If Work Stresses You Out - WATCH THIS

If Work Stresses You Out - WATCH THIS | by Jay Shetty

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4 жыл бұрын

It's not your managers job to manage your mental health, that's yours.
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"People don't quit jobs, they quit their bosses" -Unknown
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@JoshuaOtusanya 4 жыл бұрын

If you’re reading this, have a great day today. You deserve it.

@dr.hana.albadou 4 жыл бұрын

Please Follow me, I'm from the middle east and I'm writing motivational speeches,recoding them in my voice and translating them to Arabic language. So listen and give me your feedback ❤🌸👍

@dianegiovanniello3948 4 жыл бұрын

The Josh O Show 👍

@youtube.comybvv 4 жыл бұрын

You too have a blessed day weekend.

@DrSomil 4 жыл бұрын

Back at you buddy!

@harshil9270 4 жыл бұрын

no u

@melanigeorgieva3297 2 жыл бұрын

I cried at this video. I’ve just put in my resignation today from my toxic job.

@rebeccawyatt5963 Жыл бұрын

me too, I hope you're ok 🙏

@pakbim4634 Жыл бұрын

So how do you feel now after one year

@shrikantdhadam3488 Жыл бұрын

Congratulation

@dabznslugg9492 Жыл бұрын

I’m going to put my resignation how do I do it ?

@bryanyap3643 Жыл бұрын

@@dabznslugg9492 I just resigned yesterday so here's what I did (just sharing my experience, might not be accurate for everyone). First, I wrote my official resignation letter but I didn't send it to HR yet. I told my direct supervisor I'd like to have a 1-to-1 talk. She somehow sensed that I wanted to resign but she said okay to it anyways. During our session, I shared what I felt and the reasons behind my decision. She then passed my message to our managing director, where I also talked with her and explained the same thing. Then, I finally showed her my official resignation, which was passed to HR. Now I'm just waiting to do our handover session and leave by end of Feb. Might've missed your question if you were looking for a more emotional-centric answer, but here - you can do it. it might be stressful, but you can definitely do it. Take a deep breath, imagine what you clearly wanna say, and all in. All the best bud!

@sithakavalur7374 4 жыл бұрын

*People don't quit jobs...they quit Bosses* thanks Jay for this video....calls for maximum share! 😊👌👍

@elizagold2186 4 жыл бұрын

Exactly! I did it and a weight was lifted.

@Ave1821 4 жыл бұрын

Yesssssss. I liked my last job and hated my boss. She was pure misery.

@Ed-yj1ep 4 жыл бұрын

I'm in the complete opposite situation. Managers, company, co workers and pay, all are awsome. It's my position and the responsibility that's stressful af. Don't know how long I'll last ⏳😬

@anithamore 2 жыл бұрын

@@Ed-yj1ep my situation is same like your's

@TejadaCindy Жыл бұрын

@@Ed-yj1ep same here. Do you mind me asking how are you doing nowadays?

@Bitachon 4 жыл бұрын

*"Stress can kill - it's not worth it."*

@Dzanarika1 Жыл бұрын

You do die, sooner or later. Death is freedom, nothing to be afraid of.

@nigarhuseynova4847 2 жыл бұрын

It's especially stressful when your family doesn't support you and say that you're too picky when it comes to job...😔

@charlie5907 Жыл бұрын

Yes I know that :(

@davidbak3340 Жыл бұрын

Feel the same most of the time.

@SR-fe7zd Жыл бұрын

I understand. Same here

@michaelfokas9631 Жыл бұрын

It's your concern about your job career, not your family's. Listen to yourself and find what is appropriate to you.

@pastamasta8985 11 ай бұрын

yup. It's the worst

@osse1n 4 жыл бұрын

If life gives you anxiety instead of joy, it's just because the universe tries to communicate with you, that you don't belong in a certain environment and the healthier thing to do, is to extract the root to the problems. *Always follow your inner voice and act out of abundance, doing things that bring you joy.*

@isittrueisitnot3303 4 жыл бұрын

Or you are just anxious..

