@Jay Jay Hey there. its called repressed because it is opposing to the main function, not only fourth. Like a weighted see saw, one must weigh more.

Your video is extremely quiet, and I’m wearing in ear ear buds

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I am an INTJ as well, many thanks to breaking apart all given meanings of those traits for a more deep conscious understanding it was fairly helpful, continue creating beneficial educational content!

Intuition/Pattern Recognition in a book: Blink (Malcolm Gladwell).

Purple INTJ

Yeah, takes conscious effort to correct that. Even when I outwardly “do that” I secretly do the things I know won’t get done in time or the correct way.

Thanos is an INTJ!

Exactly what I think to my self all the time when school can't teach me what I want.

So true

YES JESUS FUCKING CHRIST

Everybody does that fuck off you’re not special

@@leiffreed5999 Barnum effect my friend...

Accurate

‘Contrarian’ my ass.

That's how I became manager tbh. Couldn't take it anymore, now I am responsible for a bunch of idiots and I kinda hate and love it.

@@valvicious13 That's why managing one idiot is way easier than managing a bunch of them :)

You can organize your boss if you don't mind doing something you don't get paid for :)

@@aammssaamm If my pay is already low and my opinion is not welcome then I wont even bother. Heck, I enjoy seeing them drown when I told them their was flawed and they refused to listen to me. (Just my rant from previous job I quit since it was pure disaster)

@@dragonarch0 Try stocks :) why wasting your talent on idiots :)

Same , it's hard to enjoy most movies cause i know what's going to happen

@Pamelia Ferreira try bladerunner 2049, The Lighthouse , Joker , hannibal series these didn't disapoint

same i'm glad that I"m not the only one.

Oh god i have this problem

LOL.... it’s annoying when I say it out loud and it’s not verbatim because I used a synonym

We just want rules that make sense. Not some nonsense that makes zero sense.

I've never heard a more INTJ statement in my life

I, as a INTJ, calculate the risk of consequences to the benefit of breaking a rule.

I hate exceptions to rules. I would rather things be re-categorized than something be an exception to a rule.

I think it is more about hating the dogmatic interpretation of rules. Rules generally exist as a simplification of reality to force *mostly* rightful behavior without having to question and to understand the big picture. We want (or even need) to understand the big picture and draw our own, superior conclusions that take situational factors into account for an adaptive, ultimately better result. If you understand a rule and do not just blindly obey it, you can modify it to changed parameters and overcome its limitations.

Make sure you're not mistyped

G. Henckens holy shit yes

Try 3 hours of research

no not true my whole me won't take me 10 minutes to know me to prove it 100% I will dig more and more and no videos will tell me who I'm I, i don't even know if the people in the videos are efficient enough to tell and determine who you are

You caught me

Yep. OR I'll try to teach everybody the best way to do it because I so passionately want them to have the amazing knowledge that makes me so happy and could make them happy too, if only they understood. But alas, they just don't care.

So true. Im not even stressed about doing all the work as long as the project is done in the most efficient way possible.

J Pa Yep, I’ll happily do all of the work if it means I won’t have to go back and fix everyone’s errors, which takes longer than me just doing it in the first place.

I was the kid who’d never show up to school because I everything there annoyed me.

I thought i was weird and unsociable!!! Comforting to know at least someone like me is out there. Hey y'all

I feel this statement very much.

Greatest gift with side effects

Honestly I'm getting so used to it that it's hard to imagine life can be less lonely and mentaly painful, i feel like it playing the victim and moaning about it is useless, better focuss on the positive ! ;)

A gift and a curse.

i find that hardest part was learning how to deal with the taunts and mocking remarks of coworkers and supervisors who do shit intentionally to get a rise out of me, yet when they need a hardass i consistently have been the one they look to. they have attempted to "reassure" me that their jokes on my behalf are meant in good fun and it would irritate me more if they were worth concerning myself with

Alex Sander I was at a company for 5 years until I decided I knew enough about several areas in the company to start applying for leadership positions. Then I saw people with little knowledge achieve those positions as I was starting to apply and lost interest in pursuing them.

