"How do I know when I'm with you that it's the real you?" "You don't." I don't know if this bit aged like fine wine or milk.

I guess he can get that Best Buy rewards card now

I'm sure he did love her. It's sad for everyone involved, but celebrities don't just exist to please us. They fall out of love, just like everyone else.

I honestly thought they were so much in love. This news was such a shocker to me. And he went from not wanting kids to having a baby straight out of rehab with a new woman. Gosh! Can't even think about what Anna felt seeing it all happen.

The jokes about not wanting a baby hit different when you learn he had a baby with Olivia Munn minutes after his divorce. 😳

You woke up and chose violence with this video, huh..

I need her to rebound with Timothee Chalamet

The interview where he was on about his "real self" and his wife asking about it is such a red flag in retrospect

My father is one of the best in his field. His staff love him. But his alcoholism ruined all of his personal relationships including ours. Addiction is very powerful.

Bill Hader’s face says everything you need to know about the state of their marriage 😂😭

Remember y'all, no matter how much you think you know a celebrity, you don't

Im largely not emotionally invested in this whole thing, but the "how do I know Im with the real you?" thing hits really hard in retrospect haha. Especially since Anna was obviously shocked and distraught by the divorce.

maybe Tendler can seek out Chalamet :)

From the age of 18-25 my behavior w/women bordered on sociopathy. I was constantly unfaithful, verbally abusive, utterly self-centered, etc. Worse still, I was a high-functioning alcoholic/junkie. I got sober 5 years ago & as a man in my early 30s, I can't imagine acting that way w/someone I cared about. I say this bc I deal w/the same sickness as Mulaney but I can't fathom discarding my wife so casually. This is a person who built a life w/you, supported you through your addiction struggles, loved you & (likely) gave up on having children w/the promise of being w/you. That's legit sociopath behavior & I hope Jon gets financially DECIMATED in divorce proceedings. I have zero empathy for John bc if there's ONE thing you learn in sobriety it's "the world does not revolve around you". I hope for the kid's sake John stays sober but goddamn it doesn't look good.

Getting another woman pregnant while you are still married is kind of low class.

I’m so tired of everyone picking sides in this divorce of absolute strangers and they both seem so nice and I wish the best for both of them.

Why does it feel like I got married, divorced and then watched my ex have a child with another woman over the span of 4 minutes and 12 seconds

This broke my heart! He had a lot of sadness which he put a smile over. May his recovery continue long in life. 💜

“Some things are worth leaving your wife for.” -Best Buy Rewards Card

There are reasons why people are encouraged not to couple up in the first year of recovery... Hope they can use their humor and big brains to coparent their daughter with love.

The directing in this video is brutal

Hader's reaction is so genuine, funny and foreshadowing....

I understand people fall out of love. And I myself used to LOVE John mulaney and his comedy. Every Friday me and my family would sit down to watch his shows and laugh. But what he did to Anna truly broke what respect I had for him. I hope she can find someone new and better than him 💖

I feel bad for the ex. Seems like she was present at his worst. I'm surprised she stayed that long. But u never know if he was hiding it well. Seth mentioned how they did an intervention at his worst. SNL is a toxic environment. Once someone starts drugs there is no stopping. Relapse is very quick after recovery. Most times nothing really triggers the relapse. It's more the addictive nature of the drug.

Gotta appreciate the editing here 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Bill Hader's face says it all.

His real estate agent turned out to be Nostradamus.

I think John is hilarious and love his comedy, but I still feel like he did his ex really dirty. And I feel for her.

The dead look on his face when he talks about his knew relationship with Olivia...

John may get Munn, but now Anna can get Timothee Chalamet.

That was some damn good editing. Don't know one bit about his personal life, but I think I do now.

I think the hardest part of accepting this was that the girl was Olivia Munn. The girl who wanted John regardless that he was then in a happy marriage. Plus, her being problematic didn't help

As the kids say: “this hits different.”

i love john as a celebrity but y’all have to internalize that just because somebody comes across as charming and bubbly and fun and likeable when it’s their job to do so, does not necessarily mean they’re always like that. i’m not gonna say john is a bad person, because he’s a human being who’s surely seen his fair share of pain and struggle through his life, but i’m also not gonna say he’s a good one because none of us truly know him personally. it’s unfair of us to butt our head into the personal business of a celebrity like that

