Supercut of John Mulaney talking about his (now ex) wife, Anna Marie Tendler
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@nakatominocalamari29692 жыл бұрын
"How do I know when I'm with you that it's the real you?" "You don't." I don't know if this bit aged like fine wine or milk.
@TheKrazysexykool2 жыл бұрын
Milk
@duhuh73702 жыл бұрын
Fine wine. The accuracy was painful to watch but goddamn did it turn out to be true
@marmarbinx34582 жыл бұрын
Or maybe like something we can't accurately describe because it isn't our own personal life. But what do I know?
@GuerillaWelder2 жыл бұрын
@@marmarbinx3458 you know what we all know which is nothing lol none of us know what TF is going on but hey
@desislavakonduzova97962 жыл бұрын
Totally milk. And it gets sourer with every second
@captainrexofthe501st92 жыл бұрын
I guess he can get that Best Buy rewards card now
@sarah37962 жыл бұрын
“You’re never gonna get that Best Buy rewards card!!”
@gggooding2 жыл бұрын
Tbf, I kinda think Olivia Munn would react the same way.
@lonewolfe25022 жыл бұрын
😂
@maddoxdriscoll168 Жыл бұрын
He looks like Sid from Ice Age
@FranMSK2 жыл бұрын
I'm sure he did love her. It's sad for everyone involved, but celebrities don't just exist to please us. They fall out of love, just like everyone else.
@fineanddanya2 жыл бұрын
You’re right it’s heartbreaking to watch
@liitbro2 жыл бұрын
No. He’s a disgusting man and the public needs to know what people they are supporting. I used to enjoy his comedy but I would never watch them again because of that.
@rosariopereira7292 жыл бұрын
@@liitbro why is he disgusting?
@geodude2472 жыл бұрын
What exactly has he done that's disgusting?
@itzchi11y832 жыл бұрын
@@geodude247 I could be wrong but im pretty sure HE broke up with HER after he was brought into rehab. But I havent seen anything on why he is disgusting other than his addictions
@smitra59012 жыл бұрын
I honestly thought they were so much in love. This news was such a shocker to me. And he went from not wanting kids to having a baby straight out of rehab with a new woman. Gosh! Can't even think about what Anna felt seeing it all happen.
@gonavy56072 жыл бұрын
I am pretty sure he did not impregnate the new gf on purpose.
@sadem10452 жыл бұрын
Maybe he changed his mind about having kids and that was one of the reasons they broke up - we don't know. That's why my dad got divorced from his first wife.
@constantreader79442 жыл бұрын
@@sadem1045 Doubtful. It's almost always the guy who doesn't want kids, and the woman who decides to go along with it. Also, I gotta restate this. No way he got Olivia pregnant on purpose. Come on. They're already broken up.
@sadem10452 жыл бұрын
@@constantreader7944 I'd like the statistics, please. The source as well.
@constantreader79442 жыл бұрын
@@sadem1045 You can google as well as I can. I just don't believe for a moment he got Olivia Munn pregnant on purpose. Do you? Doesn't anybody? Therefore I have proven my case.
@Jah_LEASE_yah2 жыл бұрын
The jokes about not wanting a baby hit different when you learn he had a baby with Olivia Munn minutes after his divorce. 😳
@robzs83882 жыл бұрын
tbf if I had a chance to lock down Olivia Munn i would absolutely do it regardless of whatever
@cloudXXLV2 жыл бұрын
I mean, Mulaney and his wife had been separated for 6 months already. To be honest, Mulaney and Munn might have just been dating and had an accidental pregnancy
@CoachRudi12 жыл бұрын
And when we now discover the date of the baby’s birth was NOVEMBER 24, 2021- oops
@belleslovinit38482 жыл бұрын
@@cloudXXLV separated while he was supposed to be in rehab lol
@ShibaDoggie9392 жыл бұрын
@@cloudXXLV they had the baby in Nov but he was still with his ex wife when it was conceived..... So....
@boobooismine12 жыл бұрын
You woke up and chose violence with this video, huh..
@fineanddanya2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@divkaur44102 жыл бұрын
The last one breh 🤣🤣🤣
@MeghanBean2 жыл бұрын
I need her to rebound with Timothee Chalamet
@nomenome8562 жыл бұрын
Alright, who do we tweet at and what hashtag do we use?
@zeinaalsherif77942 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@l.salevi2 жыл бұрын
I can get on board with this
@henriettakanya86052 жыл бұрын
Yas she must get that D!! Hope she does. I love mulaney but c'mon
@dianapevtsov2 жыл бұрын
If that'll stop everyone from griping, then great. I always had kind of a queasy feeling about Anna & John. Every single anecdote he ever told about her was about her needling him, chipping at his self esteem with tiny slights and comments, and his courtly way he'd publicly declare his fondness for her always just felt like a) a people-pleaser, and b) someone speaking in their own interpersonal best interests. Of course he was going to say he loves his wife, he wasn't allowed NOT to. So yes, if Anna & Chalamet get together, good for them, but none of this is any of our business. We should regard all of them like we're in the era John's voice sounds like it comes from, in the 1930s, way back before we knew everything about celebs' personal lives.
@phosphenevision2 жыл бұрын
The interview where he was on about his "real self" and his wife asking about it is such a red flag in retrospect
@p4uli302 жыл бұрын
yeah now its weird watching that part
@mermaiddiyartist81192 жыл бұрын
Yep
@NYD6662 жыл бұрын
@a person except he has a drug problem. It's a bit different
@anicerain17042 жыл бұрын
True
@h3ck7742 жыл бұрын
I mean it was a punchline to his joke I can pretty much guarantee that's not how the conversation went down also talk show bits are scripted
@rachelno92292 жыл бұрын
My father is one of the best in his field. His staff love him. But his alcoholism ruined all of his personal relationships including ours. Addiction is very powerful.
