C Sections - EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW (Preparation + Process - she has had 6!!) PART 1.
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3 жыл бұрын6 C sections!! My friend Jenny will have her 6th Cesarian Section in a couple months so I invited her onto my channel to tell all. (PART ONE)
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Jenny shares her experience with her first emergency C section and then pro tips based on the 5 consecutive planned C sections that followed her first. Consider this "C section 101". This video is part 1 of a 2 part conversation we had. This video is all about the preparation and process of the C section. She covers everything imaginable from whether or not to eat before it, allergies to latex, pain meds, how you might be feeling, nausea, whether or not to shave your vagina, scarring, and a lot lot more. In part 2 Jenny talks about the hospital stay, NICU, pooping, belly bands, whether or not to be active, going home, infection, having people help you, sex after birth and more. If there is anything we missed leave it in the comments below!
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@deny8a 5 ай бұрын
I have had 7 C-sections last one last year and had twins 💖🎉
@sheena3 7 ай бұрын
Durenda Wilson had 8 c sections from 1991-2004 and then homeschooled all of them successfully ❤️
@RawrDeeDee 3 жыл бұрын
I had an elective section 8months ago, he was Frank breech. I do not regret a second of it incredibly relaxed, controlled I got to hold him straight away, I healed well, absolutely no issues what so ever for me. I will be going for another section for my next without a doubt!
@NicoleLottLife 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve had two c sections (both of my kids), one was an emergency and one was not. I love hearing her perspective, but I also want to put out there that getting a C-section doesn’t have to always be a scary thing! I promise! Lol. With both my C-sections, despite having surgery and it being kinda crazy, they were wonderful! Just like in natural child birth, there are discomforts and things you have to go through, but please for those of you watching this and maybe feeling like it’s a terrible thing, I promise you it’s not as long as you and baby are healthy and come out healthy. I did a video on this topic this year & I really appreciate Jess for talking about c-sections, because I feel like it’s looked at as such a horrible scary thing, that we are kind of robbed of feeling like our experience is just as special as the experiences of those that have a vaginal birth. Our birth stories (I almost wrote broth stories 😆) are just as special and worth talking about!☺️
@jenniferbarber614 3 жыл бұрын
My births have all been so special in their own ways. Even with all of them being c-sections. I do get jittery every time, but it’s special. One thing I wrestled through was feeling like I hadn’t actually “given birth”, but c-sections can still be so beautiful and special. There’s nothing about them that diminishes the fact that we birth our babes!
@DanieGirl-tt9xc 2 жыл бұрын
i had two c sections as well. honestly i was surprised how well they went and how good i felt soon afterwards
@nanaronhano337 Жыл бұрын
Yesss!! Thank you for saying this!! My first C-section was truly horrible and traumatic for me. I tried for a VBAC with my second baby and that ended in another difficult C-section too. I scheduled my third baby’s C-section and it was absolutely beautiful!! I would love a bunch more. 😂 I just gotta get my husband on board too.
@RR-ud6ii 3 жыл бұрын
This video (about to go watch part 2!) is incredible. I’m a new doula, and haven’t had any cesarean clients yet. I appreciate this information so much.
@camillebaillargeon1250 3 жыл бұрын
I just had my first cesarean two weeks ago and jumped on this video so quick! Wish I had had this wonderful info just a few weeks prior!
@shendeutkarsha243 Жыл бұрын
I had lost 😥 my baby two babies in c section delivery ...I am so worried about my health but now I am see this video and get happy to next baby conceive..but which differece do you take a gap for each baby
@Thehollembaeks 3 жыл бұрын
My mom had 6 C-section, as well. She just never dilated. She was just happy to have her babies healthily. You are incredible, I've never heard of another woman crazy enough to have 6 kids all by C-section!
@nanaronhano337 3 жыл бұрын
That’s awesome!
@adrianacarvalho5863 2 жыл бұрын
I am currently having my 6th C-section
@jannatulferdous-gq3cg 2 жыл бұрын
@@adrianacarvalho5863 where do you live in USA? Does your doctor let you have 6 c-section?
