9 reasons why she comes back after you give her distance

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Women are very interesting to say the least, she's been playing hard to get or perhaps didn't value you at all, so you withdrew from her. Now, she's back, banging on your door. Why does this keep happening?
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@billydavis1263 2 жыл бұрын

When someone treats you like an option, help them to narrow down their choices by removing yourself from the equation. It's that simple.

@simonkimathi1484 2 жыл бұрын

Yea billy

@mumenguvuze2093 2 жыл бұрын

That is exactly what I did recently ... Am at my happiest . Awesome life

@billydavis1263 2 жыл бұрын

@@mumenguvuze2093 you are the most important person in the world. Hold on to that thought forever!

@1stone379 2 жыл бұрын

Word

@kelvesterwilliams3898 2 жыл бұрын

I don't have a belly

@leoncomlanhekpazo4386 2 жыл бұрын

No need beating about the bush. She comes back after rejecting you simply means that she did not manage to get a better option and obviously that you are NOT her first choice. Never let in a woman for whom you're nothing more than a choice by default. She will drop you the day she will come accross someone of her true standards. PERIOD

@mupenziedwin295 2 жыл бұрын

Fact👌👌

@captainkeyboard1007 2 жыл бұрын

That comment is a good warning.

@dominosamuz 2 жыл бұрын

True bro

@anmolpandey6576 2 жыл бұрын

my bro spitting fact

@qimarebruner8356 2 жыл бұрын

Facts

@prasannagupchup7887 Жыл бұрын

She left you. You leave her. She doesn't respond, you don't either. She doesn't text back, follow no contact rule. You call her, she doesn't answer. Stop calling her. Respect her totally by exactly reciprocating the way she is treating you. Man, this is the way to go. You will never be happier than this.

@khi3v40 Жыл бұрын

No, you mean respect yourself by moving on without wasting energy or saying a word lol

@emmanuelgabrynmoutondoboul2035 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for your expertise

@emiwreck194 Жыл бұрын

Let me just try out, cause I'm in deep stress

@alkaullahmediaTz Жыл бұрын

yuh saidit man. yuh have finish!

@Sam-us8qt Жыл бұрын

She will always come back to look for you. Because she will get dump by others and she will think of you. What goes around comes around. Remember that. Karma may take time but karma never fail to do it's work. It is just a matter of time she will look for you again.

@stevencastle2551 Жыл бұрын

Remember this: you lived your life before, without her. You ate your food, you played your toy, you enjoyed your youthful without her by your side. So, you can live without her. You dont need her for you to live. You proved that already, a long time ago!

@MAX-E902 Ай бұрын

Facts bro

@ilarryshe6861 2 жыл бұрын

“Treat her like a celebrity, she’d treat you like a fan”.

@barakawabuge5285 2 жыл бұрын

Hahaha i am not doinf that again

@donellhowell6954 2 жыл бұрын

Deep facts

@frimzprodie465 2 жыл бұрын

Waste

@professahbruno1578 2 жыл бұрын

Wind that back, treat her like a lady as Joe Thomas sang, before you do that though practice karma= treat her like a fan and she will keep on begging for an autograph every time she sees you around!📝

@chubbrockstar187 2 жыл бұрын

Facts!!!!

@mandisinqata8834 2 жыл бұрын

As the society of men let's honour Jessica because she's making a huge impact in our relationship life

@nate4139 Жыл бұрын

Agreed

@Sammie551 Жыл бұрын

And those men who disagree with her watch the whole video lol

@matamboshula1527 Жыл бұрын

Very true

@lawrencejor277 Жыл бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@GreeneChakra Жыл бұрын

Yesss

@blakprophet9305 2 жыл бұрын

Reason 6 is the main reason and they find out the grass is not greener on the other side. Most likely they was rejected by the guy they wanted and not realizing she rejected the guy she needed

@terrymitchell4579 Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@013DREC 2 жыл бұрын

For a woman to truthfully tell us about the ways of women speaks volumes. That means they are well aware of their tactics

@annotatedmedicaltutorials858 2 жыл бұрын

My friend told me to never take someone who never chose me the first time. Someone who comes to you after rejecting you the first time. You are special. NEVER GIVE SECOND CHANCES.

