Jab Apne Hi Dil Dukhayein To Kya Kare ? How to Deal with Toxic Family Members ?Dr.Shikha SharmaRishi

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Jab Apne Hi Dil Dukhayein To Kya Kare ? How to Deal with Toxic Family Members ?Dr.Shikha SharmaRishi

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2 жыл бұрын

Jab apni family ke hi log negative ho, humari respect na kare, humari value na kare, humari feelings ki kadar na karte ho to hum kya kare jisse ki rishta bhi bana rahe aur humari mental health bhi kharab na ho? Is video me inhi baaton ka solution share kiya hai ki family ke difficult, negative ya toxic members se hum kaise deal kare.
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@kuchkhatikuchmithimanjuyku3717 2 жыл бұрын

आपने जो कहा वो सब सही है।पर कभी कभीआप कुछ ऐसे close रिश्तों से मजबूर होते हैं कि उनकीभलाई सोचकर सब गल्त भी चुपचाप सहन करते हो।

@vimlakataria8449 Жыл бұрын

Really ✅

@vartikasrivastava250 4 ай бұрын

True aur kabhi kabhi bhai bahan bhi badal jate hain main bahut emotional hu mujhe bahut rona aata hai but samne wale ko koi fark nahin padta

@user-qx8fi5oh7b Ай бұрын

Apne aap se Pyar kro Same hmri life me bhi eaisa hi hai @@vartikasrivastava250

@urvashiagnihotri6158 2 жыл бұрын

My mother-in-law is very jealous of me . Whatever I do good thing or work ,she takes credit and always count her work in front of husband and then husband feels that I am wrong and lazy .What I can do Mam?

@manseeratsidhu5099 Жыл бұрын

Same Mera bi

@prithviprajapati6596 Жыл бұрын

Mera bhi mujhe mere sasural me saas nanad dono sasur sb ladte hai mujhse jlte hai bahut ziddi hai wo log unki vjah sehi mai rent PE rh rhi hu meri ek beti thi mere liye kahi khade nhi huyeere dukh me yaha tk saas meri mere pati ko bhi nhi rhne deti thi meri beti ko haert problem thi ab wo nhi hai ye log mujhe bahut hurt krte hai Mai kya karu Mai kya please 🙏🙏🙏 Nand ek Dr hai ek teacher mere sasur mere pati bhi mujhe ejjaaat nhi dete baat nhi karte enke saath rhna padta hai maai kaise khus rhu

@Tanav_editz 11 ай бұрын

Same here

@Bhramingirl2.0 2 ай бұрын

Nothing just trust on god u do ur gud work like u r doing god is watching she has to pay one day for this behaviour of her also just self luv is imp just don't care about whether husband is liking ur work or what u r doing ur best

@triptisadana174 2 жыл бұрын

Dealt a lot with the toxic people around me. But now I have overcome the toxic relationship. And feeling so happy😊

@tanyagupta9621 2 жыл бұрын

Di apne kya kiya that plzz help me

@Great-Bharat-1 Жыл бұрын

I left my home , not in touch with anyone . left all known , settled in new city , now v happy . Took 10 yrs to forget them .

@singwithsimi2720 2 жыл бұрын

Your tips help us in how to become fearless in life. But when our family members misbehave or give us mental torture it hurts.

@mahimasharma5157 2 жыл бұрын

One of the best video 💞, I m also living like these toxic people, nicely explain, bilkul Aisa lg raha hai jaisa aap mujhe hi smjha rahe ho, thanks for this 👍👍👍

@santoshsolanki5311 2 жыл бұрын

@sabanaqvi9283 2 жыл бұрын

Yeh video mere liye Ram badh ka kam krega Qk mere husband ka behaviour mere sath bht kharab h

@nandnichoudhary736 Жыл бұрын

Hindi me likhte to samajhte

@rupindernath8837 Жыл бұрын

@@sabanaqvi9283 same here...my husband is also of same kind...but we can not change them...they will change when they will become old and alone....fir jiska koi fayada nahi..

