I’m an African American, and my husband is Nigerian. If I would have listened to people about what they thought about Africans, I wouldn’t be married today…. Yes, in the beginning there was a lot of miscommunication and misunderstandings due to cultural differences, however, my husband is the most patient person. He doesn’t force me to learn anything, he does, however , takes time out to help me understand what I want to know, and I’m the same with him. Marrying my husband was one of the the best decisions of my life. I’m also glad that “there is more love in our ocean than boulders”♥️

OMG, Ling looks like she could be half Asian. I'm so surprised. But she is so drop dead gorgeous & and Lamb is so adorable. Cute couple.

“If your not a good person you will always find problem in everything”….. that’s a whole topic/book within itself

I am half mexican and half white and my husband is Nigerian. The path of my husband and I have chosen is hard sometimes. We chose a relationship where we have come from different cultures, religions, and races. Sometimes that leads to conflict. However, what we get out of it is so much bigger that anything. I think the biggest thing with interracial relationships is not to let the parts that are hard overshadow the beauty of two people loving each other. Go into it with eyes wide open, expect a challenge, expect hard days, expect people to judge you and even sometimes stare at you in public, but in the end know that if you make each other better and treat each other with care, when you lay your head down at night none of it will matter as much as the love the two of you have created.

I was in an interracial relationship for almost 30 years. My husband was American but grew up in Port Harcourt, Nigeria. During our marriage we put up with racism, bigotry and downright ignorance from family & friends. Many of his family hated that fact we were together. My family basically disowned me for the first 15 years or so. Walt & I learned each other. That included his black roots, his African roots & culture as well as my white roots & culture. We learned to respect each other's opinions, views and desires. The biggest reason we were together for so long was because we didn't see each other a color or different race. We saw each other as equal. He didn't force his culture onto me but he showed me it and I did the same for him. We incorporated some of all us in our marriage. That's the best part; Walter introduced me to African food (I am an egusi lover), the music and clothing. He also introduced me to his Black culture also with the food, music, as well as showing me the truths about what it means to be black in this country. We both fought hard to overcome the racism that was thrown at us. Not to mention the problems we had from being in a interracial relationship. That's a whole other conversation. I only recently started watching your videos. Lamb you are so much like my husband was. Funny, extremely proud of your wife & the life y'all have. Without even realizing it you both promote each other with love and best of all communication. Blessings to you both. Keep doing you.

I am an American black woman. My husband is Nigerian (Yoruba). Our marriage has been a real challenge. The common preconceived notions Americans have about Nigerians and Nigerians have about black American women was so hard to squash. We had to love each other beyond culture. Beyond customs and beyond habits. We love each other enough to accept the good and the bad and decided to do what works for OUR marriage. The challenges are hard but on the other side, we come out so much stronger. COMMUNICATION IS EVERYTHING!!!

There’s a difference between Teaching her the tradition and imposing it on her. There’s nothing wrong with both of y’all learning new things from each culture

Am Half Nigerian,half chinese who grew up in Nigeria. Love your videos and keep spreading the love bcos you don't know who's gonna be infected with it. 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

ADDICTED TO THIS CHANNEL 😍🥰

my husband is african american and I am european/jewish. he has an awesome family and they respect me as well. our marriage is everything

"First things first, make sure you're a good person." - Lamb👌🏾 That's the most important factor in any relationship... whether intercultural or not. After all, there are several failed same-culture relationships. Kindness, generousity, empathy, selflessness, and loyalty don't belong to a particular culture/race. When they are present in both parties, the relationship stands a good chance of thriving in the face of any differences in backgrounds. Love you guys ❤️

My husband is Nigerian and as the first American being integrated in his family, I’ve learned the beauty of keeping culture alive for so many generations.

