After working in Saudi and Qatar for the past 6 years I don’t really see an issue with it. The first time I heard one of my colleagues talk about his second mom so casually it kind of blew my mind, but after asking him some questions and getting his perspective I could see why he was so comfortable with it; same thing with the friends I have made here. In my opinion, after working here for so many years, if everyone is happy in that kind of relationship and taken care of then let them be 💁🏽‍♂️

Polygamy is only a possibility if a man has lots of money... and patience.

It comes down to what he can afford as a man. Many rich/celebrity men have multiple women. Sometimes they cohabitate or they come on different days. Based on the video you showed, he lives better than most Filipino. His house was large and very modern. The question is if he was poor/unpopular would he have this situation? Most likely not. 😉

My girls work as a team. There was a terrible flood in Misamis. You there in the PI, know the trouble and trauma. My little pinay band, take care of clean up, child care, shopping, rebuilding and meal prep. #1 gf manages the other two by assigning proper tasks etc. I’m always amazed at how they function as a unit.

One of the things you have to remember about youtube channels (especially relationship ones) is that things are not always as they seem. Considering that all of them have channels, it is possible that they are all monetized , all making money and all supporting each others channel for more money. Considering the lower cost of living in the Philippines, adsense is probably more than enough to live off comfortably. All this for acting for a short period of time. I see so many fake videos on youtube (especially the shorts) where the people have obviously set up the situation for the camera. One in particular I saw was pretending someone broke into the house while the wife was there. She didn't see the thief somehow. It was apparently caught on cctv (in portrait with no date / time stamp). Looking at their other videos the same type of things were happening. Strangely enough, the same people kept appearing in the videos (whether it be the robber or the girlfriend / boyfriend) Many "influencers" have been caught out faking stuff. Whether it is travelling to holiday spots or flying in first class, it happens. I know of a shop in a shopping centre I've visited where they have sets for selfie pictures. You pay a fee to enter and you can go taking heaps of photos. From outside, it looks like a massive store. I'm not sure how many sets there are but I could see plenty from the entrance. Of course I'm not going to pay to go in there and take selfies (waste of money and I'm not vain like that)

If they're not married, it's called polyamory

I can't even have 1!!!! This is BS good for him

Myself I've always been a one woman man because I don't want any kind of drama in my life. I have my Filipina and she has always made me very happy and has shown me just how bad the women in my past really destroyed my life and my mental stability.

This situation seems to work for now. Hopefully, they can make this work without conflict. I much prefer the simplicity of one woman with whom I can interact, but that is only my thought!

At least 95% of all heterosexual men, in some point of his life, has wished he could sleep with more than one woman at one time. They may not have acted on it, but at some point in their life time they have definitely thought about it. That being said, getting together with 2 or more women together at one time is one thing if it is something that happens every so often. But to live in the same house together night after night??? My filipina can get jealous and mad at ME if another woman looks at me long enough. Why would I put myself through that with three of them?

Double the fun, quadruple the headache.

Im one of those rare guys that can only handle 1 lady at a time. I see having more than 1 lady connected to my heart or more than 1 person in general gives me too much of a headache and I stop giving as much attention as I usually do. I'm best with just 1 person connected to me on a deep level. My lady didn't believe me at first but she found out I was pretty serious about tolerating only 1 person at a time.

They are young and have money so its good for now, but this only looks like friends with benefits. It's a superficial love weather they know it or not. It will never be a deep love connection but some people will never know deep love anyway!

what about David Bond & overstay road

❤Wanna share my thoughts as well Mam pasensya na if its so long: 1. The issue with OUR culture & society is that we are obsessed "Monogamy" alot without even realizing that it dosen't apply to all eversince.

Wow that's crazy it's all good for now when you're young when you're older that's what the s*** hits the fan

I can see the allure for young people just starting out... What I want to see are stats of real, legally married arrangements like this about 10-20 years later, and see how they fared with the test of time... 😉

Oh Rebueti. It's so nice to see you in the morning.

