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Is Ooni Of Ife's Wife Unhappy In Her Marriage? YourView Ladies React To New Trend Of Divorce

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There have been several controversies after the wife of the Ooni of Ife, Oba Adeyeye Ogunwusi, Ojaja II, Olori Naomi Silekunola, announced her separation from the Ooni, citing many personal reasons.
She disclosed the news on her verified Instagram handle and Facebook account announcing an end to the three-year marriage.
What would make a woman quit her marriage with an influential spouse? #YourViewTVC
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@charlyjasper1458
@charlyjasper1458 2 жыл бұрын
Only hypocrites will be surprise about the Olori leaving the Ooni. She will be the third wife divorcing the king. Unfortunately, Nigerians are afraid to speak the truth and would always blame the women.
@virtuouswoman4516
@virtuouswoman4516 2 жыл бұрын
You are so right.
@dollyakin7945
@dollyakin7945 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you o. Something is fundamentally wrong with him o. But no one would say nothing
@victoriaamoye
@victoriaamoye 2 жыл бұрын
Divorce is a hard option and some people choose it because things look very hopeless. Communication, respect, and humility is very key.
@favourjeun2153
@favourjeun2153 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! The lady on pick is gorgeously arrayed in the beautiful Efik nkuho attire. Is she from Cross River State? So glad to see my cultural attire
@rofiatrahaman851
@rofiatrahaman851 2 жыл бұрын
Obviously, she's not happy! For her saying "I tried to smile through struggling" have said it all. If anyone says that? Definitely, he/she is fed up! There shouldn't be any "reconciliation" between them because it's not gonna work! There must be something deeper going on behind closed door in which she hasn't disclosed yet. To my opinion, her decision should be respected.
@cardinalf.resttv9614
@cardinalf.resttv9614 2 жыл бұрын
Woman should not be taken for granted no matter who the man is
@popsonjaiyesimi7670
@popsonjaiyesimi7670 2 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful women discussing so intelligently and shaping a greater future for young Nigerians. Am so proud of you and your personal life testimonials. You are one of the greatest things that happens to 🇳🇬
@odebodeoluwabamise3302
@odebodeoluwabamise3302 2 жыл бұрын
My take on Mrs Naomi Adeyeye Ogunwusi Huuuuu, marrying Oonirisa is like signing a Death Warrant. Naomi is now Kakaki/Oku Aparo.Ooni of Ife is not an ordinary King that a just civilized woman can go for. Note what we're seeing now is the product of gradual total commitment to the reality of fountain of Culture and tradition. So to fulfill Naomi's Destiny as Stated in the Bible in the palace will be effort in futility. However, if the news is true the King should go for a culture rooted woman and a woman that has full understanding of the KING called Ooni of IFe and the role of Queen. History is key to the survival of any woman that'll serve as the Queen to Ooni. In fact the position of Babatunde Fafunwa that history is to the people while memory is to the individual, people with no knowledge of their past would suffer collective amnesia..........
@funmiadeniran4780
@funmiadeniran4780 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with you Tope. Until I summed up courage, faced my child, who's now a graduated and still aspiring, I didn't know I can do it alone. I'm happy God supported me through. If you're not happy, get out and be happy, but happiness is by choice
@abelolasupo8722
@abelolasupo8722 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Morayo and other ladies, have you thought of the possibility of domestic violence/physical abuse in the royal marriages?
@arisehigh632
@arisehigh632 2 жыл бұрын
I did and am true to myself. A woman can endure a marriage when the discomfort is minimal and ignorable but where it is toxic, unhealthy and all effort to correct the wrong is abortive ,to remain sane and happy and to avoid reoccurrence of this hurt in the children's life .please take a walk. Every woman should be supportive of the marriage financially and spiritually . Pls tale a walk
@patienceokafor7647
@patienceokafor7647 2 жыл бұрын
You are on point. There are men who are seriously toxic and demonic. Charm is deceitful. Some would wish you dead so that you will not be alive to tell your story. Love yourself and your children enough to take a walk. If you die in it, you have done your children a disservice of being raised by a manipulative and deceitful father who will always pretend to them of having their interests but instead inflicting on them mental health issues as a result of being raised by a maladjusted or disordered father. Please ladies, take a walk 🚶‍♀️ 🚶‍♀️ 🚶‍♀️
@theresaigube5734
@theresaigube5734 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, some women don't ask the right questions before marriage honestly. 🙄
@everlastingblessing5058
@everlastingblessing5058 2 жыл бұрын
Right questions….like what and what so others can also have idea in case….😊😊
@floBar51651
@floBar51651 2 жыл бұрын
@@everlastingblessing5058 Google this question. Lots of answers on the internet.
@theresaigube5734
@theresaigube5734 2 жыл бұрын
@@everlastingblessing5058 Get to know the principle about money, sex, communication, responsibility, no of children to have, method of raising children, etc
@everlastingblessing5058
@everlastingblessing5058 2 жыл бұрын
@@theresaigube5734 Thank you so much my sister for the enlightenment🤗🤗
@theresaigube5734
@theresaigube5734 2 жыл бұрын
@@everlastingblessing5058 you are welcome.
