"If you want to go,I want you to know its okay" I can't stop crying...:(

there is nothing more sad then the crack on a voice of a person about to cry

Man, the guy playing the grandfather is a tremendous actor. Such a great movie.

I did this to my nan. Poor woman was in a coma for more than a month when I told her it was okay to let go. She died less than an hour later. I don't think I've ever hated myself as much as I did in that moment.

this scene is the saddest of the whole movie .

That's the worst feeling. Mourning for someone who's still alive.

"If you wanna go, I want you to know it's okay." *voice cracks* 😔

I CAN'T TAKE THIS AND AHHHH WHEN HIS VOICE CRACKS I JUST

God damn.... This is one of the hardest movies scene to watch ever...

Having the courage to be ready to let go of your granddaughter after loosing his son, daughter-in-law and grandson. This deserved so much praise

I had said this to my boyfriend while he was asleep. He died two hours later after his five year fight from leukemia. I miss him very much but I’m really happy knowing he’s not suffering anymore.

I have never cried so hard on a movie in my entire life

Is nobody gonna talk about how the grandfather can feel her presence?

Aaand this is when I start hysterically bawling.

I watched this on a plane and I cried so much at this part. I got some weird looks from the man next to me.

The part that always gets me in this scene is at the beginning when the grandfather kisses Mia's forehead and is about to leave when Mia says "Gramps" and he immediately stops and then she asks "What do I do?" and he then talks to her body and gives her permission to go. He felt her there and realized she needed him to talk to her.

This piece in the movie destroyed me. I remember being 17 years old in an abusive home and always crying that I needed to get out. I know my mother loved me dearly. One day my aunt offered for me to come live with her and my mother told me: "Tabitha, I love you more than anything. You're my baby and you always will be. I know how hard I am on you and I know that you think about dying a lot. I would give anything for you to stay here with me, but I know you can't, so, I want you to know its okay"

I think this was the saddest scene in the movie. It was my favorite too.

i started crying at the crash and didn't stop till like 3 hours later

I lost my mom this week. As I was holding her hand I told her that it’s time to join Dad. I had tears in my eyes but I was still smiling, looked up to the shadow in the corner and told him I love and will miss both of you. But I know when it’s my time, you’ll be there too.

There's nothing worse than dying. And then being given the OK to go. Let that sink in. The fact you're dying. And family/friends give you the OK to go see the good Lord above. :/

saddest scene in the whole damn movie, man )'::

This beats the hospital scene with Adam by a looooooooooooooooooooong shot this is so sad and genuine it breaks my heart

did anyone else hear my heart shatter?

This scene in the movie was probably the hardest to watch but was the one that everyone needs to see. Everything he says holds so much value to real life and I just remember sitting there thinking about my grandfather and my parents and I lost it. Beautifully done.

Give this man an Oscar, shit

It hurts knowing this happens everywhere :(All of us are going to die one day, and we won't know. And we won't know how. And we'll all not be ready and won't get to say goodbye. But when we die, we know that they (the ones we love) know that there was nothing we could do. It hurts, but its life. And I'm crying so much right now. :'(

This Man Is Truly amazing And he loves so much that he is willing to see grand daughter more time and is fine with letting her go.

One of the most beautiful scene in the whole movie. It was heartbreakingly sweet yet the emotions conveyed was absolutely honest and raw. My father said the exact same things the grandfather had said when my late aunt was on the hospital bed fighting for her life about four years ago. "If you want to go, I want you to know it's okay. I understand. We will be okay."

I said these exact words to my mom when she was dying. I wanted her to know it was ok to go because she had already fought as hard as she could to stay. I wanted to give her a sense of freedom.

