dude, I know how that feels. Just remember that your cousin probably belittles you because they are a little… dumb. They don’t realize the effect of their meanness, or maybe they want to feel better about themself. Good luck, I believe in you ❤
@smacadoodles8506 күн бұрын
@@chasebell1414 thanks man appreciate it
@keefemanoos65539 ай бұрын
Its good to know that, i tryed to find a way to cry so i can reduce the feeling of whieght in my shoulders, but i still cant.. anyway tnx to this i knew what it is
@ipromiseiamfunny55138 ай бұрын
it’s weird bc i cry whenever someone raises their voice or even if i’m just in a debate, but for something important (when someone dies), i don’t cry.
@aidanlyons259 ай бұрын
I used to cry plenty when I was younger but trained a bit to stop myself from crying. Now when I feel depressed, I sometimes feel emotionless knowing that I won't cry. I don't know why.
@blizzard592311 ай бұрын
I was taught from a very young age that crying as a man is weak I was often bullied a lot for crying now i've not cried in 9 years even when I feel sad nothing happens
@forbiddenman5007 Жыл бұрын
I went through a very rough break up a few month ago and it was extremely emotionally tolling. I kept wanting to cry but it never came out and it was and still is bery frustraining. I just sit here with a lump in my throat, not even a tear to my eye. How do i this emotional suffering?
@shiny_selenium6448 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been trying to cry so much when I am sad, but it just never seems to come out. Glad to know the reason why, just wish I could tho.
@CoachDavidAdes Жыл бұрын
Your only option is to start building trust with someone, so that your heart can open up over time. Built trust with yourself, too, by taking measured risks in any direction, and surviving on the other side. That's how you learn to trust yourself. I offer a free 30-minutes at www.calendly.com/coachdavidades/introduction.
@Hekeepblessingme Жыл бұрын
I started like this. I was unable to cry for years. Now, I cry often. I’m making up for the years I was stifled as a little girl. I just had a nice big cry and I’m laying in bed so comfortable and it feels like a massive relief. I can’t believe how amazing I feel after a good cry. Little Me is finally expressing herself after years of being ignored and uncared for and I will never allow her or her emotions to be silenced again❤ This video should be a relief to anyone wondering if they are healing. That uncomfortable restlessness is just all your repressed grief trying to find its way to the surface. Give yourself time and grace and it will flow naturally..
@user-su7hk3si2f Жыл бұрын
So true. I'm happy you are now crying more often. I still struggle, as a child my parents were angry with me when I cried so I think I stopped crying because of this. I had a very traumatic childhood so not crying just made things worse. Now after some years in therapy I do cry a little easier bit still doesn't come naturally. I really have to force myself. The bad thing is that crying is just so far from me that I only think maybe crying would help when I'm already since weeks or sometimes months anxious. The anxiety and the restlessness just become stronger and stronger until I realize that it does feel like I'm blocking emotions. 😢
@giorgichkhatarashvili1171 Жыл бұрын
how did u learn crying?
@CoachDavidAdes Жыл бұрын
Well spoken 🙏
@CoachDavidAdes Жыл бұрын
@user-su7hk3si2f this is how it works. Conflict pushes you until you have to find a way out. You might be used to tolerating a high amount of anxiety. Slowly you realize how much you have been holding in your chest.
@sunsunisreal5349 Жыл бұрын
I sometimes somehow feel overwhelmed even by the smallest thing my parents do for me, like asking if i need water, but i never really know why, or why i cant cry. It seems like i lost myself in my past, and need to interact with the present and my feels.
@asingleraven200915 күн бұрын
It's been two years I've not cried in over two years this little kid version of me must have a lot of pain for me to have no emotions and not have felt any emotions in two years
@shivanir75011 ай бұрын
I feel so understood and validated. Thanks
@user-kq4gn2bu6c9 ай бұрын
I feel like crying lately all the time feel so down
@ChezyFNAFPotaters Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this, realizing what it is helps.
@rayofsunshine1018 ай бұрын
This is true!!! Music is my heaven or inner child even tho ive dealt with shit that no one should go through i will be speaking out when needed for others
@UUUVVVUV Жыл бұрын
This is happening with me often. I am living alone and my friends are always breaking my trust.many times I want to cry but I can't. 😢
@twillightmidnight50089 ай бұрын
I’ve always had trouble crying since I was a little child. My dad is an alcoholic and my mom struggled a lot because of that, so I had to be there for her and somehow I just stopped feeling sad. The most I cried was when my dad almost threw my mom out of the house, but that stopped after a moment. I try so hard to cry but nothing comes out.
