Taken from JRE #1490 w/Jimmy O. Yang: • Joe Rogan Experience #...
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@caz50214 жыл бұрын
"it's hard to grow up with high self esteem in an Asian household" That describes asian households tenfold.
@kmusic1604 жыл бұрын
Yup.. . Nothing you do is good enough.. with a shitload of insults and comparisons
@toxicbleach33044 жыл бұрын
Asian households in a shellnut
@mitchsn4 жыл бұрын
I can confirm this for sure.
@hoowang99624 жыл бұрын
100% lmfao
@vincentsanjaya24024 жыл бұрын
100% true
@jackyoung25764 жыл бұрын
I’m a Asian and these are my career choices Doctor, Lawyer, Professor, disgrace of the family
@KreatorSchool4 жыл бұрын
Engineer?
@themanwhoknew93654 жыл бұрын
Engineer is an option too
@bruh321xyz44 жыл бұрын
An asian*
@FreedomFighterEx4 жыл бұрын
I'm major at the last one.
@F15ElectricEagle4 жыл бұрын
One more choice in my case: Engineer. I guess I was a bit more lucky.
@wad45474 жыл бұрын
Worked in China for 2 years. One of my staff came up to me and said “boss you’ve been going to the gym for a while, but you’re still fat. Just give up and enjoy yourself”
@theobserver88814 жыл бұрын
True but like Jimmy said Chinese are less sensitive about people being overweight because that symbolise prosperities, as least that’s true in the past.
@James-ip8xs4 жыл бұрын
Sounds like some good wisdom there to be fair.
@djl916934 жыл бұрын
i hope you insulted him equally to enlighten him
@wad45474 жыл бұрын
The Observer yes true, it was definitely said with more kindness than anything else
@tootart88584 жыл бұрын
The Observer I'm immensely prosperous
@nichobarricco51494 жыл бұрын
Part of becoming an adult is acknowledging that your parents have faults, flaws and shortcomings. Choose to be happy my friends
@KellahBeatzOfficial4 жыл бұрын
That’s good insight
@theBartasTLP3 жыл бұрын
Well with abusive, violent parents its obvious
@IrrIdk3 жыл бұрын
Yeah we all have flaws
@brittbrat932811 ай бұрын
That has nothing to do with being an adult, lol.
@spj20004 жыл бұрын
"he's a funny guy, but sometimes it's hard to be his son"
@dannypratama42354 жыл бұрын
Every asian parent, and mostly chinese things.
@JimTheKid3 жыл бұрын
@@dannypratama4235 same with country parents
@L3iglL3 жыл бұрын
@@JimTheKid sorry but I am not from the US. What do you mean by country parents?
@JimTheKid3 жыл бұрын
@@L3iglL By country I mean outside of the city and in certain states like Georgia, Texas, Alabama, etc. Basically everywhere in the south that's a while away from town.
@adambailey38113 жыл бұрын
@@L3iglL it's just parents in america that lived in rural parts of a state where most farmland and anything away from a city
@Milfuelle1004 жыл бұрын
I’m white but my adoptive father is a Taiwanese immigrant. He started dating my mom when I was 10 months old. My biological father died before I was born. When he and my mom married, he legally adopted me so he is my real dad, not my stepdad. Despite coming from Taiwan (he moved to Canada at age 18 for uni,) he is an openly-loving, jovial person. His parents are great with me but I know they were very cold to him growing up. There are still times when my dad feels like his parents don’t love him, and he’s 49. So he showered me with love and affection for 18 years. Well really 27, but I just haven’t lived close to him in 9 years. Love you Dad ❤️
@360.Tapestry4 жыл бұрын
brah, that's touching af. nobody talks about it, but this new generation of asian parents are doing it better than the previous ones
@Milfuelle1004 жыл бұрын
Kryptonite oh for sure.
@chellepatino1675 Жыл бұрын
That's amazing
@EyeLabPNiece Жыл бұрын
Sounds like somebody was an ungrateful little shit for 9 years
@sloodgamer147 Жыл бұрын
Can he adopt me too
@80sMeavyHetal3 жыл бұрын
He was spot on with that passed-down trauma, it's everywhere :/ My grandma thinks I have to work hard my whole life and not have fun because she wasn't allowed to. That's terrible, our generation has to stop this.