I had never seen this, but I lived it. Losing my wife, having her die in my arms, and having to let her go was the hardest thing I ever had to do in my life. Having to tell her that it was okay if she couldn't fight anymore, and that I understood she loved me even if she couldn't stay with me. It has been 5 and a half years now since she's been gone, and it still stings sometimes. I still cry from time to time, like I am now, but I know now that she isn't suffering anymore. I understand that she is no longer in a body that had continued to fail... and that she is gone to the realm beyond the veil. She was truly the love of my life, and at least I have the memories we shared together. Don't wallow in sadness because they are no longer here, rejoice because they were once amongst us.

I just randomly clicked on this and now im sobbing so much aaaaah

When he said, " you can go, its okay." Literally tears dropped down faster than quicksilver😥😭

This part in the movie broke me like it's so sad I couldn't even see the screen through my tears

We watched this in class at school and at the part were he says " it's okay if you go, I understand" I turn around and literally everyone in the class is sobbing. Not a dry eye in the class, so heartbreaking.

This is probably in my opinion the hardest scene to watch, I could never imagine given someone permission to let go, so heartbreaking...

Such a moving and emotional scene. Stacy Keach is such a talented and incredible actor. This movie wouldn't have been the same without him.

if you want to go, i want you to know it's okay oh god my grandfather is dead that's too hard for me

My cat selected this for me. Little did she know that it would trigger a meltdown. It reminded me of when my mom passed. We were all gathered in her ICU room, the entire family on the west coast, standing around her bed waiting on the Nurse & Dr. to administer the morphine push. They came and administered the push but she was fighting it all of a sudden, scared the crap out of everybody, tubes and machines hissing & beeping, tears everywhere. Then it hit me, she was being a mom, our mom, fighting to stay with us, like moms do. I gathered all her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren, our dad & our dogs all around her bed. I reached out and put my dad's hand on her forehead, I put mine on her cheek and everyone followed our examples and I started to talk to her: We're all here with you mom, we're all holding you and loving you, I know you can feel us and hear us because you're an Irish Witch. It's okay mom, you can go now, we're all going to be alright, it's okay to go home now, time to go beyond the Ninth Wave. Everyone who has gone ahead is waiting there for you, our little sister, your parents, your brother. We will be okay and now we know you'll be there, waiting for us! Thank you for my life! I love you! By now everyone is murmuring their thank you's and farewells, patting and pressing her body where they could. And then, like a slowly collapsing building, she just sank into herself and was gone. This just brought it all rushing back and it's too late to call anyone, they're all asleep at 1:30am, like you do. Now I am going to go blow my nose with the cat's tail, small price to pay I think for putting me in an emotional state.

My uncle was like this. He was in a coma from last stage cancer but he held on for days. My dad stayed beside him all the time and realised he was waiting for his first son to come. His 1st wife and he were divorce and she has alienated him from his son who viewed him as a bad person and hated him for it. My dad held his hand and told him that his son wasn't coming but he (my dad) will take care of both his elder and younger son. He (my uncle) shed some tears and then passed half an hour later. We still don't speak to his oldest, 20yo, not with the air he breathes, but have focused all our love on his younger who was just 6months old when my uncle past.

This part hits so much different when you yourself have been in the position of telling a loved one that “it’s okay to let go.”

2 seconds in and seeing the grandpa cry made me cry because the emotion in his face just broke me 😭

I cry every time. But I cry alot more when he says "if you want to go, I want you to know it's ok" 😭😭❤❤

This aint acting, this is real emotion right there. :(

Out of the entire movie this was the only part the break in pieces. I was so close to my grandpa. He looked just like grandpa and sounded like him and everything but my grandpa passed awhile along time but the fact that I was sooo close to him when seeing this part I cried inside and out.

I ended up here because the “if you wanna go I want you to know it’s okay” line as a snippet in a song and this legit is gonna make me cry.

