Yep. That’s New Orleans. And, I live here and Bourbon St bars are notorious for shady practices! PS: to anyone hearing this, let this be a PSA to never let anyone pour something in your mouth. I want to say anywhere, but for sure not in NO! You never know what might be in those drinks. Jessica, I’m sooooo glad you came out ok!!!

I want to say. Don’t you EVER stop coffee chats. I make myself laugh because one, I am genuinely laughing while you talk. Two, I find myself answering you, for example, you said stop if I’ve already told you this…I said you haven’t, go on. 😂😂😂 love ya

My husband and I do date night every month on the 19th of the month. We were married on the 19th of November and having a set date has helped us, especially with busy schedules. We will celebrate 44 years this year, and date nights are so important ♥️

That’s ridiculous. My husband doesn’t drink and would be pissed if someone poured something down his throat. No one should ever do that without consent.

I had a very similar experience in New Orleans with some friends recently. A woman approached us while we were walking on Bourbon street, not inside any particular club/bar, and offered the drink to my friend, no words could be heard and she never answered my friend’s question about price until after. She did the same thing, putting the butt of the shot in her mouth and then tipping it into my friend’s mouth. It was $20 a shot, for this little test tube of red or blue shots! Absolute madness. They didn’t ID either, and I’m used to being ID-ed, so I just thought it was so strange that they just assumed we were of age. We were really caught off guard with it all, and since my friend nor I carried cash, we were immediately pointed toward an atm nearby. Definitely strategic. Thankfully a friend of ours in the group covered the cost and we got out of there and stayed off Bourbon for most of the rest of the trip.

That New Orleans story JUST happened to me at a bachelorette party. Same thing offered the drink with no words but started with the bride and maid of honor so we thought FOR SURE it was free for them. Ended up being $30 a shot.

Hearing you talk about religion made me feel so much closer to you in so many ways. I love that you said you are searching and praying. You are faithful in the ways that matter in your daily life, praying and searching, without feeling the need to show anything outwardly and regardless of the outside religious world, and that is how I feel as well. Just thank for you sharing

I’m so glad you shared your story of breast feeding. I wish more people would embrace the fact that it doesn’t HAVE to be one way or another. You can breast feed and use formula. There is way too much stress put on moms already! You do what you can!

The movie Somewhere in Time with Christopher Reeve and Jane Seymour was filmed on Mackinac Island. One of my all time favorite movies. Love the Coffee Chats💗

New Orleans- I had a really similar story happen to me in Rome, except we were two women being bullied by the male owners of the restaurant to pay over 200 euros for a one course meal with a bottle of wine. We were conned into how much the main meal cost. We cried afterwards because we felt so stupid and so taken advantage of and really put a cloud over an otherwise lovely trip. I wish we'd had a guardian angel that day, so great to know there are protective people out there! I went to New Orleans over Mardis Gras in 2020 (just before it alll "kicked off") and we didn't have any kind of experience like that, luckily, it was all bizarre but wonderful. Just be careful wherever you go but don't let it put you off, the world is our beautiful lobster again!

My mom is what I've always called "build your own Christianity". She's nondenominational and picks and chooses what she likes and what makes her feel the closest to God. She's never been Catholic but does the rosary. We never went to church growing up because she's always believed you don't need to visit a specific location to talk to or honor God. Even though we don't share the same beliefs now that I've grown up, I've always admired that about her and been proud of her for that, for having a unique relationship with her religion that doesn't need a name or specific rules. She does what works for her. You and your husband have your beliefs and as long as you respect those beliefs, labels aren't important.

Jessica, loved your chat about religion. I’m 29 (no kids) but actually what really got me thinking deeply about the religion I’d believed in so long was the idea of having kids and raising them in that religion. Something about bringing kids into things made me really take a step back and consider what I actually believe to be good values and what’s unnecessary or harmful. I love those kinds of deep thoughts, that’s what life is about!

