hi i was confused at the part abt religion. y was there a difficulty between catholic and christian since being catholic is alr being christian

there the same but different like salvation n what not.. christians dont believe in some of the books that catholics believe in... also catholics are lead by the pope and christians arent... im not so certain tho im not religious at all... so dont quote me on that entirely

I've dated a few foreigner before LDR, alot of flying around, our religions and cultures are totally different but it's very interesting to share and learn something new with each other. Still loving strong with my current gf.

Love ? I don't think so. Maybe later. For a start ,it's just attraction of needs and curiousity. I too thought really so. I went deeper to understand the ratio of men and women in Singapore , down to Chinese women to Chinese men then to the total . And why Singapore government supporting and encouraging , simple, low birth rate, ageing population and more singles, a simple quick fix worth supporting. As for so called "love" , everyone is better educated, the men of different race live all their life growing up together with women of different race , especially Chinese there are so much more compared to their own ,they are normal man , wouldn't they take liking on any of them ? attracted to them . I am a Chinese male I would be attracted to women of other races too. For the Chinese women sadly for truth , they are known to be accepting and accomodating , decades ago there are the SPGs for Caucasian men , then now well not uncommon or surprising, they want the same thing such as attention and special experience , if you can offer , they will take it. One big groups are SIA cabin crew , I personally knew many who are as such , they don't like men of their race in fact, they found unattractive , they only attracted to different race. If they can ditch their surname or change their children's identity , they would really go for it. I don't mean to be harsh but that's what it is. Singaporean Chinese male many I know, has to resort to foreign partners , seriously tho, I do think Singaporean Chinese male is being prejudice and discriminated by its own women of same race . Well , I must say men of other races are tough and really making effort to get what they need and wants so no issue here . Can only blame the Chinese men of lacking the skills needed. One perception of Chinese women such as a few of my SIA friends are, Chinese men only want sex and not romantic enough, not offering enough attention and not westernised , not of higher classed or having nice career position and English proficiency is bad . That's word for word.

@@user-fd7rj9zm3j 😦

They probably are the accounts with no picture that don’t dare to even say a word in real life

@Si Dunue all ok as long as you don’t force your opinions or thoughts onto others that are in interracial relationships

Agree! ❤

Congratulations 🎈! 🎉

You guys are so cute

Can I ask you a question, why Chinese girls always embarrassed Chinese men like that? Cause from comment area, I can see a lot of Indian men said Chinese girl prefer Indian men more than Chinese guys. Is it true?

often times, the difference in religion is the biggest hurdle. particularly with the in laws.

Nothing is going to be easy. The journey of life will be complicated anyways,no matter what,no matter who is your partner. Those been told to me by older generations. Just love and be loved,this is the only thing matters after all.

I swear still not for Chinese

In a dream world, love and marry whoever you want. In this real world, one is naive and foolish for not considering differences in religion and culture. Want to go ahead despite differences? Learn the hard way and no one to blame when things go south.

People need to wise up. Love is blind until your relationship goes south because of cultural and religious differences. In a dream world, love and marry whoever you want. In this real world, one is naive and foolish for not considering differences in religion and culture. Want to go ahead despite differences? Learn the hard way and no one to blame when things go south.

All look beaten down

normally christian cannot be w other religions like islam because of religious reasons, not bc of racism or stuff, but there are others who do it, not sure if it wld be a good idea though

@@ber245 ive heard that muslims are allowed to marry people who believe in either of the abrahamic religions eg christianity or judaism. they call them the people of the book

Christianity has changed through the years :) you do not need to be in a relationship with a christian though would be great if your partner is 1, as both would believe that god is the center of their relationship. But there are alot of relationships/marriages now adays where 1 person is a christian & the other is not. Regardless of religion, most importantly is that both party respect each other religion & that the partner that is not a christian, understands that their partner usually attends church on a sunday & is fine with it too.

@@claricetan540 Things would be entirely different when in-laws are consious about it regardless how respectful you are towards your spouse - that's the toughest part.

@@steffitan8926 true 😅

Your husband respect all the races and culture, his the true muslim unlike some who pressured others. Stay loving 💕

Rooting for you! My husband and I went with the civil route with too (except my side is the Muslim side) :)

@@probablecat i’m really desperate for stories like yours, because my partner is a non muslim. How did it go with family??

@@dilara8 Not great at first tbh, my parents could not accept it which was really hard to deal because it meant them potentially not giving their blessing and attending the wedding. They did eventually come around though :) Wishing you all the best!

@@probablecat Hey, can we get in touch please? I have a very similar situation to yours and I could really do with some help and advice 🙏

So how, is your bf Indian, Malay, Bangla, Ang Moh or Pinoy?