Hi just discovered you channel and I love what I am seeing. I have a question and I hope you would be able to make a video about it. My question is : is it hard for Black men’s to date a Philippina ? Cause I am really interested in that . Thank you !

No way more than one partner for me. Who needs that stress and for what? WHY?????

He’s a smart businessman with a good business model. Same as many other people making money from social media and trending businesses.

This one was interesting. I hope that these people come to their senses

Outstanding video, you’re such a great presenter. I learned a lot.

Different strokes for different folks. As long as they’re happy.

Lets see how things work out for him in a Decade...

From personal experience I have seen people in such kind of relationship have the nasties fights and break ups usually in a 5 years or less. Specially when kids are involved, the mothers would want their own kids to revive the father attention and resources. This guy is full of bad choices like his haircut.

The guy seems a bit weird and he loves himself too much.

In all honesty, if you can love each one equally, can devout your time to each ones needs, have enough money to support them all well, and can keep your bedroom stamina up, there really shouldn't be any reason why you can't have two or three wives. It's literally nobody's buissness since it's such a personal thing and doesn't affect society at large. If we are willing to "tolerate" all these truly crazy lifestyles in our modern age, why not "polygyny" as well? At least it's healthy. For myself, I know I can love more than one woman at a time. Other men might be zonked after dealing with just one. It's preference at the end, nothing more. No one is forced or anything weird like that. Just one man in love with three women, and three women in love with the same man. In this way, they don't have to fight over him, and he doesn't have to choose. No broken hearts. It's quite literally win-win for all involved. The only reason it's not done in the west is cause of religion, and lack of funds to do it in the first place. Men generally - and historically - were never designed to only be with one woman. Naturally, once more, this is entirely up to the man in question and the women he's involved with. Simple.

I’m not into the polygamy. The main reason is one woman is enough trouble as is.

I draw the line at 2 female partners, but the three of us have a more intimate, and perhaps less business-centric relationship. We just love being together, sleep, eat and play together, for the most part, although each of us has some occasional alone time. My two girls are both bisexual, and love each other as much as they love me. It's worked well for many years. I don't wish for more girls, simply because, for me, satisfying, and attending to the needs of my girls is the most important thing, and two is the most I can handle, and give each one the attention and love they need. I believe that, as long as all are happy, safe, and fulfilled, there should be no rules or boundaries that stand in the way of having the kind of family you choose to have.

That looks more like polyamory. They are just less discreet than in most common polyamory groups. I don't really mind about that if everybody feels fine in that kind of dynamic. The structure can be very different from one group to another, btw. Thanks for this great video.

Thanks for sharing. I can recall having read that when Magellan and his crew arrived in what today is the Philippines, his friend Antonio Pigafetta wrote that polygamy or bigami seemed to be practiced among some of the locals. Anyway, this kind of lifestyle can probably be very difficult, unless all parties involved are genuinely happy about it and not jealous. Myself, I would try out with 2 women, ha ha. It should be enough at my age. But I am fine also with just one, of course. Better one than none. The more, the merriier, LOL.

To be honest i would not mind to experience that in my life time three cute Philliphino serving me. I think I might consider moving to Philliphines really fast. However I can understand it might be very very tiring, cause I know if I do some business one day I don’t think I can do until few days to recover. Otherwise I will get sick.

Well, money can’t buy you love but it can rent it.

I also only want 3 wives. One named Ru, one named Beau and the last named Ti 😃

Very interesting video not quite sure how to process the relationship. Would like to know what they see for their future.

Responsibility is key here. As long as the man can support the ladies and provides them a better life, specially in the Philippines, then I don't see any issues with it. Its the so called passport bros who goes there to take advantage of the impoverished young girls, impregnates them, then leave them for the next one. That is problematic to a country who already have many single mothers raising kids on their own.

There is nothing wrong with this. I've seen filipinas with multiple boyfriends and vice versa. The only difference here is that the girls get along. Which I believe is better, no reason to hide it.

