Iyanla: Fix My Fatherless Family | Full Episode

Iyanla: Fix My Fatherless Family | Full Episode | OWN

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2 ай бұрын

Iyanla meets two brothers who say their absent father kept an explosive family secret from them for almost four decades. Iyanla is challenged to help them on the path of forgiveness before their relationship is destroyed forever.
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@Tayjahbaby8371 2 ай бұрын

They get old, and sick and want forgiveness...whatever!!!

@s.b9679 2 ай бұрын

YEP just like they went around saying in The color purple interviews forgiveness this forgiveness that NO, now If and when I'm ready to forgive you esp if something that was done to me like Celie oh honey you can forget that I'll forgive you from a distance but I'mma for sure move on as well esp if I found love like Celie and shug

@Drando1989 2 ай бұрын

Many of them end up dying alone. I read an article about “Hospice Kids” and honestly got more infuriated with the absentee parents who expect the children they abandoned to be their care givers in adulthood! It’s audacious!

@rwariahe 2 ай бұрын

A must watch for those absent husbands and dads. It always ends up like this

@butterpecan1938 2 ай бұрын

ALWAYS!!!

@nyleac4389 2 ай бұрын

@@Drando1989I just tried to google it with not luck. Was the article called hospice kids or should I try typing something else?

@s.ariane260 2 ай бұрын

That middle child gon keep it real, EVERY TIME!

@brianal7143 2 ай бұрын

He's been through some things you can tell. He's not buying the pity party his dad is selling 😂

@toschajeffries8833 2 ай бұрын

Yea and the father knows that, that's why he did not embrace him like the other 2.

@HarperSophia 2 ай бұрын

Fr loll. Love him.

@monicagomez4616 2 ай бұрын

I love him for it.

@mariacollinsthomas8706 2 ай бұрын

Yep

@livia8227 2 ай бұрын

This dad is very theatrical. No tears actually dropped. I have a feeling that he is a narcissist. He probably can’t even truly feel emotions

@monicagomez4616 2 ай бұрын

I noticed that too. No tears not even down his cheeks. I wonder just how sincere he was knowing he has a history of lying to his own sons.

@tianacameron9456 2 ай бұрын

Yep. No sympathy for the man…only the sons

@Geminicricketi 2 ай бұрын

I felt bad for him. Everyone trauma dumped on him. Iyanna thought she was talking to her dad the nerve of the deadbeat dad son to pass judgment. No one understood. If he such a weak man and horrible father, y did their mom have children with him? You can tell she is what kept him away. Low key believe the baby out the window thing cuz although it’s wrong, y is that the only way to make the mom listen? That’s extreme combativeness.

@Geminicricketi 2 ай бұрын

N it seems like he wanted to be there. That’s y he sent money. The mom was that intolerable

@DarlingWheresthecoffee 2 ай бұрын

Exactly! Not a single tear dropped. What a manipulator

@mele9131 2 ай бұрын

“Have you ever kissed a dollar bill?” Iylana has the best phrases.

@HarperSophia 2 ай бұрын

She really does!!

@eightwone8216 Ай бұрын

"...played basketball with a check ?!" Ooooh ..... Iyanla will set you straight each time.

@Unpopular0pinions106 2 ай бұрын

So basically he had a stroke, realized he has nobody and now wants to make amends

@mariaseidi4023 2 ай бұрын

Exacly ,when they need you they came around

@muzimthembu453 2 ай бұрын

Pretty much.

@Geminicricketi 2 ай бұрын

How do you did you come to the conclusion? Seems like he was always trying to be there.

@mariaseidi4023 2 ай бұрын

@@Geminicricketi trying ? You are there or not

@caylawilliams 2 ай бұрын

@@Geminicricketihe never tried it’s not hard to be there for your kids !

@daisyboafo6778 2 ай бұрын

I’m very simple minded, I see “Iyanla fix my life”, I click.

@here2laff397 2 ай бұрын

Don’t even read the title, just clicking right on here lmao SAME 😭

@lavernemusic 2 ай бұрын

Same

@zuritribe4844 2 ай бұрын

YUP!!!! WERE ADDICTS!