@osse1n 4 жыл бұрын

@@isittrueisitnot3303 There is no such thing as "just." Everything in universe has its purpose. One can choose to understand and alleviate suffering or continue to live in an endless agony.

@isittrueisitnot3303 4 жыл бұрын

@@osse1n maybe you missunderstood my point, not everything has to have that universe shit behind itself, its normal to be anxious it's human nature and I don't know why would we do anything about it except maybe learn how to cope with it

@RaquelAlbaBeauty 4 жыл бұрын

So true! 👏

@elen__ 4 жыл бұрын

So I don’t belong with my family, house, environment, etc💁🏻‍♀️

@huskymotivations 4 жыл бұрын

*Today's lesson: **_"Be the calmest person in the room"_*

@bklyncowboy2925 4 жыл бұрын

Amen,

@abdallajueany7735 4 жыл бұрын

Not always! Not with that bitch boss in the video. When some employees don’t stand up for their rights that makes bad Bosses take advantage and treat everyone horribly!

@L2PlayRunescape 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah but sometimes doing that is like learning to be the punching bag. Just keep calm and keep smiling while people walk all over you...

@adriancooper2200 Жыл бұрын

Yes... I agree... If you are the least slimy and weakest in the room.Unless you are the strongest and most unkillable in the room. Good day to you.

@tss8929 Жыл бұрын

That's what I am by nature. Today I realised that people were just thinking I wouldn't say anything even if they would insult me. But I am glad that I stood for myself.

@Uksoapfan 4 жыл бұрын

Bosses like this will appear as charming and nice whe you first meet them but then their true personality surfaces when you start work for them. If you knew how nasty they were beforehand, you would not accept the job.

@gurudra 4 жыл бұрын

Work can be important, but to relax is even more important, to relax both the body and the mind )

@jojohanna217 4 жыл бұрын

Gurudra i quit my job cause I couldn't take it anymore..

@jblack8502 4 жыл бұрын

JoJo hanna i hope everything is fine with you

@itsfabooo1063 3 жыл бұрын

Ofc when they calling u in 9pm after working 7am-4pm , y not :D

@samuelgregr8451 2 жыл бұрын

I Will do to same

@adriancooper2200 Жыл бұрын

You should change your name to "GU..RA...JU..RA It sounds Unique) (you don't have an option in this.

@whakabuti 4 жыл бұрын

Oh wow. I left a well paying job because my boss was just like this and increasingly venomous day by day.

@CoffeeSA96 3 жыл бұрын

How are things going now?

@gokulpadmalochan18 2 жыл бұрын

Nobody will come and tell us to take care of our mental health. We have to not be super nice and have a proper work life balance. The corporate world will always look to take advantage of you whatsoever so we just can't keep taking shit like that. They are never going to be friendly and cooperative. So we shouldn't be scared of them throwing us out. They can't do that kind of shit coz even it is difficult for them to recruit new people and train them.. we have to put full stop at some point when there is excess work load and not get scared of the company throwing us out. Let them throw us out we are not committing any crime or murder to be so scared. Because it will have huge impact on our mental health that's why we have to be tough sometime.

@pabloescobar9830 2 жыл бұрын

@@gokulpadmalochan18 this is so relaxing, thanks for writing this.

@SuperPreshan 2 жыл бұрын

@@gokulpadmalochan18 so true

@anilchudasama7698 2 жыл бұрын

@@gokulpadmalochan18 thanks seriously

@mdomingasbrito 4 жыл бұрын

That was one of the reasons why I left my last job. It was getting harder and harder to go to work, every day I came home stressed and always shouted at my children, my husband and I always arguing. Until the day came when I said "Enough, I'd rather stay at home, take care of my children and my home if need be, than stay in an environment that only brings me unhappiness"

@islamo9200 4 жыл бұрын

You are very strong and a good mother and wife. Wish you all the best! :)

@mdomingasbrito 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@gemini2633 4 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately. No matter where u go theres going to be pros n cons. Its about picking the right situation that's you feel it's worth dealing with. That's happens in all jobs. Pick what best fits you. That's the real world out there. Doesn't mean you have to deal with that particular situation. Somewhere else might have something different that's bothering.