@@rayray2096 yeh once u see what ever ur worked ur ass of for turned out to be worthless ul lose intrest If you have your own plan it might stil work For example intj starts mastering making cookies afther 5 year he finaly gets it starts selling them, notices other guys makin cookies 2that arent that experienced itd basicly the same thing hed lose intrest If he has a plan like oke but im gonne make my cookies like this and do different marketting He could stil feel like its worth it else it would feel like wasted time

Alex Sander 100% NAILED IT!!

I started in deepwater drilling in 99 - after 3 years i learned the rig and operating parameters and was ready to do the damn thang, SUPERVISORS HATE WHEN YOU KNOW MORE ABOUT THINGS THAN THEY DO!! THEY CANNOT CONTROL WHAT IS MORE INTELLIGENT THAN THEM!!

This comment is a great insight on my own persona. Thank you

Luckily on the internet you can find your type of people, but IRL? Rarely

The thing is we can't like people that easily 😂

@@melamr0017 tru haha

yeah...

Preaching. I have very few high quality friends.

I'm more INFJ in that department 😉 Not that I'm defensive. I can sense when others are defensive towards me.

You aren't entitled to your opinion, you're entitled to your informed opinion.

key words..."well presented/logical". fucking can not stand people who debate through emotions. mental nails on a chalk board

Up until the point that someone mistakes feelings for facts. At that point, the conversation is over.

YES. Unfortunately, my area of interest is politics, where logic doesnt seem to matter. It's incredibly frustrating.

You need to meet some INFPs, INFJs and ENTJs. They are not fake. I especially love INFPs.

I, a focused INTJ, (Rational Mastermind) have been very happily married to a wonderful ESFP lady, for 50 happy years. 'sk8er'.... Never met a less 'fake' person in my long life :)

It may feel lonely at times but I bet you like being your unique self no matter where you are.

I like staying in the corner thinking about stuff

INFJ🖐

Kent Wilke but if a person is like that, maybe it's best to disregard that person in future interactions

To be projected upon is the worst

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I agree, I'm an INTJ and I also find that annoying, it also enrages me.

@Sabbidiwi That sir, is why I shave my head, so people can't pull that shit on me.

Omg same... Every time I argue with a person in my head I think of 10 ways they could contradict what I’m saying.

I do this all in my head to make sure my argument is correct BEFORE stating my argument.

Same here

@@nickpastorino5370 Absolutely, Nick !!! Totally agree; me too :)

Same and it confuses the heck out of people. I just don't see things in simplistic black and white terms.

Your profile image is especially annoying in this comment section 😂

@@harrycrosswell2844 yes my body just hurt me when I saw it😂

I feel like an idiot smacking my phone 😂😂

@@harrycrosswell2844 as an intj I am laughing but so annoyed by that bug xD

Yessss 😂

I still remember my parent's akward smile whenever I tell them something interesting when I was young.

I don't know what is wrong with the rest of them. How could you not want to know what is causing what ??!! I have to know, but then I'm weird when I start talking about some obscure thing no one gets. I have a coworker that got a little hung up on how I'm full of information. I told him I'm very curious, I don't like being confused and I like to be right. He is also impressed how I am okay with being alone.

Anna Box as a kid, I always thought I was different...to the point where I thought there was something wrong with me. I pulled it together and went my own way...although I turned out to be quite successful, it would have been nice to know there were others like me. This video is right on. I just wished I could have seen it as a teenager

Anna Box I've never met a fellow INTJ-T before let alone a woman with this personality type. perhaps not surprising when supposedly only 2% of men and 0.8% of women are INTJ-T. very exclusive club. so high five ;)

Gary Downing likewise, save that I was told something was wrong with me. treated poorly because of this by teachers. (they assumed I was faking, lying when I offered input, my thoughts, my feelings, even my recollection of events then they said I was being difficult or not social etc) to my mom one teacher literally said she didn't understand me, I was an enigma for her. I didn't act like other kids my age. it went so bad I was sent to a psychiatrist to once and for all determine what 'mental problem' I had, doing many tests including IQ and just talks. her conclusion what that I was a perfectly normal young man, just ahead of my age in a number of areas. years of mental abuse because they didn't bother to understand me. to actually listen to me, give me room to breathe. when I finally discovered this INTJ-T concept decades later I figured out they were attacking my very personality. and I'm left with an emotional scar because of it, sometimes I wish I wasn't an INTJ-T.