@@Emsyaz Any of it is still better than balless and penniless Chinese Ah Beng.

I was about to comment about this lol

It’s not even racism but your comments are. If it’s racism because some parents do not accept interracial relationship, then can you explain to me, why do non-muslim need to force convert to islam whenever you are having relationship with muslim? If not you gonna get those comments from the family? At the end of the day, racism not only in Singapore or even in certain race. Tbh, All races are racist, you can choose not to agree with it, but look at Indonesia and Malaysia. At least Indians not that racist, and being bullied by y’all.

@@user-zp1tq1jd3l what is ur point???? why bring religion into this when he was discussing about race? and it’s ignorant to say that it’s not racism, it’s probably just too normalised and accepted that you don’t even realise it (or that you’re one of them!)

@@sophiearul2033 He's one of them. Lots of Singaporeans become strangely defensive when we bring up racism and I've learned that it's because they are guilty of it, in the past or even present. Mixing religion up with race further shows how out of his depth he is!

@Si Dunue Lol ok. If that's what helps you sleep at night. I would unpack why your personal preferences are what they are. Often it's deep-rooted beliefs and perceptions about other races. And if these beliefs apply to an entire race of people rather than a few individuals, then I'm sorry to break it you friend, but it's racism.

I am a Muslim converted to chatolic because my partner is chatolic...and he is guiding me to our Lord..for almost 1 year we are debating about religion... Thank God he opened my eyes...

there are rumors CIA is the one istigated racial riots in the 60s.🤔

They jealous lah

@@Emsyaz Crazy old folks will tell them not to be together. So the old folks in SG must faster meet their maker hor. Otherwise racial riots will happen again.

Wish for your happiness and the acceptance day from your mom will soon arrive 🙏🏽 It takes time for our parents to come into acceptance of what is not norm until they see how well you have been taken care of.

@@StarrySunnie thank you so much. I needed to hear that 🥺

That will be very hard to find them since the whole society is against them if you know the whole same-sex issue in Singapore. They probably exist just don't want to be found. Interracial couple at least they still are able to get marry, have children, housing benefit from the government etc

Most Malay men dont have tattoo.

@PUJ foodiekitch She's uneducated, living under the rock. That's why.

Things will change if Rishi Sunak type of person being elected to become Singapore's Prime Minister for the first time. We are still living in ancient civilization if diversity is not being practiced here in Singapore.

in Singapore, the sentiment is largely found in chinese families. there are some here and there in the 2 other races but very rarely.

@@sintiayuliani9123 oo thanks

My parents expect me to be dating the same race too! But I broke the boundaries anyways ahhah

In my frank opinion as minority race, seems like mostly a Chinese sentiment that's stems from some kind of superiority complex. Other races definitely have reservations about dating outside your race but usually it's not about desirability but rather compatibility due to religion etc. They may not be the happiest but they're not gonna give you shit or make derogatory remarks about your partner etc. I guess just raised differently.

If u are guy then it's hard that opposite family would even accept u.

Kau kahwin cina ke?

Try harder

🤣🤣🤣 Try harder

Hahahaha all the best .. a girl is waiting for you somewhere..time will make it happen 😀

Indian guys should not be racist and discriminatory towards Indian girls. Im not even Indian but I notice Indian guys hating their own women.