@mdomingasbrito 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@bunniewood 2 жыл бұрын

Wish I could just quit and have someone else support me too

@kaitlynm6992 4 жыл бұрын

Those 35% are people who do not work customer service. A retail worker or customer service representative will never tell you that their stress comes from their boss. It comes from nasty, negative, toxic, mean, ignorant, self important, egotistical human beings. Being called studip, being yelled at like a child, getting scoffed at by adults because they didn't get their way. THAT'S where our stress comes in. Because people do not know how to act like decent beings.

@shennydestwina7143 4 жыл бұрын

Correct. I feel that too

@roshsquematthews9874 4 жыл бұрын

I share the same feelings

@islamo9200 4 жыл бұрын

Ture. I am a customer support engineer and stress mostly comes from my customers + my bosses and sometimes from the team members. The struggle is real.

@cancel.lgbtq.6892 4 жыл бұрын

Exactly ! I work in casino and I deal with self righteous people every single day. Everything is all about them. Good thing that my pay is great so it compensates having to deal with these clowns.

@mohdshahbaazali3327 3 жыл бұрын

You wrote what was thinking

@Punkinspapa 4 жыл бұрын

I am a manager and I treat my people with the utmost respect and thank them for their effort and time constantly! As a boss your people will make you, or break you, not the other way around!

@audacityx 2 жыл бұрын

until they arent producing the results you need

@Punkinspapa 2 жыл бұрын

@@audacityx Then I coach them to the desired results. I don't just throw people away.

@brigittabalog39 Жыл бұрын

Exactly. And the way they work and the quality they provide is depend on you as well. If you treat them like a piece of rubbish then that's what you are going to get. Its not easy to find a manager who is isnt controlling and a nightmare to work with.

@pilarangelie6732 Жыл бұрын

Can you be my boss please? 🥺

@shivbhaktsanatani23 Жыл бұрын

I wish we could have more people like but majorly people i deal with corporate are just treating their employees like trash even though after performing well.

@dilxtube8874 2 жыл бұрын

Today I resigned from my job as an electrical engineer. Reason was mainly my two bosses. They were always made me feel worthless and low. Every time they talk about them selves hours and their past experiences, achievements etc. In the beginning I thought they will support me to improve my career but they were destroying my mental health and my skills. I'm so glad that finally I leave that hell. If you are reading this I wish you all the very best. Good luck people ❤

@na-ra8701 Жыл бұрын

Good luck for you too friend..

@Bitachon 4 жыл бұрын

*"You can not out source your self care."*

@akshatshah223 4 жыл бұрын

People don't leave companies.they live there bosses.🙏 So true.

@hemanthkumar9533 2 жыл бұрын

We all need a good team lead or manager and colleagues, other wise its toxic, right now I am facing it badly

@chrismorpher7439 3 жыл бұрын

I'm still dealing with the toxic and the stressful at my first my job. Thank God I have a job coach that'll help me find the right job. For past six years I've dealt with verbal abuse, bullying, toxic coworkers and managers. It affected me at home as well. I've been dealing with stress, mental health, PTSD, anxiety, and depression

@chrismorpher7439 2 жыл бұрын

@@deyaa_mc my former manager would inappropriately touched me

@sonalisachdeva2091 2 жыл бұрын

I can relate.

@chrismorpher7439 2 жыл бұрын

@@deyaa_mc I left that job 7 months ago.

