is it an outfit or is he just a man?
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4:39 the term "basic"
5:38 why is it easier for men to dress fashionable?
8:21 the rigidness of masculinity
10:00 first outfit
10:48 second outfit
11:13 third outfit
11:51 fourth outfit
12:26 fifth outfit
13:04 gendered fashion
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SOURCES:
No longer just a pretty face: Fashion magazines' depictions of ideal female beauty from 1959 to 1999: onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/a...
Fashion and the Homospectatorial Look: www.journals.uchicago.edu/doi...
In Defense of Basic | What Does It Meme? • In Defense of Basic | ...
A HISTORY OF FEMINIST FASHION: PROMINENT DECADES AND IDOLS THAT REDEFINED WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A WOMAN: fuzeuk.org/blog/a-history-of-...
"I'm Not Like Other Girls": • "I'm Not Like Other Gi...
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@ForeignManinaForeignLand 2 жыл бұрын
I realized fashion for women is a scam when I wear the same damn ting 3 times out of the week and get the responses as my gyal who wears a different outfit almost every other day
@GlAsseshalf 2 жыл бұрын
Fr I’m like a cartoon character I wear the same thing everyday but still get some complements
@val_valentine003 2 жыл бұрын
I’ll never understand the whole never wear something more than once thing? Like I’m not Rich?
@JPPATEL-wm1yh 2 жыл бұрын
@@val_valentine003 yeah wtf?
@octavianjoseph8633 2 жыл бұрын
@@val_valentine003 Yeah, I don't get it either. What do you even do? wear the outfit once and never wear it.... Again? People actually think that wearing a piece of clothing more than once is... dirty or something?
@someasiankid6323 2 жыл бұрын
what
@TTTups 2 жыл бұрын
i feel like men are called fashionable when they just wear all baggy things and look young and relaxed this way bc the more "classic and basic" look for men is rather tight fitting shirts and almost tight pants, like very straight and simple silhouette so the bagginess is fresh. but it's probably also about how they carry themselves
@tdogdamuhfukka 2 жыл бұрын
so is it fashionable still if men wore tight stuff still?
@TTTups 2 жыл бұрын
@@tdogdamuhfukka idk probably depending on patterns and colors and stuff like that
@oliviac295 2 жыл бұрын
I mean, maybe. But on a whole, basic mens clothing is baggy compared to womens’ clothing
@RadicalR0nnie 2 жыл бұрын
the classic and basic look is baggy/relaxed lmao. skinny clothes aren’t considered classic, just look at james dean and marlon brando back in the day buddy
@tdogdamuhfukka 2 жыл бұрын
@@RadicalR0nnie i'm a guy and i wear more skinny clothes to be honest, that is more fashionable to me
@AWDTH1111 Жыл бұрын
A man can’t care about this stuff without being labeled “gay” and that sucks. I’m a straight dude and I hate how boring men’s fashion is. But as soon as I start thinking outside the box when it comes to underwear, clothes and formalwear, suddenly my sexual orientation is in question? That’s bullshit.
@axserwz5022 Жыл бұрын
Honestly I don't care anymore, If I'm gay, I'm gay ig, I don't have a problem with that. I like to say if you have a problem with the way I want to dress then you're not the kind of person I want to be around, that's what makes me happy, so F it, y'know
@tylerlips7800 Жыл бұрын
@@axserwz5022 if they call you gay for your style choices, you’re doing it right
@lizanya6433 Жыл бұрын
except you CAN care. challenge the norms. men’s fashion is boring but when men express themselves through fashion more, it will change. challenge toxic masculinity.
@jordin.5577 Жыл бұрын
Dawg stop caring bout others tf
@AWDTH1111 Жыл бұрын
@@jordin.5577 it’s not about caring, I don’t like constantly having to explain myself to people or be asked about it.
@matsab7930 Жыл бұрын
In all seriousness I think that 99% of general fashion is just how attractive you are and how well your clothes fit. I’ve seen extremely pretty girls pull off literally anything; they can shave their hair and wear a seemingly random set of clothes and still look fantastic. I think when you see these ‘amazing fits’ for men, you’ve just seen above average attractive men wearing these outfits, and what you’ve really been ‘blown away’ by was just the fact that they’re attractive. The fits are pretty objectively basic as fuck; I don’t know a single man who doesn’t wear clothes like those you mentioned.
@ekkmarte974 Жыл бұрын
put sn unattractive man with a non connecting beard and unkempt hair in those outfits and they wont be seen as good outfits anymore.
@abelpazos51 Жыл бұрын
This is what most people overlook! it’s always the most attractive boys that go viral and then girls think any guy can just wear a t shirt and jeans and be a fashion icon. That’s not how it works.
@leftenantthunder Жыл бұрын
fr its not "easy for a man to be attractive" because what makes men is attractive is genetic. Height, bone structure, facial aesthetics. No one is dating the 5'6 guy cuz he wears a nice polo shirt and knows colour theory in fashion.
@boass Жыл бұрын
@@leftenantthunder Wow, I’m so thankful people see this the same way I do. I find this fashion debate so funny. Have you ever heard someone say “you would look good wearing anything, even a trash bag”. Well that statement holds true, attractive people in trash bags are still more appealing than ugly people in “fashionable” clothes.
@leftenantthunder Жыл бұрын
@@boass the buzzcut is a great example of this. Its a hairstyle heralded as timeless and suitable for anyone but have you ever seen a guy whos not sterotypically masculine rock one? They look like a heroine addict 😂😂
@vaibhavkr5659 2 жыл бұрын
"Looks like I just came out of bed, and put on the comfiest clothing I could find" As a guy, I can confirm that's all what most of us do
@lastmanstanding7155 2 жыл бұрын
@Rabarbersoep Based
@user-fo9lw3pq8l 2 жыл бұрын
And that's how most of y'all don't stand out from the rest.
@lastmanstanding7155 2 жыл бұрын
@@user-fo9lw3pq8l And? Maybe I don't want to stand out. I dress how I like. It's not gross and it's not over the top. Just average suits me fine.
@darkthunder2776 2 жыл бұрын
@@lastmanstanding7155 Yeah, I don't get what they are trying say. For me as long as the clothes aren't visually dirty looking (like all muddy), I don't give a fuck what people say.
@D4NKN4 2 жыл бұрын
@@user-fo9lw3pq8l thats not the goal tho. if he feels comfy and feels good looking, it works. his goal isn't to become the next up and running model. Plus not all of us are loaded in money
@JG124_ 2 жыл бұрын
You know it's crazy, as a guy, I've actually had the same thought, but from the opposite perspective. I'd think to myself "women have so many options and ways to express themselves with fashion. If I was going to a formal event, my options are pretty much just a suit and tie." But I never realized that from women's perspective, that would be a bad thing. And now that you point it out, I do realize that I would probably be overwhelmed having to live up to such high fashion standards too.
@twit9129 Жыл бұрын
It's loose loose, men have less socially acceptable options and can't fully express themselves. Women have too much socially acceptable options where the standards are too high. Goddammit it, wish we could just all share.
@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans Жыл бұрын
this is why i wore a suit to my recital lol i wanted to cross dress but i didn’t have a mens cut suit 🥲 and thank you so much for understanding, it truly helps us a lot
@Grapepary Жыл бұрын
yes absolutely yes, I hate that men formal attire is so limited. I'm not sure what I would want it to be because I don't also want to be wearing a dress but it's so boring!
@danieljohn4014 Жыл бұрын
exactly! love your comment
@TenderNoodle Жыл бұрын
It can be both! Sometimes I revel in the amount of choices I have to express myself, and feel bad when I look in the men’s shoe section and find the same slacks repeated over in over again in different shades of brown. But when I just want to live my life and not care about what I’m wearing (especially during formal or semi-formal events) it’s quite stressful. It’s a double edged sword so to speak.
@GoufinAround_ Жыл бұрын
As a guy who likes to go with more of a workwear/skate, or a mix of that with athleisure, type of aesthetic, I legit love when I see a woman wearing the same time of thing. Also, all of those outfits look great on you, especially the first one with those jeans
@Rare987 10 ай бұрын
Yeah idk what she's on about, women wear this all the time. Its called Grunge fashion and its super popular with skater girls, metal heads, tomboys etc.
@cavemann_ 8 ай бұрын
I loved the fifth look!
@teddybear51666 Жыл бұрын
I would also say an element of "is it a fit or is HE just skinny" plays into this, oversized looks look the best hanging off of a smaller (though still tall) frame, whereas for bigger builds, muscled builds or even just average/dad bod builds, it can be very tempting to fall into dressing super rigid and boring bc that's the shit that fits well, whereas anything that's more interesting tends to require that smaller frame to pull it off well. The silhouette of a fashionable man on social tends to rely on him being skinny/fit without a lot of bulk from fat or muscle. Personally this is why myself and a lot of other men gravitate towards workwear and skate/punk types of fashion, carhartt jackets look great on bigger guys, straight cut jeans as opposed to super baggy, slightly oversized or just normally fitting shirts, stuff that actually plays into and accentuates the fact you're a guy with a bigger body. I know I struggled for a long time around 16-22, growing out of my skinny teenager body into a bigger more muscled frame, because I just felt like the fattest piece of shit for no longer being able to pull off the skinny oversized look, and I feel a lot of guys have the same reaction. Just my two cents on this, though I completely agree with all the other points you make, mens fashion definitely suffers from a lack of expectation + rigid masculinity and doesn't have nearly the same pressure as women's fashion
@mavrickfaust2751 5 ай бұрын
Obviously fashion is subjective but ive never vibed with the oversized look. The whole point of clothing is to enhance visually and or be functional. Baggy iversized seems counter intuitive for both.
@EPWillard 4 ай бұрын
i think part of the reason stuff like carhartt looks better on larger guys is because of the social element where our brains know this is work wear and them being a bigger guy gives you the impression that even if they are a bit pudgy they've probably got muscle under it from working some kind of manual labour. all but one of the actually strong people i knew growing up were not slimmer gym type guys but what is now called dad bod so i think that combines with my existing conceptions about people who wear carhartts. i was never trying to go for oversized but i know what you mean because i started as a 110lb twig and passively gained about half that as i grew out of my teenage years.
