If you're a teenager who hasn't had s*x yet, please watch this...

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Ай бұрын

Your thoughts about virginity (especially as a teen) will change after watching this video...
Here's the background music I used in this video: • C418 - Subwoofer Lulla...
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@DreadfulDreamsTV782 Ай бұрын

Losing it at 14 is crazy I'm 15 and haven't had a hug from a girl but my Granny says I'm handsome so that's all that matters.

@cherryinc. Ай бұрын

Same bro. keep improving!

@ohyeahjuice Ай бұрын

Honestly I wouldnt think abt havin sex till im like 16 or older. Im 15 rn and i feel like im too young to have sex

@liamcomix Ай бұрын

real tho

@user-qb1eg7je9t Ай бұрын

Yea

@ayefare Ай бұрын

@@ohyeahjuice21 and after marriage is the best choice.

@WorryWert Ай бұрын

Current: 17 still have V-Card will edit this when I have lost it. Like so I can come back to it.

@arcaakvira-jb4zp Ай бұрын

is that igris??????/

@laydenyump3619 Ай бұрын

Let’s go bro, we staying strong 😎

@prettygirljj 29 күн бұрын

staying strong bud

@MaVerik1727 29 күн бұрын

You can do it

@thatoneguyzig 29 күн бұрын

You got this

@narosho 17 күн бұрын

"Veltrixia has the ultimate beard growth oil. Seriously, it made a huge difference for me!"

@MosheNUllman 8 күн бұрын

whats Veltrixia

@ElizabethEdwards-yi3gf Күн бұрын

That was so random 😭

@saints-hc4ef Ай бұрын

Female virgin here, a man’s virginity is the most important thing to me. I want a man who values himself enough to save himself for me. Just as much as a man would want an untouched woman I want the same. When you hold yourself to the same standards you want in someone you will get that. Don’t ever be insecure about your virginity because you will get a much more authentic person for saving it in the long run. These people pressuring you to lose your card are the ones who end up in a toxic relationship with low value people.

@askyazalfa Ай бұрын

As a female virgin too with environment that value "V-card", couldn't be more agree with your statement

@BlissGeometryDash Ай бұрын

someone's jealous 😂 She's a high value woman and she knows it, you're just embarrassing yourself@@pedroiank

@timeme085 Ай бұрын

@@pedroiankyou aren't either bro, dunno why you're bringing hate to this very wholesome comment section

@F.I.N.A.L.I.T.Y. Ай бұрын

@@pedroiankyes she is, as a virgin guy myself (20) i myself am ONLY gonna date and marry a virgin woman because non-virgin women have emotional baggage, they all do Am i the only one that feels the idea of my wife having had sex with someone in the past is betrayal? I cant be the only one If im ever seriously going to date a woman for marriage, its a virgin and damn right shes special, trust me girl we are out here, and we have a lot less sexualized and corrupted mind than others Thats y i left my friend group of guys, they all wanted to date girls to just have sex with them, and im the one there feeling out of place for wanting a deeper kind of love, so i left Good luck to u madam 😊

@-._.-What-Is-Up-._.- 29 күн бұрын

@@F.I.N.A.L.I.T.Y.Same here in India 😁

@Billy-vr123 Ай бұрын

Losing v card at 14 is crazy 💀

@littlebillygoat Ай бұрын

and now its a normal age… hi there other billy

@Billy-vr123 Ай бұрын

@@littlebillygoat 14 IS NORMAL NO WAY Hi billy

@littlebillygoat Ай бұрын

@@Billy-vr123 yeah… one of my friends lost it when he was 10… Anyway, I’m turning 14 this June

@Billy-vr123 Ай бұрын

@@lidhj AYOOO

@JakPiggott Ай бұрын

It’s normal now bro, I’d say anything under 12 is considered crazy nowadays…

@Moru-Likes-To-Sport Ай бұрын

Why is there people having s3x at the age of 14? That's horrible. When I was is 7th grade there was a rumor of two kids having s3x, now I maybe can believe it was true. This generation makes me feel sad. Edit: this might seem wierd but thank y’all for getting this comment so high up ❤

@Neonyikira Ай бұрын

It makes me feel hopeless about this generation aswell, but hey, it's their lives.

@Entropy_v01 Ай бұрын

this generation is f*cked up man thats hard to believe but it is what it is

@armanleroux5725 Ай бұрын

it happened ages ago, don't bring generation into this

@GamingWithJas-ff4yf Ай бұрын

No that cannot be true, I'm 14 and nobody in my class has ever done such a thing. Or is it just me because I'm not that kind of guy? But I don't believe anyone this young can do such a thing, why do you lose hope I our gen, not everybody in the generation is the same. But I swear nobody in my class seems like the type of people who would do that, it could be because im surrounded by other too set classmates, but I don't believe anyone as innocent as my age could do such disgusting actions. Also if it was your generation then why do you look down upon mine, I don't believe anyone could do such disgusting things at my age. I've never even had the thought, the only time I've even had a thought about it has always been like this since I was very young, when i have kids as an adult. You ought to be lying and I don't find it ethical that people so young could do such a thing, I just wont believe it.

@PNW_Sports Ай бұрын

@@GamingWithJas-ff4yfSame here. Literally I’m one of the only people in an 8th grade relationship😅

@nicholasm4013 25 күн бұрын

I’ll be 18 next month and I haven’t even had my first kiss. I’ll edit this comment when I have my first kiss and again when I lose my V card

@thelandex7581 21 күн бұрын

ill be 18 soon as well and i have not had a girlfriend not held a girl’s hand even platonically…im worse off than you and im sure there’s some worse off than us

@SwiftSpeedVortex 21 күн бұрын

A kiss isn’t that bad unless you take it to far.

@aidanpenn7283 20 күн бұрын

Same story except I’m 25

@slicks8152 20 күн бұрын

@@aidanpenn7283 bro i think its starting to become an issue for u now😭 u damn near finishing a masters in college and still not even kissed???

