Jordan Peterson: Why some men can't get women
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@pablosanchaz9029 3 жыл бұрын
I cleaned my room. I swear it changed my life. In no time I was cleaning the house then I was cleaning up my life.
@Juanchoperez05 3 жыл бұрын
Pablo Sanchaz for real? Was it a one day thing or does it still apply?
@bemore2886 3 жыл бұрын
@@pablosanchaz9029 im hearing a commercial voice while reading this u fake?
@robertdreis5020 3 жыл бұрын
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@robertdreis5020 3 жыл бұрын
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@robertdreis5020 3 жыл бұрын
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@mashable8759 3 жыл бұрын
The fact that this man is giving away this knowledge for free and that he has haters in the world proves how messed up people are.
@woozie___ 3 жыл бұрын
It's true. People don't give him a chance or actually listen to what he has to say, which if they did might save many of them a lot of pain and suffering throughout their lives because *no one* else talks about personal responsibility. If you don't learn it from your parents then man you are really fucked.
@gorkamorka41m84 3 жыл бұрын
I think most people that criticise him do it because of his political statements and stuff like that. Not because of his psychological advice.
@CHEEBnRUN 3 жыл бұрын
True, but my faith in humanity is restored when I see mostly positive comments like yours under his videos. The haters are just a loud and vocal minority.
@HodsBroo 3 жыл бұрын
True
@portaccio 3 жыл бұрын
Are you kidding me? This prick has made millions of dollars. Just because you're watching it on KZfaq doesn't mean he does what he does for no financial gain.
@scrimpmster 3 жыл бұрын
I remember that my boss once pointed to my desk, which was a mess. He said that a cluttered desk is the sign of a cluttered mind. He wasn't too happy when I pointed out that his desk was empty.
@Shinobistrider 3 жыл бұрын
Why, having an empty mind purposefully is blissful.
@llunaeldas8055 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@llunaeldas8055 3 жыл бұрын
Could it be that you are busy?
@hopelessromantic4843 3 жыл бұрын
Your savage bro
@fillingsauce7130 3 жыл бұрын
Sure ok, whatever you say buddy. Now go eat a popsicle and watch some spongebob
@beemo9 3 жыл бұрын
Key points: 1. Your room is a reflection of your mind, which reflects your life 2. Improve your room, so you can improve your life 3. Be careful what you focus on. Spend your time on good goals 4. Be open to learning new things from others 5. Good relationships make you grow
@tanushranjan3760 3 жыл бұрын
thanks!
@JohnPaul-sh7du 3 жыл бұрын
And Fully listen and engage when speaking with someone and block out premeditated thought of being right because of ego
@user-if5gp8dh7q 3 жыл бұрын
@bmo thanks ! You helped me a lot :))
@mrcarlsimpleton3141 3 жыл бұрын
6. Good relationships are based on exchanging truth.
@ernestoneill80 3 жыл бұрын
Hes just talking and talking and not saying nothing waste of my time
@thesunflowchannel1995 3 жыл бұрын
Jordan: go clean your room Guy: is that psycho therapy? Jordan: Well it depends on how you conceive the limits of your being
@josephroman9947 3 жыл бұрын
if you want to make an apple pie from scratch, you must first invent the universe....
@VictoriaWonders 3 жыл бұрын
@@josephroman9947 he man is such a dick i just HATE listening to his rigid voice
@KobaltBlue680 3 жыл бұрын
@@VictoriaWonders I don’t remember asking but let me evaluate my metaphysical existence first
@chrisa9438 3 жыл бұрын
I read this comment EXACTLY when Jordan spoke them 😳
@Srilankanenglishteacher 3 жыл бұрын
@@VictoriaWonders YET YOU'RE HERE
@johnyang6969 3 жыл бұрын
I love education but hates school. I enjoy learning on my own pace rather than being forced to take in some information just to be able to put it on a piece of paper for a grade. Videos like these are my favorite
@darcelwhit7852 3 жыл бұрын
WOW! This is how I feel. You said what I was thinking. 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
@williamkoscielniak820 3 жыл бұрын
"School" was absolute fucking hell for me on multiple levels. Education, on the other hand, is glorious. Education is actual learning. "School" is mostly indoctrination and the teachers are mostly unqualified to truly educate.