I am an American Black woman dating a proud Kenyan man. We talk culture all of the time and we teach each other. We had a lot of miscommunication and misconception in the beginning but as he said, "there is more love in our ocean than boulders" [obstacles]. A year later we are more in love than ever. It takes respect, communication, a genuine interest in that person and on keeping the love going. That's how we keep our fire lit. And Words with Friends tournaments. 😆😆😂

Omg lamb hit the nail on the head when he mentioned others projecting their fears onto him! My husband goes through that very thing from his brother and some friends. Especially once they found out I'm American (he's Ghanaian) especiallysince we're working towards him coming here. It's definitely been an eye opener. I get called a white woman there while here I'm considered as "light skinned black woman." I try to immerse myself in different areas of his culture as often as I can, but I'm just naturally curious about those things. It has helped in a large way of understanding his temperament. He has a lot to learn from my culture as I'm multicultural, meaning I'm a mix of Puerto Rican, African American, Native American (Cherokee), and Pacific Islander. Which at any time there's something new for him to learn depending on what side of the family we're around. I do believe it makes it more interesting, educational, and fun. I have noticed those types of comments from some African women that my husband is only affectionate and loving to me because I'm multicultural and because I'm American. Which I think is a horrible assumption on their part.

I am African myself, Lamb you make us proud I love you guys your chemistry is unbelievable you will always get apinoinated people in life , get on with your lives, can't wait for the next video

He is Nigerian, I am American with European ancestry. We love sharing our cultures.We are both very interested in the other and laugh so much trying to learn. 😄 We talk out our differences because we love each other.

People needs to know that interracial relationship is not as easy as it seems, the differences is real and you have to deal with it everyday, it takes lot of understanding and patience, by the way, Lamb you be full package.

I started following you guys just recently and it hit me just now that Ling resembles Kate Hudson.Omg🙊

Never Regretted Stumbling upon this Channel... My Blood Pressure always drops by 80% upon Watching you two... LING &LAMB.. Despite me not being Married.. i feel a Calming vibe running through my Brain.. wish i'll be Lucky to have a Relationship of Understanding like you two. The World needs more people like you. Let's Love Lead (TRIPLE L) LING AND LAMB I WANT TO WATCH THE BEHIND THE SCENES 😂 😂

Love watching your channel!! My husband is Ghanaian and I am American so we can understand the issues and struggles you may face in an interracial/intercultural relationship. I love the African culture and have embraced it fully. My husband has been in America for years so is more American now, but still has his culture. Thanks for sharing this video guys.

I think I relate to you guys, I am African and my wife is African American. We have been married for 23 years and like you guys, communication is an important aspect of our life. Most Africans seldom give me positive vibes about black women. I normally hear negative things about American women. So bro and sis, the most important thing in a marriage is love, communication and compromise. I know you speak English in Nigeria but for a man who has been in the US for less than 5 years you are doing great. I been in the US for 25 years and I am still learning the American culture. Actually, you are a fast leaner because I saw a video of you trying to help cook a turkey. Lamb you are very right about apologizing when you are wrong. We African man weren't raised that way. I can see your wife is a strong minded woman but an easy going young lady. Keep a good work, it's all about life not a contest.

My lovelies I am in an intercultural marriage and Ling my husband is not as flexible, and respectful as lamb. I have to tell you that we are not together because of this. You both are truly blessed! I love and support you both!

I look at the comments from different videos, and the energy that i am getting is that you guys are shocking the world in a good way. You are blessed. I want what you have, it is beautiful ❤️

i'm currently planning marrying a nigerian who is also igbo, and I am American, Asian and Mexican also. Watching this video has helped me a lot I'm coming to the decisions I have made recently. You guys are so inspirational

🇯🇲 Love is the common denominator in any relationship, so tolerance is the great equalizer, especially in cross-cultural romance.

My wife is a black American and we have been married for almost 35 years and we are happily married. She has been to Nigeria we are love by each other family. Relationship is work in progress. If someone marry, because of love it will last, but if the reason for the marriage is for papers, it will not last period. Pray together and always let God be the head of your marriage. Really enjoy your KZfaq channel. God Bless you!