We know about this because of Mormon families. When the women break away from polygamist families day talk about the truth and how it is not good for the women or children.

I have always been a one woman man, even while I have been married to women who who don’t always believe in that life, living in the US. I am a firm believer of the vows that I share at the ceremony, and I would rather be with someone who wants to be a one man woman. If someone wants a multi partner wife, they are good for them. Not my cup of tea!😊😊😊

Whether or not we feel if it's right or wrong, if no laws are violated, then it's not our place to judge. It's the same if we judge someone for their gender decisions.

Anytime someone does stuff like this (posting about 3 wives) for social media, it’s always clownish behavior

He's a rapper, so of course he will go on video to show off relationships w/ multiple women. And the ladies are just enjoying the lifestyle and everything that comes w/ it.

If the women and man are being taken care of, protected and supported, this man is doing his job and the benefits are definitely more beneficial than just one. Now, I have to admit that this lifestyle is definitely not for everyone, especially if you're scared of people's opinions.

I REALLY LOVE THIS IDEA OF MORE THAN ONE WIFE BECAUSE I SEE THE VALUE IN IT PLUS IT HELPS MORE WOMEN IN THE LONG TERM 😂🎉 & SO WHY NOT GIVE THEM A HELPING HAND IF YOU CAN AFFORD IT!!!

Hha I think more than two would be a headache. But I am not surprised...wealth and status motivates women to do all kinds of things. Outside of that, they will follow the trends of society such as monogamy, wearing makeup and heels, smoking cigarettes etc.

As a Biblical Christian I have a higher standard given from God. Other religions do allow polygamy but the NT sets the ideal from creation when Jesus said "male and female he created them" it was just Adam and Eve not Adam, Eve, Sally, Sarah and Suzie. Paul set the standard that Church leaders must be "One woman men" 1Tim.3:2,12 & Tit.1:6. Examples of Polygamy in the OT almost always have bad results. My one wife is enough for me, my life is complete.

i'm suprised you didnt include David Bond in this video, he's doing the same thing but with up to 5 girls at a time. Everyone in the Philippines is talking about it

I have been wondering about this. I knew it was legal for Muslims, but I wasn't sure about other religions. See, my wife and I are Pagan, and there isn't a definite definition in paganism in marriage. Some Pagans practice monogamy, and some practice polygamy. Now my wife wants me to take on a sister wife or two (notice, I said this is her idea), but here in the states it isn't legal. So I had thought about the Philippines. See, I want the other woman to be protected, and to have some security. Here in the States if a polychute falls apart, then the extra person not actually married to one of the other are simply out on their own. I don't like this. I feel that all involved should have some security. Most guys would think it's lucky to have multiple partners, but they fail to take in account that all must be treated equally. Each one deserves the same time and energy. This is difficult to do. Not to mention, that in arguments you can't really take sides. You have to be un the middle, and help them to work it out.

This is simply a well thought-out small business plan only possible since & through the existence of the world-wide web.

They're happy on the outside. We don't know how they feel on the inside.

In reality, they're probably competing for his attention.

Whats more surprising is not that he has three girlfriends it’s that someone can look at a situation of four happy people and say that it’s wrong.

If you in vest a gate be fore the Spanish came to the Philippines you will find out it was comman too have more than one partner..

Interesting Miss Rubeauti. Definitely this is a business. I’m married to a Filipina now for many years. There is no way I could handle more than one Filipina. Sometimes I am exhausted from the activities. Good luck if you have more than one but I am happy with just one.

Overstay road channel 3 lady's A boy A girl A man He is on vacation in Thailand the rest are in the Philippines.

It has taken over 25 years to train one wife 50% of the way needed. I would hate to have to train 3 wives.

I totally agree with you, this is just like a business arrangements. Their just using each other for the contents of their vlogs No morals values and it degrades woman’s values.

Are you sure this is not just for attention? He is an influencer, and that's all about getting attention.