@silversurfer4441 3 жыл бұрын
But if you paid attention in school, you'd realize that "hates" should have been written "hate."
@firepatriot42 3 жыл бұрын
Same here man. I learn at a slower rate than others and am always made fun by others for it. Yet I know more and have a better understanding than others and see the big picture.
@Awe5omegamer64 3 жыл бұрын
111Buckethead while I don’t want to blame teachers too much I think they should at least try and make teaching engaging and interesting for students even if the topic may be boring. There were plenty of examples in my school where the teachers were bored to teach a topic and that would make every student in the class not want to take part in the learning.
@diegomendes2970 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy that this guy is in our generation. He is brilliant
@jimvenanzio6561 2 жыл бұрын
When the world most needed him, he was there.
@Maverick.D. 2 жыл бұрын
Hes a nut, and a drug addict, actually...
@shaunsteele8244 2 жыл бұрын
@@Maverick.D. go clean your room
@danieljenkins7951 2 жыл бұрын
Brilliant is a bit much
@dominicm255 2 жыл бұрын
He uses Jungian theory, which is interesting, but totally outdated and unscientific.... archetypes 🤣🤣
@bangbangcomics 3 жыл бұрын
I cleaned my room, did the dishes, took a shower and am currently crying myself to sleep..... Am I alpha yet?
@cow5183 3 жыл бұрын
So we live the same life?
@no-gracias9863 3 жыл бұрын
Looool
@BritishProudnShit 3 жыл бұрын
Yes
@madcat61207 3 жыл бұрын
clean the bathroom, then wax car, sand floor, paint fence, Danielsan
@bjmar13 3 жыл бұрын
Keep doing steps 1 through 3. Continuing to do them makes you an alpha
@dezzorhellian6089 3 жыл бұрын
ok so now i have cleaned my room i guess girls are on their way to my house
@dezzorhellian6089 3 жыл бұрын
@@220p2 i was just kidding boomer
@justinfitzpatrick013 3 жыл бұрын
I’m coming over
@mich29sm 3 жыл бұрын
Actually, David de Angelo said: have your room ready to invite a lady without being ashamed. If you look at this as: "I am not expecting anything, but I am prepared" , you don't lose any chance. Good luck.
@adilmohammed6897 3 жыл бұрын
I am waiting outside, deddy
@justusmzb7441 3 жыл бұрын
Well how were you going to lure a girl into a dirty room?
@NH-hp2nn 3 жыл бұрын
“Once you aim, the world will reconfigure itself around that aim.” Who else feels like this is really true and has happened to them in one way or another?
@scotleoqueen704 3 жыл бұрын
🙋♀️ 💯 Soon as I heard him say it, it felt like a hidden lock snapping open somewhere in deepest part of my soul. LOVE his powerful use of words to open us up 😁
@MrDonutz11 3 жыл бұрын
It's true, the law of attraction and what you desire, you will obtain it sooner or later! Try it! Test as much as you can...
@user-xd9ks4ik9s 3 жыл бұрын
not at all...
@halo091 3 жыл бұрын
Is this esoteric?
@Angorrr 3 жыл бұрын
@@halo091 no
@SallyWPM 2 жыл бұрын
It's crazy how knowledge can make you cry, realizing how wrong you were from the start. The best part is when you keep watching the video and you realize also that it's not too late to fix what you couldn't fix before
@itsrobbylol 2 жыл бұрын
Jordan must do a lot of crying then. He’s usually wrong about everything
@IsraelCountryCube 10 ай бұрын
What you stopped hating someone?
@Cittamatra 9 ай бұрын
@@itsrobbylolNot enough mate. Give us some examples.
@benboothroyd1523 8 ай бұрын
@@itsrobbylolClean your room
@jossal7731 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t who all these kids are, but they were extremely lucky to have had these classes with him.
@DR-om9ce 3 жыл бұрын
I think there at Harvard
@marcoafmonteiro 2 жыл бұрын
University of Toronto, all of his classes that I have watched on yt are from there
@cazadoo339 2 жыл бұрын
And why was a girl doing her crochet? !
@decespugliatorenucleare3780 2 жыл бұрын
the fact none of those kids did anything useful is a great teller of how useless he is (e.g. Look up the Acton school of business, in which he used to collaborate - and see how they accomplished absolute fuckall)
@MotorcycleMan79 2 жыл бұрын
@@DR-om9ce Toronto, cheif. Also...They're. Pretty ironic to mention Harvard beside your grammatical error
@xaydada 3 жыл бұрын
I just click on the video to know how to get women, 15 mins later I cleaning up my room and start cleaning up my life and basically my life was saved. God dammit you tricked me!
