If You're Feeling Lost...It's Actually GOOD!

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@depressiontoexpression Жыл бұрын

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@hadithelegend3358 Жыл бұрын

always lost :/

@cartergomez5390 11 ай бұрын

I don't feel lost but I have so many obstacles that want to get in my way. I'm so scared 😮

@teixgo 10 ай бұрын

Thanks this video help me a lot

@joseescobar2076 10 ай бұрын

@educationforblind6362 8 ай бұрын

The map you put behind of the "roman" empire is so wrong and false in many aspects. Its fake and wrong informations.

@angelkaye00 10 ай бұрын

"if you are feeling lost, it's okay it means you are moving it means you have been moving it means you are looking for more it means you are a seeker! You have goals, ambitions, and aspirations!" This comforted me to another level. Thank you!

@gigihadid-gx8ol 9 ай бұрын

@pharaohosam 8 ай бұрын

Complete and utter cope.

@asdfdg11 8 ай бұрын

Im stuck… i dont think I can look at it this way.

@user-rx4jg8lq7h 7 ай бұрын

@@pharaohosam Coping is a good thing, surely. Only strong people cope.

@wichywitch5938 6 ай бұрын

Ah so calm to hear this, sometimes I think lost is bad for me but not at all. When I lost I understand about myself more.

@davo86 Жыл бұрын

I’m 36, still living with my parents. Lost my job due to vaccine mandates last year. I’m now going to Uni to finish my Bachelor of Accounting at Swinburne University in Melbourne, Australia which I’ve meaning to do for years. 14 units to go! Correction 12 units to complete, wish me luck!

@kaninlabsama784 9 ай бұрын

WOW! That's amazing! Hope you enjoy your journey!

@TheOlaide 9 ай бұрын

All the best!!!!

@samirqr2021 9 ай бұрын

u can do it

@MIDDLEGROUNDPODCASTCZ 9 ай бұрын

All the best! There are great things waiting ahead of you! ❤

@tracydao763 9 ай бұрын

Good luck mate 🙌🙌🙌

@dohaasali8050 2 ай бұрын

Feeling lost is always a sign of a new beginning✨️

@cristin97 10 ай бұрын

I swear once you start to get used to the feeling of being lost and not having any ground beneath u, you start to understand you are your own home

@lilianab4756 9 ай бұрын

So profound😮 I have recently discovered this too!❤

@laramarjanac5834 8 ай бұрын

I like that

@asdfdg11 8 ай бұрын

It gets lonely sometimes.. any advice what you do?

@cristin97 8 ай бұрын

@@asdfdg11 yes, that is so true :/ I honestly have been feeling really lonely for the past years due to a lot of circumstances + Covid, and just adulthood I thought as humans we had the capacity to adapt to anything and still be happy, but this thought made me force myself into situations that I didn't connect with at all, which made me feel super lonely. I thought FOR A LOOONG time that the problem was ME. But after some time and some changes around me (started studying again, started doing things I naturally was always attracted to, like drawing or singing even though initially I didn't want to do anything cause I was really sad), eventually I started feeling better. I now still have bad and lonely days and thoughts. But I know nothing lasts, not even the pain or the anxiety. Even the lonelinessI moved back home and I started letting go of what didn't make me feel anything. I started pursuing the spark of joy, as little as it was then. And now what makes me feel happy is that I fully BELIEVE, with all my heart, that I am not the problem, and that there is so many people in the world that would like me and feel things just as intensely as I do. Also, I believe us who feel the loneliest are also the ones who have seen the truth: the superficiality of the world we live in. It means we think, we reflect, and if we can do that, we can also change things around us. At least, for ourselves and the small circle of people who surround us. And that is a fucking miracle

@jeanjacqueslundi3502 7 ай бұрын

Not far from the truth. The world was never designed to be able to match all our preferences, values, sense of integrity. We can only find what truly matters to us.........within ourselves. Other people are just doing themselves........running around, using their free will.............while what we value and our sense of being lost are symptoms of not finding in the world........what matters to US.......whilst being TOLD by the world what WE should be doing.

@itsgabbieagain 11 ай бұрын

Society makes it seem like we have to go so fast and know what we are doing all the time. Anything less, we're told we're failures.

@jaysouthmusic8230 5 ай бұрын

Especially social media

@lamontjunior1907 3 ай бұрын

Speak!!!