@audacityx 2 жыл бұрын

@@chrismorpher7439 best and only move

@auroshisray9140 2 жыл бұрын

Take care

@seolamin2347 4 жыл бұрын

This reassured me that I can quit my current workplace a toxic and manipulative team leader who twists stories and words to make sure I look bad. Thank you for this I never knew I could feel better from watching this

@MixSonaProductions 2 жыл бұрын

Toxic teammates are worse When they are supposes to have your back. You have their backs, but they talk shit on you. Prank you the fuck out

@sonalisachdeva2091 2 жыл бұрын

I thought I was alone. But I guess most of us are dealing with it.

@vangelicest4183 4 жыл бұрын

So perfectly timed. I'm thinking of resigning tomorrow. Service people you have my respect.

@AsiaAziatics 4 жыл бұрын

Damn this is real...I feel like this at my job right now thinking about it.

@akhil-hh2vm 2 жыл бұрын

Mental health is the most important thing while doing a job...If u r not appreciated that u r doing u feel down! A boss should teach a fresher how to deal with out stress and create a happy environment

@vanessabayardo9788 4 жыл бұрын

At 2:08 "clearly you're not suited for this company". The narcissism is huge in this woman!

@MK_ULTRA420 4 жыл бұрын

"Narcissism" ? More like girl power yass kween slayy!!!

@nelsonkiiru7252 4 жыл бұрын

@@MK_ULTRA420 Yes that too!🤣🤣

@ann48luv79 4 жыл бұрын

Woman??? What woman?? She's a bitch!

@jesssss12 3 жыл бұрын

@@MK_ULTRA420 🤦🏻‍♀️ if you are joking it’s s funny joke. If not wow

@MK_ULTRA420 3 жыл бұрын

@@jesssss12 Shut up sexist.

@sheico1015 4 жыл бұрын

people don't quit job, they quit bosses... that's true, i've experienced that,, the people will stressed you out... thanks Jay Shetty.

@shady88881 4 жыл бұрын

I was literally about to go back to my old job when i was treated almost the same devalued,used is how i would feel but no just because iam jobless iam not gonna to sacrifice my mental health time & energy ...again

@leyla-km5pb 4 жыл бұрын

"Attitude is one little thing that makes a big difference"

@chemiselacoste544 4 жыл бұрын

I quit my best job because my manager is always threatening to cut my salary if i do this,do that,do whatever that i wont do..the shop is still operate because of me..and they never appreciate me..after i quit,they begging me work with them again..

@luismaldonado3317 4 жыл бұрын

Im blessed to have a job, but thats so true what he says about managers...especially when the workload is thrown at you and they just sit back and cruise all day.... when theres no one to truly go to with this issue its not only stressful but kind of nerve wrecking.

@brendaechols5929 2 жыл бұрын

What's bad is when they just sit back and watch you then go yo your station and ask you to hurry up.

@leslychandy962 4 жыл бұрын

I work for a good company but I just cant understand how the company appointed a couple "good for nothings" as managers. It's hard to find managers with class and quality these days.

@ochobengal 4 жыл бұрын

Lesly Chandy exactly!

@dll5472 4 жыл бұрын

So true I work for a home care agency and the management sucks big time they all sit on there brains nobody in the office knows how to communicate to the out side world and the management is really bad and they lie so much to there participants and aides I would not recommend them to any one if it would not be for the aides they would sink I think they already are and they treat you like crap and all they want is a body it is sad but true!

@DJKISSchitown 4 жыл бұрын

So if companies appoint these people then what does that say about the company?

@SharonMcCue 4 жыл бұрын

Usually they are not hired, rather mistakenly moved up the ranks. It’s the “Peter Principal”...”The Peter Principle is an observation that the tendency in most organizational hierarchies, such as that of a corporation, is for every employee to rise in the hierarchy through promotion until they reach a level of respective incompetence”

@graciousdes1r3 4 жыл бұрын

I recently resigned from my job so this is so timely. Thank you 🖤

@jojohanna217 4 жыл бұрын

Desiree Anne me too..I just couldn't take it anymore

@mcalmonte3798 4 жыл бұрын

Me too

@graciousdes1r3 4 жыл бұрын

@@jojohanna217 sad to hear that, believe that things happen for a reason and that there are far better things ahead than what we leave behind.. goodluck on our next job! 😊