@robertsmith4714 2 жыл бұрын

That happened to me before and I take one week..and that's the worst thing I ever did in my life

@annotatedmedicaltutorials858 2 жыл бұрын

@@robertsmith4714 me too i will never do it again

@audreylewis965 2 жыл бұрын

Its true. I see it all the time.

@stefbaws 2 жыл бұрын

That's just means you were never her first choice neither on the second chance

@robertsmith4714 2 жыл бұрын

@@stefbaws she want me to be her choice now.be she find out that I live over seas and doingwell not likeI wasn't doing well then but now I'm doingbetter...that could never work no way

@orian3131 2 жыл бұрын

TO be honest it’s better for us men to be single and work on ourselves. Woman these days will leave as soon as she feels she has other options. Once those options run dry she come running back

@kabysummit5801 2 жыл бұрын

In the West yes that’s how it is

@sayitloudblcknproud 2 жыл бұрын

Funny, that's how women feel about men. Men will leave a long term relationship, even after telling their girl that she's the love of their life and promising marriage, just because they found new tail.

@royaltykonceptz 2 жыл бұрын

@@kabysummit5801 this happened to me from a girl from Russia...it's everywhere!!!

@orian3131 2 жыл бұрын

@@sayitloudblcknproud nah. You got it wrong. More than likely a man will stay in a relationship even if he is unhappy especially if he has kids with said woman. Plus if a man cheats it literally means nothing. He still loves his girl. But when a woman cheats. It means everything bc women form an emotional connection way b4 the sex happens

@tim46153 2 жыл бұрын

Quite horrible human beings it’s seems they are a lot of the time. Unfortunately a sign of the modern social media times 😩

@ephraimakoto3657 2 жыл бұрын

A lady left me at my worst moment, when I was sick,she was no where to be found, when I got better she started giving me silent treatment, I ignored her. Now after 2 years my life is better and she is trying to do all she can for me to accept her. I made her do some stuff and kicked her to the streets. She was only interested in me for my progress not who I am.

@mirskii2758 2 жыл бұрын

That’s deep my Brother‼️❤️ Keep grinding and growing

@MacLeethal_87 2 жыл бұрын

I know this all to well continue to be be strong my guy

@DejiTalker 2 жыл бұрын

Ride on brother

@akasickform Жыл бұрын

Narcissists do this As soon as they see you as "inferior" (not well in this case) they treat you like trash as their "perfect image" of you is shattered

@ephraimakoto3657 Жыл бұрын

Thanks, brothers. Just do not rely on a woman,s lovebombing phase because it will end in a relationship.

@Powerline1391 2 жыл бұрын

Distance always gives time to reflect for both parties…

@andersnielsen6044 2 жыл бұрын

If she leaves for distance... She is gone forever.

@bernardanyetei4181 2 жыл бұрын

God only knows how much I have fallen for the "I missed you" trap 😂😂😂😂😂

@nshomjoel7543 2 жыл бұрын

Hahaha

@rl3656 2 жыл бұрын

😂😂 havnt we all

@ndahemeka7741 Жыл бұрын

We have all😂😂💔. We need to cleanse ourselves

@enobongobong2728 2 ай бұрын

It's probably funny but we always find a way back

@juliusv.cnwachukwu6076 2 жыл бұрын

"Kick her to the Curb" You made my day, thanks Jessica.

@leowest5106 2 жыл бұрын

When a woman distant her self from you Please use that moment wisely, focused on your self put your happiness first heal your self. Correct your self from all’s your mistake You had with her your past Relationship.work your life back up, believe me you will see different they will know you the master Mind.