@faithpeace5093
@faithpeace5093 2 жыл бұрын
Olori Naomi has found herself in a very tight corner. How do you manage Jesus and lfa together. I am always praying for her as a child of God and was not too surprised when l heard the news. She needs to hear from God for herself. Please young women choose wisely for the bible says what has light got to do with darkness. Please search the bible 2 Corinthians 6:14 "Be not unequally yoked with unbelievers: for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion hath light with darkness?"
@tonyebiere551
@tonyebiere551 2 жыл бұрын
you are the only person who understands the problem here. THEY ARE UNEQUALLY YOKED. IT CAN NEVER WORK. She is a prophetess doing the work of Jesus, He is an IFA WORSHIPPER . HER SPIRIT WILL NEVER FIND PEACE THERE. ALL KINGS ARE TRADITIONAL WORSHIPPERS AND NEED TO MARRY WOMEN WHO ARE INTO THAT, IF THEY MARRY CHRISTIANS, IT CANT WORK
@kingsleyazubuike9321
@kingsleyazubuike9321 2 жыл бұрын
Didn't she know all that before going into the marriage? Stop been sentimental
@gerardonochie3408
@gerardonochie3408 2 жыл бұрын
@@tonyebiere551 Then Olori Naomi must be a FOOL. How can a so called christian marry a non-christian??? It makes no logical or spiritual sense. Personally good luck to her. She epitomises what is wrong with many men and women of the geographical expression called Nigeria. Their attachment to wealth, fame and all manner of nonsense will ultimately make them unhappy and have failed marriages. Also the Ooni should look carefully at the type of women he marries. This will blow over....much ado about nothing!!!!!
@tonyebiere551
@tonyebiere551 2 жыл бұрын
@@gerardonochie3408 she may really be doing Gods work but let herself get carried away by WEALTH and GLAMOUR. I think it was temptation
@seunomotayo-ojo7006
@seunomotayo-ojo7006 2 жыл бұрын
Spot on Nima, you've said it all. We have moved away from that era of staying in the marriage to endure whatever comes with it.
@ekomzyuche3402
@ekomzyuche3402 2 жыл бұрын
So if ur saying this where is d endurance that makes a good soldier of Christ even as a Christian or someone who loves Jesus Christ you must endure hardness there is no running away from it so spare me all this milky easy running away from challenges
@josephfofana2920
@josephfofana2920 2 жыл бұрын
@@ekomzyuche3402 did Jesus ever marry?
@gerardonochie3408
@gerardonochie3408 2 жыл бұрын
@@josephfofana2920 Read the post again and open your mind. Can you know more than Jesus Christ?
@OlaoluA
@OlaoluA 2 жыл бұрын
@@ekomzyuche3402 Take this advice to your sister or daughter. Tell her to endure hardness even when it threatens her sanity, her growth, her life. Then everyone will know she is a good soldier of Christ.
@ekomzyuche3402
@ekomzyuche3402 2 жыл бұрын
@@josephfofana2920 ok you can u stay away from fornication......it's cos of personal sanctification that God said ok oya marry so that the sex will not be sin anymore.....and secondly please endurance of tough times makes one better and you will become a solid Rock too as Christ is for us..... Jesus Christ loves strong people not some run away soldier just cause the marriage is having challenges
@olubunmiabiona2172
@olubunmiabiona2172 2 жыл бұрын
Dear Mariam. You have said it all. SELF DISCIPLINE is the key. When you have self discipline, it will totally reflect in every other areas of your life thereby bringing out the best in you.
@ekomzyuche3402
@ekomzyuche3402 2 жыл бұрын
Well said
@harrietagadagba3558
@harrietagadagba3558 2 жыл бұрын
I think the king had some issues. For 3 women to divorced him within few yrs is worrisome. With the way Queen Naomi honours, adores and respect the king and yet the marriage did work, I think the fault is from the king. What are the chances that the new queen is going to stay long.
@johnodutemu2887
@johnodutemu2887 2 жыл бұрын
Like she moving all her family into the palace and demanding impossibilities from the King and Palace Staff?
@chinenyeadejuwon8484
@chinenyeadejuwon8484 2 жыл бұрын
When the new one moves in,she will also see what the previous ones saw and know that it's beyond posing and dancing before the camera.
@chinenyeodozi7677
@chinenyeodozi7677 2 жыл бұрын
@@johnodutemu2887 so the 2 ex wives also did same thing? The fault is obviously not from the women. 1st wife... Gone 2nd wife ..... Gone 3rs wife...... About to be gone I mean.........
@EmpressLayo
@EmpressLayo 2 жыл бұрын
@@johnodutemu2887 how do you know she over demanding. She has the right to have her mother stay with her if it make her feel protected. A king who has married 3 women & they leave. Don't you think the man could also a problem?
@johnodutemu2887
@johnodutemu2887 2 жыл бұрын
@@EmpressLayo is her mother not married? Is that how your mother moved into your house after your wedding and remained? If you are not married, is that your plan? Is she the only Child and her father dead for the mother to move un with her? Where is the place of self respect?
@KiRetteCouture
@KiRetteCouture 2 жыл бұрын
Staying for the sake of the children doesn't always work. It can be traumatic for them. Let's encourage healthy marriages. PS These sacrifices are probably what turned some women into mean mothers-in-law.
@mamad9005
@mamad9005 2 жыл бұрын
That's what they always say, STAY BECAUSE OF THE CHILDREN.