@parkermaki37992 жыл бұрын
Tough times create strong people, strong people create easy times. Easy times create weak people, weak people create tough times.
@80sMeavyHetal2 жыл бұрын
@@parkermaki3799 Well said.
@winzyl95462 жыл бұрын
"Insert qoute" -Sun Tzu
@andyyuen2 жыл бұрын
i am sure there was trauma but at the same time, hard work and preserverence are some of the traits that i dont see being passed down these days... So many people hoping for get rich schemes or be an "influencer" etc etc.. We should continue to insist that our kids work hard in schools, i dont think this is a bad thing. At the same time, we have to teach our kids how to have fun after we earn $$..
@ah25222 жыл бұрын
@@andyyuen it shouldn't be passed down. you shouldn't have to work hard if you don't want to. It's not a virtue.
@terencebok4 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a therapy session
@cvandy22524 жыл бұрын
Haha dude every comment Joe is just hammering that wedge between him and his dad.
@dragospahontu4 жыл бұрын
Yes
@AL-fo3jj4 жыл бұрын
Normal asian peer to peer conversation lmao
@80sMeavyHetal3 жыл бұрын
And that's good!
@anybody4133 жыл бұрын
Heart broken when he said all that.😭 I am so so lucky born in a nontypical Chinese family. My parents are proud of me all the time. I didn't realize how precious it is. Instead I always thought they are ignoring my fault and kept cautious with their words. I should be grateful.
@umartopia23564 жыл бұрын
Joe "I had a korean friend growing up he was training for taekwondo nationals while completing his medical residency" rogan
@NaturalHypertrophy4 жыл бұрын
You hear a lot about Tiger Moms but not enough about Lion Dads
@crownhic68274 жыл бұрын
Finally! Someone said it!
@Xplora2134 жыл бұрын
Dude, you gotta get off the Internet 😂 you’re everywhere!!
@paulhuang16944 жыл бұрын
Xplora213 if he’s everywhere then that means you’re everywhere as well cuz u see his comment 😂
@nebulousisgod4 жыл бұрын
Lions in the wild don’t really give a shit about their young. You need a better comparison. I don’t have one either.
@xGaLoSx4 жыл бұрын
This dude is a great talker, great guest!
@AnBu9714 жыл бұрын
This hits home man. Chinese people have a different way of just expressing themselves and they can come off so abrasive but you take it with a grain of salt that their heart is in the right place.
@360.Tapestry4 жыл бұрын
yeah, but we know now that having one's heart in the right place is not good enough
@stt.94334 жыл бұрын
Classically the Chinese have a very different mindset, they're more pragmatic than anyone else. That means when it comes to family or friends unless you bring social status or material wealth then they want nothing to do with you.
@reese45084 жыл бұрын
Yeah. My mom shits on me in front of other people and says she's being humble afterwards. My response is usually something like what the fuck or how are you never proud of what I do because I'm pretty smart and really athletic, but she literally just shits on me every chance I get. To any asian kid out there getting shit on, just don't give a fuck. If your parents try to crush your self-esteem, just use that. I keep on living life and don't care about what they say. Don't let them dictate your life. I advise thinking like you have 2 different lives: one for your parents and basically one outside of your parents. The one with your parents should have you getting shitted on 24/7 and you acting like it is affecting you. The one outside of your parents is you having fun and having a normal life.
@hozerberto48863 жыл бұрын
@@reese4508 or just be better
@reese45083 жыл бұрын
@@hozerberto4886 yea bro skill issue
@gaberivera72284 жыл бұрын
That’s so true what he said about how honest Asians are. My grandma is Filipino and she does the exact same thing.
@chairde4 жыл бұрын
Actually this was a deep conversation. A lot of people can relate to what he is saying.
@raykuang28894 жыл бұрын
Grew up with Chinese immigrant parents too. When he said "passed down trauma" in regards to brutal honesty, I thought I was the only one that thought that way! haha
@RudyOMP4 жыл бұрын
I feel like I just watched a therapy session
@vbar444 жыл бұрын
Sucks, it sounds like his parents are a bit invalidating and competitive with him
@vincentjanse4 жыл бұрын
It's still fucking funny. :-)
@jjrod334 жыл бұрын
Yea that's Asian just culture
@J-BiRTH4 жыл бұрын
@@jjrod33 Doesn't mean it should be dismissed.