@teddybear51666 3 ай бұрын
@@EPWillard Yeah definitely! There's a level of confidence when you're a bigger guy wearing work wear because it DOES feel like it was made to fit you because it actually WAS. Designs like the Detroit Jacket were made in an era when the fashionable look for a man was tall and buff, not skinny and lean, so it really does compliment that larger frame and the confidence boost is massive from that alone. Also I completely agree about the muscle-manual labour point, the fact it's WORK wear adds to the overall look and confidence for the person wearing it, because it's ideally meant to be on a bigger body in the first place, and it shape and design lets everybody know about it. As much as people shit on work wear becoming too trendy, it's one of the few styles still being produced in this era that still have that old, much larger silohuette, so of course it was an instant hit among bigger guys struggling to squeeze in to a tiny shirt-baggy jeans combo.
@user-hy6cp6xp9f 2 жыл бұрын
To give you reference to how rigid male fashion is, I was given the "damn you're dressing kind of gay" look by relatives for *tucking a shirt in*. Masculinity is VERY rigid
@tadeo517 2 жыл бұрын
yeah dude i swear i get judged for just cuffing my pants or wearing random colors
@tkokflux6322 2 жыл бұрын
no ❤️
@FPSZeb 2 жыл бұрын
@@tadeo517 My friend said chuffed pants looks "gay" the other day and theres me stood next to him with chuffed pants XD looks like im gay hahah. NGL though growing up in rural areas sucks a fat one. everyone looks the same and if you try something different you get ripped a new one for it
@tadeo517 2 жыл бұрын
@@FPSZeb yeah same in more poor countries like mine
@borov788 2 жыл бұрын
if you're masculine enough you can pull off dressing gay
@Rachel-zf2wm 2 жыл бұрын
I think a good example would be the “who wore it better? “ headline. Women can wear the same dresses years apart, have completely different body types and have never met, yet they’ll still be compared. Then men all wear the same copy past suit to the same event and yet no one says a thing
@aintnobodylikeu 2 жыл бұрын
oh my god you're right😐
@flunkd 2 жыл бұрын
this... is so true
@soggytoast8981 2 жыл бұрын
ugh i hate the “who wore it better” like just let these women be lmao they don’t need the constant comparison to other women just because they have spotlight
@plzleavemealone9660 2 жыл бұрын
I've worn the same 2 jeans and 2 of my favorite sweaters and one dress for months and no one cared and I still got 3 confessions during 3 months. Normal people don't actually care unless you're some extremely popular celebrity or something. And the people that do care are usually other girls.
@YMM09 2 жыл бұрын
@@plzleavemealone9660 this is what I’m saying. I wear the same shit everyday and nobody cares. I’ve worn the same dress to three different occasions, and have gotten many compliments on the dress. Normal people just do not care and if they do they are mostly women saying something.
@bobaaddict9546 Жыл бұрын
As a straight man, i realized how rigid mens fashion really was when I went to a concert with a fishnet shirt topped with a button up shirt (unbuttoned to show the shirt). To me, I was trying something new that I don’t really see with other guys. I had a gay friend with me at the time who was a fashion major and he said it looked great on me. My other friend who was straight started thinking i was gay. I do believe fashion trends will change the norms in the future and I am simply just waiting for that hoping that men’s fashion can improve. I would also like to say something that I have heard from a friend that men look better when they layer their clothes and women look better when they show more skin.
@Soluscide Жыл бұрын
I've started layering my clothing a lot more recently and I definitely agree that it looks infinitely better, but it's gonna suck when it gets hot out, lol.
@lesaventuresduncouillu8287 11 ай бұрын
Nah das definitely gay a fishnet
@kredokk9435 10 ай бұрын
Bro it's a fucking fishnet of course you're gay
@zaintime001 9 ай бұрын
Nah u just gay bruh
@impjbtw 8 ай бұрын
mesh shirts goes crazy
@1oneinaminion Жыл бұрын
as a guy i've struggled with presenting myself through fashion because of bullying for being "too different", "too feminine", "gay", and "a girl"- i still think if it was better if i just wore hoodies and sweatpants, but i don't want to. i've gotten more confident with it and i'm proud of myself for dressing how i want. i still get weird stares when i use the boys bathroom and go to boys p.e, but i don't care. better that than dressing how i don't want to dress. to demonstrate: i often use clothing from the "women's aisle", dresses, skirts, and other feminine stuff.
@h_sbmhs 2 жыл бұрын
in my opinion, body types really do play a big part to make an outfit look good, so an outfit may look good on women but may not look on men and vice versa
@naomiportlouis1695 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! I wish it wasn't this way but the because the silhouette is an important aspect of the outfit/aesthetic, it doesn't always translate across different body types. Which definitely alters how we perceive the outfit on a person.
@anormaluser5750 2 жыл бұрын
an outfit may look extremely different on same sex people tho, i think it all depends on your body type, independently of how you identify
@scarletdragon1019 2 жыл бұрын
Men's clothes are designed to highlight our masculine biology. While women's clothes are designed to highlight their feminine biology. That's why a man, no matter how pretty and skinny he is, will always look ridiculous on a dress, a skirt, or a tight t-shirt, even baggy clothes look ridiculous on us, guys. However, when it comes to baggy clothes, the average girl can pull it out, and still look cute. "Cute" is not a thing when it comes to men, at least not the same way as with women
@iris75434 10 ай бұрын
@@scarletdragon1019i actually think men wearing dresses looks "stupid" to most people because of prejudices. most people aren't used to seeing males dressing that kind of clothing in their everyday life and/or have that masculinity complex. im pretty sure if all men started going out in dresses it would become just as normal as a girl wearing a skirt. people used to get weirded out by women wearing pants too so
@fnd6813 6 ай бұрын
@@scarletdragon1019WTF
@ctrlaltshift 2 жыл бұрын
Something I've thought about recently is that male fashion standards may be so low partially because there aren't as many options in male fashion. If you go into an H&M for example, only about a quarter of the store is male clothes. This could also be related to how often men shop compared to women, but then this becomes a chicken-and-the-egg thing. Do men shop less because of less options, or are there less options cause men shop less? Same goes for fashion standards as well. Do men shop less because of lower standards, or have lower standards because they shop less? And so on. The other thing I find pretty interesting is the correlation between masculine female clothing in relation to feminism. I wonder if the increase in feminine male clothing is related to how men are starting to divert from toxic masculine standards. Anyway, just found that interesting. Great video!
@Mondscheinelfe 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t think that there are less options for men to shop. There are just waaay more options for women bc women fashion became a huge industry thus leading us to buy more and more often. I don’t think there was always such a huge difference in shopping options for men and women. It just changed for women and has not yet changed for men.
@ctrlaltshift 2 жыл бұрын
@@Mondscheinelfe yeah that makes sense
@HB-pz1cg 2 жыл бұрын
@@Mondscheinelfe I seriously wish us women also had less options. Women's fashion and the trend cycle are overwhelming.
@lipefim 2 жыл бұрын
@@Mondscheinelfe is not that it changed for woman, the modern fashion industry was created around woman as their target demographic. So it makes a lot of sense that the womens fashion evolved overtime a lot faster than mens fashion is evolving. All the point of shopping malls, high street stores, department stores, etc. was to induce woman to consume, because at the time the people who had the available income and time to spend it was middle class housewifes, so the market developed all those things to them. At the end of the day its all patriarchy.
@Sweet4chokoreeto 2 жыл бұрын
Men's clothes are better quality than women's quality, that's reflected on the tag. But there's almost no diversity in cuts, fits, lengths, colors and textures
@kevin4152 Жыл бұрын
Personally as a man i’ve always been jealous of the variety that women outfits can offer to the point where i projected what i would have liked to wear if i was a women into my girlfriend even tho she dress completely different from what i’d wear myself if i was a woman.
@impjbtw 8 ай бұрын
i thought mens standards for fashion were lower because of the infinitely smaller selection of clothes we have to wear without looking "feminine or gay" lol. even the graphic tees at F21 are better in the women's section. i just started shopping in the women's section in stores honestly no point even checking the men's section💀
@mavrickfaust2751 5 ай бұрын
We have solid diversity in cuts. We really just dont have dresses/ skirts, hyper tight bottoms, and lack cuts for our top that are less flattering for a dudes build. I do wish we had more patterns/color
@1twistedcpl6575 5 ай бұрын
What would you wear of you were female? 😂👍
@icymeow3417 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations you made a 14 minute video exposing how attractive people can wear almost anything and make it look good and fashionable.
@icymeow3417 Жыл бұрын
Sorry for the toxic comment. Got a bit agitated when watching.
@MyWillBeDone Жыл бұрын
@@icymeow3417 you're a wholesome person for that. Here's a measly like.
@Kabra2012 Жыл бұрын
I see no lie in this comment. Seems more like a misguided attempt to deflect a female trope onto men
@wasatarif8113 Жыл бұрын
@@MyWillBeDone you too are a wholeosme person for that. Here's a less-measly like.
@alexdiaz155 Жыл бұрын
@@icymeow3417 It also makes sense that a man’s outfit (however good or bad it is in its own right) looks entirely different on a slender woman. A square jaw, defined muscles, and wide shoulders make low effort casual fits look better, but what those men could look like is leagues ahead of average men in the same clothes.
@ShannonSpeaks 2 жыл бұрын
I’d argue that maybe some of these men are just confident. Maybe it’s not even the outfits that they are wearing that we like, maybe it’s just that they seems to be really comfortable in their own skin. Obviously some of the fashions boys are killing it i.e wisdom and Tyler the creator but others are just confident conventionally attractive men.
@s0ld877 2 жыл бұрын
Most often, especially on a picture, people don’t really mean confidence when they say that someone looks confident. They often just associate certain masculine facial features with confidence and thus call it that. So I guess what I’m trying to say is, that the confidence you talk about is in its essence just the conventional attractiveness you talk about.
