Well said

It’s always worse if a woman cheats. Men can have sex with someone who they don’t even like and have no emotional connection. Women who cheat on their man have lost respect for him. It’s always bad but one is worse.

100% agree, it doesn't matter who does it, it's a betrayal and equally bad no matter how people try to rationalize it in their favor.

It is not as black and white as I think you're suggesting here, because cheating can be done at various levels of the strength of a relationship. For example, when one partner has suggested they break up, the other possibly agreed, but didn't confirm and then doesn't see her for 2 weeks, and then sees someone else - is that cheating? There are many shades of grey in what you might label as cheating because of the situation. Especially when one partner ignores or treats the other partner badly for a long time, but then labels it "cheating" when that partner resorts to a deeply desired affection from someone else (humans need to be loved, it's not something you can dismiss)

@@Rubeauti I am having a tantrum here ! 😭.

exactly

It will become an income stream for the judges an the courts. And it will destroy and family.

Bruh ... are u color blind? She is still blue pill

@@Rubeauti we are just all humans at the end of the day and relationships are hard

i feel the same way. if i am interested in someone, i can only focus my attention on that 1 person anything else to me wouldn't feel right. it's like cheating to me. you're not alone. when i was growing up in the states i never felt the same as my other male friends either. i was always different and had more respect for women too. i was a pretty extreme opposite to my friends when it came to the opposite sex...so much so i was accused of being gay more than once haha

@@Rubeauti to manipulate me into letting our teenage daughter go somewhere do something or buy something she didn't need.🙄

@@Rubeauti Oh that is very common with american. If they dont get their way with something your cut off sleeping on the couch

Like totally neglecting there partners needs for no reason or find out there cheating themselves

Totally neglecting there partners needs for no reason for one or finding out they've been cheated on

that's true love. you love unconditionally and just accept a person for who they are. but being dishonest is a red flag. there is nothing to love about being dishonest. it's a problem when me make excuses for dishonesty too. i mean we CAN view the situation as that she loved you so much that she didn't want to lose you but what that means too is she didn't trust you or the relationship yet. hopefully that trust and commitment is better now that she feels you are more accepting of her than she thought before of you....but still no good excuse to lie...

@@Rubeauti understandable

harsh punisment?🤔 threat of death?🤔🤨😑 their is no threat of death or what so ever this is not africa or some parts of middle east infidelity happens suddenly if a woman suddenly falls inlove or have likes on you but we most filipinos respect every filipina whos already in a relationship. me if you ask me honestly im nor good or bad if i knew her husband was bad i will make a move to make him feel the sameway he treat his women so now he knows how it feels to be cheated

@@Rubeauti hun I'm saying at family get together 😂 I see my wife village all the guys drink and Dance with each other and the woman video them and laugh 😂

And this shy stuff needs to stop 😂 it's a excuse being shy . Here in America we not shy if we like to dance or date a lady we walk up and ask that lady

No, when a woman cheats, it's over. She doesn't respect you anymore and respect is very important for men, more than being loved. You can't fix that anymore and I don't think you should make an effort to do so.

@@Rubeauti Love your show by the way Really wish could retire to Davao City not really because of the women but not a day goes by In the USA with out some kind of mass shooting and even though this show showed that philipina women also cheat I think they would be an improvement of over American women

@@Rubeauti swinging is where couples meet and swop partners for a few hours. A bit too liberating for me personally. But curious to find out your and other Philipina's thoughts ?

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California USA 🇺🇸

She was never your woman ..... it was just your turn.

True👍

Eric. you seem to have your finger on the pulse of society..assuming that society is from the 1800's that is. "stats on cheating' are not credible due to the fact that people lie about cheating..which contributes to the term cheating. The credible stats are unmarried mothers, men who have multiple children with different women and lastly divorce. Given the difficulty of divorce in the Philippines due to the catholic churches backwards hold upon the country, the propensity for men to be unfaithful is increased. Filipino men, like all men dont give birth..filipino society doesn't not enforce moral responsibility for having a child upon the male and often shames the woman for being a 'slut' for having a child out of wedlock while no such shame is imposed upon the male for having a child out of wedlock and then abandoning their responsibility to raise or look after or even contribute to that child's needs. - This is a country that elected stone age misogynist Duterte..followed by Marcos junior who is still trying to avoid repaying some of the billions stolen from filipinos. Her sister comes across as a little naive and inexperienced or, perhaps a little closeted which is not a negative, she still has a positive outlook and trust in men and her future despite her hardships. Now Eric..you state she lived at home for ten years without working..im not sure what cave you crawled out of but raising a child is actually work..its merely fulltime 24/7 and un paid work. If you have a look around i think you will find most people also live at home. Often when women fall pregnant and their partners abandon them and the child they have little option but to stay at home, and with no child support their options become limited. You dont appear to have any criticism for the boyfriend who didnt take the child and raise it and stay at home but instead left all of that to the woman. Being put in that situation often leads to low self esteem and isolation.. " Hypergamy is not only in the West." Well..thats a retarded comment, isnt it. Who the fugh are you to claim your education and social status is far superior to someone else's - is that how you base your relationship's? My Filipina GF went to college and studied and graduated, she isnt rich, lives in a province and has been at home raising her child on her own, as well as looking after her parents, grandparents, house etc. She works far harder than i do with out the benefit of financial security, her education has no bearing upon her intellect or social status or upon her strengths, ethics and kindness - some of us dont ask for resumes when we meet people for potential relationships. Quoting Chris Rock's comedic misogyny pretty much shows how backwards you are - Rock himself has admitted he destroyed the most important part of his life and hurt the people he ost cared about by cheating on his wife..and children. "I will give you credit in the sense that I actually believe you have the values that most are looking for " But, bear in mind, youre a nobody commenting on youtube and you giving some one credit is meaningless. And your opinion is worth shit because you look down upon single mothers and claim they have an easy life and you claim that women try to marry above their class..or that people even have class's.

@@JC-zv3cv I think we have triggered someone. An "anonymous" individual that will go into a false narrative because they are trigger by personal issues. You better start jumping on all the Philippine KZfaqrs that are stating these facts and the data that backs its up. And then you refer to the Catholic Church is to blame for the backward hold on the country causing all this cheating. WOW! And then you say society doesn't enforce moral responsibility. hmmmmmm Which one is it? So then the responsibility sits with the individual or does that ruffle your feathers too. That was rhetorical. Or will you always have a problem because your own specific story is what this offended the most. You can always throw the out the term misogyny all you want from you endless time on CNN, TiKTok or some weak as prof. that made you scared of your own masculinity if you ever had one. This was too few minutes I have already wasted. Have a wonderful day.

Thank you for your interest! No, I'm not married. :)

@@Rubeauti Yeah not cool when they do that lol