@graciousdes1r3 4 жыл бұрын

@@mcalmonte3798 hopefully we find a job that would better fit and take care of us. Goodluck! 😊

@jojohanna217 4 жыл бұрын

Desiree Anne thank you so much. All the best for you as well !♥

@emmanuelc04 4 жыл бұрын

I was in a very similar situation until two weeks ago. My boss was very rude and didn't let me work in peace. She was constantly crunching me. I tried to talk her about this to make a less toxic work environment, but instead of listening me she decided to fire me arguing that my attitude won't be tolerated by the company.

@mrsjade30 2 жыл бұрын

I’ve been a stay at home mom forever and every single time I’ve tried to find a job that makes me happy-it was always a bad boss and my body reacted horribly to work stress. I think I’m okay being a stay at home mom, I’m 100x more happier doing what I can handle, and I know deep down I’m not stressing like crazy.

@beginnersbuddy1452 4 жыл бұрын

I quit my boss today. Stress since 2 years. I feel sooooo good now... Right now...

@emmanuelwhyte4247 4 жыл бұрын

So sorry

@snehawaghmare7424 4 жыл бұрын

I can related to you. I quit 2 job's because of bad bosses. It's OK you will find good job like I did now and their are many opportunities. Don't worry you will be fine.

@beginnersbuddy1452 4 жыл бұрын

@@snehawaghmare7424 thank you Sneha.:-)

@funnydoggie1077 4 жыл бұрын

I feel so bad after I quit my job because I cannot deal with the work stress. When I watch this video I find this girl is just look like my boss! I feel better now and I know it is not my problem . It is “ narcissistic personality disorder “

@prins1991 4 жыл бұрын

The thing is... Life is too short to spend it with people who give us too much stress... Instead of worrying about leaving a stressful job worry about growing old realizing we spent most of our time with stressful people and not enjoying it

@cam5635 4 жыл бұрын

I'm quitting my current job at the end of this week, I've been working there for 3 years and a few months ago I started to feel stuck, depressed and tired, this video came in a great part of my life, thank you very much!

@whiteknight9221 4 жыл бұрын

As a side effect, the subtitles really helped me to learn english! Just wanted to mention that. I really appreciate your inspiration, Jay! THANK YOU!

@TanvirAhmed24 4 жыл бұрын

You must learn to let go. Release the stress. You were never in control anyway.

@dr.hana.albadou 4 жыл бұрын

Please Follow me, I'm from the middle east and I'm writing motivational speeches,recoding them in my voice and translating them to Arabic language. So listen and give me your feedback ❤🌸👍

@howdyworld 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks

@TanvirAhmed24 4 жыл бұрын

@@howdyworld You're welcome

@wandalee5010 4 жыл бұрын

Amen! I have been trying to express this at my work place, and it is falling on deaf ears. It seems to be a pattern to devalue the workers that make your company! A company must treat employees and customers with respect and make them feel valued in order to flourish. It’s really a simple rule.

@jasmynmarshall3746 Жыл бұрын

Even three years later, this content is helping me. Thanks Jay!

@rodrijunghu2779 Жыл бұрын

"You are not a crucial member of this team". I feel this way and the worst thing is that they do not tell me that, they just make me feel with actions.

@brendaechols5929 2 жыл бұрын

Everytime i imagine about leaving, I feel a sense of peace. No joking. It's like being free. I was on leave for almost 2 months and I was so at peace.

@Th3lite 2 жыл бұрын

My issue is, my job is pulling me in 100 different directions and then they have 50 different tracking systems. I get calls from clients, there mother, father, children, and attys, on top of emailing me. I get several emails about various performance reports, emails from other adjusters, message from different departments, from banks, and other financial institutes for documentation. Along with my daily new claim count, my follow ups, additional contacts, closures, exposures, and so on and so forth. Not to mention we use about eight different apps to do our job on top of several mandatory meetings. After the meetings I have new emails and voicemails.