@ShannonSpeaks 2 жыл бұрын
@@s0ld877 I see where you’re coming from
@andreaparrado1900 2 жыл бұрын
@@s0ld877 i agree so hard w this
@renrww6847 2 жыл бұрын
lmao your definition of well dressed are just dudes with a basic style
@ShannonSpeaks 2 жыл бұрын
@@renrww6847 you think Tyler the Creator is basic?
@truepachi1689 2 жыл бұрын
For men, I've seen that it's seen as bad to try experiment, like people will call dudes wearing nail polish gay. Or if a man wears something that's too "out there" then it's seen as bad. Homogeneity is something that males are almost forced into. If you wear something different you get clowned on. Even something that isn't significantly bold, like boot cut jeans. Men will get flamed for it. It's quite interesting to see how it's the complete opposite for women (where it's frowned upon to be the same, yet for men it's frowned upon to be different).
@kundaigotore992 Жыл бұрын
The masculine is rigid, it’s unfortunate but it’s reality. I have my basic set of clothes then my experimental ones for this reason.
@kundaigotore992 Жыл бұрын
@Allan Grundy ii I had Nail polish because it looked cool
@dogsrcute691 Жыл бұрын
@Allan Grundy ii it's just nail polish, you wouldn't say that to a woman because it's seen as something feminine. They just want to look nice like every other person
@googlekopfkind Жыл бұрын
i am a dude and i wear the weirdest gay shit. no one has ever complained to me, quite the opposite, i only ever get compliments
@twit9129 Жыл бұрын
@@googlekopfkind there's 2 possibilities in this. You're either incredibly masculine and your masculine traits "cancel out" the femininity of your choices. Or your lucky and friends and society just like you a lot.
@justusmorgan1462 Жыл бұрын
In my experience, men's fashion is made for respect more than attention. A well-made, long-lasting suit shows that a guy recognizes quality. Also, the fashion with men's traditional formal clothing exists as a blank canvas to make every choice pop. Patterned shirt? Pocket square? Eye-catching bowtie? People notice. And, of course, wearing the same kind of outfit can create a sense of camaraderie.
@EPWillard 4 ай бұрын
i think a significant part of it is also that clothing tends to follow trends from above and because of things like the french revolution where they would identify people and execute/imprison/street-murder them based on clothing men's fashion has been very quiet for the last two centuries and change. if you look to the previous time period men were constantly dressing up as much as possible, making diverse choices in fabric and colours, and similarly to women changing outfits based on the event or time of day etc. the extent to which a powerful man could finance his wife's outfits could be a culturally accepted way that he signals his wealth and taste without making himself as much of a target because he can blame it on the woman's tendency for spending money if push comes to shove. of course this is more historically minded and alot has changed in the last 130 years or so, but i think it's worth considering since current cultural ideas usually contain significant DNA from previous ones.
@alexredfield1943 9 ай бұрын
I'm a guy and I cannot even have long hair without receiving a ton of comments about it. Masculinity is not easy, it's just rigid
@meltingspot1064 10 күн бұрын
i Woulda believed you if this was 2007. It’s trendy to have long hair nowadays even in black communities.
@khonziwesibanyoni2084 2 жыл бұрын
It's the body's frame. Certain cuts/ styles of clothing just look better on certain body frames. I used to wonder about this a lot as a teen and get frustrated when clothes I've seen on other people don't look that great on me. Grew up a tomboy (kinda still am) and I liked a lot of baggy tops and pants BUT, I am chesty. (My lower body though looks more athletic/ boyish) )So when I wore baggy clothes they just didn't look as great on me as they did on my siblings that had much smaller boobs. Instead, my mom (who is in fashion retail) suggested I only do baggy pants and fitted tops and my outfits started looking a whole lot better. There are tops that look amazing on me and basic on my siblings and vice versa. That's what's going on here. Also, the men she showed have similar bodies. I bet some other men wouldn't look as good in those same outfits.
@Aaarandom 2 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I was thinking. I don’t think it has much to do with gender as it does the body frame and how attractive the person is to the viewer. You said it better tho :)
@Caroline-hw9yw 2 жыл бұрын
I had the same experience trying to find what works for me, I love baggy comfy clothes but I was cursed with boobs that make me hate the way I look in pretty much any top that doesn't hug my figure.
@magicalgirl4 2 жыл бұрын
i love baggy clothes but i struggle with my lower half. im grateful that i have smaller boobs (but even then i bind because i'm enby and get dysphoria still) but i dislike how feminine my hips are, would much rather want an athletic build on the bottom like boys in these pics have 😖
@LethalLemonLime 2 жыл бұрын
same. im shaped like a fridge so not much looks good on me.
@ju999X 2 жыл бұрын
Facts. My chest is more on the larger side …so hoodies make me look kinda stuffed 😞
@DreamyAileen Жыл бұрын
All I learned from this video is that pretty people can look good in just about anything
@Providencefan44 Жыл бұрын
That's what pretty means
@MementoVita Жыл бұрын
Smh facts lol
@mango-pm2xx Жыл бұрын
honestly, i loved the look of them all on you, i love casual. it doesnt show so much, and it makes you look approachable and comfortable, smart.
@itsjigen Жыл бұрын
I think there's a huge difference between the fashion you see on Pinterest or in magazines and irl. The fashion seen in photos (of really good looking guys and girls) is literally made for photos and hard to recreate and look good irl (like you struggled with tying that sweater "properly")
@chetnakhanna5965 2 жыл бұрын
This entire debate also started with the rise of kpop where the male kpop idols actually have good fashion sense but many are "basic" too yet the kpop fans will praise that outfit no matter what its more about the person I feel than the actual outfit
@keldamingo2078 2 жыл бұрын
@@Taylorc0de Fashion is subjective. If u like someone's style u have that right. Perhaps, J-hope's style tho nice on him isn't everyone's style preference. But... there r still lots of ppl who like his looks too. V has a bigger fan base thus, u will see more compliments of his style. I saw a fashion student react to their outfits and whilst she thought J-hope may be the most technically fashionable, she resonated better w/ the style of Tae as it's acc closer to her style. Also, being extra/experimental isn't the only thing allowed to be fashionable, simplicity + "basic" looks r the foundation of fashion. The main point of fashion is wearing clothes that suit the individual + fit their proportions. Ppl r allowed to have simple styles or not, one isn't acc better than the other. V is definitely an attractive guy (so yeah ppl will think he looks gd in a lot of things) however, he still dresses in a way that works for HIM. Dressing like J-hope wouldn't work... cause he isn't J-hope. So, if ppl think V or JK look fashionable, y not? The clothes suit their style and proportions and they wear them confidently. ( Im not biased towards V or JK btw.)
@pt6731 2 жыл бұрын
Which is why to get to the bottom of this we need actual statistics to make judgement of what is happening otherwise its all assumptions
@bbypinkcherry 2 жыл бұрын
@@pt6731 statistics can be pulled to justify almost every assumption. check the observations in the real world than just numbers all of the time
@pt6731 2 жыл бұрын
@@bbypinkcherry mhm there can be a concentrate of xyz in one area or where bad people get into the stats or just lots of factors
@ceniceroo 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, but i've seen some idols with cool fashion like minghao, g-dragon or jhope
@Junior-jz2ug 2 жыл бұрын
the idea that an outfit is good only if it suits everybody is a weak point to make. The body who wears it is crucial to the perception that we have, i understand that it's unfair, but that is kinda how it works. the size of the body, the personality, even facial features play a roll in this, take for example Saint Laurent's male models all of them have androgynous features (skinny legs, a mix of masculine and femine facial features) because it complements the style that adresses feminity on a man's body, if a hyper masculine man like Henry Cavill wore an SLP outfit it would look very off, while timothee Chalamet would look amazing. it doesn't mean that SLP is bad fashion is just mean that the wearer's body is very important for the look
@mothgoth0 2 жыл бұрын
this omg
@Caroline-hw9yw 2 жыл бұрын
I think the problem comes in when we put one type above another. I'm big on body types and finding out when best enhances people's natural beauty, which is different for everyone, but I understand why some people want to reject that approach because media pushes the hourglass body type to the forefront and pretends it's the "correct" shape for a woman to be. I love very baggy androgynous looks on other people (usually tall, slender, with a straight frame) but as as a short curvy girl I absolutely hate the way that style actually looks on me, because it doesn't suit my natural body type. I definitely don't think these kinds of videos would be as prominent if there was more equal representation in the fashion industry.
@valeriapineda42 2 жыл бұрын
this is why i think the topic of "is it an outfit or they are just..." gets really stupid most of the time. Some clothes don't fit me as well as a curvy women, the same with them, some clothes don't fit them as well as it fits to someone without curves. If i chose an outfit it's not only because other people use it it's because i like it and i know it fits me, or i simply make them fit me changing things
@LethalLemonLime 2 жыл бұрын
this is why box braids, twists, locs, etc. look weird and awkward af on non black people
@glock4455 2 жыл бұрын
@@LethalLemonLime locs do look fine on white ppl tho Shit's stylish as fucc
@clutch-zilla9957 Жыл бұрын
You’re videos really stand out …absolutely live the casual vibe :)
@saam7737 7 ай бұрын
It’s worth noting that a vast majority of the female fashion standards are perpetuated by women, not men. Most men couldn’t care less if you wear the same dress several times. That being said, it doesn’t change the fact that the standard is there, I just think it’s important to see why it’s there, because if we don’t, we can’t work on changing it.
@williampatrick4072 2 жыл бұрын
Here is an off the cuff, stream of consciousness thought. I think that part of the effect of men being fashion king status is more body language than anything else. You could definitely pull off some of the looks you wore. The problem is right out of the gate, you had doubt about what you were wearing and your body language was very different. A lot of guys are super relaxed or assume powerful or confident body language no matter what they are wearing. The same can be said of fashion models striking a pose when being photographed. I have seen plenty of bold fashion choices amongst my wide array of friends. The ones that stand out are always the people that look like they are confident or relaxed within the clothes they wear not because of the clothes. Also as a man who is more ornamental in his fashion, I get a lot of compliments on the way I look or am dressed even when I think I am being "casual." Sometimes this comes from people I would scale way higher on both fashion and physical attractiveness. I know that to be because I am so over confident in myself and how I present myself. All this being said, I think a lot of it is just as you said, more about the perception of how a man is expected to present himself versus the expectations of what we reserve for women. Side bar, I love androgynous looks on everyone! Sorry for the mini ramble. Great video as usual.