@vocabkhazana2063 2 жыл бұрын

You are the female sandeep maheshwari... Thank you mam for your valuable assistance.

@Sethijasmeet 2 жыл бұрын

I am unable to control my mind during an argument with him. He always try to prove me wrong . He always think that he is always right and I am always wrong. He is good to everyone else in the family. I keep thinking about what negative he said about me.

@singwithsimi2720 2 жыл бұрын

Now I think I'll be able to deal with such people more effectively.

@drshikha 2 жыл бұрын

More power to u 💪

@prateekarav7756 2 жыл бұрын

Thank mam.. You are great

@jutikakakati4349 2 жыл бұрын

Mam apke bat ho sokti hay Kia please

@fathimabee2051 11 ай бұрын

Aap 100% currect bolatha.baahar vaale zaroorat nahi hote ghar vale (husbend beta beti) hi bahut kaafi hai..

@ritupatel6279 Жыл бұрын

Bahot hi achhe se smjaya hai apne. Kafi helpful video hai. Me aise hi toxic peoples k bich reh rahi hu. apne uske man ko achhe se samajkar uske sath kaisa behave kre ye bhot achhe se smjaya hai. Thank you so much. Me ab khud ko develop krungi

@surakshanarang3186 Жыл бұрын

Hello mam aap ko dekhne aur sun lene se hi kafi positivty aa jati hai. App ka samghane ka method hi aisa hai ki koi bhi sab kuch samagh kar positive ho jayega. Many many thanks🌹 Mam.

@drshikha Жыл бұрын

You're most welcome 🙏🏻

@charulagarwal147 Жыл бұрын

Thank u mam....bhaut pareshan thi mai aaj...apki video dekh k Dil bahut halka ho gya or face pr smile vapis aa gayi...nd Ur line "same to u back to u" was very funny but helping

@rajanichauhan8250 2 жыл бұрын

Bilkul sahi kaha, aise लोग ओर भी जहर उगल ते है, कुछ भी नहीं समझते हैं.or bohot चालाक हो ते है.selfish hote hai

@vibhajindal9441 Жыл бұрын

Aapki baaton se mujhe kai logon ki personality samajh me aayee. Thank you so much ❤❤

@soniabhandari1184 2 жыл бұрын

Its a great thing you have shared with people. I thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤️. I really need this...bcoz so many toxic people come in our life. You taught ne how to handle them.. 🙏🙏

@twinkleagrawal3434 2 жыл бұрын

These ideas dont work in real life.. i believe to break the relation with such toxic person thats the only solution rather than being suffered always bcz of them

@spiritualgirl1557 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Universe for keeping me away from toxic people.

@spiritualgirl1557 2 жыл бұрын

Why my mother give a negative attitudes to me??

@soniatitus226 Жыл бұрын

Thanku mam ...this is my story ...my husband abused me my family a lot very badly after he drunk a lot....but I prayed to God one day he should change....

@nitabhatia4197 10 ай бұрын

Life is not a limited time like train journey It's soooooo difficult to stay with a toxic person in a family. Pala tau padta hi hai But there is no other option other than keeping quiet. But to maintain peace in family one person suffers and stays unhealthy.

@manya7049 2 жыл бұрын

Mam I continuously watching ur vedios... And now I m changing myself

@drshikha 2 жыл бұрын

Glad to know that!

@naazkhan995 2 жыл бұрын

Yes... You are right mam actions speak louder than words 💪

@divyasharma5920 2 жыл бұрын

Sahi baat ,na he apne goals batane hai na he apne plans etc just hi hello , and ignore

@Sunshine-kb8xh 2 жыл бұрын

this video is bang on and straight to the point... worth listening it... thanku maam... this is such a practical approach to deal with toxic people... and so many points u said are so relatable.. I used to listen bk shivani for this but I nvr got any answers and how to deal... sending good energy to people who hurt us and all ..just seems impractical to me but u explained so well with solutions ... thanku for this video...

@farheen2521 Жыл бұрын

💯 ma'am it happened with me multiple times...and when I started doing this ,then everything became normalize but because of the act of my family members,I am suffering from chronic disease ,heart problem, anxiety and depression.