What if the girls choose? If the primary brought the sisters, what is the issue? The girls I know, share kids, duties, care of Tatay and Nanay. They take care of each other.

Personally, I don't have any opinion regarding how other people should lead their personal lives. If they want to do that, and they can make it work, that's fine with me. My expectation for that is it's likely to fall apart at some point in time because it's hard enough for two people to get along all the time, so odds are that four people getting along is less likely. But, whatever. That's their issue. HOWEVER, in one clip I saw them all eating a meal together, and that dude was sitting at the table eating while shirtless! Barbaric!!! *Maybe* that could be halfway acceptable while picnicking on the beach; but, no way when seated at a table indoors.

Its sad that many man from where I come(Germany), expect to live like this in Asians countries

They have a very interesting relationship. It looks like the 3 women have gotten past the Filipino women are very jealous stage.

Caring is sharing! In traditional Filipino culture, many men had multiple wives. The Spanish wrote about it, but the Catholic Church put an end to it, except for the Muslims. Most cultures around the world had polygamy at one time. Also, men and women roles are different in a relationship. Men are not to be a second mother.

It was practiced in pre-hispanic times. First mass at Limasawa.

Hi Rubeauti, hope you're doing well. Have a beautiful day and God bless you.

If he can support them and the ensuing children I do not see a problem with it. This form of family arrangement has been part of human culture for tens of thousands of years.

I would hate to use the word "influencer" and him in the same sentence. This isn't the type of "influence" young adults need. They need proper family values, work ethics, taking pride in what they do. I think you're wrong on one thing, they may all be sitting at the same table eating, but they're not TOGETHER, they're all on their own phones in their own little world doing their own thing. I think he thought he would enjoy having 3 women around, but now it's not as much fun as he thought it was going to be. You can see from his reactions, body language, and what he says, he's not into it any more, and feels trapped and doesn't know how to get out of it. If you can't make 1 woman happy, why would ever think you will keep 3 happy, and remain happy yourself. You can't devote any time and energy to any one of them. His time has to be split between them all, and he realized he had no time for himself, which is why he's constantly on the couch and eating alone. It is his life to choose what he does with it. Me personally, 1 woman is all I want and need, someone to focus on and give all of my attention to.

Just let them do whatever they want. No harm no foul. If they do it for money, okay they have fun and make money good for them. If they do it out of love even better. I dont know why it matters if they are 4, 8 or 143 living together and sleeping with a schedule.

You can tell he’s tired lol he’s sleeping in the living room alone.

There's a lack of morals today.

The problem with enforced monogamy for all is where are you going to get all the suitable men from jails are primarily full of men. Etc Etc

Your hair looks nice.

If it works for them and they’re not bothering anybody. But, I don’t see it lasting. Human nature won’t let it. This “scheduling” thing mirrors an HBO series from a few years ago. I’m wondering if this is about the money

Once the children come = problems follow

Repeating I thank it is fine as long as they all get along with each other I have know problem with it I thank he is a lucky guy.

Wow so Muslim is definitely different to Christianity, definitely!

wish them the best and the tripple pregnancy :D

Those 3 girls😮 will grow up..... they are really Young...

Don't be fooled. There's jealousy and possibly even hatred.

Idk why it would be controversial. I know I would enjoy this and I fully intend on it as an American who will be traveling. 🤷🏾‍♂️ I personally think the people should mind their business. It’s their life to choose whatever they want to do with it.

there's a dude doing this named David Bond too, you should watch his videos

It's pretty well known that women are willing to share a high value man, weather it's if he is wealth or status\clout.

The Dot's on her forehead looks scary 🙄

Wow, thank you but noooo thank you. For me 1 is enough. Hahahah As always you produce great videos, thank you.

Hi Rubeauti , they just sell a product in you tube for money ,is not a family because as long no ine have a child everything is going well but in the moment one have a baby everything will change so good luck to him.