@oliSUNvia 2 жыл бұрын
confidence and attitude definitely affect how we perceive a person, but i wonder if that has more to do with how attractive we view a person to be rather than how fashionable they are. attractiveness and having a sense of fashion can definitely be hard to separate from one another, and i'm sure being fashionable influences your level of perceived attractiveness, but should attractiveness legitimately factor into how fashionable someone is?
@ashenlion805 2 жыл бұрын
@@oliSUNvia I'm pretty sure it's attractiveness. I didn't see any unattractive people in your examples.
@anubis8791 2 жыл бұрын
@@ashenlion805 Yeah for real, a ugly man who wears the same clothes as the examples wouldnt be considered fashionable either. Plus as a guy I found the girl in the "rigidness of masculinity" section actually more fashionable but maybe that's purely cause i found her more attractive. Also the outfits that oliSUNvia wore were very fashionable for the casual setting especially if she wore the with confidence, However I dont see a guy (or girl) wearing that stuff in a award ceremony or gala
@Tania-ex6ve 2 жыл бұрын
@@anubis8791 it’s not just about the occasion, I never seen any guy use the same about of styling with the help of jewellery or layering as I have seen in women.
@anubis8791 2 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree but i believe that actually is the opposite and more prominent problem compared to what the video discusses. The video tries to say that women can't wear masculine or simplistic fashion and be seen as fashionable. However, there are many suits made for women that ae worn by fashionably business women. There are no dresses made for men and they are never considered fashionable wearing them (other then Tom Holland performing Umbrella). In the same vein men are considered unfashionable with a lot of jewelry and makeup (to a lesser extent.) Women can wear both feminine and masculine clothing, many do, and be considered fashionable (for example Zendaya in her suits/casual clothing) but men really don't have both options.
@purplectric777 2 жыл бұрын
As a man who’s into fashion, I’ve always seen it as the complete opposite. A situation of men having less variety of clothing options/styles while women seem to have all the freedom to dress however while having so many options of changing things up. I’ve even spoken to friends on this and yeah, other men who want to try new fits feel stuck due to the low amount of options in menswear. Ig this video was eye opening mostly due to seeing the other side of the argument. Though I do disagree, I feel like women can usually wear any outfit and still look desirable, while men have to go away from norms to seem even slightly good looking. Even in the examples u gave in this vid, trying on the outfits men wear yourself, I feel like that still looked fashionable. But idk
@nebroskitheraut6705 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@clover6804 2 жыл бұрын
I think that these strict gender roles and ideas make it worse for everyone. Men have less things they can “acceptably” wear but they are considered fashionable for a large number of those things. Women can acceptably wear a wider range of clothes but a lower percentage of those clothes are considered fashionable. It’s a loose-loose situation.
@TehGoRy 2 жыл бұрын
Completely agree with you, had to stop the vid and look in comments to see if it was shared opinion ^^ Should be interesting to see, in term of prices even, how expensive are men clothing to get a bit away of the norm. As someone that likes to style a bit differently (not hypebeast stuff), I still do have had to spend 150-200 bucks for the "out of norm" clothes that I have. Everything else will be "an alternative to a classic" and often the tweak would be either made of lack of taste either not special enough. And imo, these basic outfits on a girl, look cute and fashionable, while on men it's seen and reseen, seems like the names says, pretty basic
@havenotchosenyet 2 жыл бұрын
@@clover6804 why are people even trying to be attractive to the max no. of people?
@clover6804 2 жыл бұрын
@@havenotchosenyet I dunno. Society puts a lot of pressure on people to look pretty or handsome to others. That’s my best guess.
@littletremblingaspen1432 Жыл бұрын
as a dude that likes exploring bolder more artistic clothing it's SO difficult finding affordable mens clothes that aren't just plain shirt, plain shirt + graphic, plaid/striped shirt. lately I been buying clothes from women's department and hand-tailoring them to fit my frame :')
@GizShi Жыл бұрын
I got called slurs for trying outfits that were different than just putting on baggy tee and jeans for looking too feminine in my country. There were times where I envied that a woman could put on "masculine" clothes and still get a pass while men wearing feminine clothes immediately get the gay label regardless of their actual preferences. But I never thought about the other side in this situation, it sounds horrible to feel pressured to always compete with such high fashion standards.
@adriansantacruz3642 Жыл бұрын
As a man I can say that a LOT of men don't know how to wear themself, so when someone see a guy dressing "aesthetic" they rate the outfit like a 10/10
@RiseUpToYourAbility Жыл бұрын
A lot more men care more about functionality over aesthetic. Why do you think men's jeans comes with big pockets, whiles women's jeans comes with little to no pockets. Pockets make the jeans look uglier, but they are more functional. The majority of men prefer the functionality over the aesthetics. That is why it is just as hard to find men's jeans with fake pockets over women's jeans with real pockets. I hate this notion that both genders are the same and we gravitate towards the same things, and the only reason why people prefer certain things is because of "social norms."
@beatriceines3456 Жыл бұрын
@@RiseUpToYourAbility I believe that the “smaller pockets” on women’s clothing came from a marketing ploy to encourage women to buy bags/products that can hold their items. Lots of women absolutely love pockets and get super excited when brands can market correctly. Plus, big pockets aren’t ugly, I think that cargo pants and baggy jeans are one of the biggest trends right now for women
@beatriceines3456 Жыл бұрын
@@RiseUpToYourAbility aesthetic and pricing definitely do have a factor too, different variables for sure!
@SamSam-pj8wj Жыл бұрын
Fax
@RiseUpToYourAbility Жыл бұрын
@@beatriceines3456 All I know is that market doesn't lie. There is no great conspiracy. It's like women complain about how women's shampoo and body soap cost more than men's. Well that is because men are willing to use Irish spring soap and 5 in 1 (Body wash, shampoo, conditioners, shaving cream, ETC) Men care about functionality that is why we are ok with Irish spring over some fancy smelling soap from bath and beyond. That is why men's grooming products don't cost a lot because men aren't willing to pay more.
@spigney4623 2 жыл бұрын
I think the better question is "is it an outfit or is he just tall?" We have all pinned an image of a skinny girl wearing jeans and a white t-shirt. I don't see how it's different. I don't disagree with the premise that women need to try harder to achieve the bare minimum, but it's only easy to be fashionable if you're a ((tall, skinny)) dude.
@handitover. 2 жыл бұрын
@Judging Budgie I’m a relatively short girl (5’3”-4”) and I love dressing like a lot of the guys in this video haha. My staple is an oversized tshirts and straight cut wide pants and sneakers. Maybe it’s just my style but I was watering at the mouth for every outfit she wore in this video haha. If you’re looking for advice, I would say try and find shirts that are just long enough that your silhouette is 50% shirt on top and 50% pants on the bottom. Or if you like tucking things in, 1/3 is shirt on top and 2/3 is pants on the bottom, Also, I’ve found that wider cut pants work better but that’s just my taste. Platform sneakers are super cool and can add an extra inch. Try and match colors well, and while it sucks to hear, a big part of making these outfits work is confidence. Stand tall, shoulders back, hands in pockets, basically fake it til you make it. Try not to care too much about what others think, I promise you look dope!
@violetfolgi 2 жыл бұрын
@@handitover. also a very short person here (155cm, I think that's around 5"?), thanks a lot for the tips!! if you have any more I'd totally love to read more haha
@plzleavemealone9660 2 жыл бұрын
Woman don't actually have to. Most people (besides maybe some other girls) don't care. Unless you're a celebrity that made herself known as someone ''fashionable'' literary no one cares. I went through school for 3 months in the winter wearing two pairs of jeans, a dress and 4 big a-s confy sweaters repeatedly (my favorite sweater twice a week or sometimes three times even). I was only wearing a bit of foundation nothing else. My hair just washed, that's it. 3 guys that I talked to a few times confessed their feelings to me during that time and no one ever even seemed to notice or care what I was wearing. Because guess what? No one cares. The only time a guy pointed it out was when I found a cute hair tye in my room and decided to wear it and he said, well, that's cute. I think a lot of people don't realize that most people don't care that much. A study showed that most people look at themselves in zoom calls for example. No one looks at things in detail as much as you believe.
@spigney4623 2 жыл бұрын
@@plzleavemealone9660 I think that's a good point. When I was in school, the realization that nobody cared about how I looked was freeing. BUT, school doesn't represent the whole world. In a professional setting if I forget eyeliner there's a good chance my coworkers will comment. I was thinking about this when I said women are often expected to put more effort into their appearance.
@plzleavemealone9660 2 жыл бұрын
@@spigney4623 But would you have gotten that comment if you never wore eyeliner before. If someone suddenly decided to get coffee instead of warm milk with honey, people would comment as well. And while I do think people shouldn't have to wear a uniform to work when they are just gonna sit on their seat for 8 hours anyways. However if a men came into work without his tie tied properly or his hair done he might even lose his job just like woman.
@User45x92 Жыл бұрын
As a straight man, the day someone made fun of me for wearing something borderline “gay”, was the day I realized how silly it is to be worried about how you’re perceived. Since that day my style has completely shifted into the “gae” And nobody tells me shit
@jiffylou98 Жыл бұрын
all I really learned is that fashion is REALLY subjective. olivia's 8/10 is my "he left the house in that?"
@awookieandagerman 2 жыл бұрын
"I feel like I look dumb" Those are the exact words that run through my head anytime I have to put on something considered "fashionable" as a dude. All I really want to wear is comfortable pants/shorts (depending on the weather) and a t-shirt with one of my favorite bands on it. Anything else makes me feel silly and inauthentic. I dunno how it is for other guys, maybe they feel more free when they put on "fashionable" clothes. I feel like I'm in a costume, expected to parrot some lines I didn't memorize because I never signed up to be in this play.
@Gobershmat 2 жыл бұрын
I definitely agree with you, I felt the exact opposite than her, all the outfits looked great on her and all the examples of the guys in them make me gag I hate guys fashion they all look dumb please just wear casual clothing and pull your pants up your ass. It’s a strange effect that guys fashion looks casual on women, and annoying on actual guys.