@LovelyKee89 Жыл бұрын
@@adrianacarvalho5863 How did it go?
@adrianacarvalho5863 Жыл бұрын
@@LovelyKee89 great my baby boy is 4 months old only thing different is he was born at 37wks so I wouldn’t tare
@stacywilliams6438 7 ай бұрын
Hats off to her , I have my first c section and I can’t promise anyone I’m looking forward for another one . She did six oh no honey . Everything was scary for me .
@hollowmae 9 ай бұрын
Thank God for this video. I had my first child 2 years ago and I was only 19 and very naive. I remember telling my OB that there was no way I was having a C-section. She kept telling me she was a little worried due to my small frame. When the time came and I was in labour pushing for hours my doctor realized she was right and the baby’s shoulder was stuck. My birth canal just wasn’t big enough for the baby to fit through so all of the nurses got on my bed and pushed on my belly until the baby popped out. I hemorrhaged and lost almost 3 liters of blood. The baby was fine by some miracle, my doctor told me usually their collar bones break in the process😓 it was very traumatic and has scared me from ever having another child. My doctor said I will never have another vaginal birth and I should have only C Sections from now on. So I’ve been thinking about having another baby but terrified about what the new experience will be and what if so much goes wrong this time? This video helped a lot!
@reneegilbert7074 3 жыл бұрын
So you can hold baby! I had 4 c sections. I did skin to skin immediately after my last 2! They laid baby on my chest and nursed right away.
@Munashorta9292 28 күн бұрын
Thank you so much and I felt relief when I saw your video. I have 5 c-sections and now I am pregnant I am little nervous the 6 c- section thank you for the information.
@rachelcole6963 Жыл бұрын
I forgot how cold I was in that room. About to have my forth c section thanks for this
@maddygordon5472 3 жыл бұрын
This is exactly my story! My first was removed via a necessary cesarean due to baby being in distress and lack of progress at 6cm. I attempted a VBAC in November of 2020, laboured for 25 hours and couldn't progress past 6cm again and so was taken in for another cesarean. Still healing emotionally from it all but thankful for healthy babies and safe deliveries. Thank you for sharing. I truly feel not so alone in my experience after watching this and have hope that I can have more children via c-section. xoxo
@hannahmerry7672 2 жыл бұрын
Hey girlie. If you wanted to try for a vba2c, a lot of practitioners who offer Vbac will support you. The research suggests that vbac after multiple csections is reasonable (check our evidence based birth). just wanted you to know this!
@nanaronhano337 Жыл бұрын
Girl!! This was me too. I stopped dilating at a 6cm with both my first and second babies. With my first I was induced for preeclampsia and my second for gestational diabetes and low fluid. Both of them were stuck posterior. I ended up hemorrhaging during both the surgeries too after being in labor for so long! I scheduled my 3rd baby’s C-section and it was a beautiful experience. It hurts less and less emotionally as time goes on. I used to cry every day. Now I rarely cry about only having C-sections. I really want a couple more babies. Thank you for sharing. I feel less alone too!
@carleyhollands5973 3 жыл бұрын
I found the spinal the most painful part, because you're cold and nervous and it's your spine they are tampering with. I didn't get to have my baby on my chest in theatre because I felt so nauseas. They also put the catheter in once I was numb because I have a sensitive bladder. My section was a result of being 40.5 weeks with gestational diabetes and didn't dilate despite two attempts at induction so was urgent rather than emergency. So if its looking likely you need one, don't wait until it becomes an emergency, as there were three that had to be done in front of me so they didn't risk me going to emergency as my baby was starting to get tired from all the induction meds and labour. Overall this meant it was a fairly calm and controlled process and decision. What I didn't realise is because there is no squeezing from vaginally delivering, the baby can have a lot of mucous so may snuffle and cough after birth.
