“Ghosting is like an art form in the world of relationship. It’s like magic, you disappear and show up again”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

"I already knew your sister and I share the same birthday" 🤣. Women literally go into the relationship already knowing the guy's whole history and biography

“Yet, you married him!” By Phindile Yende. A book that covers most of the red flags in a relationship that women tend to overlook! Very informative

Another red flag is someone who has a history of abuse, and I mean like physical abuse its most likely to happen in your relationship with them

“Do we choose consistency or do we choose our peace and our family”, I know you said that in passing but it’s actually so powerful!

"Don't sacrifice what you want most for what you want not" 🖤

Guys your marriage is purely beautiful...Honestly some of us grew up witnessing the most broke and traumatic of marriages & seeing you guys gives us hope for ourselves somehow. Love ya'll!

Another red flag is failing to listen to what your partner says and always wanting thing's to go your way.

Love bombing is also a huge red flag that we don't notice. If someone is flooding you with compliments and just moving too quickly . When someone is digging into your past in just weeks of hooking up or they are just head over heels even before they know your Surname 👀 it may seem honest and cute but sometimes it's just a person trying to be your go to person so you feel like you don't need anyone else. You end up isolated and then when they mistreat you, you have no one to confide in because this person was just constantly wanting to spend time with you because you so "incredible" when in actual fact they just luring you in to get you to a point where by they can manipulate you and get you to ultimately depend on them for emotional stability

"A relationship cannot workout if your partners needs are unmet" 🙌🏾.

When someone shows you who they are believe them . "True That"

You pick you partner according to their patterns. I like that

It's hilarious how Mpoomy truly believed that she wasn't a red flag till she realized that she is a low-key full-on stalker lmao...then she laughed herself silly. 🤣🤣🤣 I love these two's content man!

I get Branden's point...Just leaving because of a red flag can have you having a hard time going forward in terms of relationships because you left because of just that...This goes now to communication...It is important to talk to thr person about that thing that you don't like so much that when you leave you know you definitely were not in the right place...Then moving forward regardless of the other good they had knowing that that one thing that was super important to you...That would give you security for instance in a relationship wa not met...Communication really is important...Ego must be put aside...So that when you leave someone you know for sure it wasn't for you

Agree with what Mpoomy said, that we don’t have to go through some experiences to learn the hard way. Just heed other’s experiences. The hurt that comes with learning the hard way can be quite traumatic. Also agree with what Brendan said about being quick to forgive. Holding onto anger is not worth it and can prove to be dangerous. Lovely, informative and timely discourse ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Personally, ghosting is a defense mechanism. It's toxic, in the context of a relationship, but it's hard to relinquish ones peace for confrontation. Especially when communication styles clash.

"When someone shows you who they are believe them." Thank you Mrs Mom and Brenden Praise 💞 #Lovejourney #NotificationGang

I just love how they are laughing throughout, so wholesome 😍❤️. The humor makes the topic less painful 😭😂❤️.

The disagreement is also in sync 🤣🤣🤣🤣. That's very authentic guys. Disagreement is healthy!

It always fascinates me how in these modern times people hardly take responsibility for their relationships falling apart. Its always pointing fingers at the next party instead of reflecting and self correcting to become a better human being.

I agree with Mpoomy at the end. Some experiences are not necessary. We can do without honestly.

Missed our faves!!!!! Thank you for this. My therapist said to me recently that I need to learn to love myself so much that I want and get to accept the best. If I want the best for myself, I will not overlook the red flags, I won’t sacrifice getting the best just bc it’s not available to me (in the present). Still a tough pill to swallow but I believe that we need to do more self love and nurturing to our gardens so that we get to a point where we are like “ahh no, this isn’t good enough for me. I want more, I need more and I deserve more”

Also, I think it's important for us to highlight that this happens in friendships as well. Majority of the red flags on the list, I have experienced with a closest friend and it can break you so much you'd end up not seeing yourself good enough for relationships aswell. Yho I actually wish I could tell the whole story hey. But yeah, life is connected. Allowing mistreatment in friendships easily opens room for you to allow it in relationships as well, at work, everywhere. We should not only be careful of red flags in romantic relationships, but in every kind of relationship. I love you Mpoomy and Brenden. Some of my best days are from conversating with you. 🙏🏽✨

Thank you for these!!! Love your love journey ❤️

Thank you for your transparency!I absolutely love these episodes!👏🙌♥️

I'm soooo happy to see you guys!! Really missed these

Man!!! I soooooooo needed this!

Love love your content. Always looking forward!!

Y'all are honestly a breath of fresh air! We love to see it!

Choosing to avoid communication is also one of the things I used to do in my past relationships. I know exactly what Brenden is talking about. ☹️

Loved this!🙌🏻🙌🏻✨

I honestly loved this episode! very insightful and funny

So excited for all the great stuff happening in your lives💫. May God continue to bless you individually and as a family 🙏🏾 🤎

Thoroughly enjoyed this podcast. I love the way you were tackling such important issues yet being so light as well. Beautiful 💖

Here, here! So happy to see y’all back.

Absolutely loved this!!

I loved every part of this! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

I absolutely needed this, thanx alot

This was so good. A part 2 please!

I really love this so much, there is so much truth here and I absolutely love it!

I enjoy watching you guys for real !

the quality/grading of your videos, unmatched man, every time.

