Thank you for sharing all this good advice!

I agreed with you no cookie my ex he just want sex no commitment sorry no cookies

Act as if your cookies are limited edition and they need a code to have access to it. Funny thing is, the code is time.

Alex Cormont - The French Relationship Expert hello

Sondriqua Cunningham My cousin has been saying/giving advice to her daughters. I say that to young gay kids acquaintances. Made me smile and laugh to read your comment. Right on.

Curtistine Miller amen !

Absolutely true

This is so true. It's because of their ego. They remember the pain more than the good times.

Agreed

True...

Absolutely..... I used to give my man gifts everytime... But he is never into me

what should we say instead of I miss you?

Right

@@rosegold.sunset4749 Have a good day :D

What about a man who wants to go to the same places due to comfort? I got bored.

Don't forget to give him his Space Suit!!!........

lol yes and a lot of it lol

D I s t a n c e ...................!!!!!! LOL 🙄

Blocked to infinity and beyond.

Best comment of the day

I agree Leah, nobody has time to put all this energy in trying to have a man. Because if they don't want you that's what they do move on to someone else anyways. REPEAT CYCLE...

I couldn't agree more @leahJustyce 🙌

C'est VRAI!😃

Woman not chick, guys say chick. It is disrespectful.

@@nofybn7794 She meant to be. ..in this context. .

Yeah sistah right.

What a manipulative b I t c h

Problem is I don't think I want one forever lol several maybe 😂😂

Wel said dear

Unless he’s a NARC! But as soon as you find out he is, you won’t wanna keep him anyways cause you’ll find out by his actions, he’s incapable of loving you or anyone, anyways! If he isn’t a narc, sociopath or psychopath... this def applies! I agree 🖤

Yes I agree 100% it shouldn't be a game. If people are meant to fit together all of these tricks aren't needed.

Exactly

You go girl

Intuitive self-love .. I definitely agree with you! Why things can't just happened naturally?! I already get exhausted by hearing all the things you must do to make sure the person in interested in you Ughh lol!! Yeas, it should be natural and mutual

If I have to play games, the. I’d rather play with myself

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Yes, true!

They miss our 🙀🙀🙀😂😂

That’s what I’m making on lol. All I want is seeexxxxxx

Not really true there. Men are capable of missing women. They have feelings too. The proper man will miss the woman as a whole, not what she gave to him.

You can learn from some of these games and become stronger with your needs in a relationship.

No, it’s psychological. Play or get played

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@@leeslyrose Which is why they said don't date. I'm done. I only get played, I can't play.

Yea..the games are exhausting...fuck it...I love my dog

Agree sis chase your dream not to a men

Now a days a lot guy are playful no seriously speaking

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What if u were a fool and put him on a pitsel, and kept telling him that u loved him, then he stopped texting u and would only come back once in a while but disappeared

@@lillianelkins8001 I can relate. I'm not 100% sure but I know that u don't just resume (once he comes back) as if he didn't up dissappear on you. I'm sure Alex has a video in his vast catalog addressing this. Keep ur head up sista Queen💯

#THIS ^

I hope he will again😢

Yes, trust yourself and stay in the abundant mindset, because you deserve a happy and healthy relationship.

Are there any?

Agree

diana elz true true

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Savage

Best Comment Thus Far I Did The Same Thing Took Myself Off

Yup removed myself

Myself too

u were just one of his meals....u finally woke up...but there are plenty of simps for you out there...next time choose a simp

Healing Discovery, so was I. 😢

😂😂😂😂😂

Are you still single?

I know right!! And they say women r complicating 🙄

@@missybella9046 you play all games so yes you are

Amal Hsn, same.

Exactly... Love is crazy sometimes :-)

The truth!!

how many you been with..sounds like a whole bunch..n why cant you keep them..??

0121 I leave them when I sense a lack of commitment from THEIR part, I leave them when there is lack of respect, or they are selfish and don’t value or understand what’s a healthy relationship is about. Basically I respect myself enough to not be a doormat or a booty call 😊

Diva Diva yassss self love 💖

Thanks Kibula. The goal is to have the control :-)

Alex Cormont - The French Relationship Expert whos goal is to have control?

this is true ladies

I agree except for the seduction...if you keep seducing him you will give him certainty so you will no longer be a challenge..

How???

