I am a 57 years old woman, and I totally understand and agree with him.

That's because women have most students loan debt, credit cards debt, and auto loan debt than men. Most females arent financially literate, so they don't understand things like debt leveraging, 401k, life insurance, and etc. Women are so driven into instant gratification. I worked for Virginia Unemployment during covid and I can't tell you how many highly educated females that literally live paycheck to paycheck making over 100k a year because they wanted that lifestyle of the nice house and cars. Most men who have money you would never tell because they live frugally. Most men that have wealth know monetary possession wouldn't bring happiness. Women are the opposite. Women think monetary possession is a sign of wealth and happiness. Why do you think society caters to women? Because they carry the most debt. The government, society, and etc use women to extort money for men. Why do you think females get into the club for free when clubs are losing their profits because men will spend on them. You can think about weddings, Valentine's day, and etc. Again, the use females to extort money from men because men use money to get females, but females have been tricked by society that money is measurement of your success and happiness.

I’m a 69 year old goldfish and I’m swimming 🐟💨

Yes he is very wise for his age.

I'm a 95 year old Kunfu Master from The Shaolin. And I want to challenge this young man to the Kumate

Sis, I think you just highlighted one of the problems without even knowing it. Maybe if someone had said it to sisters without always needing kid gloves on, back in grade school, middle school, high school and or college, like every other race of female on the planet, this issue wouldn't be such a phenomenon with our people. Meanwhile, back in real life... black women lead the world in sayings and catch phrases like "Fu#k Yo Feelings". Shruggs. Maybe that was the problem. You do know that Every brother is just like him. Until he realizes that he's wasting his breath. He just knows how to stay calm and get paid from it. It's easy to charm a fat girl when you've got cookies on you. As in telling women what they want to hear to get their ear later on. That's like using treats to train pets. It's kind of sad that it works but, I'm not hearing on that. One day tho, if he gets frustrated on screen and, curses y'all out, and won't share any cookies, just make sure that your view of him doesn't change and that you're still here for it because he's no different than the rest of us.

most sisters don't like to hear what he is saying. the ones in the crowd clapping are just following along.

Why y'all need to be told with kid gloves as adults tho? Maybe that was the problem.

@@Bonsai-Sage and they claim being "skrong"

The Worst part of what this brother say. It is that women will let it go in 1 ear and out the other.

Being a good steward has to do with being at your best even in times of struggle. Don't be fooled to believe more money, less problems.

Most men understand that and is why we constantly ask the question, "what do you bring to the table?" We have a good understanding of the concept. Many of our women don't...

@bigthurl5613 as a man who counsels men I disagree but respect your opinion

@Lil08103 you can disagree, but that doesn't change the facts. Ask a man what does promising mean and you will hear the same thing you quote. Note, I said MEN....Also, many are just not doing so because of the women felling entitled. Therefore, it's not that they don't know that just aren't interested in the provision for most women today. There's a huge difference....

@bigthurl5613 why are you being so defensive? i literally said i respect your opinion. and it's not a fact. get out your feelings.

Agreed

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Total Facts

If it can be taught, they can learn. No excuses. Otherwise, you failed yourself and shouldn't complain.

Empathic listening should be aspirational

🔥🔥🔥 that's was‼️‼️ ON POINT!!!🎯

Thank you for your service. Blessings, get well ❤️‍🩹 . Keep up the fight. God bless your support team. #fuckcancer

💯💯💯. I pray for super natural healing in your body right now in JESUS CHRIST name. I don’t know if you are a believer of CHRIST but even if you’re not my brother, my faith in your healing is enough. Please do this by faith first 7 days, Take the blood of JESUS one a day. SPEAK TO YAH ASKING HIM FOR WHAT YOU DESIRE IN YOUR BODY & IN YOUR LIFE. FAITH IS A VERY POWERFUL WEAPON AND/OR TOOL. I SPEAK HEALING IN YOUR LIFE🙏🏾🙌🏾❤️. I’VE SEEN IT WORK….MORE GRACE TO YOU & YOUR WONDERFUL WIFE.

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YOU AND YOUR WIFE ARE BLESSED. PRAYERS FOR YOUR FIGHTING EVIL CANCER.

Yep

I agree ❤❤

Tell that to the sisterhood.

Men need to start carrying themselves as more than wallets- stop flashing clothes, cars and money. Talk about important things. Respect and Honesty to themselves and others.

​@@bplayerr1 The sista hood is gonna get it or get left behind. Seems the latter b/c can't nobody seem to tell them NOTHING that isn't feel good.