@jjrod334 жыл бұрын
@@J-BiRTH sure it does that's what works that's why Asians are super winners it not pretty but it's effective
@bgko918804 жыл бұрын
@@J-BiRTH Better than the 21st Century American way: tell child they did a good job, even when they don't and never critique child for fear they will be butthurt. Treat child like royalty and never discipline for fear of triggering. Allow them to choose their gender. If 2 options aren't enough, manufacture 100 more. And most importantly...never tell them... "NO!" Last: Children need their safe space to escape from criticism, rules/laws, and big meanies. You know... Just like in the real world.
@tylerlee81474 жыл бұрын
Definitely passed down generational trauma along with being an immigrant in America. Currently navigating this myself, it is tough at times, but I've learned a lot as well. Great clip choice Jamie! It's something that's not talked about a lot..
@arycosta72934 жыл бұрын
Asian parent sound like African families. That’s how we are raised too.
@FocusedGio4 жыл бұрын
Toori Baba defs bruh I just ducked one this morning
@gxqx7974 жыл бұрын
Lol for sure. South asian here Pakistani it's all the same for us 🤣
@gxqx7974 жыл бұрын
@@FocusedGio lol mate I had to parry a steel toed boot, sandals and a TV remote before I left home today
@arycosta72934 жыл бұрын
Shoes, frying pan, and my favorite was when you got to pick the branch before the beating lol.
@gxqx7974 жыл бұрын
@@arycosta7293 lol got beat so bad and then had to apologise to our parents 🤣 no remorse from them whatsoever hahaha
@penboyasgod61034 жыл бұрын
Jimmy looks like and acts like a friend I had many years ago. Jimmy's very good --- how can you not like him?
@johnwick33214 жыл бұрын
"Eric Baachman, this is your father and you are not funny, and fat."
@NaturalHypertrophy4 жыл бұрын
0:55 LMAO Bobby Lee's dad was made of the same wood, Asian parents not getting their sons jokes is a thing it seems
@philipsmi-lenguyen81554 жыл бұрын
My mum str8 out ignores me wen i talk.n i aint got no dad.lol
@investordangdaniel2 жыл бұрын
When Jimmy's dad said, "no, Jimmy's not funny." EMOTIONAL DAMAGE!
@zerowaste86433 жыл бұрын
Dude, he has got it so right! Passed down trauma. I got a nice hair cut, my cousin says wow, it’s beautiful! My mom just said “two sides are not the same length...”
@emacias14734 жыл бұрын
Same with Mexicans my family is so brutally honest and disguise it as comedy a lot of the time but some of it hurts sometimes also think it’s trauma
@publicopinion35963 жыл бұрын
These podcast looked more like a psychological counseling session than a podcast. Love Jimmy and the podcast was great!
@chadgrov4 жыл бұрын
This guy was masterful on Silicon Valley, such a great funny character despite the dorks crying about the “stereotypical accent”
@mikejohnson64964 жыл бұрын
I eat... the fish
@Adronomics4 жыл бұрын
Yeah so true. The accent sold it so well.
@deadlee0b14 жыл бұрын
I always got the impression that the character used peoples perception of his accent to make them think he was stupid, when he definitely wasn't.
@sku564 жыл бұрын
i want to kiss ons da moufth
@ShaferHart3 жыл бұрын
They never set foot on silicon valley obviously. It's Chinatown.
@WayofRamen4 жыл бұрын
What his dad said is unfortunately all too common with Asian parents. They care so much about what other people think that they don't want to be judged as bragging about their kid. To the point where they put you down in public.
@robertmendez49904 жыл бұрын
His dad made him funny though
@mazimadu4 жыл бұрын
Or good singers like Micheal, I mean Janet Jackson
@esterleng8604 жыл бұрын
Is that supposed to be funny...?