@aidanpenn7283 20 күн бұрын

@@slicks8152 time to get an escort frrr

@TheKing-es6lc 21 күн бұрын

This guy is a real one. I haven't heard anyone say "God's always watching" on KZfaq before, that isn't a pure Christian channel.

@elbowpasta_ Ай бұрын

I lost my v-card in 9th grade when I was 14. I didn't know it was going to affect me the way that it did. Everyone warns you about the risk of STDs and pregnancy, but no one warns you about the emotional toll it takes on you, especially for a developing brain. And it's not something you can even fully understand until you've experienced it. I had no issues with my body until I started having sex, and then I became so overly critical of every minor "flaw" I had. I've struggled with my body image, my confidence, my social life, guilt, shame, the hypersexuality that brought even more guilt and shame, depression, and crippling anxiety ever since. The guy I did it with was not worth it at all. It absolutely ruined me, and even 3 years later, I'm still affected by it. Losing my innocence at 14 years old was the worst decision I have ever made, and there is nothing I wouldn't sacrifice to turn back time and stop myself from ruining my childhood. If you're going to do it, you not only have to think about the physical consequences, but the deeper level of emotional consequences. Having sex before at LEAST 16 years old should not be glorified the way that it is, and it absolutely breaks my heart that middle schoolers believe they have to have sex to fit in. The best advice I could give is that if you aren't comfortable saying no, you shouldn't be saying yes, and just because you're horny, doesn't mean you want or are ready for sex. (I may delete this comment if it gains too much traction.)

@imchinku4017 Ай бұрын

What did you mean by AT LEAST 16?? Dear sis, you shouldn't do that shit before your Marriage or engagement, Now just think about your future hubby/wife(I'm talk about both genders)... What if he'll/she'll know that you do sex at the age of 14 (or with another guy/girl)... Will he/she trust you?? What about your parenting?? How can you grow your kids... But anyways you realize your mistake and you regret for that... God will always help you and take you back from your mistake... I wish your life become so joyful 😊😊

@d3legends101 Ай бұрын

I’m not a Christian but sex should only be after marriage

@user-uq6vb3oq8k Ай бұрын

I ain't reading alllllat

@RandomGamer- Ай бұрын

@@user-uq6vb3oq8k lil bro has the attention span of a dust bunny 😭😭🙏

@ThePoeticAvocado Ай бұрын

I’m 15 and I am wait in for marriage. Everyone around me does it and it makes me really sad

@YRS_Only Ай бұрын

This dude is out here fixing lives. I love this dude Edit: Holy moly, thanks for 1k guys this is my first time achieving this!🥳

@rhysly Ай бұрын

hes a real one 🫡

@Tahirkd6-3.7 Ай бұрын

We're lucky to be subscribed to him.❤

@JakPiggott Ай бұрын

Nah I’m just a messenger, whoever takes my words and puts them into action should be credited bro 👊❤️

@TinyRonSwanson Ай бұрын

Bro I aspire to be like him ngl

@Katie-cz6xd Ай бұрын

@@JakPiggottyour the best teacher you're better than any teacher I'm not gonna lie your literally my therapist you are better than any teacher, therapist you teach us things we don't learn in school. Thank you for always being with us❤

@moichi9801 Ай бұрын

I‘m going to be 18 this year, never held hands with someone, never had my first kiss, at this point it’s not about s3x anymore, I just really want someone to love, but I do fear that it‘ll never come.

@hugedickelliot Ай бұрын

its over for u bro 😭

@kostenko3215 Ай бұрын

@@hugedickelliotbruh he’s 18 not 30 😭crazy

@jamesjoslin671 6 күн бұрын

true but im so ugly and a little overweight I just dont see how its possible to even feel what love is like

@eveoflyn4116 5 күн бұрын

Love always comes full circle. So just keep loving, and soon you'll be loved.

@4isbestnumber 4 күн бұрын

why is this so real

@MosheNUllman 8 күн бұрын

You're a really smart kid my man. Liking a youtuber or anyone online is not very hard but honestly I think I'd choose you as a friend any day.

@falcongamer5867 Ай бұрын

The issue isn't losing it. It's being disloyal or switching relationships frequently

@JakPiggott Ай бұрын

100% bro.

@martinat3884 Ай бұрын

Not gonna lie though I don’t wanna lose it

@existentialchaos8 Ай бұрын

@@martinat3884 That's fine, you don't have to.

@falcongamer5867 Ай бұрын

@martinat3884 I assume you mean temporarily, because if you want a family or a partner, you're gonna have to lose it, unless you're going for adoption

@martinat3884 Ай бұрын

@@falcongamer5867I'd like a romantic partner, but I wouldn't like to be doing anything like that. The thought of that makes me uncomfortable. I'd rather adopt a child.

@general-motors Ай бұрын

As a woman, I'm glad that you're putting yourself out there as a rolemodel for men! Male figures are what our societies lack these days and men suffer for it everyday so I commend your work! Your values are rock solid, your discpline is powerful, and most importantly that positivity is just inspirational. You're a young man with a good head on your shoulders, keep your head up.

@giftedcobaltbee1421 Ай бұрын

Like you guys are any better ?

@soupydoopie07 Ай бұрын

@@giftedcobaltbee1421i dont think she means to diminish womens role in the whole debarcle rather praise this man since hes filling in a positive role for younger men!!

@sigmanuts Ай бұрын

you aint ever losing yours 💀

@ahhhhhhhhhhhh678 Ай бұрын

@@giftedcobaltbee1421 holy hell dude, do you have any media literacy?

@KvnDanGaming Ай бұрын

Das a women?

@fungustoe Ай бұрын

14 yo in 8th here! this is pretty sad but so so so many people, upon reaching secondary school (secondary school is 8-12 where i am from), mature so fast. they completely change between 7th and 8th, and now everyone's dating. i know of a ton of people who have lost their virginity and i know we are not responsible enough for this shit. like there have been pregnancy scares - dawg you are 13 like what?? it's quite crazy. i've also heard of this girl, 12 years old and posts pictures of herself vaping with a transparent bikini. she had an abortion over the summer and gets 100 cad per week as spending money. even as just a 14 yo trend follower, i feel like gen z/gen a are growing up way too fast. thanks for reading this whole essay (. ❛ ᴗ ❛.)