It takes money for all of that😂😂😂

He is speaking on being safe and having what one needs in other areas as well

@@mocamocam2258 Of course, which is why husbands need jobs. But a lot of that isn't direct work, and direct work can make it cheaper. Just yesterday, I installed new front struts on our car. It took ordinary hand tools and about three hours. I happen to have a lot of auto mechanical experiences, but there are plenty of KZfaq videos showing how to do it. It's a simple job. The parts cost $250. A mechanic shop would have charged nearly $1,000.

That is the definition indeed, but you can’t get any supply of anything without money and you can’t get money without working. Basic human needs require money. Food, water (healthy water), running water, roof to cover your head, clothes, electricity, heat/air, gas, healthcare, vehicle to transport, and in today’s society- the internet to connect with the world and/or register online. Now, there are intangible things he can supply also like love, friendship, protection, guidance/advice, support including physical presence, mental, emotional, spiritual, and moral support, leadership, service, kindness, care, affection, and cheerfulness. Now, all of the intangibles are much needed, but those physical needs that he can pay for is what helps you survive. Without those, you can die. And in this video, he has minimized the physical to less than half. When your physical needs aren’t met for basic survival, it throws the intangible needs out the window. That’s where you get the statement: What’s love got to do with it? Love is an action word. But if somebody isn’t providing for your well-being, then they are showing they don’t care about your well-being, and if you are moving as a household unit and the man is not even carrying less than half that weight, then that means the majority of the household surviving is on the woman. And that throws things out of order and alignment. I think what he did in this video is reduced the man’s role. Others might think he expanded it, but if you play it back, he said the man would give less than half and provide in other areas, that obviously don’t involve money and will not sustain your basic wellbeing.

I had been making that mistake after having serious long term back issues. Even though I knew I was more than just a person to bring money, I wouldn't approach a woman when I started having money problems because of my back. But then an ex reached out to me and none of the money thing is an issue for her. She makes plenty of money still sees the value that's in me.

👋🏾 well hello.

Stop capping

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Nothing was said here, it’s all gibberish. How does infrastructure happen without money? Oh, is it to convince some woman that you know how to build infrastructure but somehow you’re broke? Is it your friends and the connections that you have? But somehow you’re broke? Is it that you don’t use your money to create infrastructure? You know some sorcery? It’s all gibberish, get off the internet if you really wanna learn something. Nobody with a camera has ever given real advice, if there’s cameras involved it’s all nonsense.

Exactly. Provision to women today means MONEY and that's it. That's all they care about

You spelled women wrong. You just described women 1000%.

I definitely agree. You stick by them thru the worse they get on top and start acting different, reminds me that Angela Bassett role she played

​@@Wubby805 it only just reminds us of how petty ppl can be. A simple mistake and you take it a level where it shouldn't go. If we gotta deal with small mistakes like this then it's impossible to be a union. As long as you know what it meant, did you really have to go low on a mispelled word? Smh! Ijs!

You missed his point. His message is to women to stop looking at a man's money as the only means of provision. It's much more than that.

@Craigthomas322 No, she didn't miss the point. She just added more to his point.

Straight facts

There’s other points of value that he also stated but you can’t be high value and homeless. 😅

​@caligulalauren9071 what does not being "high value" means being homeless, says more again about YOU.🤔🤷🏿‍♂️

​@caligulalauren9071 Exactly, just because you make 6 figures does not make you high value. You also have to the respect of your peers and the people in your industry and they see the value in you. Basically respected by those is your field.

🤔...If a man has not INVESTED in his SPIRITUAL VALUE MORE than any other aspect of his life; If he has NOT/Does NOT VALUE, and cultivate his own relationship above ALL others, (including the woman he expects to "be his peace/piece?") with The Creator/GIVER of his 1st and LAST Breath; If he doesn't seek, recognize, desire, acknowledge, and actually VALUE the "aligned and equally yoked" Spirituality the woman of interest/desire possesses--then he. Ain't. HIGH. Value... to me... If the Spiritual foundation/root is in place, EVIDENCED by the fruit, therein lies his "HIGH Value".

The question then becomes will you follow

It's really sad.😔

You think the same way too stop lieing

@@joshpollard4591 You know me? Stop projecting and seek help.

No we don't think that's the only way men can provide but it surely seems like many men conveniently love coming up short in that area so they come in love bombing you with all the other shyt til they suck you in then turn into their true selves eventually. That's why so many women out here getting unalived everyday. Unequally yoked with these men who be lo key jealous of a woman's accomplishment, ability and drive to get money that he can't seem to obtain.

Every time I watch their shows this man always on point. He is a very very intelligent human being

I also think social media and the state of "black entertainment" is to blame.

@@03cornbreadBlack ppl have to stop blaming outside things for the decisions adults make. We’ve done it long enough

@@laurencameron3150 The outside stuff is a part of the blame.

Agreed 💯, but once an individual realizes the issue, now one must be accountable. When you know better, you do better .