@Chiellao
@Chiellao 2 жыл бұрын
You're right
@minemauko8511
@minemauko8511 2 жыл бұрын
True Talk
@olusinajoyce6379
@olusinajoyce6379 2 жыл бұрын
The children too will be damaged goods and become abusive husbands and wives in the future.....
@KiRetteCouture
@KiRetteCouture 2 жыл бұрын
@@olusinajoyce6379 yep. I've witnessed this.
@omaryland5039
@omaryland5039 2 жыл бұрын
Two cannot walk together EXCEPT they agree.
@Afasime_
@Afasime_ 2 жыл бұрын
My foster mum left after 40 years, we were all shocked. Why would anyone stay that long if you never wanted to be there
@ritausua9993
@ritausua9993 2 жыл бұрын
You all looks Lovely in the traditional wears. Merry Christmas to all and a blessed new year in advance. I wondering why the king's wife as a prophetess find herself in such a high traditional compromise, and must the king always keep to the tradition of marrying to many wives or is a choice?
@olajumokeaworeni5882
@olajumokeaworeni5882 2 жыл бұрын
It's a choice. But ppl don't allow the king to rest. They keep on bringing their daughters for the Ooni to marry. According to tradition, the Ooni must not refuse. Naomi was his choice but all others are packaging.
@olusolaagunbiade3735
@olusolaagunbiade3735 2 жыл бұрын
You babes are awesome!💖 I admire your honesty & knowledge sharing. I am proud of you all & myself representing wonderful women. Do stay blessed by God🙌
@marybrakner6466
@marybrakner6466 2 жыл бұрын
His Imperial Majestic should thoroughly Check himself, Olori Wuraola left, Queen Naomi a prophetess MUST NOT LEAVE THE PALACE, Divorce is not what we Yorubas want to hear. Yorubas who loves their root do not like this acts of Oba Enitan Adeyeye changing women as changing cloth....if this is true. Oba Enitan Adeyeye need A great deliverance sincerely speaking.......His Imperial Majest Ooni of Ife NEED HELP.. Good hearted Yorubas should stand and assist and empower HIS Imperial Majestic to overcome this marriage issue......Divorce .it is early for both Queen and Oba Enitan Adeyeye .. MAY THE LIGHT OF GOD SHINES OVER DARKNESS IN THIS OONI OF IFE PALACE AND IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN QUEEN NAOMI AND OBA ADEYEYE ENITAN
@dorybenz4908
@dorybenz4908 2 жыл бұрын
I like the moderators choice of colours. The attire really looks good on her. It brings her beauty right. It's like saying hitting the nail on point. They all look beautiful
@tpshalom
@tpshalom 2 жыл бұрын
My people. Influential has levels. The wife of an Otedola is different from the wife of a Yoruba Oba. In Yoruba land, they are called igbakeji orissa. It is huge to be the wife of an Oba both spiritually and physically. She will have to spend time alone with God and hear His voice, get wisdom and seek counsel. She did not enter a small thing. Like I said earlier, we are not talking about ordinary things here o. Obama's wife, Otedola's wife, Joe Biden's wife; those are different o. Yes, their husbands are Influential. I am talking Oba, that level is very different. As an Oba's wife, o serious o. Better not to go there. The load is heavy. Michele's mum moved into the white house. She trusted her mum to help with the girls. We did not hear problems. No scandals. It is well.
@sweetspice9120
@sweetspice9120 2 жыл бұрын
Having the mom in the house is not an issue. It is the moving of her whole extended family and using the king to finance a whole other family. Like dont they hve work? Is d king a poverty alleviation program for her family?
@tpshalom
@tpshalom 2 жыл бұрын
@@sweetspice9120 I understand you actually. Mum alone is different from mum and siblings.
@tonyebiere551
@tonyebiere551 2 жыл бұрын
@@sweetspice9120 YES IT IS A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. IF YOU MARRY THE OONI ARE YOUR BROTHERS AND SISTERS TO LIVE IN POVERTY? WHAT ARE YOU EVEN SAYING? DID THE KING NOT THINK OF THAT BEFORE MARRYING A POOR PERSON? WHY DINT HE MARRY OTEDOLAS DAUGHER?
@GreatestLuv
@GreatestLuv 2 жыл бұрын
The reason behind every marriage is very important.
@Afasime_
@Afasime_ 2 жыл бұрын
Yes she is unhappy. No one hacked her account.
@abak7412
@abak7412 2 жыл бұрын
Love love Tope’s headtie style
@maryannetumudon8637
@maryannetumudon8637 2 жыл бұрын
Truth, marriage is all about communication, friendship and companionship
@UnveilingAfricaTV
@UnveilingAfricaTV 2 жыл бұрын
Morayo you hit the nail on the head. You have to weigh and balance the situation, sometimes the grass is not greener on the other side. Kindness and generosity is really important. Some rich men are stingy as hell.
@ekomzyuche3402
@ekomzyuche3402 2 жыл бұрын
Well only if women can choose well honestly a man who u hussled with to the top always keeps u by his side as his everything and am not saying there are no issues but am saying it's better to marry someone you can Hussle with I don't know y women fear hussling I don't know Y.....the richest men don't easily release money but me honestly I don't know but an average guy can easily give u money even sometimes for useless things just to show the woman how much he honor her but women are never wise to choose well den after many years they will come and start talking divorce bullshit
@ChidinmajenniferAkunyili
@ChidinmajenniferAkunyili 2 жыл бұрын
@@ekomzyuche3402 Even poor persons divorce,it has nothing to do with the rich or poor,it is all about the individual..