@Claire-lq1ll 2 жыл бұрын
I experience a pretty similar thing from the other side of the spectrum. I'm biologically female, but like to dress masculine sometimes, and often feel like I'm trying to portray something that I'm not, even if I feel more uncomfortable with feminine clothing that day.
@notsojharedtroll23 2 жыл бұрын
Eventually you just begin to ignore it. I'll say that my two cents on this take is that it MAY be the lightning and angles you are observing of yourself. Some outfits I have look better with a certain profile, haircut or angle of the light I'm using.
@rafreyes5140 2 жыл бұрын
i think people have different preferences..idk exactly what is the difference between fashion and style but i think they are a form of art which means it is a way of communication, a form of self expression so so do you for you
@randolph4421 2 жыл бұрын
Yes. Like Johnny Depp been dressing at this trial with suits and rings and tatoos he looks fly as fuck but when i do it im putting on airs
@amaranthx3627 2 жыл бұрын
It's not the outfit, it's the man that's under the outfit that will always determine whether we like something or not. It's the same for women (or at least should be). You wear the outfit, don't let the outfit wear you. Style and confidence will always stand out more than any fashion trend.
@IXSigmaXI 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with this. If you are happy with your outfit then you will be more confident and people will notice you for that. If you have a nice accessory that stands out, they can compliment you on it to break the ice. the outfit itself is self-expression.
@stewartzayat7526 2 жыл бұрын
I personally know nothing about fashion, but a good outfit in my eyes means clothes that highlight feminine features in women and masculine features in men. For me attractivity is comprised of two key points: face and body shape. I am honestly unable to compare two outfits on two different people. I can only say that outfit one makes you more attractive than outfit two. It's all just pieces of fabric to me.
@AugieLN 2 жыл бұрын
totally agree I didn't buy new clothes when I became more fashionable at least imo I just learned proportions colors values and texture and instantly got more fashionable regardless of my closet
@louistaylor956 Жыл бұрын
To your point at 6:31, an interesting question to ask is who is enforcing this? Who is the authority that is judging and saying women "have to" have multiple dresses. I dont think guys care at all, in fact the only ones that seem to be enforcing this rule on women, are other women. I have never heard a guy say "oh but she wore that last time...she only has 1 dress...she is dressed like that other girl". This is ironically part of the reason guys don't have to worry, because guys don't judge each other like that. Just my thoughts
@CeleryBruh Жыл бұрын
they better be paying you a grand or two for a 4 minute ad segment
@puoq9761 2 жыл бұрын
It’s like I disagree and agree at the same time. I don’t think that guys are not expected to be “fashionable”. I’ve seen guys be mocked for not wearing the latest pair of shoes or clothing items that being very expensive. This have been a thing for not just females, but also males. Also having a brother who begged for newer clothes because the kids at school would roast or make fun of him. I’ve even heard women sometimes not like when a male doesn’t have expensive taste. Clothing in general can be a sign of high status depending on lots of factors. Not everyone thinks the same. Some clothing just doesn’t look good on a female not because of her being female, but it doesn’t complement her body as it would a male would or male like body meaning in terms of how much yin and Yang you have.
@karaleigh_eva 2 жыл бұрын
I agreed really strongly with what she said about men’s fashion not breaking any gender roles, which leads it to be extremely simple by comparison. Majority of men’s fashion is just pants and a tee, sweatshirt, hoodie, etc. Just varying in color. Women’s fashion experiments in silhouettes and textures and fabrics. So men’s fashion is extremely simple by comparison.
@puoq9761 2 жыл бұрын
@@karaleigh_eva honestly it depends on who we’re talking about. Clothing for men is more complex than what we make it to be. Me being black I’ve seen just as much creativity and artistic clothing from both male and female in the black community. That’s only because there’s a stigma that black people have to always look the best. In fact clothing for men in general has been at its highest peak of creative designs than ever before, probably not as much as women but it’s changing. I do believe some men just dress basic one because, most likely don’t care, two they don’t know how to dress and never had to care about it. Women on the other hand power is seen in her beautiful while men needed money to feel powerful. So it makes sense why they don’t dress up they never needed to.
@puoq9761 2 жыл бұрын
@@velvetday3874 yes all because you have expensive clothes doesn’t mean you’re fashionable. Being fashionable in the black community is important. Sorry I didn’t explain enough. Growing up I’ve seen my own people talk down on someone because of what they’re wearing and if it didn’t look good. That’s why I said is depends who.
@LethalLemonLime 2 жыл бұрын
This is true but doesn't actually refute the video's point.
@BigblackDavis 2 жыл бұрын
@@LethalLemonLime it does if her point was men have more freedom to dress and still be seen as attractive. That’s not necessarily true, because men still have to put in effort and women can wear the same shit as us and look good. Women try harder than men to look better than there peers, and that’s what she’s seeing rather than her nearly opposite point. It’s not like girls are just automatically seen as ugly because they throw on some jeans and tennis shoes rather than a skirt and heelz.
@zzseta Жыл бұрын
as a woman who could be considered as “tomboy” I loved all the outfits you tried I wish I had the money to buy them
@TitaniumTronic Жыл бұрын
My grandpa legit asked me if I liked girls cause I always wear pants 💀 He's a bit off, I'm asexual LMAO
@redmoonrise6507 Жыл бұрын
@@TitaniumTronic PANTS LMAOOO
@niki_bbb Жыл бұрын
I also loved these outfits, and to be honest one of the upsides of losing weight and getting into weightlifting for me was the ability to wear these kinds of loose silouettes. But I'm lesbian, so dunno. Maybe pants on women do be gay idunno! lmaoi
@appa609 Жыл бұрын
it doesn't look expensive. Go to valu village.
@santos-pink-867 Жыл бұрын
@@TitaniumTronic i mean u can be ace and like them in a romantic way
@shadokuma9969 Жыл бұрын
Personally I think there's a difference between looking good and being fashionable. The fits you tried on look good on you, it's not necessarily fashionable but it definitely looks good and I think it's a preference thing. But this was the most interesting video I've watched this whole week on KZfaq. The pacing and delivery in this video got me paying so much attention. Love it!
@rosamonddsane-selby6405 Жыл бұрын
The frames look fanastic on you !
@professionalamateur741 2 жыл бұрын
Yes to your statement about how men dressing feminine is more revolutionary than women dressing masculine! That’s what I’ve been saying!! Women wear pants and even suits, and it’s nothing special; but if a man wears a skirt or dress or even just makeup, it’s so controversial! I think it’s cool, but I know a lot of people who think men dressing “girly” is weird. And I feel like it’s both misogynistic and misandristic.
@sellerim6847 2 жыл бұрын
It's weird.
@nikemaraje5 2 жыл бұрын
@@BigblackDavis i like dressing feminine because I am feminine. That's all Yes maybe some people do it for attention, but there's no attention to be given if people aren't shocked in the first place lol... I don't get what is so revolutionnary about a man wearing a dress, it's a piece of cloth. Some men in the east culturally wear dresses and that's just how it is At the end of the day everything comes down to society.
@nikemaraje5 2 жыл бұрын
@@sellerim6847 what is ?
@U._.D 2 жыл бұрын
@@BigblackDavis "Difficult personality" With the say you said it, sounds like you'd love everyone to bend our backbones for society's indecisiveness. I think that a lot of "masculine" clothing is not "manly" but just comfortable, which is something that was historically taken away from women for men's eyes (figuratively). Also, "feminine" clothing was weirdly kept away from men and was the source of speculation for men's sexuality. So I say, society is the weird one, not us thinking and deciding for ourselves.
@missg8861 2 жыл бұрын
@@BigblackDavis btw the spandex booty shorts are perfect for girls doing a more high intensity workout or just a lot of running bc it keeps you cool and doesn’t do the swishy. all of the girls on my cross country team wore them w sports bras even tho it was just us and we had no one to impress. I know that’s not the main point of your comment, but I see guys w this misconception all the time-generally it’s just easier to move about in less clothing which is why I’d personally prefer an all-female gym to not deal with any drama with it.
@sebastianvega6032 2 жыл бұрын
Im a bi guy and girls with these looks are just so much more appealing to me, but the video really made me reconsider my own style and encouraged me to make bolder fashion choices
@sam_9228 2 жыл бұрын
lmao im also bi
@winterycold 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@sycration 2 жыл бұрын
Same, I prefer traditional men's clothing on everyone 😆
@AliKandirr 2 жыл бұрын
I would prefer a woman with the "just came out of bed, and put on the comfiest clothing I could find" look rather than "I've spent 2 hours getting dressed this morning" woman
@sam_9228 2 жыл бұрын
@@AliKandirr bro fr
@NanenMauricio Жыл бұрын
This video is proof that either I know absolutely nothing about fashion, or beauty/clothing standarts are insanely different in America
@justmii4887 Жыл бұрын
i loved all of these outfits and im trying them for college this week
@bubbly6379 2 жыл бұрын
As a guy I think part of the reason we build ourselves up in "mid" clothes is bc we don't receive that a lot from others, so when I see my friends looking even remotely presentable, I like to give them compliments
@bonesreds3062 2 жыл бұрын
King
@wob3786 Жыл бұрын
fr a nice shirt and some pants that arent shorts are always compliment worthy with my friends
@bubbly6379 Жыл бұрын
@@wob3786 YOOOOOOOOOO scuffed ai ai brothers
@wob3786 Жыл бұрын
@@bubbly6379 yessir
@blake7065 Жыл бұрын
No it's literally just because men's fashion is pretty simple there aren't really that many options. Women's clothing relies on showing off their body so there are more options they can use to have more skin showing in different areas and different holes cut in the fabric to show skin in different spots and other stuff like that.
@umuu2 2 жыл бұрын
Gender norms aside, the reason you don’t feel cute on the same outfits might also have to do with dressing your silhouette. Some pieces complement body shape better than others and that’s just it
@andrewcruz7595 Жыл бұрын
*stumbled across your channel great content!!! Love your glasses*
@user-ts1xs9jn2k 6 ай бұрын
ive just started the channel I feel like I could watch these alll night.