@dizzymisslizzy45692 жыл бұрын
same with my father
@ShaunHensley2 жыл бұрын
In fairness, he had to deal with a harpy of a wife
@ShaunHensley2 жыл бұрын
@@Megasaurusify All wives are harpy trash
@porcelaindollll2 жыл бұрын
@@ShaunHensley no? she seemed great
@goldrush18x2 жыл бұрын
@@porcelaindollll imo she didn’t come across very nice or supportive when it came to john. not saying she’s an inherently mean person but more of a strong, bossy personality type that may not have meshed well with his personality. as you can see in the video he often played negative moments with her off as mere jokes but that kind of stuff can stay with you and wear on your self esteem after a while.
@PlantMusicLife2 жыл бұрын
Bill Hader’s face says everything you need to know about the state of their marriage 😂😭
@Mandrake5912 жыл бұрын
I think he was joking......
@penny4chz2 жыл бұрын
I thought the same 😆. Friends always know.
@natgonzza2 жыл бұрын
@@Mandrake591 "entre broma y broma la verdad se asoma" - Every latina lady ever
@popeye6972 жыл бұрын
@@Mandrake591 he was obviously joking
@alexperkins84332 жыл бұрын
@@natgonzza TOTally.....which is why she is now his EX
@dra25212 жыл бұрын
Remember y'all, no matter how much you think you know a celebrity, you don't
@willowoodz2 жыл бұрын
truth 👏🏽
@p4uli302 жыл бұрын
or anyone to be honest... not everybody shares every part of their lives so sometimes we assume things
@Nadiesalevivo2 жыл бұрын
@@p4uli30 People assume all the time.
@Nadiesalevivo2 жыл бұрын
@@p4uli30 and it's a disgrace.
@p4uli302 жыл бұрын
@@Nadiesalevivo yup
@MaddyBlu97242 жыл бұрын
Im largely not emotionally invested in this whole thing, but the "how do I know Im with the real you?" thing hits really hard in retrospect haha. Especially since Anna was obviously shocked and distraught by the divorce.
@asponon Жыл бұрын
How do you know?
@MaddyBlu9724 Жыл бұрын
@Cowsheep 1234 She made a public statement right afterwards saying she was shocked and heartbroken. It wasn't a big secret lol.
@asponon Жыл бұрын
@@MaddyBlu9724 I meant the cheating you insinuated
@MaddyBlu9724 Жыл бұрын
@Cowsheep 1234 What? Dude, I have no idea how you decided I "insinuated" that.
@asponon Жыл бұрын
@@MaddyBlu9724 no you decided to yourself then wrote the comment and acted like you didn’t
@bef96122 жыл бұрын
maybe Tendler can seek out Chalamet :)
@canna86762 жыл бұрын
THIS!!
@lifeofriley81602 жыл бұрын
That would just be 🥰
@edinburghredneck2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, umm…the word is that he prefers the company of men. Sorry Anna.
@bef96122 жыл бұрын
@@edinburghredneck Did he announce it? I don't really follow too much celebrity gossip.
@thesecondringbearer2 жыл бұрын
@@bef9612 No, and he dated Johnny Depp’s daughter, so this is probably not true.
@JNJ10142 жыл бұрын
From the age of 18-25 my behavior w/women bordered on sociopathy. I was constantly unfaithful, verbally abusive, utterly self-centered, etc. Worse still, I was a high-functioning alcoholic/junkie. I got sober 5 years ago & as a man in my early 30s, I can't imagine acting that way w/someone I cared about. I say this bc I deal w/the same sickness as Mulaney but I can't fathom discarding my wife so casually. This is a person who built a life w/you, supported you through your addiction struggles, loved you & (likely) gave up on having children w/the promise of being w/you. That's legit sociopath behavior & I hope Jon gets financially DECIMATED in divorce proceedings. I have zero empathy for John bc if there's ONE thing you learn in sobriety it's "the world does not revolve around you". I hope for the kid's sake John stays sober but goddamn it doesn't look good.
@devonbogdan85272 жыл бұрын
Your comment was therapeutic as someone who is going through something similar as Anna
@JNJ10142 жыл бұрын
@@devonbogdan8527 I'm sorry that's happening to you but I'm glad my comment helped some small amount ❤️ You don't need someone like that in your life, there is someone better coming your way in short order 🙂
@JNJ10142 жыл бұрын
@@mbrammy7 You should stop ASAP, if only bc you'll probably end up getting sober at some point & the guilt you're going to carry for your actions is HEAVY. Trust me, not a day goes by I don't have to consciously stop beating myself for cheating on a dozen+ wonderful girls who did nothing wrong but love a junkie alcoholic serial killer.
@KN-hg2nv2 жыл бұрын
THIS. I get the whole deal with people saying he hes a human being and doesnt exist for our entertainment. but hes the one whos saying these things left and right and even used his relationship for stand up. also trust me, I would judge a non celebrity just as hard.
@rubyrayne82 жыл бұрын
@@JNJ1014 I thought Anna didn’t want children? The woman doesn’t always “give up” having children, sometimes we don’t want them. Also we don’t know that he carelessly discarded her. He might have very carefully told her it wasn’t working out. I don’t know why people think they know what happened in a relationship between two ppl they don’t know and have never met. I feel awful for Anna. I love her recent art and I’ll continue to support both of them. As a human, I know how hard it is to just survive sometimes. Life is beautiful. And life is suffering. I’m also a addict and never was sociopathic or treated people like you mentioned above. I fucked up plenty of times sure. I make mistakes. But I didn’t treat ppl badly. We are all different. We all have our path. And piling on only creates more suffering. I’m glad you are clean and doing well.