@baldealpha0997 2 жыл бұрын

If she comes back it might simply be because she hasn't found any better options out there. Never forget she let you down once because she is more than likely to repeat that again for whatever reason. Stay focus brothers #TeamAlpha🐺

@dj29550 2 жыл бұрын

On god hold them the same way they hold us

@dripgeng5554 2 жыл бұрын

Facts #

@baldealpha0997 2 жыл бұрын

@@dripgeng5554 'preciate your support bro

@baldealpha0997 2 жыл бұрын

@@dj29550 Sure know what to say bruh👍

@addnel2000 2 жыл бұрын

Can you just eat her and dump her?

@stevenharrison9032 Жыл бұрын

I was rejected twice by the same woman. The first time was a warning. I didn’t see it. The second time is a lesson. There will not be a third…

@tyetr9853 Жыл бұрын

Give us some details, tell us the story.

@lawofthesun Жыл бұрын

Don’t chase a woman!!!!

@keysl Ай бұрын

In my case it was 3 times. I vow to myself there will be no 4th time. I was a simp yes but not anymore.

@rowhaus5478 2 жыл бұрын

In my experience, women often come back because they miss the power they had over you. My advice to any guy in this situation would be to move on without them. There’s no better feeling than finding happiness elsewhere, with someone who genuinely appreciates you, and leaving those who rejected you behind. It’s not uncommon for them to reach out via text or social media as well, trying to pry themselves back into your life, but you gotta let them know that ship has sailed. Don’t waste your time with these women.

@tadmira127dreamuvtadmir2 2 жыл бұрын

It's been 8 months and my boyfriend's ex keeps looking for him and calling him, I've already gotten married from that situation and well yesterday we broke up because I'm tired of that girl being everywhere, he says he told her not to look for her and that he doesn't want anything with her anymore but I don't understand how an older woman like that can't understand the word no, in the end my relationship is over because he isn't able to put a stop to it, surely he still wants her in his life, I preferred get out of that shit, cause you ain't giving me my spot.

@JChristo1984 2 жыл бұрын

Well said. My ex was dating a guy for a month before she even told me. Just kept blowing me off, even after saying she wanted to get together. Flat out lied bold face to me. In our last conversation, she told me she loves me, but is not in love with me. I said it's lady's choice, and told her I'm out. Haven't heard from her since and I am pretty sure she moved in with her new BF's house. If she was my friend, why would she lie? My hope is we never see each other again. It's difficult because I had no idea, but people don't do that to people they care about. We were together for 8 years. She just vanished. Oh well. If she would have been honest, there was a chance we could have been friends. We have known each other since 5th grade. Such disrespect. It's appalling.

@trvgbeatz Жыл бұрын

True

@geelove44 Жыл бұрын

👌🏾💯

@edwinhernandez5581 Жыл бұрын

I AGREE A 1000%

@JT-wc7me Жыл бұрын

As soon as you focus on your life purpose/ambition she will want to feel like she's important enough to distract you from it; if you let her distract you, she'd tell you, you should have stayed focused on your purpose. The answer is, just focused on yourself anyways

@immanelkwabenaadjepong1698 2 жыл бұрын

Most of the time she coming back cos the guy she has genuine interest for dropped her and you are just the second option.. don't take her back

@jriches957 Жыл бұрын

You re right why don’t you just use her and non serious ? Lol 😂

@JuanGonzalez-lk6uu 2 ай бұрын

Do you have facts to support that claim? Or just talking from experience??

@jeffreyexposito3803 Ай бұрын

@@JuanGonzalez-lk6uu She comes back because she was dumped by her rebound guy and wants you to be the back up guy. That's the main reason.

@josephchris8360 2 жыл бұрын

The best big sister ever with so much wisdom and insight....not only do i become better for relationships whenever I listen to you, I so become a better person with your teachings. Thank you love you big sister ❤️

@edwinomweri 2 жыл бұрын

I felt the same when she whispered...you know what she whispered 😅

@JessicaOS 2 жыл бұрын

Lol

@salah3339 2 жыл бұрын

I watch a videos regularly now

@pave_waywiz8869 2 жыл бұрын

JESSICA why did you quite CitiFm ?

@theodorebennefield2030 2 жыл бұрын

Hold on bruh. Jessica is NOT "big."

