I am a kenya man. Married to an American. Cultural difference is huge. But we have found a way to meet in the middle. But we African men have tough heads. Back home women listen to the man. Here we listen to each other. Huge adjustment

Mehn..That "I love you" came out of nowhere. And you could hear/feel the sincerity, warmth, and depth in it. Lamb was legit in his feelings there. And I'm here for it!

When he said ' I love you' .. I felt that! That's Real❤️

The fact lamb accepted the fact that he was proud... shows how humble you are. Some people always think they are right... they can never accept that they are wrong. Thank you for being humble seriously.

I think a big part of why Ling is the way she is, probably is because of the way she was brought up. Look at the relationship of her parents and how they interact with her even as an adult. It shows why Ling is such a wonderful person. The influence she had growing up, the model her parents had been to her, the relationship between her mother and father:it all played a huge part on shaping how she is as an adult.

I like the way how he dropped the ''...I love you''

Ling has what is called Emotional Intelligence. When you are emotionally intelligent, you can relate with anyone because you are aware of your own emotions and how it affects others. Lamb....you are blessed to have her as a wife. Cheers to you guys

Growing up in an Nigeria home my parents never apologize to me so I got use to this so thank you for this. I will start my journey of including others feelings

Ling is an embodiment of a virtuous wife! Thank you for modelling the role of a wife without being subversive!

I love when he just stops and looks forward and says ' I just love you' you can see in that moment this man literally loves her to death... That is his queen💖 That was so sweet... You two are great!! I love you both! And you don't understand how much you are teaching and showing others what true real authentic love is!! God bless you both!

For he who finds a Wife finds a Good thing and receives God's Blessing! Be Blessed!

This was such great advice. As I child, I never witnessed healthy resolution of arguments/disagreements with my parents, so this is honestly eye -opening for me. Thank you!😊

Apologies! Honesty! Self-Acceptance! Nurturing the LOVE!

An apology without change is manipulative.... Thank you lamb for sharing the milestones and growth you have achieved proud of you guys.. Lots of love from kenya

Sometimes not to be able to apologize or apologize properly as to do with upbringing. For example when a parent and a child are arguing probably later in the argument the child was right and the parent realizes that he/she was wrong they just let it go without apologizing, so that child is not used to it from the onset for someone like that it affect it might affect that child in a relationship because the child is not used to apologizing

I swear your wife is a good woman. Even when u quarrel she cooks and talk to you. Women is the key to any healthy relationship.

First women I’ve ever seen who is straight up. They deserve each other, I’m glad he makes her happy.

The "..I love you" part🙈❤

Ling loves her husband so much. The mimics him in a loving way and she caresses his cheeks lovingly, too. I love them!

Best thing I like about you both is you re soo o natural. He doesn't try to sound/ act american, she doesn't try to act Nigerian. She teases his accent, but doesn't demean him in the process

I know exactly what it was for Lamb. Most Nigerian men are prideful and don't even know it. Its already embedded in the culture really and that's real talk!

These things sound so simple, but it takes some people YEARS to understand this and save their marriages. Well done!!

You know.. growing up in an African home taught me that when someone is upset about something, give him sometime to cool off before addressing the matter if not it will lead to more disaster. So in a way, I understand why Lamb wanted to take a walk 8n the beginning. I face the same problem in my relationship, but I have learned to communicate. Thank you both for this video. It served as a good reminder

This guy na real naija man... Twale baba✊🏿✊🏿I love how Ling sometimes mimic our accent.. it's very funny 😂😂😂

Valid point: "knowing How to apologize properly." This is maturity and pure sincerity of heart. Ling is truly peaceful

I have self-isolated myself from my family and your channel has been one of the most entertaining channel I've ever watched. It has been one of the things that kept me sane. You guys are one of the best and funniest KZfaq couples the world didn't want but needed. Kudos to you, Ling and Lamb! ❤❤❤

It also has a lot to do with our culture and upbringings. Our African men are taught to be dominant in marriage- they are the head, are always right and must have the final say. This makes them very egoistic. Iam glad Lamb is learning to defuse that. Much Love.

That little intro about balance. That hit different. I needed that. Tongue is definitely life or death. God continue to bless you you guys x

The struggle is real with lamb and that bed hahahahaha 😅

Wow! I hope African men,and Nigerian men in particular can find this video cathartic and therapeutic ...Ling is a relentless embodiment of maturity, grace and class. For an African, , Lamb is evolving in real time....I am impressed with your understanding of the dynamics of communication in relationships.Very thought provoking video....Keep growing folks...#Respect...