@justayoutuber19062 жыл бұрын
Getting another woman pregnant while you are still married is kind of low class.
@shakira42232 жыл бұрын
Fr, and the fact that he was once cheated on by his gf during a long distance relationship, he must've known how it must feel to the other nd how wrong it is.
@aguywithalotofopinions4122 жыл бұрын
Yeah doctors really don’t recommend starting relationships right out of rehab because it’s really easy to make stupid decisions
@eugenechege16212 жыл бұрын
Lol online and real life are different realities it seems
@mattmammone23382 жыл бұрын
I agree, though addiction can screw up the best of us.
@tordyclark2 жыл бұрын
Too many "kind ofs" in that sentance.
@lilsneepsnorp49512 жыл бұрын
I’m so tired of everyone picking sides in this divorce of absolute strangers and they both seem so nice and I wish the best for both of them.
@snc90352 жыл бұрын
Why does it feel like I got married, divorced and then watched my ex have a child with another woman over the span of 4 minutes and 12 seconds
@JSJSpeaks2 жыл бұрын
This broke my heart! He had a lot of sadness which he put a smile over. May his recovery continue long in life. 💜
@CoachRudi12 жыл бұрын
I agree-a lot of sadness he put a smile over- I think he has unresolved issues with his Dad - and even in that Seth Meyers interview, Seth was so amazing and supportive yet I felt like John was, as you say, putting a smile over, but deep down there is NO WAY he doesn’t know how much his unfortunate actions HURT ANNA and i am not convinced he’s fully dealt with that reality yet
@holitinne2 жыл бұрын
“Some things are worth leaving your wife for.” -Best Buy Rewards Card
@alwayslookingup702 жыл бұрын
Made me actually laugh out loud lmao
@mariekastler53912 жыл бұрын
There are reasons why people are encouraged not to couple up in the first year of recovery... Hope they can use their humor and big brains to coparent their daughter with love.
@princessrachel9885612 жыл бұрын
It was a boy
@mikeg82762 жыл бұрын
I mean, he was _already_ coupled up. He _doubled_ up and got the mistress pregnant, which isn’t advisable in any situation
@alexperkins84332 жыл бұрын
@@princessrachel988561 lol
@joanbernsten3960 Жыл бұрын
@Mike G In his September 2021 interview he said and this is a quote "I went to rehab in September, I got out in October, I moved out of my home from my ex-wife. Then in the spring I went to Los Angeles and met and started to date a wonderful woman named Olivia." He didn't cheat, still probably not great that he already has a partner... And before you get confused he went to rehab in both September (for a month) and December (for three months).
@iliasVoolgaris2 жыл бұрын
The directing in this video is brutal
@fineanddanya2 жыл бұрын
Tysm
@lifeofriley81602 жыл бұрын
So well done
@jakobbenjamin2098 Жыл бұрын
Hader's reaction is so genuine, funny and foreshadowing....
@Costerella72 жыл бұрын
I understand people fall out of love. And I myself used to LOVE John mulaney and his comedy. Every Friday me and my family would sit down to watch his shows and laugh. But what he did to Anna truly broke what respect I had for him. I hope she can find someone new and better than him 💖
@vdussaut91822 жыл бұрын
💯. And may it please be Timothée Chalamet.
@chachatheone12 жыл бұрын
@@vdussaut9182 yeaaaaah
@dizzymisslizzy45692 жыл бұрын
we rly dont know anything about their relationship or what happened
@goldrush18x Жыл бұрын
It’s giving parasocial weirdo
@centigradz2centigradz2892 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for the ex. Seems like she was present at his worst. I'm surprised she stayed that long. But u never know if he was hiding it well. Seth mentioned how they did an intervention at his worst. SNL is a toxic environment. Once someone starts drugs there is no stopping. Relapse is very quick after recovery. Most times nothing really triggers the relapse. It's more the addictive nature of the drug.
@leahsmith43102 жыл бұрын
Surprised she stayed this long? It just all depends on the person, and we weren't there so I don't feel it's right to blame one or the other. I suffer from horrible anxiety and depression, suffered a sexual assault, but my husband was my rock. He stood by me through the mood swings, the outbursts and the suicidal thoughts. He always asks if there's anything he can do or if I just need him to listen. I don't blame her for leaving and I don't blame him for his addiction I. The grand scheme, they just didnt work.
@snowpoler2 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for both of them, clearly they couldn't give eachother the support they needed. And addiction really is not a joke, nor are the people who are addicted to any form of substance. I don't think he deserves to be shit on just as she doesn't deserve to be shit on for this situation. I'm sure they both have valid reasons as to how one made the other unhappy. I hope they go happily on separate ways.
@dana1020832 жыл бұрын
Id say its inappropriate coping of life stressors big and small.
@CourtneyPfetzer2 жыл бұрын
If you listen to his material, he started abusing substances WAY before SNL!!!! He was barely a teenager. Poor guy has had a lifetime of struggle. He wasn't happy during lockdown & couldn't take not being productive & having a work routine. Educate yourself before you speak ppl
@gammagames1413 Жыл бұрын
"I'm surprised she stayed that long." I could be wrong but I'm pretty sure he divorced her.
@Aakanksha13942 жыл бұрын
Gotta appreciate the editing here 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@fineanddanya2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@beatnik50s2 жыл бұрын
Bill Hader's face says it all.
@SheilaR.082 жыл бұрын
His real estate agent turned out to be Nostradamus.
@alicianemitz66422 жыл бұрын
I think John is hilarious and love his comedy, but I still feel like he did his ex really dirty. And I feel for her.
@wa64882 жыл бұрын
What did he do to his ex?