@dr.vinitarawat7911 2 жыл бұрын

Koi aisa person jis se ham emotionally behad attached ho agar wo toxic ho to deal karna struggle ho jata hai aur kai bar depression bhi hone lagta hai....Thank u so much mam hope now I will deal with some of my current situations...plz relationship management par aur suggestion jarur dijiyega

@beautify_intex 2 жыл бұрын

Omg wt a beautiful video exactly same thing m dealing with in my life ❤️

@sunderdreams 8 ай бұрын

Hmmmm..shi kha tha apne aaj k video me ....agr koi bar bar hurt kr rha h to galti hmari he h...hm dubara use moka de rhe h.... superb ho yr ap...🎉

@drshikha 8 ай бұрын

🤗

@AnujKashyap-kf1xt Жыл бұрын

If we are a responsible member of a family and play main roll in the family then we can't ignore , avoid And can't stop conversation with family members. That time we have the responsibility how to manage every toxic issues. Due to responsibilities we have to look after everyone equally in the family. So i want to say this depends on what position you holds in your family.

@motivationalmoment9217 2 жыл бұрын

Mam Jo apne bola hai bilkul mere sath 20 salonse ho raha hai ,ab to Mera confidence pura khatam hi ho gaya hai ,par ye video dekhne ke bad ummid si Jaggi hai mann me ,umra ke is mod par bhi ab kuch karne ki ummid jagi hai,thank you so much ma'am aurr iski ek baat muze bahut torcher karti hai ke ise mai aurr dono bacchon ko chodkar sabhi pyare lagte hai jabki hum bahot unki care karte hai ,pyar karte hai fir kya resion hoga jo Inka bahaviour iisa hai ,

@drshikha 2 жыл бұрын

More power to you 🤗

@bloodshedgamerz9935 2 жыл бұрын

Ma'am...agar woh toxic person mera husband ho ga toh mai usse kaise dittach ho paungi,.. I am facing this problem from last 10/12 yrs... I am working women but my husband always saying bad words for me..he is very egoistic person and I can not leave him becoz of my son... I can't tell you and can't explain my pain... But bcoz of him I have a lot of negative thoughts in my mind... Aur uski tarah mujhye sub negative hi lagta hai... Kya mai isse kabhi bhar nikal pavungi??😭

@BhanuPratap-wc5hb 2 жыл бұрын

Kya apko iska answer mila

@rockygamer7426 2 жыл бұрын

Mem aapki baato se bahot himmat Or acchi baate sikne milti hai

@starflower-lu4it Жыл бұрын

Same hai meray saath ...good bahuth sukoon mila aap ki batay sunkar...Alhamdulillah

@shivashreegupta8590 2 жыл бұрын

Ma'am apki videos ki wajah se maine khud ko pehchana Aur khud ko kaafi had tak improve Kiya thanks ma'am

@sangeetalakhe 2 жыл бұрын

Tysm fo dis informative vdo 🙏sach kaha ap ne kuch logon ko ignor hi karna behetar hota hai👍👍kuch log kabhi nahi badal saktey jab tak wo khud khud ko na badle 🙏👍

@kumariarchana743 2 жыл бұрын

Thank u isi vedio ki jarurat thi .

@neetatiple5910 2 ай бұрын

बहुत अच्छा लगा आपकी बाते सुनकर

@starflower-lu4it Жыл бұрын

Best mamm...very power full speech..life change...👍✌🤗

@gitikasehgal2676 2 жыл бұрын

Hello mam thanks for ur super teachings ..mujhe ese lg rha hai ki aap mujhe hi sikha re ho .. mujhe bohat jyada support mili hai apki is video se ... kyonki mai ab tk samaj hi nhi paari thi ki ese logo k sath kese reh paaoongi poori life .. thanks mam mujhe mentally strong bnane k lie thanku very much... ❤❤

@SunitaSharma-nj7oy 9 ай бұрын

You touch each and every point ❤😊..