@addie9527 2 жыл бұрын
This was such a great video! I don’t feel aesthetic attraction to men, but I still found myself viewing the men’s outfits ‘better’ than women wearing the exact same outfit? Idk, I thought it was odd because I still view the women as prettier. Maybe I’ve just become accustomed to women being ‘dressed up’ and it still being perceived as casual.
@Tania-ex6ve 2 жыл бұрын
Yup a man and a women could literally wear the same outfit for example: jeans and a plain white T-shirt. But people would find the man to be fashionable but the woman to be basic.
@solarmoth4628 2 жыл бұрын
Really, I always think women wearing “men’s clothes” looks better. No matter what the outfit is.😅
@user-kg6pr1iv4i 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like it's about his body, because so much of fashion I'd based on body type. It just looks like he fills the fabric better?
@user-yu3in7wn5d 2 жыл бұрын
lesbian gang
@postrachsmietnikow 2 жыл бұрын
This is somewhat interesting to me as an aroace. While I do experience aesthetic attraction, i almost never find men attractive and I do think it's mostly due to the low standards of men's fashion. I also seem to be one of the only people in this comment section who wasn't all that blown away by the outfits she was recreating it the first place. I do think we tend to give men the pass regardless what they wear and disproportionately celebrate them when they brake the routine even a little bit. I just wish women weren't held to such a ridiculously higher standard.
@wyattkinsman 2 жыл бұрын
I do agree that lots of men get the title of "fashionable" when they are really doing the bare minimum, but I do have to say that I think these recent topics like "is it an outfit or is she just skinny" misses a huge part of fashion. Something that a lot of people forget is that a huge factor for wether or not an outfit looks good is what your body type is. For example, shorter people tend to look better in high waisted looser pants because they enhance their legs, and give them an illusion of being taller. So just because something looks good on one body type and not others doesn't mean it's not fashionable. Fashion isn't one size fits all. That's part of the skill of being fashionable. You can't just copy and paste something from the internet and expect it to look good, you have to come up with your own unique style that compliments your body and personality.
@AugieLN 2 жыл бұрын
totally agree I take a lot of inspiration from anybody but if I ever try and recreate a fit I usually only recreate fits with my height and similar build in the picture
@eybihl 2 жыл бұрын
anything is fashionable so even if your wearing a minimal outfit, and it's "bare minimum" if someone thinks its fashionable than its fashionable to them bare minimum ≠ bad
@reishi7402 2 жыл бұрын
This is why I don't get the point of this video. She just mad women be on eacher other dick
@kleozane2781 2 жыл бұрын
@@AugieLN I wear what my mom gives me.
@AugieLN 2 жыл бұрын
@@kleozane2781 true that I dont buy new clothes very often maybe like once a year ill buy like a cool hoodie or something lmao
@Bunny-pk9oz 9 ай бұрын
Summery: niggas ain't never seen drip so the bar low
@meltingspot1064 10 күн бұрын
Bruh so low iq
@jettoaji646 Жыл бұрын
Don’t know how someone can waffle so much
@IJVMGAMING500 2 жыл бұрын
At my prom there was 2 other guys wearing the same suit and color as me. None of us knew each other but we just decided to take a picture together.
@noa-ix9pe 2 жыл бұрын
Damn being a guy sounds great, for girls they would mostly just glare at each other the rest of the night (at least in highschool or sth, I guess it gets better in college)
@tadeo517 2 жыл бұрын
@@noa-ix9pe tbh that's just the girls fault for being like that, literally no one cares or notices that besides themselves
@OIKJJGNGGS 2 жыл бұрын
@@noa-ix9pe to be fair there isn't much variety in suits, especially if they're for a specific thing bought in the same area
@augustuslunasol10thapostle 2 жыл бұрын
@@OIKJJGNGGS I wouldn’t doubt mens fashion would instantly be old style fashion if they were accessible
@jasperreynbeek8004 2 жыл бұрын
As a boy who loves fashion , you’re right it is indeed easyer for men to dress “good” but a huge part of that has to do with the fact that not manny guys like fashion and they just wear THE RANDOMIST SHIT. So then when a guy dresses “midd” the fitt is considerd good,amazing,fashionable. There’s just so much more compitetion between girls then there is between boys in fashion , but on the other side if u dress good as a boy/man you get so much shit over u just bcs u dress good and stand out from other boys/man.
@katieryan1188 2 жыл бұрын
She just explained in the video why this is
@etiennejoulin4192 Жыл бұрын
But they mentioned something different from what the video creator said? They brought up a valid point from their own experiences
@procyon6445 Жыл бұрын
Thank god you're not a native speaker. I hope
@blinkrogue1344 Жыл бұрын
100% correct imo, so not 100%, but still maybe 100%? who knows, really?
@Sunabe77 Жыл бұрын
Literally every outfit you doubted looked totally fashionable to me
@ervinfathir1783 8 ай бұрын
honestly the first outfit and the second outfit are just how i want my gf dress like (if i had one), they look so comfy and casual.. it feels like they just can be themselves around me and i love that
@RevvedHistories 2 жыл бұрын
I think Rick Owen said it best; “Working out is modern couture. No outfit is going to make you look or feel as good as having a fit body.”
@associate8265 Жыл бұрын
Nah no way some shoes said that 😂😂😂
@fivehunderedeuro Жыл бұрын
@@associate8265 bruhh im dead
@the1stmetalhead Жыл бұрын
Facts
@ajc94 Жыл бұрын
🤢🤢 Is this the man version of "nothing tastes as good as skinny feels"
@user-nd8tb4dd8g Жыл бұрын
@@ajc94 what is that even supposed to mean? Are you all trying to hate on... fitness?
@aoltre 2 жыл бұрын
For basic fashion, It really is the person underneath that makes the outfit. I'm a straight guy and I disliked how those fits look on guys while I liked it how it looked on OliSUNvia. It seems to me that it's more about how the person looks in the outfit rather than the other way around.
@cheap2402 2 жыл бұрын
Well said! Attraction plays a HUGE factor
@pshit Жыл бұрын
love it! thank u for this
@beanienclogs 10 ай бұрын
Honestly it's neat seeing this issue tackled and I like a lot of the points made in the vid, even the ones I disagree with because I can completely see where you're coming from. This is making me wanna make a video so bad honestly
@nikhilchauhan7511 2 жыл бұрын
saw a girl wearing oversized tee, baggy pants and sneakers last evening and oh boy, she looked so good in it. maybe it differs person to person, whether they consider it basic or fashionable.
@brvhtxxbxk 2 жыл бұрын
The thing about this is, if you have an attractive face/are or atleast act confident, you instantly look better for the people around u. If she looked tired or depressed, doesnt really care about her posture, for many this wouldnt look as attractive. Confidence does alot really! 🖤
@CALKULTIK 2 жыл бұрын
@@brvhtxxbxk Honestly for me, a girl who looks like she just rolled out of bed is appealing. The more tired-looking the better lmao. i guess i’m attracted to the honesty of it, and i’d want the girl i’m with to be comfortable to dress casually around me.
@plumenommershpadoinkle7575 2 жыл бұрын
I guess this comes back to the original question she mentioned, “is it an outfit or is she just skinny?” Haha
@Ray03595 Жыл бұрын
@@CALKULTIK the roll out of bed look has been popular for a long time too and it still looks good on women. Oversized hoodie with jeans/leggings hasn't gone anywhere for years. if women want to dress simple they still can so dont totally agree w/ parts of the vid.
@meltingspot1064 10 күн бұрын
So dress like a dude?
@connorelwell8503 Жыл бұрын
The rigidness of masculinity is a good point. I am a straight male, but for my fashion choices I get called gay or bi or trans even sometimes. This does not bother me, but it bothers me when I tell them I am straight and they say that I absolutely can not be because of my clothing. This could also be amplified because I live in the south where the fashion is boots, jeans, and a t-shirt. However on the flip side because I wear more interesting clothing, I seem to get more compliments on my clothes than my friends do and more attention from women in certain situations.
@licensetochill4992 Жыл бұрын
Imo having the confidence to wear what you want makes you more of 'a man'. I'm pretty much in the same situation except with reversed genders, of course it's easier for us girls to wear 'masculine' fashion as that's seen as more powerful and femininity in men tends to get ridiculed, which is kinda dumb cause we all got masculine and feminine traits (whatever the hell that even means). Not to mention one's clothing doesn't even tell anything about one's preference in love, just their interest in fashion and looking the best they can while still feeling comfortable with themselves.
@lucituci97 Жыл бұрын
I am terribly sorry for the things you have to deal with
@hard1st1 Жыл бұрын
everyday of my life lol
@ashwinabrahamjacob525 Жыл бұрын
Bruh. What do you wear for people to call you all these? 😶
@jamesmccloud7535 Жыл бұрын
@@ashwinabrahamjacob525 Maybe a skirt lol. If he has painted nails, or a bit of makeup or feminine build then I might assume that there is a chance he might be gay or maybe just an emo or any weird fashion shit that exists but still a chance to be straight. But if I see a crop top, dress, or anything like that then no shit men will assume you're gay lmao
@Jacob-bf2pw Жыл бұрын
This is an really interesting and well done video! You were able to shift my perspective in the best way. Thank you
@Zyncra 10 ай бұрын
Video starts at 5:20
@austinlam1172 2 жыл бұрын
very messy thoughts about this: a lot of my friends consider me fashionable even though, imo, my outfits are pretty basic - I just switch it up a lot and wear nice colours and accessories. most guys just put in so much less effort into dressing themselves because they don't have to/there's a stigma for men to dress well, like you mentioned in the video. as soon as you switch up the sillhouette or wear some more out-there colours/designs (like...not black, blue, brown, grey lol), it really stands out. I watch fashion youtubers sometimes, ones who focus on women's fashion, and ones who focus on men's and it's like kinda funny seeing how basic the men's stuff is. it's like they'll talk about the different cuts of pants but it hardly even varies, or oversized shirts
@t0ny.g611 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah this is how i was thinking about it. (from a fashionable guy point of view)
@EsotericManaCookie 2 жыл бұрын
The Emoji Movie was a masterpiece, like if you agree.