@VENUS-gm5lu 3 ай бұрын

this is exactly how i’m thinking right now. i hope you are where you want to be at this moment and if not, i just KNOW you will get there. what you said is something someone so strong and used to doing it alone would say. YOU got this. WE got this❤❤❤❤❤

@Bronnybronny Ай бұрын

I have a good job, a good apartment, in a “good” city…. And I am miserable. All I want is to quit, sell everything and move to Hawaii for a year. I want adventures, I want excitement, I want joy. I am drowning in my monotony. I never thought this is how my life would turn out. I thought I would be so happy.

@jessicaribeiro8928 Ай бұрын

It's your sign to try something different!

@anne3770 17 күн бұрын

Hey, I was like that when I was in my 9 to 5 job Now my caring role for my son and Mum is starting to come to an end I'm feeling anxious and not knowing what to do next. I knew jerk back to wanting my 9 to 5 job back......Ah, ahh, ahhh......no! Telling myself to recover from carer burnout. Telling myself not to act when unsure. This is taking waaaasy too long. Cannot chose my next course, cannot make a decision. Decision paralysis is where I'm at.......

@anjineeramasawmy196 8 күн бұрын

Take a break, this will help to bring clarify and yes we do not have to figure it all at once. Listen to your body. Sit in the discomfort.

@talksick508 5 күн бұрын

I’m feeling similar I wanna LIVE

@user-fq6yt1mv1l 3 ай бұрын

i am crying while watching your podcast because i feel like there's someone out there who also understands what i am feeling.

@ruparekhi8297 2 ай бұрын

I am with you , I am going through a lot too but this is temporary and the universe has our back , never give up , God bless

@Rainynightstories 11 ай бұрын

People really make you feel guilty for stopping and taking break for yourself. ...neglect them and take your time.

@jaysouthmusic8230 5 ай бұрын

I know right that’s messed up. Life is a marathon not a sprint

@DreamingwithD 2 ай бұрын

Yes i experienced that..they see those who stop as losers

@loomonda18 Жыл бұрын

You have described it perfectly....that feeling like there's nothing to hold onto or ground you, you literally feel like you're floating and trying to reach out for something to stabilize you, but there's nothing substantial.

@BrianBloop 9 ай бұрын

Wow this!! This describes me so perfectly. I feel like I want to do so much and I don't know whwre to begin or how to keep going in one set direction

@rhettgiepert4022 Жыл бұрын

Lately Ive been waking up and feeling like nothing is right in my life, it doesn't feel the same anymore.

@luthfiadeasavira3073 11 ай бұрын

same with me

@katrinamenzies9398 11 ай бұрын

Me too

@Thesilentvoice... 11 ай бұрын

When I feel like that I question why? I look at the reason and when I understand that, I try to pray to God and focus on whatever gut feeling I have regarding my future that doesn’t leave me. Also know sometimes outer factors contribute to feeling like this, it’s not your fault. You will get through the storm.

@marikamarshmiru 10 ай бұрын

same here

@lenalee5516 10 ай бұрын

It's been a week and I'm really feeling that way as well

@theivy1352 9 ай бұрын

Quit my job, broke up a relationship. Nothing left but me on my own, no idea what's next BUT I really really really enjoy this emptiness. I have a strong sense that something greater is coming to me and this breaktime is a chance for me to rest well and recharge before exploding with the coming changes. Feel so faithful and excited. Life is interesting guys. No matter it is up and down, go with the ride. U got ur destint set !

@julietayebale6362 3 ай бұрын

Me now

@ProEray 3 ай бұрын

how did it go

@shahnuramanxunaed2011 3 ай бұрын

How are you now

@theivy1352 3 ай бұрын

@@ProEray everything is recovering now. a new self new life new way new opportunities after all of that suffering. it's like a rebirth

@theivy1352 3 ай бұрын

@@shahnuramanxunaed2011 everything is like a rebirth now

@tiarab9928 7 ай бұрын

When i read the comments, I noticed that i am not alone 😢. Everyone has different story but same struggle. I am 24 years, can speak English,Japanese and Turkish yet I don’t know what to do with my life. I graduated one year ago and got into job right after graduation. Afterward i noticed that I don’t want to do that job and quit, now i am trying to change my direction and learning new thing such as trading, nft etc . But unfortunately sometimes i compare myself with my friends. They still work and look happy. On the other hand i started to learn new things, i feel like i waste my most productive time by doing things. But everyone we are not alone, we all feel same.

@shakhnozaachilova3350 4 ай бұрын

Three month ago i lost my job, and being very experienced and with three languages: russian, english, and turkish, applied to so many positions but got only rejection. As i dont know what else i can do i just left situation to Allah, and try to ask myself all the time what i really want, read books watch this kind of videos.