@phenom... Ай бұрын

Holy hell, all that at 12 years old...

@levathon. 26 күн бұрын

Im 13 in 8th too, feels like last year and berfore no one ever dated and now tons do

@fungustoe 26 күн бұрын

@@levathon. ikr??

@muffin._.milk. 25 күн бұрын

an abortion at 12 sounds traumatising :( poor girl

@fungustoe 24 күн бұрын

@@muffin._.milk. poor girl, but she brought it upon herself for throwing herself onto every boy she met

@MrShort090 22 күн бұрын

Bro I’m 14 and still collecting Disney cars toys😂 I don’t give a shit😂😅

@christofell 22 күн бұрын

You're actually living the life, keep it up man 🔥

@MrShort090 21 күн бұрын

@@christofell thanks

@CommentNothingXD 20 күн бұрын

I play Minecraft lol still love the game besides the terrible updates

@startaru 5 күн бұрын

@@CommentNothingXDwdym terrible? think about the axolotls!!!

@CommentNothingXD 5 күн бұрын

@@startaru Nvm they're good

@randomperson2540 Ай бұрын

I didn't realize how much you say "yea"

@andrespujols9721 Ай бұрын

it’s better than um or like

@karolsmyk3532 Ай бұрын

@@andrespujols9721fair enough

@idkwhattocallthisgoogleaco6735 Ай бұрын

Its because he's Australian

@v01D_florr Ай бұрын

I cant un hear it now lmao

@underconstruction7367 Ай бұрын

@@idkwhattocallthisgoogleaco6735Ye same mate

@millerleathergoods7623 Ай бұрын

Can we just admire the amount of vulnerability that this guy expresses. He tell us his good, bad, and ugly, and is truly reshaping this generation. God Bless you bro!

@JakPiggott Ай бұрын

I know the more vulnerable I am in my videos the better impact it has on the viewer so I try and be as authentic as I possibly can ❤️

@Deadrat3829 Ай бұрын

The way my friend lost his at 9 is crazy

@ari_montz22 Ай бұрын

Truly appreciate it. Everyone needs at least one person to stop and say “hey, it’s ok”. Cause maybe if I heard this I could’ve had a better experience yk

@Pikxelzz 25 күн бұрын

That's...not@@Deadrat3829

@LeythLegacy 12 күн бұрын

@@Deadrat3829 wtf..

@raekonxiler8713 21 күн бұрын

if a man’s virginity defines his success, then the society we lived has failed

@purpleplanet888 13 күн бұрын

exactly

@oldsoul1384 Ай бұрын

Really awesome to see someone similar in ages preach and give good advice like this for our age group to relate to. Respect bro 🤙

@gracegordon1010 Ай бұрын

I haven't even had my first kiss yet 😓

@roux6715 25 күн бұрын

16 and same tbh I don’t think I’ll have one for like years if I ever do

@CartGod666 25 күн бұрын

me too gng

@memorializers 25 күн бұрын

Bro, you shouldn't even think of losing your v-card. Especially before 18

@Clenixx 25 күн бұрын

Lol neither

@brycerobinson4482 25 күн бұрын

I’m 18 and also in the same boat 😅

@Ekloven Ай бұрын

I'm a christian (17yr old) in Sweden, one of the most secular countries in the world. Watching my classmates sit on their phones, scrolling Tiktok, downing Monsters, snuffing, talking about girls and all having the same hair- and clothing style I honestly feel sad for them. If you're trying to be like everyone else, nothing with you will stand out to a girl. Maybe most girls won't notice you, but you'll get a real girl one day, not an NPC😂 With that said, I love your content bro!🤝🤝

@johannaheath993 Ай бұрын

Nice to see a fellow Swede with the same values 😂

@rigaldotselk4403 Ай бұрын

It's so cool to know people my age from different countries are like minded, good to know your thoughts.

@46bvexrobotics65 Ай бұрын

downing monsters??

@kyrashaner5320 Ай бұрын

@@46bvexrobotics65 Monster is a brand of energy drink :)

@BIGGUY-qx9bd Ай бұрын

@@46bvexrobotics65 the drink, monster energy

@z1nnnnnn Ай бұрын

Everytime I one of these videos, I always click on it and listen through the whole video, I usually skip other people's videos but I totally stay with Jak.

@bitkumiiii8680 Ай бұрын

This was one of the more helpful and eye opening videos I’ve ever watched, you’re making a real difference in peoples lives. It’s refreshing to see this outlook from someone my own age. Thank you, brother. Got my sub, hope you go far in life man.

@JASSU1856 Ай бұрын

In India, there's no law on s before marriage but most of us see it as a sin and trust that person less.

@elomial724 Ай бұрын

fk India

@thorn_princess Ай бұрын

Yep! It's a morality issue for us here

@KabirSingh-rc7fw Ай бұрын

Ahhh a fellow Indian

@valerioharvey7289 Ай бұрын

Same here in Indonesia. Idk how that thing is so normalized in the west

@EnzoButBetter Ай бұрын

I know right! But still many of us Indians are doing Porn. I started and got addicted to this bad habit at the age of 11. Yes, I regret it. I am still trying to quit it. Lockdown ruined me. Tho, it did teach me some things and gave me some awesome things to remember and good friends who actually support me! I am 15 now. If not for Lockdown, I wouldn't have fallen to this trap. I want to change. But every time I try to, I just end up relapsing sooner or later. I don't know what to do 😫. I feel like a loser. But I WON'T give up NO matter what!