@k-concepts8920 11 ай бұрын

We should ignore them utmost, but they are toxic due to their pain it's absolutely wrong..... it's nature of a personna which is permanent, so just boycott him, her or they.

@manya7049 2 жыл бұрын

Mam your haircut is very nice👍 and u looking awesome in this

@arbajaliarbajali2225 Жыл бұрын

Thanks mam .aisa hume hamari bhabhi ke sath hota hai.ab hum aise hi karenge.

@ajithapradeep9293 Жыл бұрын

Very well explained. Whatever Dr.Shikha has said is 100% true. This is exactly how I handled the toxic relations that I had been in for over 20 years of my life. I recommend to all those who are in such unfortunate situation to follow Dr.Shikha's advice....as it will magically change you from within and your circumstances. Congratulations Dr. Shikha for making this wonderful video 👍

@kamleshlal2745 2 жыл бұрын

Bahut bahut achha samjhaya aapne 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

@tirathchauhan3362 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent video . Your advice is precious . I read quite a few self books. Every word you said is so true.

@Priyanka-gz6fg 2 жыл бұрын

Jo bolta hai vahi hota hai . U made my day 🤣

@ashokmahalwala817 22 күн бұрын

Very nice knowledge about taaxin es persones thankes

@shilpisstudio2064 2 жыл бұрын

Thankuu maam... Apne bohot practical tips share kiye hai.... ☺☺

@PreetiSharma-wq4on 2 жыл бұрын

Yes.they insult you in front of everyone.they control you.

@MrSalil611 Жыл бұрын

V true mam.. but it's been a real struggle to follow what you said .. but a reminder at a very apt time

@Sejal390 2 жыл бұрын

Can't tell u who s that toxic people in my life..but ur vedio Is really needed today.. thanks

@devendrajani1704 9 күн бұрын

Thank you doctor I needed this information.

@ashokmandhyan484 6 ай бұрын

Today have watched your video reapeted, got answer of asked to Anurg Rishi ji yesterday. I having same problems, have reapeted wachting wachting this video .

@drshikha 6 ай бұрын

🙏🏻

@mkgoopta Жыл бұрын

Never accept toxic and jealous people and end relationship otherwise they will end your life Avoid them and live your life with pleasure some other place. It must be done at the earliest for your peaceful life.

@crochetarte Жыл бұрын

Thank you ji 🙏😍😍 Jiwan ki behtareen sikh dene ke liye 🥰🥰

@rishitakumari5221 3 ай бұрын

Hopefully I am able to apply in my life ❤

@user-uj7ny8nc9c Жыл бұрын

Thank you ma'am for good way to treating such people 😊😊😊

@drshikha Жыл бұрын

It's my pleasure

@blushingpurbasa9203 Жыл бұрын

Thank you soo much Ma'am.. Much needed❤

@sunderdreams Жыл бұрын

Hahaha mam mja agya... Sb shi h. This video is special for housewives.

@mamta1709 Жыл бұрын

Best video ever Ma'am keep making this type of video's. With examples it's easier for us to understand

@Lotus80hz Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! This is so useful. Aap ne achhi tarah se explain kiya roadmap diya, bahut, bahut Dhanyavaad 🙏

@silk0192 2 жыл бұрын

Very helpful tips 🙂🙏🙏

@sudeeptanayak4394 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much maam🙏 Lots of ❤️ You r the best guider🙏

@madhusmitanayak4920 5 ай бұрын

😮😮👌👌 ekdum sahi kya video

@anujatamang7399 2 жыл бұрын

There are some people who are toxic in my life.... thank you❤

@Networkofcookingwithfrancy 2 жыл бұрын

Verry informative.. Thank you so much

@rekhamaurya2750 2 жыл бұрын

Aapne har ek baat bilkul sahi kahi h

@sanjeevsurname44 Жыл бұрын

I agree with you when you advise to concentrate on our goal or divert our attention elsewhere....This is the best way to avoid any kind of negativity .

