The Journey To Waist Length

The Journey To Waist Length | My Hair Story.

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The journey to waist length hair, where I went wrong and why I started again after 6 years of growth.
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@majinDuu 4 жыл бұрын

Can we just comment on how well u put this video together? I don’t even have long hair or your hair type yet I’m here watching your whole video.

@IsabellaDemarko 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you! that means a lot! x

@JacquelineYoungJumpingJax876 4 жыл бұрын

Same!

@angelbarajas7955 4 жыл бұрын

Dumi MDKN actually same cuz I’m a guy and I’m soo super invested

@Murph- 4 жыл бұрын

Same , like my hair 4 inches and yet here i am watching the whole video lmao

@my1stlove130 4 жыл бұрын

Dumi MDKN lol me too bro😂😂😂

@urinamilovanovic9118 4 жыл бұрын

Girl,let me tell you something: Girls at the pictures you showed wear hair extensions.

@moneysoles5185 4 жыл бұрын

Djurdjina Milovanovic bruh when I said your name my fucking furniture started floating

@sophszn494 4 жыл бұрын

@@moneysoles5185 IM LAUGHING SO HARD

@ashildrtheswift3028 4 жыл бұрын

Right? And besides, her hair was never going to be that thick: your hair texture and type won't just change

@mae0101 4 жыл бұрын

Djurdjina Milovanovic I know

@yokouno2413 4 жыл бұрын

Djurdjina Milovanovic not all of them with long hair wear extensions

@bun2738 4 жыл бұрын

i’ve never been so emotionally invested in someone else’s hair

@naomifaiheng1126 3 жыл бұрын

Same. 😂 and we're all in the 5th month now. 😂

@drniravkumar9891 3 жыл бұрын

@@naomifaiheng1126 ikr 😭😂

@maiaastarita 3 жыл бұрын

Same😂😂

@squashy9100 3 жыл бұрын

Me too🤗🤗

@cherryxluv6 2 жыл бұрын

Ikrr

@thainaoliveira5523 2 жыл бұрын

Girl, listen. I went through EXACTLY the same thing as you. Tried every single thing you did to get my hair back (it used to be super pretty and it suddenly got just as troublesome as yours for literally no reason). None of them worked. The only thing that finally worked was seeing a TRICHOLOGIST! A trichologist is a hair specialist, like a hair doctor. They’re not hairdressers (who know nothing about hair quality, just aesthetics). They’re like dermatologists, but they focus on hair and making sure it grows well from the roots going down. They give you specialized products, look at your hair every couple weeks to see how it’s going, massage your hair, give it red light treatments and stuff like that, all based on science. I HIGHLY recommend you go see a trichologist. They’re pretty much the only professionals who actually know about hair, because most people just focus on short term aesthetics instead of the health of the follicules. I swear my hair was just like yours and even though it still isn’t perfect, it is SO SO much better than it used to be. I really know how frustrating it is to try everything and still not get the results you want when so many people don’t even do anything and have gorgeous hair anyway. I used to cry out of frustration and now I don’t even think about it much. I really hope you see this! Sending you lots of love

@dolcepescas6153 2 жыл бұрын

Underrated comment!! What kinds of things did the trichologist have you do that helped you in particular??

@thainaoliveira5523 2 жыл бұрын

@@dolcepescas6153 The main thing was just going to the appointments and using products that were specifically formulated for my hair (products that my trichologist made himself for his clients). In the beginning the appointments were once every couple of weeks and then once every couple of months as my hair got better. He would start by evaluating my hair to check the consistency of the fibers, how it was growing, how oily the skin was, etc. Then he would clean the hair, apply specialized lotions, massage the scalp and finish by applying an overhead red light for better absorption of the actives. After the session, he would prescribe certain products for continued daily use (typically a shampoo, conditioner, lotion and heat protectant). He would also instruct me on the proper way to use each one of them. For example, my skin was quite oily at the time, so I had to shower every day and use the shampoo twice in a row and just on the scalp (it was a very gentle sulfate-free shampoo). Then I had to apply conditioner to the rest of the hair, excluding the scalp. After the shower, I had to apply the heat protectant. I want to clarify: I never use heat on my hair. The heat protectant was meant for frizz control and sun protection. It was like a sunscreen (who knew you also had to apply sunscreen to your hair! The sun damages your hair, just as it does with the skin), so it worked as a layer of protection between the hair fibers and the external environment. Finally, before going to bed I had to apply the lotion, just on my scalp (I think it worked as some sort of exfoliant for the skin underneath the hair and promoted healthy hair growth). He was also very adamant in not doing anything that would damage my hair. So no restrictive hairstyles that pull too much on the scalp, letting the hair dry naturally without rubbing it with harsh towels, using a silk pillow case to reduce the friction with the pillow while sleeping, not using any sort of heat or products meant for styling, which typically include ingredients that damage the hair in the long run. If I was ever going to style it, use heat, be out in the sun or get into a pool, I had to apply the heat protectant first. I also started taking some supplements that he recommended for my hair, such as a multivitamin that included biotin, iron, zinc, inositol, vitamin B2 and B6, alpha lipoic acid, L-Cystine, L-Methionine and L-Lysine. He also recommended nutritional yeast and bee pollen or royal jelly (but I wasn't as consistent with these ones in comparison to the multivitamin). He would also emphasize the importance of having a healthy diet and exercising regularly. Obviously, all of this would depend on your type of hair and your specific problems (how thin or thick your hair is, how oily or dry, if you have dandruff or not, if you experience hair loss, etc). That's why it's important to go to a professional, so they can prescribe the products you actually need (for example, a friend of mine also started going to my trichologist, and some of the products she uses are different because her hair is different from mine). Hope it helps!

@SUM41YANA24M Жыл бұрын

I am going through the exact same thing, but I don't want to go for a big chop. How much did the trichologist cost? Because I might start to talk to one and get this birds nest sorted!

@Rebecca640 Жыл бұрын

When your hair gets thinner, there can be an iodine deficiency or ferritin level is not high enough. Ferritin should be over 70. Oral contraceptive pill can cause iodine deficiency. This was what happened to me, now after 10 years with thinner hair, my hair grows thicker again

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 11 ай бұрын

ATTENTION: REPENT AND BELIEVE IN THE GOSPEL! HELL IS REAL PLEASE CHANGE! NO ONE KNOWS THE HOUR HE IS COMING AT EXCEPT THE PRECIOUS FATHER! TAKE THIS SERIOUSLY! DO NOT IDOLIZE! DELIVER YOUR LIFE!

@ravioli4950 11 ай бұрын

i swear it’s a ritual to come back to this video every few months

@penchimerical 2 ай бұрын

Lol same. I don't know why this video lives in my mind

@cacadiary8343 2 ай бұрын

@@penchimericalFrr I always come back

@mycha5335 4 жыл бұрын

She sounds like an ACTUALLY HAPPENED voice over actress

@oliooh5647 4 жыл бұрын

Omg. Omg. I cant unhear it!!!

@izzyxx6329 4 жыл бұрын

i was just about to comment this.

@marietta8281 4 жыл бұрын

finally someone said that

@gabi4401 4 жыл бұрын

She is an actress , she graduated

@phrdit7229 4 жыл бұрын

That's what I was thinking while watching the video like...is she one?!

@cultcity 4 жыл бұрын

girl you realize the hair pictures on instagram is most likely hair extensions??

@lovesosweet4474 4 жыл бұрын

Sometimes even lace wigs, I know one girl that has natural loooong beautiful hair

@charlottejones9374 4 жыл бұрын

Their is a long hair community, no extensions, completely natural. These girls have hair down to the thighs that is completely their own length. I myself have hip length hair, no extensions. It's not possible for everyone tho and that's okay! Her hair looks beautiful short and in so glad she came to a decision to prioritise her mental health.

@eva-ex5il 4 жыл бұрын

Weave snatched

@jamieh2484 4 жыл бұрын

It's also because her hair is no where near as thick as the photos she was posting from insta....

@charlottejones9374 4 жыл бұрын

@@jamieh2484 yes! You gotta embrace your natural hair texture and thickness. Literally all hair types are gorgeous when taken care off no matter then length, I think she needs to embrace she has naturally wavy hair or accept the fact she will need to flat iron it or blow it out often to style it the way she wants. Also accepting that her hair is about average thickness and alot of insta hair models have above average thickness, it may never look the way she pictures it in her head without heat styling and extensions but it can be just as stunning if she embraces it for what it is. IMO when she tried the curly girl method it looked the best and maybe sticking to it throughout her long hair journey would be best for her. There are so many options for her to take here but the most important thing is that she learns to love herself and her hair.