@YMHCoolGuy4 жыл бұрын
I’ll be honest I’ve never heard of this jimmy yang before but just from the podcast I’m a big fan
@tootart88584 жыл бұрын
WhoDatBoy95 watch silicon valley on HBO he's halarious
@noamasaf26684 жыл бұрын
also space force he’s very funny there
@moeb72104 жыл бұрын
Check out his comedy specials, he’s hilarious
@hsun79974 жыл бұрын
He’s the loud annoying guy in Crazy Rich Asians
@jealouseggs56192 жыл бұрын
Look up octopus recipes he’s hilarious
@cheechalker84304 жыл бұрын
My immigrant father (Scotland) would have said the same thing for exactly the same reasons - passed down trauma and work ethic
@kartikgoswami1784 жыл бұрын
T.J. Miller looks really different 🤣🤣
@InnovatorAlvin27 күн бұрын
"Past down trauma", wow it's really enlightening watching Jimmy's chat. Giving me so much realization about my life as an Asian. Thank you!
@LEE-kq9tq4 жыл бұрын
Hard to grow up with a high self esteem in an Asian household. That is the GD truth right there. Especially if you're female. My mom is Korean and she did not hold back
@chetthebee13224 жыл бұрын
So having high esteem comes from being in a family that doesn't give a rats ass about you or your education like I did?
@pcgamer8814 жыл бұрын
It's why the majority of them go no-contact with their parents; what's the point of negative experiences?
@J-BiRTH4 жыл бұрын
@@chetthebee1322 Lol any sort of extreme isn't usually a good thing.
@chetthebee13224 жыл бұрын
@@J-BiRTH Learn to read. I said "esteem" not extreme.
@tonedowne4 жыл бұрын
@@chetthebee1322 Don't be weird. You described an extreme scenario. There is a middle ground between being constantly pressured into meeting impossible ever shifting expectations and total disinterest.
@1980sSinaloense3 жыл бұрын
“Its hard to grow up with self esteem in a asian house hold” Im Mexican and i felt this my parents are the reason i feel so stupid and worthless nothing i do is ever good enough my parents constantly call me a loser because i dont do things their way and when i do something good by myself and i talk about it proud in the future and they say it never happened
@toc7olwn6802 жыл бұрын
Well buddy my advice to you is to get over it asap. Life is short man, in a few decades you'll look back and realize: "I was beautiful, youthful, smart! I dealt myself short!" Don't do that man. Get out of it and bet on yourself. In the end it's your life and YOU have the power to make things happen for you; not your parents. YOU do.
@SoundwaveZabuza4 жыл бұрын
Had Chines family friends. When we would arrive to their house, the mother would out me and say - You're so fat. You need to lose some weight. But then at dinner after I finished my plate it would be - You're such a big boy. You need to eat some more. Have this, have this!. Every single damn time! She never failed.
@skindred18883 жыл бұрын
Maybe just telling you to exercise. Food is health.
@tamarleahh.21504 жыл бұрын
most traditional societies do that. My German grandma is the same. When I was 13 I put on some make up. My grandma comes into the room and says : I always admired the girls who knew how to put on make up so beautifully, unfortunately you're not one of them.😂
@shivamvyas12182 ай бұрын
2:16 He went from laughing to serious right away 😂
@XXyerbuaXk4 жыл бұрын
Lol omg he is so right! Growing up in a Mexican household does not give you high self esteem. I got called gorda (fat) everyday by my grandma and mom! They literally were my first bullies. 🤣🤣🤣
@breakingbenjamin5553 жыл бұрын
Its messed up but when was the last time you saw a Mexican with thin skin? My parents did the same thing with me and my two siblings but we learned to stand up for ourselves and not be easily offended.
@ghostbravo71272 жыл бұрын
It's okay, back when I was young boy, they used to call me fat, and I was a track athlete, sure I wasn't in my prime shape until I was a young man but I was only at 9% body fat at the time, which eventually got trimmed down to a nice 6% BF.
@zingara762 жыл бұрын
Im actually in great shape, but everytime I visit my family in Mexico I get call names. At this point of my life looking back I’m actually kinda glad I grow up in that environment, cause there’s nothing worst that someone else can call me that my family members already told me. I’m actually going to Mexico next week and I’m already practicing some Return insults. Los boy a alburear lo más que pueda.
@cancelwarmac4 жыл бұрын
Jimmy's soo salty about his dad it's hilarious😂😂
@tomog14 жыл бұрын
the title is kinda misleading, ngl, I thought man tears were about to be shed
@Rattle864 жыл бұрын
This is not a interview is a counseling section... I love it!