The way he said the 'I love you' ...I 've learnt so much from you'.....so very sweet

It's very hard to find woman like Ling these day's. Lamb such a humble guy his so loveable ♥️

The most heartwarming part of this video was when Lamb realises how blessed he really is to have Ling and says "I love you". Yo! That was so genuine, guys. I legit watched that part over and over. ❤ #RealLove You guys are awesome, really! 👍🏽 #LingAndLamb

Communication, sorry and understanding is the key to every relationship

I came across your channel and I cant stop watching. I also subscribed. I'm originally from Jamaica but I grew up in Connecticut and I was married to a Nigerian man who is an Igbo. I spent a month in Nigeria back in 1983 and we have two children. Through a series of events and his business he traveled again to Nigeria in 1985 and I decided no to go at that time. We eventually divorced and married different people. He passed away in Nigeria a few years ago. We had very good communication up to that point. I'm still in communication with his Mom and Siblings in Nigeria and they have been wonderful. He was from Enugu and Lamb your way of thinking and your mannerism is very similar to his you would think you guys were related. His name was Earnest Nnaji. You and Ling make a wonderful couple and you are both breath of fresh air.

It is so special to see how much he literally adores and loves her. He does not find it threatening to do things for her. When they were on vacation and he got out of bed and slept on the floor, I was so touched. It totally showed how much he is willing to please her, even to the place of his discomfort. That is a real man.! I hope the men young and older are able to learn from him. He is a wonderful example of strength in humility. He is not ashamed to show he is vulnerable to her, that is so beautiful. Keep it up ling and lamb its good to see happiness and fulfillment in a marriage.

Wow Ling! I can SO relate to that concept of not liking confrontation and dealing with that uneasy atmosphere if things aren’t resolved- not a good feeling 😅

Ling’s smile is EVERYTHING! Her smile is so beautiful.

I admire your openness and the value you place in communicating truly with each other. May your love grow ever stronger.

We really do gotta unlearn a lot. Being African we learn so much even by just watching our parents & relatives. The notion of not apologising, being so prideful, not taking accountability for the wrongs you contributed etc and we grow up thinking it’s okay, but hearing how y’all solve issues, I am so grateful I watched this video, learning to put it into practise!! 🙌🏽👌🏾

I was literally wondering about this a few days ago!!! I wondered how A Nigerian man reconciles with a female who isn't of even african heritage. Thanks Lamb!! Glad to see this. Didn't think I would see it so soon.

I am learning. Cause I also have problem with pride and being too confrontational. I’m learning. Love you guys.

Lamb’s willingness to learn should be applauded. Ling is so much of a gentle soul.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. Love your love ❤️❤️

My dad raised me to say sorry.I even say it to the stone when I kick my feet.

I have learnt how to apologize properly. I will put pride aside and start apologising and doing so properly. At first, I did not realise it was pride. Thanks for sharing. I strongly believe my marriage will be better because of this aspect

I just called that the real love bcoz they is understanding between the couple. Ling you are playing a big role in your marriage life and Lamb you love your wife so much which is very good and you are learning up from her and she is a best friend, and sister, and mum, and she is your wife. The unique word is understanding. God bless this beautiful family.

Marriage should help you grow into you becoming your best self. There is so much emphasis on the romance or lack of it. But it is about team work and that has to do with adjustments. It takes maturity and dedication to commit to becoming the best you so that you and your relationship will flourish. Im proud of how you handle things this is what's called being a true grown up. Grown means constantly growing for the better.

I love the way Ling makes fun of Lamb's pronunciations and Nigerian gestures in a sarcastic but so loving way. You both are really fun to watch.

The issues not repeating SHOWS THE AMOUNT OF LOVE AND RESPECT YOU GUYS TRULY HAVE FOR EACH OTHER....U GUYS ARE COUPLE GOALS!!!

“ When you sincerely apologise to your spouse about any mistake , you are almost likely not to repeat that mistake if you love him or her” Absolutely correct.

Sometimes you need to CLEAR your head, regain your composure and think things through. It is not always pride that you want some time "away" from the argument/confrontation, it's just that we all are wired differently. I am glad you have figured out what works for you. Ultimately, the two minds have to meet - accept responsibility and find a way to the "soft landing"

Wow my husband and are the opposite of you guys. My husband wants to solve the issue immediately, but I am the one that walks away. I am getting better at with God's help and my amazing husband. Thank you for this video!