@marylwanalo6115
@marylwanalo6115 2 жыл бұрын
It's not as if she did not know what she was getting into. Marrying a king has It's issues. She has finished her assignment, produced an heir. Kings always have a wondering eye they cannot be committed to one woman. She was not the first, others will come.
@samuelorija6334
@samuelorija6334 2 жыл бұрын
Nnñob
@helendiamond5574
@helendiamond5574 2 жыл бұрын
Please don't become morden slave in the name of marriage. If the environment is toxic please don't leave fly out of it.I can tolerate any situation but can't tolerate abuse in any shape or form
@virtuouswoman4516
@virtuouswoman4516 2 жыл бұрын
This is such a hot topic close to my heart. Love your show as always.
@DominicaTraditionalWear
@DominicaTraditionalWear 2 жыл бұрын
You all look so beautiful in your traditional dress. WOW !
@olufemiadedire3360
@olufemiadedire3360 2 жыл бұрын
Very easy to be an angel when no one’s ruffles your shoulder.
@ummramlah3916
@ummramlah3916 2 жыл бұрын
How is she supposed to cope with the spiritual aspect of the marriage when the Oba is igbakeji orisha while she wants to make it to heaven. She has to choose betw life luxuries and the hereafter. Its even more than happiness issue.
@kennethdaudasamuelonwuta8266
@kennethdaudasamuelonwuta8266 2 жыл бұрын
Marriage is about two people. Hmmm : How many people are in this marriage. The discussant are not paying justice to this matter. Sometimes it is better to remain silent if you can't say how you feel about the matter.
@ukomifaith4823
@ukomifaith4823 2 жыл бұрын
This bold step is now something else let dem remember de said is for better for worse cant u bear like our mothers did bck den or u think we dnt have worst fathers den see if people of 30 yrs inside it is complaining u dat is just 1-5yrs in it only will complain n just walk away what about the children dnt u feel for dem as well must it be all about u both always u both go into it not dem y den purnish dem cos last last de felt it more NO BODY IS WISER WHEN IT COMES TO MARRIAGE but we should be watchful sometimes my opinion thnks🙏
@ekomzyuche3402
@ekomzyuche3402 2 жыл бұрын
Ur very wise ma my worry is dis women claim they are schooled but they are not tough they are not tough am a young guy of 28 I'm married and I married a young lady too but the challenges don't weigh us down we keep moving forward infact let me say this these women are older but most of them are senseless..... marriage is about sacrifice....why is it that any small challenge women want to run away y y y..... my family is intact and I'm determined for mine to be intact.....so in marriage fighting is a must it's not all about emotional gratification
@yetolaoluwasina5282
@yetolaoluwasina5282 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the discussion. Really learnt a lot from it. God bless you all
@christieatuh
@christieatuh 2 жыл бұрын
What kind of expectation do you go into a marriage with.? What kind of person did you marry? Did you care to know the character of the person? what about the circumstances for a person if Status as the Ooni. - Did the queen not know the King will be polygamous, or did he assure her differently from all that is happening now .
@henryjesusbaby9584
@henryjesusbaby9584 2 жыл бұрын
Aah these women are beautiful oo Woow
@adeolasaba2000
@adeolasaba2000 2 жыл бұрын
Kudos to the team for roboust discussion
@mariatop8532
@mariatop8532 2 жыл бұрын
Ooni should allow Naomi to go. Both the oba and the so called prophetess who is not ordained by anybody are confused. They should keep their problems to themselves
@wuraolabalogun4943
@wuraolabalogun4943 2 жыл бұрын
She lacked endurance and exposure..she should have put all issues into consideration.
@gerardonochie3408
@gerardonochie3408 2 жыл бұрын
She is NO Prophetess. How come she could not see this doomed relationship!!!
@olabisiojengbede2357
@olabisiojengbede2357 2 жыл бұрын
Naomi has not told Nigerians what really transpired between her and her husband, the story is one sided. She just wants to give the Obaa bad name.
@ekomzyuche3402
@ekomzyuche3402 2 жыл бұрын
That woman might have some issues which the husband has been enduring too women always doing as if they are perfect bullshit
@idomagirlabahi7786
@idomagirlabahi7786 2 жыл бұрын
A man who has been dumped by 3 women doesn’t need anyone to give him a bad name. If he was a poor man, everyone would say it’s because he doesn’t have money, but he is very wealthy, powerful and influential, only God knows what their eyes have seen to give all of that up. I hope the new Queen knows what she’s getting into.
@toyinakinnawo4861
@toyinakinnawo4861 2 жыл бұрын
Compliments of the festive season ladies Your discussion has really made my day.
@adebanjoadeniji4642
@adebanjoadeniji4642 2 жыл бұрын
We live in a time where if anything is broken or about to break, you trash it and get a new one. Before, you fix or repair...
