That is why Hmoob parents should save all of your money for your retirement and let your children pay for their own weddings and let them take care of their own children too. They are willing to have children so they are willing to take care and find their own ways to pay their daycare. Your children are grown @$$ people so let them take care of their own life.

I totally agree with this mother.To all the Hmong mothers out there find a new man who respects and loves you if you are still young. Also spend your money on yourself, go on vacation, and only babysit when your sons and daughters- in- laws beg. Eat healthy, rest, and excersize so you stay healthy. Finally, let karma deal with these evil selfish children. Remember no one escapes getting old and dying. Your children will do onto you what you did to your parents.

Txhob nyuab siab koj cov me nyuam lawv muaj lawv ib pab thiab lwm hnub txog lawv ntu lawv yeej yuav paub xwb lub ntuj yeej muaj qhov muag pom kawg.

Sister, I’m saddened hearing your story. It’s ok, what goes around will come around. Your children will reap what they sow, their children will treat them the same way they treated you. I’m glad your daughter took you in.

Me niam tais aws, zoo siab koj los paub Vajtswv lawm os mog. Thov Vajtswv foom koob mloov rau koj nawd

Tu siab kawg. How do you do that yo your husband's mother? Regardless of her behavior, no mom should have to go through that

Don’t be sad auntie. Those Nyab have mothers too and they have kids too. Their turn will come.

Yog yug tau tub coob2 es zoo li no xwb ces cov yug tsis muaj tub los txhob tu siab thiab. Hlub koj kawg os tus niam tais❤

Wow! Ua cas hais tau tu siab ua luaj li os tus me niam tais. Sim me neej no thiab tiam no ces txhob tos tos yus cov me nyuam thiab txhob vam lawv txoj kev hlub yus li os mog. Yus ua tau ces yus nyob yus es thaum yus ua tsis taus lawm los mus nyob tsev laus lawm xwb os mog.

Wow. That is why Hmong OG needs to learn to be independent. Learn to live by yourself and you’ll be at peace.

Cas yuav hais tau tu siab ua luaj os niam tais aw 😢😢😢 thov Kom koj tsuas ntsib kev noj qab nyob zoo xwb nawb mog

Nrog koj tu siab os. Tau tib pab tub los tej siab yog siab dev xwb. 😢

Nrog koj tusiab kawg os niam pog. Ib leej niam tu tau ib pab tub, tiam sis ib pab tub ho tu tsis tau ib leej niam, that is very sad.

Peb cov me pog laus sim me neej no 😢xob cia siab rau tej tub ki li thaum yug tsw quav tsw. Zis lawm ces yus tag nuj nqi rau lawv lawm txog thaum no ua siab mus nyo tsev laus tuag nhub twg ces zoo rau yus xwb 😢thaum kuv nmloog Zaj no mas kuv kua muag si laim tu siab tiag thaum txog lub caij yus laus

Ntuj aw.. tej tug nyab zoo li ko ces koj txawm hlub hlub tsoo kiag hlwb rau noj los nws yeej tsis hlub koj. Txhob tu siab os mog koj yog ib leej Niam zoo tshaj plaws lawm nawb.

Your sons are all terrible. Karma will catch up to them for making you cry so much. Blessings to your daughter and I am glad you have them and peace with your God.

Niam tais aw ntuj yeej muaj muaj qhov muag kawg lawv ua phem los kam Liam os mog

WOW…! A very good lesson learned to all mothers…never stay and waste your life away with your kids…find a man and move on…only babysits occasional…save your money to travel around the world…😩!

Txhob tos cov nyuam. Yus yuav tau nyob yus ib leeg.

My mom(rip)felt the same way too like you about not remarried after my dad passed away in 1969. I wish that she did remarry because her life was a sad ending.

Ntuj es txaus tu siab ua luaj os ib leeg yuav laus ib zaug ib leeg yuav tuag ib zaug os..g muaj los tu siab muaj los tu siab rau yav laus os..

This is so sad

So sad story to hear about us parents today. We should save our money for old age and don’t rely on our children. We should only take care of them to age 18 like American parents.

Niag niam pog kus ke sav. Nyiam thuam tib neeg ua luaj li luag thiaj tsis nyiam ntag lau. I've seen enough of these type of evil niam pog pretending to be the victim and have 0 sympathy left to give. Zoo zoo, 10 leej tsis yuav los ib leeg yeej yuav tau. Cov mus nrog muam nyob es lawb dab lawm los no difference.