@marcostruelle33102 жыл бұрын
When mulaney divorced his wife, it was reported quickly that he was in a relationship with olivia munn. Soon after, munn was pregnant. Apparently, the ex-wife was blind-sided by all of this. The separation, divorce, mulaney’s rehab all don’t align to favourably suggest that the divorce was amicable and whenever anna is interviewed, she admits that she is very uncomfortable (more uncomfortable than usual divorces). There may be alleged cheating and home wrecking. Munn also has a weird reputation with married guys.
@alexperkins84332 жыл бұрын
@@marcostruelle3310 I heard that Munn was....inappropriate with him at his WEDDING....idk if its true but i heard that awhile back.....ugh.
@alexperkins84332 жыл бұрын
i find that munn putting her kid/new love life all over media to be disgusting af under the circumstances...seriously - she got what she wanted/to flaunt it on tv show after tv show is beyond insensitive . feel SO sorry for his ex.
@CrystalLynn1988 Жыл бұрын
@@alexperkins8433Munn even wrote in her book she was trying to break up John and his wife. She is a disgusting homewrecker.
@lml6562 жыл бұрын
The dead look on his face when he talks about his knew relationship with Olivia...
@yolenda_loves_to_sing Жыл бұрын
He said she is wonderful and incredible and stuff, but there is no happiness in his eyes...
@bonzupippinpaddleoxacoppil4842 жыл бұрын
John may get Munn, but now Anna can get Timothee Chalamet.
@zacthetruezac8838 Жыл бұрын
Made it seem very uncanny with the names
@sherchez32932 жыл бұрын
That was some damn good editing. Don't know one bit about his personal life, but I think I do now.
@kim06sweet2 жыл бұрын
I think the hardest part of accepting this was that the girl was Olivia Munn. The girl who wanted John regardless that he was then in a happy marriage. Plus, her being problematic didn't help
@kelseycoca2 жыл бұрын
he wasn't in a happy marriage bc people in happy marriages don't have affairs, I don't blame her for the affair, he was the married man but she is known to mess around with married guys
@kcr73712 жыл бұрын
Sorry maybe I'm just reading this wrong, but wdym by 'the girl was Olivia munn'?
@tangocat6702 жыл бұрын
@@kcr7371 the mistress and his new gf is olivia
@tangocat6702 жыл бұрын
@@kelseycoca when the guy u messing with is in a public monogamous relationship, any normal human with enough emotional intelligence would feel guilt. Obviously he has most of the blame and he's a pos, but she's not free of guilt
@kelseycoca2 жыл бұрын
@@tangocat670 I agree, she isn't free of guilt but it's not like you can force a married man to mess around
@feelthejoy2 жыл бұрын
As the kids say: “this hits different.”
@abbyzeo61802 жыл бұрын
i love john as a celebrity but y’all have to internalize that just because somebody comes across as charming and bubbly and fun and likeable when it’s their job to do so, does not necessarily mean they’re always like that. i’m not gonna say john is a bad person, because he’s a human being who’s surely seen his fair share of pain and struggle through his life, but i’m also not gonna say he’s a good one because none of us truly know him personally. it’s unfair of us to butt our head into the personal business of a celebrity like that
@dizzymisslizzy45692 жыл бұрын
@@tangocat670 we dont know anything about his relationship. he’s in recovery and made some bad choices. that doesnt make him a bad person
@alyssapinon96702 жыл бұрын
Yeah this is a lesson my high school self (who had the biggest crush on John for his charming on screen personality) had to learn
@ShaunHensley2 жыл бұрын
@@tangocat670 for all you know his wife was an insufferable b
@HappyLeigh2 жыл бұрын
When you sell your soul to the devil for wealth and fame this is the consequences you pay. Hope he gets help and turns his life around.
@richards1708 Жыл бұрын
I think the problem here is that this stuff is deliberately made public. So people will talk about it. It's like when Will Smith mentioned he is in an open relationship, people will talk about it. Maybe keep that stuff private?
@CoachRudi12 жыл бұрын
I love John Mulaney's work, always have and I probably always will. Although I have never met Mr. Mulaney "in real life," he is, and has made himself, very relatable over the years. And while a performance on stage is exactly that, a performance, I think it's safe to say there's enough reality in John's performances that cause several fans/ followers/supporters to feel they are allowed to have a response or reaction (despite some who will comment that it's not normal or healthy to have a "parasocial interaction" with the "stars" (he's a normal human being like any of the rest of us, just happens to be more famous and well known, but he's still a human being, living life) and as both a fan and a fellow human being, I want what is best for him. I want that for everyone, including myself. Life's not easy. It is a struggle. The part that's hard for me to watch, even though "it's not my personal business" (it was exposed publicly, and persons in public positions, receive public feedback, it happens) I am saddened that others ended up hurt namely, his wife, yep- Anna IS still legally his wife. For those who don’t believe she was hurt in the process, LOOK at her artwork. The photography of Anna Marie Tendler is talent and success in its own rite. I hope she sells all of her work and I hope she receives all of the awards and accolades that work of her level should receive. Study "Dinner in March" and "A Room that Was" from her series titled Images in the First House and tell me that your mind and brain and heart and soul are not affected. As I study Anna's work, I see a level of talent and skill and artistry that is on the same level as John, but in her own area of expertise and as I think of them and the 11year history they had, as a team (they dated well over four years before they married) I saw them as an unstoppable couple with power together that was still in the stages of being fully unleashed. I'm saddened because the pandemic triggered a relapse for John, it triggered a lot for a lot of us. The year sucked, no doubt about it. And while I understand “things go the way things go” sometimes, I can't help but think and wonder, if O.M. had NOT ended up carrying John's offspring, if more time could have passed for John, without the distraction of DATING someone new RIGHT outta rehab, maybe, just maybe at Step 9 of his 12 Steps, when it was time for making amends, his amends with his lovely and talented Wife who he had at once adored and held dearly, that his bonds with her could have been remembered and reawakened and been re-exposed (for I fully believe they are all STILL there, beneath the surface, and John could have been rejoined and reunited in relationship with a woman that I believes he shares a more compatible union with and I believe he was meant to be with- but it seems now, we may never know.