@2steaksandwiches6652 жыл бұрын
I grew up in a heavily Asian community in Southern California as a white dude. My Asian friends would come to my house and they would go… I can’t believe how friendly and loving your parents are. And how you guys sit and eat together. So we ended up becoming like this refugee house for my Asian American friends. Very strange. The good news is the second and third generation Asian Americans I think recognize the issues and will fix it with their kids
@ksingh12084 жыл бұрын
Is this a counseling session recorded and aired?
@sifatshams11134 жыл бұрын
I have social anxiety disorder and my dad constantly mocks me mainly when we're around other people.
@mitchsn4 жыл бұрын
I worked with 2 Vietnamese guys whos stories of escaping the fall of Vietnam should be made into Hollywood movies. Thats one reason why these immigrant generations are such high achievers. They aren't over achieving, they are simply reacting to surviving some horrible post war shit that given even the smallest of opportunity they sieze it 100%
@matthewbittenbender91914 жыл бұрын
LOL! I’ve done that Robin Williams thing to some people and made them cry. Works every time it’s legit therapy!
@supersonik764 жыл бұрын
Poor Christina just got exposed on JRE
@Sphaatikhaa3 жыл бұрын
Jimmy's right. My Taiwanese parents have zero filter. I agree with Jimmy. It's definitely traumatic growing up in Chinese culture.
@breakingbenjamin5553 жыл бұрын
Not going to lie, some parents have the idea that being adult means you stop having fun, be boring, and dedicate your whole life to work. Part of learning from your parents is knowing their faults, and not repeat them.
@IWill_iTV4 жыл бұрын
Joe rogan up there instigating, but it does feel like his dad is jealous because he worked systematically his whole life and wasted his whole life doing things the systematic way and not finding his love, and Jimmy said forget this system and went with his heart and found success, he clearly overlooks the boldness and heart his son has to be a go getter.
@360.Tapestry4 жыл бұрын
you insightful af lol
@theallseeingeye93882 жыл бұрын
Your psychological insight is from a western perspective. From an Asian viewpoint, you cant feel jealous of a younger person because you always have an advantage they dont. Life experience.
@suttonreactions49944 жыл бұрын
5:25 Joe reads Jimmy look a BOOK lmaooo
@jayb944 жыл бұрын
I grew up with this Asian girl, we lived in a small town her parents demanded straight A's! I watched her slap herself in the face because she got a B on a paper. I was happy to get a C or D lol.
@James-ip8xs4 жыл бұрын
Honestly most people I know who didn't get the highest grades are doing really well.
@alainbut4 жыл бұрын
It’s the standards that they’ve set for themselves that have allowed them to prosper. They’re representation in this country at times is minimal yet the prosper. Too be honest they turn out way better than most Americans.
@loic-68624 жыл бұрын
No you didn't.
@Thehaydee56 Жыл бұрын
Same here. One of my childhood friends was Korean. I remember her getting a B in middle school. Her mom yelled at her in front of everyone.
@jdowg64 жыл бұрын
Now I get why he was insulting William hung when clearly the guy was just socially awkward and just wanted to live his dream..... His dad treated him the same
@belle24962 жыл бұрын
My mother has often commented on my shoulders being too wide for a girl since I was little. I'm now 33. She makes fun of them. Still. What's more, the other day, she talked about how uncomfortable it felt when her mother used to tell her how her shoulders looked wide and masculine for a girl. She still feels insecure about her body and is making me feel the same way without even realizing it. She's like, "Your shoulders look ugly because you're my daughter. lol" That passed down trauma theory is so true.
@toc7olwn6802 жыл бұрын
Same! Not shoulders but other things. My mom being so self critical on herself WAS the reason she criticized me all this while. Took me nearly two decades to come to this realization.
@davidmackie58504 жыл бұрын
I eata da fish. this guy is hilarious in standup and acting I look forward to what he does in the future
@WOLVERXDEMON4 жыл бұрын
His story reminds me of that king of hill episode with Khan and his father in law😂😂😂
@parsleyrose77784 жыл бұрын
That’s why I long ago stopped giving a shit about parental approval and what anybody thought of me. Live your life, it’s way too short to live a lie for someone else’s standards and expectations and selfish desires.
@christopherzubcic42874 жыл бұрын
Guy is hilarious and I can’t wait too see him one day
@jamskof4 жыл бұрын
..then what will you do.. when you.. see him..
