What to do when she breaks up with you| The Power Of Silent Treatment

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This video shows you the exact steps you will need to go through if your girl just broke up with you. It will help you heal very fast or have her running back to you in no time.
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00:00 - Intro
01:42 - sponsor plug
02:01 - If she just broke up do this
05:13 - 4 ways silence will benefit you
06:01- benefit 2
06:22 - benefit 3
07:17 - benefit 4
08:02 - How to implement no contact rule
08:53 - Rule 2
09:37 - Rule 3
10:35 - Conclusion

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@JessicaOS 10 ай бұрын

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@ltgaw1665 9 ай бұрын

Hi jessica, is this method working with an ex who lose their feelings towards you and is on an LDR relationship?

@kennydadi47 9 ай бұрын

@@ltgaw1665 You are amazing, you are doing good job with the information you shared always. Keep the good work.

@ederjean9802 9 ай бұрын

Thanks

@user-mr2gq2wd5p 8 ай бұрын

Everyday I learn something new❤❤❤❤

@abdulseko6376 4 ай бұрын

@@ltgaw1665 🔥🔥🔥

@redlinek6514 Жыл бұрын

This is my message to my fellow men. Go to the gym. Lift weights 💪🏾. Be dangerous and silent. Become logical. Destroy the old u and unlock the new u. If a woman or someone that close to you hurts you. You have to go to war with yourself. You your pain and rage to conquer the world. That's what a man supposed to do. And for the women that gives us men the knowledge. Thank you. Use your pain and rage to better yourself, not hurt people. Only control what you can control. And that's u

@JoeBlack540 Жыл бұрын

Thanks dude your comment is 🔥

@carmitechnology Жыл бұрын

Thanks nice words of encouragement.

@jayripp84 Жыл бұрын

Thanks I needed that

@learnpianofastonline Жыл бұрын

Thank you very much.

@Confirmdad Жыл бұрын

Bro you go fire 🔥 🔥🔥👍

@hanzbrixx6672 Жыл бұрын

"Silence is the best response to someone who doesn't value your words". That's Gold.

@turonwhitfield7917 2 ай бұрын

Definitely a Dimond

@Confirmdad Жыл бұрын

Lot of men are going through what you just break down. Men always stress just to give women better life, working long hours, cherish them like a queen and still get treated like dustbin. Thank you for saving our heart ❤️

@_JayWay Жыл бұрын

My current situation. Working my ass out only to get to a fierce house 😅

@anthonylogiudice9215 Жыл бұрын

Briffault's Law - No matter what you have done for her, the benefits she derived from those acts are always temporary and her question will be, "What you have you done for me lately." If the answer is in the negative, you're on the bubble.

@dizzofx4493 3 ай бұрын

@confirmdad, this is what i am facing right now, in the same situation, but not yet break up. I worked long hours, and she's not even working with 4 kids. Giving me a kinda of trauma and I tryna concentrate at work but with God has been helping me out. Once, I closed from work, going home is another thing for me. A lot of thinking 🤔 damn. Thanks for this piece madam Jessica

@iramhernandez1875 Ай бұрын

Indeed

@damolaadeoti Жыл бұрын

This works!! I got quiet and turned to God even more. I was transformed, strengthened, smarter, wiser, God did his thing on me. It’s crazy how much clarity you get when you get quiet.

@damolaadeoti Жыл бұрын

@@temitopeoyeyemi899 you can do it bro. As long you chose to focus on yourself. Not in a selfish way but in a “growth” way. During this time try and see how you can improve yourself. Pick up a book or an hobby. Most of all, yield to God bro. He will transform you.

@mattd8868 Жыл бұрын

Amen brother it is amazing when the heart is broken and in the reshaping process when you turn & give it to the Lord you grow exponentially Psalm 51:17. Im living proof. Started to pray, read my bible & get back in Bible based church. In less than 2 years. Gym, wrote a book, started LLC, started mentoring again. Rediscovered my true purpose. Side note my ex once me back...but unfortunately I've out grown her. I kindly & lovely rejected her request.

@damolaadeoti Жыл бұрын

@@mattd8868 praise God!! I’m so happy for you broda. I’m so much better now. So much transformation and revelations received. To God be the glory. When we turn to God during heart break or any unfortunate life situations, we will never lose because we have a solid foundation. Much love broda.

@MentionDav3 Жыл бұрын

Amen me to brother. 7 year relationship and God ripped me from her put me in isolation and reshaped my heart. I went from wanting bad for her to praying she find her way to God also. But we’re done I’m not going back

@damolaadeoti Жыл бұрын

@@MentionDav3 amen brother. Stay up in the light bro. God is your strength bro.