@@exposinghiddentruth3590 We have too many resources for that to still be a hard issue to overcome.

As always

Bless you!

Wow that's a sobering truth

Then you’re looking at the wrong women. You don’t need all of that for the right woman to notice you. Actually, a real woman wants a man who doesn’t have all that, but is instead investing his money, or building a business or side hustle, or funding an education. Do something productive with his life.

U didn't get the message.

@@tneilly I did, you just see it your way.

This reads like the comment of a woman... I'm going to go with that assumption and say this: How much money a man has is not an indicator of character or ambition. There are plenty of men (like Harvey Weinstein for instance) who have plenty of money yet deal significant damage to the people around them. The terms you are looking for are masculine identity, purpose, and principles. The money is an accent: it makes a man more of who he already is. But if he doesn't have that masculine identity, purpose, and principles, his only reason for making money becomes making money and, as the ancient wisdom says: the love of money is the root of all evil.

This I agree with. Provision is NOT JUST MONEY. But, if the kids can’t eat and we don’t have a pot to pee in or a window to throw it out of…then we have no infrastructure! Stability, security, these things make up infrastructure. A man doesn’t have to have a lot of money. But he should have wisdom, humility, honor, and responsibility. If he has those things, he will always make sure his family is secure and stable.

@@rhysenfyneix7864 I mean this with all due respect I don’t agree. He has already stated having a good character which I totally stand by. However, men are not kind ppl when they’re broke. Idgaf how y’all explain it. I’ve dealt with it all in reality. If that man doesn’t have money for too long it chips away at all the characteristics and personality traits you’re speaking of. That’s my stand love. Also, someone evil like Harvey and the rest of those men started before money. Money enhances it, absolutely! However, evil is fkn evil! People don’t need money to be downright diabolical. I’ve witness it all. I’ll take me man with a good soul and a secure financial status!

Lol the problem is a lot of men aren't doing those things.. and if you're not, the least you could do is have money.

🤔...Is he praying 🙏🏾 WITH you, FOR you, OVER you... or PREY-ing on you?!? Is he Speaking LIFE into your life? What's the SPIRITUAL PROVISION he's providing for you and any little you's y'all have created together/are responsible for? What's the SPIRITUAL PROTECTION AND SPIRITUAL INFRASTRUCTURE he offers, so that you have EVERYTHING you need to cultivate the PEACE you should be (in /with an ABUNDANCE of Love ❤) offering 🫴🏾 him/your youth, and most definitely yourself?

Why don’t people just date people in their own career field if they have standards of someone making as much as they do? Problem solved

You’re rare because unfortunately many women reinforce his misperception

nah he let you go cos he didnt want to be with you and told you that to make it sound honorable...

​@@clarkkent52 You could be right. Just really weird because he pursued me for 3 years before I was ready to date again, and then after we got together he started to pull away after only a month of dating. Maybe that was just too long and he'd built me up in his head too much and I didn't match up with what he'd imagined? I figured he knew me well enough by the time we dated and it seemed like the compatibility and chemistry were there so idk 🤷‍♀️

@@creatureofstyle yeah u made him wait 3 years for what?…women really think backwards…let the badmon hit first night or soonish def not three years but make the decent guy wait…by that time it turns into I’ll hit it just get my investment (time money emotions and moral support) back and bounce. Here’s a novel idea let the good guy hit on the first date but make the bad boy wait it’s simple logic really

@@clarkkent52 I made him wait because I was healing from a ltr breakup and wasn't in an emotionally healthy place to date anyone. When I was ready he was the only person I wanted to be with and the first time he actually asked me on a date I accepted I only became aware that he was interested about a year before we started dating. He is shy and was good at reading the room so he waited me out until I was ready He never invested anything besides friendship prior to us dating. I don't allow men to spend money on me if I'm not dating them, and I never leaned on him for emotional support ...It's always so sad to see the bias and prejudice against women voiced so blatantly. I'm sorry if you've had some bad experiences but that's not how all women work. Pick better women to spend time with

Blessings, you have a point, but that's not a solution. It shouldn't be that hard for 2 people to get along when it's been done ,with all other ethnic groups. It's about looking through the right lens. Stop competing. You can win with us or watch us win

Until some one cheats! Good luck!!

​@tarshaledwards7468 I didn't know the technology from the movie The Minority Report has been invented yet.🤔 Well you know others folks relationships better than them. 🤷‍♂️

At least you’re making 80k. That’s great. The issue is when a guy or even a woman isn’t working at all and trying to put down the 80k salary or 94k salary your wife makes.

Grammer correction-I don't want to believe my husband is worthless because he is sooo much more.

That's awesome ❤

You have a problem with bus drivers? It's a job is it not

Ok… cause how you gone build infrastructure with no resources?!

Tell them that at the grocery when you are hungry