@imperialstarbucks857 Ай бұрын

I’m not gonna lie, I kinda needed this. My friend said he lost his V-Card and he’s in the 9th grade, and it kinda made me feel left behind. I was almost in the exact same situation, not really able to talk to people and flirt or whatever. I’m glad you made this video, and I’m glad it got recommended to me. I feel a lot better about my situation, and I do realize now, being 15 is not ideal to lose your V-Card. Thanks for changing lives, man. ❤

@ben_tripping 28 күн бұрын

bro ngl i was in the same exact situation last yr when I was 9TH grade. It make me feel so behind

@ava4689 27 күн бұрын

Just wait until theres a person in your life that you really feel you can trust. Someone you feel compatable with on multiple levels. That you trust will actually stay by your side for a long time. It might sound corny. But its true. If you find a person like that, its ok to do it at 15-16. I did that, and the person I lost my card to is my husband now. It all depends on your situation.

@Kind_of_Human 27 күн бұрын

My friend lost it at 13 it made me feel soo behind but ik now he was going through alot and he knows he made a mistake

@princeprimrose00 25 күн бұрын

As someone who's 17 and hasn't even kissed yet. It really scares me, the fact that y'all are kids and feel left behind for not doing the deed. You guys are KIDS, you shouldn't have to feel "left behind". That's so messed up.

@PSMCNN 24 күн бұрын

As an adult who’s been out of high school for a year, I can tell you now that the younger you lose your virginity the worse it is for your mental state. There is no good reason to be having $ex before you can legally drive a car Praying that your friend winds up doing okay in life, seriously, that’s no age to be doing those kinds of things

@bigpigcochon794 27 күн бұрын

Dude you manage to say the thing and give your opinion without hurting anyone that's why i absolutely love the content you make

@Calsonstealer 13 күн бұрын

Im soo glad and happy that my mom and dad raised me right im gonna be praying for them every time i get. And always love your parents

@jackhenry9967 Ай бұрын

This guy doesn’t understand how much he has helped me. There is nothing I can do to repay him

@JakPiggott Ай бұрын

Nah bro you should give yourself the most credit, you are the one who has put my words into action, and that’s where most people fail ❤️

@Anonymous_MTB Ай бұрын

Year 8 sex? Wow and to be picking on others at that age. That’s my age. Sounds insane that a kid my age would do it. We just gotta admire the way you make yourself so curable in these vids. Your vulnerability makes these videos feel like a legitimate conversation and makes a lot more of an impact. Love what you’re doing.

@Anonymous_MTB Ай бұрын

When I said curable I meant vulnerable

@JakPiggott Ай бұрын

Haha yeah and it's only getting worse, this video was actually inspired cause I heard some year eights talking about their v cards

@Anonymous_MTB Ай бұрын

@@JakPiggott Just shows how sad this generation is. With access to everything we have online it’s only gonna get worse.

@dooblom 28 күн бұрын

@@Anonymous_MTByou can edit the comment, you know

@Seyi7X 24 күн бұрын

one skl i dont go to but i know here in nigeria has some ppl like that

@beans7363 22 күн бұрын

GOATED advice. Stay strong kings and queens.

@yourpapi8549 Ай бұрын

This is so true thanks for making this 🙏 it will change you for the worse, it doesn’t make you better the emotional toll it can take on you especially when in the younger age group such as this shows when you have a whole life ahead of you and find that one person that values you, not some stupid term

@orionthevixen Ай бұрын

I have no idea who you are, no idea why you popped up on my main page a few days ago. But I love that you have. You made me feel a little bit better the last few days with your shorts and some of your videos. Thank you man. I hope you're enjoying life, and I hope you can keep helping people, spreading clarity and logic.

@gytan2221 Ай бұрын

Same too… and I subscribed to his channel. He is my source of motivation now

@Orion_RVC Ай бұрын

Hell yeah boys. This man is a good man. Ive been watching him for eight months and he has genuinely changed my life

@JakPiggott Ай бұрын

Man I’m so glad to hear that, as I always say everything happens for a reason, I hope you’re enjoying life to man, much love ❤️❤️

@Teh_Goof Ай бұрын

Bro it started with some short for me, now he appears randomly to give me therapy-

@simon1919markos Ай бұрын

Please do not ever stop making videos. I need this KZfaq channel in my life

@EnergeticSpark63 28 күн бұрын

hey

@Goforlive Ай бұрын

Most authentic speaker I have seen in the last days. Away from the topic, very good video

@LG_Serox 27 күн бұрын

this mans videos always making me feel stronger mentally. also the Minecraft music in background slammed me with nostalgia

@chaoticnebula_ Ай бұрын

I heard the " Don't waste your time chasing butterflies. Mend your garden, and the butterflies will come " about 2-3 years back and have been living by it since then. Listening to you Jak motivates me even more to just keep grinding till I make it, thanks brother

@JakPiggott Ай бұрын

That quote is amazing bro and I’ve been living by it the last 2 years as well. Thank you for your words man ❤️❤️

@harvesterofsubs5561 Ай бұрын

Makes sense. Only problem is, if everyone’s a gardener, where will all the butterflies be? Nobody can make a perfect garden, so, sometimes, I believe, a bit of chasing is needed.

@TwilightSagaCullen Ай бұрын

My dads always said it, *You are your friends.* Which is so true. He constantly reminds me of this, to make sure I know who I'm hanging out with. People don't realise how easily influenced they are just by who they hang around. You are even able to see it in movies when a sweet, shy quiet kid starts hanging out with kids that are doing the wrong things (drugs, stealing, ect.) You become these people with the constant pressure of wanting to fit in. Thanks for your words Jak! 🙏 💗

@dndnkdsksd Ай бұрын

that's so true!! i've had this realization this year about how our environment, which is literary everything around us (friends, family, places we go to, what we watch, what we listen to, etc), impacts significantly our lives!! it's crazy! we do need to pay attention to all of those things to make sure we're following the right path!!!

