Exactly thank you 👏👏👏💯

It's anonymous

it is a waste of the systems time and resources.

Amen💞

Exactly. This upset me so badly.

@elle I thought too. He doesn’t have a word to say

You do realize this case was about what his baby mother did to his wife's daughter. I'm sure he has spoken up many times with the 22 other court dates

@@FaithandNova yeah but why not support your wife here? Many times it’s the women involved in the relationship that handle all the court stuff bc the men just don’t like to do court

NOT ONE 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️WE KNOW WHO CALLING THE SHOTS.... NOTHING WRONG WITH A WOMAN WHO HANDLES THE BUISNESS BUT SHE A BIT MUCH IF YOU LOVE THAT MAN YOU GONE MAKE OR FIND A WAY TO DEAL WITH " THE MOTHER " OF HIS KIDS YALL ARE ONE NOW.

Exactly misdirection

Yes, it is a messy situation.

Very sad.

yeah, well, welcome to reality

It looks bad because it’s on TV but if you go to the family court in your city you will see this is happening every day and all day because when the relationship in many women feel the children belong to them and they should be the ones to decide when the father see the children or not. As a result of that CPS, the police department, the sheriffs department, the local church, friends and family, and a host of others are brought into a toxic situation when in most cases to children should be with both parents equally in a 50-50 custody situation if the parents cannot work it out

@@rashardstallworth9240 and you said all that to say what exactly because what the original commenter said still stands…..it’s SAD!!! 🤦🏾‍♀️🥴

Right. I can see one, maybe two; but damn! How do you have four kids with a guy that's NOT trying to wife you?

Charnell B to be honest I was not surprised.

He seems a little childish... so I wouldn't even want a ring from him. Lol tbh, he's nothing to be bitter about 🤷🏽‍♀️.

Yea cause a dam ring would have made everything thing better right SMH. A lot of us know our worth and its more than a dam ring.

I'm just saying that's how she is feeling you can see it and it's not just about a ring but when you have one it's not so easy for him to leave like he did. 4 kids with a man your not married to and he treating you like y'all just dating and you think she does not have issues with self-esteem?

Yes and there are so many cases where kids ARE REALLY being abused to the point of unbelief ..

I agree

This happened to me and I knew exactly who it was because the things they "alleged", were all assumptions they made. Down to my fiancé's name (which they thought my son was a junior). And only ONE person thought that, so it was obvious!!! Thank god I never cleared up any rumors. EVERY SINGLE CLAIM MADE ON THE REPORT WAS FALSE and proven to be so. They went as far as saying I smoked weed, everyone that knows me knows I don't smoke. I took a drug test so quick! LMAO I've consumed alcohol occasionally as a 27 year old, but I don't even drink anymore. The funny thing is, this person tried to take me to court, and they couldn't win so this came shortly after. I just did what I needed to without talking crap about them, and without retaliating. Im blessed and moving on. They're stuck and miserable. And they have no access to me nor my children. Or our business. Safe to say, this person could never be around me or my kids.

exactly right.

👏👏👏👏💯👏👏👏Facts

shes definitely crazy too 🤣

A hot steamy mess

She had a mental problem and she's not to bright either. She needs to get over him marrying someone else and move on. The Dad might snap one day if she keeps on.

Exactly. She’s up there being emotionally strained while he’s sitting there looking at the fruits of his messy balls.

@@random-fe9si You are too right and too funny 😂.

@@random-fe9si not the fruit of his messy balls 🤭

Same. Don’t have time for it !

Don't be discouraged from dating a man with kids. I mean Alicia Keys and her Sister wife of Swizz Beatz get along and even go on vacations together. It's like they are one big 2 wife family. Attain to be like Alicia. 😂😂😂 and I'm being sarcastic. I would never.

I agree.

I just said this verbatim 🤦🏾‍♀️

It’s way to much..

It's so sad, the kids experience so much negativity.

It hurts when the kids get brought into this mess. Defendant is nasty and wants to cause trouble.

@MDB 99 exactly what I was thinking

@Mdb what they seem to not realize is his wife is suing, not him...so he didn’t even have to show up🤷🏽‍♀️!