@diemcarl5546 2 ай бұрын

Your set of languages is impressive 😊 I learned to some extent or more English Czech Slovak Mandarin Turkish (unfortunately) German, the only decent level (not even C1) is English and Russian is my native. Basically, I can use only several of them, and I do suck in my life at my 35... What I want to say 😅 I wish I knew programming languages instead, a stack of them. F*ck my life, and I wish you all best my random friend ❤

@gigibenja1671 2 ай бұрын

At least you have me now i’m 26

@prajithrathinam1835 3 күн бұрын

Bro remember, we all are unique. We were all born at different date and time, had different parents and relatives(unless bro or sis), grew up at different environment, studied at different schools and colleges and had different friends, had different hobbies and interest and much more unique things. What I am coming to say is never compare yourself with others. Especially, if you are in social media get out of it immediately. That is a major reason for false comparison. You should know what you are capable of. It is within you, you should find it. As you said we are not alone!

@Buritsu Жыл бұрын

Thank you, this is very comforting. I feel so lost in life right now.

@maceyr.6583 Жыл бұрын

Same.

@Oliver-op7vo Жыл бұрын

Same.

@katherineustinova7924 Жыл бұрын

You’re not alone

@bugarskisvercerduvana3436 Жыл бұрын

Same

@memos106 Жыл бұрын

@@bugarskisvercerduvana3436 bro where are you from

@HAMZAPINE 10 күн бұрын

Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

@fakiriayoub8087 10 күн бұрын

Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!

@FabioPioFersini 10 күн бұрын

Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

@ChristianMaxwell-sz6bf 10 күн бұрын

I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

@fakiriayoub8087 10 күн бұрын

Is he on instagram?

@FabioPioFersini 10 күн бұрын

Yes he is dr.porassss.

@gigibenja1671 2 ай бұрын

I lost my job and feel lost now and anxious… watching your video change my attitude. It mean that i’m moving something new and seeker! Thank you for this :)

@Nighthydrangea 10 ай бұрын

I feel so lost, I’ve been thinking for the past months “am i a failure?” because i don’t feel like doing anything or even socialising, i even prayed to God for answers and today I’ve experienced good things and Yt recommend me this video, thanks for the good words

@stellaancimer8505 Жыл бұрын

We are never Lost..we are doing the Best we can 😊

@cheker120 4 ай бұрын

Beautiful

@stellaancimer8505 4 ай бұрын

@@cheker120 🤗

@karolinasundkvist5762 Жыл бұрын

Found this by accident?? Such a comforting and wise message! I am between jobs and don't really know what to do, where to turn. What do I want? Who can I be? What now? Listening to you makes a big difference, being reminded that it is not a bad thing to be lost. It is also a time of opportunity! Thanks.

@raulseixasdasilvasauro4962 10 ай бұрын

Yeah.. all is ephemeral and tech mediated and don't depend or belong to yerself... unstability and nothing to hold value or time or see a future... all skil and life before just devalued and taken... as of nothing... struggle became to live on an artificial grid where they can turn on off and interfere...

@jessicamartins4066 8 ай бұрын

❤ Same here.

@skywalker6648 6 ай бұрын

Sometimes you have to shut the world out and imagine what would you do if money was no object and worse thing you can do is compare yourself to others or listen to their journey. That's because everyone's journey is unique to them.

@angelad.williams6298 6 ай бұрын

Asking myself what I want creates a lot of anxiety for me and especially when people tell me "just follow your passion" really upsets me because most of the things I am passionate about do not translate monetarily. I am struggling with what to do as far as career and am getting so much unhelpful advice from every which way, it's so good to just realize I can sit where I am at and don't have to make any big decisions right now. All the best to you

@lovingit098 4 ай бұрын

Same here!!! I love this content I subscribed ❤❤❤

@cristin97 10 ай бұрын

I once read 'if you're lost it means you're changing'. Changing to grow and be able to overcome the uncertainty of the situation we find ourselves in. But everything is temporary, even emotions. And in this case, time is our best friend, it's the eagle that will take us up to see everything we've done and what our next step is. ❤

@rabbitlively 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much. I love this comment

@cristin97 9 ай бұрын

@@rabbitlively I'm glad u like it! ♥️

@nthabisengkhepase601 10 ай бұрын

I am only 21, I'm expected to go to college or getting a job, and everything is just overwhelming. Not to mention not having funds to do anything with my life😭

@karims9379 9 ай бұрын

When you feel lost that means that you going somewhere ❤

@stephcampbell9277 Жыл бұрын

Love the analogy of planting a seed and letting the laws of nature do the rest :)

@Invertmini1212 Ай бұрын

Dont mistake movement for progress and the key to life is moderation.. Also dont ever be scared of change... Its good for you and whenever change happens its when the most growth comes from within.