Because of this video my kitchen got cleaned tonight. 😂 I was dreading doing it, and basically told myself if there was a new video to watch from one of my favs then I would push myself…and there was your video filled with funny stories, life updates, etc! Your videos always make my day/week better, the genuineness, openness, and the love you have for your family is so wonderful to see.

I remember being devastated when I couldn’t breast feed my twins. It was like the death of this fantasy I had where I would be rocking them in my new rocking chair, bonding with them each in those quiet moments like only a nursing mother could. My Great-Grandma came to visit and said we were so blessed to have the option of formula. She shared that her mother lost 2 babies because she couldn’t produce enough milk for them. When she, once again had a baby she couldn’t nurse, the neighbor showed up with a mama goat who’d lost her kid. Apparently the goat milk did the trick and she had a total of 11 children, my Great-Grandma Mary being the oldest of 9 brothers & one sister. I still got to bond with my daughters during feeding time, I just had to shift my perspective a bit. It really is sad how much pressure we put on ourselves as new moms.

I want to tell you how much I appreciate your transparency about post partum depression. As someone who is currently going through it, it’s comforting to know that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Even if I can’t see it yet. Thank you Jessica!!!

That New Orleans story is crazy. So glad that couple rescued you, there are good people out there! , We also say Reesies. Everytime!😁

“It all happened so fast!!” Lol Pam explaining to the IT guy 😂😂🤣🤣

I remember when I had my kid, for the first couple months, I could just look at him and tear would just pour down my face for no reason. I couldn’t explain it, I felt so down, so helpless, so anxious, so scared, there was so much emotion all packed in me, and I couldn’t deal with it. It was so sad. I appreciate your share about your PPD so much, it helped me understand myself and my life, and to move on. Love you.

THANK YOU FOR MENTIONING STORY WORTH! I was looking for a gift for my grandmother for her 89th birthday. This is perfect

Love your coffee chats sm, I always watch them when getting ready in the morning and it feels like catching up with a friend!

My husband (that religion), and mine (a calmer little less rigid one). Rough experiences tainted it for him as well. It's tough but I think if you share morals and values you are good!

Sooo cool!!! I live in Ludington!! I've lived in Michigan nearly my whole life. I love hearing you talk so highly of these beautiful Michigan cities! Mackinac is one of my most favorite places to visit! The UP is incredible everywhere you go too! Yayyy! ❤

Sitting down to watch with my iced coffee while my 6wk old and toddler nap. I was so excited when you announced you were pregnant when I was because I knew I’d get to watch your pregnancy journey along with experiencing mine. It just dawned on me that as long as you’re making videos and I’m watching KZfaq we’ll be like friends always going through similar life stuff with daughters the same age 🥰💖

This New Orleans story is absolutely crazy. I’m almost 21 the summer, and I know I would feel exactly how you did in that situation.

Jess!!! That same thing happened to us in NOLA!! They just shove it in your mouth and force you to pay. You just have to walk away, its so frustrating. My husband said some choice words and just left. There are so many cons in New Orleans you have to watch out.

Such a good suggestion re gift cards. I've noticed from various things that the US has a much more positive thing around giving gift cards than here in the UK. I've always loved them, and I think especially for people in your life/professionals etc who aren't paid well/well enough, they can really be a lovely treat even for small things like a coffee at Starbucks, target treat etc. Felicity is so gorgeous! She looks so much like Gigi it's so cute

Just started this video and I’m SO thrilled it’s such a long one! I thoroughly enjoy long ones just “hanging out” with you 🥰

Thank you for talking about postpartum depression and shedding light on something so many people experience. You are such an inspiration to me. I love all your videos and love watching your beautiful little family 🥰 Thanks for lighting up my days with your great content!

I visited NOLA with my husband in 2019 and nothing like that happened to us thankfully. We had such an amazing time. We love the food/culture/people. I hope you and Tyler give it another shot!😄

When my children were young the school they went to did not have a lot of extra money. We started a teacher wish list for their classrooms games flash cards out door games so the teachers wouldn’t have to buy it themselves. It became a great idea and it is useful items!