@sonampatel5251 2 жыл бұрын

My god....... Mam ap kitne achhe se explain karte ho chijo ko..... Mere pas word nai h mai apko kese batau..... Apke video dekhkar mujhe Lagraha h ki mai or bhi achhi or behtar insan... Banugi apne ap ko sucsec kar paungi improve kar paungi.... Mai bhi toxic logo se bahut hurt hoti hu ab mai unko egnore karungi or apna poora dhyan apne ap par or apne goal par lagaungi....mai sandeep mahesvari sir ke video dekhti hu usme apka or sir ka podcast dekha. Fir apka chenal subscribe kiya or is chenal mai meko vo video mile, jo meko real mai chaiye the.... Thank you so much mam

@sonampatel5251 2 жыл бұрын

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@shahp84 2 жыл бұрын

If someone hates you just because they feel jealous because of your success, beauty or smartness then how to deal with such Female when you are also a Female? Please share video on this.

@nazneenbanu9439 Жыл бұрын

Mujhe meri sas se apne shahor se hi takleef hai mai kai kro

@manjulatajena8900 Жыл бұрын

This is the best vidio of world for life saving l. God bless you l salute you mam❤

@umavrajandekar5795 Жыл бұрын

Sahii hai mam ..Mai bhi eise logo ke sath rah Rahi hu...nice tips..ty dear

@urmibhanot6961 2 жыл бұрын

Yes true no argument should not done with them as they won’t change, they just prove us wrong so there is no way we need to give them attention and love to them

@priyankasingh-qp1gs Жыл бұрын

Best video h ye apka 😍

@mostrandomcontent4588 Жыл бұрын

Thank you mam aapne bahut help ki mujhe aapki baat sunkar bahut aacha feel ho raha hai

@aditiverma3037 2 жыл бұрын

Mam you have a deep life experience. Thank you❤ so much for this video🥰

@reenavaishnav5519 9 ай бұрын

Thank you mam for good way to treating such people ❤❤

@Parth_super_gamer 2 жыл бұрын

Tku ma,am

@rubelladcosta1797 Жыл бұрын

Madam very nice information

@sangitas366 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video...☺😘

@Jogeshree 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you ma'am Helpful video ❤❤❤

@anshtyagi7514 Жыл бұрын

Muje to apki hr baat bhut achi h

@poojagarg7528 2 жыл бұрын

Amazing vedio mam meri life mei kuch aisa hi chal rha hai

@binduchoudhary6005 Жыл бұрын

Nice video. Apke bolne ka trika Bht Acha h or bate bhi bilkul dhratal se judi h.. Kyoki ap khud ek aurt h ap Bht ache se smjh payi h or smjha payi h.bilkul ese hi videos ki hr aurt ko jrurt rhti h. Thanks.

@amarrajthakur1041 2 ай бұрын

Very nice advice

@ambikaharichandan349 2 жыл бұрын

Thank u very much Shikha ji 🙏 aap ne meri bahut badi problem solv kardiya. 🙏

@ranikashyap9035 Жыл бұрын

Wow 😊amazing first time esa vedio dekha jaha hr problem ka solution easy h jitni tarif ki jaae km h👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

@ashokpurigosavi1584 2 ай бұрын

🪈🪈🐂🙏🙏🐂🪈🪈ऐसे जीवात्मा ही अपनों को ही अशांती देते ही है, लेकिन वह फर्क नही समझते ,कोई फर्क नही पड़ता। ⚙️⚙️🪈🪈🐂🐂🐂💥💥

@madhubalathakur5096 2 жыл бұрын

Waoo bilkul right mam.....best speach

@sonalishesha1199 2 жыл бұрын

Such a great video helps me a lot

@jugmohankaur7282 Жыл бұрын

explain good

@user-iz7td8fl6c 11 ай бұрын

very helpful. ❤ Thank u mam

@drshikha 11 ай бұрын

Most welcome 😊

@PriyaMishra-yf2mi Жыл бұрын

Koi is duniya mein is baat ki parvah nahin karta ki ham kya feel kar rahe hain hamen kya Bura lag raha hai balki hamen Bura feel hota hai to isase Puri duniya Ko bahut achcha lagta hai