I love John Mulaney's work, always have and I probably always will. Although I have never met Mr. Mulaney "in real life," he is, and has made himself, very relatable over the years. And while a performance on stage is exactly that, a performance, I think it's safe to say there's enough reality in John's performances that cause several fans/ followers/supporters to feel they are allowed to have a response or reaction (despite some who will comment that it's not normal or healthy to have a "parasocial interaction" with the "stars" (he's a normal human being like any of the rest of us, just happens to be more famous and well known, but he's still a human being, living life) and as both a fan and a fellow human being, I want what is best for him. I want that for everyone, including myself. Life's not easy. It is a struggle. The part that's hard for me to watch, even though "it's not my personal business" (it was exposed publicly, and persons in public positions, receive public feedback, it happens) I am saddened that others ended up hurt namely, his wife, yep- Anna IS still legally his wife. For those who don’t believe she was hurt in the process, LOOK at her artwork. The photography of Anna Marie Tendler is talent and success in its own rite. I hope she sells all of her work and I hope she receives all of the awards and accolades that work of her level should receive. Study "Dinner in March" and "A Room that Was" from her series titled Images in the First House and tell me that your mind and brain and heart and soul are not affected. As I study Anna's work, I see a level of talent and skill and artistry that is on the same level as John, but in her own area of expertise and as I think of them and the 11year history they had, as a team (they dated well over four years before they married) I saw them as an unstoppable couple with power together that was still in the stages of being fully unleashed. I'm saddened because the pandemic triggered a relapse for John, it triggered a lot for a lot of us. The year sucked, no doubt about it. And while I understand “things go the way things go” sometimes, I can't help but think and wonder, if O.M. had NOT ended up carrying John's offspring, if more time could have passed for John, without the distraction of DATING someone new RIGHT outta rehab, maybe, just maybe at Step 9 of his 12 Steps, when it was time for making amends, his amends with his lovely and talented Wife who he had at once adored and held dearly, that his bonds with her could have been remembered and reawakened and been re-exposed (for I fully believe they are all STILL there, beneath the surface, and John could have been rejoined and reunited in relationship with a woman that I believes he shares a more compatible union with and I believe he was meant to be with- but it seems now, we may never know.

To think, the man who loved real housewives for its seemingly ridiculous drama, became the drama himself.

It’s almost as if things change with the passing of time, and stand-up isn’t always factual statements.

The way this video is arranged is so good but so sad😢

What pisses me off the most is that Anna was there for him throughout his addiction….addicted have NO CLUE what it is like for the ones that love them. The ones that know they are more than their addiction and they deserve to be the best version of themselves. It’s takes so much love, so much selflessness to love an addict and stick by their side throughout their addiction & recovery. John quite literally took all of that love and effort and sacrifice Anna made to stay with an addict over the years and just shit all over it like she was absolutely nothing to him and I think that’s gotta be the saddest thing of all of this……for this reason i unfortunately think most addicts should be fully single when starting their recovery process. You have no idea who you’re going to be at the other end of recovery and it’s not fair to drag those that loved you and we’re there for you along for the ride

I now see why the way he is. He’s a broken person like most of us and I just hope he gets through life the best way he can.

That was a very interesting montage. You could really feel the tone of the relationship shifting as time went on and by how he talked about things.

They should give Oscars for supercuts like this. 👏👏 Bravo. Well done!

he had a baby with Olivia Munn FOUR months after they divorced… so 😳

I’m sure they were very much in love for most of their relationship. I’m sad that it ended the way it did and I can only wish the best for both of them.

He has a lot of his own personal demons to slay. There’s no way anyone can be in a successful relationship especially a marriage with another person without resolving their own issues first. You have to be solid first and good with yourself before you pull another person into your life. Loving someone only goes so far.

I want these things he says to be true so badly……thoughts are with Anna-such a rough time.

It’s a sad situation but this video was excellently made

And this is life.....totally unpredictable....and, speaking for myself (soon to be 74 yrs old), nothing has worked out the way I planned. Still....even at this old age. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I’ve never dealt with alcohol or drug issue (had a husband who was usually out of control and after 7 yrs and two little girls...after trying to help him for 2 years), but I’m kind of an expert on schizophrenia (yes..my ex had it all...and I never knew it) and people who over indulge in alcohol. This is life. In my next life....hopefully....I’ll be unmarried and caring for unwanted animals at a sanctuary. No kids...tho I adore mine and my 5 grandkids (all grown up adults now). I just prefer non humans to most adult humans. Too much drama and causes a drain on my already pretty low energy level (from caring for so many beings ... both human and non human... this time around, in this lifetime). Not sure why my life has been so chaotic, stressful and full of sorrow.....but, I’ve come to realize I was looking elsewhere for what has been inside me all along: strength, compassion, empathy, love, joy, peace and common sense.

Sorry to hear about troubling things happening to people that I have a fondness for.

Addiction puts huge strains on families. Addicts are not themselves when they are high. They can be mean, they can be explosive or broody and detached. It is hard enough to keep a marriage hwalthy without that added challenge. I can absolutely imagine a situation where a once loving and great relationship ends amid an addicts relapse.

The narrative of this edit and the cuts were like so beautiful and well thought

Yikes... his words did not age well in the slightest. The comments about his wife never knowing the real him, his complete disinterest in his wedding, saying how it's nice for someone to know the real him when he's not on drugs... So many red flags that all point to him having never cared for his ex wife to begin with. The way he talked about his wife versus the one time he talked about his girlfriend? Night and day. He never cared for that woman. He settled for someone that was in love with him but it was not reciprocated. Wasted her time and efforts and now she's hurt because of his adultery and sloppiness. What a trash man. Really thought Mulaney was a wholesome guy. And the way he just so casually says his ex needs to die?? He really couldn't give two shits about that poor woman, huh?