@spajettycate 2 жыл бұрын

I hated my frizzy hair for years only to discover I was a “curly-wavy girl”. Made me accept the frizz and worked with it. Frizz = Curls/Waves! Stop dreaming about the hair that you are not born with, you will end up frustrated and hate your hair even more. Instead try to accept that you have textured hair. :)

@me-hk4ro 2 жыл бұрын

Ikrr

@user6024k 2 жыл бұрын

she doesn’t have frizz because she has curly hair, its frizzy because she has naturally thin hair. her hair grows straight, it’s literally straight. she doesn’t use flat irons she just has naturally thin hair that causes frizziness.

@awilliams7796 Жыл бұрын

@@user6024k she has wavy hair, it's just very loose plus she originally had straight hair so the confusion is understandable

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 11 ай бұрын

ATTENTION: REPENT AND BELIEVE IN THE GOSPEL! HELL IS REAL PLEASE CHANGE! NO ONE KNOWS THE HOUR HE IS COMING AT EXCEPT THE PRECIOUS FATHER! TAKE THIS SERIOUSLY! DO NOT IDOLIZE! DELIVER YOUR LIFE!

@alexandriamumma1174 2 жыл бұрын

I feel like extensions make for unrealistic hair expectations! I can't tell you how often I have seen someone with amazingly long and thick hair and every single one of them have extensions. Great video! Thanks for being so vulnerable! I have cried over hair more times than I would like to admit.

@ezgame4548 Жыл бұрын

i have waist length thick hair & you honestly cant have the hair this girl dreams of unless it is natural by genetics or unnatural like the extensions & the best way to try to get there is just cutting it short and learning ur own hair type

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 11 ай бұрын

ATTENTION: REPENT AND BELIEVE IN THE GOSPEL! HELL IS REAL PLEASE CHANGE! NO ONE KNOWS THE HOUR HE IS COMING AT EXCEPT THE PRECIOUS FATHER! TAKE THIS SERIOUSLY! DO NOT IDOLIZE! DELIVER YOUR LIFE!

@mist4727 3 ай бұрын

huh? theres more people will naturally long thick hair than people with extensions.

@TrinaGallo 21 күн бұрын

⁠@@mist4727I TOTALLY agree.

@yasmingarcez3668 4 жыл бұрын

Girl you can't run away from your natural hair texture

@kiwio3o387 4 жыл бұрын

Like honestly, I have the exact same looking hair as her - it's wavy. I find it weird she thinks that's not her natural hair texture.

@Victoria-Fox 4 жыл бұрын

She probably had hormonal changes (hasn't mentioned) and that's why her hair became different than she used to it. I mean, in my case, for a baby I had curly hair, then for 18 years, I had no heavy waves at all. At the age of 23, when I noticed some hormonal changes, I started to develop glamorous curls. Still trying to get used to it. :)

@ranjananixon7269 4 жыл бұрын

Yeah

@fantagegirl255 4 жыл бұрын

She literally explained in the video that her hair has never been like that before so obviously something has changed.

@kats.5958 4 жыл бұрын

@@fantagegirl255 it can happen with just getting older. I didnt even get my full thick irish hair till i grew it past my waist lol....she just wants hair she doesnt have....

@hatocci 4 жыл бұрын

Okay but? Not gonna lie, the short hair suits you way better

@ravenhood5414 4 жыл бұрын

Periodtttt

@elmerinazejneli3630 4 жыл бұрын

yeah

@HUNKragor 4 жыл бұрын

BLASPHEMY

@quackslikeaduck 3 ай бұрын

Her hair looks much healthier, for sure! I wouldn't call that "short", though. :)

@ashdiamond3 2 жыл бұрын

I have never seen this girl before but I’m so invested in her hair journey

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 11 ай бұрын

ATTENTION: REPENT AND BELIEVE IN THE GOSPEL! HELL IS REAL PLEASE CHANGE! NO ONE KNOWS THE HOUR THE HOLY SON IS COMING AT EXCEPT THE PRECIOUS FATHER! TAKE THIS SERIOUSLY! DO NOT IDOLIZE! DELIVER YOUR LIFE!

@lotusseed8910 2 жыл бұрын

Hard water has this effect on my hair. I notice if I'm staying in a soft water area my hair is completely different, softer, shinier and more manageable. A neutral henna paste applied to the hair adds shine that lasts and is a great conditioner. I really enjoyed watching your video! Great work! *

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 11 ай бұрын

ATTENTION: REPENT AND BELIEVE IN THE GOSPEL! HELL IS REAL PLEASE CHANGE! NO ONE KNOWS THE HOUR HE IS COMING AT EXCEPT THE PRECIOUS FATHER! TAKE THIS SERIOUSLY! DO NOT IDOLIZE! DELIVER YOUR LIFE!

@saludosalsol 2 ай бұрын

Was going to say this! The frizziness and texture of her hair definitely looks like hard water damage. I put a water softener on mine.

@sofirosselot 4 жыл бұрын

the feeling of thick ends right after cutting it is the beeeeest

@jessicapassey2471 4 жыл бұрын

Popi I have to thin mine so much cause it looks insane

@canwejustnot 4 жыл бұрын

@@jessicapassey2471 same haha I have layers in my tips, otherwise it just looks like a pyramid

@shelby4216 4 жыл бұрын

it is thoooo

@celestec7380 4 жыл бұрын

Popi i know right!

@imnotbeckyhomecky8471 4 жыл бұрын

Popi ikkk

@katherine3276 4 жыл бұрын

Girl, the photo of your "dream hair" the girl has extensions.

@RedHairedRiot 4 жыл бұрын

thats what i was thinking the WHOLE TIME...but also their hair is just thicker than hers.

@abigailthimothy15 4 жыл бұрын

Not really girls in India have naturally thick beautiful dark hair and they hardly do anything they just oil thier hair regularly and wash it. God clearly has favourites 😔

@jayshreewaghela530 4 жыл бұрын

@@abigailthimothy15 Im an Indian and oiling and massaging hair is must...it's the best thing you could do to your hair

@madelinecreates8825 4 жыл бұрын

Can I have a time stamp

@gaurimann7156 4 жыл бұрын

Jayshree Waghela I agree. Coconut oil is a great way to start

@elizabetheastman 2 жыл бұрын

Not silly to cry, I’ve cried over my hair too many times to count. 😔 I can totally relate to the frustration of hair growth.

@user-lb9zq7ou1h Жыл бұрын

ANY TIPS GUYS, YESTERDAY MY HAIR WAS UP TO MY MID-BACK LENGTH, THEN MY MUM GOT ME A LITTLE TRIM TO MY SHOULDER BLADES THEN SHE SAID MY SPLIT ENDS GONNA MAKE ME HAVE TO CUT MY HAIR OFF MORE BUT I DIDNT WANNA SO I WAS CRYING SO MUCH WHILE SHE CUT IT BETWEEN SHOULDER LENGTHS AND BOB CUT, SOMEONE HELP ANY TIPS TO GROW IT BEFORE SCHOOL STARTS IN 8 NIGHTS SHOOT

@HydraBdread Жыл бұрын

@@user-lb9zq7ou1h you can’t grow hair that fast I donated mine 2-3 years back and it is now almost or completely back to the way it was before which is quite fast imo but u can’t grow it all back in 8 nights

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 11 ай бұрын

@deepwithin6517 2 жыл бұрын

One simple way to grow your hair: Accept your hair the way it is,love it.

@salmaalwan256 2 жыл бұрын

Exactlyy obsessing over my hair always makes things worse

@deepwithin6517 Жыл бұрын

@@salmaalwan256 💝💜💙🕊️

@idfkwtr Жыл бұрын

Yes!! I used to obsess over my hair and when i eventually started to accept and started to love it, i actually saw improvement. i learn that I should just leave my hair alone, improve my mental health and that way my hair’s health will also improve.

@BL00PY. 4 жыл бұрын

I didn't realise that hair could consume someone life so much.

@xiioh6788 4 жыл бұрын

Ye wtf how shallow can you be and shameless to admit it

@alexinahill3738 4 жыл бұрын

Imagine having black girl hair🤣🤣

@camillefaith2005 4 жыл бұрын

allipop that’s not a hair type. White people can have type 4 hair as well.

@alexinahill3738 4 жыл бұрын

@@camillefaith2005 if your mixed, if your whole family is white you will not be able to have type 4 hair at all, it's not possible, you will have to be a mixed person to even have a chance of having type 4 hair

@angel7016 4 жыл бұрын

Anna Ivanova It’s possible to be white and have curly hair but she’s saying to have Type 4 hair

@kinneret4870 4 жыл бұрын

Her hair is making me madd she workes so hard for it and it dosent change lol😂

@ughlwtmechangerhisthabks8349 4 жыл бұрын

Right? Ungrateful child.