@venitajackson556 2 ай бұрын

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🗣️🗣️🗣️👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

@specialkay4329 2 ай бұрын

Me too. Our dysfunctional society wore her tf down.

@delorasledge2492 2 ай бұрын

I love how Jubba(?) embraces his brothers and sits with his arms around them...instinctively protecting his little brothers and being much more of a man than their dad.

@karenmcgee1869 2 ай бұрын

Yessssss! Loved it❤!

@helpkelp3595 Ай бұрын

Yess it's like you would've never known they haven't met each other prior to this

@Fantasy-wp3wm 2 ай бұрын

All 3 of these sons, despite this Father's absence turned out way better than he did.

@Qeqezwisdom 2 ай бұрын

Uhh did you miss the drug addict and in and out of jail for being a violent criminal part?

@variousJnames 2 ай бұрын

That's a given. But they've turned away from that life and Juba is a father to his children who is present. Still better than their Dad. @Qeqezwisdom

@Jacobytru 2 ай бұрын

@@QeqezwisdomUsually fatherless homes or single parent children goes down the wrong path because they didn’t have the proper guidance from healthy parents. So I can understand it. They are coping with it in ways by using drugs, going to jail and or risky sexual behavior.

@Geminicricketi 2 ай бұрын

@@Jacobytruif only the mom didn’t push him away. I was shocked that she got no blame. They piled on that dude so bad. Sick

@jauhwilliams8618 2 ай бұрын

@@Geminicricketieven if the mothers pushed him out of their lives romantically, it was still Mr.Houstons job to be there for this children. No excuses; HE FAILED AS A FATHER! Not the women.

@PrettyColorsDoe 2 ай бұрын

I don’t believe the dad is genuine. I barely if at all saw any tears while he cried. He was also quite theatrical. It’s always all about him.

@suezettemills5336 2 ай бұрын

I soo agree. He's a deadbeat dad. Period.

@brenale_heartsJesus 2 ай бұрын

Yeah I noticed not a single tear in his tantrums. Just a lot of yelling and excuse making.

@robertcurry4832 2 ай бұрын

Right! If he never had a stroke and was living a healthy happy life, the boys would be the last thing on his mind.

@nataliemscrzysxycoolharris 2 ай бұрын

I felt the very same as you.

@PrettyColorsDoe 2 ай бұрын

@@robertcurry4832 exactly. he doesn’t want to be alone during such daunting health challenges. hes also going to need some help now that he’s older. His body has forced him to slow down otherwise he’d still be in the streets MIA

@313teejay 2 ай бұрын

Did the stroke prevent tears from falling???😭😂

@tsugrad13 2 ай бұрын

😅😅😅

@Helen-fg5pz 2 ай бұрын

😢😂😂😂

@saidimulengima367 Ай бұрын

😂😂u make me laugh louder

@bellebella6267 Ай бұрын

I can't breathe 😅😅😅😅😅😅

@nishac359 Ай бұрын

I almost choked 😅😂😂😂

@here2laff397 2 ай бұрын

When those brothers met each other and hugged !!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️🥹🥹🥹🥹

@karenmcgee1869 2 ай бұрын

Heart felt!

@TheBaba1920 24 күн бұрын

The dad can go cause the brothers got it

@butterpecan1938 2 ай бұрын

Hmm that father seems manipulative. When he senses that he is going to receive negative feedback, he becomes overly dramatic.

@stephaniethames8784 2 ай бұрын

These older males who weren’t in their kids lives will never have a peaceful ending. It’s disgusting

@victormmendie494 2 ай бұрын

Every form of brokenness somewhat begins with a dysfunctional home. I applaud Iyanya’s intrepidity on this one.

@MaryjaneLove 2 ай бұрын

. -&&& ii totally agree . . ❤

@brenale_heartsJesus 2 ай бұрын

Absolutely

@leilaford7469 2 ай бұрын

Very powerful Episode. It made me so happy to know they’re trying to build relationships

@Bema12699 2 ай бұрын

Sean just wanted an apology and for their dad to be accountable. He stood on business!