@liali7046 3 жыл бұрын
This is so helpful!! Thank you! ♥️ We will be having our first baby in July and I just want to know about C Sections too, even though I‘m planning a natural home labour. To me the worst part is right now, that in Germany you‘re currently alone when a C Section is being done. No one is allowed to come with you in surgery, I think that‘s just not ok, because you need that support of someone being there for you. ☹️
@romulusthemainecoon3047 3 жыл бұрын
I'm in Germany too and also having my first baby in July! Is it true that you are alone when a c-section is happening?! I hope that changes...
@liali7046 3 жыл бұрын
@@romulusthemainecoon3047 it actually depends on the hospital. 😔 I have 2 hospitals close, one allows to have your partner with you during a C section, the other hospital does not allow it sadly. 😔😔😔 Hope until July things change for the better but I would always keep on checking for updates with your chosen hospital. ♥️
@tiarazell7592 3 жыл бұрын
How spread apart was each C-section, or the age gap between each child? I would love another kid right away after this C-section I had 3 months ago, but my doctor said wait atleast a year to give yourself time to heal.
@miewiegand1511 3 жыл бұрын
I have PTSD from a surgery where one type of medicin was wrongly administered (the one that made me not feel anything and be asleep), but the one, which made me paralysed, did work, hence I wasn’t able to communicate. It was extremely traumatic and everything about hospitals is still a huge trigger for me, however I would love to hear Jenny share her story (if she doesn’t mind) I feel like it, even though not exactly the same, would make me, and probably others, feel less alone. Thank you for the amazing videos
@jess_hover 3 жыл бұрын
This sounds like a really similar experience to one of hers. I can ask if she wants to share it at some point. Im so deeply sorry you went through that. It’s unthinkable. I hope you’re able to get therapy and move forward in a healthy way soon. You are a hero. ❤️
@miewiegand1511 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, I’ve never seen myself as a hero, I just try and push through ❤️ Your videos help me, because I am terrified of getting pregnant and knowingly put myself in a situation I know is going to be triggering for me with all the hospital visits
@jenniferbarber614 3 жыл бұрын
You are totally a hero! Being a mama is no joke, and the things we can overcome are incredible. You did it!!! I’m so sorry that you are wrestling through PTSD. That’s so real. I encourage you to find safe places to process and be open with your doctor.
@beans9499 3 жыл бұрын
I had a experience of not being able to move during labor they gave me too much epidural and I literally could not move it is so scary.
@debissc1 Жыл бұрын
What is the dynamic that they continued with the procedure without you being able to communicate? Shouldn’t you be able to talk through the entire c section? This is my #1 fear as I metabolize pain medicines too quickly.
@lilisawalters3958 8 ай бұрын
The nurse who inserted the IV for me asked if I was right-handed. So she put the drip in my left arm to make it easier for me to hold onto baby when she was put on my chest after the C-section. How thoughtful.
@melizabethbrown993 2 ай бұрын
Do they let you record the C-section? I have one scheduled the end of this month, knowing my husband he will want to record.
@JujuBae91 Жыл бұрын
Im having my 6th C-section as Well ❤ thought i was the only one ❤
@nanaronhano337 Жыл бұрын
What are your age gaps? Congratulations!!
@YogiMomma 11 ай бұрын
How did it end up going?
@esraalasadi8862 10 ай бұрын
Just found out im pregnant with my 6th 🥺 so nervous rn
@JujuBae91 10 ай бұрын
@@YogiMomma I'm doing good my recovering went well 🙏❤️🩹 quick 😁 my babygirl is good to be 3months this 27th how time flies
@josephinasharp9202 9 ай бұрын
I’m going to be having my 6 th c section as well
@ilanaveus2372 2 жыл бұрын
It’s possible I knew this!!!❤️😊with God it’s possible
@katelinabercrombie491 3 жыл бұрын
When I had my C-section, it was after "failed" vaginal labor, so I had an epidural and they were giving the medicine through the epidural. But I had been feeling contractions all day, and then I wasn't going completely numb, so they put me under general anesthesia. My husband wasn't allowed to be in the room because general anesthesia means intubation as well, which is an aerosolizing procedure (covid) and can be traumatic for loved ones. It wasn't a fun time. Eta: my baby girl was born the same day as jules 💓
@sophiawisneski3720 3 жыл бұрын
This is basically identical to my birth story. During COVID, the epidural wasn’t working properly so I had to go totally under, without my partner in the room. So so scary and so weird going to sleep pregnant and waking up not! My baby was also born early so I didn’t get to see her until that night. It’s comforting to hear others stories like yours that are very similar. ❤️ Moms are super beings
@katelinabercrombie491 3 жыл бұрын
@@sophiawisneski3720 I'm sorry you had to go through this, too, but glad you and your baby made it through as well. One of the hardest parts was having people tell me that our collective health was the most important thing, while I was crying in the shower over bruises left by the IV for my "failed" delivery. It caused me a lot of sadness and anxiety. I hope you're doing well now, dealing with the reality of your birth experience and getting help if you need it.