@chasebell14146 күн бұрын
Wow you’ve gone through a sh1t ton. Good luck! I wish i knew how to help, but I’ll just lyk that I’m here with you.
@Møøses-reckoning Жыл бұрын
Ive have been trying to cry for 2 years ive been so upset and lost any time to let it out and just benifit myself 😢
@CoachDavidAdes Жыл бұрын
You might need the right opportunity. A relationship with trust, and the courage to open up. I offer a free 30-minutes at www.calendly.com/coachdavidades. It would be great to offer my support to you.
@sevdee2494 Жыл бұрын
I don't think i have any childhood trauma, neglect or anything like that but i still feel this way
@CoachDavidAdes Жыл бұрын
It's a symptom of some degree of self-alienation. You are separated from your feelings, and your experience of yourself. Inevitably this results in being/feeling separated from others. This type of alienation likely is a result of trauma, and that doesn't mean big obvious tragedies. Small things over time build up to the same effect. If we worked together, we would explore your history. I offer a free 45-minute session and there is no pressure to hire me after that.
@MobPsycho100c2 ай бұрын
Inner child I'm 14 this video helped me alot dow thanks
@Zero_Mortal_9 ай бұрын
Right now, my sadness is a cold, dark black hole with an endless loop that doesn't need to be shown
@izzypfutzenreuter6 ай бұрын
I feel so bad for having feelings of abandonment and neglect, because while yes I was mostly alone and fended for myself, I knew that my parents did everything they could to support my siblings and I. And they’re still doing all they can to support me when everything inside me just wants to give up and I don’t know how long I can stay alive so I don’t hurt them.
@CoachDavidAdes6 ай бұрын
You shouldn't feel bad for having feelings of abandonment and neglect. While the adult version of you can rationalize things, and say "my parents did everything they could", that simply doesn't apply to the injured "inner child" inside of you. When a child is in deep pain, it doesn't matter if you tell them "it's okay because so and so is trying their best". You have to be more compassionate than that. You have to be more empathetic than that. You need to hold more space than that. You're silencing your inner child every time you feel bad for whatever feelings you experience. There is no contradiction here. You can do BOTH: don't blame your parents anymore, but still don't feel bad for what feelings you have.
@aarooofficial Жыл бұрын
i want to cry out all my emotions my feelings my frustration and the inner thoughts I'm holding for years.. wish I could i can't explain this fu*king feeling I'm going through its killing me every day
@dinfluence308 ай бұрын
Im going through the same struggle. Its making me tired. Its hard to fall a sleep..its 24 hours a day on the edge, and its a bitter,sad feeling,,,the need to cry it out is so deep in me. But t won,'t come, and that causes stress en sadness,depression
@chasebell14146 күн бұрын
Youre not alone.
@Av2918oc5 ай бұрын
I thought I was the only one😒 thank you😞😔
@boxbliss07 Жыл бұрын
I don’t know why but this really helped me. I’m literally crying rn. I just wanna say thank you. Not for making me cry, I cry easily, but I feel so happy all of a sudden. Now I need tissues
@user-sy5zb8cv6r Жыл бұрын
I just can't cry. I mean the most tragic thing could happen but I wouldn't be able to cry
@VLADMOTIVATES3 ай бұрын
thanks for this David, is this something related to shadow integration?
@CoachDavidAdes2 ай бұрын
yes. you've got the right idea
@Eli.299 Жыл бұрын
I haven’t been able to cry since I was 11 I have no idea why..
@dinfluence308 ай бұрын
How are you dealing with it day by day?
@OnaAV Жыл бұрын
So weird that the opposite happened to me today. I don't feel sad, but i was watching an action movie, and suddenly started heavily crying. I don't understand what's going on!😮
@MelindaValencia-ui3xl2 ай бұрын
Mine is just the opposite I would do anything not to ever cry again
@Star_WatcherII7 ай бұрын
I used to cry a lot about things I feel others wouldn't cry about a lot, but recently I feel like i've "run out of tears" does this fit what's in the video?
@saltywizardflyingonafish6296 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, this made me connect the dots
@CoachDavidAdes Жыл бұрын
Hey, I missed this comment. Thank you saltywizard.