@bravebanda4554 2 жыл бұрын

This woman is smart, whatever she says is true and beneficial, women love attention and validation... If they don't get it they feel empty...

@JanVill Жыл бұрын

know your worth, fellas. focus on you. and like from that one video I recently saw says, "you don't deserve someone who comes back, you deserve someone who never leaves."

@mvuyisityiwani9080 2 жыл бұрын

"Scarcity creates value".

@andrewokuni7487 2 жыл бұрын

I wouldn't call it value. Women just want to eat their cake and have it.

@hermanlucaslucas846 2 жыл бұрын

@@andrewokuni7487 true that you might have cubic zirconium

@gabrieludensi5072 Жыл бұрын

Wow thats cute word from Jessica,I ve a girl dat I really love so much and was planing to end up wit her,I just travel for two months and she mess up and I came bck and notice and was able to forgive her but her attitude was nothing to write about but this girl has become part of me and am still battling to let her off from my hrt.

@some3sharks Ай бұрын

Always 💯💯💯

@Hocklie333 2 жыл бұрын

Like she said if the only thing someone is interested in doing is keeping the flame from dying but doesn't want a relationship then more than likely they are surrounding themselves with other flames too. Just remember they may love collecting all that warmth and bright light from those flames now, but eventually the only thing that's going to do is cause their house to burn down.

@josezerpa8177 Жыл бұрын

This last girl I used to date was very attractive, and she told me a few stories of guys who would become obsessed over her , even to the extreme that some guy went to her house and started yelling at her from outside because she had dumped him. I told her then that I was not that kind of guy. Shortly after she tried to friendzone me. I validated her decision of not seeing me anymore, and refused to be friends with her. She insisted and I said it's better to part ways. She then said she would still "say hello" if she ever saw me in the neighborhood. Fellas, don't be that crazy stalker that chases her around. Take your L with dignity, move on QUICKLY, and carry on with your life as if nothing happened. Yeah it sucks to be rejected, but it sucks more betraying yourself by agreeing to do something you don't want. Having that clarity of what you want is key. Do not ever settle for less. Thank you Jessica , your content is PURE GOLD,.

@oganebu 9 ай бұрын

I hate wen a lady tells me let’s be freinds,how do you tell a 38 year old man to keep female freinds up and down?later they’ll say men are scum and men don’t stay one place!

@raphealnelson5551 2 жыл бұрын

I will cherish this channel…the men in my family always taught us to chase money…because you’ll lose money chasing women but you’ll NEVER lose women chasing money💪🏾💯

@raphealnelson5551 2 жыл бұрын

I’m good but thank you…I don’t want her back I just move on and constantly progress with no distraction…I’m actually glad we split now I have a peace of mind

@Joshua_s_23 2 жыл бұрын

The “kick her to the curve” whisper and witch/witchcraft. Sprinkle Holy Water on you are pure comedy 😂😂😂

@paulthobe3489 2 жыл бұрын

I will never give them a chance. Once an abusive person. Most likely always an abusive person. They left you every for less. Your job is not to redeem them but, for them never to do it again. Learning is a self taught lesson hardest to do but, best for you future.

@leonardmuranj4112 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Jessica, I have a feeling that women happen to be the most selfish people I have ever seen. Imagine as a man, I'm chasing goals for us, so that we two get better especially financially. Then, she starts complicating life, wants to be chased and pampered like babies. Come on, love should be considerate of our life dreams together, not passing all the time pampering someone. Time waits for no one. Let's focus on our goals and as well as love each other genuinely.💞

@morkakenneth4737 2 жыл бұрын

Fact… Bless you bro

@chimadivine7715 11 ай бұрын

The way your thoughts transform into fluent words of exact description is so phenomenal. Well done.

@paulconteh4219 2 жыл бұрын

You always answer my questions ..... when ever I don't have answers to life questions you always seem to post videos at the right time .... thank you very much u are a real Blessing

@thelegendarycritique40 2 жыл бұрын

Fellas please don’t take her back when she comes back.. Why? She literally playing games with you and giving you mixed signals when things should be straightforward..

