+computermaster great way to put it man. It's really deadly & we must be aware at all times. No idle time should be permitted

Yes brother I will do the same for me

I'm with you sister. I, too, struggle with this. But, what I'm led to do is go on a definitive, 90-day sanctification from masturbation, with the daily accountability of a dear brother of Christ of mine. He will intercede for me in this. This is the best advice I can give anyone who still from time to time struggle with this. Don't let Satan ruin your witness sister!

Deondre Nabriet God bless! I've heard a lot of people talking about accountability and I don't know if I really know any one who can do that with me.

+Heaven Do you have anyone at your local church that you're close with?

Unfortunately not, I don't go to a lot of church activities so I never really meet anyone there.

+Heaven I see. Well the best thing I could advise is to have that accountability with you so you can recover.

+Isabelle M that statement from you should end this discussion on masturbation, well said from the only perspective........ The bible.

Dewayne Thomas Thanks .

+DanceLifeLoveTV "Sexual feelings don't go away just 'cause you're abstaining from sex. " Of course they don't because sex is an appetite that comes back like hunger or thirst. I like the Christian man in this video so much because he gives the remedy (marriage and marital sex) , unlike many pastors who blame and accuse , say it is a sin , a sin and a sin again without giving a remedy . Actually , it is simple and logical : the remedy for sexual appetite is sex !!! But I really like the way he puts it , he uses the BIBLICAL language of joy and pleasure (Proverbs 5:18 cannot be clearer) and two becoming ONE FLESH. Really good. In his speech I feel God's goodness and wisdom , more than many sex sermons to befound on YT and delivered by 'preachers'.

It might seem hopeless but it is not. Keep seeking God and resisting the devil. Remove yourself from the situation when the temptation arises and continually pray and speak to the Lord.

I'll pray for you.

I will do the same for me

Hey Jaden. I see No one has commented, but I pray to God that you have been making some progress. I can only imagine how hard this must be for you, and all others going through it; as I understand that habits aren't formed over night therefore overcoming them truly needs the help of the Holy Spirit. I pray to God that He strengthens you and that you may find encouragement in the fact that others were able to overcome it to, remember that God isn't a respector of persons, ( I.e he doesn't have favourites) what He can do for someone else, He can do for you too. Stay blessed.

Aye man, not sure if you’ll see this but being freed from this addiction… what got me thru was confessing “I’m the righteousness of God and I’m free from masturbation and porn” before and after I would engage in it. I did it every single time for months, then the desire starting dying off until I literally did not want to do it anymore. The desire died and when the temptation ever came back, I would repeat the same, IN FAITH! I’m now freed from it, and I’ve had past trauma too that was tied to it. Once He revealed to me the source, and my identity as “the righteousness of God”, ive been free ever since!! Freedom is real for us as children of God homie we ain’t gotta be slaves to nothing!! I prayed for you bro, be FREE!

JaMuldrow10 that’s awesome man! Thank you for sharing!

Be alone

***** Thanks for your comment and there is truth in it. But I feel this is yet another struggle on top of others I have. It is nearly an impossibility. That is what I have been finding.

There is nothing wrong with who you are. Homosexuality is nothing more then a little glitch in our imperfect brains. I have a foot fetish. I used to think something was wrong with me. I realize now that there is something wrong with me. I'm a human being. I am full of imperfections. This is due to a process called Evolution. The reason we make up gods, is because we want to keep on living. We don't want to just die and that's it. We want to live in a fantasy land, but now I realize that now I would much rather live in the real world. This is the only chance we get at life. The only chance we have at heaven is the one we make here on earth. We better make it count. Go out there and get a boyfriend. There is no shame in this. I now have plenty of gay friends. In the grand skeem of things. Who cares if you're gay. "Sin" is just another made up word by man. How is it fair that strait people get to enjoy sex with each other, and it not be a sin but you cant. What if it was "normal" to be gay. No strait man is going to have sex with another guy, because it was written in some book thousands of years ago. There are no credible sources for this stuff man. Even if there were. It's still made up, and even still if it wasn't made up. It is still not right to judge people due to thought crimes. This is pure evil.

The bible is in favor of rape on woman, slavery, geniside, and many other horrible things. So I beg of you. Please, please please use the internet and youtube to look up where the bible came from. Do research on how you got here. Look for proof. Don't rely on faith, and or superstitious belief.

The god of this world has created this reality where our desires are twisted and warped beyond what we thought was possible. Seek the kingdom of God first. This does not mean Church or denomination or religion or the distorted word Christianity; it means to seek the God of the Bible and pray to Him through His son to deliver you. You obviously have now realised that you cannot win by yourself, so give all to Him and let Him win this battle for you. Seek him first!

Wake-Up Look-And-See Amen to that. We should also sell our house and all of our possessions. Jesus want's our cloths, our boots and our motorcycle. I'll keep the porn though. Logic Bless :)

How do you even bring the subject up? This takes a lot of courage and that comes from God. Sometimes just asking might do the trick. One thing I would encourage is to rid yourself of the sin of gossip, spite, etc. Love and never betray that person's confidence.

Mario Rivera Setel it is not a sin. You have brought up very great points. You can die by not releasing. Many think it's a sin but the truth it's not. Don't believe people that does not understand the word of God.

I personally would encourage anyone to seek the kingdom of God first and everything else will be added onto them. I guarantee that the Holy Spirit will root out all their sins if the truly seek God first.

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Have your husband involved in pleasing you. That's not your call 😊

ezekyo33 I was talking about him ejaculsting outside the body lol. I'm not married

If you watch the video again it explains that the act of sex (masturbation, oral sex, beastiality, homosexual Sex) is all immortal sex according to what is presented to us as moral sex

Booking Ezekiel you're stating but I'm asking to clarify ejaculation on your wife's back or stomach

+Enoch Johnson In what way? Cannibalism? If so, I don't really follow. My experience with masturbation is that is fucking awesome. I can't really recall one single thing bad about it. I mean, it's your own body, you should do whatever you want with it. You shouldn't let some old book tell you not to.

I've never really tried quitting masturbation. It's not like you choose whether you want to masturbate, or having sex with a male or female. Married people, gay and straight, do masturbate just like single people. For the record, I have no faith in any god. There is no evidence found, what so ever of any god existing, so to me - god is just a consept made up by humans.

+Mr. Cool Guy i'm sure you believe in God. May not be the God of the universe but, you surely have your own God , ex: alcohol, pornography, etc. That thing you always run to when you're down or in need of comfort, that's your god. Now does it make sense to make something so little like one body part your god?

+Graciel_Saphyra I'm an atheist. I almost never drink, and I occationally watch porn. You mean that you define god as "that thing you always run to when you're down or in need of comfort"? I surely don't, so I can't really answer your question.

Mr. Cool Guy I understand I really do, I'm a christian but when I was an atheist I always had that "one thing". it could be yourself , maybe you think you're capable of doing everything by yourself, and that you don't need a god because you're your own god