@the1stmetalhead Жыл бұрын
But I'm too lazy 😀🤡🥲
@user-nd8tb4dd8g Жыл бұрын
And who is the one to blame for that?
@EsotericManaCookie Жыл бұрын
@@user-nd8tb4dd8g me, I alone created this conundrum with my evilness
@benransom7451 Жыл бұрын
That was the plan all along
@RiseUpToYourAbility Жыл бұрын
There is no great conspiracy. Men for the most part just simply don't care about fashion. Women will judge each other on their hair, makeup, outfit, ETC. Men just each other on their competency. We simply have different criteria.
@jimininicoi Жыл бұрын
My standard for mens fashion has rised SO much since I got into kpop, that I now see these 'fashionable men's fits' as quite basic (they don't look bad, its just nothing I would praise)
@mypoorbraincells Жыл бұрын
same, i used to make fun of kpop stans on twitter, now im forever thankful that i got into it 😭 i've never felt so confident in my own body before and my style and taste has become so much better. although, i will say, i don't involve myself in the fandom for... obvious reasons
@homeinvasion8615 Жыл бұрын
which ones specifically
@rumjhumgupta7137 Жыл бұрын
@@homeinvasion8615 personally my fashion inspiration is Minghao (The8 from seventeen)
@tsunzu Жыл бұрын
ur being so real, i didn’t care about fashion or how i looked before but ever since i got into kpop my style has evolved. & i use a lot of I.N, Han jisung & huening kai’s outfits as inspo 😭
@Peace_in_Christ 11 ай бұрын
You really want men with outfits like that in this society 😂
@leoganslandt5449 Жыл бұрын
this video is great, i love it
@jirehh.3020 2 жыл бұрын
I'd just like to mention something I think you glossed over a bit: men and women are... different? I totally agree that women are more put upon by society to have variety, but it's also true that good outfits on women are outfits that highlight their femininity in some way, or highlights stuff that men don't have, like curves. The outfits look better on the guys because it highlights their masculinity, their straight up and down rectangular profile. The masculine outfits on you mask your feminine features, while they highlight the male features. Idk, it's just my take on things. Love your videos!
@spigney4623 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with you there. The fits she tried would look good on a tall, rectangular woman (like most runway models). Its not about gender so much as height and how angular your figure is.
@DN-oe1ue 2 жыл бұрын
100% Agreeeeeeeeeeeee
@jirehh.3020 2 жыл бұрын
@@virtualsyphilis1442 Lol sorry!! Which part, specifically?
@oliSUNvia 2 жыл бұрын
yeah, i was thinking about this when i mentioned at the very end that fashion sometimes serves different purposes for men and women! so then it makes me start to wonder about how gendered fashion is, and why fashion is geared toward that direction. it starts the question of whether fashion should be separated from the body or whether the body and fashion are linked e.g., are low rise jeans fashionable if they require a certain body type to look good?
@jirehh.3020 2 жыл бұрын
@@oliSUNvia Exactly! Thanks so much for responding, and congrats on 52K!!
@pandoralestrange6492 Жыл бұрын
Tbh, I wear outfits like this, and I am considered very fashionable, as a femme lmao. But I agree with what you're saying!! The power I get from the outfits is how it gives me a lot of masculinity as someone who is seen as a girl. This is me talking as someone who's mostly comfortable with others seeing me as a girl, but isn't entirely comfortable in any particular gender, btw
@Suzy292002 Жыл бұрын
I loved the pink pants omg 😭
@elkatt3095 2 жыл бұрын
idk if it's just me being a lesbian but when you put on the "fashion man" outfits i thought it looked AMAZING and so much better than it did on the men!! it's just got this casual vibe that looks really good
@celina261 2 жыл бұрын
I felt the same wayy 😭😭
@cherrilynnlelezhang3856 2 жыл бұрын
yeah as a bi girl i was looking at this video as fashion inspo cuz it’s getting colder and i still want to be comfy!!
@ninilyrics2254 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly..when she rated the girl 6.5/10 I started getting offended 😂😂
@missg8861 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah same here as another lesbian. It’s probably just a queer fashion thing because this is in for us for men and women.
@ligma6930 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness, I cant explain how much I can relate to you. It looked so fashionable but she kept saying it's not. I thought maybe it's because we have different fashion sense but I genuinely find the women who wear such fashion way more fashionable and attractive than the men wearing it.
@dylanpursley7768 2 жыл бұрын
The discourse on this subject seems quite deep, but here is my take: If attractive, then fashionable. Else, not fashionable. You can boost this with clothes as necessary. However, if the baseline does not match society’s guidelines, then the boost is like multiplying zero by some arbitrary constant. Anyways you looked hot af in those clothes lmao.
@lolajuliet2662 2 жыл бұрын
cs major? lmao
@baresize 2 жыл бұрын
I've seen people I find sexually attractive wearing things I don't find fashionable. In this case, I'm still sexually attracted to them, but I don't see that specific look as being fashionable. A lot of sexy twitch streamers (imo) are examples of this.
@thomaswickwar1632 7 ай бұрын
i think something that is generally overlooked when it comes to men's fashion is the concept of the "uniform", men arent taught to stick out, typically they are brought up to be like all the other good normal guys and to live that same uniform lifestyle. Like people mention the "one suit for every occasion" but suits are derived from military uniforms, the majority of trades, which historically have been worked by a majority male workforce, require their workers to wear the uniform, the business casual kaki slacks and blue button down is a widely accepted office uniform and really there is a uniform for everything.. oh you're grilling or doing garden work? cargo pants, old sneakers and a worn out t shirt (cap and shades optional), oh youre out in town? sneakers, jeans and t shirt (needs to be comfy but you still need full range of motion) etc etc. Men's fashion isnt just basic cos men historically have had less of a need to prove their worth through clothes, but because its already been predetermined what they were supposed to wear from the get go so ultimately even small differences from the norm seem like a big jump because in reality for most guys it is youre stepping away from the everyday uniform and past rigid masculinity to express yourself with your clothes
@serpenheir Жыл бұрын
Great video and topic!
@mightbecollier8479 2 жыл бұрын
i would like to argue that it is not just men in general. it can be combined with the skinny argument. as a plus sized teenager, i have gone through EXTREME body dysmorphia because no matter how much time i put into an outfit, it isn’t for me. it’s for the skinny men. i feel like we should combine both the “just a skinny woman” and “just a man” argument into “just a skinny person”
@SouthBeefTow Жыл бұрын
Me too. I try so hard but I have to stick with the same outfit in a different color just so I don’t look disgusting to myself.
@thecanadakid7622 Жыл бұрын
99% of men hate being skinny FYI
@jungwonssheep2260 Жыл бұрын
okay but as a girl i love it when men express their personality through their fashion. to all the boys and men out there, please don't think that you cant dress a certain way because "its not masuline enough" or because of stupid stereotypes of society. i have a few close male friends who have the most gorgeous sense of fashion, one of them has a softish,cutesy, femine type of style, baggy jeans, similar to kpop idols, and I love him for that. but like seriously though, there are so many types of boys. the bruh boys who throw on whatever they can find, the ethereally elegant boys who dress with class and colours, the mystical secretive boys who chose to highlight their beauty through rich deep colours and the sunshine rainbows boys who live life through pastel colours. boys, fuck society interpretations of masculinity, yall are too perfect to exist.
@twit9129 Жыл бұрын
It's also easier said than done. I am a man that's into fashion and it's hard to express yourself without being called gay or made fun of in some other way. It's not as easy as "just don't listen" or ignore it, it's probably easier for you as a woman to dress however you like because it is socially acceptable for women to wear almost anything and still be considered fashionable and desirable but it just isn't as easy as it sounds. You can just listen to what gay men have said about how theh felt being discriminated and that's how most of us feel. Stares when you go outside, the whispers, the rumors etc. We don't only have to fight against society and the societal norms but also in our own gender where people make fun of and treat other men differently for wearing things that aren't socially acceptable. Most men don't have the privilege of being in a forward and accepting environment for them to dress up like that.
@jungwonssheep2260 Жыл бұрын
@@twit9129 its horrible to hear the way you're treated, I deffo don't think people can just ignore it , I cannot belive society wont let men express themselves. I guess its nice when you have people who support your decisions.
@hyly8038 Жыл бұрын
This comment made me so happy 😭😭 being appreciated just for existing is a crazy feeling
@cherny9756 Жыл бұрын
damn i never knew there was a word for the colors i like. Pastel colors are definitely my style.
@Nicolas-sd4yk Жыл бұрын
Thank you! But I think another large issue is that there isn’t an affordable variety of mens clothing, all the stores have the same stuff just in different brands, colors, and sizes 😭💔
@helderboutens 11 ай бұрын
The problem is that people call us straight men "gay" when we try to do something too different or think too much out of the box with our outfits
@seandotcom3321 10 ай бұрын
OUTFIT ONE IS SO CUTE ON U!! Where did u get the pants? :3
@idot3331 2 жыл бұрын
I disagree with the idea that men's fashion has lower standards because there is a broader range in what in considered fashionable / acceptable. It's the opposite, there's a smaller range - women can wear more or less any outfit a man could and still appear "normal", whereas a man wearing traditionally feminine clothing is still widely seen as unacceptable, let alone fashionable. I think it's seen less fashionable for women to wear "basic" clothing BECAUSE there are more options available, so it seems like they should go for a more elaborate / feminine option just because they can. The same can be said for why men can all wear the same suit at an event but women have to all have a unique dress.
@lindabalinda7887 2 жыл бұрын
yeah I mean my boyfriend wants to dress better but he genuinely doesn't know how because every time we go out to look for clothes its just either basic one color t shirts and basic pants/shorts, or like some lame graphic t shirt...and yes of course there are some sweaters and sweatshirts and stuff, but within any one kind of "style" men's clothing options are extremely limited and boring. It's giving a lot of credit to say that there are even enough options available (buying new, used has a few more) for guys to have a distinct style even. It was shocking to me how few options are available for guys when i went shopping with him for the first time...guys have to get real creative and/or push major boundaries to dress outside of basic I think.