@hunnibee3337 2 ай бұрын

The way the older brother embraced his brothers ❤❤❤😭🤧

@MuurPortal 2 ай бұрын

The middle son Chon...love his refusal to accept bs

@BRIDGETUHMYEAH 2 ай бұрын

Isam (forgive me if I didn’t spell his name right), is very gentle and has a nice energy about him 🙏

@The2headedmonster 2 ай бұрын

Thank u so much !

@thomasthetans Ай бұрын

He really does have a gentle energy to him which I love!

@Exxtol1 2 ай бұрын

It's crazy how even when we're adults, even if our lives our perfect, we can't stop thinking about the love we never had from either or both parents.

@yawfraser 2 ай бұрын

True

@HarperSophia 2 ай бұрын

Facts. Never really grow up fully. Inner child stopped growing.

@Geminicricketi 2 ай бұрын

You can stop. It’s called healing trauma. My mom was in jail most of my life. Raised by my dad. As an imperfect human how can u not understand the life of your parents? I am thankful my mom did not neglect us or kill us. She was a great mom til I was 6. She gave us to foster care. Told no one. My dad always tried to come around n she was always mean to him. Even forcing us to leave our bikes in a field because my dad bought them. Most single mom’s toxic like that. But anyway, Like adoption giving up a child not easy but necessary compared to forcing me not my sisters to struggle beside her. She fell into drugs n been in the streets til this day. 🤷🏽‍♀️ she not tired yet. Still love her. Some not built to be parents but have 0 guidance on how to be a good 1. Be understanding. Not resentful

@autobotdiva9268 2 ай бұрын

Once a therapist tells you its ABUSE... you stop.

@Geminicricketi 2 ай бұрын

@@autobotdiva9268 I would be careful, selecting the therapist. Most of them hate men are on the left politically. They advise you in a way that may not always be the best.

@intombenhle 2 ай бұрын

One thing I've learnt from watching these episodes is that a father plays a huge role in the children's upbringing.

@karinec.2131 2 ай бұрын

He’s just looking for someone to take care of his old crusty behind..it’s pretty obvious. I would pretend I didn’t even know him.

@Geminicricketi 2 ай бұрын

Y’all all so mean. No compassion. Sheesh

@bigananikagiso6413 Ай бұрын

@@Geminicricketiwe've seen it happen time and again, its nothing new, the dad has 3 sons to send his medical bills and talk about his issues, as shown in the vid when he kept talking about himself

@briasworld8 8 күн бұрын

💯

@stephsays-503 2 ай бұрын

I’m glad I’m not the ONLY one who realized that man didn’t drop a SINGLE tear but did all that hollering, Tubi needs to reach out to him expeditiously because... 😂😂😭😭😭😭💀🤦🏾‍♀️

@annetteodanga 2 ай бұрын

🤣🤣thats the comment i was looking for

@ladyroyalsupremest 2 ай бұрын

I hollered at Tubi.

@ljackson24 13 күн бұрын

I needed this laugh. 💯😂😂😂

@Shazzy1228 2 ай бұрын

I honestly dont believe the dad is truly sorry....

@brianal7143 2 ай бұрын

He's not! He just wants his sons to get over it and help him. He's the same deadbeat guy as when they were growing up unfortunately

@smustipher 2 ай бұрын

He's sorry for how his screw ups affect HIM, not the damage it inflicted on his children.

@joyceevans1860 2 ай бұрын

Hes not crying! because theres not one tear in dad's eyes😮

@TSBOFRLM 2 ай бұрын

Not one tear in his eyes because narcissists unfortunately don’t have a true emotional center…the father needs a LOT OF THERAPY!

@HarperSophia 2 ай бұрын

And you know he won’t lol. Insufferable.

@TSBOFRLM 2 ай бұрын

@@HarperSophia Right

@kareembertrand5163 2 ай бұрын

Shawn is not having any of this lol...his face was like "Bruhh"!!!

@adhd875 2 ай бұрын

The dad has no tears at all while the son eyes is full of tears rollingdown them cheeks , the dad is so full of drama

@michmex220 2 ай бұрын

Indeed he is so full of it, and because of that reason I believe that it was in his sons best interest that the father wasn’t around in their life’s , because he most likely would have ruined theses three beautiful men’s life’s even more had he been in their life’s when they were small…. Because it’s apparent to me that this man has always been so full of himself and always so full Of drama!! And all though they can’t see it the father actually did his sons a huge favor by not being around as a drama filled daddy as they were children!