@slavenpladou2319 11 ай бұрын

Let them go. Hit the gym. Become a 2.0 version of yourself. Become physically and mentally stronger and I promise you, she’ll take notice one day and beg to come back but we never take them. Never be plan b. Move on with your life soldiers. My 10 year relationship ended and she went with someone practically straight away, all these new friends. It’s skin deep nonsense. She’ll regret it, it’s a matter of time. My pain is in the past. It’s me time and I’ve let her go. The grass isn’t greener babe but it’s too late for you.

@bobbimensahatopley9894 2 жыл бұрын

Your videos have been of immense help to me... I have started the road to recovering myself and focusing on the things that matter: myself, my goals, my future... Thank you so much. I deleted so many contacts that were of NO benefit at all to me. Still more contacts to go

@Original_jataro 2 жыл бұрын

I was pondering some of these questions about a year ago based upon an experience I had at the time so hearing your perspective is so refreshing and enlightening. Thanks Jessica much love!

@coldonecold4384 2 жыл бұрын

Lol wicth probably 🤣 😅 😂

@onyekachiokpi7761 2 жыл бұрын

Jessica, you just saved a life, almost all you said, was my experience with my ex.. I am grateful, thank you so much... Indeed knowledge is power

@willgabriel5275 2 жыл бұрын

Jessica, I can't appreciate you enough. I was almost crying to this. But you're really helping lots out there. I bless the day I found you. Thank you so much for your invaluable pieces. You need to be awarded in the hall of fame for all the males out here.

@bendoyle5023 Жыл бұрын

I've watched every break up video on KZfaq now that I am going through my most painful breakup and yours are the only one that have made me feel better! You've indirectly reminded me that I don't need to chase her and that if we dont make things work then life will be okay without her. Thankyou

@Verstify 2 жыл бұрын

I love how you articulate your words and composure. Straight from kenya one love

@davidwaiganjo5343 2 жыл бұрын

Tuko wengi huku

@eldrickejleest 2 жыл бұрын

I think you speak the most truth out of any relationship guru on youtube.

@bbnCRLB 2 жыл бұрын

There's a lot one can achieve in life than chasing who doesn't want you. I tried that twice at 18 and 19 and learnt that early to never chase.

@1stone379 2 жыл бұрын

Things get VVVVEEEERY INTERESTING in the work place when a women you were light-weight flirting with (because she opened the door to see if she still has that type of pull) catches another good looking woman trying to flirt with you in her face 😂😂😂 The aftermath is freakin hiiiiilarious

@FNC84 Жыл бұрын

@@1stone379bad man 😂😂

@ogbonnafrancis2495 2 жыл бұрын

Dear Jessica..... This is by far one of the best videos I've watched. I have watched it over and over again and it has really been helpful. Thank You.

@derrickbrooks6833 2 жыл бұрын

Nice, no one could have put it down better than you. Excellent points. Keep up the great work

@gowonclasp7249 2 жыл бұрын

You read my mind at point #8 when you said jealousy a woman hates to see a man at his very best and not be apart of it that's something I see a lot with most women 💯💯💯

@georgeagu7388 2 жыл бұрын

She nailed that one

@toddbr5959 2 жыл бұрын

Most of them are like that! From my prospective that's a toxic behaviour! They want us to like them even when they are at they're lowest but when we are at our lowest they dump us! Double standards i see.

@kennethletterlou3451 2 жыл бұрын

@@toddbr5959 i agree its definitely a toxic behavior trait fr

@mray9305 2 жыл бұрын

Women will project and put you down for having a nice car, clothes and job. Especially if it means they need to compete with other women or they can not do it for thenslves

@robelasgedom 2 жыл бұрын

"If someone can walk away from you, let them walk." T.D.Jakes

@qwesiemansaya2642 2 жыл бұрын

The sprinkle holy water part got me😂😂😂…Jessica you’re the best. Much love Jess❤️

@arunj.gnanarathinam1412 2 жыл бұрын

Completely level headed & honest. Jessica you've cut all the BS & driven straight to the point. You're leadership material. Way to go ✌️👍👏👌

@dwightdaniels3283 2 жыл бұрын

That's for sure 💯

@christopherj8324 2 жыл бұрын

I'm going through something similar. Thank you for your insight!