@KontryBoy706 Жыл бұрын

Giving them the silent treatment is hard, but it MUST be done. Do not initiate contact even if you want to talk to them. Silence really is golden.

@godjudah6422 Жыл бұрын

Does it means you shouldn't pick their calls and answer their text as well ???

@Omnitrix8 Жыл бұрын

@@godjudah6422 Now that choice is up to you. If you have to pick up her call, keep it platonic, be happy, do not display anger or grief and above all, KEEP IT REALLY SHORT. Text wise, do not respond immediately. Give it a couple of hours or a day. That shows you are NOT desperate.keep the text short and do not let the conversation drag. Show high value ✌🏿

@captainkeyboard1007 Жыл бұрын

An old saying is, "Silence is golden." There is a time to speak, and there is a time to be silent.

@jordangarrick669 Жыл бұрын

@@godjudah6422 Yup....

@jordangarrick669 Жыл бұрын

If you really want the gal back, your only chance is to use the silent treatment. It sucks - it's like going cold turkey from nicotine or caffeine. But if you act on your instinctive reactions when she bolts, you'll permanently wreck the relationship and prove her accusations correct about you "pressuring" her. Women cannot stand being ignored and are totally confused by it. It's your only remaining effective - and legal - weapon, men; use it wisely. And under no circumstances should you publicly lose your temper - go scream into an empty canyon if you have to, but never at her....

@musopero1 Жыл бұрын

I tried his when my wife left because I had quit my job to concentrate on art. I disappeared completely out of site and she started living it up with a new boyfriend who had quite a good job as a clerk. It took me a year before the sacrifice I had made began to pay off when I started painting portraits. I earned in a week, if not far more , what her new guy made in a month. One day they went to a posh nightclub and some of my portraits of jazz musicians were hanging on the wall. Her new boyfriend loved jazz and remarked to someone who by chance knew me. When my ex heard that they were my paintings she desperately tried to get back to me, but I had moved on. She tried committing sucide to get my attention but to no avail. The boyfriend had met another girl whom he got engaged to and later married .

@TheWonderwiess Жыл бұрын

She's in it for the thrill and high life

@peterjoe530 Жыл бұрын

What a story 😃👌🏾

@TimeWaveOfficial Жыл бұрын

Ahahaaha karma!

@jomama468 Жыл бұрын

In swahili there’s a saying we have “mtaka yote, hukosa yote” He who wants it all, loses it all

@mrsquidwardtentacles9001 Жыл бұрын

this is the happy ending i wanna hear

@timothyisidro4215 6 ай бұрын

My partner of 7 years just ended things with me a week ago. It was so sudden and felt like the whole world was ending. I've been trying so hard to keep in touch with her, trying to mend things to no avail, acting like a desperate fool. No more. That ends now. Thank you for your message. I needed it.

@slooptrooperunlimitedofthe1772 5 ай бұрын

I am with you right now, I did the same.

@alexanderthomas2457 5 ай бұрын

Bro go to the gym, read more books about growing and be silent.

@Pedroxide 4 ай бұрын

This is exactly me!!! But as you say… no more!!! There’s a new me!

@chives3034 3 ай бұрын

Sorry to hear

@MultiPrincelove 3 ай бұрын

I know how it feels, stay strong...

@1974dodgecharger Жыл бұрын

Man, people don’t know how to commit anymore… technology has truly made relationships harder

@MultiPrincelove 3 ай бұрын

Technology makes people feel they have options.. which are not real options though...

@DerekHarris-wo8kr 3 ай бұрын

I agree 👍 wholeheartedly

@AlvinEugene11 2 ай бұрын

@@MultiPrincelove facts

@dvforextrades Жыл бұрын

Silence, no contact exactly what I practiced on my previous break up. I must say it gave me peace of mind.

@stevo6891 Жыл бұрын

Once someone hurts me I’m done with them

@olumuyiwaashaju6220 Жыл бұрын

@@stevo6891 are you perfect?so you don't hurt anyone?

@tyetr9853 Жыл бұрын

Did they reach out to you

@katyachery6660 Жыл бұрын

Guys seriously? Girl never break up just not reason … never !!!! Maybe you do something wrong ? No ? Seat chat another girls , made tinder or only fans ? And she figur out it’s ? Nobody think why she do it! It’s have a reason always then maybe it’s you first hurt she ?