@@nerdseyeview2936 at first I agree with him not being there but I believe that he is there for support of his wife

Slop sitting there in court.

Except the plaintiff. Lol.

@@rosej5029 lol right.

I agree. Relationships can be challenging enough between a man and woman, then if there is a bitter and jealous baby mama it can be too much baggage.

I'm not dating no man that has 3 or more kids with the same woman and they were never married.

@@NDAILY1 I've NEVER dated a man with more than one kid.

I know I wouldn't want his kids or his ring.

Right, to many children for me.

Outside of my concern of domestic violence briefly spoken by defendant the man didn't do anything wrong here I can honestly say he had children with one woman moved on now what about those women who may have a deceased husband and six or seven kids let alone four and are still vital and Youthful and desires a man best believe she deserves her opportunity for love and support y'all act like many kids is a deal-breaker for a person who's willing to take on the foreseeable and none foreseeable future with those kids. They may be set or maybe willing to give but those children will need love support so again it's alright if you can't do it but it looks strange to shame the next person who's willing to do something that's good and Worthy

Yes this is sad. And the babies are between this all.

PeriodT 🤷🏽‍♀️ Like 🤦🏽‍♀️tf are they thinking 🥴

So very obvious

@Bree Yah🤣I wouldn’t be saying that out loud if I were you

@Bree Yah only a matter of time before your husband pumps & dumps you too bro

I’m getting lying bitter baby mama vibes🤷🏽‍♀️! The judge proved she lied before her son ever mentioned sexual abuses!

@@nerdseyeview2936 exactly

@@nerdseyeview2936 me too

It usually doesn’t go well if someone interrupts.

He didn’t have to say a word, his wife was very well prepared to prove her case. He was basically there for support.

Yes, and at the very least, they should be fined heavily.

LMAO 😂

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

I swear I was thinking the exact same thing?

yeah i was so confused

@@souheartt3825 ikr it’s very confusing

She has zero self worth,this was probably the 1st person to make her feel special.

@@sinclairreed5367 after being left with 4 kids, and being abused I’d have zero self esteem too…IF what she saying is true

He's not a man or a father. He sitting back letting them fight. He needs to Stand the F UP.

@@canisdeumnox4925 Back off ... you need to get out of your mama's basement and get a real life...

@@AnneOhn123 true true BUT I IS NOT GOT NO KIDS.. He a god damn father and sitting back doing nothing. Stand up for your WIFE ... stand up fpr your kids... Stand the f up .

@@canisdeumnox4925 He may be afraid of his ex.

That's what I was trying to figure out.

It’s not about the kids. It’s all about them.

Right!!! Like DO BETTER!

💯‼️

That's all women bro

I think both these women are bitter

@@markjohnson1479 nah, that's your mama, grandmama, aunties, sisters, cousins, daughters. Bitter. And you're the common denominator.

@@TJWC I wouldn’t say all that but you did and I agree 😂☝🏽🤷🏽‍♀️

Right! Usually there’s fines so I don’t believe her saying that she didn’t know.. absolute foolery

Well said

Absolutely!

Thank you

I won't say selfish, some women hold on for the good of their children at their expense.

I begin to question the validity of her accusations at this point

@@wendycaesar4949 How can holding onto a mentally and physically abusive relationship with a man be for the good of the children? Unless she stays for a short time while she executes a **safety** plan to escape, I see no good. It is indeed selfish. She's staying for *herself* and at the expense of her children. It's damaging to a child to live in that kind of environment. Look at how damaging it is for adults.

They are the victims of this vindictive mess.

Ikr.. something ain't right

You hit "da" nail on the head!👍

I agree...something is not right .. if his best is the mother of his 4 is " bitter" ..then what else u got.. thst line is used with both sexes & is tiring..JM dismissed the kid in therapy the father shrugged his shoulders,wife side stepped a defense for her daughter..had mom not posted on fb which is Y wife won the case ,makes u wonder a more realistic outlook

Right!!!! They ain’t innocent either! SMH

Right!