@sweetexorcist7322 4 жыл бұрын

Maybe ita because she's not meant for waist long hair genetically

@zf5214 4 жыл бұрын

can't change genetics

@yellowbabymarshmellow3040 4 жыл бұрын

😂😂 the hair is like " not today, try again tomorrow" I wish she would just keep it medium length and realize how beautiful her natural hair color & highlights are.❤

@MariaFernanda-yv8tw 4 жыл бұрын

@@ughlwtmechangerhisthabks8349 😂😂😂😂

@dollz4ever 2 жыл бұрын

watching this video really made me realize how I take my own hair for granted, I have long thick hair that grows really fast just over the course of a couple months and my hair is just naturally oily too. I never really though about how much effort people put into trying to make their hair look like that and how lucky I am. I would always complain about how my hair would be really tangled because of how thick it is or how frizzy it would be because it was thick, when after learning how to just come and straighten my hair I don't complain about it anymore because my hair is just the way it is and I like it.

@mettle56 Жыл бұрын

Everyone is ungrateful for a lotta things like that

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 11 ай бұрын

ATTENTION: REPENT AND BELIEVE IN THE GOSPEL! HELL IS REAL PLEASE CHANGE! NO ONE KNOWS THE HOUR HE IS COMING AT EXCEPT THE PRECIOUS FATHER! TAKE THIS SERIOUSLY! DO NOT IDOLIZE! DELIVER YOUR LIFE!

@sassyangie 8 ай бұрын

me too! i have the same hair as u described- long, thick, grows fast n oily n i love it sm

@noorasakhri6027 Жыл бұрын

i completely understand this situation!! I have a friend (lets call her Layla) that had straight, shiny medium textured hair. Laylas hair used to grow quickly, and she hated taking extra time in the shower for her hair, so she started cutting it every month for a year. However, after that year, her hair became really, really fine, dry and damaged. You could even see her back through her hair (kinda like your situation). And it stayed like this for about three years, until she stopped cutting her hair every month. That changed her hair completely. It went wavy first, then it started getting thicker and thicker, and now its beautiful, thick, wavy and long hair. It looks almost exactly like that long hair image you showed us, except with a little more waves. What layla did was to stop cutting her hair for three years, and only do hair massages and put oils on her ends for three years, along with using olaplex and some other brands of shampoos. And today, she just had a trim off her hair and she cut 1 cm off, and so far, it still looks really healthy. So i hope this helps!

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 11 ай бұрын

ATTENTION: REPENT AND BELIEVE IN THE GOSPEL! HELL IS REAL PLEASE CHANGE! NO ONE KNOWS THE HOUR HE IS COMING AT EXCEPT THE PRECIOUS FATHER! TAKE THIS SERIOUSLY! DO NOT IDOLIZE! DELIVER YOUR LIFE!

@Augustbeauty69 3 жыл бұрын

It is NOT silly to cry over hair. I've cried many, many times over my hair. I got such a bad haircut one time I made my mom cover the mirror.

@qrilixz5157 3 жыл бұрын

please help i got a bad haircut amd i cant go outside

@-airymations-8967 3 жыл бұрын

@@qrilixz5157 maybe try curling or styling it

@s9angela 3 жыл бұрын

@@qrilixz5157 you can put a hat on and go to the hairdresser

@allydowson1696 3 жыл бұрын

@@qrilixz5157 to make them grow faster try the indian massage and to cover it you can try to braid them or use different kind of style.

@quooble5991 3 жыл бұрын

I have VERY curly hair, this is a regular occurrence 😂

@monroe1308 4 жыл бұрын

Sis u have wavy hair, it looks so bad because you’re trying to force your hair to be straight when it’s not

@memesandstuffso 4 жыл бұрын

Hello, I'm Hootle :D Can you explain in English?

@memesandstuffso 4 жыл бұрын

Hello, I'm Hootle :D There isn’t any grammar and a lot of it’s spelt wrong, so it’s really hard to understand.

@14vermuth26 4 жыл бұрын

@@memesandstuffso Hootle said that there is definitely some texture going on in her hair and that it looks good when its shorter.. and the good old "no hate, just explaining" thing too. There u go

@memesandstuffso 4 жыл бұрын

Hello, I'm Hootle :D not again 😂🤦‍♀️

@prescribic 4 жыл бұрын

It’s gay ;)

@mariquilla8891 Жыл бұрын

My advice: no treatments. The most natural, the better. Hair care treatments could have a rebound effect that make your hair get worse. Use no heat, no oils, no keratin... Just let your hair grow naturally and it will look healthier.

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 11 ай бұрын

@BodegaMonega-ze6uz 10 ай бұрын

Slightly true but oiling ur ends can really help with you're length

@hrod9393 2 жыл бұрын

I'm a guy growing my hair out, it's been 2 years, ive discovered how curly my hair actually is and have also been struggling with wanting straighter and less frizzy hair. I can get it to dry straight wavy but as we all know, leaving it down and any humidity will frizz and puff it up. It's mostly the ends though, so my compromise is now to dry it straight BUT allow the ends to curl , and keep them wet/moist. Humidity can't undo them then. I just have to accept that incorporating curls reduces my overall length until I grow it longer. Basically takes away 4 inches, that's 8 months! What you've shown is that for some waist length starts to become a natural length limit, without trims or cuts or with it, out hair naturally sheds at a certain max length. I suppose Il try to see how my hair looks at waist length at most. For men I think arm pit length makes the most sense, curly hair would probably have to be grown to waist length to be that.

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 11 ай бұрын

@ellim.3193 3 жыл бұрын

this feels like a documentary from netflix

@chloeng9939 3 жыл бұрын

hahahahahhah

@riooo8072 3 жыл бұрын

no it doesn’t. it doesn’t have over dramatic affects and one words and flashing to black screens and fading into a weird ocean landscape

@yannieyassin4938 3 жыл бұрын

😹😹😹😹

@yannieyassin4938 3 жыл бұрын

Is the dog face for me

@NaptuRo90 3 жыл бұрын

Right! 😂

@sydneeharris8215 4 жыл бұрын

when she said long hair is what makes me feel pretty i felt that

@stephanyflamenco 4 жыл бұрын

Sydnee Harris same!

@anisaathe1 4 жыл бұрын

*Laughs in Muslim*

@Lillxin1 4 жыл бұрын

That's why I cut my hair c:

@cloudybrooklyn 4 жыл бұрын

I was just about to type this 😭

@beautiful10381 4 жыл бұрын

@@anisaathe1 LOL

@user-xu4uh1wp7t 6 ай бұрын

I relate to so much of this. It's sound so fickle to be so heartbroken about hair but when you've tried so much and put so much love it's hard not to let it get to you - it's comforting knowing so many others have felt the same and are on this journey together (esp when we're surrounded by family and friends with BEAUTIFULLLY blessed hair) 😆❤

@jafrharmony2257 Жыл бұрын

We have the same dilemma. We did almost similar things for years. We have the same dream. But I'm in my 50s now and it just became thinner and thinner while I'm premenopausal. In addition, it's turning grey. I had thicker hair when I was young. Now I know it's time to embrace what I have as I age more. As I go through life and seeing some loved ones had cancer and losing their hair, I started becoming satisfied for what I have. Now I'm happy that I just have hair and hair length at my age. I still try my best to maintain my somewhat still longer hair. Thanks for your vlog... nice knowing that I'm not alone. I didn't know about the hairtype 2B 2C. Now I need to research on that :). Thanks again and goodluck!

@WTFdanni 4 жыл бұрын

This is just an opinion from a stranger on the internet, but I think you should give your wavy hair a shot 🤷🏻‍♀️

@RainyRunningRiver 4 жыл бұрын

Shhhh its 2019 women arnt aloud to love themselves! If she gave her natural hair a shot who would make the CEOs of hair companys rich?

@blad_3 2 ай бұрын

Haha exactly what I was wondering too.. her wavy >>>>> straight.. but you know she's deep into the matrix of Instagram, unable to see the lust in our eyes with her own eyes

@rosaliekouseband8215 4 жыл бұрын

I think you overcared about your hair and got the reverse effect

@GDXdominator 4 жыл бұрын

agreed

@spoon1778 4 жыл бұрын

She got played the UNO reverse card

@heartpng 4 жыл бұрын

it looks like when she "overcared" for it, it was actually getting healthier and trying to revert to its curly/wavy state. If she leaned into that with her new cut, she might actually get a nicer wave?