@NFSMAN50 4 жыл бұрын

Too many people would rather stay at a crappy company, with horrible bosses, co-workers, hard work, and little pay, because they are scared to take risks, save enough money to go on unemployment for a while and then search for another job at another company. Life is too short to work at a job where they will treat you like a second-class citizen. I don't have a job at the moment but am currently looking for one, but the job i would love is a job where the boss is chill, friendly, helpful, you get along with coworkers, and they offer good work-life balance.

@reflectivemotivation3970 4 жыл бұрын

*My key to dealing with stress is simple: just stay cool and stay focused.*

@bencrosbie 4 жыл бұрын

Reflective Motivation also tell people to go fuck themselves lol

@thelza1770 4 жыл бұрын

It's easier said than done.

@HayanaRomZ 2 жыл бұрын

Sounds easy but really hard to do 😭

@mohanamohana9361 Жыл бұрын

@@HayanaRomZ yes...hv to think abt the next day...How's its going to be 😢

@YZFMANIAC08 9 ай бұрын

Evaluatie which things you can influence and which ones you can’t/won’t

@wussupitsmeyaboi1210 2 жыл бұрын

I work at homegoods and its everyday that I feel this. I feel like im on a leash and I cant seem to concentrate at all because I'm being thrown around. I'm dying I have no one to come home to. Outside of work I feel alright im able to focus and I can feel good. But everyday on that bus im shaking and have so much anxiety I do listen to music on the way and sometimes it helps. Its when I get home that im shaking and getting nightmares and I cant seem to control myself.

@harini8810 3 жыл бұрын

Oh my god,it's really painfull to see these many people suffered of their work environment and people..I loved the job but due to toxic people I resigned my job recently.Even my coworkers pushing themselves a hard towards work...My first job kept me happy. now I am looking forward to that work again..

@NicoMoreno 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for the awesome video Jay 🔥 This will definitely help me improve my Mindset, Business, and Life!! Keep it up! 💯💯🙌

@detradw515 4 жыл бұрын

I needed this like 5 years ago!!! Thank you!!! I WILL be sharing!!!

@maplebuddydoodles 4 жыл бұрын

So true, just did that in the spring. Feel so much better. Heading towards bigger and better things. Life is too short. 🥰

@loopnuncio1195 4 жыл бұрын

Jay. Your absolutely, a bright light... thank you so very much, for your hard work....

@charizardx4863 4 жыл бұрын

Not just those who are the top performers but also those who give their time and enery.

@frankblack7801 3 жыл бұрын

I've lost all faith in the work place system. Now I just do whats right for me and possibly move on.

@phoniaerin3778 4 жыл бұрын

This message is so timely...thank you Jay

@angelaknox 4 жыл бұрын

So true. My last boss was a nightmare.

@Ken-py4pk 4 жыл бұрын

Jay Shetty is the best creator for self-improvement. Jay inspired me so much that I started my own KZfaq channel. My channel is also about self-improvement. I would love some support from you guys.

@TheMarvelousBeautyChannel1 4 жыл бұрын

I subscribed to your channel! Keep it going young man. 💪🖐🏼🙋🏾‍♀️

@Ken-py4pk 4 жыл бұрын

@@TheMarvelousBeautyChannel1 Thank you for your support. I am so grateful. :)

@mohammedanwar3552 4 жыл бұрын

This video is really worth. Thank you so much, Jay.

@emberw214 4 жыл бұрын

Hello! I've been watching your videos for awhile now. I love them as well as your mission!!! ❤❤❤ Thanking you for bringing it all into action!! All I got to say on this video is: YES! AMEN TO THAT BROTHER!!!

@girishva3823 9 ай бұрын

Absolutely True Jay, We have to manage our own mental health. We cannot expect others to be nice to us. They have their own reasons to behave in a certain way. They should learn to deal with their Mind games, and we have save ourselves from getting effected by them. Thanks Jay for sharing this.