@helenalaladeagunbiade3729
@helenalaladeagunbiade3729 2 жыл бұрын
It's Easy to say .BUT NOT EASY TO SHARE UR MAN WITH ANYONE.ESPECIALY WHEN THE MARRIAGE IS STILL FRESH.IF U AVE LIKE 3 - 4 CHILDREN U WON'T MIND BCOS UR TIME IS EXHAUSTED WITH RUNING AROUND THE CHILDREN.U DON'T AVE ANY TIME TO EVEN SPARE TO BE JEALOUS OR FEEL LONELY.THANKS
@yetundemakanju8386
@yetundemakanju8386 2 жыл бұрын
WE PRAY THAT THE ALMIGHTY GOD INTERVENE AND GIVE THEM THE WISDOM THEY NEED TO LIVE IN A PROPER ENVIRONMENT/RELATIONSHIP AGAIN THE COUPLE BOTH FAMILIES NEED SOME CORRECTIONS TO HELP THE MARRIAGE WORK WELL OF HOW IT SHOULD BE THEY SHOULD BOTH CONSIDER OUR LOVELY CROWN PRINCE TADENIKAWO OGUNWUSI'S FUTURE BEFORE ANY DECISION SEEING OUR HONOURABLE OJAJA 11 AND HIS WIFE QUEEN NAOMI OGUNWUSI TOGETHER COMMANDS GREAT HONOUR/GLORY TO THAT THRONE, BELIEVE! MAY GOD HELP US TO RESOLVE ALL THE ISSUES FOR PERFECT PEACE TO REIGN IN THE FAMILY IN JESUS NAME AMENNNNNNN FROM UK
@samsonenakiere9266
@samsonenakiere9266 2 жыл бұрын
May God help us, human being is too expensive to be maintain by human!!!!!
@sandranwani6695
@sandranwani6695 2 жыл бұрын
Very sad truly. With all the Queen's submission. Okay, so what will a modern woman do differently?
@essienukut2985
@essienukut2985 2 жыл бұрын
7th uiuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu
@fairness3840
@fairness3840 2 жыл бұрын
What submission, please?
@UnveilingAfricaTV
@UnveilingAfricaTV 2 жыл бұрын
Be one’s self and do not let anyone rob you of YOURSELF!!!
@UnveilingAfricaTV
@UnveilingAfricaTV 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry I forgot to add, as long as being oneself is positive, by that I mean no negative behaviors, drinking, drugs, etc.
@sandranwani6695
@sandranwani6695 2 жыл бұрын
@@UnveilingAfricaTV Yes, you are right. This thing called marriage, is just God's grace. This particular one over me. !!!
@godsownomega7151
@godsownomega7151 2 жыл бұрын
Hi beautiful ladies, Nice outfits, in my own view , I think the Prophetess should have considered marrying a pastor and not a traditional first class King. I think she made a wrong choice from the start.
@vickyudi8262
@vickyudi8262 2 жыл бұрын
I love Queen Naomi she is full of wisdom and knowledge. She is a very beautiful lovely quiet woman. We can see that she is not happy with king 🤴 we can all hear where she was singing and saying that you are my husband and telling him that you married me as from youth l m
@sweetspice9120
@sweetspice9120 2 жыл бұрын
There is nothing quiet about Queen Naomi. Have you seen her shouting and speaking at events? Dancing loudly with her family at parties?
@ekomzyuche3402
@ekomzyuche3402 2 жыл бұрын
Quiet gini hmmmmmm
@ronkuz4044
@ronkuz4044 2 жыл бұрын
You nailed it Tope.
@Bloompotential
@Bloompotential 2 жыл бұрын
You are all assuming you know what really happened between them.
@fadekematti4814
@fadekematti4814 2 жыл бұрын
See African women most especially Nigerians are now becoming to be self aware of their strength, their empowerment. Women are now beginig to understand that these men projects marriage to us women becos of their( men ) fear of surviving alone . We wiomen don't need men to survive our life it's men that actually need us , so if they cannot go to bury their ego and respect women for the values we are , this will continue to happen and we will keep seeing this reality
@johnsonoluyemi81
@johnsonoluyemi81 2 жыл бұрын
I like that. Women should brace up and live alone but such women should not disturb other women husbands o. Your eyes will soon clear out when age catches up with you. You think single women don't cry secretly!. Women that are not matured enough to cope with men cope with dogs and manikins. It's all a pity.
@odehruth2011
@odehruth2011 2 жыл бұрын
@@johnsonoluyemi81 yes ooo single women cry secretly very well and they are not well respect or welcome in their neighbourhood places they are always suspect to every other women husband in there area
@ekomzyuche3402
@ekomzyuche3402 2 жыл бұрын
Am laughing at u saying this hmmmm well live alone who cares anyway
@ekomzyuche3402
@ekomzyuche3402 2 жыл бұрын
@@johnsonoluyemi81 tell her abeg am happy it's a fellow woman talking to her these uncultured women that cannot respect a man and are claiming marriage doesn't matter are the ones destroying sweet homes built by their fellow women it's pathetic
@ekomzyuche3402
@ekomzyuche3402 2 жыл бұрын
@@odehruth2011 yes oooooo tell who wants to hear
@victoriasamuel8257
@victoriasamuel8257 2 жыл бұрын
Is not a responsible king.
@omololaakinyede9252
@omololaakinyede9252 2 жыл бұрын
Which type of divorce is this?. Still answesr to Ogunwusi and Queen. I do not believe the divorce..