It's odd that people are angry at the man because the women look happier than him. The other thing is compare their lives to the way some of their peers are living. They don't have to get up and go to a job. They live in a beautiful home. They don't have a man climbing all over them every night. They get to hang out with their friends all day. If you take the emotion out of it, their lives are better than 99% of the population so what's there to complain about?

The correct term for this is a Polyamorous relationship. I've had a short one in the Philippines. Me and two girls, it was nice for all 3 of us. Especially for a masculine man and very feminine girls like that. There are hardly any masculine me in the philippines (just walk down any street in any city, any island, count how many men have facial hair), and tons of pretty girls most attracted to masculine, so yea many many of them are okay with this type of relationship. There's also the fact there's a massive amount of trans girls there, and hardly any trans men which further unbalances the sexes. But yea for it to really work the best, the man also has to be the provider and rich enough to support both / all 3. I think this guy would be happier with just two, 3 is a lot to handle, thus why he needs so much alone time.

Definitely something for the rich and famous. Most men cannot afford one woman.

My father had 4 wives, and my uncle had 2 wives. I liked it when I was a child, I had 4 mothers who love me. My father bought a home for each wife, and he had his own house, too. The husband has to be rich, and wives can't be selfish. There are more women than men, so if every woman wanted to get married, that would be impossible.

I see the odds of that happening to me in the Philippines as slight. Supposibly my personal devil worshiper voices might get better if I went to the mosque though.

Little kids hehe at one time long long ago I had a thing like that going on. But we weren't making babies. We were just having fun.

2. Coming from a fellow netizen named Prince Tajani: "Truly, polygamy vs. monogamy ends up being a CHOICE because you have the power to decide which one you will practice. If you know you are polygamous, you have the choice to not get involved in monogamous relationships & vice versa. That is a lifestyle choice. Being polygamous does not make anyone bad, & being monogamous does not make one a saint. The system is only for men who are morally sound & can be just among wives as long as he knows the religious conditions that apply to a man when he remarries & he is willing to fulfill them. He must also be a good husband to his first wife, treats her well & fulfills all her physical, emotional & financial rights, & he intends to continue doing so even after getting married to you. To the sympathetic ladies; do not waste your time trying to form a coalition of relationship police, to convince people who are fulfilled in their relationships that they are suffering because they are in a polygamous marriage or because they are living out an idea of relationship that is inconsistent with yours. Some of the champions of one man one wife, are actually secretly in polygamous affairs, but are just enjoying the controversy that generates followers & comments for social media revenue. Know the kind of man/woman you are & the relationship that suits you. There is no kind of marriage without challenges & the challenges in a marriage are a reflection of the people in it, not a sign that the marriage itself is bad. Marriage is not a forced thing & no kind of marriage is forced. Make your choice, live by it & live with it. "

With men having multiple women but without marriage it is the norm. Just not formalized with marriage. How many PH dudes have kids with multiple women? A lot, right?

You should share his channel so we can follow and watch him

Awesome video and their polyamory makes sense to me. My main and I were raised and are products of polygynous marriages. So, having had a similar arrangement myself a couple of times in my life, it makes sense. You hit the nail on the head, when you said it’s like a business. Think about it, the man has to do whatever it takes to maintain these women and their eventual children. This is no small feat. He cannot be in the bed with them all day. He’s gotta make moves. When my sister wife passed away it was a real loss I still feel today, as does my main. She was such a great and complementary member of our family and all the children benefited. With that all said, this isn’t for everybody and for good reason. You have not only to have the financial stability to do it but the leadership and management and temperament skills to do it. Lastly, in my experience, it worked best when my main would introduce the women to me, because she knew them well and thought they would be a good fit. Also, I would always take a lot of time and thought before adding a woman. It was never me going out and pursing the other women.

When babies come along, it gets real

Being married is like being trapped in a small cabin with an angry bee. Why would you want more bees?

My dear lady I believe one man should be devoted to one woman and vice versa. Marriage is about love for one another and no one else.

Polygamy is illegal But multiple sexual partners is not!