@JakPiggott Ай бұрын

100% bro. You are simply a byproduct of the 5 people you spend your most time with, your dad speaking facts

@masterkid1083 Ай бұрын

My father was someone who would say the same. Honestly, thanks to him, I have grown as a person. I’ve been afraid of having sex or having a girlfriend who desired that and at one point a crush of mine left. When I tell you that was the most terrifying experience, I’m not joking. Everyone at my school at the time badmouthed her and some even decided to make her the but of jokes. Even the introduction I had with her started with a boy telling me she was a psycho who no one played or talked with. And honestly, she was one of the best female friends I’ve ever had in my life. There was even one point where she told me that if I never had been friends with her, she would kill her self.And so when all of this came down and all of the mocking began, I cried. I didn’t believe in myself cause of how I just accepted all the mocking and insulting comments towards her. And during the next year, I nearly took my life. And yet when I finally found strength to talk with someone about this, my parents were immediately overwhelmed with worry. And that’s when my dad told me these words, “ You are the only friend you can truly have.” And that allowed me to actually think about it all. Right now I’m doing great and just got an announcement for my principal’s list award. I’m doing better than I ever have before and I hope that I can find someone that was similar to my female friend. I know it’s a mouthful but my eight grade year hasn’t been all that great. I draw anime, and so people constantly trash on me for drawing loli’s and it’s just terrible. One point a girl wanted me to draw an overly sexualized character for reasons I bet you would understand. Every day it feels like I’m targeted and jerking off never helped either. But I always try to remember my old man’s words, and they’ve helped more times than once. For the boys who just went through or are trying to kill themselves, it ain’t worth it. The amount of people that will miss you and love you is more than you’ll ever know. I know that God loves more than all the people on earth combined just for you, and losing the potential he gave you is to much of a loss to the world. So stay strong boys, we got a full life ahead of us.

@TwilightSagaCullen Ай бұрын

@@masterkid1083 ❤️ I hope your doing well!

@jamesslayer4 24 күн бұрын

This is a video I'm really glad to see. People in my life have been pressuring me to watch more mature stuff, or get with a girl, and I'm only 15. I'm so glad you are here for me and guys like me. Cheers to that.

@boomboom-qr7ds Ай бұрын

Thank you for saying this!! My generation needs this message. You really are changing hearts dude!! God bless

@Punainen4 Ай бұрын

Im waiting until marriage. Have a good day brother.❤

@PNW_Sports Ай бұрын

Same🙏

@JesusLovesYou225 Ай бұрын

Same.❤❤

@TheBionics. Ай бұрын

same here.

@Orion_RVC Ай бұрын

Same

@pleasantginge4636 Ай бұрын

Same👍🙏

@souppletons Ай бұрын

as a female, your videos actually made me a better person than i was before. yeah, these are like some “boy-talks,” but i somehow understand and it really changed me. thanks, jak!

@setux. Ай бұрын

Proud of you

@Charlie00193 Ай бұрын

Same here!

@souppletons Ай бұрын

@@Charlie00193 nice! glad to know im not the only one, lmao.

@thorn_princess Ай бұрын

Same here !!

@Charlie00193 Ай бұрын

@@souppletons Same here loll

@t4yt3rt0teditsss 21 күн бұрын

i honestly needed this. people in my age group talk about losing their v card and intimate relationships with others. i honestly haven’t cared for or thought about it because i want good grades and to have a stable life once i go into college. this video definitely showed how much you should value your education, i have never seen your channel but you seem like an amazing person. thank you for this and i sent this to some friends to show them what they should really value in this age group. thank you so much Jack! much love and respect for you for speaking about this topic :)

@steven10757 10 күн бұрын

I love that you popped in my recommended so so much. Thank you so much for that emotional, vunerable video. I really appreciate it

@andrewcurren549 Ай бұрын

It's... Really sad how much of a focus Western culture puts on s3x and s3xuality. We are all immensely complicated people with a huge amount of different parts to our personalities. Why should we focus on the ONE thing everyone on the planet has in common? Yeah, we're all capable of having s3x, but I would much rather people know that I'm a good singer, that I run cross-country, that I love reading, that I'm honest. Whether I still have my V-Card, the fact that I'm gay? Those are the very bottom of the list. Those are the things I want people to know about last, to complete their picture of me, because in the long run those things aren't very important to my friends.

@JakPiggott Ай бұрын

Worrying about losing your v card is usually a symptom of a lack of purpose of lack of goals. Sometimes who was focused and driven doesn’t care one bit if they get laid or not, especially in high school, even middle school nowadays. I believe having purpose solves this problem, tremendously

@Quinn_Thieszen Ай бұрын

I support you but I can’t support you being gay.

@TheDuck624 Ай бұрын

You run cross-country? Absolute W

@hhhhhh-vi6sq Ай бұрын

and other non-western cultures who will literally execute you for not being straight? and the many more that will socially exclude you? its not just western cultures

@TearleBear Ай бұрын

@@JakPiggott yeah definitely. if ur actually happy with who u are and u have goals in life, being laid isnt ur main priority. but now kids are pressured into losing it by other kids and sometimes adults.

@nathieboy1987 Ай бұрын

I was robbed of my innocence at 14 by a 'friend' in my group. I was horrifically assaulted and subsequently blackmailed and assaulted countless more times until I finally built up the courage and strength to stand up to him when I was 17. I wish I'd been able to fight him off the first time, but the young, innocent me froze and didn't know what to do. It completely screwed up my teenage years and now in my mid 30's, I'm still dealing with the consequences of that time. For me, intimacy is not the beautiful experience that it should be. I remember back in those days the v card wasn't really important, though everyone was aware of it.. but I felt like a stranger in that regard. My experiences in my teenage years has really destroyed that for me. Thank you for this video. I had never seen one of your videos before, however I wanted to say that I have been impressed by your mature approach to a subject that can so easily be trivialised.

@Lightnang_strike Ай бұрын

womp womp

@DoormanSoorman Ай бұрын

@@Lightnang_strike is what your family will say once you die

@adam-dx6hh Ай бұрын

I can’t imagine what you’ve gone through, I’m really sorry for you, and I know it’s not much but you’ve got my full support.

@lizard_girl_ Ай бұрын

i hope you can recover soon from it❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

@nathieboy1987 Ай бұрын

@@adam-dx6hh Thank you, that's very kind of you 🙂

@Caleb-lo1vv 10 күн бұрын

Even though I’m 10 and not in Highschool, I TOTALLY agree with you. I have stopped a lot of addictions because of watching your videos and I will not stop watching your videos. Thank you

@Lagmonke Ай бұрын

I love this guy. All it is, is just a one to one. His voice, his inspiring messages. The music. He's like the father we never knew we needed, and that elder brother everyone loves.

