The privacy vs secrecy topic is a big one !

My ex ( baby daddy) told me he does not see himself getting married and told me he is still looking for the right woman , mind you I stayed for 6 years knowing. Listening is very important. But thank God I left even though it took me so long I am glad its over

Hey Mpumi and Brenden I introduced my boyfriend to this channel, now I feel like he watches it more than me🙈, you guys are awesome... Thank you

Today's topic hit home 🥺🥺. We find ourselves attached to people who haven't even said they like us like that. Yoh😏🥺

I love Brendan's honesty in all this. He's genuine.

Thoroughly enjoyed this chat! Mpoomy is right the gut feeling NEVER lies. Women always know! Thank you guys 🙏🏾

When Brenden said " ooooh you can't remember now, onale amnesia?" 😭😭😭💀🤣🤣🤣🤣

“Sometimes we have to allow each other to find out what’s real for us and what we want” impactful 🥺🔥🔥🔥.

Brenden "so lento yama musician k'dala iqalile" 😂😂😂😂 I died!

Just broke up with my girlfriend yesterday. It was a mutual decision I'm taking it day by day. We did all the right things the foundation was there and everything. We had communication we had everything but somehow she just hurt and she couldn't be happy with me I had to let her go for her to find her joy.

One thing about Brendon, he loves his wife❤️. Always touching, so beautiful guys.

The way I love how Mpoomy says 'Indoda yami'......... 😃

Our Love Journey is a great blessing for us on KZfaq hle ❤❤❤ God bless this union❤

Im currently in that situation, things are great when we are together but when we not together he doesn't communicate. I called it quits though...

You guys are the older siblings I never knew I needed!🥺❤️ Enjoyed this so much🤞🏽

The most beautiful conversation ever😄🥰😍🥰I love how he said "wow today I am cutting you too much, I am sorry.."ncooh Love is beautiful.. Brenden is the referee here, 😂

re mo!!!!

Not wanting to take a picture together, it's a red flag for me.

Brenden was like you have amnesia 😂😂😂😂. Mpoomy tell him that we as gurls love pictures that is one thing God gave us😂😂😂😂

It’s the Sotho for me 😂🥴 “Di bedroom relationships” I love you guys wholeheartedly . ♥️😪

My words right out of my mouth, I said to my mom when she asked what went wrong between me and my ex-husband and I said to her I fell inlove with the person he pretended to be and eventually he couldn't keep up with the act so true colours started showing and man oh man after investing a good 8yrs dating and one year of marriage and two beautiful boys I faced my biggest fear and just left and started all over again, my life is not perfect but I've been at so much peace oh my🙌

It's just how you look at Brenden for me🥰🥰🥰🥰

Brendon is always touching Mpoomy ❤️❤️❤️

I understand the emphasis on communication however, I feel like we need equal emphasis on comprehension. What good is communication if someone is listening but not comprehending? The person should show in their actions that they’ve taken note of your concerns/ communication. I really enjoyed this topic.

"Ona Le Amnesia?"😂😂😂 Brenden Was Speaking For The Gents Here I'm So Triggered🤣

Brenden: "if I haven't mentioned that siyajola then asijoli, we're just hanging out" 😂🤣🤣so basically in life a relationship is a relationship only when a guy is serious about it🤷‍♀️😆ayisembi

This is literally preparing for my first ever successful relationship , i never used to express the cause of my insecurities and it scared my prev partners 🤨 but some really played a huge role on those insecurities,

Just because someone calls you “makoti” during the dating phase does not mean that they will marry you. They will hurt you. Once you start dating someone and their friends say “nangu Umakoti wethu” Weeh just know ukuthi no. Because the friends of your boyfriend are always on his side. He will play you like nobodies business but his friends will act like his not doing anything. He must ask you out and avoid being called names before you are that title. Makoti naming needs lobola.

Mpoomy has always been into musicians 🤣🤣🤣 Brendan sounds congested. Hope he gets better.

This channel is everything for me! It positively contributes so much to my mental health. I love you guys for creating this channel and moulding it into something this meaningful. I pray that God continues to give u the wisdom to cone up with more of these important topics.

I'm obsessed with this channel, I'm 23 and I learn a lot from you guys, you literally my gift from God

I think my younger cousins need to hear this. I was never big on titles, my husband is the longest I ever had. While I was dating I never made any new relationship official until I knew what was going on. We need to teach young girls and boys what dating is.... To manage expectations and assumptions..... Dating means getting to know each other via hanging out together but it doesn't mean you are an official couple....... Hence put breaks on ukuba umakoti, cooking cleaning etc while dating🤣🤣🤣

"Pictures for eng? Onale amnesia?"- Brenden 2021 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿. I died

I am here....As young as I am.....I love this couple and they inspire me in every aspect of my life. May God richly bless you in Jesus Name,Amen

"Usbu ukhuluma ngathi Wazalelwa emeetingini" 🤣😂🤣😂🤣 I'm in stitches

Hi Mpoomy and Brenden, I'm just a teen, just turned 18 on April. I love these conversations guys #ourlovejournery, even though I'm far from getting married but I'm taking notes for the future. Thank you so much and please just keep on giving us wisdom

Hahahahh Mpoomy will never win the debate of pictures. 🤣 I used to explain to my husband the same way that I do it for memories to relive the moment and he would give me the same answer as Brenden “it’s in your head”😩 it’s not the same guys! We tried to meet each other half way 🤣♥️

10:38 Absolutely agree 150% . At a certain age, guard your heart and be respectful of the other persons emotions and spirit. Just asking out someone without having done due diligence is detrimental.