@sekrad 4 ай бұрын

Really needed to hear this. I’m 37, married, still living with my parents, work part time on weekends, and have severe depression. I don’t know what to do to move forward in life. Glad to know I’m not alone. Thank you.

@fifiearthwanderer 2 ай бұрын

Same.

@Sivakumar-lh8xr Ай бұрын

Us bro

@user-lz2wf5dz2f Ай бұрын

That would make most people depressed. Your job is probably trash too. Keep watching videos bro.

@mariekabrocklebank179 Жыл бұрын

It's as if a door has opened for me. My husband passed away 4 years ago. Been married for 35 years.....I lost so so much. So I will take these precious words from this and find some comfort.

@sophias1191 Жыл бұрын

I am sorry for your loss.😢❤️

@Oystermato 4 ай бұрын

Why do you feel lost? At least you were loved. Some of us were denied it completely and suddenly, and the person who hurt us is still Alive.

@user-lz2wf5dz2f Ай бұрын

@@Oystermato stfu gtfo this thread isn't about you.

@hifiunicorn Жыл бұрын

1 minute in and you’ve already perfectly described my every thought in daily existence.

@thefifthstage369 11 ай бұрын

Same here. 😯

@leaf4601 9 ай бұрын

Hey, I am 20 years old. I have failed three times consecutively to get into med school and honestly this podcast was all that I needed. The constant feeling of sadness and failure and depression was making me hard to breathe. I was sick of living a life without passion and purpose. I was feeling lost. I felt like a failure bc I spend 2 years fully dedicated to my studies but still failed. I was feeling very guilty, after my results were declared I completely broke. I had no energy to do anything. Small things used to give me so much anxiety and I wanted my life to end. I feel so much lighter and better after listening this podcast. You have no idea how many people you must have helped through this podcast bc I know there must be more people like me who are feeling lost and they need someone who can comfort them. Thankyou for creating this podcast. I hope you reach new levels of success. May god bless you and stay happy ❤️

@jaasrahh3479 8 ай бұрын

You're so strong for being where you are.

@annie_bendl 8 ай бұрын

Hi, I can totally feel you! I was looking for a comment similar to problems I am dealing with and not that your suffer would make me happy or anything. I just wanted to reach out to you that I have the same problem. Trying to get in Uni which seems impossible for me and I am just trying to figure it all out...thank you for sharing your story cause it made me realize i am not alone...

@Sarah-pc1di 7 ай бұрын

Hi, I am so proud of you for trying those 3 times, even if they didn’t turn out as you’d hoped. Medicine is so competitive it’s crazy! Take your time, the career is a long term gain, and when you become the amazing doctor you’re going to be, you’ll be glad you went through the process the way you did. I once read that the best doctors are the ones that didn’t have a linear pathway into medicine, and had to really push to get in. You may not see it clearly now, but your experience with ‘failure’ and rejection will help you massively in the future. And remember to look at the bigger picture; everyone goes at their own pace, and in the end everyone will end up in the same place no matter how long it took them to get there. Keep pushing you’ve got this ❤️

@angelad.williams6298 6 ай бұрын

You have made it a lot further than many people have even tried! I'm sure that has got to feel extremely frustrating to have dedicated yourself to something and still not gotten the outcome you wanted. My situation is different but similar in that small things have been overwhelming me too, like I am feeling almost unable to function, I know I'm going through a hard time this year with a surgery and then a divorce in progress, but the fact that I couldn't even keep up with the basic household tasks and barely keeping up with my job, I am self employed and my business has completely stalled and now I don't even know if I want to continue with it. I was feeling really down on myself until I found this video, I don't have to make any decisions now and it's OK that I am not functioning at the level I once did.

@drakearries 5 ай бұрын

This resonates with meee! altho not the med school part but the feeling lost part

@get2no50 10 ай бұрын

Funny how life works, this found me exactly when I needed it

@damagrimes2243 9 ай бұрын

Ground yourself. Take your time. Make a decision. Life is about moving and tweaking. We all get lost and it’s okay. Life is unpredictable. Curveballs are good. Take rest when you need. Set up camp ⛺️ Be your own friend. Put your feet where the ground is. Be present. Check out the map” Let it really sink in. Let go of what if” Sit, there’s no rush. Take rest again. Embrace your adventurer side. Chill on your launchpad, you’ll know when to make the next move” Thank you so much for this video 🙏🏼 really needed to hear this tonight.

@jaysouthmusic8230 5 ай бұрын

Very well said

@emilythesongbird2306 3 ай бұрын

"Let the lostness warm you. You are an adventurer and you are making your way, and you deserve this rest." Beautiful reminder! Thank you Scott.