I'm an INTJ as well; however, what does the T (INTJ-T) mean?

Rodrico Blackman the 'T' stands for 'Turbulent'

Yes, me too

Yeah

Me too, it drives my husband nuts because I have to have everythign so organised and planned out in advance but when it comes to making a decision I cant because i panic that it wasnt the right one.

It is particulraly difficult when I need to decide fast (hesitation -> slow response time -> "there was time before I hesitate, but is there still enough time" -> hesitation -> slow response time

Yep and I'm also a Virgo, so I think it makes more of a perfectionist?

I joked with a friend about how I had already been "social distancing" for over a decade.

Mate I feel you. Lockdown was basically the best period of my life. Got so much done, never felt alone, just a lot of time for myself without distraction of any kind from the messy outside world. Then we came back to normal and I enjoy normal life, but my productivity and efficiency was at the top during lockdown.

I remember it so much

I got a lot of thinking done! But f the govt for telling me what to do.

I remember a moment in my childhood when the concept of being put into prison as a punishment was explained to me. I never told anyone what my thoughts were: "this is not so bad as long as books are being handed to me..."

Very analytical

Enfps tooo

@@inyshel7018 Yep, they can't get enough of us. lol

This is the most peaceful I have felt since the pandemic.

metronamebelle Yep, INTP's are more likely to learn anything about any topic, I as an INTJ would only like to know what's necessary.

I like mastermind. It makes my ego bigger.

i like architect

@@sethrankin5319 it's the most accurate one.

@@sethrankin5319 thats intp?

Sherwin Cutamora we're out here

I am too, and so do I. I am very different to other people. Not caring what other people think about you and pursuing whatever it is you want to do, regardless of how it looks (even little things), is a big difference I think. Also, having the willpower to follow big things through, when most other people give up - it creates a lot of envy and some people don't like to be around achievers. I've decide to have a radar out for people who build-up others, not try to pull them down. Can you relate to this?

I'm an INTJ and I am an island.

To be honest, I feel more like a "black sheep" because most other students my age (17-19) are not as cognitive as INTJ's are. However it is comforting to know I'm not the only one

@Laura's Piano...I am an ENFP and I think the same.

😂

Exactly

No. We're psychic

Sorry but I'm still not going to rule out that I don't have psychic abilities.

I literally have a story I wrote once on Wattpad called my psychic ability, now I understand why I thought so

Same here. One minute I am thinking something the next I forget what I was thinking about. But if you were to ask me about the formation of a black hole, or other stuff of astro physics I could tell you pretty much everything important to know without any issue

I am also an intj but i can give you the description of breakfast , dinner which i ate from last one month and also i could do tell biographies

this is the most relatable youtube comment i ever seen

@@theakiwar9118 after I forget what complex thought I had, I just start a new one.

For a long time, I thought I had short-term memory loss because I always forget about simple things. But after watching the video and reading the comments, now I know why.

Jason Sanders Amazing isn't. What do you do with this.

Fred Blankly I just had a great idea.....never mind, I forgot, lol.

Jason Sanders Ha ha I just remembered this. I was thinking about time travel. I've come back to the future. Now.

mind =/> blown

Wow. I can never remember where I set my coffee in the morning. My mind is so elsewhere. My memories of childhood are so very clear, I can see not only places where l’ve lived 40 years ago, but situations with friends and relatives as if they happened yesterday.

But the problem is romantic relationships rarely play out the way we initially imagine. Making strategies about how to approach and maintain a romantic relationship is not exactly our (or rather my) strong-suit.

Sorry what do you mean?

Hannie Banannie That is true. We have a rough plan of a relationship an ideal. But problem is the person to fit that ideal doesn’t exist

@@EnigmeDeLaVie We are human. Confirmation bias is very strong when trying to simulate relationships.