Let him found you 😉

It changes one day hope not for you but mine changed after 2years

3 months are nothing but I know the feeling is great. Mine was quite crappy even at the beginning tho 😂

Mine did all that atleast for a couple years,your still in the honey moon phase,give it time...their true colors eventually come out...hope fully you have the 5% of men that stay consistent..

Exactly. That makes two of us btw...

I think men are just lacking respect for women these days. They can use online resources to find any woman they want to fulfill their current needs which in my eyes equals being used. They rope you into a 'relationship' with their wooing period and then show their true colors after a while. My feeling is: if he's putting me on this emotional roller coaster, what will it be like in the long run? And that's even if it lasts a while. Is this the real him? So, all in all, it's just a game because these 'men' are really playing around and taking their time. A marriage can look scary and complicated, along with having kids so it's a lifetime commitment and they are just scared. I see men ruining relationships all the time because they are scared. Guess what happens next? They regret losing you.....hence, now they miss you because they have 'changed'. They haven't matured enough to find their soulmate. So, why waste your time? Not everyone is meant to be. Just learning experiences to take with you on your journey in life.

Starfish that’s why it’s best for women’s not to take a man serious until marriage proposal/marriage. God & Our ancestors understand this and it was for our women’s protection. Now me personally have been played and used and left with a child. If I had waited & protected myself I wouldn’t be where I am. I have learned the nature of men now and careful.

@@shea88barbie Same here but without a child. Your child is a Gift from God...a blessing. Difficult I know ..to be on your own but stick to your standards. I wish you well and hope that you find a decent man one day when you are ready and not looking.

@@shea88barbie That's why religion said wait till marriage. God Allah knowsssss what's up.

i was looking for this comment 😂

haha me too! He knows.. I could listen to him all day! . 😃🤣😍

#relatable

every thing thoughts are mutual...I'd to focus badly that I stopped watching it😂

Hahaahahhaha

I think there is a huge difference between dating and being a relationship... (marriage as you said)

@@FrenchRelationshipExpert marriage starts as a relationship (courting). In fact marriage in itself is a relationship, however it's progress from something which was courting. If a person plays games while courting and wants space as you implied, he certainly will do the same when married because he expects you to still allow him to play his little childish games. I'm a Zulu woman. Zulu man are just like this, little games, want to chase and after chasing you and they got you, immediately they chase someone else. No thanks a person who wants to play must play a man who wants a relationship will be bold enough to accept a strong woman who doesn't pretend by sitting by the phone and hoping for a text.

Kate Ndlovu well said sisters - society and professionals psychologists allow men to do any chit and walk away with murder ! They should instead fix their brain 🧠 the way they think first 😂👍

@@FrenchRelationshipExpert I'm SO relieved to hear this. It simply doesn't come easily to me to hold back my interest, feelings & committment. Through youtube coaching, I'm getting the rationale from the male POV, but, whew, it is a stretch for me. Thank you!

So true, my parents have been married for 41 years, happily. My dad told me he married his best friend. My mom told me once, your father and I would be together all the time. We had side friends but your father and I were mostly together all the time and still are to this day. They explored life together. No games, no questions, just simply being together as one. I think when you know, you just know and there will be no question about it. Each relationship is about learning and growing. Some hurt more than others but at least you get to discover what you don't want and what you really desire in life. When a guy pushes me away, it hurts but it also gives me time to really reflect on what I really want and why I'm with them to begin with - is this good for me? Take time for yourself ladies and take care of YOU! :) The right one will be coming down the line soon enough.

Thank you for being here!

This is word for word what I told him....he made himself strong and confident and stepped on me, until I went mental and told him off and said exactly what you wrote.He's a weak minded individual, I cannot handle attention seeking behaviour....his been blocked...I Hope the creator send me someone balanced honestly...before I become a crazy cat lady!

Good for you girl 👏👏👏

Great thought✌

You are rigt.