@limbo4667 Жыл бұрын

I thought traders don't got no emotions no more😅😅😅

@Wisdom1357 Жыл бұрын

The funny thing is, my ex pulled this on me right when I broke up with her. I tried to contact them, reconcile in a couple weeks, but no reply. I was going crazy until one day, I completely ceased trying to contact them and focused on myself instead. Keep in mind we were still friends on Facebook. I than started going to the gym, spending time with friends and family, meeting new people, picking up new hobbies and focusing deeply on my career. I ended buying a 2021 Mustang and losing 25lbs within two months. She looked at my social media of me enjoying my life and BOY WAS SHE PISSED (lol). She was so upset she left a angry note on my door a month later trying to blame me for the breakup and I just ignored it and threw it in the trash. I guess the silent treatment worked for the both of us :).

@mikeomondi6941 Жыл бұрын

WHY DO YOU THINK THAT MOST exs WANT TO KEEP THEIR FORMER PARTNERS HOSTAGE WHILE THEM THEY'RE ALREADY IN OTHER RELATIONSHIPS..???

@ALPHATANGOMIKE350 Жыл бұрын

ATTTA BOY!!! Kill ‘em with kindness!! Work on yourself, and you SURE DID!!! Happy Holidays!! 🎄😎

@L3VELUPTV Жыл бұрын

Why did you want to break up with your ex , what was the reason ?

@nabiserehalson2379 Жыл бұрын

@@mikeomondi6941 thank u

@jhimpcaca5718 Жыл бұрын

why would u want to risk it by breaking up with someone then decided later on u want to contact to reconcile....? Sound like an indecisive grown boy game.

@AndrewFosterSheff69 Жыл бұрын

That rush of emotion... convert that energy into "doing something", don't fight it, don't push it back down, feel it and then MOVE. Go to the gym, lift some weights, do some sit ups or push-ups, but convert that feeling into something good!

@ericwren2507 Жыл бұрын

I dont care what anyone says. People may have forgotten what you have done for them, but they never will forget how you made them feel. If you were good to them one day or one year, they would come back at some point. Try to do you and live life. Just take it one day at a time.

@christianalexander579 Жыл бұрын

If someone was good to you in a relationship and still leave then that's not being loyal at all don't tell someone you want to date them and then just turn it around and break up with them that's why women can't keep a man now

@albinasalata9113 Ай бұрын

There are someone people they don't appreciate anything so try them

@ebodantse90 Жыл бұрын

Jessica is right on the no contact rule. If your partner breaks up do not contact that person. Absence according to Robert Greene creates attraction. If you chase when you are most vulnerable, that person will reaffirm why they left you. Most people find it difficult to end certain relationships and when they do the last thing you don’t won’t to do is to give them the opportunity to affirm their thoughts leading to the break up. During no contact, engage your self with other stuff that will improve you. Learn a skill. I recommend learning how to play the Saxophone 🎷. You meet more women and more people. Hopefully, you’ll find someone worth your while. I’m done. Great vid. Jess.

@psalmodyinspirational1212 Жыл бұрын

Great contribution! Thanks

@cheyo2151 Жыл бұрын

But in my case.. her mom kept on txting me about her daughter..

@teamchang4894 Жыл бұрын

@@cheyo2151 block the mom. Not because you hate her or anything but because she reminds you of someone you’re trying to let go.

@victorjamesweima6216 Жыл бұрын

Great addition to it.

@tabassumtv786 Жыл бұрын

But what if we don’t want to leave that person & if that person is more important then our life

@molaimabilu5183 Жыл бұрын

Went silent after a break up and she still call me today , that’s how I actually healed .😁

@devonpeterson471 9 ай бұрын

This woman has a special place in my heart

@basketballgh Ай бұрын

imagine both partners listening to this video...its gonna be a long quiet year..lol

@Anti-moutons 27 күн бұрын

Me and my ex 😂

@KRATOS-kn7nf Жыл бұрын

After giving her the cold shoulder and moving on with my life, my ex recently sent me a text telling me she didn’t know if it was me or a friend of mine sending her threatening text messages telling her “be careful. I know where you live”. She was basically telling me to stop bothering her. In my head I was like “wtf? Lol”. And I told her the truth. I said to her “good luck with that but you don’t have to worry about me. I’m done waisting my time” I was left wondering if that was her way of breaking the “no contact rule”. I would always tell her that im there for her and would protect her from everything and everyone. She was probably expecting the same response, but nah. Good luck to her.

@senfumajames.n4353 Жыл бұрын

Shifted all my anger into my work, am workaholic.

@mightymigzlifestyle Жыл бұрын

To my fellow gents, keep chasing excellence in your ambitions & passions above all else. Be ok & content with what you have whether you've got a special lady in your life or not. Eat well, sleep well, workout regularly & pursue your passions are what I live by.