@krn6146Ай бұрын
I really want to cry hard 🥺
@xboxgut41562 ай бұрын
I really really wanna cry man
@Anon74289Ай бұрын
Why ?
@naturalinstinct4950 Жыл бұрын
I usually go for some hard workouts or sparring in those situations. Very effective
@nar747011 ай бұрын
thank you. you are helping people so much.
@ilikenoodleКүн бұрын
it feels so choking for me
@EClipsa-Juliana-vh7jrАй бұрын
I dont want to let it out. But i do in the most ridiculous situaitons. One time I got a papercut and my parents saw this they were like "Are you ok?" I know they meant am i ok physically but tears just start coming down. It had been really long since somebody asked if i was ok.
@CoachDavidAdesАй бұрын
how about today. Are you feeling okay today? :)
@i.love.sloths.Ай бұрын
I haven’t cried like a baby since May 3rd 2024, it’s now July 16th In May-July I would have 1 tear a day but in the past week I haven’t cried at all, I feel emotionless and idk why
@star-bit7 ай бұрын
I haven't cried in 5 years and i want to so much
@miss-winner6 ай бұрын
Thank you for posting this.
@LoveLunamoon16 күн бұрын
I'm a 13 - 16 year old who has parents who practically hate me they don't care about me and right now I have alot of sadness In me silent tears are going out of my eyes and I just want to cry loudly and yell my lungs out but I can't I have to silently cry because I share a room with my older sister and she doesn't like me either I want to run away but can't because where would I go
@teriwilliams4255 Жыл бұрын
Amazing thanks for sharing this
@CoachDavidAdes Жыл бұрын
Thank you sharing, Teri.
@inq__111 Жыл бұрын
I used to have that I was not conscious of it but somehow made myself feel okay to cry behind doors and now I can’t seem to control it when I’m outdoors when I need to cry I jus need it and it cannot be stopped
@imadsuper430710 ай бұрын
Thank you brother🙏
@Silly_Hobbit_Twix_Are_4_Squids Жыл бұрын
I wish my inner children would both take a permanent nap.
@GiornoLovesDeathGrips8 ай бұрын
"I need to cry but I can't get anything out of my eyes..."
@simongotthardsen598 ай бұрын
I needed to watch this today thanks 😥
@Pwismz Жыл бұрын
Im 15 I haven’t cried since I was four due 2 my omas death I also have Alexthyima but I just don’t know what 2 do anymore
@SaiyanGod736 Жыл бұрын
Yea my best friends(non blood brother) had just put his dog down and he texted me and he was devastated, I wanted to cry and feel pain thru emotion but I couldn’t feel anything it was like I didn’t care, but idk what u said seems believable
@CoachDavidAdes Жыл бұрын
Good example. You can't force feeling. Maybe you don't actually care at this point of your development.
@Loveispainj10 ай бұрын
In 10 years I've only cried twice. I'm in pain.. also thats messed dude you should of shown some kinda of emotion for your friend..
@Daisyfunday9 ай бұрын
I need to cry but i can't rn i miss my bf but i cannot cry i want to just cry i just cannot let it out
@redbluebae43972 ай бұрын
THANK YOU
@pooru1231 Жыл бұрын
Pete Walker said something that when u cant cry it means u need to do more work on shrinking the inner critic. But i like this, helps. If u have anything add love to hear.
@CoachDavidAdes Жыл бұрын
It is as if the "Inner critic" will not allow you to express your pain. Because the inner critic hates you for being what you are - a living being with feelings. It wants you to be an empty facsimile of yourself. It wants to stomp you out of existence, and your feelings are primary symbols of your existence, so it cannot allow you to connect with them.
@user-ql5kd5eg8q5 ай бұрын
I am having this problem
@dontshipidolsorillsendyounk_968 ай бұрын
I don't really know what's exactly happening with me, I know, I'm over-thinking many things, but I can't just help but feel this very weird emotion, where I can't even cry, I've always tried not to show my emotions! My eyes tear up, my voice gets a bit shaky, but I can't really cry....