@geminilove7830 4 жыл бұрын

I recently quit my job about a month ago. I'm reading the comments and see that others have recently quit too. This tells me that a lot of these jobs suck!

@mariajoerizza7828 4 жыл бұрын

This is a HUGE help! Thank you. 😊

@taylorjean860 4 жыл бұрын

This is an extremely fitting video right now. I left my last job because my boss made me feel easily replaceable. As a first year teacher I was treated horribly. Thankfully I’m at a wonderful new school, with an extremely supportive administration team, and feel like the teacher I’ve always wanted to be. I have gotten to fall back in love with my profession. I won’t lie, it’s still a stressful job, but it’s so much more rewarding now.

@diazd2393 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you thank you .. just when I needed a guiding light to let me realise if I was doing the right thing and Bang!!! Here it is.... My way out and proud of myself that I have decided to quit my job without any regrets... I have no guilt and I will not have any , I shall put in double my efforts to find a better job at least where I and my talent is appreciated. Thank you Jay as always you’ve been that small ray of hope.... God bless you abundantly 🤗

@Dzanarika1 3 жыл бұрын

It is not just bosses, even co-workers are becoming harder to work with, so much rumors, dramas, spying and kissing big a sses. If it continues in this speed, we will have mental people all around us. No respect, no morals, no professionalism anymore.

@mitp2514 4 жыл бұрын

I had a boss like her and I left my job. Found a better job better pay amazing boss. Come to find out few months later my ex boss got fired from her boss as complaints added up, and lack of management..

@donaljayalath6580 4 жыл бұрын

I got to watch this at right time! Thank you Jay Shetty

@kianathompson4591 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you Jay, so true lesson. Stay Blessed

@syedfamily5366 4 жыл бұрын

Hey Jay. Your videos are so inspiring and really give possitive changes in my life. I just wanted to request you to make video on what to do when you have no support from your family, have no friends, and afraid to raise your voice cause nobody going to listen you and it may cause you more stress and damage?

@whiterabbit4048 Жыл бұрын

During that last years I have changed 6 different accounting positions each one with its own stressful issues. I’m only 2 weeks in to my 6th company in a year and not only they don’t train me but they expect me to know their companies accounting by heart. I have not worked as an accountant in a healthcare company. It’s stressful, no body even talks to you. You feel like a garbage 🗑. I’m getting sick and tired of this cycle. I’m getting my MBA next year for higher positions with better companies. I think I’m going crazy and depressed.

@TheLifeAcademySN 4 жыл бұрын

"Its not your manager's job to manage your mental health, it's yours." Its tough to quit something that helps you put food on the table, but please remember, you're not helping yourself if every day you spend at your workplace takes away from you a part of your health 🙏

@beginnersbuddy1452 4 жыл бұрын

Exactly.

@TheLifeAcademySN 4 жыл бұрын

@@beginnersbuddy1452 Glad you agree 🙌

@jojohanna217 4 жыл бұрын

Tanmay Nayyar i quit cause I couldn't take it anymore

@TheLifeAcademySN 4 жыл бұрын

@@jojohanna217 I hope it did you good 💙🙏

@jojohanna217 4 жыл бұрын

Tanmay Nayyar yeah I feel better now. On the other hand I'm afraid I don't get a new job and people keep telling me how stupid it was to quit without already having a new job. But thank you ♥

@Angelgirl6 Жыл бұрын

Cant imagine, how u made my life easier by giving me a way to focused thinking process than just random manifestation .... loved it boys... kudos

@abhishekdave1182 4 жыл бұрын

This is the exactly what I'm going through. I was just searching for this video yesterday & you uploaded today. Wow...It's a call. I was thinking to quit my job due to my senior. He doesn't value me or believe in me. Teasing me every time. But now it's enough.i will leave for sure. Thanks for your video Jay..😊🙏

@battlemage6084 3 жыл бұрын

Wonderful video, m currently going thru this but can't quit as I need the job desperately. Hope I am able to find a new job soon.