Time to leave

Jus be smart alotta mfs aint shit aint u find out wen its tool late

OK I thought the same thing 🤔

Right!!!! Big goofy ignorant behind!! Smh she ain’t no better than the defendant! 🥴🥴🥴

She can have him

He doesn't look like he's that happy either with the "Wife"

She can't read

😭😭😭😶😭😭🤭😭😭😭

F WB Well said! I believe you’re exactly right! It is a terribly tragic situation all the way around...

Where you been Mashan1978? I ask that respectfully to say it's been "normal" to air my family dirty laundry since the 1990s with shows like Jerry Springer, Maury Povich, and this show. It's a shame the guests don't seem to care about what it does to the kids.

@@rosej5029 oh I know. We as a society love to air dirty laundry. It's just becoming worse these days. Let's make bad choices and then go on national tv and show the world how selfish and dumb we are. Sad.

The damage has been going on for yrs obviously ! Way b4 being on tv

Why do you guys always blame things on this generation? It's like older generations want people to suffer in silence as if that's the "respectful" thing to do. Older generations have dealt with abuse on such a wide scale, they are accustomed to keeping everything to themselves. Did you not take into consideration that this mother was able to clear her daughters name - when this women went on a public platform to call her daughter a sexual predator?don'tyou get authorities involved or sue. Now, everyone knows this woman was lying. NORMALIZE speaking out about abuse so that it doesn't continue because abusive people don't "just stop" being abusive when you do NOTHING. I think not doing something when a child is being victimized hurts them more than THIS could. At least they're being taught that their lives and their innocence matters. I feel sorry for the generation yall raised because they've endured alot of trauma. 1978? Yeah, you've normalized crack era parenting and have probably never stepped inside a therapists' office.

@@tevans3862 what are you talking about? No one said suffer in silence but everybody don't need to know your home life! Most people don't care about what goes on in your house they just wanna watch a train wreck in full speed. Now these kids gotta see they momma daddy and step mom act a fool in front of millions. Smh.

Every darn time! 😂

Always

JM is always braggin

That guy is a user......& do he pay child support for his4 kids

I hate when they use basically and make up whatever they want, to make their side of the story more evident. Judges have to start to get litigants to not use basically and explain exactly what happened.

Especially with JM, if a person says just one thing by mistake and/or doesn't speak quickly enough, he calls them a liar and doesn't allow them to explain or finish a sentence after that mistake.

@@rosej5029 exactly, that's so unfortunate. I've seen him do it too many times.

@@georgebenevides Lbh the majority of the guests on the show are clearly undereducated and communication skills aren't their strong suit.

@@rosej5029 JM has allowed a slip up depending how crucial that slip up was. Litigant will lose all credibility if caught in a lie. JM has allowed those who have a English language barrier more time to explain their case.

That’s a felony she needs to apply pressure and lock him up bc they def called cps numerous times. Even if it was him she was with it.

I concur and he has 4 children with. It’s 💔.

Yeah, that sounds extremely worrying. Her and her kids safety are in jeopardy.

Definitely not vouching for her behavior, but what he doesn’t realize is that his evil behavior may have contributed to her bitter “payback” towards him. He’s probably not treating his wife like that, which only adds fuel to her fire. God bless and protect the hearts of these children and soften the hearts of their parents.🙏🏽💖

I'm not sure if she's telling the truth about the abuse, she basically lied throughout this whole case.

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LMAOOOOOO!!! 💀💀

Then you know he crazy too. Ain't no way anybody could get sleep with that woman.

😂😂

N why not the daughter?

@@AllHailKingRose it could be the daughter

@@NikaCarter it’s sad all around. Poor children.

Exactly!

@@the4cqueen148 that’s hell of an accusation when u know they’re both being vindictive using that cps hotline

I'm sure they would say the truth

I don't see how it's pettiness when the ex is accusing the little girl of molestation, takes it to CPS, has the family investigated, puts the little girl in the headlights of an investigation, which had to scare the livin' hell out of the poor little thing, and then found to be bullshit. TWENTY-TWO times she was found in contempt!!! She's so jealous that she is doing everything possible to hurt this lady AND her little girl!!! She needs to spend time in jail to think about all of her nasty business!!!