@timothyanike3667 Жыл бұрын

Jessica OS you're a gem. You are so uncut in your delivery that your value screams in a such a way that it hits home

@Freeway_k Жыл бұрын

Give this woman a million subs🤝🏾👏🏾

@edecyprian2809 Жыл бұрын

Like you stated earlier, I really thought I have found the one, it was such a beautiful beginning, at a point she started behaving strange, stopped ignoring my calls, stopped replying my messages. I taught it was all a dream, I taught I won't survive without her, until I decided to work on myself to become a better version of me and today I am gradually getting used to it, recently I unfriend her on Facebook, delete her contact as if I knew this video is coming. Thanks a lot for this enlightenment

@khalilcook3018 Жыл бұрын

Stay strong king you're doing great. Keep pushing. Women are very very fickle and they will lead u on and bullshit you until the very end. ALWAYS remember this, because I'm actually going through something as we speak.... SHE BROKE up with YOU. Her loss, your gain. She'll feel it after some time has gone by. She will most likely contact you if you follow these methods, and when she does, just deal with her for what she is, which is just for a good time 💯💯💯

@tyetr9853 Жыл бұрын

Did she reach out

@teamchang4894 Жыл бұрын

Update?

@JP-pu4ru Жыл бұрын

Depends on the person,silence also means lets both leave it alone.And youre most likely to never get it right.

@waltervictor7368 7 ай бұрын

Let them be ,,, so you will have rest of mind

@samw7419 Жыл бұрын

💯. Not too many women are this transparent. You are spot on with this!

@emmanuelsalako7370 Жыл бұрын

Time heals most wounds, silent treatment works wonders and keeps the other party interested in a way which they can't understand... Jessica speaks volumes, no contact rule makes all the very difference in a heartbreak situation. When it's time to move in it's a sign that things need to move smoothly from there. (Keep it simple stupid) the kiss rule! What is important is knowing your self worth and sticking to your guns with your confidence intact.

@rodneysessoms8804 Жыл бұрын

All valid & proven points that have found to be very effective. My soon to be ex wife had gotten to the point where she's contacting me to point is was annoying. We've been separated for 7 years now and waiting for our divorce to finalize. Now all of a sudden she was constantly messaging me and even trying to call me where I had no choice but to block her & in messenger. I agree with Jessica with some time away from your ex you'll be able to see more clearly to see if the relationship is right for you. I'm doing great ❤

@engrchris8149 Жыл бұрын

It's great to know you're doing just fine Rodney. 👍. Cheers🍷🍷🍷😊

@kevinmurray8537 Жыл бұрын

You never know what you had until you loose it.

@rodneysessoms8804 Жыл бұрын

@@kevinmurray8537 very true

@christianbenn316 Жыл бұрын

& taking her back would be a red flag so don,t do it

@rodneysessoms8804 Жыл бұрын

@@christianbenn316 yes sir I definitely agree with you

@jonathantarzia8279 Жыл бұрын

Jessica you have helped me through a hard break up. It wasn’t the longest relationship but we clicked so fast so thank you for the tips and help

@francesc8882 10 ай бұрын

This woman is gold. Thank you so much, Jessica. I am getting through this hard situation. I've been dumped 1 month ago, and I have mixed feelings and my self-esteem has been severely damaged... And for the moment, despite the fact that I had the temptation to break this 0 contact, I am still abiding to it, no matter it hurts. Silence will be without any doubt my best friend in my new journey and will help me to heal all wounds

@readyobe1980 Жыл бұрын

I once said this and I will say it again. I love the way in which your brain works Jessica. You've just nailed it again....as usual. I will definitely watch this over and over again.

@SeanMusumba Жыл бұрын

I appreciate you Jess for how articulate you always are in your videos and this was a banger. Well articulated and elaborate

@afrikadevelopa8652 7 ай бұрын

I'm very lucky to be watching you for years now, miss Jessica, love from Tanzania and DRC 🇨🇩

@mithrasize Жыл бұрын

This is the only good and effective thing you can do. Also, this video is truly golden and detailed unlike other people who just talk about feelings but no methods are given. Thanks!