Well, yes and no. The problem is that even if you think the relationship is doomed, you're not flawless. Taking a risk isn't always bad. A calculated risk, of course, don't jump into a relationship with someone clearly toxic. But when it's uncertain, try it anyway. Even if it fails, it's an experience to learn from. I know, not exactly easy, but not every trait of an INTJ is necessarily one you should reinforce.

Definitely!

Same!

No I think I’m actually psychic lol

Same

Ha! Same for me.

Hello

Yooo wus good

Greetings Brethren

Ok

hey

joe vargas I force myself to make connections & it helps. For example, if a last name is Hamilton, then I remember "A Founding Father"

Pam Markusson I am going to do this next time. Thank you.

I remember names much better if I see the name written.

Following for solutions, I have the same problem! I tend to connect names to other features, such as hair color/style, clothing style, voice, posture/body language, etc. But never the face. If two people have roughly the same height, hair colour, and face shape, I can see they are different people, but I will have trouble remembering who is who, or if they change their hair.

I always say their name when j see them as part of my greeting , repetition works for me.

1. yes, but not out of a lack of emotions. I just don't know how to respond and what would be appropiate, so, I just shut my mouth and keep everything to myself 2. absolutely. I feel sometimes too restricted in my behavior and possibilities, but in the end I'm glad that I have a morning routine, because this gives stability, happiness and there is also a reason for having exactly this morning routine and not another one 3. also, yes. It's kinda annoying, because their's no reationality in there. People just seem to loose their thinking ability

The morning routine is huge for me. I feel like if I don't plan it right things just don't go right.

It's our way to meditate. Empty our minds? Bah! No, fill it with more things!

I love being alone cuz I'm my own best company. If I ever allow anyone into my life again, they better not disturb my peace.

Terri Campbell Campbelll lmao same. I don’t do visual art as much, but storytelling is so good. And it gives me even more to think about.

Wine? Yuk. Give me whisky.

INTJ photographer .. from how i setup my shot to how to run my studio, im always thinking about how to setup systems to make my work easier

Ooh exactly

INTJ writer here

Same here. But when you plan something well, there's no need to rush.

I eat a lot when stressed.

lucky...i straight up forget to eat when im in the zone. food, water, sleep...all become secondary and no I am not manic. like the video put it, i see it as just driven. still not smart to do or allow

Tf same

Wtff is this rly true? Xd

Go on! Anything else?

Practice Jiu-Jitsu. Trust me on this.

I love aquariums TOO!! But I decided after several years of debating the decision to give up the hobby in favor of my other hobby, web design and development, because the latter is more suited to earning an income and less likely to be hindered by my tendency to have problems sustaining Se for long periods of time, which is required to maintain a fish room optimally. I simply don't have that high-level Sensing to do all the maintenance. Yet, I still have all my fish stuff packed up in about 15 of those big Rubbermaid tubs in my garage. I just can't bear to get rid of that stuff. I was really into planted tanks, biotope tanks and cichlids (American and African).

I understand what you mean. Nothing feels quite as good as reaching a goal you've been trying to reach, but then nothing feels quite as empty as coming down from that high. And I agree with you that it's a mistake to define yourself in terms of your job, but unfortunately, most of us (males, me included) buy into that formulation and we feel like "nothing" when we don't have a job. INTJ's in particular (I've known a few others like myself) tend to get bored after having mastered a particular career and look for a new one that will challenge them. Other types don't do that. Anyway, I was advised to find "process" goals rather than "end" goals, find something that you can work to reach on a daily or weekly basis rather than a grand scheme that will leave you feeling elated but only temporarily before you have to pick another grand scheme. I have both now since I'm not willing to give up on the grand world-changing goals.

So accurate, the story of my life

I think we do that because we don't think those little things are worthy of being in our long term memory.

& that ($49973 long word) would be good for...what?

That sounds like an INTP.