@fineanddanya2 жыл бұрын
Your comment is the most thoughtful. Thank you.
@CoachRudi12 жыл бұрын
@@fineanddanya and truly, thank you for all of the work and time that you dedicated to create this contemplative compilation- the use of the blackouts, on either end, along with the emphasis on the transition lines, “You Don’t!!” “…something happens” and the final line struck thoughts -not only about how well we know others, but causes us to question how deeply we are willing to go to examine the depths of ourselves- thank you for creating something that did that for/to me.
@fineanddanya2 жыл бұрын
@@CoachRudi1 oh my word thank you for noticing all of that 🙏
@mikatheperson2 жыл бұрын
Very nice reflexion, I wholeheartedly agree with you. I haven’t heard of John Mulaney for some time now and I’m very shocked by what’s been happening. I just hope everyone involved will turn out okay :(
@higiniomartinez69712 жыл бұрын
2 much text 🤠
@juicystar092 жыл бұрын
To think, the man who loved real housewives for its seemingly ridiculous drama, became the drama himself.
@charlesbronson29262 жыл бұрын
It’s almost as if things change with the passing of time, and stand-up isn’t always factual statements.
@fineanddanya2 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@judithpriestess77812 жыл бұрын
😅
@rejectionisprotection44482 жыл бұрын
But people seem to think so when it's Ali Wong though.
@Songbird35922 жыл бұрын
The way this video is arranged is so good but so sad😢
@courtneycoleman68492 жыл бұрын
What pisses me off the most is that Anna was there for him throughout his addiction….addicted have NO CLUE what it is like for the ones that love them. The ones that know they are more than their addiction and they deserve to be the best version of themselves. It’s takes so much love, so much selflessness to love an addict and stick by their side throughout their addiction & recovery. John quite literally took all of that love and effort and sacrifice Anna made to stay with an addict over the years and just shit all over it like she was absolutely nothing to him and I think that’s gotta be the saddest thing of all of this……for this reason i unfortunately think most addicts should be fully single when starting their recovery process. You have no idea who you’re going to be at the other end of recovery and it’s not fair to drag those that loved you and we’re there for you along for the ride
@rebecastevens88922 жыл бұрын
I wish I could thumbs up your comment more than once.
@PunkHime892 жыл бұрын
I think you are adding your own experiences to this and not actually looking at the timelines. 1- Anne and John meet when John was years into sobriety. 2- John didnt relapse until the pandemic. 3- Interviews with John at the time showed a rocky marriage. She didnt go to his award show because she was certain he would lose, he was constantly doing appearances and working with seth meyers because he wanted to keep busy, etc. 4- The first time he got out of rehab, he immediately seperated. So the second time he relapsed and went into rehab again, he was already separated from her. 5- He's talked about one of his interventions, and hes named the friends that were there to help him get to rehab. From the sound of it, she was no longer involved in his life at that point. I don't know enough to say this was his first rehab or second visit, but he says he was unwilling to go the first time. So to me this sounds like his first intervention. From all this i have to imagine that their relationship was already rocky before he relapsed, and although Anne loved John, to say "she made a sacrifice over the years to stay with an addict" is a bit much because she just didnt. Also, im going to be honest here, she's making great use of this divorce in her career. I know it sounds incensitive now, because obviously shes an artist and shes expressing her pain through her art, but isnt this the same thing we criticize Justin Timberlake for doing with his breakup with Britney Spears?
@VioletEmerald Жыл бұрын
@oh my lanta Thank you for this comment. I agree. So many people are projecting and assuming positive things about Anna that we have no proof she did do for John and therefore there is no proof that him wanting to get divorced is so unfair to her. We don't know either way. Honestly, all these clips imply Anna WASN'T supportive of him. There's another stand-up clip that wasn't included where she wasn't concerned he might have lung cancer and believed he could've been accused of a Me Too thing. But he never was. The way
@bronsonrodriguez33102 жыл бұрын
I now see why the way he is. He’s a broken person like most of us and I just hope he gets through life the best way he can.
@OuchingTigerLimpingDragon Жыл бұрын
That was a very interesting montage. You could really feel the tone of the relationship shifting as time went on and by how he talked about things.
@FuzzyDereck2 жыл бұрын
They should give Oscars for supercuts like this. 👏👏 Bravo. Well done!
@fineanddanya2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 🙏🙏
@kyrahart15472 жыл бұрын
he had a baby with Olivia Munn FOUR months after they divorced… so 😳
@oliviarose37872 жыл бұрын
After the divorce was made public not necessary when they decided to end things
@udubeats4543 Жыл бұрын
Divorces take a long time, 6 months minimum a year on average
@GiselleKlara Жыл бұрын
and he was in rehab for two of those months
@marielpare82902 жыл бұрын
I’m sure they were very much in love for most of their relationship. I’m sad that it ended the way it did and I can only wish the best for both of them.
@TheLyricsAnalyst Жыл бұрын
Best comment I’ve seen
@SE-gs6gd2 жыл бұрын
He has a lot of his own personal demons to slay. There’s no way anyone can be in a successful relationship especially a marriage with another person without resolving their own issues first. You have to be solid first and good with yourself before you pull another person into your life. Loving someone only goes so far.
@randoH30002 жыл бұрын
I think dealing with your shit before having kids is a bit of a fake ideal. I’ve never seen it lol…especially nowadays, with how expensive it is to care for yourself, not to mention therapy. You either like the person your with and want kids or you don’t.