@exploitprimitive2 жыл бұрын
@@jamskof 💀💀💀💀💀💀
@solidkingcobra4 жыл бұрын
I think talking to Joe is therapeutic for Jimmy right here.
@nebulousisgod4 жыл бұрын
Haha nice way to end the clip. “It’s not your fault! “ “Stop it, man, don’t do that man..”
@wildwildwest16623 жыл бұрын
It’s so fucking true for what jimmy said . I got insulted by my mom and my grandmother for my whole life. And it hurts 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲
@tonykim50694 жыл бұрын
There's Asian parents, but then there were my parents. Didn't run fast enough on the soccer pitch, nose broken in car ride home. Violin not parallel to the floor, arm bruised with cane. Got lost at a park, pretend abandoned on highway. I think even Asian parents would think my parents went too far. I have a problem controlling anger, and most of the time it's directed inward. Definitely helps when I need to push myself, but definitely fucks me when I need to be kind to myself, or forgive myself. And honestly, I'm too scared to build close friendships, get into a relationship, let alone start my own family, out of fear of passing on this trauma. I don't trust myself not to hurt someone close to me, so I keep everyone at arms length for their own safety. It's a lonely existence, but I take some solace in the fact that I'm preventing potential damage to others.
@Vastspartan4 жыл бұрын
You gotta take that chance. It helps getting things out
@penboyasgod61034 жыл бұрын
You just need a very good friend that you can finally be very close to, emotionally as well as physically, so you both can reflect on each other --- sort of "bouncing" ideas and deep sincere internal thoughts off each other (with no anger --- to be constructive only). Good luck.
@360.Tapestry4 жыл бұрын
if it's within your means, get professional help, dude. you're worth it and it'll make the world a better place for you and others
@stuti.sharma.ranchi4 жыл бұрын
Please try meditation. Just 10 minutes. Breath in and out slowly and try not to think about anything. All the pain will be triggered and you will have to face it. But it will help in the long term. I have experienced it too. I don't have any trauma but general anxiety sometimes. And it helped me.
@anachang1891 Жыл бұрын
Your were right jimmy..Chinese parents are very tough teaching their kids. Me and mu siblings born in Perú. I feel your feeling..Nice interview.
@huhhuhhuh40694 жыл бұрын
Doesn't sound that bad. My dad was 100x worse. At this point in my life, I've accepted that I'll never get past the psychological damage that he caused, I just have to live with it until I pass away.
@reese45084 жыл бұрын
Hey man. Don't care what he says and if you think of him as stupid and you hate him, that's actually a good thing. If you do that, you'll realize that everything he says is wrong about you and you'll have lots of confidence. Don't try to change him and don't let him change you. Try to forget about him and just think about the future.
@brittbrat932811 ай бұрын
One thing you shouldnt do is be a victim. Jimmy isnt a victim, but it sounds like you are. Sounds like you NEED to be the person that was "treated worse." Grow up, it isnt a competition. 😂😂😂
@kfgrip4 жыл бұрын
Sounds like his father has a lot of issues, and I am sorry for that. It's not like his father just decided when he was eleven years old that he wanted to be an asshole when he grows up. I grew up with a friend like this he was Chinese and had traditional Chinese parents who were always pushing him to be successful. He has to be a MD/PHD in something even though that wasn't his passion. He loved working on cars especially body work and paint jobs ,but he was an excellent mechanic as well. His grandfather owned a nursery and grew specialized Orchid hybrids,James did enjoy working with the flowers and his grandfather. Last I heard from James he was working on his PHD in Botany at Fresno state. He would still time to time take on auto work as this was what he loved and his parents frowned upon. His folks put so much pressure on him to be a doctor. I often wonder do Asian parents do this because they want their children to succeed or do they do this so their children can afford to take care of the parents in their old age. Kind of like a family funded 401K plan. Be successful not for yourself but for us!
@theobserver88814 жыл бұрын
Not the taking care of the parents’ part. There is a saying in China, raise your children to 100 years old, being worried about them for the first 99 years. Asian parents want their kids to have financial securities so they don’t need to worry about them, but even if their kids have that, they would still worry. Facts, there some Chinese elderly would commit suicide if they suffer a terminal illness just no to burden their Children.
