Or decreases, that's why some people divorce.

All glory be to the most high God in heaven!

Not appropriate for here.

Love is always appropriate any and everywhere. Even the Messiah, the *SON* of the living G-D, showed love to those crucifying him as he hung on a tree. 🩸 What may I ask, would cause you to think that love isn’t appropriate?

What if one of the spouses is (or becomes) abusive to the other one?

@@ONEFAITHofJESUS “I was sent only to the lost sheep of Israel.” what comes after this is your changed Bible, he was addressing himself only to jews. He helped the Caananite woman only after she said this: '“Lord, help me!” Jesus answered, “It is not right to take the children's bread and give it to the dogs.” The woman said, “Yes, Lord, but even the dogs eat the crumbs that fall from their masters' table.” Then Jesus answered, “Woman, you have great faith!' The childrens bread: means himself , his body for his people, the ''bread'', and according to him the Cannaanite woman was a dog, a foreign to what he was sent for to help....he never said he is God, I and the father am one means i am part of the one who created me, same as u are part of God and anyhuman and living creature and everything that exists inb this Universe, jews and christians i see that they understood things differently, and the ones who modified Bible substracting and adding to it, did a very very wrong thing.

See *SON* of G-d in bold print in my comment above. Matthew 16:16, Peter's confession is the Rock 🪨 of the TRUE identity of the Lord's Christ. There may have been some alterations in the New Testament but definitely more than enough truth and accuracy to be saved. The few who are true Christians have also been born of the Spirit and have the promise of being guided into ALL truth. Paul(Saul of Tarsus), who was personally converted by JESUS the CHRIST and became Apostle to the Gentiles who said: “For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth; to the Jew first, and also to the Greek.” Romans 1:16

Thats lovely.

Lot of pressure from his mum Negative impact can last for long time

Came here to say just this.

I agree❤ Get to know yourself, appreciate/love yourself first. Then you can truly care & love someone else🕯🌟

Very true

I think you mean most people.

I 'm sorry, but l lived, 44 years with a narssis, lt can be done. The years pass fast, 2kids and6 gr kids. You have to want to make it , work, pray a lot, wait love, does come. Divorce, is selfish, it hurts every body, even you. God meant 1 man, 1woman married.! I believe God puts people, together. Esp.jews.although, l didn" find out l was Jewish until much later, my Jewish grandmother's, assimilated, married gentiles my husband being Jewish, l didn't know.. his family, was catholic.l met him, in a pentecostal church. I was raised, pentecostal, yet, we were .married, there, in 44years ago. That long, we might as well end, together!!!!!❤😂😅😊❤

It's God's choice, but he gave us a choice, too. He does not override, our will. He makes the opportunity, but leaves it open, for us.❤😅

That woman annoyed the F outta me.

This is the real problem for him. He's not marriage material, stuck in his adolescents forever. I don't think he's a bad person, just immature. He needs a mother forever.

i agree that marriages should be supportive and loving but you can't hold your spouse hostage and terrorize them with feeling inadequate because you're neurotic like this woman. sometimes its just going to be bland.

Sometimes that happens, in my honest opinion that really is how good marriages survives. People often confused lust with love and then they get over it so fast and I am thinking did you really love that person? Love is built on mutual understanding, care and respect. It is certainly not always about love at first sight that just doesn't really happen to majority of people. We are fed those romantic fairytales and then people want that. We need to take a hard look at ourselves and say is where am I in life that I need a partner. I am not really a person so fixated on marriage but I feel that building that relationship through time may show up and built on respect, mutual trust and then love but that requires time.

Those long beards many ultra-orthodox Jews have would be a turn off for me!

​@autumn111155551 as a muslim i don't like long beards either. My husband respects my wish in that regard.

I think Miriam wants someone who looks manly, not just a good father for her kids and supporting husband. He loves her though. Sadly that it doesn't evolve into romantic love for everyone. It is misleading that this matchmaker tries to convince people that love is inevitable later.

@@autumn111155551 yeah that is definitely a no for me, not a big fan of those beards

You have no idea what love is. And neither does that horribly annoying woman. THAT'S why she's frustrated.

She seems very overbearing!

Totally agree

When she said he was 34 my jaw dropped. He looks and acts like barely 20.

She was speaking passionately while talking to the rabbi. I didn’t take it as anger. I think she’s not feeling fulfilled in her marriage. She wants to feel but is lacking, being in love and is missing/wanting romantic feelings towards her husband.

She was bright red! You could see one of the guys she dated was very handsome but blurred out! She was not in love with this man, they were just friends really! So unfortunate

My impression is that she did too much drinking and drugging in her early years.

She's super annoying.

I think she really wants to love him but doesn't.

no just really immature

And it can be toxically partriarchal.

Why?

Yeah, I wonder if Miriam is feeling disappointed with her spouse

Marriage is security for the woman she needs to know that If she and her partner have children he'll be providing until at least 18 yrs of age.

I'm not religious to And I fully appreciate that marriage is a contract. I mean I was married at the Town Hall according to the Italian Republic civic laws by a civil servant. It was quite a long cerimony, many laws were mentioned, a contract legally binding was formalized and the word God was never mentioned. Where is the problem?

this woman is neurotic. i agree that its okay to feel connection but you're not always going to feel connected. taste and moods change. you can't hold your spouse hostage by demanding that they feel the same way or always meet your desire to change with them

💯 🙌🏼

Yes, not everyone is cut out for marriage. Better to stay single if you are like that.

Not everyone has to be good looking to land with a handsome partner. It's not like a law of physics. It is more about if it was destined to be.

That he does, he's super immature.

😂😂😂😂

Define love. Then talk.

That's why I put quotes around the word: Love. Hard to define. @@chickenlover657

Its done because married women don't show their hair in public.

The rapper was raised by a narcissist, and he is an infantantalized narcissist. Personality disorders do not change.

​@meeeka but when muslim women cover their hair, they are being oppressed... that is the narrative in the West...

God can change people, God can change anyone, the Bible tells us that what is impossible with man,is possible with God, God still has a lot of work to do in me but He has very undeservingly done a lot in me already, we cannot change our selves, the Bible tells us that without God we can do nothing,we all need God in everything and for everything! praise the name of God forever in Jesus name!

50% is not that high. I felt sorry for Miriam even though she may have expected too much from an contracted marriage to begin with.

She's not happy

@@mtate1285 well happiness is an inside job, other people or things can't do that for a person. It has to be a person's job to make themselves happy even in a small aspect.

What?! That is absurd! She is talking about Expectations placed on someone, that is expectation and pressure to not disappoint to be married to someone you may never ever fall in love with, I have heard it several times in various interviews about the Hasidic community. That doesn't have anything to do with god, that is coercion and manipulation do as your told so we won't shun you or force you in otherwords. She is absolutely right in that aspect. She was very lucky she had a high school sweetheart, not everyone is so lucky. People sure like to throw around the word soulmate and have people not married their soulmate? Yup more times than a person can count. Rabbis are religious leaders they are not marriage or relationship counselors and usually don't have any kind of training in such a way either.

exactly. she didn't get married until 36. she wasn't sitting in a nunnery.

If they know in advance, don’t look for an orthodox or Hasidic arranged marriage! If it comes up later, time to get a get.

@@mariekatherine5238a get = a divorce

I think they either have to hide it or leave the community

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What happens one or both of the partners are attracted to the same sex