I remember watching this film when it had come out. 4 months before the film my niece passed away, she toi was called Mia. I couldn't stop crying in the cinema watching this scene. I understood his pain. Still makes me cry to this day. Its a great film ❤

I lost my uncle & great aunt two years ago. One to cancer & one to COVID & this made me think of when were saying bye to them now I’m sobbing 😭😭💔….. why did I look this up?😞

My mom died suddenly and was in a coma for a short time before we were told there was no chance for her brain. I can’t tell you how selfish and upset I felt when I saw my grandma going up to my mom and telling her it’s okay to let go. I didn’t think it was fair, how could she be telling my only mom that it’s okay to die and leave me. Not taking time to realize that she’s also saying goodbye to her only daughter. I’ve been fighting how to feel about all of it

the cracks in his voice make the scene even more heartbreaking

Damn.... so real.... And my mum experienced this in real life... she works in an place where she takes care of people who cant take care of themselfs anymore, and there was a wife and her husband, and the husband told his wife she could go, and she went right away, like she was waiting for him to tell her it was okay to go... Like this scene exactly, except that Mia didnt go...

This is the only scene in any movie EVER that has made me genuinely cry. And not just a few tears, like a river of tears streaming down my face. When Netflix took this movie off I was so angry you don't understand.

When my uncle was In an induced coma I came and visited him almost every day. I remember one day I came and told him how much I wanted him back with us, about how much we still needed him here. But I understood what was going on. I knew things could never be the same. So one of the last things I told him was how I would help his kids. And be there for them. And to be honest I'm not doing the best job. But I'm trying. I remember when when he passed. It was one of the hardest days of my life.

Someone please give that man an oscar

It should be of no surprise to viewers of the inherent talent of actor Stacy Keach. This performance drops our entity into the centerness of life, and often sorrow. Keach's acting has always been sublime, yet powerful. Always the humanist; his acting shall be forever captured and appreciated.

I freaking sobbed that's exactly what my grandpa would do.

I told my aunt something similar about two years ago, when she went into a coma after a car accident. I stayed in the hospital for 3 weeks with her, The doctors told me that most likely she will come out of it, based off her brain scans that came back in good shape. Everything was processing including sound, they just weren't sure on why she wasnt waking up. so I would talk to her everyday and tell her I loved her no matter what. It was about half way through the third week at this point when I went to stay at the hospital for the night and I told her that if it was time for her to go, that I would be right by her side. About 45 mins after that, her heart went into full cardiac arrest and she passed right then.

I remember reading this book on the reading team in high school when I was 16. My mom passed a year later when I was 17 and they had her hooked up on a ventilator so we could say our “goodbyes” but she was already gone. Her body was still warm though. My great aunt and uncle held my hand as I went back and I told her it was okay to go, we’d be okay (me and my three sisters). It was okay for her to let go and be pain free. (She suffered with paranoid schizophrenia and was really sick before passing). She passed a few hours later and when the whole family was there in the room, she had a smile on her face. I knew her presence was there with us and is always with me. It’s not the same though. 10 years later and I miss her more.

No movie has ever made me cry in my whole twenty years. Sure, I've gotten the sensation to or the teary feeling in my eyes, but never full on tears. At this scene, I cried so hard my mom had to come in the room to see if I was okay because she thought something was wrong with me. The main reason why it got me was because he reminded me so much of my own papaw, though they don't look anything alike. My papaw is this big strong man that you couldn't easily break. I've only seen him cry two times in my life, and it hurt so much both times. Seeing this guy, it instantly hit me right in the heart and I couldn't even speak, because it just made me think so much of my papaw being torn apart.

No matter how many times I watch this scene, it will always hit me and I wall always ball my eyes out

I had such a good realationship with my grandpa until he passed and for some reason i put myself in this situation.... and everytime hes says,"if you wanna go,its ok." I bawl my eyes out.😢😭😭😭

When my grandpa was in hospice and not doing well I remember praying every night that he would hold on long enough for my father and aunt and cousins to be able to see him like they had planned for the weekend and then I asked God to please take away his pain. He died a little more than a week later ❤

I'm a 34 year old guy and I liked this movie

I've never seen the movie but I did read the book, And i remember crying hysterically in this part. It was so painful and memarizing. I can never forget his words.