I don’t even have to think twice about watching my faves❤️ so happy to see you again.

Missed you guys tons!! So excited to see you!!!!!💗💗💗💗💗🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

If this was a church sermon I would really say The Holy Spirit was talking to me. However I feel this podcast really speaks to what I am currently going through...Thanks Mpoomy and Brenden for allowing God to use you... ❣❣

I missed this. Loved how you laughed so hard in this episode ❤️ y'all are always dropping gems.

Here for the gems ❤️🖤💕

I loved this episode! Kudos guys❤️

Ag you two are just a whole package, thank you so much for what you do guys.

Love this. An emphasis on always ensuring that everything that you get yourself into, aligns with who you are. You guys are amazing ❤️

Thoroughly enjoyed this. I laughed so much! Great job you guys ⭐️

🙌🏽🙌🏽 Thank you for this❤❤❤ eyyy Our Love Journey bandla🥺🥹

Wow. I really enjoyed this!

Yaaay, I saw on insta and jumped cant wait to indulge

argh you guys are such a breath of fresh air😩😩

I love this so much and you know what? I definitely share the same sentiments when it comes to boundaries and communication. ❤

I love it here!!! ❤️❤️🥺Love y'all so much❤️❤️🥰

You're truly awesome 👌 .Keep it up , we definitely want you to keep this union forever and forever ❤️

I just love how you laugh throughout your conversation.

Oooooh man, I love it here🥺❤️😍🥂

Wow this was so good! What both of you said about needs and what Brenden said towards the end about “being aware”👌🏾 I see therapy is doing wonders for you guys😅❤️

I appreciate you guys, even though I'd like to see you on regular 😌 I understand how life is and its always a banger when you return ❤ much love😘

I love how this conversation went about. I was also a snooper just like Mpoomy, well currently recovering from that but funny enough , that trait has saved me from a lot of things and bad decisions.

Thank you so much ❤️ I love your podcast 🥺

😂😂😂♥️a good laugh and great content. Thank you🙏🏽

Hey guys I loved this topic and I relate a lot to Brenden praise's red flag story it also happened to me and it is so painful to experience something like that really and from a person that you truly love. But we learn and move on I have learnt a lot from this topic. Thank you so much for your podcasts, I learn a lot from the different topics that you discuss and the lessons help me to be a better person each and every day I thank God for you guys you are doing such an amazing job. I really appreciate and love you🙏🥺😊❤️❤️❤️❤️

This is very much insightfull. Thank you

Enjoyed this video so much. ❤️

Loving the quality of the video👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Wow

The therapy I needed 😭

"Do not sacrifice what you want now for what you want most"👌💫

Beautiful new setting ✨

I love how he praises her❤️

I loved this.. what a blessing you guys are!!! So wise and real ! So amazing!!! My favourite girl!!!

This was so fun and enlightening to watch❤️

Missed you guys☺️☺️ I'm inspired by your relationship and your lifestyle. Much love ❤️❤️

I love it more when you guys are relaxed,laughing and making jokes 😍😍😍❤️❤️

The minute you said phineas and ferb i bursted into laughter. Whatchu doin 🤣 queen of snooping

Very important conversation, ❤️❤️

The fact that you matched with the coffee cups😊

😂😂 thanks for a good laugh and the informative discussion on 🚩🚩

Oh! I loved this topic and how you guys delivered it. It's an important topic especially considering as well the level of GBV going on. Thanks guys

Arg I've missed you guys mehn, always lighthearted yet much needed conversations ❤☺

Thank you for the information and all the way from Zambia 🇿🇲

Mpoomy is right. Its like when a person comes to you with third degree burns and says look, please; don't play with fire its really harmful. Then you decide to say well, I get you but i want to experience it myself.Only a fool learns from his mistakes, a wise person learns from the mistakes of others ~Otto Von Bismarck~ I loved the part where Brenden Praise was talking about listing down your needs so that both of you won't have to seek for external validation. So powerful and wise.

It's so good to know that good marriages still exists and may God bless you 💖 😊

Is the authenticity of this channel that make me present with every video. Thank you soo much for being selfless in sharing your life with us.

Just like our fire is gone, so are we😂😂🔥. Siyabonga for this segment.

We here we back 💃🏻💃🏻♥️♥️

I am always looking forward to watching your vlogs. The intro was cute hle.

One thing about you guys are so content, from relationship red flags to how it should be 😍 thank you for sharing part of yourselves with us

We have been waiting for the notifications 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻 it’s good to be here 📍sila. We miss you guys 😘😍

I love how u you 2 laugh so laud together man😂❤️💓

It's the ghosting definition for me 🤣🤣,I missed you guys🥰

This was so informative and good to watch!😩😭 , great laugh and good content! Syabonga!😊

Today I was very intentional about watching the ads. Thank you for a great discussion in a very light manner. I enjoyed it very much.

One of my favourite couples. Missed you guys.

Love love the background🔥🥹 missed you guys

I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation and the giggles too🤣🤣🤣🤣 y’all are doing the Lord’s work🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

Amen on the forgiveness part Brenden, I’m definitely a forgiving person however I’ve come to realize that forgiveness quite easy but forgetting is really a challenge cos can I honestly say I’ve fully forgiven you but I still bring up what you did when given the chance?