When you said you feel like you are friends with your favorite KZfaqrs it explained exactly how I feel towards you! Followed you for years and literally find comfort in your videos. I truly feel like we would be such great friends in every day life🥰😂 so much love for you, Jess!🤍

I’m a Michigander so I loved hearing you talk about your experience there! Michigan’s Adventure is so fun! You have to go sometime.

Happy birthday GiGi! Hope you guys are having a fun day xx

Okay. The New Orleans story. I live and used to work in the Florida equivalent of the French Quarter (Ybor City in Tampa). Yes that was a scam. You were targeted because you were young and more because you were obviously tourist. Locals in areas like that can spot a tourist a mile away and some will sadly scam people because of that. Yes that bouncer was gonna get a cut and if there was alcohol at all in those shots it was probably schnapps which has very little alcohol and is dirt cheap. I've watched many bartenders up charge tourist double or more on very basic drinks. The club I worked at didn't do it but regulars would often get free drinks because they spent a lot and supported the club. If this happens to anyone reading this, make them call the cops. 99% of the time they will fold because the cops usually side with the tourist, especially if you are not drunk.

Love how open and honest you are on your channel

I'm born, raised and still live in the New Orleans area and I always tell anyone not from the area to be super cautious when in the city, let alone in the quarter or on Bourbon. It's literally a free for all of shady and dangerous activities. It's crazy to think that for us locals, or at least for me, grew up going to the French Quarter since I was a baby and was bar and club hopping on Bourbon since the age of 14 and have just always known what to beware of there. As an adult now, Bourbon's just not my scene, but I will always love the mystery and history of the quarter and just love walking around.

That happens so much in New Orleans!! I always tell people do not take ANYTHING from those people not behind the bar. So happy that man came to your aid and paid, so sweet!

I absolutely love the UP of Michigan. My family used to go up every single summer for years. Harbour Springs is my personal favorite bur I also love Mackinac Island too. So glad to hear someone on KZfaq talking about that region! ❤

I love coffee chats! Glad to hear you are doing well and that Felicity is thriving 🌸💕

Please keep over explaining! We all love you for it, and I love learning from you and your stories/experiences. Just keep being you Jess!

I grew up in a specific religion and I don’t always agree with everything either but also enjoy, appreciate and even love many aspects of that religion. I think one thing to consider is I don’t leave that religion because people like me who are the ones who can help bring small but important changes to a religion. It does happen, it has happened. No religion is perfect. They are run by humans who make human errors. But finding a church in your religion can be helpful sometimes.

My two sons attend catholic schools. I really like it and my son that is now 21, he thinks twice before doing something. The habit to donate, give to the need, to pray, to help and also do community hours that is what I like about it.

Holy cow the picture of Felicity smiling looks just like GiGi!

I love the New Orleans story ..love how your makeup turned out the eyeshadow looks beautiful...

Yes this happened to us last summer at a bachelorette party with the stupid test tubes! Offered it and didn’t say a price!!!

Been waiting for this! So good to see your smile! 44 minutes! Will take me right to the end of my "work" day!

I’m so upset those people got the $50!!! They were wrong!! My principled nature hates that!

Grew up Catholic like you, still practicing. I was always given the opportunity to question and test my faith and I was so blessed to be surrounded by teachers (homeschooled and not) and parents who welcomed the questioning and provided resources for me to research. I definitely went through a period of questioning, but my Philosophy and Logic teacher in HS showed me Aquinas’ five proofs for the existence of God and let me digest it, which was a huge watershed moment in my faith journey. Studying natural law and a lot of the ancient philosophers (and church fathers, whaddup St. Gregory of Nazienzen who wrote theological poetry about feeling like an imposter and depression that still hits fantastically today. And shoutout to Thomas Merton’s No Man is an Island which changed everything for me in College) really helped me understand what I believed and why. Hoping and praying for the best for you on your journey. I fully believe that those who earnestly seek truth will find it.