@dietermendoza6385 2 жыл бұрын

phenomenal, absolutely phenomenal. please make more videos. don't stop. you're the older sister I need.

@leroyallen3222 Жыл бұрын

You always speak the truth and that's why I appreciate you Jessica

@citrinwarren6073 2 жыл бұрын

Jessica, it appears to me that you are highly inspired in all these sensitive topics. You always strike the nail on the head. I can always relate to your topics. Thanks

@kinche6380 2 жыл бұрын

You are amazing. Thank you for mentioning that a woman who doesn't want you and doesn't want you to move on with someone is a witch. You are the best Jessica. 👌 I learn a lot from you and continue this ministry to us.

@dougmannix2559 2 жыл бұрын

Straight forward and makes sense!! Good one Jessica!!

@johndiggs4060 Жыл бұрын

Queen Jessica blesses us with that holy knowledge once again!! Thank you Queen!

@Nimeamua 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Jessica! This video really hit me deep

@williamsgege5481 2 жыл бұрын

I've been following your videos quietly for a long while and I must confess that you good and always improving at what you do best. I appreciate your impact. Keep you the good work.

@mightymike5801 2 жыл бұрын

She comes back because you loved her and she tried to get your love from somebody else but the probably with that is the way you love and another man loves is different

@damianlopez7630 Жыл бұрын

Thank You Jessica Os. You are a True Gem!!!

@adamjayson2007 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Jessica for the advice I was in the same situation a couple years ago,and I just cut her off because all she was doing is used up my energy and time.

@Torpedopot 2 жыл бұрын

Great advice and excellent assessment

@kevin392 2 жыл бұрын

What you say, point by point, is spot on.

@emmanuelndlovu6753 2 жыл бұрын

thank you Love...such an eye opening information...and the best thing ius i ddnt search for your channel its just popped on my screen ..

@pamotorsports763 Жыл бұрын

I have to thank you. Your videos help me just stay away and not fall back into BS w my ex. I walked away from inconsistency, games, silent treatment and it always being turned on me. I've taken this energy and put it all into bettering myself. I told her you said she's no good. Lol

@kevinhill3549 Жыл бұрын

Hard to find a good woman. You must dominate her totally. Even the good woman are bad. Don't be afraid to leave her instantly. Be the alpha

@jeremiahperez9451 2 жыл бұрын

I’m about to tell her too Jess said she no bueno I needed this clarity so much help new here and I’m already loving it

@jossell911 2 жыл бұрын

Awesome vid and you’re definitely right about the last one. They loved being chased and get a thrill out of it. Deserves a ton of views💯

@perseverancelite1 2 жыл бұрын

All of her single/cheating friends are starting to settle down and not pulling her out to clubs or parties and you’ve improved without her. Grass is definitely not greener.😉😁

@richardhanula4702 2 жыл бұрын

stumbled upon your channel and im pretty amazed, hearing this stuff from womans perspective adds to it. you go girl and thank you

@rebwarmoradi93 Ай бұрын

I've been in some horrible situations recently and one of my friends send this to me, thanks for being so genuine and knowledgeful you words really got a way to my heart ❤❤

@janefegarido6493 Жыл бұрын

This is also a good advice to us women. My ex boyfriend broke up with me because he said that we can't be together in reality. And aside from that I gave him too much of my time and attentions which is didn't reciprocate at all. When I stopped talking to him after 2 months, he came back and asking me too much questions. He asked me to meet him but I rejected it because I'm still not getting over him. Thank you Jessica, love your channel❤

@usangelemi4966 2 жыл бұрын

Big Jessy I am short of words to say truly. To be honest I started listening to you some few month ago in this year and each and every words I hear you say do works a lot of magic in my life. This particular episode of yours is mind blowing it really got me moving on now and working on myself for the future to come. Yes I agree the part you did talk about a Lady who does not have your interest but still they will not want to see you with another person that is witch craft like you said.... Thank you Jessy for your motivational words they have really help me a lot and am ready to move on to become a Better a person. Thanks a lot Jessy and I am also a proud Nigeria I love everything about my African... Do have a wonderful year Beautiful Jessy with much love from Nigeria.