Koj cov tub nyab siab yeej tsis tau ntuj ntoos li me niam tais aw! Tsis hlub koj los yeej yuav khaws koj kev txog nyem thiab es ntuj yeej yuav faib rau txhua2 tub nyab tib sis os mog.

Txawm yog tub yog nyab los qhov tseeb yeej yog qhov tseeb. Qhov tseeb yog Karma is real.

Vim li no peb cov ua niam ua txiv yuav tau khwv kom li hnub peb laus peb nyob peb es txhob mus nrog peb tej mesnyuam nyob. Thiab peb hmoob yuav tau tseg lub maib ua khav yuav mus nrog tej mesnyuam nyob rau yav laus. Lub ntiajteb hloov lawv peb yuav tau hloov nrog

Niam tsev siab zoo aw Cas koj es yuav yug me nyuam coob ua luaj li es yog ua li Cas es koj tus txiv ho tsos koj tseg no. Koj tus txiv tuag thaum koj tseem hluas hluas es Cas koj tsis mus yuav txiv nas. Luag nim hais tias ua zoo zoo es thiaj li tau ntuj ntoos no es koj twb siab zoo zoo hlub hlub koj cov me tub me nyuam ko tsis Kam mus yuav txiv es Cas tej tub nyab yuav tsis hlub koj li nas. Vuag

Yog kawg os tus niamtias cov niag tub no ces tsis muaj noobqes hais lawv cov pojniam li os…niaj hnub nim no los kuv hajtseem nrog kuv tus txiv wb nyob thiab os, es txhob tusiab mog

Niam tais koj los yeej Tim koj thiab o ua cas koj ua zaub mov lawv tsi noj xwb koj tseem tu siab thiab lawv tsi koj yus ua me me yus noj yus xwb ma txhob txawj22 tu siab ma lawv thiaj yuav yus o yus laus lawm ces ua npua lag ntseg xwb hos tawb aw!!!!

Xyov cas cov laus no yuav mus hlub2 tej me nyuam no 30 tawm xyoo xwb g xum mus pib dua neej tshiab yav laus lub neej thiaj txom nyem mas. Zoo kawg qhov koj muaj ntxhais g li xyov koj tus ua niam yuav ua cas txom nyem na. Txawm yog li no es kuv thiaj xaiv kuv lub neej g xum nrog tej me nyuam mas.😂😂😂😂

Koj cov me nyuam kj ces yuav npam mus tag tiam no tsi tsim nyog kj hlub lawv puag thaum me los li os ..koj cov tub koj ua tsi tau yxiv li os

These nyab needs to calm down! Smh I alway try to love my in laws the way I love my parents. Vice versa you would want someone to love your parents so you need to act right. 😢

Ntxhais Los leej twg yuav yus ces nrog lawv nyob xwb

That’s why your sons needed a father figure in their lives. A fatherless home will never make a productive man out of a boy.

Tus me vivncaus aw koj kuv peb cov neeg tsis muaj hmoo es tuaj xya menyuam tebchaws no ces ntshe yog cov niag dab miskas lawm xwb lawv tsis hlub yus li os me vivncaus aw. Ibtxwm tsis tau hais lus phem tabsis tsis tau lawv txoj kev zoo ces thiaj hais os. Kuv tej los muaj 2 niag ntxhais phem tiag2 cem yus li nws yog tus xya yus os. Yus nim hlub2 tsis yuav txiv es cia zov lawv laus tas 30 tawm xyoo es yus ua siab tsis yuav txiv vim laus zog lawm yuav tsis muaj tus zoo rau yus los lawv mas sawv yeeb ncuab txhua zaus yus qhia thiab hais nws yam nws ua tsis yog. Tusiab tiag2 li os vivncaus. Tos lawv ibtxhia es cia mus yuav txiv tsis khes tej niag menyuam no. Yus tau txiv es lawv tsis tau los kavliam tabsis caa yus ua tsis tau phem rau lawv li os vivncaus. Yog yus tsis tshua hlub lawv ces yus tsis tusiab yog lawv tsis hlub yus. Tabsis yus yog cov niam uas hlub2 thiab txhawj2 tej menyuam nrug tsis tau lawv. Yog lawv tsis hlub yus los nrhiav2 teebmeem rau yus mas tusiab tiag2. Kuv li ces tseem yog yus 2 niag ntxhais phem rau yus, ob niag vauv cav tsis tshua cem yus. Leejtwg tsis muaj menyuam los txhob ntshaw2 os mam mus yuav los tu ntshe cav tau cov hlub2 yus os. Yog tsis hlub yus los cav tsis nco tusiab vim tsis yog yus yug os

Nej cov me leej niam es cia2 siab 6 cov tub es yus twb yog ntxhais thiab los pheej muab tej ntxhais ti npe tias yog niag khaub ntxhais xwb g cia siab li tub cag ces cas yav laus ces feem coob mus thawj ntxhais xwb mas thiaj xaus lub neej

Very sad. Sons need to man up. At least get her a place.