You're right! Thank for sharing your comments and advice :-)

Yes!, It happened to me.. "she luv" It was" mind blowing" 😍😄

What about if you were the one who messed up by being irrational cussing him out..and even telling him you will never contact him again after realizing you were wrong but too embarrassed to admit it?😑

@@arshennahines4039 Gurllll.... happened to me. I'm a woman of intergrity and apologized, but now Im minding my business. If we talk again, thats cool if not thats cool

So fucking tru

I am sorry for you. Wish you the best with another fish :-)

Alex Cormont - The French Relationship Expert He broke up with me,and I went in “no contact “ he comes back a month later ,saying his sorry and to forgive him,and saying he is not ready for commitment however he likes me and finds me attractive and to go back to where we were. Well I went to “no contact “again for two weeks,I reached out to him twice ,he replies back ,but he never txt first or reply back a day later . So I decide to do the same .. This is frustrating and physically and emotionally draining . I want to move on but I can not stop thinking about him ,but at the same time I want him so badly What can I do ?

@@marieanne1989 You must tell yourself he is using you, and you must remind yourself you are better then this, and focus on your self worth. No emotional contact, get your self worth back and never chase another man again. EVER!! Think of yourself first, loving you, and when he sees you are moving on without him, he will try to get you back. All he wants is to keep you stuck so you wont find something better.Also know this ,why you are so drained its because he is taking all your energy, he is getting a boost and his ego stroked all the while you are losing yourself to a Narcissist who is nothing but a taker. Not a giver in emotions or love,or commitment. Just a sex addict..Drop his arse... As long as you stay in this connection ,you will not see what his true intentions are, you will always be unhappy because he has you wrapped around his finger. You love him, but he doesnt love you. Face the facts. I know I went through the same and Im getting over him. Mine is a player and I walked away and he comes back,but I speak of God and my spiritual background to him. He doesnt like to hear that, yet he wants it to go back the way it was. I cant go back, Ive grown and been hurt by him to much and Im done with that. Im wanting better and there are men out there that will give you everything you want from a relationship. Yoou just got to believe in yourself. Stop texting him, watch tarot readers on youtube for your sign. Many help you open up your mindset to whats been going on in your life, that could help. Good luck to you

April1989 I knooooooo

There alot of trash in the sea too, be carefull!!!

True

Exactly

Hi dear could you elaborate

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Shes saying when a woman isnt too into a man just slightly, it isnt hard to focus on yourself and be distant from a man. But when you are highly attracted and into a man, being distant isnt easy and does not last that long...

My ex friends online won't miss me either way. I finally got a chance to expose them. I'm glad the truth unfolded and priviles happy Father's Day lol.lamf

I agree. They should dosed by their own medicine.

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Exactly, this is SO important!

Thank you Cassandra, I really appreciate!

He is the best a total gem 💎

Thank you for the notes :-)

@@FrenchRelationshipExpert you're welcome 👍

Ruthie Very well put!! 😉

I;ll try this ,love it

😂😂👍

I love your energy :-)

I get a kick out of him saying that every video😂

I laughed/cringed too

Thank you for your comment :-)

George Jones

This comment deserves a gold star

I was wondering at first if he's a French or an Indian person tbh coz of his accent.

😂😂😂😂😂😂

My pleasure to help :-)

Glad it was helpful!

My pleasure to help!

Oh thank you!

Lol thank you so much. I will teach you everything I know about being romantic!

I want to be do relationship with french man

agreed!, 😃🤔 i was brought up the same.

Yes, I agree, and I’ve also been honest with my ex about what I want. Problem is he’s still guarded and afraid to trust falling again so he stays alone, over a year, and keeps me at a casual distance. He’s very fearful and says this is “just the place he’s in.”

So true!

In a PERFECT WORLD that would be the answer, however with social media, dating apps and a microwave society you are not going to get anywhere with men with that mindset. Tell him you "Love Him" on your honeymoon.😘

Thank you for being here!

@@FrenchRelationshipExpert ok i love u😁😁

So he wants ur job or you?

How long did he wait?

@@FrenchRelationshipExpert 18 Months

@@sonyakaur4976 girl 😂

He realized the grass wasn't greener on the other side, it was mud!

Lol I know I have a strong accent :-)

Alex Cormont - The French Relationship Expert lol yeah it’s awesome 😂 I’ve been pretending to be “fwench” for the last hour now!😂 you’re much better at it than I am!!😂🤓🤓🤓

Lol :-)

Thank you Apollonia, I really appreciate your being here!

Thank you so much Miranda :-)

des ray how do you add emotions. Everyone is saying don’t be emotional

Glam You Girl I think she meant by adding emotions maybe reminding him the things you did together the foods you would cook for him the little things you did for him. That’s what I’m doing on my Snapchat lol posting all the dinners I make places I would go with him lol