@sk6424
@sk6424 2 жыл бұрын
Hmm Nima said a lot and she's so correct.
@susannaakintayo4253
@susannaakintayo4253 2 жыл бұрын
When men or women are fed up with the relationship and they no longer your friend/companion. Is a disaster waiting to happen. Well said sis physical and mental health abuse that can lead to death. Relationships is a delicate matter, and is a battle even for people who married their soul mate. My advice is for young people to make a wise choice. When you open your eyes, go to married a womaniser , you will always be a second class to him. Is not about money if you're content with each other. Both are ready to work, the marriage will work.
@AyomipeAdek
@AyomipeAdek 2 жыл бұрын
You really made the callers day :)
@oliveevergreen5401
@oliveevergreen5401 2 жыл бұрын
Even if he came for her, she can still decline, but because she wants the money and fame, the mother must have encourage her on for what the family will gain, so she accepted the proposal, because she wanted the money and fame that accompanied the king. After all, its the man that always and in most cases talk to the women for marriage whether poor or rich. So that the king came for her, foes not over rule the fact that she may have accepted to may have accepted to marry him, because of the material possession and fame that accompanied it.
@olufunmilayofamuyiwa9649
@olufunmilayofamuyiwa9649 7 ай бұрын
If she loves him why would she decline?
@princessbee2522
@princessbee2522 2 жыл бұрын
The gentle man sait it all couple should sleep eat play pray together some of these things must happen if not all there no marriage
@chikanjoku9884
@chikanjoku9884 2 жыл бұрын
Originally, there are traditional methods of handling such issues. We Nigerians tend to have the ignorant tendency of overdoing things. It's a shame how most of us have been intoxicated with the social media idiosyncrasy.
@DKAM-vi1yw
@DKAM-vi1yw 2 жыл бұрын
U guys look beautiful, keep it up. Happy Christmas 🌲🌲🌲
@MrDulah
@MrDulah 2 жыл бұрын
And the blame always goes to the man. Do not think this is a balanced conversation, tilted to a single story.
@olabisiojengbede2357
@olabisiojengbede2357 2 жыл бұрын
I wonder!!
@ekomzyuche3402
@ekomzyuche3402 2 жыл бұрын
Women are always talking and talking but some of these women talking have bad attitude sincerely
@idomagirlabahi7786
@idomagirlabahi7786 2 жыл бұрын
I guess he is being blamed in this case because this is the 3rd woman to divorce him. He’s the common denominator here.
@ibiyimikaige4814
@ibiyimikaige4814 2 жыл бұрын
When will you ladies cover the plight of Yoruba women who are being raped by herdsmen in their farms or those Yoruba women who are slaves in the Arab lands?
@daughterofenoch677
@daughterofenoch677 2 жыл бұрын
Who sent them to Arab lands ? Did Arabs come to Nigeria to capture women or did your women fight tooth and nail to go live with Arab men ?
@ibiyimikaige4814
@ibiyimikaige4814 2 жыл бұрын
@@daughterofenoch677 The earth is the Lord’s. Humans move around in their God given liberty. No one enslaves or maltreat French women, German women, Swedish women, American women ati be be lo in any part of the world because there will be hell to pay. These women from stable and safe countries are not pushed to hostile countries because of their own failed nations. Yoruba women whose land abound with resources are victims of a failed Nigeria. That is why we all need to have a conversation about it and not play the mindless blame game that will not bring positive results.
@NZB89
@NZB89 2 жыл бұрын
You want them to discuss herdsmen (Tinubu and Buhari's relatives). On Tinubu Station? It will never happen. Never ever
@ekomzyuche3402
@ekomzyuche3402 2 жыл бұрын
@@daughterofenoch677 lolzzzzzzz oooooo
@fadekematti4814
@fadekematti4814 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Madam Tope, u av said it all , women power age,!!!
@adepejuajayi6360
@adepejuajayi6360 2 жыл бұрын
People should mind their business because no one knows what they going through. They are public figure, yes but it's nobody's business.
@olufunmilayofamuyiwa9649
@olufunmilayofamuyiwa9649 7 ай бұрын
God bless you, they are talking never think the other side of it. Those women that always come to Oni pretending they came for business, and all their juju I must marry Oni by fire by force. B4 anyone could talk put yourself in the shoe first
@chuaevelyn3866
@chuaevelyn3866 2 жыл бұрын
Naomi should know that this is a Royal man, that he is entitled to get married to many; Naomi was thinking that when she respect and bow down in many occasions the man will say ok I will only marry you and you alone. Is not; This Man is expose to many and any woman coming to his life should please Live Ooni of Ife alone
@oliveevergreen5401
@oliveevergreen5401 2 жыл бұрын
In most cases, children from broken homes, have emotional issues, every child need their father with them when growing up, it goes along way in there emotional and spiritual well being.
@abiolaoge5637
@abiolaoge5637 2 жыл бұрын
It’s better to be raised by a single parent than to be raised in an abusive marriage/home
@helendiamond5574
@helendiamond5574 2 жыл бұрын
@@abiolaoge5637 you are very ,very correct leave a marriage if is an abusive one.However,children need both parents for rounded personality.I did not grow up with my father not cos my mother left the marriage but my father left us to raise another family. It only affected me growing up cos I missed out on fatherly warmth otherwise, it makes me a better person in the society and more level headed
@abiolaoge5637
@abiolaoge5637 2 жыл бұрын
@Helen Diamond I bet ure a better person even tho the gap is there. Imagine if emotionally abusing your mum and physically assaulting your mum by your father in your presence as a child was added to part of the stress she had to go through raising you. What we are saying is one option is fairer compared to the other.