Very well said and this was beautiful to watch. Loving all the diversity you both represent. And what a joy to see that you’re both giving yourselves grace as you grow in your journey!

Love how you guys are taking it one step at a time Dont force another person's culture down your partners throat

You guys said it all... You don't need to force a culture on someone, let love lead. You both are different ❤💯

Ling I admire your patience trying to learn to live with Lamb from a different background and culture. You really do love him and he loves you so much too.

Man, this whole day I am watching their content! Amazing and lovey couple! Wow!

Ling and Lamb- As someone who just accidentally came upon your videos recently, I’ve come to ❤️ how honest, pure and beautiful they are. The love and joy that you both show towards one another is so heartwarming and refreshing to see nowadays, especially on these social media platforms. You both have such sweet and genuine personalities that shine through and it is very clear from the second your videos play that you’re both not “acting” or being “fake” just to get followers but just showing who you really are to the world. Another reason I’ve become a fan and follower is because of the relationship videos where you both discuss all kinds of topics, especially the interracial/intercultural issues that you often face in your own marriage. Lamb- your videos about dealing with the people in your life about how they view Ling on being a “white” American, which she’s not (she’s a mix of Portuguese, Jewish, black and white- Yes, I pay attention to ALL of your videos, lol!) and bothering you all the time to make her assimilate to your culture really struck a chord with me. I’m Chinese and my husband of 24 years is Puerto Rican. He’s born and raised in the U.S. while I came here when I was 1 1/2 years old. While I was brought up practicing many Chinese customs and traditions within our home, I was also a very all American girl to those who knew me outside of my family. While my husband’s family have never had an issue with our relationship, I’ve often felt that many other Latina women have looked at him and wondered why he didn’t stay with his own kind. I’ve even been around to hear that being said within my earshot. On the other side, it’s been my parents that didn’t want me to be with him because they’re from the old school way of thinking that I should stay with my own kind. As much as I loved my parents I hated the way their thinking was and never could get them to think otherwise. My friends and other close relatives were always supportive of whatever choices I made and loved my husband from day one. It took quite a long time but my parents finally came around and have accepted and embraced my husband as one of the family. I believe that time finally helped my parents see my husband for the wonderful person that he is and not by the color of his skin. They were also able to see how much my husband loved me and it brought them peace and comfort to know that there was someone to take care of me. I only wish that they had done it sooner so they could have saved me and themselves the heartache during those difficult years. I am blessed to have such a patient and wonderful husband who never judged my parents or were angry at them for their backwards way of thinking towards him. Ling and Lamb- I wish for you both to continue to have a wonderful and blessed marriage and that your love for each other will continue to grow. Continue to cherish each other and grow not only as a couple but as individuals. It is from that that you will both succeed in all of your endeavors. May God continue to watch and bless over you both. 🙏🏻🥰😍❤️

Great one guys. I’m glad you can make it work and have set examples for those who’ll love to start something like this. Much love ❤️

You two are such a beautiful couple! Your relationship is inspiring how you respect each other, try new things & have a lot of laughs & smiles. You have given the Best advice about marriage in saying do not force your culture on your spouse and to keep others out. That goes for all marriages. Too often women try to conform to however their husband does things & it can be stifling. To learn at your own pace & share what you're interested in makes it fun & keeps it respectful. You're right that you have the rest of your lives to learn about each other & that's what marriage is!💜

I love Lamb's accent. My hubby's family and friends speak like that and it melts my heart. When we prioritise love, the world will be a better place.