@katelinabercrombie491 3 жыл бұрын
@@sophiawisneski3720 I say "failed" because that's what my anesthesia bill said and put it in quotes because that's ridiculous. It wasn't failed. I still have a beautiful baby.
@morganpatricio7161 3 жыл бұрын
I have had one c-section, will they reopen the same scar for the second c-section?
@missyoung7534 Жыл бұрын
Yes
@khadijasesay9143 8 ай бұрын
Right now am trying to get pregnant again but it difficult it almost a year what should I do pls
@ds8026 8 күн бұрын
I had 3 c-sections and I want to have another one. But I’m worried and unsure about the risks involved with this. I’m very nervous. But I also want another baby.
@blessedwhitney 3 жыл бұрын
I've heard that there's a limit to how many c sections you can have, as they get more difficult or something? Can Jenny say anything about having so many? I'm feeling pushed into VBAC but I'm terrified that all the pushing is going to cause the old scar to break.
@BoomHelloItsMe 3 жыл бұрын
I’m not sure if you’ve had your baby yet. I’m a VBAC mom, and I if it’s something that you are considering doing, I highly suggest choosing a provider with VBAC experience and that will take the proper steps to ensure that you feel as comfortable as you can with the process. Ultimately, you want to go in to your birth experience feeling confident about your decision and if that is having another c section, go that route. Whatever is best for you and your family🤎
@laurenastudillo3216 Жыл бұрын
My doula is considered part of the birth team so I can have both in the room
@AshleyDR75 3 жыл бұрын
I had my daughter by emergency c section and I’m glad I knew nothing before. I think I faced it a lot more practically and calmly when I didn’t know anything about c sections. I just did what they told me and knew I just had to get it done. Cuz I’m like CRINGING watching this. Lol. They moved my organs over? Omg. I’m afraid to watch c section videos. And the pressure of them cutting and pulling and pushing was WEIRD. It was weird. No pain but I could feel everything they were doing. And my baby did not want to come out. The surgeon was pulling for 30 minutes and finally cut me more in order to get my baby out. She went right to the incubator because they had to pump her lungs because she was not crying or breathing. She’s super healthy and good though
@AshleyDR75 3 жыл бұрын
She is 17 months now. And I still have c section pain. It would be interesting if you could find someone that knows about c section complications
@RawrDeeDee 3 жыл бұрын
Also sections in the UK are different to the US.. I went in for 5am no food from 12pm had a tablet that helps neutralise your stomach acid, got given a gown as did my partner when we arrived.. Filled some last minute forms had one last ultra sound to ensure baby was still stuck ect. Then waiting.. Waiting... And then you get wheeled down.. One last check over before going in make sure you've not got any jewellery ect on.. Then I went in as my partner waited outside and then they done my spinal and added the drips and the process began.. They spray your legs with this cold spray to ensure you can't feel anything.. Then you're numb. They walk you through everything and boom baby is out.i got a cuddle so did my partner took photos.. Then my son went with my partner while they finished off my procedure and I went to the recovery room and that was that!