@magdalena3757
@magdalena3757 2 жыл бұрын
@ Olive , Because of the Children , The Mothers Should Stay Back and Have Mental Issues ???
@magdalena3757
@magdalena3757 2 жыл бұрын
@@helendiamond5574 So you Think , if Your father had Warmth To Give , He will not Leave you and your Mother in the First Place , Is it Not These Same Father That Rape and Pregnate Their Daughters ❓❓❓❓Just be Grateful for your mother not Leaving too and Sharing You Amongst her Siblings , Uncles and Aunts Where you End Up As A House Girl ❕❕❕
@katelvleidahosa1229
@katelvleidahosa1229 2 жыл бұрын
SHE CANNOT BEARS TEARSAROUNDHER INSIDE AND OUTSIDELOOK PREFERT BUT INSIDE SHEIS CRYING EVERYDAY TEARS NOBODY KNOWNS HERBRAINS IS FULL OF THINKING 28YRS AND AMAZINGQUEEN WOMEN NEEDS TRUTH LOVED NATURAL FROM HEARTS NOMORE CRYING AND JOY IS FORHER
@brooks172
@brooks172 2 жыл бұрын
Yes when there is no happiness
@adeoyemuyiwa3293
@adeoyemuyiwa3293 2 жыл бұрын
D Bible does not say marry who you love but love who you married
@doreenonekalit9888
@doreenonekalit9888 2 жыл бұрын
You all love gorgeous and elegant Merry Christmas to all of you Ladies Great conversation. #womenempowerded #womenevole
@preciousashimole6507
@preciousashimole6507 2 жыл бұрын
If you try all possible ways and you still found yourself not happy not supporting not appreciate and not valued my dear find your way before you die materials things is nothing but vanity. Move up
@boluwatifetravels2539
@boluwatifetravels2539 2 жыл бұрын
Its is not new in this word of our , working out of the marriage , its a tow ways things
@floBar51651
@floBar51651 2 жыл бұрын
You people are ridiculous 😂 how can she have a closeness with a man that belongs to everyone. Isn't that an unrealistic expectation? The new Queen Ashley came to take over her spot as expected for her to fade into the background, and that fading into the background is the koko for her. Has she not been away since she had to go and give birth in her own family home?
@tundefunkebarbosa-martins4099
@tundefunkebarbosa-martins4099 2 жыл бұрын
Some people can't read, or they simply prefer to stick to the most obnoxious things. The ex-queen specifically stated that she was the only wife till the day she left. In other words, all the other women in his life are SNACKS. Get real.
@Chiellao
@Chiellao 2 жыл бұрын
@@tundefunkebarbosa-martins4099 Truth
@floBar51651
@floBar51651 2 жыл бұрын
@@tundefunkebarbosa-martins4099 indeed, some folks lack reading comprehension. The ex-queen said there were side attractions.
@ultimate4355
@ultimate4355 2 жыл бұрын
If you don't know tradition shut up. A real Yoruba monarch cannot carry a new born baby unless the baby is three months or thereabouts so to play safe she would have to conceive out of the palace especially if Ooni is an anxious man so she will have to conceive out of the palace. Sometimes do proper research before you come online to type rubbish. Thank you .
@floBar51651
@floBar51651 2 жыл бұрын
@@ultimate4355 you are the one that should shut your gutter. What part of what I said contradicts what your said. Zero reading comprehension.
@oliveevergreen5401
@oliveevergreen5401 2 жыл бұрын
If she truly love the king, she will not leave, she entered the marriage for money and fame. She family attitude at the palace is a proof that they are gold diggers.
@glamanesthesia5259
@glamanesthesia5259 2 жыл бұрын
Men don't carry these convos.
@xsmail6462
@xsmail6462 2 жыл бұрын
In marriage, the husband should respect his wife, communicate with her. However, a marriage is not a partnership. It’s not a business deal. Please do not mislead young women. In Africa, it’s easier for a woman to remarry after having kids in a previous marriage. In the western world, it’s very hard. Man are running away from women with kids. These women have degrees and money, however, they cannot find responsible men to marry them. They are obligated to go after low level men with no jobs. All because they think that there degrees and money, they cannot be held accountable.
@ekomzyuche3402
@ekomzyuche3402 2 жыл бұрын
Ur very wise so wise God bless you
@princessbee2522
@princessbee2522 2 жыл бұрын
Nyma you have peace of mind in your marriage whiteout peace of mind money is useless
@oliveevergreen5401
@oliveevergreen5401 2 жыл бұрын
Naomi went into the marriage for the wrong reasons, and that is why she is disappointed.
@minemauko8511
@minemauko8511 2 жыл бұрын
Gbam!
@olufunmilayofamuyiwa9649
@olufunmilayofamuyiwa9649 7 ай бұрын
What are the reasons?