I love this one. That is an effort my husband and I make to tackle things head on.. no festering of bad feelings. Who is wrong acknowledges thier wrong sincerely and we move on.

I’m just addicted to you both. Blessed relationship !! I’ve learnt so much from you guys

He gave her all the credit!! Smart dude ... happy wife is happy life my brother

Are we allowed to know how old you two are? You both seem so mature, mature in yourselves, your self-awareness etc I just LOVE watching you two together. How you interact with each other is teaching me so much about what it takes and how to "be" in a genuinely healthy relationship. 💕👌❤️🤔😍😍

Must confess, i thought after just 2+years in marriage, you were a bit ambitious to think you both qualify to advice on such matters. But how pleasantly surprised was i? Thanks Ling and Lamb you are just really and truly beautifully blessed. I've been married 20 years and we didn't figure out ours that quickly, that easily. l love what you both put out, fun, serious and all else.

My mom is an uneducated women. Growing up my mom will apologized to us if she mistreat us badly. I grew up knowing how to apologize. All what you guys said is what a healthy relationship is all about. Kudos to you guys. We celebrated our 26th weeding anniversary in January 25th. This year.

I use to tell my girl that, whenever we are having minor issues, address the situation and not the love we have for each other. She's always quick to say "am done", "I regret whatever I did with you"… very very wrong... It's nice to knw someone else shares the same ideology. That's rich...

A person once apologized to me by saying, " whatever it is I did, I'm sorry." And then they were surprised I didn't accept that raggedy apology.

I LOVE YALL!!! THE LAUGHS, THE JOY, WE NEED MORE OF YALL IN THIS WORLD!!! LAMB ACCENT, LING SWEET LOVING SELF, AND ALL THE LOVE YALL SHARE!!! HIGH FIVE TO YALL

Thank you Lamb,for being open and willing to learn. That is a true mark of humility.

When he said .... I love you.... I welled up ... that was beautiful right there!

Lamb saw how Ling parents were and this is the foundation of their marriage.Ling came from a very good home and this issues comes natural to her and husband can see her intelligent and maturity. Men her teachable,they just need to be with the right woman and women are teachable when they are with the right men.

Background music is fire, MOVE ~Give thanks in the morning, for my friends and my family~🕺💃🇿🇦🇳🇬🇺🇸

9:20; Lambs honest confession is just so AMAZING!! A real humble character! U guys are the best!!

I am addicted to this channel. So real and genuine.

Sincerely right now so I can say is "I love you both and thank God for your union". It keeps getting better for you both.

I’ve been following y’all on TikTok & recently started following you on KZfaq, I have a lot of respect for Lamb because he can admit, his wrongs & that speaks volumes for a man! Much respect my brotha

You are both so young with a great deal of wisdom for successful relationships. Add this, when you are evaluatinh your behavior in any disagreement, be quick to apologize. Behind every bit of anger is pain. Be truly sorry for bringing that pain to your injured partner. That's a valuable lesson I learned very late in my 77 years of life.

I love that this video was as much for Lamb and Ling to reflect and process as much as it was for us who benefited from their advise. You guys are the best❤

I truly like when Lamb said "I love you". So sincere, deep, heart to heart. Lovely

Very well said Lamb❤️...."We forget the value of person When we Fight"

I don’t think you guys understand just how wonderful you’re energy is. Watching your videos are like eating your favorite food, or sitting next to a warm fire in the winter or snuggling under a thick blanket while listening to the rain… I just love y’all! 💚

I genuinely love this couple. They are showing everyone what a great relationship is. Flaws and all. The fact that they have a great foundation for friendship that turned into a loving relationship is amazing. This is great for my growth in the new year. Thank you so much. I want my relationship to grow into what you both have.

This is a classic example of the power of a woman over a man. This is the super power of an intelligent woman that can soften an otherwise tense situation and make a man do anything. Also, this is an example of how good people (especially couples) make those around them better human beings. Kudos Ling and Lamb!

Dude, you bullseyed with this lady. Kudos to you limb!! No wonder there is that much laughter and joy between you two!! This need to be in print “ own up to your errors” I love it!!

Learning from your partner is of the best feelings in life. I just love watching this two.