@pussyeater41114 жыл бұрын
Yeah my moms family is chinese im half filipino and chinese and my cousins and I are all doctors here in the Philippines but we are greatful now after finishing it all.
@brittbrat932811 ай бұрын
@@pussyeater4111lmao okay with a screen name like yours and bad grammar... ok DOCTOR😂😂😂😂😂
@Benlo4 жыл бұрын
Every asian childhood was very different too, but in my experience, they wanted the best for their kids. They put you down so that you can work hard, suceed, and prove them wrong.
@SatyaKaliYam4 жыл бұрын
Welcome to being Chinese. It’s also called narcissism. Took me years to figure this out! No nurturing love and affection. What is that!? Puts downs of how “you’re not good enough” is the cultural norm. “Pride and face” is your mission to carry out to represent your family. 😆🤷🏻♀️🙌⚡️💯
@fernando-ev4rr4 жыл бұрын
joe going deep into the roots of the problem and jimmy over here really exposing his traumas like yooo chill enough enough i don't wanna think about this anymore 😂
@DeadalusX4 жыл бұрын
Hey jimmy in case you're reading this, I just want to say that your father said that because he is probably not used to showing affectionate emotions to family members (the tough parent mask goes through generations). I think it was just a lot of pressure on to show that emotion in that situation. I think subconsciously he knew he should have said YES and that's why he told you later he didn't get the references as sort of apology. Its also a way for him to escape admitting it's hard for him. So give him some time :) he probably loves you and proud of you. Everyone has their own journey :) But i dunno really i'm just a comment on the youtubes
@meepmeep65722 жыл бұрын
Nah he needs to be top dawg
@ericballi47012 жыл бұрын
Agreed about the passed-down trauma. I experienced the same thing in German culture. They pride themselves on being honest, but it is more often than not put-downs.
@rikeshpatel12374 жыл бұрын
how did jimmy o yang get on JRE before bobby lee
@user-et1ch4zk6b4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing Been through the same
@sodacanman31264 жыл бұрын
Same thing in mexican households tbh
@sodacanman31264 жыл бұрын
Definitely comes from being a jaded jack ass and assuming you know best. It happens though it’s more sad than anything. Deep insecurity rooted in their own childhood. Etc. Ik some people grow out of it with even older age but after a while they’re just stuck that way. Unable to understand what damage they may be causing. P whack p whack
@sodacanman31264 жыл бұрын
That competition thing too it’s a mix of I want to do it too and I believe I can because I view you as lesser
@Yellow.18444 жыл бұрын
I'm North African and it's the same, at small doses it's like whatever but every single fucking day for years and it becomes so heavy
@LAisamazzzzzing4 жыл бұрын
Kinda but they definitely don’t push their children to do well in school. It’s al about work and ignoring the opportunities of a quality education
@stevenjohnson77202 жыл бұрын
That hurts man. I'm sorry 😞. You deserved better. I felt the pain. You're a talented entertainers man. It's not cool to be a ball breaker to your son. You can to everyone else but your son. Shit man!
@GoodSoulPossible2 жыл бұрын
Hey, he is Richard's son. Nice to see him. Hope Richard has his special soon.
@haroldi.64502 жыл бұрын
Mayne this is so relatable lmao
@Ashutt924 жыл бұрын
Rogan is the new Ed Sullivan.
@stevestudley5685 Жыл бұрын
This show is so real. I love it.
@RybackTV4 жыл бұрын
Hilarious.
@imacg54 жыл бұрын
Trauma is the simplest tool to implement mass social control.
@klukluxklam76534 жыл бұрын
Interesting
@rayray64904 жыл бұрын
Yea man, older Asians have no filter against the younger generations. But when it’s the other way around, they treat it like it’s a open rebellion when you criticize them
@RT-jf9pp2 жыл бұрын
No bro I am an Asian father in both generations. It’s to keep our kids humble. It’s lots and lots and lots of tough love
@brittbrat932811 ай бұрын
Thats hiw you feel, and thats how he feels.
@rossysullenberger46164 ай бұрын
Wow! 😂 I started thinking that my father must be a Chinese then. I would fly home twice a year just to sit with him for 5 minutes and oh man… he could come up with everything’s wrong with my face. 😂
@AayushSoni11962 жыл бұрын
I'm hoping his dad comes across this episode on KZfaq and gets to look at things from his son's perspective. Would be interesting to know what he takes away from it.