@Beltslippen Ай бұрын

This girl likes me and I can’t even tell her back that’s where I’m at Ten likes it will happen

@EthicalSnake-uq1pk Ай бұрын

DO IT 😏

@afterthechaos89 Ай бұрын

Do it!!

@Euphemismm Ай бұрын

Gotta tell her broski:)

@LXG987 Ай бұрын

If you know she likes you and you like her too you should do it

@McGunalds Ай бұрын

Did you tell her gang

@alexis56goat Ай бұрын

Man you a real big brother that can be always trusted. You are giving us valuable lessons that no one has ever given to us. I appreciate your content from the other side of the planet

@kaleofn6069 Ай бұрын

Hey Jak you may or may not see this comment but I really enjoy your videos and how real you are, I am a young teenager and just trying to figure things out in life. Please dont stop making videos I feel like I can learn really valuable lessons because of how down to earth you are. Keep it up man!

@thereinforcementshavearriv8288 Ай бұрын

Instant subscribe, this is the kind of conversations that some people really need, and I’m glad you have the confidence to have them

@danielsilvanusp Ай бұрын

I can't express how glad I am that you made this and how much I agree with you. I'll be 18 this September and I have seen many during my school years succumb to these bs and prioritise relationships and s3x in their lives but I can proudly say my parents raised me well. I hope you continue making these because unfortunately the youth these days need it whether or not they're religious. As a Muslim I say we need more people like you (from any background) to fix our youth or these next few generations would be the last

@xoseoa 28 күн бұрын

im a girl but this helped me a lot, im 17 and people in my year group act like it's not a big deal or something that everyone does which can make me feel really behind and i really relate to what you said, so thank you for making this video ❤

@MissesWitch 23 күн бұрын

Really love your video, Someone like this was significantly needed on KZfaq~ So many young people are without guidance and they both seek and need guidance~ I've done alot of one-on-one private guidance but I'm really happy someone is doing it for a wider audience! It's needed more than ever now!

@Dianacat501 Ай бұрын

I'm even saving my first kiss for my wedding day. 💖🗿👑

@Orion_RVC Ай бұрын

Damn bro thats what my parents used to tell me to do when i was little. Take me back man. I got lost

@Orion_RVC Ай бұрын

@Mike.Hawk-Hertz thanks man I appreciate it

@JakPiggott Ай бұрын

Not bad, respect 🤝

@Heker145 Ай бұрын

Same i haven't lost my lipginity LOL

@tallajc-mt2zr Ай бұрын

That’s inspirational

@seanfrancisleo Ай бұрын

Much respect for this video bro honestly. I can’t imagine how young teens in school listening to peers talk about these things. In today’s society, they probably think something is wrong with them. That’s so far from the truth. If you’re a virgin in your teens/early 20’s, BE PROUD. Don’t ever be pressured by society to lose your V-Card, don’t ever! I made that MISTAKE and I regret it to this day. If I could take it back i would. Gents, don’t ever feel pressured from your “peers” or “friends” to lose your V-Card, wear your V-Card as a badge of honour!

@JakPiggott Ай бұрын

Amazing message Sean, I love it man. This video was actually inspired because I heard some year 8’s or 9’s talking about having sex when I walked past them at lunch break at school, I knew I had to make a video after that 😂

@jacoblea1023 Ай бұрын

I just want to take a moment and say thank you. This world is a very corrupt place and there are lots of people who have their minds wrapped around the wrong things. It consumes them and as a 10th grader I have been witness to it. Thankfully, I have surrounded myself in a friend group that is largely virgins especially my closest friends that I regularly spend time with outside of school. Sometimes I begin to get influenced the wrong way. I just want to thank you for allowing me to take a step back and not make a choice I'll regret. Your work is amazing and I would love to meet you one day. Thank you!

@syafaatmulya5505 22 күн бұрын

Really helpful and out of the western culture contexts.. As always you spread the positivity to the people in the west.. Full of respect from your Muslim's brother 😇

@Screechy_123 Ай бұрын

bro this is like free therapy edit: holy thanks for 200 likes! edit 2: chat thanks for 300 like!! Edit 3: chat tf thanks for 700 likes

@Billy-vr123 Ай бұрын

Fr❤

@RuralRiders Ай бұрын

That's because it is

@JakPiggott Ай бұрын

Much love man ❤️❤️

@KeenanMorgan-us1xk Ай бұрын

So true!

@sineto7412 Ай бұрын

real

@BraytonHarkness Ай бұрын

I believe wait till marriage then you can lose your V-Card but you try for kids once you’re financially stable and can afford it or when you’re mature enough to know the responsibility and care you have to have to have a kid

@hureak1456 Ай бұрын

thats exactly what i think

@faressalhi2728 Ай бұрын

me too bro , I don't want to run through a girl without her father's permission

@JakPiggott Ай бұрын

True bro, you’ll go far with this mentality, so keep it yeah ❤️

@robincordero3 Ай бұрын

Same

@Waczy 23 күн бұрын

I’m so glad u are making videos bro u are one of the most influential person on this app, keep up the good work.

@garbeanzo6207 Ай бұрын

This is what I needed to hear right now. I never really thought about it but this helps me a lot.