@YouCantSeeMee4 2 ай бұрын

As a fatherless daughter I hope my father comes across dis

@Geminicricketi 2 ай бұрын

Y dont u have your dad? What does your mom say?

@sherei9530 2 ай бұрын

I pray your situation informs your future actions. May no child of yours experience the same. Lord, send this woman a loving man who will show his dedication to her before expanding their family. Keep her protected during her compassionate wait for her father. Blessings in the name of Jesus, amen.

@brooklynbeastnycforlife 2 ай бұрын

I can never get enough of LYANLA

@sibusisombatha1846 2 ай бұрын

Neither do I

@turquoiseturtle7664 2 ай бұрын

IYANLA

@GodLovesYouAllTheTime 2 ай бұрын

@@turquoiseturtle7664typos happen. My GAWD!

@robertcurry4832 2 ай бұрын

Same 💯💯💯

@karenmcgee1869 2 ай бұрын

I think we all love her! Now that she's no longer doing ministry doing these shows, the past shows are even more precious.

@nicoladavis580 2 ай бұрын

Those men are better off without that man in their lives. He still has not genuinely apologized to his sons.

@ArlisaWilliams-xn7zg 2 ай бұрын

He’s rehearsed what he was going to say!

@mobrk6036 Ай бұрын

and when nobody else got the script he got mad

@sheilap9854 2 ай бұрын

I Cried 😭When Chon Was telling the Story Of When he Was About to Take his Life And Heard the Voice of his Mom! I Hope they're All Doing Well❤

@keiarapayne3206 2 ай бұрын

The dad passed

@livia8227 2 ай бұрын

My dad had his troubles. But one thing I can say about him is that he was at home every night. Him just being there made me feel safe. My husband is an amazing active father. Seeing him as a father has made me love him and respect him so much. My heart breaks for children that don’t experience that love from their dad.

@mariaseidi4023 2 ай бұрын

Exacly ,now at 50 i realize i had wonderful parents,yes they were not perfect but i hear só many horror stories from other parents,abousing their own children phisically, emocionally,mentally or even sexually ,many people should not have children ...specially in the black comunity ,we are already in a very precariouse situation why bring more children in this or at least have One ONLY or Two max...

@TheUAProdigy 2 ай бұрын

If she held my face like she did Sean, I'd be bawling.

@HarperSophia 2 ай бұрын

Same. Had to rewind.

@chillbrutha82 2 ай бұрын

"I was tired for no reason." That hit me hard.

@faraboverubies98 2 ай бұрын

Those young men after all they have been through have tender hearts and are so handsome and kind. I hope the best for each of them. Also, I really like each of their names.

@smustipher 2 ай бұрын

Thank goodness they came out ok in spite of it all, hats off to their mothers and whatever family was supporting them while the father was off doing.....whatever🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

@user-fk7yb4zg6z 2 ай бұрын

The father dragging stuff like being so extra lmfaoo for nun

@CosmicJournee 2 ай бұрын

A lot of health issues come from emotional distress and trauma. The father needs some deep therapy on his own before he could really be present for his sons. Every veteran’s mind completely changes once they enlist and it’s not for the better.

@GabrielCharlesTyler 2 ай бұрын

This episode really brought me to tears. I hope all three of these men have found their own healing outside of healing their relationship with their father.

@GabrielCharlesTyler 2 ай бұрын

I'm also wondering if the father is on the spectrum. If he was, that would put some things in perspective.

@The2headedmonster Ай бұрын

Hmmmm interesting thought . I guess we’ll never know. He has passed away

@florastewart7957 2 ай бұрын

Players gonna play until the playground closes or you get kicked out.

@jenalma6280 2 ай бұрын

I'll never understand how a parent can "teach" their children that lying is wrong but they lie to their children on many levels

@Gigilovehugs Ай бұрын

Wow good point only if all parents thought this way

@kkain123 2 ай бұрын

They Daddy was creeping around the neighborhood lol they live 15 minutes from each other. He must have told those women some good stories.