@kevincroft9848 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Jessica for your video message . It helped me very much. I got alot out of this video . Iam very grateful that you are helping us men out here Kevin xxx

@kizitodzamesi6153 11 ай бұрын

Thank you for the motivation words

@tacticalhuddy3614 2 жыл бұрын

"They get curious why you aren't giving them attention anymore....and they will come back...DON'T GIVE IT TO THEM"....Jessy I really like your take, side comments, thought process, concepts and constructs. Those punches of advice that you so softly punctuate your video are invaluable. And some sense of humor.

@coolbenny2005 Жыл бұрын

Give her the break up she asked for .It’s that simple.Chasing a woman give her validation and when you take it away she runs back

@josephasiimwe8290 2 жыл бұрын

Great comments and like your calm tone with the way to deliberate. Great stuff.

@themangerministry3021 Жыл бұрын

God bless you sis, you are currently helping me in a challenge am into currently

@tiggergolah Жыл бұрын

I'm actually going to add that to my repertoire. "Jessica said you're no good." I love it.

@olalekanoyewole8972 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Jesse. You definitely don't realise how positively you are impacting our lifes. You are indeed a blessing to our generation.

@JessicaOS 2 жыл бұрын

Wow, thank you!

@marvinbruce9328 2 жыл бұрын

She deserves an award, on a serious note!!

@SubiloMusonda 2 жыл бұрын

Nice video! I was so glued not to miss any single word.💝

@kgjinteriors6439 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Jessy. Am really glad

@jl_4_preZz 2 жыл бұрын

I only follow 2 KZfaq pages... This one of them and my favorite one. Thank you for this... Reinforcing what I've been thinking and feeling. Much love!

@VeeShenge 2 жыл бұрын

Women are so full of it, this is what this video confirms to me. Something that I already knew.

@paulramuki5836 2 жыл бұрын

sending just love and appreciation to you for all the content from South Africa

@bonginkosiherbet9755 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for your channel... It's really helps...especially emotionally

@MrDreed2667 Жыл бұрын

I have been watching your videos for a few a days now and I have to say I have learned more in three days than in three years. You seem to have an old soul because of the wisdom that you provide. Also, it's a pleasure hearing from a woman giving relationship advise to men. Your perspective is refreshing and unique. Thank you for sharing your knowledge.

@trashawnjackson5956 2 жыл бұрын

This lady is so on point. 👍🏾. Me being a man I have had this happen to me at least 3 times in my life. Couldn't figure out why they would wanna come back after I moved on.

@datstovey Жыл бұрын

Crazy right, happened to me twice.

@sparktech96 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video. This situation has happened to me lately.

@jomomogorosi4684 2 жыл бұрын

This is super super content. Thank you Jessica, much enjoyed 👊

@janvantboss8240 2 жыл бұрын

So to be short. Whenever a girl comes back to you, don’t take her back.

@datstovey Жыл бұрын

Pretty much

@hmanfilms Жыл бұрын

I keep seeing all of these 1) She couldn’t find someone better 2) don’t give her a second chance These are all so negative. Sometimes a woman just needs space to contemplate the relationship, feel big feelings, feel your absence and realize how much she values about the relationship to continue it. Peoples minds jump straight to negative

@howtosnatch Жыл бұрын

This is what the world needs more of.

@thegreatxander7 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for not being negative.

@shannonjackson3470 Жыл бұрын

💯💯🔥

@mzeimagida8364 9 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@SentilongJamir777 2 ай бұрын

Sometimes they leave because the guy became comfortable in his own space and lost his path 😞 we need to self reflect and become a better version and when the time is right if she or he was for you God will bring you two together. Sometimes all we need in life is to self reflect and change for better. Thanks for the postive comment.