@bearj9148 4 жыл бұрын

@@spoon1778 I wanted to like ur comment but the amount of likes is too perfect laul XD

@bearj9148 4 жыл бұрын

@@spoon1778 and yeah I know annyeongaseyo (or however it was to be written...)

@piney_studios 2 жыл бұрын

I relate to this! As a 14 year old girl dealing with traction alopecia, it can definitely be bad on your mental health But to everyone out there struggling with their hair, I understand. Even though you may not see it very often, a lot of people deal with hair related issues and EVERYONE, YOU ARE MORE THAN JUST YOUR HAIR. DONT LET A FEW STRANDS OF DEAD CELLS SAY OTHERWISE. Yes hair is a big part of our identity but as long as you continue trying your hardest to make it better, it will get better. I promise. TAKE CARE, LOVE YOURSELF, AND KNOW YOU ARE WORTH IT self love and acceptance is a journey, but many people have to go through that journey so don’t feel alone

@flower7483 2 жыл бұрын

the amount of effort and commitment you put into this will NOT go to waste, you deserve to get that thick and long hair that you've been working towards for so long, and I am absolutely sure that you will achieve this, if not Ill have no trust in the universe anymore

@user-yp7jm3mk6l 11 ай бұрын

@insazzie 4 жыл бұрын

Just because you guys think her hair isn’t that bad and that she’s just being whiny, everyone has different insecurities. If hers is her hair then let her be. Don’t degrade her insecurity because you aren’t her.

@shizukaaaa 4 жыл бұрын

I feel like it's because this video didn't really give out any solutions to people sharing her problem and was rather just her moping about her hair not being something it's not. Nothing wrong with feeling insecure but I kinda wish I got the minutes I took to watch this video back.

@littlesadeo 4 жыл бұрын

I have 4b/4c hair and I understand her struggles but just times it by 5. I get this is her insecurity but I'm just jealous because people wouldn't realize her bad hair days as much they'd criticize me for how my hair naturally grows. But honestly I hope she achieves her goal. My goal is also waist length :)

@slushu_6865 4 жыл бұрын

Little Sade Girl! You can do it! I have the same type of hair, and it’s waist length (naturally not permed or heat) just do your best!

@chimchimlover9164 4 жыл бұрын

@I want a cup of NamTiddies and Jiminie Hi ArMy :>

@Strawberriminnie 4 жыл бұрын

Hellow fellow moa, like your pfp

@simplyjustina8258 4 жыл бұрын

All of the stress you are putting on urself over ur hair is what’s ruining your hair. Just dont stress over it so much

@abbeybarton7281 4 жыл бұрын

Simply Justina A year and a half ago my hair was at my chin, now it’s halfway down my back. I honestly just left it and didn’t give a shit about it, every time my friends would see me they’d tell me “wow your hair grew!” And I wouldn’t even notice.

@abbeybarton7281 4 жыл бұрын

So yeah, I agree. It’s because she’s inspecting it ALL THE TIME that she probably doesn’t see the difference

@nikkabagani299 4 жыл бұрын

Simply Justina soo trueeee

@pixie968 4 жыл бұрын

Stara Oftmo NEVER wash hair daily, wait at least 3-4 days before washing again.

@Sophie-wi7wt 4 жыл бұрын

I have waist length hair and it’s in quite a good condition, the ends can be dry but it’s generally healthy. I wash it every two days with just whatever I have, and straighten it everyday. I just let it get on with it

@vyvisabastard Жыл бұрын

i feel like this video is a lesson in how the internet and especially the beauty community warp our perception on what is achievable, and how someone can go to great lengths to achieve something that is impossible to do with her hair naturally. even then she resorted to a treatment that damaged her hair beyond repair and resulted in her being far more unhappy with the result after the initial honeymoon period. as other commenters have said, she just doesnt have thick hair, but theres also the idea that "natural" is somehow better or more authentic than extensions or wigs. its a hard pill to swallow when youre constantly comparing yourself to other people you look up to, so you should occasionally step back and question what the goal youre trying to achieve is out of reach and will stay that way

@taliatut 9 ай бұрын

1) It could be the water. Hard water can really ruin your hair. You mentioned washing hair at home after the salon and it was back to being matted and dry. You need a shower filter with a water softener. 2) Also, it looks like your hair needs more protein - something more professional like a K18 mask would work. 3) Could soy milk be messing with your hormones? I’d consider eating more natural. Plant milks are not natural human foods. If you want to have healthy hair, you need to eat a lot more protein than you do. More meat like chicken and red meat and dairy like Greek yogurt. 4) A good professional shampoo. Not John Frieda. Something like Pureology or Kerastase or Oribe, plus a clarifying shampoo once a week. You need to clarify if you have hard water. 5) Silk bonnet is the best kept secret for perfect morning hair! 6) Your natural hair texture is not exactly straight. Your hair is very fine too. To get that glossy straight hair with weighted texture you would have to blow it out with hair products after washing when it’s 80% dry. You can’t just air dry it.

@brookebell2911 4 жыл бұрын

Man, quarantine really has me invested in a 13 minute video about someone else’s hair

@NataliesArt 4 жыл бұрын

Meanie

@silentdork10 4 жыл бұрын

Same here man:-|

@imyvsozzy6542 4 жыл бұрын

Lol same here

@ewew4616 4 жыл бұрын

Haha same...

@campbellschober2592 4 жыл бұрын

hahah same

@josefinemusus5182 3 жыл бұрын

It's never "just hair". I lost my almost waist length hair when I was on chemo. Watching this and dreaming about the time I had more than 2 cm. This gives me hope that I can grow it all back.

@slimesquishiesorbeez7054 3 жыл бұрын

Wish u luck

@chloeeve2370 3 жыл бұрын

hope you are well now❤️

@josefinemusus5182 3 жыл бұрын

@@khoi_0918 It’s short for Chemotherapy = cancer treatment

@josefinemusus5182 3 жыл бұрын

@@chloeeve2370 thank you, I’m much better. Short hair, but no cancer ☺️

@khoi_0918 3 жыл бұрын

@@josefinemusus5182 you are a strong woman

@scaramouche6870 10 ай бұрын

5:43 important! The static hair has nothing to do with your hair but it’s the brush, I have used that brush my whole life and if there is high pressure and humidity in the environment you live in it’s more likely to do that with your hair, what I do when it happens is wet my hand and tap it on the brush, the water will make it loose that effect

@bisousbe Жыл бұрын

so much hair wisdom in the comment section and im here for it 💇🏻‍♀️

@chaendler 4 жыл бұрын

i want long hair so bad but every like 7 months i get bored and cut it to my chin

@jenzelaz 4 жыл бұрын

chae can relate

@ameliah3496 4 жыл бұрын

That's me when I cut my bangs. When i have them, I hate it and wanna grow them out. But when i don't have bangs i get bored and cut i them. It's a neverending cycle

@wholeblends4327 4 жыл бұрын

chae hehe same

@luxrt5566 4 жыл бұрын

chae same

@emilyl3540 4 жыл бұрын

SAME

@laurinekdk 4 жыл бұрын

just stop putting 287282 products in your hair

@juliarae79 4 жыл бұрын

Lauriné Melchert I'm sure she did that in the beginning

@shinexxai780 4 жыл бұрын

Lauriné Melchert yeah…like, it’s weird

@paolamichellealejo4259 4 жыл бұрын

Tru

@StephfUck 4 жыл бұрын

@xLunar_Bearx 4 жыл бұрын

More like her hair is addicted to hair drugs

@monet4993 9 ай бұрын

amazing story! you are such a good story teller ! it was like an audiobook , Thank you, really entertaining, wishing you the best in your hair journey !

@amenaxo 2 жыл бұрын

I have been struggling with getting my hair to where I want it to be too! Though I have bleached my hair for just over a decade and have used different colours too!! This video was so amazing, you have motivated me to keep trying and to not give up, though I would love long hair it is so true that quality comes first. Thank you for making this video! Thank you for making it so easy to watch and engaging! I really enjoyed watching!

@temiajibola8000 4 жыл бұрын

being attached to your hair is unhealthy at times... sometimes you just gotta CUT IT

@themitochondriaisthepowerh2074 4 жыл бұрын

If I cut my hair any shorter I’d look bald

@bethlovett7612 4 жыл бұрын

Yep.forget about it.look at little kids with long hair there not doing any treatments on there hair.it just grows.