@@saraha.1336 I think that's the olnly way it makes sense, because otherwise my memory is really good. My brain just decides on a lot of socially related things that they are irrelevant

Andrew Province find people that are interested in similar things. then only talk about those things with them so you never feel like they can't keep up. it's like compartmentalising conversations. ex- I only talk about history with one of my friends, rap with another, and then I have some friends with whom I just joke around and we mutually roast each other

Andrew Province same , I'm trying to find a solution to this

Andrew Province I get accused of having an ego problem before people really get to know me. My perception in these patterns and that I see as an intj lead me to have a very Taoist perspective of existence. The difference might be because I am a grunt by Nature I often see myself as expendable. I have been working on a holistic approach to fixing our country for nearly 40 years now and I don't expect to be remembered for my work: what's important to me is the implementation of my ideas which involve natural law declarationism constitutionalism and a tribalist economy similar to what is used on reservations. And that's just the tip of the iceberg. It is essentially the Tao of Americanism® I have spent so long on this I'm convinced I figured it out and I value feedback very much. It's nice to have someone listen but it is so much better when they look at the idea and are blown away and inspired. It's not me that is important it's the idea. I have decided that my talents, intj and all, are there to serve my community my country Humanity and all life. Since I fully realized this I have noticed people are not being pushed away buy my ideas because it isn't about me it's about them it's about our children our future. It's about interpersonal relationships. I highly recommend The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz And deep and simple Bo Lozoff Native science by Gregory Cajete: I think intjs are Naturals in Native science. Perhaps this contains the solution to Ego that you are looking for. Blessings🙏🇺🇸w

It's not a problem really. You push people away 'cause they suck. It's better to be alone than to be surrounded by morons. I've had similar thoughts, tried to change and be nicer to people, but I felt miserable instead. Just be who you are and if that involves you pushing too many people away, so be it. There will be people who you'll get along with, eventually. Just don't be too much of a nazi, give people the benefit of the doubt.

Andrew, don't worry about it. People are just misunderstanding you. Someone below mentions that this perception changes once people get to know you well - and I have experienced that also. The people who are worth it will stick around to find out, without judging you so quickly. You can't be somebody you are not in the long-term. I have to dumb myself down when around certain people (mainly my family), but that's through necessity. In general, you have to let people go who are quick to judge you or take offence - it is their own limitations and/or self-esteem. Seek out people who think in a similar way to you, and who you have things in common with.

Do you read the book? I am an INFJ and have the same issue!

Lol me today 😂

INTJ's are the ultimate roasters, but best keep your observations to your self, peoples feelings are at stake.

S D LMAO

Ozzman 2112 I had the same feeling so often...

Geez, yeah one has to be sure to not talk too much :'/

Yea, it is literally so easy for me to see through people and catch when they are being fake, and what their next moves are (especially at work!). I have been on big corporate projects and EVERY, SINGLE, TIME I have called something out to my manager about the direction, within 2 months it happens. lol

that's why people misunderstand us as pessimistic when in fact we are realistic. bangtan paved the way ;-)

There must be a INTJ dating site somewhere lol

This is honestly the best way to describe how I feel, and it is difficult for me to keep friends, because I am able to make them, but I do not understand the point of having them. I can do perfectly fine with me and my brain. I can just sit and think all day. A few years ago I did that a little too much, and ended up having suicidal thoughts, and figured that I need a distraction from myself. Is this similar to anyone else?

Wow, you really developed your extroverted thinking very well! And I’m here just “following my heart” to get through life lol, I’m an infj btw it’s funny how we’re so different but similar at the same time

Most INTJ will walk this path.

act like them???? lol I've decided I don't want to act like them

I'm exactly like you. I learned to act my extraversion even though it is tiring over time, and my introversion can show up when I'm not feeling well. It is actually quite fun to act like an extrovert because I see it like an exercise or an experiment. And because INTJs are perfectionists and can hide their emotions very well, it is very believable... plus I kinda enjoy it.

History? this might be your individual thing. INTJ's are not into history, this is for Feeling types.

+Jammie Dodger Thanks so much! After I earn my MBTI practitioners certification I plan to keep making videos for each type ^^

i am both an intj and an empath with great psychic abilities that shocked me when i came to realisation of what was actually hap[pening to me....my intuitive nature of wanting to know whats below the surface is a living soul inside me...what u say is sopt on

It is the only one that really speaks to me. For a while I thought that it was just that Mayers-Biggs methodoly just simply sucked but now with better explanations I can appreciate why we are classified in these specific categories.