I have the strongest bond ever with my grandpa. This hit me right in the heart.

this is one of the most saddest and one of the most hardest scene to watch of all the sad scenes I have ever seen

i just watched that movie earlier on putlocker, i've been dying to see this movie ever since i saw the trailer. Watching Mia's grandfather giving her permission to cross over, and that part made me cry, her grandpa is a beautiful soul.

I cried all the way through this movie.

I lived almost this exact moment with my mother. Working in a hospital, I went to take my dinner break in her room. I sat down in her room with just her and I. I went to kiss her forhead and whispered to her, don't worry about any of us, you did a wonderful job and it's ok to go. I took 2 steps to sit back down and saw her take her last breath. I got back up, kissed her again on her forehead and told her to say "hi" to everyone and "welcome home", I love you 😪😪

My grandfather was in critical condition with severe lung cancer. I got a call at work letting me know that he had collapsed and was taken into the hospital! This was the second time in six months! I left work without saying anything, ad rushed to be at his bedside. I thought that he would be in a normal ward, but he was instead placed in a palliative care ward. A lot of the family were already there, dressed in casual clothes, while I was still in my grimy work clothes. Always being thought of as the black sheep of the family by everyone but my mother and my grandfather, I was loudly and intentionally talked about on purpose, and as always, judged by my elders as being disrespectful showing up as I did. I just ignored them and went to be beside my grandfather. Everyone was telling him that he was going to get better and come back home. I could see the frustration in his face, and having a machine and tubes to help him breathe, he could not talk! I leaned closer to his ear and whispered very quietly that I was grateful for his being there for me, and thanked him for believing in me. I thanked him for all of the Christmas dinners we shared, the fishing trips we went on, and giving me the time and showing me patience as we both looked out of his bedroom window at home, for hours with me kneeling beside his lazy boy recliner saying nothing, just staring out the window, on many visits and occasions while he puffed on his pipe! The last thing I whispered to him is that everyone else are acting ridiculous, and whether they like it or not? It was okay to pass on, and find his peace with God! When I kissed his forehead which was for the last time, and I backed up to look him in the eyes? He had a tear rolling down his cheek, and did his best to give me a last smile, and a slight nod of his head! Two hours later? He peacefully passed away. To this day 45 years later? No one except for my mom knew what I had said to my grandfather! Mom kept it to herself up to her own passing, now eight years ago! I believe so much that when a loved one is between life and death? They need and deserve to be told that it is okay to go and be with God! Giving one false hope is more painful and frustrating on the one who is at deaths door, hoping to be comforted with one simple statement. *It is O.K.to let go! * Respect and rest in peace, Grampy and Mom! I miss you both more than words can say, but find comfort in that I will see you soon! I am not afraid of death, knowing that you both will be waiting for me on the other side when my time of passing comes around. I have already given myself permission to let go, and move from this life and this world to what can only be a better place. I have a DNR in place should anything happen to me, and I am at deaths door, unable to communicate. The DNR is legally solid and my own permission slip to pass on, and nobody can stop me from doing so! Respect!

this was the only scene in the movie that actually made me cry 😭

"If you wanna go,i want you to know its okay" i cried so hard 😭😭😭💔

"It's ok mom... we're going to be ok.... It's ok to go.... it's ok to stop." What I said to my mom when she was trying to hold on with stage 4 anaplastic thyroid cancer. She was in pain and gasping for breath. After I said it.... she relaxed and died 5 minutes later.

I said that to my grandpa on the phone when he was in a coma 2 days before he passed away from COVID. My brother had been the only person allowed to be in the hospital room and he called me and put me on speakerphone. I miss him.

Should be doing my hw.....but instead having a well overdue cry :'(

This movie might make me cry more than titanic does, and that's saying something!

I’m cryin. Tears are flowing. Great scene.