Ahhhh, Ling is queen of communication. So beautiful! Humility, accountability, apology, changed behavior and a commitment to always come back to the table. You both try to be fair and that's what's wrong in a lot of relationships. One person has a different set of rules for the other than they do for themselves. Hypocrisy snuffs out love. Honesty lets it live and grow.

You guys are fast becoming my favorite KZfaq couple after watching this video. Your love, mutual respect for each other is genuine. When Lamb said he has learned a lot from you sincerely says much to me about your relationship. Ling is so naturally beautiful.

I love everything you both said ❤ it's so accurate! Also, don't try to find something random to start an argument, don't say things out of anger to intentionally hurt the other person, and stop comparing your current spouse to your ex. Lots of love and respect for you both ♥

Being honest with yourself and self_reflective is so important to a relationship or an argument. " I used to be a victim of that " is so true.

I just love the way he own it up to her. He is really proud of her 🥰 thank you so much Ling and Lamb. I learnt a lot from this. Stay blessed 🙏🏽

You are right!!! Humility is the godly thing to do and confronting things on the spot truthfully in acknowledgment and squashing it transparently, then pray together for bonding.

Awwww....the moment lamb paused and said 'i love you' that's so cute. Ling and lamb if what we see is really what's going on between you both..... you've got a beautiful thing going on for you2. Best wishes

My love for you guys just leveled up higher. Thanks for talking about this topic. I’m definitely going to practice this with my husband. He’s more of the communicating type and I am not but after watching this I’ve made up my mind to always resolve the situation when it just happens.

bro your blessed with this one i swear, all these tell you your wife is from a home and her parents thought her well. shout out to ling mum and dad you guys did an awsome job.

👍All the way. I grew up in a family where things weren't addressed and were simply washed over. I learned the hard way what happens when you don't address something right away and wait till years later when it's too late. But I'm so grateful to have learned from it all. 🌸

I loved this. It is hard to merge to totally different cultures on a friend level, let alone a marriage level. My husband and I have been married almost 9 years and we are still learning and adjusting. It definitely makes the journey exciting and interesting.

Hi guys my wife just showed me these and subscribe right away Am Nigerian married to a beautiful Jamaican American woman and I must say we are definitely in the Same boat you guys are talking about. As an African culturally speaking there are certain things we see as off the block that may not mean anything from your partner. As Africans we are people of culture and pride. Definitely learning from you two.

My God...the transparency is this video is so refreshing. For a relationship to be successful, both parties have to be mature and humble enough to take a second, stop pointing the finger, and take responsibility for their part in the disagreement, or at least be willing to admit that you could've responded different;y. Thank you guys for doing this. We see many public couples who either portray a perfect relationship or display a wrecked relationship. There's not enough out here about how to OVERCOME issues! Blessings to you both!

You guys are nature folks with no hidden agendas. Pure honesty and openness; this is what live looks like.

I'm glad you both take the mature approach and not the stereotype that society pushes. The mindset that tells the men that the women are always right 🙄. I always say right is right and wrong is wrong no matter what. Ling has a mature response. A lot of wives out there would do things like stop cooking etc for their husband if they have a falling out. I agree with most that was said but I'm not sure about dealing with something right then and there all the time. Sometimes a person really needs to step away and calm themselves first. Discussing some things while still in that place of anger can lead to wrong and hurtful things being said. Better to discuss an issue when both are kinda calm 🤷‍♂️

This was one of those "oh! I see" moments. What part did I play in us reaching the point of an argument? How to apologize is soon important. God bless you both.

The " I love you " part, really got me.... I pray for true love too 🥰🥰

Every time I come across your videos, I always see a reflection of my best friend in limb😍 and it’s so beautiful to watch all the time. Being a product of a proper loving home is one thing that can’t be hidden and I always see that in limb🥰

Ling can make a career out of mimicking lamb 😂😂😂

Everytime I tune to your channel, I inevitably watch till the end. Wishing you Lamb & Ling much more years n growth, as you continue to redefine the way relationship should be perceived via social network.

Apologising and apolosing the right way... Very key.

Kudos to two beautiful souls, that have embodied the true sense of love , compassion and forgiveness. Ling, ur a delight and adorable with your beautiful laughter that fills the air with sunshine and lamb a grateful and nurturing man that is so endearing to see his affection and sincerity towards Ling. Not sure about your age, but I am sure you guys are way spiritually mature beyond your age. All the best of health and joy for you two.🌹🌹