@dunky7157 3 ай бұрын

One of the hardest life lessons I’m still working on is progress isn’t linear and that’s ok. Life isn’t a race; the only finish line is death. Enjoy the ride ❤

@sergendemir9653 10 ай бұрын

This resonated with me Scott! As someone who went to school to become a psychologist, as someone who loves asking questions and diving deep, I feel very lost at this moment in my life. A new country (US), new culture, changing careers, marriage, missing home, never ending job search while in not so good financial situation all in the last year and a half... I feel burnt out but I can't catch a break because of the reality of life. We all have bills to pay. All that definitely make me question my decisions but I also do know that when we get through this, it's all going to be worth it. I wake up everyday, go to my day job that I hate, come back home tired feeling guilty for another unproductive day because I didn't do any thing to make my life get any better resulting in feeling down and not wanting to engage. I'm not here just to survive, I'm here to grow and succeed. I've always set high expectations for myself and I guess seeing myself in this situation has been one of the hardest things that I have had to go through. What doesn't kill me, will make me stronger.

@leahr9038 10 ай бұрын

Hows everything going 2 weeks later?

@carolinendunge1561 9 ай бұрын

I can totally relate to what you going through.. I have days where I feel so lost and un motivated but lately I just take it one day a time and maybe with time everything will make sense..

@lmiller1413 9 ай бұрын

I'm in the helping field. We have days like that, where it feels like we are making progress. If you made it through psychology school, you will make it to the next step. Looking at everything you have changed onyour life, it makes sense that you are feeling on shaky ground. Lots of changes in a period of time leaves ys feeling off balance. Go kiss your wife and tell her she is beautiful. Go meet with a career counselor. You have a lot going for you.

@MSDjMichaelSlash 9 ай бұрын

Wondering the same

@brianst8 8 ай бұрын

Im not far off this whole situation myself in all honesy. Keep the head up and power on.

@damarisalberto2974 Жыл бұрын

This is actually how I’m feeling right now LOST

@leethal6570 Жыл бұрын

Sometimes I think to my self “I feel different, I feel like I’m changing and then I question wether that’s right or not” well of course it is, you want to change right? If you feel different for the better and lost then it 100% means your going somewhere. I’m glad you clarified this!

@ren12275 8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much bro

@bakribilham6586 6 ай бұрын

Agree

@aliciashaw1209 11 ай бұрын

You are so gifted! Not only are you saying the right words, but how you’re saying them in a calm manner 🙏🏾

@lonewolfheart1697 11 ай бұрын

You're like a warm blanket on a cold, dark night. Thank you for all you do 😊

@edwinflores7519 Жыл бұрын

I love how his advice and insights come from a place of geniune care for others and not forcing others to act with urgency.

@Bozakky Жыл бұрын

Your kindness and concern for other peoples well being is a beacon of light. Brilliant, shining like a lighthouse.

@ninabambinabambina2304 11 ай бұрын

Thank you. Being creative & lost sucks. Everything feels so tough! That sounds amazing right now. I need a compass.

@Upperleftcoasttreelover 10 ай бұрын

I took some VERY wrong turns in life and now I’m lost without a compass, a phone, or even a map 😭 I can’t seem to get back to where I knew I was supposed to be or wanted to be.

@diemcarl5546 2 ай бұрын

This is what the modern world represents imho

@annickalewis4267 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this. I just graduated college (undergrad) and feel like I have no plan and don’t know what I want to do. But you made me feel like it’s okay, I can rest here in this space for a while and take my time. I know and trust that the right things are coming for me :). Thank you 🙏

@lmiller1413 9 ай бұрын

It is 100 percent ok. It took me some time to find the job I was searching for. I went back and got an additional degree. Best decision ever. My son took some time to find his way. He took a job way beneath his education. Two promotions later, he is doing very well. It's ok to take this time. I recommend that you reach out to your career counseling department to polish your job hunting skills. If you do go get a masters, try to get a graduate assistantship. Your tuition will be paid for and you'll get some mo ey. Live in the dorms, meet new people and have some fun!!!

@middleofnowhere1313 Жыл бұрын

It's an odd situation. I am happily married, I have a home even if it requires a lot of maintenance, I have 2 cats and my parents are still alive. I have steady work even if the pay is mediocre at best. But for some reason I always feel isolated, and I never feel safe. Like a disaster awaits any moment. Social circle has shrunk to like 5 ppl since covid and work from home. I love working from home but I do not love the new antisocial ways out here. I don't know, man, I don't know what I'm doing.