Woah this is way to sad! It got the saddest when he said “if you wanna go, I want you to know it’s ok! And then the voice crack” I CANT STOP CRYING

This scene worked too perfectly! The drama nearly killed me while watching!

No matter how many times I watch this it breaks me😓

that man has to be one of the best actor's i have ever seen. so emotional, i cry everytime

I CRY NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES I SEE THIS SCENE OMG

hey! whoose chopping onions here?

5 years later and it still makes me cry. I will always love this movie.

The feeling of losing everyone you ever love and the only single person still holding on. To let that person go, what a tremendous experience.

I watched the trailer of this movie and I am in tears... I can't imagine watching the full movie

This hurts more, knowing that at 11:30pm tonight, my grandad passed away, I was the last one to give him permission to go if he wanted to go. 😭😭😭

Each night for two years I went to hug my 14 years old dog before going to bed, I was so terrified to lose him, but each night in the last 2 years I went to him telling himI loved him but if he though it was his time that I wouldn’t hold it against him, turned out he outlived almost every dog of his kind by going into his 14 years of age but I knew it wouldn’t be long before i’ll loose him, when time had came, I was with him, he wasn’t all there anymore his eyes were flashing around the room without any recognition, he was in so much pain, at this moment he wasn’t the puppy I knew, it was at this moment that I start hugging him and telling him I love you and I would never stop loving him even when he cross over, it may not be easy to let go, but sometime it what is best for those we love who are suffering to juste let them know it okay, now will I be able to say this when my mom’s going to pass? I’m not sure but I hope I will be because it the best gift someone can do for another when it time to let them go, beside even if we cannot see them anymore they are still with us always,

My husband fought cancer for as long as he could, we cared for him at home. The day before he passed, our son, then 9, asked me if I would hate him. I asked why he thought I ever could. He told me he stopped praying for God to heal his dad, and instead asked him to take him. I told him that would never be a reason to hate him, it meant he loved his father, that he was willing to let him go. I told all 3 of our kids we had to let him know it was okay, that he could still hear us. They came in and told him they loved him and that we would take care of each other. He passed away the next day. After months of hearing only sounds of pain, I heard what sounded like a sigh of relief. I knew he was gone before I looked up.

When my Grandpa was still alive my Mother told him that's ok if he left he of course at the time was dying but the line in this movie I think everyone needs to hear when it's their final days or if they're dying that's ok to go because it is ok if a loved one goes a human can only fight death for so long. But seriously scene alone is enough to make you instantly cry.

the one movie that touches my heart the most

This movie was underrated.

This still makes me cry. My grandpa died 4 years ago this December. He had been in the hospital and I went and saw him a week before and he was doing great but then on December 28th I woke up to my mom telling me that he had passed the night before. I miss him so much. He was not my blood grandpa but he treated me like it. He always told my mom I was his favorite and I know he’s always with me. I get so many signs from him and I just miss him so much.

This scene so reminds me of my departed grandfather. I remember walking into his hospital room only one day before he died. When I walked in, I saw my grandfather with a oxygen tube in his nose to help him breath. When I hugged my grandmother, I just broke down and cried and cried. It was so hard to see my grandfather in that hospital bed. It was such a intense emotional moment for me. My grandmother passed a few months after and that was really hard. I know better then anyone how hard it is to loose someone you love so much.

Stacy Keach is so legendary. What a great acting, gets me all emotional.

My god...to sit there with someone and to love them so much...to love them enough to let them go.😭😭 I can never get through this scene without crying.

God I cry each time I watch this clip.

I cried a lot on this scene. It's really hard to say goodbye to those people who we love.

I get a tear in my eyes, every time I watch this scene.

When my mother was dying her doctor mentioned "extraordinary means". I knew she did not want that. I identified those of us in the room (my brother and his girlfriend, our dad and myself) and told my comatose mother we would miss her terribly, but if she wanted to go, we would be okay. She relaxed and died 30 minutes later. I will never regret having given her permission to die.