What a crazy New Orleans story! So great that the couple defended & helped you two out

Hey Jess. My husband, father in law and I were in Indianapolis this past weekend for the Indy 500 race. We left Friday morning from Tulsa Oklahoma which was a long 10 hour drive but was so worth it. We had a really great time! We went downtown Indy on Saturday to the Canal walk. It was so beautiful down in that area. There was over 300k people at the race on Sunday. I’ve never seen so many people in one place it was pretty crazy but a lot of fun! Then another 10 hour drive back home on Monday. Hope you and your family had a great time on your trip. Much love girl. ❤❤❤❤

I gave Storyworth as a gift to both of my parents for Christmas last year bc of your recommendations. They loved it and it snowball to being gifted all over the family over the past year. Thank you so much!

Omg the New Orleans story had my jaw DROPPED. These are my favourite videos of yours, love when you're just chatting. Love from The Netherlands. X

Jess uploads always make my day! ☀️

my heart was pounding with anxiety listening to your New Orleans story 😭😂 that man was a saint !! thank goodness he was there ! ❤️

Jessica, I’m so glad that you’re doing so well :) Happy for you 🥰

I'm going to leave this here for you because I saw your video. My wife was playing your channel on the TV in our living room. I sincerely hope you read this: I hear this all the time. The part about growing up, stepping back and taking time to examine your religion. That is wisdom. That is intelligence. It is necessary. I'm very familiar with the concept. I want to say to you, when it comes to religion, don't pick and choose what fits you..... crazy right? Don't pick and choose what fits YOU. Don't look JUST for things you like or JUST for things you agree with. SEARCH FOR TRUTH. Because the religion that's going to impact you, the most profoundly and in in the best way possible, is the one that opens your mind to newfound TRUTHS. Many subdivisions of religions have become like social media. They come with an algorithm to figure out what what keeps the audience entertained. Just like any show, it can't go on without an audience. What to say, what not to say, the aesthetic, the mental impact the musical has on you.(yes, 100% for a fact music is used to achieve mental responses which is psychologically accurate) Any congregation who's services are currated for the member enjoyment.... is full of lies. And if you choose one such as this you will never fully agree with the message the same way you will never fully trust someone who always tell you what YOU want to hear. TRUTH might make you think. TRUTH might make you smile. TRUTH might sting a little, or maybe alot.... It's not always comfortable but it's always HONEST. TRUTH is full of LOVE, but it also DOES NOT waver in the face of current poplur opinions. It is unchanging & timeless. Some of the sweetest tasting things in life are bad for your body. TRUTH is like fruits and vegetables. Sometimes it tastes wonderful, and sometimes it's bitter, but it's always going to nurish you better than anything else. Don't just find something you like or something that entertains you. We have music concerts, live shows, and TV for that. If your considering something like religion, that is for the benefit of your EVERLASTING SOUL... find something you can ACTUALLY BELIEVE IN beyond the shadow of a doubt.. You are beautiful, you are human, you are loved. You deserve truth above all else. I'm not going to tell you in this comment what I myself believe truth is and where to find it. Everyone has their version of right. But I strongly believe that if you're truly looking, you WILL find it. Not someone's version of right, but what is actually TRUE. Sincerely & with all the best wishes in the world, ///Josh///

This is the first time I have heard your coffee chat. Really enjoyed it. My husband and I lived in South Bend area for 18 years and he retired in 2020 and we moved back to Missouri. I miss the snow and going to Michigan also. We loved Lake Michigan and went often as we were only 40 minutes away. Blessings to you and your family.

That New Orleans story is wild! Good for you and Tyler for sticking up for yourselves! At 21 yo I also would have been super tearful and not known what to do. What a sweet family for having your back!