@qwertyqwertyqwerty4324 9 ай бұрын

Anxiety

@msmelanin2425 3 ай бұрын

Oh please

@e__b956 4 ай бұрын

Turn 30 this year and have had multiple career changes. I feel lost at times, thanks for the uplifting message. I hope everyone here in the comments reach their goals and excel 🙏

@paultkc 4 ай бұрын

All the best to you

@Claudia-yc8xk 3 ай бұрын

I completely relate, same position.

@lassnxtdoor8649 3 ай бұрын

Same. Totally frustrated. 😌

@tedwilson1477 5 ай бұрын

Im 47, after an unexpected divorce out of the blue i had to sell my house and move back with my emotionally challneging parents to single parent my child. Please pray for me! 🙏

@lalights6 Жыл бұрын

That monologue in the beginning felt like he took it right from my brain

@yana5066 11 ай бұрын

Thank you very much. I am currently in the army, the only constant in my life is the constant change every day. Nothing is safe, a lot of hostility around me, so many things that are out of my control, I don't know what to choose from the things that are in my control, the feeling of loneliness and misunderstanding is huge and there is no time to rest or just be with myself. I just want to sit on the beach and watch the sun go down, but your warm and comforting words also bring out that feeling in me. Thank you very much❤

@tomutosa1288 2 ай бұрын

I feel a sense of comfort that I’m not alone in this “lostness”, have many negative emotions. Thank you for speaking about this.

@sarpeana3826 11 ай бұрын

I finally hear something positive about my negative feelings. I hope you are right and better days will come because I feel so so lost.

@jaysouthmusic8230 5 ай бұрын

Better days are ahead I be having to remind myself that all the time

@migz_8894 Жыл бұрын

This is great..i dont have anyone else telling me things like this so its easy for me to get caught up in my own thoughts and cycles..sometimes we all need to remember to take a breath and to recalibrate

@zamangibamaphalala6299 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for this. I am a ball of anxiety. I am exhausted. I needed to hear that the Darkness is okay.

@daisymayz8496 11 ай бұрын

I’m glad I stumbled upon this video after graduating college feeling lost. I feel rushed and feel like my goals are out of reach.

@jaysouthmusic8230 5 ай бұрын

Take it one day at a time, plan your steps little by little and just enjoy the journey

@kyo_beyond 2 ай бұрын

This video had me realize that I have been resisting the fact that I am lost. My consciousness unknowingly labelled it as bad, something that I should get out of as soon as possible and in the best way I could, and I was floundering in the fact that I am lost at the age of 35, 10 years in my career, not knowing where to go and not having anything to follow after. But now I know that I have come far enough to realize that I am lost, become clear enough to see where I truly am at, and that I have a picture that I can start from. The power of perspective, the power of reframing. Thank you for borrowing your lense, it both comforted me and let me see things more clearly and with power.

@creasepi 10 ай бұрын

I'm listening to this at a park working out a bit while I have a small break from a job I hate which gives me no free time. The imagery about camping and setting up in an Airbnb or hotel and staying a bit is beautiful and I brought tears to my eyes. I'm planning to move forward with my life but I don't want to be impulsive about it.

@karishort1891 Жыл бұрын

I don't think it's a coincidence this came up in my KZfaq 💯❤️❤️❤️❤️

@fujoshiotaku5832 11 ай бұрын

I think I know my next step is working but I don't find any place I want to work at, my parents say to just pick anything but that's not for me. I need to work somewhere that I chose and deem special to me. Whatever that means, I want to choose my experience but I feel like I'm waiting to find it. That perfect place

@aliwee9971 9 ай бұрын

Everywhere i go, i got lost. No friend to talk, now im sick and making me lost my job. My parents push me to find job soon, but i dont even know that i can work like before. My life’s suck and i dont know where to go. Everyone have a perfect life but me.

@Melissakhan_artwork Ай бұрын

Hey how are you now? I'm sorry to hear you're goin through that, I'm currently struggling as well...

@Melissakhan_artwork Ай бұрын

It would be nice to hear that things have changed for the better for you ❤

@aliwee9971 27 күн бұрын

There’s no different right now. I’m stuck

@Melissakhan_artwork 25 күн бұрын

@@aliwee9971 I'm sorry 🥺🥺

@sobermind685 5 ай бұрын

I’m 22, i feel lost since i was 20, It affected my art because it lost direction, my peers are doing great things, this podcast made me feel like myself again a bit❤️

@chilloften 11 ай бұрын

Peace be with you, this beauty-full day of feeling lost.,

@rodelscreation 11 ай бұрын

I'm lost at this point of my life.. 8 months now I left my home and never look back now I am starting to ask myself where to go... I can't deny I am happy but there is still a small piece Missing 😢.. . I am the same feeling right now omg.. this is crazy... thank you so much!