@@Donna-qt1ot you literally just proved my statement.

@@christinawoodson7210 , I don't believe the plaintiff is petty at all. I would do the same had someone continually threatened my family with this bullshit. The defendant is not petty. She is a vindictive, unhinged sorry excuse for a human. TWENTY-TWO calls on the plaintiff and her minor daughter go way beyond "petty".

@@Donna-qt1ot I mean my statement pretty much summed up what you just wrote. You just extended the point.

This show demonstrates that for some people it actually is hard because the plaintiff and/or defendant's live in toxic environments where dysfunctional behavior is normal as breathing. This is one of many episodes where the people show they wouldn't know mature behavior if it sat on their face but make sure those babies keep being born into the toxicity.

@@rosej5029 Yes, I absolutely agree.

Agree...may still be creeping but she can't say anything because her new guy is present.

I had a problem with the mom saying she felt like she was taking her daughter's innocence away cause she was a minor. Age makes no difference. I would have made sure that there was supervised visits incase it was true.

@@shaunarovinski4081 Yes. That would have been the responsible thing to do but these days..... 🙄

That’s what my father did, I met him at 11 or 12. We have a good relationship.

I guess that the plan just pay and keep pushing. I’ve been thru 15 years of child support and done from 4 to 19 years old and now he’s 20 years old. Fellas can you see 225,000 per child man half of you don’t have that in your retirement funds but you wanna stick it like you got it. In 15 years I’ve paid 145,000 for one child No lates, arrears paid up, with good insurance. Protect your seed fellas don’t fuck to be a risk.

@@JanaySaySo see, wasn’t so bad, was it?

🤨 so physically and emotionally abandon your children because the situation is inconvenient for you. Stellar logic.

@@shelocsher2396 right lol

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Keyword:Attorney people can get one they just choose to be messy and that's the problem you want to talk to me OK to my lawyer anything you want to talk about talk to my lawyer

Thanks for fighting!!!

It is also very possible that it is someone else within the mothers household

Ma'am it's if true I believe it's someone under the mother's household. Did you NOT hear the part where the detective believed the children was coerced?

I totally agree with you about this! Sad and scary as hell! I pray for the poor kids because they didn’t ask to be dragged in their mess! The plaintiff and her man ain’t all totally innocent I don’t believe it!

@@FaithandNova detectives can be biased too. The plaintiff's appearance is a it more polished so the may believe her.

So you're saying the investigation was wrong???????

I noticed something was different about her.

amen.

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Trust he doesn’t want full custody

He gives off STRONG deadbeat vibes!!

@@Lovely_1One He gives off disgusted vibes he's a pressure cooker that may snap any day if she doesn't leave them alone. The x is like arguing with a brick wall. If he was so abusive she wouldn't bother him at all.

They would actually have a life....I got rid of SM after most of the feeds were of friends and family displaying what they were cooking each and every day (for every meal).

He must of laid it down lol..

Unprepared or lying through her teeth

Simple fix: stop impregnating women you're not married to 🤷🏾🤔👌🏾

@@PeaceBeStill- That can still happen if you're a bitter ex wife.

@@PeaceBeStill- didn’t realize that you can’t possibly become bitter if you were once married. Learn something we every day

@@PeaceBeStill- not every bitter ex nut was just a baby mama 😒 my husband ex wife is a total nut they were married for none year when he was 19. 17 years later despite her having 3 more kids by 3 other men she STILL acts like a bitter nut and before we got full custody she tried everything to destroy him

@@tatianadaniel3569 The overwhelming majority of this type of drama/toxicity/dysfunction stems from a baby mama/daddy situation. When you dramatically cut down on illegitimate children, you will dramatically decrease this drama in our community. That's all I'm saying 🤷🏾

I noticed that too

Politics

I said that also

Leave him alone. He’s been around since the beginning. And if you don’t know, now you know…

Byrd is the best bailiff on courtroom TV because of what you said. When lays down the law, he let it be known to stop it then go back to doing the crossword puzzle.