@c00lk4tt 4 жыл бұрын

For all my life I had long hair and I wouldn't cut it for the longest time. Like her I thought long hair was the only thing that made me pretty. My hair length was around 28 Inches. Finally when I was 13 I did the big chop. Honestly the best decision for my hair. I'm 15 now and my hair looks way more healthy than before.

@pinklemonade6597 4 жыл бұрын

Easier said than done

@c00lk4tt 4 жыл бұрын

@@pinklemonade6597 truly it is but one day you get to that point

@paulrobson7887 Жыл бұрын

I’ve been watching a lot of your hair journey videos today after you popped up in my feed. Hair traumas aside (and I know that is important to you) but I just wanted to say what a lovely voice you have. Such a nice accent, such good articulation and brilliant narration skills! Have you ever considered doing podcasts or putting yourself forward for audiobook narration? Your voice makes me super relaxed 😊

@fwoop4848 2 жыл бұрын

I'm over my obsession with long hair. I look way better with short hair, it makes me look more lively and fresh.

@toradoraa 3 жыл бұрын

my dad used to tell me as a child that if you obsess over something that's already beautiful to begin with it will slowly turn ugly (he was saying this about looking in the mirror too much but I found that lesson applicable to many things in life)

@maryelizabethhuber 2 жыл бұрын

wise man!

@dishadhouliyan5190 2 жыл бұрын

what is your dad name.

@artbyneenadipeppe 2 жыл бұрын

um yes agree 100% I had long blonde curly hair and became obsessed with it wanting it to be blonder that I eventually had major fall out and now I have frizzy unruly and unmanageable brown short hair. Nothing wrong with brown hair but it was crazy how obsessed I became with just a color state of my hair that I had to let go of it lol.

@toradoraa 2 жыл бұрын

@@artbyneenadipeppe thank you for sharing! I'm sure you look great as ever with your brown hair!

@amezvel8239 2 жыл бұрын

my dad has always told us something similar as well, it doesn’t make the insecurities go away but it does remind me that it’s just me and many of the features i don’t like someone else would like, or someone will find beautiful.

@tatumlikechanning 4 жыл бұрын

The whole time I was screaming JUST CUT YOUR HAIR

@veritybritcliffe1391 4 жыл бұрын

I do get my hair cut but it's still dry and coarse

@summerbrooke4076 4 жыл бұрын

@@veritybritcliffe1391 see a trichologist. Not a hairdresser.

@licorice1019 4 жыл бұрын

her hair is probably frizzy and nasty because it's too long and the nutritions she's eating can't get to the ends.

@licorice1019 4 жыл бұрын

@Xxilluminati _girl sksksksksksksksksksksksksksksksksksk what color is your hydroflask?? omg omg omg omg omg omg omg omg omg omg omg omg omg omg!!!!! where's your puka shell necklace??? i love that scrunchie on your wrist!!!! omg!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! what's your vsco??? we have to be friends!!! OMG. WE. CAN. MAKE. FRIENDSHIP BRACELETS TOGETHER!!!!!!!! and i oop!!!!!!! sksksksksksksk!

@asthetc6493 4 жыл бұрын

*im cringing*

@rachiedockstader8097 2 жыл бұрын

Braiding your hair can really help keep frizz and dryness from happening. I have delt with the same things in my hair lately and just keeping it braided through the day and night does wonders. Also you can put some essential oil hair blends in the ends to keep them healthy. Regular oil treatments can help too! I use olive oil and essential oil hair blends. I hope you see this and let us know if you try these things and if it helps! 💜

@AJ-fx2xl 2 жыл бұрын

Funny thing is, the exact same thing happened to me. I’m currently 13 “but when I was 11, ever since then I always believed that I had really damaged straight hair or was born unlucky “or failed to some how take care of my hair for it always looked like yours in the video, in till later I discovered hair types and that changed my hair for the better, I think my hair is pretty rare, I have multiple hair types in my hair being 2b, 2c and 3a in some sections. Guys this is a real problem, seeing how I’m not the only person that experienced this, there are probably many people in the world right now hating there hair “thinking its damaged and un repairable, but in reality they have wavy or curly hair. I am lucky that I have discovered my hair type, theres probably people out there that haven’t discovered there hair type in many years, despite being adults, its truly frustrating the lack knowledge of something as simple as hair still, now. I feel like all is changing is the world, not the people. -_-

@fishsteps2569 4 жыл бұрын

You can’t force your wavy hair to be straight and expect it to be healthy.

@elizabethswan353 4 жыл бұрын

I agree

@kirin1230 4 жыл бұрын

Exactly, everyone learns this eventually

@myrtheharreman7043 4 жыл бұрын

If you use the right producs it wouldn't damage it to bad

@kirin1230 4 жыл бұрын

@@myrtheharreman7043 *too

@myrtheharreman7043 4 жыл бұрын

@@kirin1230 thanks

@chloe-ho3pt 4 жыл бұрын

This girl makes it sound like she’d just become depressed if she had to deal with curly hair

@makaylaleaver9687 4 жыл бұрын

NoJustNo AJ lmfao, she would die with my hair. It’s down to my waste and it’s ringlets. 🤣

@ebwbau8036 4 жыл бұрын

I’m a 4a lol

@athomas5035 4 жыл бұрын

Lol 😂😂😂 My hair is thick af

@celia-cj5py 4 жыл бұрын

well it's just not her style

@Em-mu8ne 4 жыл бұрын

@@ebwbau8036 i see your a person of religion as well

@Vlogswith_KR 7 ай бұрын

I've watched this video so many times over the past few years. I'm obsessed. I love hair.❤

@Youtube.10a Жыл бұрын

I had my hair cut shoulder length after years of having fried long hair and every 4 months I get a trim. A year later my hair is above the waist. Great thickness and really glossy! I use heat alot, but I take good care of my hair with hair protection + argan oil serum literally everyday. Ill keep doing what I do until my hair is longer

@pinkromatic 4 жыл бұрын

Oh wow I really think the 'shorter' length of hair looks amazing on you, it frames your face and gives you a cooler vibe

@kittenlover1888 4 жыл бұрын

L yes I agree!

@palomabrighton9756 4 жыл бұрын

Agreed !!!

@Emma-vu3hx 4 жыл бұрын

L it looks wayyyyyyyyy better on her than longer hair, if only she would realize :(

@cuppatae834 4 жыл бұрын

Yeah the long hair honestly does not look good.

@ElizaLydayIsTotallyRad 4 жыл бұрын

wow y’all are so mf rude lol

@saravenzon 4 жыл бұрын

She would actually look very good with a shoulder length haircut and wispy bangs

@hkksalrofkd5854 4 жыл бұрын

Omg yass

@GG-ug5yf 4 жыл бұрын

Exactly what I was thinking!

@crystalmethany3245 4 жыл бұрын

Ikr

@zairazaira_ 4 жыл бұрын

What does wispy mean?

@decalcomani1169 4 жыл бұрын

fr omfg

@jacquelinekuba Жыл бұрын

i relate to this video so much i’m so glad there’s someone out there struggling with my same problems

@morganwalls6789 2 жыл бұрын

You are an excellent storyteller! I hope you are able to use your storytelling abilities to encourage others. I have the opposite problem of you - long-time curly hair that is suddenly going striaght! I am so sad! I miss my waves. Hair is a way to feel beautiful and encouraged. (I love to heat-curl mine.) At the same time, you are so much more than your hair! True friends and healthy significant others will love you for more than your looks, and I hope you find people who make you feel confident no matter if you are having a good or bad hair day! (My husband often surprises me by telling me he likes my hair on the days that I am HATING it. And this is after my hair went from wavy to straight. He was an amazing man to find, and worth waiting for!)

@faezy8000 4 жыл бұрын

She sounds like a narrator from “ My story animated”

@chaeluvr870 4 жыл бұрын

I-

@mmonalysa 4 жыл бұрын

minute videos riteeee

@mmonalysa 4 жыл бұрын

i thought it just me

@brodiemckechnie8762 4 жыл бұрын

Savage Gamer lol

@Gabriel-uu9fv 4 жыл бұрын

I was thinking that to 😂

@dramalamaice4110 4 жыл бұрын

The voiceover sounds like something from a storybooth animated story time

@johannashapaka2969 4 жыл бұрын

I know right thats the first thing i thought of when she did the voice over

@dramalamaice4110 4 жыл бұрын

Johanna Shapaka 😂

@bugfairy 4 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY WHAT I THOUGHT

@chihuahua0965 Жыл бұрын

I'm only about 5 minutes in but I'm feeling this. my hair has started to go wavy when it never has before, its super frizzy (which has always been true but it feels different) I've also always had long hair, i don't use heat, but i also don't really cut my hair or take good care of it. I'm starting to try to so interested to watch the rest of this!