Ling and Lamb, you said it perfectly, Love is Love. Thank you for being you. I once was in a relationship where it was love absolute. He is Italian and Haitian, me I am western European and American Indian. Everyone around us gave me there personal opinions. We never listened. He was my soul as I was his. The only reason we are not together today is, he wanted his own children. I had 3 at the time and due to cancer could not have any more. He loved my kids, he wanted and desires having his own. He was willing to give up his dreams of having his own children for me. I couldn't let him. Going through every step from conception to delivery. This man is and was such a phenomenal man, he deserved to be the father I knew this wonderful man would be. I could not give him this journey. So I moved away. This man still remains with in my heart and soul. I did find out a couple of years later that he did in fact marry and has two absolutely beautiful daughters. His dreams with blessings. Talk about making my heart happy. He is happy...

I'm Polish and my husband Igbo. We've been married for 4years now and just like at the beginning i can only praise God for giving me such a good, godly, faithful, hardworking man. it's an undeserved gift of God for me. Of course there are very many differences but .. it's not that problem! Thank you so much for this channel! I love you , guys!

Fellow nigerians, pls stop forcing lamb to teach ling stuff. Thank you.

Make a part 2 in this. I love to hear more of this conversation.

Wow! Lamb speaks igbo? & yoruba also! With some Ghanaian heritage 🙏🏽 #Majorkey 🤍

Let me mark attendance , still busy will watch later , just had to mark notification attendance 😂❤️

Lamb is filled with wisdom...u guys really make a great couple💕💕... Love From Nigeria..❤

Understanding is the key in any relationship🙌🙌🙌 Love this conversation. This Lamb ehnnnn 😂🥰🥰🥰

Ling your hair looks great and you have beautiful eyes! You two seem really great together. It’s nice to share each other’s cultural traditions & integrating parts of both into your lives! To heck with what anybody says. It’s none of their business!

The Quality on this video is SUBLIME🔥.

When two individuals truely love one another, forebears one another and respect one another. There is no hurdle they can not over come.

I enjoyed Lamb point of view, honestly. Thanks for teaching the likes of us.

Thank you for doing this video. It's been so insightful bcuz I'm in an intercultural relationship with a yoruba man. And we're learning from both of our cultures(I'm a Chamorro from Guam). We both love discovering new things from each other's cultures. We are taking our time to learn about each other but in a loving way that isn't demanding. This solidifies tge fact that we are going about it in a positive way. Thank you so much for sharing! We love you both so much! Please keep posting your content.....we love it so much!❤❤

The pepper soup part off me😅. Some good content here I must say. you addressed this in the simplest and purest form. I have been enlightened 😌

I am Cameroonian and my husband is African American & I have had to hear about how I need to teach him all things Cameroonian and the pressure was so bad at times. I had to realize and know that my husband that God gave me is mine and the dynamics of our relationship is blessed by God. He is who is is and learns about my culture & trying to shove culture down people's throats is unhealthy. So bless you guys and your union, you are a beautiful couple. #Imhappilyblessedmarriedtomybestfriend.

This hair style is the best style on you. Even sis the opening of the nail shop. You look beautiful Ling this is this the hair style.

Wow! This so far is the most interesting I've heard about intercultural couples. It's just so good that there's just a natural blending of two cultures. I love it when you two discuss about relationships because you always agree with each other. Keep the love growing.

This was really enlightening... I'm South African dating a Cameroonian guy and like you guys said, we're not trying to force our cultures on each other... And you also said one needs to be interested in learning something from the other's culture, thus I'm currently interested in learning French (his language)☺️ and so far, I'm doing pretty good and I'm not even in a hurry🥰 Certainly need a part 2 and 3 if possible. I love you guys❤️

They are adorable. Ling’s hair is always on point. She’s beautiful!