@32pakkaponrujilun51 2 жыл бұрын
@@lindabalinda7887 you'd be shock that some guys do still think that wearing something feminine like nail polish means you're gay
@limo-swine6537 2 жыл бұрын
@@32pakkaponrujilun51 they're just more feminine.
@homerj.simpson2513 2 жыл бұрын
@@limo-swine6537 mm what
@homerj.simpson2513 2 жыл бұрын
@@lindabalinda7887 i mean yeah, true, but don't just shop in h&m vintage clothes are colourful, it's after the 90s where everything gets boring
@TudBoatTed 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly those "masculine" fits you wore were some of my favourite I've ever seen a woman wear 😂
@daaaaph6623 2 жыл бұрын
i think the same!!
@patfranz9513 Жыл бұрын
Is it because we queer? Because I am
@googlekopfkind Жыл бұрын
also same
@TudBoatTed Жыл бұрын
@@patfranz9513 im not haha
@patfranz9513 Жыл бұрын
@@TudBoatTed that's okay we accept you anyway😔 😂👊💟
@abrysbitchlasagne2580 8 ай бұрын
This is a very interesting social study, and I agree with a lot of points. I am a straight(?) male and I do think I put in a lot more effort on my looks than other men I get along with but I dont have a “conventionally nice physique”, im short (1.62m or 5ftsomething), have darker skin, im chubby-ish, medium hair down to my shoulders and thick legs and booty, and often feel inadequate or like the clothes i like dont want me to wear them, but still try to put in the effort. And its not like im going to stand here saying im doing it for myself, i obviously want to feel good with myself and how i look, but i also want someone to acknowledge my effort and reasure my feelings about my own body and image, which is very rare. So if you think someone looks nice and are outgoing enough to do it, tell them, it might make their day :)
@4nnd711 7 ай бұрын
it just seems like in your case you are compensating for your physical appearance with clothes and accessories. Ive seen physically good looking men wearing the most basic outfits and they still mog everyone around them. Life's just brutal to a lot of people. They just dont have to try nearly as hard to look great because they already do by default.
@saraellis8706 Жыл бұрын
Interesting take. I must say my husband and I basically share a wardrobe and I get complimented a lot if I wear similar outfits to what he would typically wear because I feel more confident in men's clothes.
@Luuky97 2 жыл бұрын
that blue hoodie fit looked amazing. I get the point you're articulating in this video, but I feel like it depends on the build and confidence of the person, regardless of gender. I hella vibe with baggy fits on women. they're definitely not less fashionable by definition
@SouthBeefTow Жыл бұрын
I agree, I feel like she missed her own point a little bit because every outfit looked nice. I think it’s just not her style and that’s why she doesn’t like it.
@Ray03595 Жыл бұрын
I just dont get this vid because I think she is underestimating the amount of girls who just wear a hoodie and jeans/leggings nowadays? There are a lot of ppl wearing very simple fits now.
@JessicaMorgani 2 жыл бұрын
As a trans women who lives in Brazil I'm almost always in boy mode what I've noticed is that "being fashionable" is being always a one up from the norm, two steps in trying and anything more than that you're gay and trying too hard. Tldr: The minimum standard for men is lower, but so is the ceilling.
@Caroline-hw9yw 2 жыл бұрын
I love that last thought, it's so true. We don't talk enough about how gender roles and toxic masculinity hurt men too.
@mounilazer8045 2 жыл бұрын
@@Caroline-hw9yw yes we do
@Caroline-hw9yw 2 жыл бұрын
@@mounilazer8045 ok
@theinvinciblewinner 2 жыл бұрын
Pois é, quando eu voltar pro Brasil eu vou lançar uma saia e camisa larga com uns Jordans e quero que se foda, vou ouvir muita merda, mas fazer o quê? Ainda mais sendo hétero. Vou usar eyeliner também.
@matuili2633 2 жыл бұрын
Pois é, eu sou brasileiro também, e eu penso muito sobre todos os olhares e preconceitos que as pessoas vão ter sobre mim se eu vestir o que eu realmente quero (esmalte preto, um choker, jeans tipo skinny...). Eu tenho muito medo de passar a "linha" do que é aceitável e conhecidos ou até amigos terem dúvidas sobre a minha sexualidade, e que eles se afastem de mim por isso.
@voetenlikkerijnl2222 Жыл бұрын
This actually helped me understand why I have the views that I have on how people see me as a man and expect me to dress certain ways. But I’m not always comfortable wearing the male expected or appropriate fashion. Thank you
@drakehero64 Жыл бұрын
This was a good video and good critic of mens fashion.
@Yharazayd 2 жыл бұрын
you’re so perceptive and articulate, feeling enlightened after watching this one
@oliSUNvia 2 жыл бұрын
i've loved some of your videos, i'm honoured that you commented ahhh
@Ivan-yq9rc 2 жыл бұрын
@@oliSUNvia no you're not
@bakielh229 2 жыл бұрын
@@oliSUNvia "some"... you're so annoying
@esavv_ 2 жыл бұрын
@@Ivan-yq9rc 💀
@chirimoyatriste6395 2 жыл бұрын
I think in the end, the biggest factor that determines whether we think an outfit is great or not is whether the person wearing it is conventionally attractive or not (both face and body)
@octavianjoseph8633 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, that's really it.
@neuroticthoughts6952 Жыл бұрын
There is so much more to those fits than just a t-shirt, jeans and sneakers. The color philosophy, the combination of just the right cut. THE COLOR BLOCKING!!
@apwatson1228 Жыл бұрын
As I man, this brings up two thoughts on fashion, for me. First, I want to add the discussion of the rigidity of masculinity. As others have commented, I feel as though men's fashion has limited my ability to comfortably express myself, due to the negative societal perceptions of men wearing feminine clothing. Additionally, the threshold by which other men's outfits are considered fashionable is much lower, just due to the fact there is less silhouettes, colors, etc. available to the average man. Second, I feel was if the correlation between being skinny and being fashionable is much stronger for men. Before I detail this thought, I want to preface by saying that the societal pressure to be skinny is much stronger for women that it is for men. What I am trying to say is that the most fashionable accessory for a man, to society, is being skinny. A plus-size woman can still be considered fashionable, but a plus-size man who is considered fashionable is much harder to come by. However, a fashionable skinny man is much sooner to be considered fashionable than a fashionable skinny woman. A final thought is this Rick Owens' quote: "No outfit is going to make you look or feel as good as having a fit body." A female designer would never say that, because, although the societal pressure remains, a conscious effort of women's clothes designers should be toward inclusivity. However, for a major men's fashion designer to feel comfortable saying this shows the lack of care that men and the fashion industry have toward inclusivity within men's fashion.
@TheOzelot11 2 жыл бұрын
This has been a really interesting video for me. I live in a small city where people look at me weird when I tuck my t-shirt in my pants or when I wear anything that's not black or grey. In my town the standards for fashion are so much lower than the fits you put on, that I think these outfits you showed were really crazy and I never see girls dressed like this in real life. As a dude I think the standards for men in fashion are definetly lower, however I never noticed this discrepency of how men and women can wear the same fit and the dude is treated as a fashion icon and the girl as just casual. Then again I live in Germany and we're not known for being fashionable.
@greenleaf4570 2 жыл бұрын
I was like "why is this so similar to my experience?" until I read that you are from Germany as well haha it's definitely different in bigger cities though. people are wayyy more fashionable there than in a smaller town. the female fits she showed though, you wouldn't see that on a normal daily basis in Germany. the supposedly male outfits shown are more of what people regardless of gender wear in bigger cities
@dovahkiin2 2 жыл бұрын
its almost like men and women are different and thus are held to different expectations woah
@TheOzelot11 2 жыл бұрын
@@greenleaf4570 Yeah I know. I mean I get my style inspiration from people on social media, who tend to live in bigger cities and whenever I'm in Hamburg or especially Berlin I'm like 'damn people actually wear these fits on a daily basis', while people look at me weird for wearing something slightly different... Thank God I'm moving to a bigger city soon tho
@greenleaf4570 2 жыл бұрын
@@TheOzelot11 haha yes, I feel you! good luck with your move
@TheOzelot11 2 жыл бұрын
@@greenleaf4570 thanks :)
@greteruutli 2 жыл бұрын
WOWW, i have never thought of it like that and it really opened my mind
@leticia-zt3qp 2 жыл бұрын
Ikr i'm actually amazed
@binabi Жыл бұрын
Wow I really never thought of that. It really does make sense, I'm glad you made this video. I apreciate this types of outifts because where I live, the majority of men dress so bad It hurts. So, when a man wears the basic I tend to think is more atractive. But I do found this looks great in woman too, like, I love to wear these types of outifts just like I love to wear "feminine clothes" too. But here, it's basically only teenagers and youg men that try dress stylish, adding some acessories. Can be the fact that the fashion is more diverse and open wide today too, it's not so strict like in the past
@scottwatkins3615 6 ай бұрын
this actually opened my mind a bit cuz when my girlfriend doesn’t know that to wear i just say put some pants and and a sweatshirt. she would always say she felt under dress and that always confused me
@derdodel7978 2 жыл бұрын
the statement "I feel like i just got out of bed and just put on the most comfortable clothes i could find" is extremely accurate for how 99% of the other men i know dress it's literary just putting on whatever and then having a quick check in the mirror to make sure you don't look like complete garbage
@azatshakenov195 Жыл бұрын
i bet 70-90% of men don't even look in the mirror
@santimer1067 Жыл бұрын
As a man who likes fashion and design I think that most of men don't pay attention to how they are dressed but also in men's fashion there is not variety of clothes. For example I like wide pants and when skinny pants were in fashion (I don't how to say it I am not English ) I had to were skinny jeans because there weren't wide ones in shops, you know.
@randomnerd3402 Жыл бұрын
@@santimer1067 Fro me I couldn't care less of how fashionable I look. If I look like a mess then so be it. Fashion has never been important to me, but to each their own for those who care about their fashion
@alexkozliayev9902 Жыл бұрын
Jokes on you, i don't do the check
@X4zerm4n Жыл бұрын
@@santimer1067 I’ve legit been learning to make my own clothes because everything is so low-rise and is too tight
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