@newchannellookforlissaelle8507 4 жыл бұрын

don't know why everyone is coming at my girl for showing her hair journey...she's being honest WHY is everyone so pressed/suddenly a hair expert?!

@strawberrycheesecake5502 4 жыл бұрын

Because she is honest and that attracts these kind of know it alls, I think.

@elllie6823 4 жыл бұрын

Literally!

@ayrenbethancourt9379 4 жыл бұрын

Amen

@nadinehamden8656 4 жыл бұрын

Strawberry cheesecake n the time T pkkuy

@meeranfarah5115 4 жыл бұрын

Because shes the 'i want' type and not 'i have' type. The moral of her whole journey is that she tried to have long straight hair (that stays straight no matter wut, so no frizz) and thick ends. but her hair type is is not straight but wayvy or maybe curly

@jinxreaper_6623 4 жыл бұрын

Listen gurl, your hair is just *naturally* thin. It’s *naturally* a little wavy. That’s just your hair 🤷🏻‍♀️

@cheeselover4351 4 жыл бұрын

Wavy?? No. Her hair is clearly straight!

@cheeselover4351 4 жыл бұрын

Omg I'm dumb lol sorry oops

@evalight4317 4 жыл бұрын

Okay but she doesn't have to keep her hair frizzy and brittle all of her life just because it looks like that

@meeranfarah5115 4 жыл бұрын

@@cheeselover4351 if she take care of hair properly, maybe it would actually look nice

@savannaowl6301 4 жыл бұрын

potato armys ??? Did you watch the video

@cellularbunny Жыл бұрын

i have REALLY similar texture to you- it has wavy kinks and breakage in the back, somewhat thin, and frizz. my saviour has been heatless curls, coconut oil, wild growth hair oil, wigs, heat once a week, and only using scrunchies. it’s actually growing in quite well, but i had many mental breakdowns in the process. adding a little bit of pure coconut oil to the ends and scalp before bed makes it grow in so well!! best of luck!!!

@cellularbunny Жыл бұрын

i’ve found that my true damage came from forcing my hair to be straight (my hair curls SO easy, like… i put it in a bun and it looks like shirley temple) maybe it’s the same for you!! wear a straight hair wig!!!

@rosie6 Жыл бұрын

I have long thick lovely hair, but a mean comment from my classmate made me forget how beautiful my hair was. I am growing my natural hair out and I am loving my hair. Love urself, don’t let anything stop you from embracing ur beauty❤

@Chronicler92 4 жыл бұрын

A tough but honest disclaimer: Social media is not real life!

@larrynoelle-8950 4 жыл бұрын

@kenzie. jade yeah obviously

@rileyeelizabeth 4 жыл бұрын

"always brushing gently and NEVER when wet" **laughs in curly hair**

@sanelisiweduma2798 4 жыл бұрын

I was like "woah! That's what white people do?! My comb would never survive that, certainly not my 4c hair" 🤣

@gabbybennitt293 4 жыл бұрын

I have super thick hair... and I almost always have to brush when wet or it's an ordeal, it tangles easily. my hair is healthy just super thicc it's at upper torso area and I tend to brush when I have conditioner in it.

@madisonsrandomworld2433 4 жыл бұрын

@@gabbybennitt293 same my hair is good quality and thick I always brush my hair when wet to get rid of knots,frizz and it being tangled

@028sara 4 жыл бұрын

thats what im saying...if i brushed my hair constantly when it was dry i feel like it would fall off🤣

@mermaiduuu6819 4 жыл бұрын

HAHAHAHAHA

@HiHello-ro5bb 2 жыл бұрын

This is an incredible journey!!! I’ve actually had a 2 year journey for caring of my curly hair. It’s even pretty hard to maintain it and keep it from frizz but I think I’m getting there. The biggest problem I face is keeping the curls in my hair. Whenever I wake up, one side is always frizzier and has these blocky type of curls compared to the other side. I would love to have waitlength hair but my hair is really thick and it would be even hadlrder to maintain. The longest it’s been is up to my belly button but that’s when it’s wet. Whenever it’s dry it bounces up, which I don’t really have a problem with if it stays the same everytime! Each day the bounce daughter higher up or lower, which makes it look really weird. I cut it a few weeks ago just below my shoulders since it was just getting really hard to fix the ends from having hooks. It’s a bit easier now ever since I’ve done that but I’m still getting there. I’m really glad everything is starting to work out for you and I wish you good luck!! 👍😊😊

@clairew972 2 жыл бұрын

Do you use a protective hairstyle when you sleep?

@HiHello-ro5bb 2 жыл бұрын

@@clairew972 Ye so put in into a satin bonnet but I still face the same problem with one side being frizzier than the other. I also have bangs and it’s kinda hard to keep those down since whenever I put them into the bonnet they bounce up above my forehead instead of laying flat on top.

@xenilou 2 жыл бұрын

ever since i was around ten years old (that was when i started getting aware of what i looked like and wanting to improve my looks) ive been tryin to get shiny, glossy, straight hair. my hair has always looked really damaged although id never done anything to damage my hair, in the first place, so i got it chopped, used tons of conditioner, hair oils, masks, deep conditioner, shampoo for dry hair etc. but my hair would always just look the same and people kept commenting on how dry it, how damaged it looked which broke my heart, because despite all the effort i put in, my hair wouldn’t improve one bit. and then, one day, i discovered a video on yt by a woman with similar lookin hair. turned out she had curly hair, the next day i followed the steps she took in order to get her hair to curl and mine was, in fact, curly too. now, im a 2c/3a type, and happier than ever. (god bless that woman’s soul.) soo, this video just hit my soft spot and made me cry. but im so happy for you to have discovered that fact about your hair.

@meganmegaawesome263 4 жыл бұрын

Hi I’m a hairstylist and I want to break down everything you’re doing wrong. For starters you have unrealistic standards for your type of hair. Without using a flat iron your hair isn’t going to be straight with no frizz it’s just not possible. Your hair is thin and frizzy and will always be that way naturally. White women generally do not have pin straight smooth hair that type of hair gene is most prominent with asian people, their strands are thicker and heavier individually and they have more hair as where your individual strands of hair are thin and fine. The reason why your hair got more and more shitty was because of that keratin treatment, and the products you were using. Too much of a good thing is not a good thing. No hairstylist should have ever done a keratin treatment on your hair, those are only supposed to be used for people who have lost their keratin. For example, people who have extremely bleached hair, people who have gotten perms and people who have done massive amounts of heat damage are going to be the only candidates for a keratin treatment. Otherwise doing the treatment without any reason to other than to tame frizz or straighten will over keratinize and put too much protein in your hair leading to all this damage and breakage you’re seeing. KERATIN TREATMENTS ARE NOT MEANT TO BE USED AS A PERMANENT STRAIGHTENING METHOD. I can’t stress that enough to people. It’s meant to help rebuild extremely damaged and fragile hair temporarily. The only reason it straightens hair is because it’s weighed down by protein. Otherwise doing this treatment on hair that doesn’t need it will cause breakage and damage and do the opposite of what you want. Also stop using these heavy creams and expensive products, use something like an oil based hair shampoo or a shine shampoo and conditioner and you will be much better off than something with keratin or protein in it. Also stop with all the keratin products that you used for after the treatment if you’re still using them they will not help you. Also, products that say something along the lines of it “repairs damage” you don’t have damage you’re causing it by using too much of what your hair doesn’t need. Use a PH bonder a hair serum or light oil only, and it will help a whole lot with frizz. Less is more. Another thing is you can get a filter for your shower head, the more calcium that’s in the water you use to wash your hair the more frizz you will have. With all this stuff you’re doing to your hair I also recommend using a clarifying shampoo once a month because I’m seeing a whole lot of product buildup on your hair. Also because you do have 2b hair, brushing is dry produces more frizz, just use a wet brush and get over your fear of brushing it wet please. It really doesn’t cause that much damage at all. Replace what you’re doing with simpler and less intense methods and your hair will be much better off.

@jenniferneal8457 4 жыл бұрын

MeganMegaAwesome word! That is the best advice (based on facts) that anyone could give her. Me: slow clap to standing ovation!

@guantanamo_bae8799 4 жыл бұрын

This comment needs more likes! Hope she sees it.