Isn’t it interesting that we feel attached or friends with the KZfaqrs we watch on a regular basis?! It’s something that wasn’t experienced while I was growing up without the internet…that’s for sure 😂😂 Anyways, I just wanted to let you know that I agree with your observation and I feel like you and I could be friends 🤍🤍🤍 I truly enjoy your personality and your laugh is contagious 😉

Still here Jess! Loved this talk and it’s so relevant. Thanks for sharing all your mom experiences, it’s very appreciated! You never over share lol I cling to every word!

Love this and I’ve missed you even though I’ve seen you! So nice to hear how you are doing in real time. My boys are 5 and 7 now and I remember how rough that first year was after my youngest. So happy you are doing well!💗

One of my favorite early memories is when my aunt and uncle brought me to the navy pier childrens museum! I'm sure its changed a bit in the 20ish years since we went but I know if you end up taking Gigi you all will have a great time ☺

Love the chats! Your makeup looks beautiful. Love that foundation on you.

I live and work in Holland, right on Lake Michigan and we LOVE IT! It’s so cool to hear you talk about Dutch village, I grew up going there and to Michigan’s Adventure.

Your videos seriously make my day better. Love you so much!

Lol, love your New Orleans story! Also so inspiring for us to all be like that sweet family who came to your aid.

Hi and thanks for the chat today💕 so great to see your smiling face!

That’s the most New Orleans story EVER!!

Thank you for your honesty about religion! I grew up Mormon and fully left about 5 years ago and I've never been happier, but it definitely has tainted my experience with spirituality/religion in any regard. I relate to Tyler on that! My friends and family are much more spiritual than I am and it's hard sometimes to not match but it's nice to hear that a healthy couple can navigate their differences. It's also nice to hear other adults that are searching for what they believe in!

You really made me forget I was watching KZfaq. I felt like I was transported and you was just talking to me about your experience 🌺

I know what you mean about being raised on religion then you get older and don't agree on everything. I grew up Catholic, for me I just never felt anything and thought it was me. I went to Catholic school, CCD, and Church. I am 62 and when I was around 50 I went seeking God again. I found a non-denominational, Bible believing, spirit filled church and it was all the difference for me. I think it's the relationship with God that he wants! It doesn't matter what denomination you are! I used to fight with depression and since I figured out it's a relationship that is what matters my life is so much better. I hope this helps you!

Watching this while in labour on oxytocin after being induced over 24 hours ago❤️ helping keep me calm thank you!

I love your brother's blog! I live in Massachusetts and he knows more about this area than I do! It's so neat to learn stuff I should know!!

Michigan subscriber here!! Loved hearing about your trip! It’s funny, as a Michigander, to hear about your trip to places that I’ve spent my life going lol.

That nail color is everything Jess!

Loved the video Jess it put me in such a good mood ☺️ thank you

I would love know about your family Irish history. Sounds like a great story time

I'm SO glad you mentioned Traverse City. I was actually looking to vacation there and would LOVE to hear your recommendations on what to do there, where to eat, etc.

Hi from Grand Rapids, MI! I love your coffee chats! 🖤

Wow that New Orleans story. I was on the edge of my seat lol! That was craziness!!!

I’d be pissed if someone poured a drink in my mouth without asking! And then to give you guys crap for not paying? I’d be livid but, also at that age definitely would’ve been terrified to stick up for myself. Oof what a nightmare.

Our journies with our babes are so so similar! I had horrible ppd/ppa with my oldest, sobbed when I couldn’t nurse and when I bought formula for the first time, I now realize that my oldest was for SURE colicky. And then my youngest came along and was completely opposite! I nursed full time but gave formula here and there and I felt so much more relaxed about it all. Thank you so so so much for speaking out about ppd ❤️. I remember I was going through it around the same time as you and it’s SO hard. Much love ❤️❤️❤️.