@azul4904 Жыл бұрын
@@randoH3000 i mean, what you’re saying is true, but generational trauma is still so prevalent. when ppl talk about sorting their issues before having children is usually cause they’ve first hand felt what having unavailable parents does to your mind. it’s so hard dealing with that later in life. so trying to be a healthy parent is at least a good way to start, even if you’ll never be “fully healed” from all your issues and scars.
@tammyjohnson82772 жыл бұрын
I want these things he says to be true so badly……thoughts are with Anna-such a rough time.
@veronicam20062 жыл бұрын
It’s a sad situation but this video was excellently made
@fineanddanya2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@sandella112 жыл бұрын
And this is life.....totally unpredictable....and, speaking for myself (soon to be 74 yrs old), nothing has worked out the way I planned. Still....even at this old age. 🤷🏼♀️ I’ve never dealt with alcohol or drug issue (had a husband who was usually out of control and after 7 yrs and two little girls...after trying to help him for 2 years), but I’m kind of an expert on schizophrenia (yes..my ex had it all...and I never knew it) and people who over indulge in alcohol. This is life. In my next life....hopefully....I’ll be unmarried and caring for unwanted animals at a sanctuary. No kids...tho I adore mine and my 5 grandkids (all grown up adults now). I just prefer non humans to most adult humans. Too much drama and causes a drain on my already pretty low energy level (from caring for so many beings ... both human and non human... this time around, in this lifetime). Not sure why my life has been so chaotic, stressful and full of sorrow.....but, I’ve come to realize I was looking elsewhere for what has been inside me all along: strength, compassion, empathy, love, joy, peace and common sense.
@juliakay62042 жыл бұрын
Thanks for saying this. I can relate. As for drugs, I did develop a dependency for a while and it was all rooted in trauma and trying to escape pain. Drug use destroys a lot of things and people who are addicts are very unhappy people. As for children, They are grown and I love so much and will never regret having them, but my babies are gone and I will miss them everyday for the rest of my life. And things did not work out the way I’d hoped when I had them. They are beautiful people but i would love to rewrite those years. If I’d known there would be this much pain when they grew up and are no longer the children they once were I may have decided not to have children. I know not everyone goes thru this, but I do. As for animals, I foster and advocate for them as well as care for my menagerie. These sweet babies never grow up or change and get me through my most difficult days.
@herenow45502 жыл бұрын
I'm turning 32 soon and I just found my 4th kitten on the streets living on an island I moved to 2 years ago. My life looks like it's heading in the direction of giving my energy to animals and the environment. People have drained me as well. I appreciate your honest outlook on your life and I hope you are finding some peace these days.
@sandella112 жыл бұрын
@@herenow4550 Awwwwwwww. There’s nothing like that first look of trust in a stray kitten’s (or cat’s) eyes. In my opinion. I love non humans. I love a few humans....but not many. Since I was a child I connected with my grandfather and his ability to hide (and care for) stray dogs in his big tool shed (we had two dogs inside house and my mom would have flipped). Never told my mom. She liked animals, but not like me and my grandfather. I’ve lost so many tho....it hurts a lot. It’s like losing a child (I lost my youngest daughter to heart issues almost 10 yrs ago...she was young...a vet tech....loved animals also). It seems worth it tho. It’s not the quantity of life that matters....I think it’s the quality of life that matters. My dad died when I was inky 16 yrs old (heart issues too). Why I’m still here, I have no idea. 🤷🏼♀️ I’ve taken in two stray cats (they’ve been inside now for many years...both showed up different times....the one who showed up almost 5 yrs ago was diagnosed with feline leukemia.... had to get two vaccines for Maya...the cat who was here 3 years before Zuzu showed up). I adore them...they tolerate each other. Also I’ve been feeding 13 feral cats for the past 9 yrs. I have huuuge cat shelters in my little back yard area. They’ve survived almost 10 winters. Only lost one...to cancer....last summer.😢 Sorry...I’m rambling. I’m glad you’re helping our non human pals out. They have no voice to speak up for themselves. Most humans, in my opinion, won’t shut up. Sorry for the chatty ramble, but I’m human. 😊. Good luck with your kitties! Thx for taking them in. 💖🥰
@Rambutan.2 жыл бұрын
@@juliakay6204 Thank you for sharing this and being honest about your experiences. I'm sorry things turned out this way for you. I hope you can find peace and joy.
@thesingerintheshower2 жыл бұрын
Let me start by saying that I wish you well and I thank you for sharing. However, I think it's awful to say that you don't want children when you already have them. I don't say this to hurt you, but I think you should consider that it may hurt your children or grandchildren to hear that. If not yours, then maybe for someone else in a similar situation who reads this, think about that. I know that it would hurt me to hear my mom or parent saying those words. It would make me feel like I was a mistake. I do wish you well and I empathize with feeling drained. I hope that I wasn't too hard on you. It sounds like you need a recovery of your own from the traumatic events that took place in your life. Please take care of yourself and take all the time that you need to heal in THIS life.
@waynemiller60702 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear about troubling things happening to people that I have a fondness for.
@audreybringgold6217 Жыл бұрын
Addiction puts huge strains on families. Addicts are not themselves when they are high. They can be mean, they can be explosive or broody and detached. It is hard enough to keep a marriage hwalthy without that added challenge. I can absolutely imagine a situation where a once loving and great relationship ends amid an addicts relapse.