@monicamontoya6303 4 жыл бұрын

MeganMegaAwesome could you please give me your advice in my hair 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 plzzzz

@dilichan682 4 жыл бұрын

Hi, i'm 13 years old and I have 80cm long hair. Today I went to a hairdresser and I wanted to get a keratin treatment but the guy refused, he said it's chemical and not good for me. So my mom bought a keratin treatment to do it by yourself. Actually I wanted to straighten my hair. But it's also dry and frizzy, so can I do it? Or are those keratin treatments from the store shit? Have a nice day ( also, sorry for my bad english, i'm from germany :/)

@mariajoseherrera3865 4 жыл бұрын

@@dilichan682 dont do it yourself always get it done by a professional and if they said no then believe them!!!

@evanasmith4695 4 жыл бұрын

I’m suprised no one mentioned this. The Instagram girls she’s comparing her hair too are most likely wearing loads of hair extensions in order to achieve the “voluminous” look. Like there are very, very few woman who have natural hair like that . If she wants to get that hair she either needs a weave or invest in some good quality extensions. Just saying!

@wongs241 4 жыл бұрын

it's a shame that many young women are so influenced by what they see on Instagram, I feel that this girl took her obsession to a stressful point, and it was reflected in the health of her hair

@callouscloud 4 жыл бұрын

I do have naturally really thick and glossy hair but I don’t like myself with long hair(idk I like to be different I guess) I don’t need it and now I kinda feel selfish to just let that go to waste... I’m happy I could at least donate a bit of my useful hair to think pink.

@evanasmith4695 4 жыл бұрын

Hnemy Sui sooo true. It’s sad that girls are complaining their hair to such unrealistic things ! I’m blonde and I have thinner hair but I do so much upkeep

@minimalmiranda471 4 жыл бұрын

Lol. Google the HolisticHabits girl from KZfaq. You'll see real hair goals.

@st.peterfuneral2981 4 жыл бұрын

I have naturally straight and thick hair and I hated it so much, 4 years ago it was very poofy and frizzy (and it was medium length) and I absolutely hated it. I let my bangs and hair grow very long and got a straight perm. By 2018 it was very straight, long, thick, and *annoyingly heavy* so I chopped it to my shoulder. Now my hair is perfectly healthy and currently growing them out.

@amanimango Жыл бұрын

her voice is so calming

@earthysadventures 2 жыл бұрын

I have some advice that I don’t know if you have tried. But they worked great for me. 1. Try the matrix dry conditioner it made my hair soft and silky. 2. Try doing your conditioner first then shampoo. That actually made my hair feel so much healthier.3. Try a brush called a tangle teezer and it made my hair so de- tangled. Hope these tips help!

@stephaniecrossman2864 3 жыл бұрын

The amount of times I've watched this video is UNHEALTHY

@jolene2223 3 жыл бұрын

Stephanie Crossman same!

@siamte9769 3 жыл бұрын

Me too 😂

@miiniimiiniijpeg 3 жыл бұрын

Same

@spyfalls_ 3 жыл бұрын

Omg SAME

@ilybae6655 3 жыл бұрын

it's one of those videos that you can watch loads of times without getting bored of it 💅

@rubyarreola7222 4 жыл бұрын

i feel as if she should just leave her hair alone, she’s doing so much with her hair that i didn’t even know someone could do

@fl0oflower231 2 жыл бұрын

Getting a bob can help get thickness back. When my hair was thin and dry i saw to get a bob to help so i did thinking and it worked. It made my hair not only looked thicker but actually was thicker. I then grew out my hair and it was amazing but i hated brushing it so I got it cut into a bob. I hated it because it was not good for my face shape so i grew it out again down to under my shoulders. I got tired of how long it was so got a bob again and now i have a bob. My friend challenged me to grow it to the bottom of my back and now i am going from bob to super long hair☺️

@ms-yh4xj 2 жыл бұрын

i love this! it‘s also always been my dream to have thick waist length hair, and even though my hair is long my ends are dry but i would call them thick for the most part. i still wish they were thicker tho, especially the front hair. i also use deep conditioners, hair serums, leave ins… everything and yet my hair is still dry after showering. 1-2 days after washing my hair becomes soft, but right after showering it‘s dry and it irritates me. i feel you girl. one day we‘ll achieve our hair goal 🫶🏻

@presleehilliard1331 4 жыл бұрын

straight hair people: “ i seemed to have some frizz in strange places “ curly hair people: “ welcome to the jungle”

@drniravkumar9891 4 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@zayfee9784 4 жыл бұрын

Preslee Hilliard faxssss

@laurenkback8148 4 жыл бұрын

Yep my hair is a jungle before I brush it but it’s straight and frizzy and less curly when I brush it

@c4rol766 4 жыл бұрын

OH. My hair is more beyond than the jungle. lmaoo

@alizaerrr 4 жыл бұрын

Mine is not a jungle. It's healthy, glossy and I care for it and it's perfect when i wake up imaaoooo

@BaByteaa 4 жыл бұрын

She sounds like people who read the really happened stories on KZfaq

@user-it3vk9wx7z 4 жыл бұрын

teagans wurld you mean *ACTUALLY* happene

@lyramedici216 4 жыл бұрын

teagans wurld FR LMAO 😂💀

@miaa.hated. 4 жыл бұрын

IKR

@viannccaa 4 жыл бұрын

lol

@user-xf7mu7ub9d Жыл бұрын

I had a similar hair journey. My hair has always been very curly and very very frizzy and my mom was so obsessed with making it look straight and "European" that she started putting all the most bizzare things on it. Then she made me get multiple times treatments to make it straight and use hair products to lighten my hair color. And guess what? It was so damaged that it would get so many fairy knots (even big ones), it was extremely frizzy, it would fall out by just touching it, when it was wet it would smell really really bad and it would take DAYS for it to dry completely. More than 2 years passed by the last hair treatment I got and my hair is still low-key damaged (my hair still falls out by just passing my hand through it). I've decided to NEVER get any kind of treatment on my hair but hair products designed for my hair type and natural homemade hair masks.

@deecoles 2 жыл бұрын

It took me 2 years and a pandemic to grow my hair 20inchs to butt length, I do cut my hair myself since the covid thing its been working better than going to the salon. I am really sorry that you are through this struggle with your hair. I think that you are doing the right things to keep this in check. I have dark brown hair but I think we have the same hair type. My issue is that my hair falls out alot and the longer it gets the more it falls out. I started using henna on my as a mask and its been a the best move I made. Its doesnt fall out as much and my hair looks shiny and healthier too. I think you have curly proverbs in the UK that supplies henna products. Love your video and I will be watching and learning more from you. 🥰

@SaxandRelax 4 жыл бұрын

i diagnose you with having curly hair. sounds about right. when you tried the curly girl method, and you saw those results, that was your hair getting healthier. let’s face it, if you have curly hair, there is no way youll be able to keep it straight and healthy at the same time.

@majayahbattle 4 жыл бұрын

Her isn't no where near curly, wavy yes. Curly? No...

@SaxandRelax 4 жыл бұрын

wavy enough for her to be treating her hair different that she is.

@hezsurnarcissus1460 4 жыл бұрын

I tried the curly girl a little bit. I'm prob 2C. I killed it and decided to keep sulfates out, no heat, silk pillow cases, etc, after I got the big chop. I still use "bad shampoos" and hairspray from time to time still, but it does make a difference when you use the right products and methods! Oh and I went back to a brush cuz the pick made me feel scruffy, and my waves are still nice afterwards once I use texturizing spray and hair wax. I think it would be closer to 3a or 3b if I was consistent longet and let it heal. But.... Ok no excuses, will re commit. The whole idea was to treat it the way I should once it was chopped.

@imaginebeingyes.8529 4 жыл бұрын

My hairs wavy and ik I don't treat it the best but I avoid heat and everything now and will treat it better in the future for when I get more money 🖤

@raseenahmed1149 4 жыл бұрын

Her hair is naturally straight lol

@user-mm7ty4fz1q 4 жыл бұрын

She did all the things possible and I'm here just using shampo and conditioner

@thechosenpit 4 жыл бұрын

same 💀 i’m out here using cheap ass shampoo & conditioner. i’ve box dyed my hair so many times. used a ton of heat on it when i was younger. but my hair is still healthy & thick. the only “treatments” i’ve done on it is not wash my hair every day & i stopped using heat on it

@layal7161 4 жыл бұрын

Sarah Medrano same my hair is really nice and thick and healthy I use heat every month just for fun I never dyed it before but some people have different hair types ya know? :)

@user-mm7ty4fz1q 4 жыл бұрын

@@thechosenpit mee to, now it's kinda of damage but when I want to grow my hair I just stop to dye and I try to don't use to much heat. It look really amazing how she really put effort to have an pretty long hair I could never have this much patience to do all that things

@uakk9171 4 жыл бұрын

Yea keep rubbing it in her face 💀

@wuxian1 Жыл бұрын

i LOVE your look with side bangs! you look beautiful and STUNNING!