Brendan's "wankwishisha" takes me back home.😁🥺

I agree, make time to spend with your partner, watch sunsets together or go chill at the park.. It's not always supposed to be fancy... Just simple stuff.

yall really bring the best content. Thanks for this.

Thank you so much for these videos they are such an eye opener and I’m loving it man!

Yoh. This topic. I've been recently feeling like my current relationship just isn't it but we just started dating and I like him a lot. But my guts tell me he doesn't like me back. So this video gives a clearer perspective. Thank you.

Your topics are everything ❤️! Love how you guys take them on so holistically ❤️

Yol posted this at the right time🥺❤ subscribed and hooked💕

The Sesotho part in this conversation is killing me 😭🤣🤣❣

I've heard what Brendon said about stating your expectations from another male. I think sometimes some women are afraid to state their expectations because they're afraid of loosing the person, unfortunately this can be a waste of time and lead to the heart break that was being avoided

This was so beautiful, keep it up you guys!

Absolutely love and enjoy the content guys. Thank you🌸

Road to 200k subscribers💃💃🔥🔥

I always look forward to your videos, I learn a lot from them.

This may be pulling it, but would it be possible to have Mpoomy n Brenden on Defining 😊

Location 📍 KwaLedwaba ❤️

Well said guys. Really enjoyed this episode ❤

Jonga. I love this and you guys are amazing! 👏🏾 It’s the fire content for me💕

I just love you guys🤩 this is so nice to speak with things like this🙌

Thank you for sharing this guys

The part of the insecurities is where I learnt most, what an informative chat🔥

My word, y’all are dropping facts here... Louderrrrr 🙆🏾‍♀️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Love this chat, really funny too 😂

I like how informative your content is Mpoomy. it's relatable. It really helps us (the youth) to take informed decisions about our life in general. Not that we CANT take them on our own, but hearing someone elses experiences and realizing that you've walked that path and perhaps struggled to deal with the situation, it may help with the future similar encounters. I love how the both of you do not paint your life "perfect" as Christians as well.

Insomnia hit and I’m here watching this. I enjoyed the conversation, it’s funny how as a young girl there were so many red flags in the relationships then but I didn’t even acknowledge them. Also enjoyed how you guys threw vernac here and there👌🏼

Honestly love listening to you guys and the way Brenden looks at Mpoomy so sweet❤️

Really enjoyed this

Brenden is pouring out that truth that is SOOO needed

These conversations are so healthy. Love ❤️

I enjoyed every bit of this! Thumbs up ❤️

Beautiful topic it's good to have you back guys ❤

absolutely enjoyed this🤣❤❤

I could listen to you guys speak all day 🥺❤️❤️

As always loved the conversation! I was a victim of being stringed along.. “ Bedroom relationships” killed me 😅😂🤣

The taking picture part kills me🤣😂. Bari “you got amnesia?”!! We’re suffering and all we want is pictures💁🏻‍♀️🤣🤣🤣..

Really loved This conversation 🔥🔥

I loved this conversation! So informative and relatable on so many parts.

So glad you guys are back💃💃love you loads😍

Thank you so much ledwaba's.... You touched my heart I really needed to hear this...

Mpoomy , this musician thing, I get it😂😂😂. Nna that’s the hill I’m living on 🤚🏾.

Came here with my notebook☺️, thank you so much for sharing ❤️

It feels good to watch you guys There is always so much to learn from you😄

Your podcast is not rehearsed. I love that❤

Love this conversation 👌 Also love the Sepedi features 😂

Brenden I'm here for your wisdom❤️

Feeling so spoilt videos back to back 💟yaas

Mpoomy and Braiden content🔥🔥🙏 Communication, honesty and effort is the key. Thank you

Very important conversation thank you for sharing this

I personally am greatful for this topic it came at the right time. You guys are just the best at everything when it comes to this

Loved this so much! Also Mpoomy's laugh is one of my favourite laughs...love it.

Got a notification that you posted a video and I never clicked so fast😀. Love you so much. You guys are such an inspiration

This is unrelated to the video but as young girl from Middelburg myself. Watching you Mpumi really inspires me to be more and do better . You truly are one of our own role model😭 Keep shining ❤.

When Brenden said. "Lento Yama musican kudala yaqala" 😂😂😂😂😂

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I love this video. It's the best... on a serious note: I love how you guys are just so comfortable to talk about exes and your past. That's just shows that all channels of communication are open... thank you guys

I love how comfortable you are to share your past with Brandon around. I'm not sure that my hubby would be as comfortable 🙈 never tried. Perhaps I will some day. We spoke about previous relationships obviously when we started dating. To just understand where we've been but it's like a closed topic now. Maybe because we have never really had a reason to talk about it, like you guys do because of podcast and questions from your viewers.

" I was snoring" 😂😂😂 Enjoyed this so much🙌🏾

I just love you guys and your sense of humor ☺☺☺

Informative... thank you this content❤❤

Ayi shame, I've missed these conversations!!! Welcome back guys 😂❤️

Am I the first to comment ? 😅😆 we like before we watch. I'm really enjoying the series. Keep it up guys 👏🏽👏🏽

Genuinely enjoyed the conversation. Your conversations are relatable. Thank you guys for the video. Humorous as well.

My fav notification. Thank you Mpoomy. 🌸🙏🏽🤗

I'm learning something new every time when I'm watching you guys thanks a lot for the advices,