@GreeneChakra Жыл бұрын

Coming off the Prescription Adderrall, I was Sad Lost and didn’t know where to go- Broke up with my Ex again after going back. Dumped a few Fake friends, and yeah. Im pretty Much Starting over again. Depression. Anxiety. Feeling Stuck.. is where I am.

@kireeepanoov8647 4 ай бұрын

Can we get in contact?

@freespirit-111 Жыл бұрын

We spend the majority of our time trying to fix ourselves or someone else….if not, then we find ourselves trying to find healthy ways to cope with reality without succumbing to self- destruct behaviors.

@kimadkins6719 Жыл бұрын

This is so helpful for my life right now. It is so comforting to know that we share these lost times. Thank you.

@sanaamoha5645 11 ай бұрын

This podcast has a profound impact on my life as it serves as a motivational message that I wake up to every day I can’t thank you enough ❤

@youngmike8373 Жыл бұрын

so soothing bro, will be comforting to someone in need in the incessant chaos going on in life.

@jennifermonroe486 7 ай бұрын

I’m 62,and very grateful for your video. I really liked what you said about being lost and that it means I’m a seeker!I’ve been on a path for my whole life. I’ve never been a conventional person. It hasn’t always been fun, but I’ve kept striving to go where most people are so afraid to go, inside themselves!! Your very good at this! Thanks again

@lauraroccaro5880 11 ай бұрын

Thank you. I came across this video at the perfect timing...exactly when I needed to hear it the most. Your words, your whole energy...I just felt it so deeply in my soul. We really are all ONE.

@ana-ow4xv 11 ай бұрын

this probably has helped me more than all the years going through different therapies.. being OK with not being ok. "Let the lostness warm you". I really want to join the zoom groups admittedly knowing a huge part of this is having no one to relate to.

@Agapeschant 11 ай бұрын

I am so grateful for the perspective you’re offering us here ❤ Thank you ☺️

@pamsjournal 11 ай бұрын

I never felt so comforted and understood. Thank you so much

@faithmeliz1882 10 ай бұрын

I can’t put into words how much your videos help me day to day.

@_fffeline 10 ай бұрын

Thank you for being a safe space, Scott!

@ashwinkoshti9991 Жыл бұрын

You always been my best medicine during tough times Scott, Thank you❤️❤️

@samanthahensley6392 Жыл бұрын

If we're here, you may as well put your feet where the ground is. That is so simple and freeing, but also so easily missed in the moments when you are constricted by resistance. Thank you for continuing to bring inspiration and music into our lives!

@ann467 2 ай бұрын

Who is listening to this April 2024? 👇

@Mija_cos 2 ай бұрын

😢 me

@davejones290 Ай бұрын

Yes

@ShahaAbdu Ай бұрын

@Ginbobbob Ай бұрын

Hey 👋

@joansang7686 Ай бұрын

Me😢

@lifeofjsb 10 ай бұрын

Going through a difficult time in my life dealing with this exact feeling. Thanks for re-affirming that these feelings don’t always have to be negative but are natural when we as humans are growing. Thanks for the reminder. + Sub!

@Parkitloveit Жыл бұрын

Thank your for making those videos 🙏 You’re actually the kind of person who could say anything, those eyes, this soothing voice… but your additionally saying something very valuable, inspiring and helpful. Have a great day 👋

@giovannifurnari8668 Жыл бұрын

This makes a lot of sense Scott thank you 🙏 ❤️

@merrickmcgrath6824 11 ай бұрын

I’m so thankful I stumbled upon this video. I never knew how much I actually need this in my life. Thank you Scott Ste Marie. You’re beautiful bro & stay awesome! ♥️

@marcelotvofficial 11 ай бұрын

Thank you for this!

@kar3711 Жыл бұрын

Listening to you is so comforting and really makes me feel more deeply about my situation, so thank you :)

@joannemosher3488 Жыл бұрын

Thank you, I’m trying to help a friend going through depression and anxiety so everything you say I’m taking in so I can help her!❤️

@mdtrtwlt 10 ай бұрын

Thank you for this. I've had a really difficult string of events that I've had to deal with within the span of four months - losing my job, a job I was really passionate about but feel like I don't care about anymore because of the way I was treated at my place of work, finding a job that pays much less and that I have to move across the country for, finding out some really difficult things about a parent, and now getting surgery two weeks before I leave. I feel so lost, I don't know who I am, what I want to do, who I want to be, how and when to process everything, I recently deleted social media in the hopes that I can be bored more often which might lead to me finding out hobbies and activities I like. I'm terrified to move because I don't know anyone in the city. I feel incredibly unmoored, but at the same time, I feel like I am becoming, that I am in the process and that the adventure is seeing where all this leads me, WHO all of this leads me to. It's so scary.