I feel bad for you, but in order for all your sons to not want to take you in, it may be because you do or say disrespectful things without realizing it. Some people have very little self awareness, so when they hurt others, they don't know it. They only see the reaction from others, never what they did to cause it. Just something to think about.

Muaj ib co laus Yeej nkhaus nkhaus /kus kus kev. Yog ib tug tsis yuav yus ces lawv phem. Yog ob tug tsis yuav yus ces lawv phem. Yog peb tug tsis yuav yus ces tim yus me ntsis. Yog plaub tus tsis yuav yus ces tim yus 100%. Yog

Sister os don’t feel bad, you still have your Daoughter .. I already feel bad for myself, because I only have boys. I knew for sure I will be alone after I lost my husband … I well prepaid for myself. I knew this will happen to me one day

All parents are subject to the love of their daughter in law. It's too bad that they put such hope, trust and love on to their sons but in the end, It's the daughter in laws that set the degree of re ipricated love to the parents. Some parents are lucky, others, not so much.

Niam tais aw txhob tu siab os vim koj cov nyab lawv txawj plis na lawv tsi txawj laus li ho 😅

Tais aw, zoo li koj pab tub ko ces nkim zog yug/ nkim zog tu xwb os. Ua neeg nyob ces nyias muaj nyias Hmoov. Nyias muaj nyias txoj kev xaiv/ kev xav. Koj cov tub lawv yuav tau cov poj niam los tsis hlub koj los txhob tub siab thiab txhob chim rau lawv vim yog lawv nyiam lawv xaiv lawm ces zam txim rau lawv. Koj twb txiav txim siab tsis mus yuav txiv ces txawm zoo phem los ua siab loj. Tus twg hlub yus los mas nrog tus ntawd nyob. Kav tsij hlub yus tus kheej es mus nrog kev kaj siab thiaj tsis muaj mob nawb.

Tu siabbkawg os me niam tais aw. Koj cov tub tsis hlub koj. Koj xiam tiam hlub lawv, tu lawv ces niam no koj tsis muaj khub. Zoo mas koj mus nrhiav ib leeg khub os. Tsis li los mus nyob tsev laus es cia tej nurse mam tu yus os mog. Don't ever sacrifice your life for your kids. Your sons are loser ingrates.

Yog Niam muaj Siab rau tub ces Niam Twb tsis pub tub yuavv nyab es tseg tub rau Niam lawm os tej Niag nyab no lwm hnub NWS tus nyab yuav hais rau nes thiab ntag

You should’ve remarried and leave them sons suffered and worked for what they want. Too late but glad you’re living with your daughters now.

Xav mloog zaj neej neeg tus me tub adopted uas yuav kawm tau doctor rau lub June, 2024 no.

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How sad. Almost every daughter will become a dil one day, and almost all dil will become a mil one day. It's the cycle of life. One day your dils will be at your place and they will understand.

So ungrateful sons! Karma will come to them soon! Poor mama! This is why I prepare for my retirement.

Love your children but save some love for yourself.

Remember boys - you will get old too! Your kids will treat you the same way you treated your mother because that is the example you set for them. Good luck with that! I hate how these nyab keep tossing their MIL about, sending her from home to home; the audacity of these nyab to tell her they don't want her. I guarantee that when it's their turn, they will know twice the heartbreak they inflicted on their MIL because they taught their kids to treat others like that. I would like to know how they feel about their brothers and how their wives treat their own parents. I'm sure they are very outspoken about that! These women are sickening. I feel for this elderly woman and hope she finds peace in her silver years. None of her sons are men; all boys being led by their little wee wee. If for no other reason, the eldest son should speak up and be an example to his younger brothers! As for the third son - he's shameless! Not all poj Mikas are as heartless as his wife, he just happened to pick a gem. I've seen some who take better care of their Hmong MIL better than a Hmong nyab. He's just not man enough. (Learning to be financially, emotionally, and psychologically independent is best. Even if she only has a "phooj ywg noj fawm", that's still better than being completely alone.)

Tus niam tais, ua cas tus hais lus txog yus cov lus mas yus hais mos mos muag muag. Tiam sis koj hais cov tub thiab nyab cov lus mas lawv heev heev phem phem phem. Yog tas nrog koj cov tub nyab ntxub koj xes koj yeej tsis zoo zoo zoo zoo zoo zoo li koj tham dag no. Peb tsis ruam ruam, peb yeej pim cov niam pog phem phem phem phem phem thiab.