@AIphaRhino Ай бұрын

Im from germany and i can clearly Tell you, people are so obsessed with Loosing it, Age of consend is 14 and Most Girls, just half pretty ones dont make it past 14 tbh. Im Almost 17 as a Boy and i had Worrys that its Bad Not to have lost it but i Kinda accepted it at this Point, If ill lose it its okay and it Not it is what it is. I Like ur Content very much, keep it up

@Mao23492 Ай бұрын

Yes bro its sick im from Slovakia and in my class 4 girls lost their virginity at 14

@JakPiggott Ай бұрын

Yeah bro don’t rush, I can almost guarantee you your dream girl doesn’t care if you’ve lost it or not, she probably values if you haven’t lost it. So stay true to yourself and stay authentic man, keep being the best you ❤️

@marsisflat Ай бұрын

they all get ran through and we get the old

@retain9706 Ай бұрын

I'm from Germany too

@MaddoxOConnor Ай бұрын

this dude man there's to much to say. Ever since he popped up on my fyp, his words, they just clicked in my head, they just stood out to me, i was addicted to p0rn, i was too scared to talk to girls, and I wasn't doing very well in school at the time, but i stared watching his content for a while and watching this dude as a fellow Australian, he completely changed my whole perspective on life, people and everything around me, he just talks about such relatable things that makes me feel good knowing that i can watch this dudes content to learn about things that I was to scared to ask people, but Jak helped me with my confidence, my ability to control my urges and be able to talk to girls without being uncomfortable, even my grades have gone up since I've been watching this dude but right now I'm in grade 9 getting better overtime and he's helped me so much with his content, so thank you Jak, you saved me.

@JakPiggott Ай бұрын

Man you just made my night and I don't think you understand how valuable that is. Hearing it from a fellow Aussie makes it hit deeper as well. So happy to hear this bro, keep grinding ❤

@Lord_JEZZ 4 күн бұрын

The true definition of a man. Amazing vid, bro. Keep it up 👍🏼

@Kurosek Ай бұрын

Being 21 years old, never been in any relationship, never lost V card + I am disabled, can't even find job meanwhile most of my friends already are engaged, have kids, have stable job etc It is kinda depressing but Hey, maybe one day I will succeed too

@jaroslavgibala214 Ай бұрын

You will be alright babe ! Don't worry, just keep smiling, okay

@thenexerium 29 күн бұрын

Keep going, things will change, you just gotta never stop trying, have a good one

@alessiodushka7812 28 күн бұрын

I have to say, being already married and have kids at 21 is wild. I mean this is probably the best age of your life! You should travel the world, make friends, learn new things. Just enjoy life my friend. Your time to get married will come too.

@divinrth5187 27 күн бұрын

sounds exactly like me, but 20

@slothfan3323 27 күн бұрын

Dude, don't worry, you're still super young. Work on yourself, learn new things, get new experiences, your time will come too!

@mr.demonetized733 Ай бұрын

Your honestly a legend, thank you so much for helping out guys like me

@user-bq1wj5pl2u Ай бұрын

im a teenager, and this is the stuff that no one knows about/ there isnt enough of this sort of content. you are so open with your audience, its amazing. thanks man

@ritchq4832 Ай бұрын

Your content has really helped me to appreciate the little moments in life, I don't know how or why, but your videos always have a lesson to be taught regardless of applicability.

@PlayWithYeezy 23 күн бұрын

Thank you, this has changed my whole life perspective.

@madeleine774 Ай бұрын

This is amazing! We need more of this in today's society!

@juliadeleon9705 Ай бұрын

I love that this is being talked about! especially in this generation where hook up culture is so normalized and considered an everyday practice for kids as young as 13!!!! it's absolutely insane, and it's so sad that most people are just in this deep daze and won't understand until later the enormously negative impact these types of things have of them not just physically and spiritually, but emotionally and mentally... kudos to you man for bringing it into the light and speaking on it🥳

@5ar- 29 күн бұрын

thank you so much man this topic has ruined my mind for so long and i couldnt escape it It felt like its eating my from the inside and i thank you so much for this video bro god bless you

@Enclaveforever 28 күн бұрын

Dude I want to thank you for this video since it really spoke to me. I’m an 11th grader in the U.S and I feel self conscious about some of my friends telling me about losing their v cards. I’ve been told I’m a relatively handsome guy but I’m horrible at talking to girls if I find them attractive. I’ll be watching more of your content to try to get advice on self-improvement, since I currently struggle with turnings that I’m sure you can help me overcome. Thanks and keep up the great work. G’day from California

@hildebrand8916 Ай бұрын

This is the advice I really needed to hear. It’s great to get wisdom from a fellow year 12, someone who actually understands the pressures of modern teenagerhood and can put it so eloquently. Thank you man, I really appreciate your sincerity, your acceptance and your consideration to share guidance like this with us.

@JakPiggott Ай бұрын

Thanks brother Jack, I hope you realise your comment inspires me bro, I hope year 12 ain't stressing you out to much ahah ❤

@CoChlo66 Ай бұрын

@back-cy8qm bro that's not cringe

@Krypton64 Ай бұрын

Jak, your sentence "I had no authority to worry about this shit" is one of the best sentences I've ever heard in my entire life. And I want to add that your content is funny, remarkably good, and I learned, and still do, so much from it. Keep going, you're doing great. :)

@JakPiggott Ай бұрын

That's it brother, thank you for your words, comments like these are the reason I'm still going today so I thank you man ❤

@adityabhadauriya4815 22 күн бұрын

The community is so full of mature and tolerate people, i always like such channels. Gotta subscribe, its a duty for me 😁

@ThatGuyAgain666 Ай бұрын

Going through some things and insecurities, been watching your content and it's been helping, thanks.

@puntuples3306 Ай бұрын

As a fellow Australian your age, you’re changing lives. You changed the way I act and look at myself honestly.

@JakPiggott Ай бұрын

Means the world to me to hear this man ❤

@animal_lover3737 Ай бұрын

Thank you sir, I know a couple of people who have already lost their v-card as freshman in highschool. We’re too young for it. They made that choice, and even if I don’t agree with it, I still respect them. Your advice is helpful to me. Just hearing your voice is an inspiration to keep going and keep at it.

@Pig_Man06 18 күн бұрын

Thank you dude. You've opened up my mind and given my a new outlook on this aspect of life. I haven't cared for a while (you listen to enough Weezer you get used to it) but the social pressure and anxiety has been eating at me. I don't want to lead a life of sexual gratification, I want to find someone out there who I can enjoy a night with just being ourselves or having a slow dance like a bunch of dorks. Take it easy fellas and don't do meth.