@wilsonmativo8630 Жыл бұрын

Really struggled with my breakup but i did engage the silent treatment it's hard but am getting better each day. Thank you Jessica your advice has proven to me am on the right path

@valerylionel Жыл бұрын

Same. It’s really hard but trying

@gabrieludensi5072 Жыл бұрын

Should I block her bcus she use to call me,sumtimes I pick sometimes I ignore so shuld I distance her by blocking her

@dyanaworld Жыл бұрын

Same to me it's hard but am trying

@muziemthundzi2162 Жыл бұрын

I think i fambled i tried so hard to get her back "i hate my self for this

@tyetr9853 Жыл бұрын

Update us

@jorampetro10 Жыл бұрын

one thing I love about you Jessica is that you're very genuine

@R-L-I Жыл бұрын

This woman knows what she’s talking about me and my ex broke up, a few months went by so I called to “check in on her” (I know big mistake) we had lunch, went to the movies a few times but it never got better and I could tell she was treating me like whatever she wanted to because in her mind I was never going anywhere and I allowed her to think that. So after a 2 months of this I realized things were never going to change and ended it, THIS TIME I implemented the silent treatment, no calls, no texts, I stopped following her on social media, complete ignore mode. Not going to lie, the first 2 months was hard because you’re going to have urges to make contact every now and then but don’t do it, hang in there it will get better, I’m a year removed now and completely moved on with my life, don’t even think about her. I knew for sure I move on when I saw her in a grocery store one time and she hadn’t seen me yet and I just kept walking out the door like she wasn’t there and got to the car and realized I didn’t feel anything even after seeing her, I was so proud of myself! Ms. O knows of what she speaks! 👏🏾❤️

@henryhoward9474 Жыл бұрын

Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me, i still love her and most times I cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i don't know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.

@henryhoward9474 Жыл бұрын

@@HarrisonS. wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

@henryhoward9474 Жыл бұрын

@@HarrisonS. Thank you for this valuable information,i just looked her up now online. impressive

@livenlearn9969 Жыл бұрын

There's lots of women out there that will make you forget her

@jezreelfasa8873 Жыл бұрын

@@livenlearn9969 perfect, more than a billion of em

@husseina.sattar1434 2 ай бұрын

Fraudster 😂😂😂😂

@shubhamgaikwad4511 Жыл бұрын

I always appreciate Jessica for her wonderful advices .U know when people go through such situations and they don’t know what to do cause most of people really don’t aye don’t worry just listen to jessica cause it helped me a lot to realise the facts .Thank u jessica ❤️

@tuvordzidefo3163 Жыл бұрын

One of the greatest lessons I have learnt since 2021, in my young adult life.

@miztapsam1753 Жыл бұрын

YES! Silence!! It's the best tool. I have done this in my past relationships that didn't go well and they always start calling after some days and weeks but because i needed that time to rethink it out, it worked for me. Thanx Jess. whoever doesnt use this tool will definitely fall into that bad relationship again and again.

@vabar324 Жыл бұрын

She broke up with me without saying anything. She just blocked me in the midnight. In all social medias. I felt like part of me died for like 10 seconds, and now nothing. I feel nothing. No happyness, no sadness. Like I am an empty shell of something, called "human"

@denzeilconway905 2 ай бұрын

hope u doing better now bro since its been 9 months now. It's even worse when they just ghost u like that, makes you feel like ur the crazy one

@vabar324 2 ай бұрын

@@denzeilconway905 Yeah, bro, I found wonderful girl, and now we want to get married in 2 months, I am so happy. I can't even believe that it turned so good. Thank you very much for your support!

@Nellsta 2 ай бұрын

Keep strong I’m going through the same

@alindamarkson8524 24 күн бұрын

Always hungon.. ts always hard at the start, but eventually you absorb it.

@danielumoru3975 Жыл бұрын

This is my first encounter to your channel & I must say, it is awesome & eye opening. I really needed this & I'm grateful. Thank you Jessica.

@ntumbathabisomnguni79 Жыл бұрын

You nailed it. 👏 Silence and no contact are best ways to deal with the stubborn partner 👌

@dilhancongar-pn1nd 10 ай бұрын

Definitely my case I know she likes me but is stubborn and wants me to go nuts I’m actually very positive if I stay silent she’ll come back but if not meh I’m actually doing good even tho it’s been 2 days but I started working out months ago and have a cool job and begin to study in a month I’m actually looking forward to the future but I really miss the sex but I’ve just decided to not jerk off or contact another girl from my past I feel like this control over my urge is giving me control in other areas of my life too so it’s really nice and finally giving up on the endless arguments is relieving too

@iceweatherz Жыл бұрын

This works 💯 percent... U deserve a million likes for this!!! 👏👏👏👏

@TomAndrews91 Жыл бұрын

"Silence is the best response to someone who doesn't value your words." This quote 🔥 What about if you stayed friends yet you're in no contact?

@waltervictor7368 7 ай бұрын

No contact means no chatting,. No calling and no texting

@kobbyk7337 5 ай бұрын

That is an impossibility please. Friends keep in contact so obviously you will be contacting your ex and that will delay or even make the healing process impossible.