LING, LOVE YOUR HAIR like this! dont keep it long- makes you look " older" , this one is chic, and so sassy! :))

Thank you for another good conversation, Ling and Lamb! Your videos are entertaining yet full of inspiration and provoke thoughts and conversations. I met my Gambian/Jamaican in the Netherlands, where I am from, and after we watched this together we had a chat about that people will share their opinions whether you ask or not. It often reflects on their I securities of past experiences that people generalise. I appreciate that you talked about taking it step by step learning about each others cultures. It is a learning curve for the long road for sure. We keep learning and growing. Wishing y'all a lovely day! Greetings from the Netherlands

My boyfriend is Ghanian and I’m from Italy.. we have been together for 12 yrs and have been through some pretty tough situations including my family not accepting him.. some days are tough.. our beliefs, our cultures, way of thinking is completely different from each other but I can’t go through life without him and I want to go through all challenges with him. People will judge no matter what so do as you please and what makes you happy❤️

Hey ling&lamb I really love you guys and today u hv touches my life I'm originally from Tanzania my dady is from Tanzania but my mom she's from Ghana so I'm mix and then now come to my life I got married with Mauritian which my husband is mix from Mauritius and French here its come to our kids so one day we were discussing what culture do they follow and we decided me and my husband to live like us no any culture to follow because if we will need to follow what culture we will follow Tanzanian, Ghana's, Mauritian, or French u see hw its mix so I think its better to live ur own life and just spread love to ur kids, like teach them to respect everyone although its kind hard sometimes.

I love you guys, ran into your channel yesterday and already watched almost half of it. This hair style is a bomb. Love it daku.

So Lamboghini you get Ukwuani blood for your system. Ajeh my brother... I love the way you guys show each other love... May your union be continually blessed...

My grand mother on my mums side is Nigerian. My granddad is Lebanese. My mum married my dad who is from the democratic republic of Congo. I speak Igbo, Yoruba and English with a little french. My husband is Yoruba - Nigerian. I love the Nigerian culture and embraced it. My husband never forced me. I kneel to greet my mother in-law because it is a sign of respect. I love and respect my mother in law, so it gives me pleasure to greet her the traditional way though we live in the UK. Thanks to my grand mother, I was challenged to perfect the art of preparing Nigerian meals. My proudest day was when I cooked Egwusi soup and my grandmother loved it.💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻

Y'all even 2 different parts of the same city can be a work in progress😂. I'm from west Philly and he is from south Philly. But seriously I absolutely adore this couple's channel.

Very interesting discuss. I quite appreciate your both opinion. Like someone inferred above, it's not easy. But when the two have understanding, it will work better. Thanks Ling and Lamb for the topic once more. Bravo!!

I think you guys are amazing! Love is love. Period. Keep on keeping on fam💜🙏🏻

These guys love is so loving 😍

My Love is Gambian, I'm American. I'm so glad I found this channel!!

Your openness and down to earth contents are fantastic........

YEZZZ❣❣❣Big KEY regardless to the cultures you must learn each other💜💜💜And not try to change each other❗❗❗

I lost it at "correct oyinbo peppersoup" 😂😂😂😂. I think the issue is because there's less racial diversity in Africa and also we're very traditional. In Nigeria, intertribal marriages too experience contempt from family and society. With couples like yours though, I think enlightenment is coming. You guys are great ✌🏽

Love this video and y'all made a lot of good points. My wife is African American and i completely relate to the pressures Lamb is talking about. It's as if our naija people have a form of superiority complex, like we have the better culture & food and everyone else has to conform to it, that mentality needs to change. Other races and groups have their own traditions too and its perfect for them.

Wow! You too are so amazing and you are blessed to have found each other. Lamb, you're so right as a person you first have to be happy yourself, be a good and kind person first. 👏👏👏👏👏👌👌👌💗💗💗

I've always needed this🙇

I am both from the Ivory Coast and the island of Guadeloupe in the Caribbean and my wife is Ukrainian. We enjoy learning from each other's culture and show mutual interest and respect. We never force our cultures on one another.

It's very simple there is no color in "LOVE", inter cultural is just about understanding your differences in the way you see things. Love allows each person to be themselves, not try to change them. I love watching you both, I pray the best for you always.