@@Emsyaz There seems to be an unconscious undertones of racial rivalry that I've noticed is very prevalent when it comes to those that are overtly pro-interracial relations, as opposed to simply being for stable relationships in general. Interracial being accepted as the atypical choice is also different from pushing interracial as the norm, and some even go as far to use interracial as a means to disproportionately push their men onto the women of other groups, so its clear to see there is a racist element to a lot of the interracial promotion ,that isnt simply about 'love' as some call it, is creating and indeed causing racial resentment. And so people will react in kind often when seeing such overt displays of interracial especially when people promote and try to establish it as the norm in such selective and one sided ways. So ironically this overt push may indeed be a contributing cause of further resentment between groups by using instances of interracial to normalise and encourage it as social practice prescriptively, to the detriment of racial identity of a foreign nation or to ones own when applied in reverse to the extreme. Individuals that develop relations with one another, that just so happen to be with someone of another group, is one thing, promoting interracialism as a general good for humanity is another topic entirely that needs its own conversation. Many now are even going as far to suggest that the social practice of interracialism as a lifestyle is the 'better' choice to say same race couples, and seems to be more about gaining racial leverage over another group by claiming large segments of a people's men/women, to the point where it can be considered an act of racial rivalry and not so much individual instances of love. The dominant group that obviously benefits more from the interracial exchange will be more inclined to be for it and call anyone who disagrees with the mass promotion of the practice as racist, when the irony is that its racial interest that is motivating their push for interracialism to this extreme. In the case of a number of african immigrants in Europe many try to now insinuate that if white families are not openly for their white sons and daughters to date interracially they are racist when there is no equality in this exchange due to disparities in gene dominance and demographic numbers when you look t the numbers of whites and the number of blacks globally, so clearly there is racist motive that blacks would have when forcing acceptance of a social standard instead of simply recognising individual instances of interracialism when not prescribed or imposed to be accepted as the norm. Its clear because of this that many will use either genetic dominance disparities or disparities in numbers in population size between rival groups to justify racial expansionism over the land and women of another group when it works to their advantage which is a dishonest primal mechanism all humans are capable of indulging in. There is also the matter of war to consider that involves interracialism. During times of war what would typically happen is the men of one people would be killed and the women of the group would be taken to be bred with, so to suggest that interracialism is solely fuelled by love and has no historic ties to conquest and racial expansionism is just lying to themselves. So ultimately to frame interracialism as being innocent and loving and that there is apparently no reasons or contexts in which the practice and its promotion can be bad is a dishonest one. So is assuming people's opposition to a social practice implies hated or a feeling of superiority to the other group. Some families genuinely want to preserve their racial heritage so believe the right to exist as a people matters more than how some others who do not care about race and want everyone else to mix might think about it.

@@Emsyaz If you are talking about racial predation and primal urge to conquer urges, that are part of what a people is inclined to unconsciously do through various means, I believe that urge to conquer exists in all people. Those that indulge in it the most do not consciously understand their behaviour from a biological outlook, but will rationalise their urge to conquer another group in the name of love, through aggression towards anyone that disagrees with their behaviour, or through social demonization. Which is ironic because those that partake and promote interracial themselves do not wish to be stigmatised for it but believe based on their social values and attitudes regarding interracial, that they have the right to demonise those who disagree with the social practice they are choosing to indulge in and selectively promote. Do you see that there are many layers to this interracial matter than simply 'this is for love', when there are clearly things to gain beyond love as to what some suggestion, and there may also be primal drive to conquer which I do not see many people talk about honestly? The faculties for pair bonding and love in the conventional sense is actually a secondary response to the urge to reproduce and conquer when it comes to mating. Its why most men are willing to have sex with many women but do not necessarily feel any attachment or obligation to pair bond with a woman. Pair bonding is actually more of a secondary response that develops with time. Which we, as a society, have only recently started to develop, but are likely to distance ourselves from as biological survival mechanism kick in again to conquer or be conquered so to speak due to racial rivalry and an acceleration towards globalisation interracialism and its proponents are ironically causing. Many are simply too horny or driven by this biological mechanism to consciously think about the long term ramifications of normalising such social practices as an inherent 'good'. Such practices when encourages makes competition the primary motivator for why people for instance defame or attack those to whom they disagree with them, in a 'kill or be killed' sort of way. We as a planet are accelerating towards mutual self destruction both in terms of racial identity and in terms of overpopulation/lack of sustainable development.

@@Emsyaz yes u are right Many Indian guys want only fair skin women whether it's those Bollywood type or chinese Korean ang moh don't care. Indian also if the girl is fair then yes indian guys will go for her. It's like that. U can see some Chinese girls with rich indian guy with condo car etc.. She gets a stable partner and he gets a fair skin girl This is how it works not just in SG but around the world. Most guys are attracted to it just like that 🤷

​​@@Emsyazs an indian woman it's true,also we hate them for their Behaviour,creepy,don't know how to date,they don't know meaning of consent,want fair girls etc.,still they hate us

Seconded on wanting to hear about the negative side of things! Sorry to hear about what you're facing :( My (Muslim) family couldn't accept that I wanted to marry my Partner in a civil ceremony too, but they eventually came around. Hope your partner's family does too.

Are you against LGBTQ??? What did that community do to you to deserve your condemnation?

May Allah bless n guide you to the straight path my friend 😊

@@probablecat u marry chinese girl?

It is :) you can research more about it

Singaporean

singapore/ malaysia

Christian Catholic and Christian Protestant are different religion. They have different church and different ways of praising the God. I saw Catholic parents not allowing their children to marry Christians, and vice versa, because it is not ideal for each of their religion.

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Well because beauty is subjective some people just think she is ugly compare to her boyfriend. Is as simple as that.

Nah She s not haha

cuz of her skin colour :(

Agreed. She has very good features.

Racism.

it's a slang

@@ae.r3704 One of my work colleague who is an Australian expat, said it is a "thuggish slank" not "slang".