@adembaalex3501 Жыл бұрын

Auntie Jessica she used me but I moved on, the moment I started watching ur videos it mend me, know am new and focused, thankyou

@wassanfrancis8009 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Jess. This video is solely mine 💔😭😭😭

@andreeap6051 4 ай бұрын

no manipulation strategies will bring anyone back...only love

@anthonyrobinson1926 Жыл бұрын

Thanks sis. I really appreciate you for taking the time out of your day to give such great advice.

@dr.yvonelysee807 Жыл бұрын

Jessica, you are a Diamond! I experimented it in the past and it works so well! Silence is everything!

@oluwakayodesamuel4739 Жыл бұрын

My gf just broke up with me and you just healed me

@clintondaly2158 Жыл бұрын

Love 💕 you sis.we need more powerful black woman like you.

@BenjaminGonzalez-wv3cy Жыл бұрын

Yes! I felt so bitterly betrayed and hurt! I never thought i would survive this terrible experience, but I had to move on to suffer silently. Evidently I moved out and moved on with my life, but it was so difficult and sad. I was so silent for years, but i kept myself busy by helping and serving others. Time did not heal my heart until I learned how to forgive, because i had to take control of my emotions and decisions to take back power to live my life in a peaceful manner. Yet today, i find it so hard to trust again. I admit to being insecure in this area. The last time I saw her was at the hospital while she received Chemo Therapy for the cancer, it was the last time I saw her...

@innocentzulu9801 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, and I am in the process of healing while listening to your great lessons..

@WilleneBusinessLifestyle Жыл бұрын

Awesome! It’s been a while since I experienced any breakup as such but some of these tips can help in my marriage! Thanks Jessica. Oh, quick update, I finally posted my first KZfaq video! 🤠. One day I’ll be like you in the business niche! 🙏🏾

@JessicaOS Жыл бұрын

Whoop whoop!!! Let's get it

@WilleneBusinessLifestyle Жыл бұрын

@@JessicaOS 🥳 Thanks much for your motivational words so far. I’m sure there’s many others learning from you too just like myself. I’m definitely getting it!😌

@bilabijoseph5030 Жыл бұрын

@@JessicaOS But Jessica. What if you want to continue having sex with her when she is with her new guy? Wouldn't it be better to keep friends with her so that you can be friends with benefits? So she will be cheating on her new lover with you? Wouldn't the silent treatment and no contact remove every possibility of you still fucking her?

@jamesreadings7352 Жыл бұрын

@Jessica Os you say about the silent treatment I understand that helps but what about if you previously been living together and you have to speak to arrange picking up belongings etc?

@jamesabban3637 Жыл бұрын

Your words are healing my soul and I feel so confident right away thanks love you for your great works 👍💯👏

@terrencesablan893 4 ай бұрын

My day is going to be 100 times better due to this video. I really appreciate it. Thank you 🙏🏾

@kygnonkone1278 7 ай бұрын

This is the most clever and wise woman I’ve ever seen wow

@tanyasamasuwo Жыл бұрын

i did this in Feb. Painful at 1st, but worth it. U rock Jess

@williamcochrane5410 Жыл бұрын

I implemented the silence treatment for 11 months and 2 weeks. Did not call nor block her, but was getting information of her every move. We work at the same place and crossed path almost every week but no communications. One day I just walked straight into her at work. The first thing she said was, "oh you have decided to talk to me now". Well, after telling her that I have moved to a new location she promised to come over. Now we are back together and it is even better than the first time around. I gave her a long time for reflection and she realized that after all I am the ONE AND ONLY ONE. Time really does wonderful things in a relationship. Maximum respect to each other in or out of a relationship. Some folks go into attack and disparaging mode once the flames burn out. GIVE LOVE A SECOND CHANCE

@lostafronaut4647 Жыл бұрын

There'll be a 3rd and 4th chance before you realize there's better fish to fry

@philnaomane8420 Жыл бұрын

So you are saying "Looking forward to 3rd and 4th chance“

@lostafronaut4647 Жыл бұрын

@@philnaomane8420 stopped reading at so you're saying.

@SP1-media Жыл бұрын

@@lostafronaut4647 haha tell the dude

@jhimpcaca5718 Жыл бұрын

Were u seeing or sleeping with someone else during a year of no silence?

@joeybalkaline6050 Жыл бұрын

This is the kind of situation I'm going through now but me watching this has made me have a change of mind now and I'm okay.....thanks so much for the advice 🙌🙌

@masterofus3098 Жыл бұрын

how is it now ?