Cov tub no ces nyob poj niam qab tiab tas tus.

These sons and nyab are heartless. Tus auntie don't be sad. Karma will get them. They have children too.

Koj pab tub hnav tiab no ces muab nplam ko taw rau tim hauv paus ntoo los tau lawm. Tsis yog Tim koj cov nyab. Yog Tim koj cov tub no tsis muaj noob xwb.

It's not the sons fault. They married the wrong wives.

A mother who's look like no other mother, she carry you for 9 mnts for 9 time 9 children. She was the only person who can choose you to live or die but she chose you to live. And now you turn your back on her. Hel is waiting for you. You can run but you can't hide

Don't blame your kids, you chose to have many kids and can't provide for them😂

Koj thiaj mus xwb. Yog kuv ces kuv tsis mus lawm. Vim kuv tsis nyiam nyob nrog mic thiab aub. Tej niag plaub ces lo thiab hle rau tej sofá ces yus zaum ces lo yus tag . Hos lawv ua zaub mov noj ces ke ua ke kov aub, ke noj ke pub aub noj🤮 thiab minyuam tej toy los aub toy, aub toy los minyuam toy, minyuam kov tad ho tsis ntxuav tes cia li ho muab khoom noj . To me, that’s so nasty.

This is so heartbreaking! Kids these days are so evil. They act like they don’t know how to age too, wait till it’s their turn! One day when there’s no more mother, ain’t no one gonna give two fucks about them damn selfish ass sons!

One sided story, but it’s the new generation, can’t rely on your Nyab’s to take of you anymore, either have daughters or save all ur $$ for your retirement home

Niam tai tsi txhob txawj os koj tsi txhob rov qab mus nrog koj cov niag tub dev nyob lawm koj cialis nrog koj tus ntxhai vauv mus ntseeg VAJTSWV es yog qhov zoo tshaj uas koj rov mus nrog koj cov niag DAB ntawm nyob cia lub ntuj mam txiav txim rau koj cov niag tubnyab dev ntawm kom lawv cov niag me nyuam mam tsim lawv thiaj txau lawv siab os niam tai.yog koj ntseeg VAJTSWV ce thaum koj ncaim lub ntiajteb no ce mus nrog VAJTSWV nyob qhov chaws tau zoo mus ib txhiis lis xwb ce yuav tsi muaj leejtwg muab koj xas mus rau DAB Teb ntuj txia teb tsau lawm.nawb koj yuav tsum tau kaws ib daim kaxev tseg rau koj tus ntxhai vauv tuav cia es koj koj ncaim ntiajteb lawm koj cov niag tub dev thiaj yuam tsi tau koj mus rau Dab teb lawm nawb.

Terrible daughter in laws.

I see the pattern here. Your sons don't wear the pants in the relationship their wives do. Sorry Niam Thai. My MIL don't help me nor care but I love her most she likes the 2 SIL that don't want her so she runs to live with her daughter. I get blame by his family and put under the bus by the SIL. I see it this way lies lies lies come out first truth comes last and wins.

Where are your sons? How come you don't speak to your sons?

This is sad! Really really sad!! I have 4boys and I love them to death. I am afraid that when I am old they may not love me the same. 😢

LMFAO, what a freaking waste sister. You pinned all your sacrifices, love, hope, and your all on your four son's they took you for granted and have no appreciation towards you. None of them want you. You should've told them to get jobs and paid for their own wife.

Even the title is already sad as it is!!! So sad and heartbroken!!! Grandma, karma will get them and what goes around will come around. That is why parents should not love their sons too much more than their daughters. They should love and treat them all the same. May God bless you with much loves and cares for the rest of your life.

Tus niam tai tsi yog koj cov menyuam tsi hlub koj ho yog koj los yeej ua tau txim meem txom dhau lawm thiab os

Wow! Ua cas hais tau tu siab ua luaj li os tus me niam tais. Sim me neej no thiab tiam no ces txhob tos tos yus cov me nyuam thiab txhob vam lawv txoj kev hlub yus li os mog. Yus ua tau ces yus nyob yus es thaum yus ua tsis taus lawm los mus nyob tsev laus lawm xwb os mog.

Vuag cas tu siab luaj os niam tais aws koj yeej muaj peev xwm kawg os kav liam mog txawm yog tub yog ntxhais los leej twg hlub taus yus ces yus mus nrog tus ntawv nyob xwb mog