Trying to know everything about a subject, typical intj behavior here ;) doing the same myself right now, this personality stuff fascinates me

Great point!

Me too! First INTP and now INTJ, working consistently and trying to adapt to circumstances and fulfill my ideas, who knows what I'll be in the next years? I feel like I've got a lot of capacity to change while on the way.

Agree. I was an ENTJ, super bossy and very upset to be wrong when I was a teen, now I'm more contained INTJ, very calm. I don't have the social issues mentioned in this video though (as an ex-extrovert).

Dimitri Swords used to be an ENFP then transformed to INTJ in my late teens i sometimes shift from INTJ to ENTJ though

i used to be infp and now im intj

Well put :)

I know, it is hard and lonely. But here you see that there are many of us - you are not alone! Hang in there!

As a fellow INTJ myself with strong sensing, extraversion and perception tendencies , I would say that normal is something that doesn't actually exist because everyone is a minority of one in personality. However, this is a blessing in disguise because you need people who are different from you to understand you, give you compliments and complaints and do other things so that the world keeps going round. I hope I have not stepped on anyone's toes by now.

Nothing wrong with that at all haha. I often find myself craving new experiences but then they stress me out when I engage in them. My goal is to train my repressed Se to a point where it doesn't stress me so much one day ^^ thanks for watching

I am the same right from when i was little my parents constantly were saying to me go out with the other kids stop staying in home doing nothing, fast forward couple of years and i was one of the best in my english class without even studying it i was watching discovery channel non stop when i was a little kid so that turned out to be a good decision.

Same. Every once in a while, i go out on a limb. When i am good and ready and prepared lol

I am INFJ and always felt the same way. I always hated being on parties and trying to fit in. That wasn't me. I'd rather stay at home watching Netflix or just meet a few friends at the café and have a nice talk.

Try traveling with your close people. Best and most enjoyable way to train your Se.

Holy shit dude me too! Well not cried but this really made me feel like I am not alone and like I am being understood without me saying a word

No shame in that c.jowle

Yo instead of drugs and alcohol try movies and games and musics which have a world for themselves This helps me get my mind of constantly thinking about important stuff Its good until I start thinking about what is actually beyond that movie or game or music thats when I quit it

夢星Social Kid 🔮

😂

Indeed

夢星Social Kid we are the heirs of the earth

Well said sir.

+Jose A I have a video on INTJ relationships. INTJs are fully capable of love, it's just not always the desire for INTJs.

I have been married 17 years to a patience and understanding woman, but before we married I gave her a book on INTJs and explained how I am and told her that I was worth the effort and she bought it. We compromise in things that we want to do and so far so good..... love not impossible, improbable maybe... hahahaha

As an INTJ woman, a rare bird so to speak, I think that the right relationship is worth waiting for.

It can be done. I'm in the fifteenth year of marriage and 18 years overall, dating since we were teenagers. My wife is an incredibly patient and compromising woman. It's just her nature. I make every effort to be aware of my words and actions. That I'm not actively manipulating for my own interests. She's the only person on this planet I do that for, lol.

I think relationship/marriage will be easier for the INTJ male than the female. Women tend to be more patient, compromising and tolerant than men in relationships

I am also a female INTJ and young one at that- I'm 17. And it is really hard for me to interact with my peers because I truly don't understand the way they think and their closed view of the world. But this video was very validating about why I have certain traits that no else I know has- and slightly creepy about how much I could relate to the things mentioned in the video. It was also very fascinating as learning about personality types has become on of my interests and something I've been researching lately.

@Steve Knight neither but I can see where you're comming from. Thank you for your comment.

Another female INTJ here. Nice to know there are others! :)

@@christalphelps6186 Don't worry. Make a lot of money and do whatever you like. If you do not stick to your personality other similar people will never be able to recognize you. There are no a lot of them, but you'll definitely meet some of them.

I am a female INTJ

I am an INTJ too but I was on my own and studying the Bardo under Dr. Timothy Leary at age 13. I never went home again. My childhood was complete.