@Cami_P 7 ай бұрын

The more you treat your wavy hair like it’s straight the more it will get frizzy and unmanageable.

@noidea7058 4 жыл бұрын

Who watched the whole video when u don’t even care about ur hair

@muchachitachinita 4 жыл бұрын

I do hahahaha

@Katie-hz9nx 4 жыл бұрын

no idea I don’t even care but my hair is long maybe she just needs to leave it alone and she’ll be fine

@1Inked4Heart3 4 жыл бұрын

Lol

@Lenardiya 4 жыл бұрын

Ahahaha, yep

@PsychoPomqp 4 жыл бұрын

@datpsychobytch 4 жыл бұрын

YOU 👏🏼DON’T 👏🏼HAVE👏🏼 STRAIGHT👏🏼 HAIR.... I don’t care if you don’t “want” it you’ve got it. Start looking into methods to treat slightly wavy/curly hair and you’ll actually start seeing results.

@datpsychobytch 4 жыл бұрын

karen exactly! as we grow our hair color and texture changes. She needs to learn to except it. She’s doing more damage then good trying to hold on to a hair type she no longer has. She’s fighting a losing battle.

@adiarbiv4613 4 жыл бұрын

Michelle Ruiz accept

@datpsychobytch 4 жыл бұрын

Adi Arbiv imagine having enough time to look at my comment click on it to view responses look at what I wrote then proceed to type out a response only to to correct my word from except to accept....

@adiarbiv4613 4 жыл бұрын

Michelle Ruiz I was bored lol

@adiarbiv4613 4 жыл бұрын

e yay for correct grammar and spelling !

@SunBunz 2 жыл бұрын

That’s a touching story. I understand all the frustrations of the same problems with my hair, but I gotta tell ya, your natural hair is already beeeeeautiful. I envy the color, especially. I’m in my 30s, and I’m already getting grays. Ain’t no shame, though. I just braid my hair and put it in a bun pretty much every day, and only wash my hair every other day. Don’t hate what your have, own it and embrace it. Your body will thank you.

@AilaLChoppa Жыл бұрын

I always find myself coming back to this video.

@Babycorn815 4 жыл бұрын

I think sometimes we just have to accept our genetics 😔 thick hair isnt in your genetics

@rl4195 4 жыл бұрын

This is the best comment, she has nice wavy hair.

@dogedog2677 4 жыл бұрын

E yup.

@brookebenton8192 4 жыл бұрын

Genetics and childbirth:/

@melo9916 4 жыл бұрын

why accept genetics when we can spend thousands of dollars on hair products and obsess over something we will literally never have?

@hzydzy.1526 4 жыл бұрын

Yea when I was a bit younger I HATED how thick and how much volume my hair had I now love it❤️

@sarahhhx3 4 жыл бұрын

Btw you’re hair will never look perfectly straight, YOU HAVE WAVY HAIR, embrace yourself before you’re bald

@kirin1230 4 жыл бұрын

My thoughts exactly. I had straight hair when I was a toddler, but now it's getting wavier, and I love it! I find straight hair kinds boring (no offence), and I enjoyed having some natural texture. My hair is in a permanent state of frizz because I hadn't taken good care of it (I have the curliest hair in my family), so I got a pixie. I still use shampoo with sulfates and parabens n stuff (I'm sorry hair gods, I have sinned), but I'm taking better care it of. I want tobge natural products, I'm considering bloucleme, but most of them are about curl definition, but my hair gets worse when using these products. So, idk, I'll figure it out, I guess. 🤷

@banan9247 4 жыл бұрын

@@kirin1230 I used to have curly hair when I was little but now it's totally straight i wonder why the hair type changes when you grow up

@kirin1230 4 жыл бұрын

@@banan9247 I think it involves hormones changing with age. A person's hair colour and texture often change over time. I like knowing my hair is everchanging. It adds another layer of unpredictability to life. Currently, the hair follicles on the top half of my head are wavy, and the bottom half is dead straight. Not the individual strands are half curly half straight. Half of my head is curly and half it straight. It looks dumb, like I did a terrible job at curling or straightening. But I love it, it's unique. Hope you like your hair, not matter what it is.

@banan9247 4 жыл бұрын

@@kirin1230 oh thanks for explaining also I think that your hair sounds cute

@kirin1230 4 жыл бұрын

@@banan9247 Thanks. 😊 No problem, have a nice day.

@mandy123 Жыл бұрын

Hey 🙂 I don't know how happy you are with your hair now, but I thought this was my story. I went through the same years-long routine as you, with all the trimmings. And then I remembered a sentence... It may sound crazy. An old classmate had beautiful long hair that I envied. She once told me, "Don't concentrate too much on your hair, then it will quickly become long and beautiful!" Our energy flows to where we focus our attention. If we constantly nag our hair and doubt that it is not beautiful, then these thoughts have a negative effect on the hair and that is how it grows. So learn to love your hair and yourself as you are and don't put so much energy into your hair. You will see how fast it grows when other things become more important. 😉

@giovanasantos2708 2 жыл бұрын

I experienced something really similar with my straight hair. It was very long and shiny, and then I started growing it, taking extremely care of it, and it just got worst, it even got much more oily. I was really frustrated and talked to my hairdresser. She told me my hair was very sensitive and putting too much stuff was damaging the hair, because it was already shiny, soft and healthy naturally, all I had to do was protect it. It's been quite a battle, but my hair is recovering.

@plmolnwtr 4 жыл бұрын

Me with my bi-annual pixie cut: “why am I watching this?”

@Francesca-nj3jj 4 жыл бұрын

Same, I have littererally the shortest possible Bob haircut. It doesn't go over my ears, it just covers my head.

@nexus872 4 жыл бұрын

Same lol

@michellefish9235 4 жыл бұрын

Coconut oil

@Magdalena-gw4kj 4 жыл бұрын

Exact my thought just now... I went from waist length to pixie and yeah, now I'm gay

@Beephobic1013 4 жыл бұрын

same

@lucija4646 4 жыл бұрын

literally me but with skin... when i see girls that do no skincare and have glowy skin while i do everything omgggg!!!!!

@lucija4646 4 жыл бұрын

@Sibb_ Ss trueee!!! i would be eating green juice w healthy nuts and my friend McDonald's and i would still look horrible.i gave up and focused on school so i can get rich and pay laser treatments and expensive skincare hahahha

@kittenlover1888 4 жыл бұрын

Ikr 😒

@user-du2dq8li7k 4 жыл бұрын

I think it’s just genetics, your age and hormones. My skin goes through good and bad phases ( it’s quite bad atm😑) and I get facials although the facial lady (I don’t know the technical name😂) says I have very oily skin and that’s why the majority of the time my spots are in my t zone instead of on my cheeks.the best thing you can do is not change products too often, speak to a doctor and just accept your skin because acne happens to the best of us😊

@lucija4646 4 жыл бұрын

@@user-du2dq8li7k thanks Rachel 💛💛

@user-du2dq8li7k 4 жыл бұрын

lu 😘

@vickyskye8492 8 ай бұрын

I lost all my hair once from a bad relaxer which is a straightening treatment it took about two years to fully grow it back so I get it that its not just hair. I loved your video. But honestly I must say your "Cher" haircut is lovely on you and so healthy. You look just as pretty if not even better with the shorter hair :) You look fabulous

@knit-sewdelight8664 6 ай бұрын

This was a GREAT video. We feel your pain. Me and my daughters have done just about all you did to get nowhere. We decided to just cut a good amount, start over and get regular trims.

@h4set 4 жыл бұрын

who cares about having long hair if it's extremely damaged. it won't look good anyway

@MA-se1iv 4 жыл бұрын

h so true, I’d rather have short yet healthy looking hair

@ClaireEmilia 4 жыл бұрын

I have very long hair (down to my butt). And let me tell you: if your hair is that long it is nearly impossible to not have somewhat Split ends. It's totally normal

@danicestadtmuller2566 4 жыл бұрын

mine does

@BatmanPwnage 4 жыл бұрын

@Khansa Abbasi How do you poo! I always chop it before it reaches to my butt cause im always worried my hair will fall into the toilet or somehow my hair will unwind and fall into the toilet.

@BatmanPwnage 4 жыл бұрын

@Khansa Abbasi I tie my hair as well but sometimes the hairband snaps randomly. Thats what im worried about.