@onepiecefannN110 ай бұрын
idk man maybe i might just be sad but deluting myself with distractions
@poppovy7 ай бұрын
Why do people find me so fucking unappealing no matter how hard I try. I care about a lot of things and I feel so deeply but can never seem to connect with people. Even just trying to open myself up to new experiences and going new places, taking any amount of fun I feel and trying to run with it for people to see and smiling all the time and making sure my body language isn't so closed off- people just don't want to be around me. I have a friend who is so similar to me but for some reason is so much more approachable and everyone that ever talks to us just talks to her and I just stand there smiling and politely laughing as they avoid looking at me. Honestly I have no idea why people seem to get the impression (I asume) that I'm so stuck up. I've been told I'm pretty and am a kind person and have never had a boyfriend. All guys that I've got close to being in a relationship with just ditch me as soon as someone (anyone!) else they have a slight chance with comes along, or freak out and want nothing to do with me. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I'm being the best version of myself that I can and trying to open up and be authentic, and no one wants anything to do with it. I'm just so tired.
@wh3n-w1ll-1t-3nd.6 ай бұрын
I don’t wanna make you feel worse or anything but maybe it’s how you dress or how you look? A lot of people jump to conclusions based off how somebody looks but not everyone does that. Besides that- I think you will be able to make a lot of friends :) some people are just rude I don’t think you’re the problem
@poppovy6 ай бұрын
@wh3n-w1ll-1t-3nd. I've definitely considered that. I've been told that I always look 'fashionable' and have my own sense of style but not the kind of person who gets over the top dressy. I wear a lot of girly kind of clothes and have been told that I could be a model. I'd say I'm pretty, but that's definitely not what I focus on entirely when it comes to myself. So I'm completely at a loss. Thankyou for the reply ❤️ And that last bit which gave me some more hope :) I haven't given up, but it's hard not to feel wrong when that's what the evidence points to
@wh3n-w1ll-1t-3nd.6 ай бұрын
@@poppovy you could try making friends online first? It’s kinda easier to search for people with the same interests are you online :)
@poppovy6 ай бұрын
@wh3n-w1ll-1t-3nd. yeah I always feel so disconnected though when it's online. I really need body language and facial expressions and stuff otherwise it feels like it could just be anyone. I have tried going on a dating app but the friends version and haven't had any luck.. I think the kind of person I hope to be friends with won't be online but I'm still going to keep trying
@wh3n-w1ll-1t-3nd.6 ай бұрын
@@poppovy I hope you make friends that you can bond with them :D
@_tabashier92078 ай бұрын
In my case , last time i cried was exactly 1year 3 months ago And ever since I can't cry even in my absolute hardest times i just cant even drop a tear i just suffer from inside , can anyone please help
@KellyMartin09026 ай бұрын
Mine is grief. My sister died in July. I'm hurting physically and emotionally.
@Yxndev6 ай бұрын
🫂❤
@CoachDavidAdes6 ай бұрын
I'm sorry Kelly. Make as much room for the pain as you can--as much as it needs.
@s.afra_fАй бұрын
I wanna cryyyyyyy
@ABunnyorABun10 ай бұрын
I feel sad cuz my health is deteriorating and I need a surgery for my airflow but I need a permission from a doctor. That’s why I’m feeling sad. I know I’m not feeling well.
@Kingkaitalks Жыл бұрын
Thank you Jesus for bringing this to my eye!
@kingsfazeog83948 ай бұрын
watching this made me let it out some how..
@disharahwani5449 Жыл бұрын
I'm not able to find your detailed video about this topic..i really need to know about this..i've been trying so long to cry but I can't
@CoachDavidAdes Жыл бұрын
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@absitinvidia3948 Жыл бұрын
I cant cry anymore even whe my close family dies, i am emotinaly shut down, only emotion i can express naturaly is rage i dont know what happened. I did go through lot of stuff but in my opinion i dont think it crippeled me i walke through it all but, i did slowly become emotional numb i can cry for happines a little but i dont get sad enough to cry. I feel weird when i see non close people who cry and they were never there when needed, and i was allways there but i cant cry. Its weird. Even when my friend wqs shot dead i got realy sad and i did not cry but i thought about him regulary for a long long time, now my cousin dided in pain from cancer at 9 years i and i did not shed a tear. I feel ashamed of my self.
@BabyNami028 ай бұрын
I’ve been feeling this a lot. So I will put on a nostalgic movie and cry at the sad parts (Disney) makes me feel a tiny bit better
@CoachDavidAdes8 ай бұрын
That is called abreaction. When there is a feeling beneath the surface, but instead of letting out what is really there, we let emotions out about something else. You're a budding psychologist. And you've got some quality crying to do. I prescribe you one good old cry.