@alkasingh6054 2 жыл бұрын

Going thru exactly the same in health care sector...exact same female boss who has hell lot of ego n insecurity. M going thru so much stress that I have to take psychological consultations and it never happened with me in my 11 years of career. Only worry for me is if I leave this job, HRs try to take advantage and won't pay as per my skills. Waiting for a week as my last try is to wade through it. Otherwise m resigning.

@ScottSwalwell 4 жыл бұрын

It's not your fault if you cop this kind of behavior, however it's your choice how you feel, act and react. You own your decisions. Take ownership of those

@emmanuelwhyte4247 4 жыл бұрын

True

@MAYANKKUMAR-ef9dm 4 жыл бұрын

That's right my friend...

@alkhan4921 4 жыл бұрын

Fantastic presentation. Remember those days. Work for yourself!!!

@techmentos 4 жыл бұрын

Best teachers for me,after watching his videos ,I have become more confident,started self love,accepting as I am,and every day is great and i take every obstacle as a challenge and I face with smile .I have become more mature now. Bcz of self introspection also

@sachingaikwad1541 4 жыл бұрын

This is exactly my life today ... Wooohhoooo ... I am really motivated by your video ...& I’m going to quite my job tmw..... I always thought, it’s me that create issues at workplace ...always, but this video shows me exact replica of my life that I’m living with stress and anxiety ...

@mariamhasan4652 4 жыл бұрын

Your videos are so an inspiration and motivation to me wonderful and amazing man great work jay

@00amandahugnkiss00 4 жыл бұрын

I quit a job because of a boss. I thought I was not smart enough. Employers do not like you quitting without having a job lined up, so I struggled for a year. It turns out, everwhere that manager went, employees quit that were under her (even those that had a lot of knowledge). I guess it was not just me....

@jessicataylor9382 4 жыл бұрын

👏🏼 Thank you for this video. Totally relatable. Cut the patterns of structural racism.

@Sara-yi6dq Жыл бұрын

My current job has been burning me out constantly to the point I once started losing my eyesight. Constant headaches and migraines, my hormones are flipped that I've been bleeding almost everyday(sorry for the tmi) so I decided to quit soon and save my health before I die because of it.

@sreekumar.s 2 жыл бұрын

I am a Manager i tried not to put pressure on my staff motivated them daily worked along with them showed them the way how to work and get successful in life. I waited a few months for them to see how they work they became unproductive... Then i understood why people become lazy. If we don't pressure them they don't work...

@beardedbloke2521 4 жыл бұрын

Some people cannot afford to quit or they'll have no money to get by. It's a cruel system and hard to break free. Face financial struggle or face daily stress that's eating away at your soul.

@shivishukla9171 4 жыл бұрын

Truly a great topic thanku Jay for making video on this topic...👍

@famyemil 4 жыл бұрын

Great vid! Could you do one about lazy colleagues? How does one cope with that kind of situation? Thanks again.

@mokasimali5164 4 жыл бұрын

That is brilliant words and feeling when you have a new job and I say I quite to your boss. 😀

@georgebabu9048 4 жыл бұрын

You are fantastic sir. You are giving exactly what people they wanted. Good job

@issella2468 Жыл бұрын

Scary how true this is and how much it affects my life .

@centurywolf Жыл бұрын

Hey man thank you very much. I needed that and it gave me new energy. My Boss is a narcissist tyrant, but now I now how to feel about it

@shaydevi7227 4 жыл бұрын

Just resigned and this helped a lot. Thank you.

@randomclips2244 9 ай бұрын

Poor Ryan deserved better. Yes, their needs to be a balance. But she's obviously out for what she can gain. Needless to say, it's not always bosses, but co-workers too! If co-workers know that they can get away with it, that HR won't do f*** all about it, then they'll disrespect you more!