@stealthworx43714 жыл бұрын
I’m from a south Asian background and we are similar. At 15 I hated this but now at 25 I understand why Asian parents are the way they are.
@lillyess3854 жыл бұрын
You can understand it but it doesn't mean that you have to accept it.
@Billy_Herrington19694 жыл бұрын
Someone has to create a compilation of Joe saying "Wow!"
@JessBess3 жыл бұрын
it's funny because i'm starting to break away from everything my parents have taught me. parents used fear to control and manipulate me... naturally i became a people pleaser as i was walking on egg shells and didn't want to rock the boat. now that i'm older and am savvy to the 'guilt tripping tactics', asian friends i know say that's just normal. guilt tripping and manipulation isn't normal. yet because it's so common in Asian culture, people accept it as the norm. you have to heal yourself and redefine what's normal. redefine what a healthy relationship is. i was in an emotionally abusive and controlling relationship before because that was my normal. now, even if it's selfish, i have to put my own needs first that's the tricky part - being a good daughter/son for your parents vs choosing what is right for you and your needs.... the guilt that comes with putting your own needs first and choosing your own happiness also if your parents marriage is rocky, kids are the scapegoat in the family... they become the focus. or worse yet the kids feel like they have to take responsibility for the parent's marriage/happiness or emotionally support their parents we have to break the cycle guys. heal yourself so you have a healthy relationship and don't pass on or project your past wounds onto your kids we have to do the hard work because we are smart enough to be aware. we need to stop the generational trauma now! you'll notice when you've started to change when you put firm boundaries up... when you don't feel guilty for saying no to your parents, when they can't make you feel a certain type of way if you don't do as they please. when you see them for who they really are....when you no longer need their approval because you define your own success, you define yourself and you love yourself unconditionally don't take your parent's conditional love to actually be love, just see their love for what it is... their limited capacity to love you as you truly are then give that power back to yourself. give yourself unconditional love. vow to love yourself no matter what: even if shit goes wrong today, even if your parents hate you, even if you ate too much icecream haha, even if your nose looks too big, even if you think you're fat, you are you! there's no one else like you
@andrewland8434 жыл бұрын
Call me when you doctor!!!
@KeefeL2 жыл бұрын
Growing up in HK, this really, really hits home. Coming 2nd out of many hundreds just begs the question: why weren't you 1st?
@arktofreedom81624 жыл бұрын
Loved this dude in silicone valley
@arktofreedom81624 жыл бұрын
JIN YANG!
@brynleyjones26744 жыл бұрын
This makes the world need more Asian comedians
@Amyandmaci4 жыл бұрын
I have never related to someone more on my life love this interview this is y Chinese and Portuguese people get along so well because we’re the same they are the meanest I agree and work ethic just a lot I have never related to someone more
@Raptors19tdot4 жыл бұрын
Humm Portuguese, work ethic, 🤔humm.... that explains Cristiano Ronaldo.
@koji37703 жыл бұрын
Yeah something like this happened to me before, when ur parent says their not proud of u if rlly hurts, even if it’s a joke
@mikasasukasa44794 жыл бұрын
perhaps his dad is finally really seeing how happy and successful his son is so he found inspiration. maybe his dad didn't have that connection with his own father so now he's changing that. BREAK THE CYCLE
@portorock52274 жыл бұрын
Asians are just direct af in that aspect and it’s amazing when people would translate stuff that was said when I was overseas I would be rolling like are you allowed to say that
@exotak18264 жыл бұрын
Anyone else excited about the ps5 reveal?
@josueluna75324 жыл бұрын
Gamers are hyped
@smakil1014 жыл бұрын
very
@NaturalHypertrophy4 жыл бұрын
PC master-race checking in
@exotak18264 жыл бұрын
Josue Luna ima be honest the console looks cool but the games shown were mostly a snooze fest
@CHELCH9252 жыл бұрын
I totally understand where he’s from. I grew up in Hong Kong too and like Jimmy, I came to study in San Diego. My mom did exactly the same to me. She visited me every year. Every time she would tell me how “fat” I was. Am like, thank you mom, I don’t deserve it. After all, I was 125 lbs 5’3. I don’t consider myself “fat”! Oh well, being an Asian kid really not easy …🤣