Thanks for opening up and sharing with us.

I love how much you laugh together and ling you are so beautiful it’s astounding ✌️

"Me I don't have time" my mantra right there. 😂 Good advice guys.

It's truly not an easy road, the cultural differences need TIME to come to a place of balance, understanding and patience whilst learning how those differences makes the relationship tick. Parents, friends who aren't used to this will as a biological tingle want to avoid anything that goes out of the normal.

Ling, Your skin is glowing!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰

Very valid point... See the person as an individual not the view of where they come from. Nice one!

This is actually quite educating, if i count how many times I've seen on twitter our women saying Nigerian men treat Oyinbo different than they treat them and all sort. Treat everyone individually, everyone's story is different.

Hello Lamb , the person God has put in your life is Ling and you should love her unconditionally and I know that she will return that love unconditionally to you . wishing both of you peace , love and blessing.

I was just sitting quite comfortable in my car, in the parking garage at work this morning watching your video...hahahahaha! I jotted down a few things that really resonated with me: 1. Make sure you're a good person - In my opinion, some persons may say "good" is relative but I'm sure we all can determine good from bad. 2. Don't impose your culture on the other person. Both persons should give themselves space and time to learn each other's culture. 3. Love is love so let love lead. Personally, I was never open to the idea of interracial or intercultural relationship because I feared being misunderstood, taken for granted or bearing constant conflict due to the differences. But over time, I developed an open mind to it and came to the realization that, once you remain honest about yourself and someone is open and honest with you, there is nothing to worry about. I believe at the core of every relationship is openness and honesty, no matter how hard or ugly the truth is.

Ling, your hair looks beautiful like that! Curls suit you!

Its long you pranked Lamb... Ling give us something for the the week to laugh on..

Man u are such a lucky man to find this amazing woman in your life, best wishes to you guys 🌷💝💼

Lam can't say it any better, you are so right my brother,, support from Ghanaian sister in America,, I'm Ghanaian married to American , my hubby sing and do a lot of Ghana stuff waaay bfore I met him, something I will played songs and he will be in the background sing and I will be like, how did he know the lyrics, he knows more than I thought he should know and I love it ,I know gradually ling will be there, you can drag a horse to the river but you can't force the horse to drink, people always have opinion about how others to run their relationship but they can't run theirs

Love u guys. Keep up the positive vibe.

I’m confused. I had no idea you guys were interracial! ♥️

I am in tune with the fact that one has to be good to have intercultural or interracial marriage. Both of you are looking perfect because of the orientations of your inner personalities. Always play Karma, and if you can be sincere to yourself of the requirements of Karma, you can marry from any culture.

Wow. So refreshing to hear Lamb has Ghanaian blood line 🇬🇭. Love you more ❤️ Love to cute Ling too. Much love.

What a beautiful blend🌹🌹

I’m Nigerian and Jamaican born in US- My husband is fully Ghanaian. The only difficulty is sometimes the pressure to learn twi as if it’ll happen overnight 🤣

Me and my husband are going through the same thing. My husband‘s Nigerian and I am white and Mexican . It’s really hard but when you truly love someone nothing matters You learn how to turn that stuff out

You look so great together. I love you guys and your vlog on conflict resolution really helped me a lot. God bless your marriage

I currently am with a west African from Cameroon, this video is awesome, thank you guys❤️🙏✔️ God Bless You. So real and authentic 💯

I love the first part. My mother in law wants me to learn Igbo. I have tried, but its a difficult language to learn and a language that I would barely used. I do understand Pidgin English tho

Lamb: For me I would have pack my bag ; I don’t have time hahha . Lamb never disappoints

Always refreshing and insightful watching u guys. Love is love. No need to put tags on it. It doesn’t where he or she is coming from. Love conquers all

I am so glad I found you guys 😩😩😩 been looking for this Chanel ever since I saw your video on Facebook for tasty