@Heero_effect 5 ай бұрын

I think this is super helpful advice. And 100% right. I had a tough conversation with myself. I still love her, but i can’t control her feelings. I deserve someone who loves me and wants to build a life together.

@adamsdivine9484 Жыл бұрын

Being silent is very difficult to under go because the temptation to him/her is too high , though one is afraid of time but silence will help, there's a lot of maturity in it. Madam I salute your channel ❤️❤️🇨🇲

@fernandodesousa9362 9 ай бұрын

Jessica your video was a game changer for me thank you! I was about to contact my ex wife but I decided to follow your advice and stay silent. So my ex wife knows that I’m hurt but she can’t feed on my weakness because I just don’t try to get her back or talk about it. I can tell she is already very confused. We are co-parenting our son and I act like the break up means nothing.

@okyeredarko466 Жыл бұрын

I have watched most of your videos and you always give practical and reasonable advice to real situations. Thank you.

@josephkarcumamboya7910 Жыл бұрын

What a stoic sort of philosophy in controlling emotions ... A wow video

@johnsiphas6202 Жыл бұрын

You are so amazing. Thank you for all u do for we the opposite gender. I beg you to talk more on obsession. I am trying so hard to admit I was and finding measure to heal from it and let every moment you discuss with us count.

@godswillbinitie5150 Жыл бұрын

Wow, I never thought of this facts, this are powerful gems that needs to be kept in a library for further references...

@michaelrobert5698 Жыл бұрын

Jessica thank you so much. That's what I'm going through right now although she blocked me from all social media. Thanks for this message ❤

@bridgitkatele Жыл бұрын

Much love from Kenya ❤️❤️❤️so creative and to the point

@daniemedia Жыл бұрын

This one came at the right time for me. Thanks a bunch Jessica

@prxjek7147 Жыл бұрын

I hurt my ex a lot but she’s all I want. After I lost her I realized how perfect she really was for me and how much I truly love her. All I need is one last chance. I hope silence will help.

@minecrapmonitorenthusiast Жыл бұрын

Update?

@kalzangbhutia7248 Жыл бұрын

Same here brother.... going thru hell right now...i miss her every single day, wish she could give me one last chance to prove my worth

@KingMooose Жыл бұрын

Same situation bro! She wanted the break up. Hurts me so much! Im trying the No Contact. Hopefully she’ll reach out one day.

@nagasarapusurendra6172 8 ай бұрын

@@KingMoooseI've been facing this since 1 week...hope she'll comeback

@dillydilly2260 7 ай бұрын

Same here guys, it sucks to not be given a second chance

@yvettemunezero5599 Жыл бұрын

Wow that's true! Silent is the key of all we face in our life. Thank you very much.

@leer774 Ай бұрын

What happens if none of you really want to break up but you both follow the no contact rule?

@danielmamman1039 Жыл бұрын

This video is coming at the right time for me cos at moment my girl is acting funny for reason I can't even say. The healing process is on for me. 💯🥂🙏

@khalilcook3018 Жыл бұрын

I can tell you PLAIN AND SIMPLE why she's acting funny. There is another dude. Not possibly, or MAYBE, SHE IS DEFINITELY talking to someone else and he has her attention right now. Hate to break the harsh news to u

@danielmamman1039 Жыл бұрын

@@khalilcook3018 say no more. Am done...

@danielmamman1039 Жыл бұрын

@@khalilcook3018 cos I feel it strong.

@mw7540 Жыл бұрын

Yeah my ex gf of 7 years, single mom did the same thing 3 years ago. She moved out. I went into no contact the whole time. A week ago she announced of FB she is engaged now rings and all. Oh well. I should have broken no contact.

@pimakomorris Жыл бұрын

Same story here, silence rule activated.

@dn1535 Жыл бұрын

Again Jess your right on the money...always on point..👍👍💯

@derrock8715 Жыл бұрын

It's my first time listening to ya words and they're just enlightening, this has always been my favorite option whenever am dating just incase things don't go my way,, rather than silence tormenting ya ex it's my best weapon to making sure I can smile after 30mins of a break up,

@UBASINAIGWES1 7 ай бұрын

You are indeed an Oracle. Your words are really medicinal. I have just regain courage in heart to on. I appreciate you

@peverilngehngeh8536 Жыл бұрын

When am done with a lady am done,I don't make friendship with someone I have loved.

@foojy93 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Jessica. I really needed to hear this 🤍

@OPMDIGIZINE Жыл бұрын

That's some sound advice, "Power of Silence" No contact rule works! Time to reflect and heal wounds. ✌🏿💯🙏🏿 Self Love 💕😎❤️

@learnpianofastonline Жыл бұрын

I absolutely love this. Thank you so much for keeping it real.