@HarperSophia 2 ай бұрын

How he managed to sleep with them is beyond me. His voice is crazyyyy

@elysasmith7682 2 ай бұрын

Newark and its surrounding cities everyone is about 15mins away. Newark born and raised 💪🏾

@Geminicricketi 2 ай бұрын

The mom probably ratchet n would have beat the other lady up. Shocked mom skated on accountability.

@sherei9530 2 ай бұрын

There's nothing like having siblings make The Discovery while in the school building, mothers duking it out at the busstop, and young couples finding out they are siblings or relatives. Then teachers have to sort things out and keep everyone safe. This mess must stop!

@bellebella6267 Ай бұрын

@HarperSophia that voice creeps me 😅😅😅

@meganbee. 2 ай бұрын

I’m enjoying these episodes. Please keep them coming.

@brooklynbeastnycforlife 2 ай бұрын

i say that with every EP they post lol

@Calmingsounds1234. 2 ай бұрын

Me too

@antoniapalmore7494 2 ай бұрын

Hes full of it. What you see is going to get he is self centered. Narcissistic personality 😢Take responsibility.

@akinimueni Ай бұрын

Yeah round and round and round

@karenmcgee1869 2 ай бұрын

Juba's smile, love, forgiveness, and protection were everything. I loved the strength and integrity of Chon. Praying that he heals completely. I love the intellect and heart of Isaam. All of their tears broke me down.

@The2headedmonster 2 ай бұрын

Thank you

@karenmcgee1869 2 ай бұрын

@@The2headedmonster you are welcome!

@The2headedmonster 2 ай бұрын

Yea my father was many things . But in the end he did his best . Too bad he passed away and we could never find our footing . This would be the last time I saw him

@karenmcgee1869 Ай бұрын

@@The2headedmonster So sorry to hear this Isaam!

@cindisowder2182 Ай бұрын

Thankfully these men have each other. Their dad is dramatic about himself only.

@teresamarie7460 2 ай бұрын

Seeking love from deadbeat parents is the most sadistic thing on Earth. This is the very reason most people are damaged goods.

@kathyander4920 18 күн бұрын

Yes, so true!!

@MaryjaneLove 2 ай бұрын

&&&& it's sad because my father is alive living in the same city I live in but my dad act like he don't want to deal with me . I haven't seen my father in over 10 years and I'm married with kids now and it does hurt to not have your father around ... It's sad 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

@kathyander4920 18 күн бұрын

I know how you feel. My son's dad deserved them. I feel so bad for them.

@MaryjaneLove 18 күн бұрын

@@kathyander4920 &&& it does hurt not having your father around 😔

@kagale6601 2 ай бұрын

the fake crying, i can't.

@suezettemills5336 2 ай бұрын

He lit up when she asked him to tell her about "his" stroke. Ugh!!!

@toschajeffries8833 2 ай бұрын

Yes... he wanted to tell his story, it seem as he never got the chance to tell anyone it. I feel that help raising his siblings had something to do with him not raising his sons. I feel he didn't want to be bother.

@HarperSophia 2 ай бұрын

@@toschajeffries8833same. Like maybe the trauma of having to be parent/dad figure at a young age, made him avoid being a father for his own kids. Like a trigger.

@toschajeffries8833 2 ай бұрын

@@HarperSophia I agree

@nikkispicer886 2 ай бұрын

This makes me appreciate my dad more for never leaving. My God….

@smustipher 2 ай бұрын

Avoiders of personal responsibility have a tendency to relish in any opportunity to play the victim.

@comediccheffaith 2 ай бұрын

40:19 the smile on the youngest sons face is heartbreaking. He looks so happy. I hope the father turns it around

@The2headedmonster Ай бұрын

Thank you for that

@The2headedmonster Ай бұрын

I was hopeful

@hildamartinez7437 2 ай бұрын

Wow , these onions had the water pouring out of my eyes. Ms. Vanzant’s work is so important to mend the brokenness , often as a result of family dysfunction .

@zuritribe4844 2 ай бұрын

RIGHT!!!!!