@zaakirahmurray Ай бұрын

I was happy before covid

@kithu1231 Жыл бұрын

I am glad that I am a part of community lead by our very own bro..Scott here...very difficult to find a person who truly understands and connects with you...I know I can vouch on you..thank you for your kind words.🙏🏼

@callmesoloa Жыл бұрын

Thank you Scott. I deeply appreciate each one of your videos. This one was the 💥. Let’s keep it up!

@elleshivert 11 ай бұрын

I just uploaded my first video right now about my anxiety and depression journey, then youtube suggested this video. I'll rewatch this vid a lot. It comforts me today and motivates me. Thank you so much 🙏

@raiuzel 11 ай бұрын

The fact that your video reached me when I needed it most is a message for me. I thank you deeply and from the bottom of my heart ♡. It comforted me. Much love from Saudi Arabia ❤️❤️

@savanna4127 Жыл бұрын

Hi Scott, I just came across this video today. It was super helpful. I am not feeling as lost because I have found comfort in knowing I am going to be okay no matter what. Your video really reminded me I am so supported today even when I feel alone and lost. Thank you!

@jeaniedqueen Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much I really needed this right now. You're the first person to tell me it's okay to just rest for now. I love you like our souls know each other through life times. Thank you so much

@KrishnaRac 6 ай бұрын

I m 41 lost job, no marriage thought of changing career, tried but failing and failing, losing my savings seating dumb doesn't know what to do. Just praying 🙏

@marymellow5325 2 ай бұрын

You are not alone, I’m going through the same stuff. I stopped doing a lot of things for some time but then I realize that I’m stuck but I’m not stuck I have a lot of things to try and see to find out what I really need and want. All stops give us new directions and where to go. And where you go it’s up to you. I’m giving you a hug and for everybody who feels lost and stuck. We all are going to find our ways again, new ones! 🙏🏻

@qhirawithaq 11 ай бұрын

This was such a comforting watch - thank you for sharing this message. You have a very gifted voice

@antoniovpi118 Жыл бұрын

Thank you very much for this video. In a way, it's true that most of the times we all struggle to make our lifes fit a societal script instead of acknowledging that everyone's life is unique and has its own challenges and rewards.

@camilletocmo Жыл бұрын

Thank you, Scott. I found this video after having a mental breakdown. It really helps.

@meowsandarfs 13 күн бұрын

Listening to this in June 2024. Thank you 🙏🏻

@trinitystardust 11 ай бұрын

Thank you💗I'm 21, packed my bag, moved to a foreign country and am on my own for the first time in life. The days where I'm on a bliss of recognizing my own growth and how far I've come feels amazing, exciting and filled with hope. But before and after experiencing that bliss, the inner turmoil of feeling lost, doubting my purpose, what I'm supposed to do, who I'm supposed to meet will never fail to greet me, live inside my head and wreck my soul. I've been struggling with this for years now, since having graduated from high school, and I always thought that once I get 'there', everything will be fine and I wouldn't have to deal with feeling lost ever again. But now that I'm here, I've come so far from where I've started, and the feeling of anxiety, lost is still a real part of my everyday life. I guess what I'm trying to say is- Thank you for making this video and giving me hope that there's a possibility of finding peace in the storm. Instead of making it my enemy, I might just befriend it.

@pepthelad 10 ай бұрын

Brilliant! Can I ask with how much money did you moved out and how you live? (like shared, own appartement?) I want to do the same..

@aldivaraditya7535 9 ай бұрын

I bet u’re asian, anyway good luck with ur journey ❤

@Drieli_Fernanda 2 ай бұрын

Can i ask how did manage to do it? did u have any savings ?

@marthamoreno1539 Жыл бұрын

This is wonderful, thank you! What a beautiful soul. I’m grateful God brought me to your message ❤🙏🏼

@matilda4406 Жыл бұрын

i highly enjoy validating feelings also! It irritates me no end when I hear therapists tell people how they are suppose to feel. It's so grating, so abrasive, they don't realize how abusive it is. ps. I still need paper maps

@tenishaadams3378 3 ай бұрын

I needed this. Depression and anxiety sucks and doesn't help this feeling of lostness that I feel 😢 but this soothes me. I really needed this seriously. I really have no clue about anything and it makes me panic. Sigh. But I will try to remember this and rewatch when I panic