Love these videos, Jessica! Feels like catching up with a dear friend. Sending you and your family lots of love! 💙

I love your videos they really inspire me to get ready everyday and feel good about myself. Thank you 🙏

These are my favorite videos from you! I can't wait to see your travel vlog from this trip because I'm from Muskegon, currently living in Holland and we just went up to Traverse City mid- May for vacation. 😂

I just wanted to touch on your point that sometimes as kids you may have blindly accepted certain things but now you’re actively aware that you disagree with other points and I just related SO much and it made me feel seen. So thank you 🥰

My daughter is 14mo and 6 days after I gave birth I ended up in the hospital and needed heart surgery due to a rare pregnancy related issue. Because of meds I then had to be on I could no longer breastfeed and it put me in a really bad place. I had remembered your video when you had talked about it with Gigi and it helped me more than you'll ever know. You always think you overshare but you saved me in that moment when I rewatched it and I really wanted to thank you for that. You are an amazing person. I live in Chicago, if you come here to visit I hope you have a wonderful time and let us know how Gigi likes the museum, haven't done that yet with our daughter. Also...Bob's Burgers The Movie...are you and Tyler as excited as my husband and I are?! 😄

My Michigan loving heart is so happy! Love that you guys love coming to Michigan!!! I love this state 💗

I’m so excited to see a vlog featuring my home state! Not many people visit Michigan as to most people it doesn’t seem like a vacation state. I can’t wait!!

I grew up in Michigan! Your stories about Mackinac Island & Michigan's Adventure are bringing back core memories from my childhood!

In New Orleans they will also put tow signs up so high on buildings that you can't see them, they will tow you, and then charge you $500. And the police will not get involved. My husband and I were both 18 and on our honeymoon... Had to have my parents wire us money.

There is a gas station on Mackinac! Most of the year round residents use snow mobiles all winter and need access to gas. And there are a few emergency vehicles and the Fort/state park owns at least one maintenance truck - or did 13 years ago when I was a summer employee ❤️❤️. One of my favorite places on earth and I love hearing you rave about it!

I’m from south west MI and let me tell you, it’s so easy to forget how beautiful it is here. I grew up across the railroad tracks from Lake Michigan and run a restaurant 10 mins down the road that’s even closer to the beach. We get so many travelers and it just reminds you that we’re a beautiful vacation spot.

As someone who went to a Christian church and school, I understand how it can make things difficult. It's good to take apart what you believe and figure out what's your own personal belief, and leave behind the idiosyncrasies and possibly hypocrasies of past experiences. I serve in my local church as the worship leader and also teach at a Christian school, so I have definitely had to come to terms with things. The important thing is that the truth is real, not just 'real to you' in the postmodern sense, but that we search for the actual truth. If God is real and the message of salvation is true, then that is a foundation you can stand on. I believe He is real and is working in our lives, and has made a way for us to know Him and be with Him in eternity. I hope you find Who you're looking for and find the truth on your searching journey. 💕🌱🌿

I love this type of video as well. Glad yalls first trip went well. I know y'all will get to make it down to Florida as a family of 4 as long as the hurricanes stay away.😬❤

I am so happy you finally shared the New Orleans story! It's such a good one!! And maybe it'll help someone out.. New Orleans doesn't seem to change much... haha Also, thank you for sharing about your religion 'stuff', I'll call it. It's not usually an easy topic, but you made it more conversational and less about the particulars. I think it's so fair to still be exploring and questioning and having an open mind with some grounded beliefs. Growth is essential. And, I'm a mom of 3 and had PPD with my first and a lot of it stemmed from "failing" at breast feeding. And then had 2 that breastfed for a whole year each. All we want to do is feed our babies and not get judged for either way it ends up being... you're a wonderful person and a great mom! Thank you for sharing so much of your life!! ~a devoted subscriber

happy 4th birthday gigi!! so crazy to think she’s 4 already ♥️

My dad worked on Mackinac Island when I was a kid. I spent summers up there. I absolutely loved it. 🥰

I really appreciate you touching on the religious piece. My husband and I are definitely on the same page with a lot of it but grew up and completely opposite homes where his family was very religious and mine was not. I feel like a broken record when I say we are just trying to figure things out so it’s so good to hear you say that.

Also Chicago summer is the best! We have such a short live summer but so much to do! 💕