@Jakeinthemidlle 27 күн бұрын

I love you man your giving me the best life advice anyone has ever gave

@tillyjade8403 Ай бұрын

it's crazy to me how i only just realised that your in year 12, like you're only a year above me. but it is so inspirational to listen to something like this especially still being in an Australian high school, so i appreciate how you have come about this topic and made it more of a safe space to talk about these sorts of issues.

@itzpurplegirl Ай бұрын

What type of people you hang around is so important. it influences you greatly, your thought process, and how you go about things. Bad association is horrible. I am a Christian and saving for marriage. All of the people in my class were in this one big group I wasn't a part of, and I felt like the odd one out since they were all bad association. However, I had one truly good friend in a grade below me.

@JakPiggott Ай бұрын

Oh 100% brother. I remember back in year 9 when I was hanging around people who would just clown me for making videos, making progress in my life was so hard. Until I started distancing myself from them then I started to see a lot more progress, it’s crazy how it works tbh

@dallinblizardbluhealer1495 29 күн бұрын

I'm not insecure about any of this but I appreciate what your doing man this culture that's been created by the porn epidemic is terrible and I'm grateful by you trying to combat it

@justkallmej2983 10 күн бұрын

Really good video man, your helping a lot of young men

@Brasidas.3319 Ай бұрын

Imagine your future wife losing her v-card to another man. Would you like that? That is the same the other way around. EDIT: people in the comments keep calling me immature for saying "I don't want a non-virgin girl". But I never said that, so read better please.

@gytan2221 Ай бұрын

I personally would not mind that much… and I’m still a virgin

@dakingofbrickz Ай бұрын

@@gytan2221L

@Brasidas.3319 Ай бұрын

@@gytan2221 you wouldn't mind to see the love of your life with someone else? Ok...

@samzy5844 Ай бұрын

@@Brasidas.3319 I mean at that point neither partner would know if they were the love of each other's life. I would not be against that as if my future wife thought that man was the love of her life but wasn't then that would be ok. If we knew that we were the love of each other's life and were in a relationship together that would most likely be cheating which is not what he meant.

@Brasidas.3319 Ай бұрын

@@samzy5844 yes, but I'm trying to say something different. I'm trying to say that losing it to someone I know will never be the love of my life is wrong.

@AzuraZay Ай бұрын

Brother your helping all these kids and i love it. You helped me growing up.

@a.think.a Ай бұрын

I love how respectful this man is with his words.

@HollowLove_ 27 күн бұрын

I’m 17 and this channel is saving my life😂🙏

@DaBoyLaith Ай бұрын

I think your videos have a very big value For us teenagers. Continues so on!

@gytan2221 Ай бұрын

He sounds like our dads

@valerioharvey7289 Ай бұрын

@@gytan2221 Yeah. Crazy how he is the same age as some of his viewers

@JakPiggott Ай бұрын

Thanks heaps bro, just sharing my thoughts hoping to inspire ❤️

@gytan2221 Ай бұрын

@@valerioharvey7289 I think I’m around his age or even older. I’m in college now

@arps54 Ай бұрын

This is probably the best video I've ever seen on KZfaq. The fact that you're teaching so many people about such an underrepresented topic is so important. Also the part about instant gratification is moldable to anything in people's (especially teen) lives. Definitely subbed after watching this because your content resonates with me and after scrolling for hours on KZfaq this is the kind of stuff that gets people to have a reality check and just stop what they're doing and think.

@SkidtYT Ай бұрын

man, this guy whos just a few years older than me. Helps me with alot of my struggles, thanks man

@sleepy5445 7 күн бұрын

You're lucky because my friend has a girlfriend who he talks about to me. He not only tells me really intimate details about them but rubs it in my face that I don't even have a gf. I've told him that I'm not trying to force things with the girls that I talk to and that I'm waiting for marriage. He has gotten to the point where he literally says that he is better than me because he has a girlfriend. I'm almost at the point I'm going to confront him about it if he tells me anything else. Thanks for making this video it definitely makes me feel better about my choices and helps me stand strong against the pressures of the world. God bless and keep up the good work!

@danielgessel9185 Ай бұрын

Am in 9th grade, i got a girlfriend recently and my confidence and energy skyrocketed. But i will never dare to boast and make other ppl feel bad about not having one

@eddieagui1554 Ай бұрын

I was 21 when i lost my v card...no rush , guys.

@IanFurminger Ай бұрын

I’m 23 and don’t feel as if theres any hope I’ve haven’t even been a date with a girl in 2 1/2 years the dating scene is terrible idk how I’m ever gonna lose it, it’s just gonna keep getting harder and harder the older I get 😭😭

@eddieagui1554 Ай бұрын

@@IanFurminger u r young. Dont fret about it.

@dedxdx1141 Ай бұрын

Me too brother, and yeah it happends the same haha, your "friends" kind a judging you about it, and now they look so different but in a bad way.

@IanFurminger Ай бұрын

@@eddieagui1554 how can I not it’s just gonna keep getting more and more embarrassing the older I get and some girl isn’t gonna wanna date a virgin guy in his early to mid 20’s idk what to do

@alpheendomination Ай бұрын

@@IanFurminger If she doesn't want to date you because of that she isn't a good person. You will find someone. The average age of a man finding his "soulmate" is 28, you're fine.

@SierraMoore-nb6cc Ай бұрын

We need more people like you!! (Also hiiii Aroace here and I so respect you)

@emilydennett3933 25 күн бұрын

I did it with the best person possible when I felt ready and it wasn't the best feeling ever but knowing that the guy listened to me is just so securing that he was right

@xxtreme22 Ай бұрын

i also never thought about losing v-card or shit like that,i have a goal in my life and i am focused to get there and i know i will find my girl which i truly love,not just becuase she looks really good but how her inner self is,thanks for the vid jack your video really help me keep making these ❤

@JakPiggott Ай бұрын

I absolutely love your mindset my brother, keep it and the universe will bless you ❤

@xxtreme22 Ай бұрын

@@JakPiggott thank you so much:)