@antoniapalmore7494 2 ай бұрын

Dad go get therapy 😢

@SashaLawrence-ns3vv 2 ай бұрын

Parentifying the oldest child makes us not really want children . I never had any. Many still do of course like this absent father.

@BeUr_Best 2 ай бұрын

Parentification is real, many people don’t understand it’s negative effects, and I’m so sorry you have to experienced that. Prayers for your healing ❤

@HarperSophia 2 ай бұрын

Yeah I can see that as well. Wish he hadn’t given these kids false hope tho. How you gone tell a child you have tickets to the Mets and then never come and get him 😂

@rosemisatiofficial5428 2 ай бұрын

I can relate with the lack of desire for children.

@shalandacampbell7314 2 ай бұрын

This father is a joke!

@Geminicricketi 2 ай бұрын

Rude he over traumatized

@TheTaurean 2 ай бұрын

🥺 Oooo Iyanla why you got this grown man on this good KZfaq with a part-time dad growing up crying. Aww man this hit me too deep.

@kkain123 2 ай бұрын

That's how these some of these guys are. They get out here, have these kids when their young and not be present. Soon as they are grown and they get life have to them, they want to come back and ask for forgiveness. Smh

@Geminicricketi 2 ай бұрын

That was suggesting to me that the MOM was the issue. and they had to wait till the child got older.

@ljackson24 13 күн бұрын

@@GeminicricketiWell, clearly that’s not the case. If so, why so many children with all these different women? Bc, just like in this case, more often than not, the man ups and abandons his responsibility talking about he’s scared or didn’t know how. Newsflash: women get scared too and often have to learn how to do things regarding parenting. So, that’s just a crock of bs. What they really should just admit is that they’re weak. That’s the truth. You not knowing or being scared is not enough. They’re just weak af & it’s sad. Smh

@moe_ramz 2 ай бұрын

Narcissistic too….🙄

@TheBaba1920 24 күн бұрын

I could tell it in the first few minutes of seeing him. No empathy

@genniejefferson6588 2 ай бұрын

I am so very, very thankful, I had both my loving parents growing up. I do not know how these people feel, but I feel for them.

@andreasmith8509 2 ай бұрын

The daddy would have been folded like a chicken wing after all that 😂😂😂

@bellebella6267 Ай бұрын

And then sit down and talk to him 😅😅😅

@annesmail4129 2 ай бұрын

The dad is full of it. No tears

@faithgift 2 ай бұрын

I was afraid that this man was going to have high blood pressure or heart attack the way he was angry while trying to explain himself 💔. This was very risky especial with some one having stroke. Hope they find peace and joy ❤👌🏼

@faithgift Ай бұрын

@@vernaereed1810 May he RIP💔

@brenale_heartsJesus 2 ай бұрын

Im so enjoying these episodes being posted so frequently!!! I really do learn so much from each episode and helps me to walk in healing in areas where it’s been needed.

@jasminetucker8213 2 ай бұрын

It was the hugs for me….crying like a baby🤧❤️

@meiylani. 2 ай бұрын

Ngl i would not let that man "bless me". I dont play with that at all.

@ljperry570 2 ай бұрын

' have you ever played catch with a check" goes crazy

@ramonahamm6292 2 ай бұрын

This man still does not take any accountability

@alwaysaccurate8725 2 ай бұрын

Have u ever been kissed by a dollar bill 🎯🎯🎯🎯

@brianal7143 2 ай бұрын

And he was likely lying about providing for those boys. What did he supposedly do, pay the rent while they slept and ran off? Please! An all around deadbeat

@user-cc4ii9cy7f 2 ай бұрын

The father was drained from raising his siblings so he had nothing to give his own kids. It’s sad but his story😢

@ramonahamm6292 2 ай бұрын

He should have worn condoms then. Lots of folks who don’t want kids and keep themselves from having them

@annekamau2818 2 ай бұрын

Yes I thought that too

@shaigreene2049 2 ай бұрын

But that's almost like since I was violated sexually so I'm gonna repeat that behavior ...Noo there needs to be accountability. No excuse when you choose to have children

@HARRIS4276 2 ай бұрын

💯

@virginiapurvis3917 2 ай бұрын

Then he should’ve never had kids

@nicolehuff8455 2 ай бұрын

I don't think I've ever cried more during an episode of Fix My Life. I wish this family health and healing.