@jessicadodge4442 жыл бұрын
The narrative of this edit and the cuts were like so beautiful and well thought
@fineanddanya2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@kermitilluminati89722 жыл бұрын
Yikes... his words did not age well in the slightest. The comments about his wife never knowing the real him, his complete disinterest in his wedding, saying how it's nice for someone to know the real him when he's not on drugs... So many red flags that all point to him having never cared for his ex wife to begin with. The way he talked about his wife versus the one time he talked about his girlfriend? Night and day. He never cared for that woman. He settled for someone that was in love with him but it was not reciprocated. Wasted her time and efforts and now she's hurt because of his adultery and sloppiness. What a trash man. Really thought Mulaney was a wholesome guy. And the way he just so casually says his ex needs to die?? He really couldn't give two shits about that poor woman, huh?
@BoredZozo2 жыл бұрын
The comedy routine where we wants his ex to die was made a few years back and not directed towards his ex wife at all as they had recently gotten married at that point in time, Tbh that was just a jokey “relatable” standup routine from one of his Netflix specials. Not defending his actions at all as I agree what he did was scummy but we don’t exactly have the full story either only bits and pieces. That clip was horribly edited out of context here, in my opinion.
@cassandra28872 жыл бұрын
That ending 😢
@MsHannahFlower2 жыл бұрын
I feel back for the forthcoming child tbh. Imagine them seeing that interview one day.
@sadem10452 жыл бұрын
They probably won't..............
@Yourmomismyotherride2 жыл бұрын
He did her so dirty
@andresbarriga53054 ай бұрын
The video is about the opposite.
@timothymathewson8094 Жыл бұрын
Aren't you the lucky one to be publicly forgiven because you're so special. Continue to enjoy life
@adudavacado83972 жыл бұрын
I'm crying so hard why you do this to me
@fineanddanya2 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry
@TheMJ5779 Жыл бұрын
The line about “the real you” couldn’t be more relatable and frustrating
@b3tres Жыл бұрын
Mulaney’s jokes were not as good when he was married to Anna. His new Netflix special was a bit stale for my taste.
@fineanddanya Жыл бұрын
That’s how I feel! I’m not even trying to make a judgement I just don’t really find him funny anymore
@viceb7 Жыл бұрын
That first "joke" was very telling then, I remember hearing that and raising an eyebrow but now. Smh.
@beyzanurkoymen81242 жыл бұрын
that intro was brutal
@emankhurram Жыл бұрын
John filed for divorce; july 2021 (this is public record) Baby was born; Nov 2021 (from google, his bday) Got olivia pregnent; Nov - 9 months = Jan/Feb 2021 math aint mathing
@fineanddanya Жыл бұрын
😬🤷♀️
@Nachoza2 жыл бұрын
I loved John mulaneys stand up but it’s hard for me to watch it anymore... my first relationship failed due to cocaine and alcohol changing the person I loved 😢 this news actually caused my heart to break again because i can empathize with Anna in a very real way. Drugs are horrible and now I’m not really able to enjoy his specials any more. 😣
@charlotte17952 жыл бұрын
THE REAL ESTATE LADY DID KNOW!!!!!!
@jessecarliner77332 жыл бұрын
I saw the part where he tells Seth he is having a baby but I missed the part where Seth grabs his shoulder.
@MelissaNgai2 жыл бұрын
Top notch editing
@ASimoneau Жыл бұрын
At the time of his intervention before he went to rehab, he was already living in an Airbnb, so it's not a stretch to assume his marriage might have been effectively over by that point anyway. I think people are operating under the assumption that he got out of rehab and only then made the decision to end his marriage and take up with a new girlfriend.
@Lin-jz4jz2 жыл бұрын
I have decided to blame the real estate agent.
@alexperkins84332 жыл бұрын
lol
@simonj9631 Жыл бұрын
1:41 his face said so much 😭😭 had me howling
@kaigeoghegan27172 жыл бұрын
Idk where this is going but my heart broke a little when I heard his voice on late night. He sounds so unsure of what’s happening. He’s a really talented and I think good person but this could go any which way
@posypopgacha73412 жыл бұрын
Some people are saying that he cheated because of the babies timeline and birth but I checked and their divorce was finalized January 6 and the baby was born on November 24 a month after the divorce was finalized would’ve been the time of conception so based off that we don’t really have proof that he ever did. It’s perfectly normal for people to date after a divorce and sometimes accidental pregnancies happen.
@MsSpider26 Жыл бұрын
Anna is a strong Jewish broad, he's said so himself. She'll be OK without him.
@suzygreen26122 жыл бұрын
That’s really depressing. He’s a super funny stand up but she dodged a bullet and I hope my girls never meet a man like him.
@chaitanyajain31272 жыл бұрын
Why what wrong did he do
@susansmith4932 жыл бұрын
@@chaitanyajain3127 Because parents think "their girls" are flawless princesses. These are the kinds of girls no one wants their son to meet.
@chaitanyajain31272 жыл бұрын
@@susansmith493 but he is saying there is some problem with mulaney
@susansmith4932 жыл бұрын
@@chaitanyajain3127 Everyone has problems.
@christybradley94712 жыл бұрын
@@susansmith493 Along the same vein, no parent wants to watch their son suffer at the hands of a selfish partner either. This is not about her thinking her daughters are flawless.
@marion_t2 жыл бұрын
I'm in a dilemma about him because I used to love him but after what happened in the past year, is just hard .
@iheartabortion26502 жыл бұрын
Important video. Thank you for shedding light on how some “nice guys” really act. Disgusting passive aggressive behavior
@fineanddanya2 жыл бұрын
These moments were really stuck in my head
@sophiahutchinsonova42502 жыл бұрын
i dont really know what john did wrong though... everyone is saying that he is disgusting but honestly i just see both anna and john as victims. its not disgusting passive agressive behavior, he's just going through shit. he's still just a guy trying to figure it out, ive always been and always will be a die hard fan of his.