@sheena3 7 ай бұрын
That’s same for Canadians ! ❤
@laure189 5 ай бұрын
I got told that I was "triggering people" by sharing my positive C-section birth story, because some people had traumatic C-sections. I find the stigma around C-sections absolutely ridiculous. C-sections are fine, they can be beautiful, and recovery can be totally ok. I'll continue sharing that! Not everyone has the choice!
@CarolMRosado 5 ай бұрын
My baby cried right away, and I just had my 5th baby
@clawedbychristy6708 2 ай бұрын
Do NOT have ANYTHING to eat before the c section surgery! Even a couple of hours before is not good…it’s serious it’s not just about throwing it up! It’s about aspiration…can be very dangerous I can’t believe you said that 😮 you should pin this comment to the top OR comment at the top about wbweuounot to do that…
@khadijasesay9143 Жыл бұрын
Hello dear you already had 6 c section so you know a lot I just want to know if it is OK for me to get pregnant in three or six month time because I lost my baby last month the 13
@aartinegi3447 Жыл бұрын
I also lost my son i also want to get pregnant again ,😭
@ohhfoodie Жыл бұрын
I lost my first born, and i got pregnant after 3 months. I didn't face any complications. Sadly, i lost my second born also. It's been one year. I as giving myself a time to heal mentally and physically. May Allah bless us with healthy babies.
@ohhfoodie Жыл бұрын
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@sheikhhumza8522 Ай бұрын
@@ohhfoodiekia hva tha apk dono bchon ko
@ohhfoodie Ай бұрын
@@sheikhhumza8522 breathing issue
@nolifemedina4495 3 жыл бұрын
I'm about to have my 6th c section Jenny how are you doing?
@LovelyKee89 Жыл бұрын
How did it go?
@nanaronhano337 Жыл бұрын
How did everything go?
@teliatorres1368 Жыл бұрын
Did you have a lot of scar tissue due to all the surgery’s
@ASmith-jn7kf Жыл бұрын
Not a lot or not very tough/hard scar tissue because they were able to enter through the same scar six times.
@Aris-Darling Жыл бұрын
This is so dangerous. I appreciate the insight into the process but never once was it mentioned how life threatening this procedure is. No one needs to have so many children or c-sections..
@jnimmaldonado5576 Жыл бұрын
I have had 5 c sections and it could be life threatening I have not had any complications but I wouldn’t have a 6 one I have 4 boys and my last a girl 🥳🥳🥳😂😂😂 my 2 and 3 child were really close i got pregnant 🤰 right after having my 2nd gave birth in August 6 was pregnant by October 🤦🏻♀️with my 3 rd had a c section Aug 2010 and July 2011 🤦🏻♀️ i was told with my daughter not to have anymore c sections even tho I have never had complications so I would not have a 6th to risky !
@ashmc9754 Жыл бұрын
To say someone don't need that many kids is extremely rude and so not your place to say... I'm having a 5th one and the doctors are not at all worried not one bit and they are very very good doctors. They gave one lady 11 c sections safely with no complications Birth naturally or c sections have risk.
@nanaronhano337 Жыл бұрын
@@jnimmaldonado5576ow! Congratulations! I have had 3 so far 21 months and 17 months apart. 5 children would be a dream. ❤
@Starlight_fire71 Жыл бұрын
I wish I was that clam I also had 5 C-section and pregnant now with my 6th baby I’m scared to death 🥲
@familybrooks1441 Жыл бұрын
How did your 5 c section go? And how apart from your fourth was it :)?, I'm about to have my 5th
@Starlight_fire71 Жыл бұрын
@@familybrooks1441 it went good doctor just said I had a lot of scarring and it was like 3 years apart . But my other ones was less than 2 years apart .
@kotkatajemnic Жыл бұрын
@Tiarra Patrick Well you can always have a VBAC. You get to choose
@lynmcknight1215 Жыл бұрын
@@kotkatajemnic you can't have a Vbac after 5 c sections
@kotkatajemnic Жыл бұрын
@@lynmcknight1215 Look up on youtube "Free birth after 5 c-sections". On Freebirth society. It's not impossible.
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