@LifeAndStories89 Жыл бұрын

That’s a great video Jessica. Thanks for sharing it with us💯❤️

@vondarycrentsil9180 Жыл бұрын

This exactly what am doing now and it helps a lot , trust me

@ROHINIBS Жыл бұрын

This video has seriously convinced my just 2days back broken heart Grateful for your sound minded advice 🙏🙏🙏

@rajamookerjee932 Жыл бұрын

Jessica - you are the best and you speak from your heart - thank you ever so much for helping humanity. God bless.

@Mrhall32 Жыл бұрын

My silence is for eternity once you ignored me! Silence is gold worth 🏅

@jacostajr86 Жыл бұрын

We have kids, and for me, keeping it minimal helps. I have let it go and moved on with my life. I harbor no malice feelings towards her. I forgave her and myself for our actions. I have learned from both our mistakes. I wish her the best.

@user-er7qi7pz6f 11 ай бұрын

Oh my God u so mature Bro, may God bless u, me am divorce a month ago with two kids but Its not easy at all. Please pray for me

@ATLETICANO_LONDRES Жыл бұрын

Hi there, hope you are well... Your words it's like a great medicine for my pain, however the moment that I am going through now is giving me fuel to go training twice in a day... May Allah bless you

@tumainijnr1723 Жыл бұрын

I think I needed this video and Jessica comes to the rescue❤️...Thank you🙏🏽💞

@veritaspublicsltd445 Жыл бұрын

In love and war, maintaining military silence is key. But its freaking HARD. Nonetheless I love the way you say : "Charlie, I abeg you. Don't! :) Well said Jess

@coolclassdad1991 Жыл бұрын

That’s crazy I was doing these things and didn’t even realize it was a good technique

@imanishimwerenovat8622 Жыл бұрын

This is why I don't want to unsubscribe, love you more❤

@mostviralg9503 Жыл бұрын

I love to alottttt silent is the best answer to someone who doesn't value ur word's

@peverilngehngeh8536 Жыл бұрын

I learned this eight years after a breakup,she attempted to return twice but the damage she caused could not be amended.I told her I don't love people twice.

@dadadadad7787 Жыл бұрын

An ex girl did that to me twice as well. But it never was the same I had my cake and eat it to with her

@joesillamanrs7189 Жыл бұрын

Your advice is always spot on Jessica. Thank you for your help on this!

@mzeimagida8364 8 ай бұрын

Thank you Jess... This is happening to me right now, we've been separated for 3 months but staying in the house together and our son.. So she's been searching a place to stay, and I let her be, today she's moving out by all her self.. And so Im gnna start to apply the methods u are sharing with us.... Thank you Jess❤

@viprealvip9810 10 ай бұрын

Jessica thank you. I’m from Liberia and have been following your post, but I live in the US , thank for your advice.

@martinfoy9327 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for the positive message. Respectfully…. No one ever came running back. Also I am well aware that you have to blatantly go zero contact with a person who you have shared everything with every day for years and I can’t imagine that’s healthy. It’s 100% a head game but it’s not only socially acceptable it’s actually pushed. I guess it depends on the situation.

@christianbenn316 Жыл бұрын

For me i would never take back am ex that walked out on me cause there'll be no 2nd chances sorry.

@martinfoy9327 Жыл бұрын

@@christianbenn316 i know i know and that is exactly how it should be. no excuses no exceptions. this girl who is currently putting me through it, truth be told, isn’t even CLOSE to the females i usually pull as far as looks. in fact 5-10 years ago i wouldn’t have noticed her if she was on fire. don’t get me wrong she is hot enough to sunburn satan, she is the first female i’ve ever met that, there’s no way to say it without sounding like a beta tampon, she was the real thing. i gave her every chance to run from our 2nd date. here i am 3 years later and i’m falling apart at the seems. and in her defense it’s all my fault.

@benhartart9487 Жыл бұрын

I didn’t say anything on socials or begg for her back, I gave her the breakup and I’ve never been better 👌🏻😀🚀

@richardniikotey451 11 ай бұрын

Vintage Jessica. Another masterpiece. You are just super, Jessy.

@franciscosandobal189 Жыл бұрын

Looking at your videos helped me clarify and understand on why, what I need to do or if there is a chance in mine and my ex girlfriend relationship, a lot to the things you have said is the same for what my friends and family have told me, but to hear it from another persons perspective that is a woman and understands a lot of things is very helpful. Thank you so much .