Is Connection the Missing Link in Parenting Neurodivergent Kids?

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Peace and Parenting with Michelle Kenney, M. ED

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Is compliance really the goal in parenting neurodivergent kids? Have you ever wondered if there's a better way to connect with your neurodivergent child beyond the conventional methods of rewards and punishments? Today, I reflect on the profound impact of connection in parenting, especially for children with ADHD, autism, and other neurodivergent conditions.
Many believe these kids need strict compliance through rewards and punishments due to their executive functioning challenges. But I challenge that notion. What if the secret to truly supporting our children lies in the strength of our connection with them? I've worked with wonderful families with neurodivergent kids, and I believe that traditional methods might not be the best approach and that connection can foster genuine growth and understanding.
In this Episode
• Connection over compliance for neurodivergent kids
• Traditional methods vs. connection-based parenting
• The challenges with rewards and punishment systems
• Success stories of connection-focused parenting
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@Touay. 27 күн бұрын

So if I understand the position of those who feel connection is not for ND kids .... NT kids ... Use connection so the kids want to do the right thing. ND kids, with whom connection is difficult, so don't try and use reward and punishment. No. Children NEED NEED NEED connection. Not just to fear the consequences of their behaviour, but because learning emotional regulation, self compassion and connecting with other people are essential for a happy productive life. I was emotionally neglected as a child - no 'connection' - no hugs, no "i love you"s' .... I have complex PTSD as a result and am incapable of feeling happy. I am fifty maybe only felt happy once in my life and been utterly incapable of maintaining any kind of relationship. For those who advocate for not connecting with their children, read Pete Walkers' book, "CPTSD - from surviving to thriving".