@user-eg9sx3oo9u 2 ай бұрын

Ok was not prepared for the eyes to well up 😂us men fortunate for good fathers/father figures in our lives owe them so much! Props to awesome pops out there

@WilliamOgletree 2 ай бұрын

My father is like this too. I just love him from a distance.

@tamikabennett3023 2 ай бұрын

same here

@shaeb.9627 Ай бұрын

Me too

@kathyander4920 18 күн бұрын

That's all you can do. You have a heavenly Father. God loves you, always!!!

@ArlisaWilliams-xn7zg 2 ай бұрын

Where are the tears Mr. Houston!!!

@ArlisaWilliams-xn7zg 2 ай бұрын

Not one wet tear!!!

@MissTippiLu Ай бұрын

Old player’s card ran out, NOW he wants forgiveness. Damn shame. So many of us are born from BROKENESS but God is the great healer. Forgiveness comes through him, not by our own strength.

@mybel0ved_ 2 ай бұрын

I feel like the dad may be narcissistic. The whole time they asked him to admit that he lied, it's so hard for him to even say those words

@brendawelch6477 2 ай бұрын

The father has Three handsome sons he's making the same excuse

@tuupsipuupsi2788 2 ай бұрын

This man is a liar to the bone… just like my ex bf , even his tantrum is a lie

@daisyriley2701 2 ай бұрын

This brings tears to my eyes I fell in love with your shows it mean a lot to me

@QLuvsDoja 2 ай бұрын

Iyanla need to reboot this…

@atumnefer 2 ай бұрын

When people who wrote in asking for help got in front of the cameras and used it to crap on her and then take their unhealed BS to social media for clout and got all their followers to follow suit, Aunty was out and I don't blame her. They were rabid. She isn't perfect but they treated her so badly it was... Too much to be a witness. We are lucky she was strong enough to survive.

@atumnefer 2 ай бұрын

They didn't like my initial post. She stopped to save herself. There were those who didn't come for the healing. They came to either destroy or for the social media clout. 😢

@brianal7143 2 ай бұрын

@@atumneferyeah I feel like she got fed up once all the celebs started making their rounds for clout. The real people episodes were the best.

@alishajewell355 2 ай бұрын

@@atumneferso true. these dried up celebrities didn’t want healing fr they saw it as another reality tv gig

@atumnefer 2 ай бұрын

@@brianal7143 Facts!

@puritykm 2 ай бұрын

These precious humans are too good to miss out on their lives. This dad must regret his wrong decisions

@beverleyhamilton4588 2 ай бұрын

From our mother's womb we can feel the vibes already ; and more importantly we are like sponges we soak it all up like sponges even when we are not ready to speak.....let love prevail 💕

@nicoladavis580 2 ай бұрын

That man does not care about anyone. Not even sure he cares about himself

@user-np9kh3ro8t 2 ай бұрын

This sucks .. my dad died 15 years ago... Oh how i miss him... And this man has kids that want him in there lives ..

@tee57515 2 ай бұрын

In this case I think Iyanla could not fix them. It’s clear to me they would need consistency psychological support. It seems they are living in a state of constant triggers or delusion or they are extremely manipulative. Whatever it is. He needs deeper long term support

@taylabrown5278 Ай бұрын

I’m not crying 🥲…the oldest son being emotional got to me.

@aprylclark3796 Ай бұрын

I’m glad they got healing before there father passed away. They needed this! Break the pattern

@beverleyhamilton4588 2 ай бұрын

That was emotional. One of the worst. If not the worst... Thank you Iyanla (Great Mother) 😊

@cfreemful 2 ай бұрын

Pops, grandstanding, and actng melodramatic. Academy award winner, NOT!🎭

@teresah.6696 2 ай бұрын

It's ridiculous how runaway fathers(no matter what race) wait till their kids are adults and want to appear back in their lives. At 10:56 "I probably could have done more."🙄☹️😡