@tidepodpadthai26332 жыл бұрын
Anna was the one at fault though
@fineanddanya2 жыл бұрын
@@tidepodpadthai2633 why do you say that
@sophiahutchinsonova42502 жыл бұрын
@@tidepodpadthai2633 why?
@84Elenai Жыл бұрын
03:54 it’s lovely to see John present and moved by actual emotions like that. Honestly happy for him and his new lifestyle, he seems like a good guy who deserves happiness ❤
@jugsteve2 жыл бұрын
Such a fan of his stand up. Look forward to the next special.
@ShibaDoggie9392 жыл бұрын
Yikes... Just found out the baby was born in Nov so that means he was cheating on his wife when it was being conceived.... I wonder if that's the real reason for divorce.. He basically cheated and knocked up the mistress.
@teddypattinson57722 жыл бұрын
No actually they were separated long before his ex announced to her Instagram that John wanted a divorce.
@snarkycharlies2 жыл бұрын
They're still married. Separated yes, but still married.
@BlamoStramo Жыл бұрын
if you still enjoy Mulaney, fine, I can understand the mindset of it not being our business. But he made it our business, and you still have to acknowledge how not cool this is
@PoppyCorn144 Жыл бұрын
He got married, had a crisis, separated then got divorced. He’s not unique in that respect. People fall out of love especially when there are additional stressors like addiction to contend with. I do think that his addiction probably made children an impossibility for his wife to contemplate but Olivia was ready for kids and hasn’t experienced living with him when he’s under the influence. I sincerely hope it all works out because half of the battle in recovery is learning to live in your new reality and his has shifted A LOT. All that said he seems to have a fantastic support system in his friends so it looks promising.
@_mothmaam_2 жыл бұрын
The coolest thing about John was his nice, guy next door kind of humor. Idk shit about their marriage but he shot himself in the foot. Imo, Anna is a better artist anyway, lol.
@boiimcfacto23642 жыл бұрын
She's a painter lol. Even if Picasso made his best work today, I doubt anyone would give a damn about it as much as they'd like even a mediocre stand up routine.
@_mothmaam_2 жыл бұрын
@@boiimcfacto2364 well art is subjective so 🤷🏼♀️… that was just my two cents
@GiselleKlara Жыл бұрын
it's not a competition. Also I'd never heard of her except as his wife. It depends what sort of art and what sort of performance you are into. Not into contemporary visual art at all, so she may be amazing but totally off the radar for many of us
@janemarinelli28382 жыл бұрын
I feel like John is not the man I thought he was Not saying it in a bad way just different. And he seems a little bit less funny now😔
@wintercomesearly2 жыл бұрын
Yes, that's it for me too.
@chaitanyajain31272 жыл бұрын
Not for me , he has gone through trouble and has always been funny, just because his marriage didn't worked out , it doesn't mean He did something wrong
@jhern0832 жыл бұрын
Bill Hader's face tho
@intannout2 жыл бұрын
Just 🚩after 🚩after 🚩after🚩. I hope the baby and Anna doing okay now
@helloAdikhere2 жыл бұрын
She's very perceptive that Anna
@brittanycurl Жыл бұрын
I love how the real estate agent was actually right in the end…
@pablodmdp Жыл бұрын
Why is everyone so mad at this Bud Light spokesperson?
@Eknoor_Kaur_Bawa2 жыл бұрын
Well i guess she really didn’t know if it was the real him…
@unagalecic14172 жыл бұрын
The editing on this is brutal
@Methus3lah Жыл бұрын
He can finally get the Best Buy rewards card
@fineanddanya Жыл бұрын
Hopefully he did
@MM-qp4pd2 жыл бұрын
Maybe they just weren't soulmates.Why stay with someone not meant to be? His ex is young and pretty. She will obviously move on.
@hannahpieper63012 жыл бұрын
It hurts
@fineanddanya2 жыл бұрын
On both sides :(
@giovanne21432 жыл бұрын
This editing is professional gold( I Just made that up)
@fineanddanya2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@Tapiokapuddin2 жыл бұрын
He 100% cheated on his wife and it's real depressing
@princeofb7383 Жыл бұрын
Serious question about being in relationships without solving ones issues first... Has anyone ever actually solved their issues. Like SOLVED. Corrected. Healed. From ALL THEIR issues. Sincerely, guy who is in a long term relationship with the woman who saw him in addiction and now has been clean for 18 months.
@fineanddanya Жыл бұрын
We’re all human and all in various stages of healing
@JSJSpeaks2 жыл бұрын
“Watch you lose” instead of “console you if it doesn’t go your way.” 😣😔
@cherrybullet86302 жыл бұрын
she was probably joking
@KN-hg2nv2 жыл бұрын
and then he dragged her on national tv, and because of yt, on this international platform. maybe talking it out with her wouldve been a better thing than both of them continuing to be so petty.
@drartemisa212 жыл бұрын
She was very obviously joking
@lilacheek13942 жыл бұрын
misogynistic that he’s allowed to make jokes and shes not but alright
@rezarfar2 жыл бұрын
Im sure he loved her at one point but a lot can change in 6 years, feelings especially. Some people are just not meant to be.
@arjemy2 жыл бұрын
This is well edited especially at the end
@fineanddanya2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@brightlighter2 жыл бұрын
This was So Well Made.
@fineanddanya2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@mayathapa19 ай бұрын
John Mulaney's story has always made me think of Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston's divorce. Way back when I used to listen to John's material about not having children, I would tell myself that he secretly wants kids but because he loves his wife, who steadfastly doesn't want one, agreed that it would be his life as well. I believed the same for Brad Pitt, even though I have no way, no how of knowing what happened in either story. At a very vulnerable moment of their life, they met someone who shared their desire of having a family with a little human, and one thing led to another. Anyway, I wish him peace.