@bdoye4021
@bdoye4021 2 жыл бұрын
Did she wait to have a child for him before she leaves so she will have a stake? Me I just they ask o
@SusanAdeniyi
@SusanAdeniyi 2 жыл бұрын
Yes she has a Son
@katelvleidahosa1229
@katelvleidahosa1229 2 жыл бұрын
Peace l
@phemfoljolan2333
@phemfoljolan2333 2 жыл бұрын
Since women of today are very independent and capable of bringing up children on their own, I’ll suggest that marriage shouldn’t be encouraged anymore. Let’s just start having baby mamas and everyone to start living their separate lives.
@ekomzyuche3402
@ekomzyuche3402 2 жыл бұрын
Well it's sad but to me women don't know how to train they are not strong either small challenges they are shivering
@glamanesthesia5259
@glamanesthesia5259 2 жыл бұрын
We can...your gender can't oppress anymore
@phemfoljolan2333
@phemfoljolan2333 2 жыл бұрын
@@glamanesthesia5259 Exactly what I’m saying. At least Iyabo Ojo did it on her own. Other women can follow suit.
@glamanesthesia5259
@glamanesthesia5259 2 жыл бұрын
@@phemfoljolan2333 yes just pay child.support
@phemfoljolan2333
@phemfoljolan2333 2 жыл бұрын
@@glamanesthesia5259 Child Support for you to buy Diamonds & Gold? Whatever I’ll spend on that child/ren will go direct to the source eg School fee direct to the school, payment for holiday trips direct to the Travel Agent of my own choice etc. And come to think of it, I thought you only need us as sperm donors and you’re ready to face other commitments as Iyabo Ojo was used as a good example.
@adebisiemmanuel2154
@adebisiemmanuel2154 2 жыл бұрын
My concern is when in the marriage women come on talk shows and paint a picture that does not exist, hence misleading others listening. Stop painting a wrong picture, it makes listeners to be too hard on themselves, they should pls be honest and maybe boycot those shows instead of being dishonest, laying wrong foundations for others. It wasn't long she was on the show though. We are going to have a generation of children that will decide not to look up to those ahead if their words are not concrete.
@ekomzyuche3402
@ekomzyuche3402 2 жыл бұрын
I am so happy u said this ur so wise these women are not wise at all they are blabbing blabbing blabbing
@successsuccess6156
@successsuccess6156 2 жыл бұрын
The truth is a home where u will not be happy.a woman will surely know but times when woman greedines over take thm.they decided to be happy.
@successsuccess6156
@successsuccess6156 2 жыл бұрын
The truth is tht no man can satisfy any woman.when king wife dancing spraying money to musicians without the present of the king.she just need a freedon thts just it.
@michaelamuwo8365
@michaelamuwo8365 2 жыл бұрын
You are doing great job but encouraging divorce is a terribly bad and so disappointed in you ,is iyabo ojo a model ??? Single profrssiinals should be used as a model like alakija still with her husband not prostitute . Pls change the face of your program with decorum ,never support or encourage single mothers or else you are destroying children lives no wonder so many young Nigerians youths are off right track in drugs,internet fraudsters no longer interested in good careers .
@Ashanti_flower24
@Ashanti_flower24 2 жыл бұрын
So women should stay in toxic marriages?
@rosettapaul9367
@rosettapaul9367 2 жыл бұрын
Crazy peolple all of you. Nonsensical people and their Oba Oritshe and the Xtian wife who walks in human blood to celebrate her wedding. This is almost 6months after and you are still as crazy as one day after .
@chuaevelyn3866
@chuaevelyn3866 2 жыл бұрын
This presenter thombsup my dear
@fairness3840
@fairness3840 2 жыл бұрын
Wasn't Naomi aware of the life of a Monarch and the Palace?. How did she fall in love with the king? I believe she's accomplished her objective; she's now a mother of a Prince. So, she's done.
@christieatuh
@christieatuh 2 жыл бұрын
Ibraheem it might not be as you think
@denisewilliams364
@denisewilliams364 2 жыл бұрын
Can't one person speak at a time???
@adeleyeolaniyan5981
@adeleyeolaniyan5981 2 жыл бұрын
😂
@omobolanleopeyemi1279
@omobolanleopeyemi1279 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@oliveevergreen5401
@oliveevergreen5401 2 жыл бұрын
She is selfish, at least she should have thought about the little boy, their Son together, and take everything to GOD in prayers and make her marriage work, for the heart of the king belong to the LORD and turns it to wherever HE pleases. So GOD should have turned the situation around, no matter what it was. Her singular decision to send such right up on social media, is very wrong. No true Queen does what she did, she could have respected herself and her husband. She should know she disgraced herself as well, not just the king, and disregarded her son's future.
@abak7412
@abak7412 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry, what’s with the big bird look.?
@chineduekwueme1837
@chineduekwueme1837 2 жыл бұрын
Efik cultural dressing! Be sensitive to people's lifestyle
@nkjv12
@nkjv12 2 жыл бұрын
Wow just WOW. I am assuming you are not Nigerian to refer to someone's traditional outfit as " thebig bird look". That's a very uneducated thing to say. This is why we need to read more and learn about world cultures.
@victoriaudongwo8102
@victoriaudongwo8102 2 жыл бұрын
Big bird? Not at all, beautiful women in their traditional costume. Love your styles. The so-called big bird look… is the Erik traditional attire and she wears it so well 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
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