That ending 😢

I feel back for the forthcoming child tbh. Imagine them seeing that interview one day.

He did her so dirty

Aren't you the lucky one to be publicly forgiven because you're so special. Continue to enjoy life

I'm crying so hard why you do this to me

The line about “the real you” couldn’t be more relatable and frustrating

Mulaney’s jokes were not as good when he was married to Anna. His new Netflix special was a bit stale for my taste.

That first "joke" was very telling then, I remember hearing that and raising an eyebrow but now. Smh.

that intro was brutal

John filed for divorce; july 2021 (this is public record) Baby was born; Nov 2021 (from google, his bday) Got olivia pregnent; Nov - 9 months = Jan/Feb 2021 math aint mathing

I loved John mulaneys stand up but it’s hard for me to watch it anymore... my first relationship failed due to cocaine and alcohol changing the person I loved 😢 this news actually caused my heart to break again because i can empathize with Anna in a very real way. Drugs are horrible and now I’m not really able to enjoy his specials any more. 😣

THE REAL ESTATE LADY DID KNOW!!!!!!

I saw the part where he tells Seth he is having a baby but I missed the part where Seth grabs his shoulder.

Top notch editing

At the time of his intervention before he went to rehab, he was already living in an Airbnb, so it's not a stretch to assume his marriage might have been effectively over by that point anyway. I think people are operating under the assumption that he got out of rehab and only then made the decision to end his marriage and take up with a new girlfriend.

I have decided to blame the real estate agent.

1:41 his face said so much 😭😭 had me howling

Idk where this is going but my heart broke a little when I heard his voice on late night. He sounds so unsure of what’s happening. He’s a really talented and I think good person but this could go any which way

Some people are saying that he cheated because of the babies timeline and birth but I checked and their divorce was finalized January 6 and the baby was born on November 24 a month after the divorce was finalized would’ve been the time of conception so based off that we don’t really have proof that he ever did. It’s perfectly normal for people to date after a divorce and sometimes accidental pregnancies happen.

Anna is a strong Jewish broad, he's said so himself. She'll be OK without him.

That’s really depressing. He’s a super funny stand up but she dodged a bullet and I hope my girls never meet a man like him.

I'm in a dilemma about him because I used to love him but after what happened in the past year, is just hard .

Important video. Thank you for shedding light on how some “nice guys” really act. Disgusting passive aggressive behavior

03:54 it’s lovely to see John present and moved by actual emotions like that. Honestly happy for him and his new lifestyle, he seems like a good guy who deserves happiness ❤

Such a fan of his stand up. Look forward to the next special.

Yikes... Just found out the baby was born in Nov so that means he was cheating on his wife when it was being conceived.... I wonder if that's the real reason for divorce.. He basically cheated and knocked up the mistress.

if you still enjoy Mulaney, fine, I can understand the mindset of it not being our business. But he made it our business, and you still have to acknowledge how not cool this is

He got married, had a crisis, separated then got divorced. He’s not unique in that respect. People fall out of love especially when there are additional stressors like addiction to contend with. I do think that his addiction probably made children an impossibility for his wife to contemplate but Olivia was ready for kids and hasn’t experienced living with him when he’s under the influence. I sincerely hope it all works out because half of the battle in recovery is learning to live in your new reality and his has shifted A LOT. All that said he seems to have a fantastic support system in his friends so it looks promising.

The coolest thing about John was his nice, guy next door kind of humor. Idk shit about their marriage but he shot himself in the foot. Imo, Anna is a better artist anyway, lol.

I feel like John is not the man I thought he was Not saying it in a bad way just different. And he seems a little bit less funny now😔

Bill Hader's face tho

Just 🚩after 🚩after 🚩after🚩. I hope the baby and Anna doing okay now

She's very perceptive that Anna

I love how the real estate agent was actually right in the end…

Why is everyone so mad at this Bud Light spokesperson?

Well i guess she really didn’t know if it was the real him…

The editing on this is brutal

He can finally get the Best Buy rewards card

Maybe they just weren't soulmates.Why stay with someone not meant to be? His ex is young and pretty. She will obviously move on.

It hurts

This editing is professional gold( I Just made that up)

He 100% cheated on his wife and it's real depressing

Serious question about being in relationships without solving ones issues first... Has anyone ever actually solved their issues. Like SOLVED. Corrected. Healed. From ALL THEIR issues. Sincerely, guy who is in a long term relationship with the woman who saw him in addiction and now has been clean for 18 months.

“Watch you lose” instead of “console you if it doesn’t go your way.” 😣😔

Im sure he loved her at one point but a lot can change in 6 years, feelings especially. Some people are just not meant to be.

This is well edited especially at the end

This was So Well Made.

John Mulaney's story has always made me think of Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston's divorce. Way back when I used to listen to John's material about not having children, I would tell myself that he secretly wants kids but because he loves his wife, who steadfastly doesn't want one, agreed that it would be his life as well. I believed the same for Brad Pitt, even though I have no way, no how of knowing what happened in either story. At a very vulnerable moment of their life, they met someone who shared their desire of having a family with a little human, and one thing led to another. Anyway, I wish him peace.