How very INTJ. I did the same/.

Mastermind the one and only! :D (INTJ/INFJ mix here xD)

David Bar I prefer Architect as well my friend

😂

my brother calls me manipulator

never heard puppet master before but i can dig it

The avoiding relationships I’m still doing it now at age 40 only 4 times ha e I pushed past the fear and gine for it . 2 of the times it turned out great ( for a good few years ) back in my own now ( avoiding relationships until something clicks again ) it’s what we do

What is it that you modified? I feel like I'm getting close to that answer

I also have to modify my behaviour; it takes quite a bit of mental energy sometimes, and can even inhibit my ability to use my full brain capacity on learning or doing tasks. Which is really annoying. But it does help others feel more at ease around you, and sometimes come in handy in professional situations. :)

I'm in my late-40's, and even though I've made some changes, my personality still drives me crazy at times. I say "stop" outloud to prevent over-analyzing and drifting into analysis paralysis. Minor errors in home projects I worked on years ago still annoy me, while others don't even notice the errors or don't think they're a big deal. I have a hard time connecting with other people (I don't have any close friends), including family, and I have to force myself to send an occasional text message or make a phone call. At work, my lead is a bit sloppy and is constantly late for meetings - UGH! I actually played her same role for about 15 years prior to my current position, so I'm constantly reorganizing her documents and hinting at improvements. Inside, I'm gritting my teeth the whole time, but I try to remind myself that we're all different and to be patient.

Can you give some advice for me i am 18 years old intj and have somany emotional problems that i cant understand

I don't know how you do it. I"m 51 and STILL can't stop being a night-owl. I don't smoke or drink or do drugs though. But I should be more active and definitely should get more sleep. My diet is pretty good. I'd say I'm better at caring for my emotional/mental health than my physical needs. But I try because like you said, my Te KNOWS that it's going to better help me fulfill my goals if I am healthy.

lol I was thinking the same thing.

The yellow gave it away for me

MrInconspicuous yes after blue red get it way lol

Lmao I did the same thing.

MrInconspicuous yeah I used the red one too lol

A LOT of things don't make sense, bro.

Only did 1 term and it was very difficult dealing with the military lifestyle and stupid people but I love them 😂

Therealmlw Me too.

I agree. It has its perks when working on projects...

I do enjoy it mainly because people are always whining and needing other people and I enjoy the fact while I enjoy interactions with a decent human being I don't feel the need to incessantly talk to people about nothing and waste my time.

Me too. :-)

I love being an INTJ too, even with the relationship difficulties

The npc theory is exactly how I've always felt as if everyone else had been programmed. I never comment on videos but this comment just describes that feeling. Damn.

That's what I say to my Snapchat friends! What is the meaning behind this meaningless picture of you?

❤true

+Gdhdh Hjjdjd well thank you very much, I appreciate it, and thanks for watching ^^

Lmaooo fr. Many ppl fake their personality

As an actual INTJ, it’s easy to see when someone isn’t really an INTJ

@@klm2fm4, I notice a lot of people want to be "unique" and "rare" and hence self-identify as INTJs when they're not; honestly, online tests aren't accurate. Only inventories administered and interpreted by specially trained and licensed psychometrists or psychologists are really valid.

@@Skeptigal1 True And I guess technically typing yourself with Cognitive Functions while staying true to yourself helps I did a crap ton of tests that said I was an INTJ, but I didn't resonate with it so I compared functions and found out I was an INFJ After that I found out I was an INFJ 5w6, so that's probably why I was said to be an INTJ a lot

Yes, I find I always predict what's going to happen as well. It drives others watching the movie with me a bit nuts. But I can't help it!

Char char :3 A movie I love because it’s not exactly easy to figure out, there are lots of things to digest in it, is Donnie Darko. It’s been one of the only movies I’ve found that really worked out my mind. I wonder if other INTJs like that movie. So many movies are so easy to figure out for me, even Inception, everyone said it was so intellectual and mysterious...I knew what was coming a quarter way through. But Donnie Darko, that’s a mental feast of a movie.