@patrickvonjanicke658 3 жыл бұрын
Haha , Jordan the Trickster ✌🏻
@lordtullus9942 3 жыл бұрын
Happy accidents
@jonniefandango3013 3 жыл бұрын
He is a genius.
@warriormanmaxx8991 3 жыл бұрын
re: "God dammit tricked me!" Nahhhhhh ... God is not into "damming" or "tricking" His creation.
@gapshot5065 3 жыл бұрын
Think how mind blown you will be now when you start getting women 🤯
@djordje123king 3 жыл бұрын
People saying the title is misleading, the link is that girls avoid boys who have their life in shambles. Love yourself so that you can love and be loved.
@seanm7539 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with that to a certain point you can love yourself to the endth degree But if you don’t have these three things women will not talk to you will not give me the time a day if you do not have money and stable living arrangement They will not give you the time of day especially if you’re living on disability because you’re not financially secure or you’re basically living poor trust me the reason I say that is because I live that life I am on disability
@djordje123king 3 жыл бұрын
@@seanm7539 Every interaction you have is an exchange of resources, attention, time, money, energy, advice, you need to offer something for someone to want it and to want you.
@exodus1759 3 жыл бұрын
I think it was the quote from 9:40. If you view women (or whomever you’re pursing) as a means to an end, your conversation will depict it. If you see women as a means to getting laid or getting a romantic partner, you aren’t creating “mutual satisfaction”. You need to realize that a girlfriend or boyfriend is not a goal or objective, it’s a commitment. You must have a “mutual willingness to be in contact” and seek “reciprocal communication” or the other person will realize you don’t see them as an equal.
@djordje123king 3 жыл бұрын
@@exodus1759You just put my thoughts in words, thanks man.
@bobbykoikoi 3 жыл бұрын
@War X What's your point? The fact that relationships necessitate mutualism doesn't mean they can't be profound. Prostitution is a type of relationship, but where the things that are exchanged aren't profound.
@JC-wh7jj 3 жыл бұрын
Random guy: Why am I not getting any women? Jordan Peterson: You've not cleaned your room, punk!
@johnnyapoliyo421 3 жыл бұрын
I haven't watched the whole peace, but i couldn't find any tip on the subject (nor in the same guy other videos either) :(
@quantumvideoscz2052 3 жыл бұрын
@@johnnyapoliyo421 Peterson isn't a dating coach. He's a clinical psychologist. And if you do what he recommends (get your act together), a lotnof things in your life become better. And through that, it just might get you a lot closer to getting a girlfriend.
@battlewithintraining 2 жыл бұрын
@@johnnyapoliyo421 seems like you want a magical video or quotes to get you a girl. Stop looking for shortcuts and do the necessary things to get a girl. This is a comment and it may seem like I'm being rude but seriously don't expect the world to happen for you, because it won't.
@unassailable6138 2 жыл бұрын
Good. I like my room deisotganized and a bit dirty. An ageing moist fish taco ain't worth the pleasure I have of keeping my room the way I wanted. By the way, humanity lived 99.9 percent of our evist without "rooms".
@SwordWieldingDuck 2 жыл бұрын
@@battlewithintraining things like what?
@CrazycruxGaming 2 жыл бұрын
Watching this three years after he really changed my life is incredible! So many of these things he's saying are implicitly understood by me now. Retrospective confidence is great!
@cozmovox 3 жыл бұрын
when my room is a mess, I feel the discrepancy with my psyche and my room, then I clean it up,and I feel much better....it IS psychotherapy ! :-)
@user-et8vm9cc3t 3 жыл бұрын
The moment he went on to this, I was thinking: "Damn, that's some ontological level stuff!"
@localchef7171 3 жыл бұрын
Or you can be a woman Or you can be on your period Or you can be a woman.
@nawrasbalkan6911 3 жыл бұрын
@@user-et8vm9cc3t u I uu by u
@jemand7488 3 жыл бұрын
Nah it's just OCD
@lizaneva3065 3 жыл бұрын
I have to throw this crap away , i have to break up ,
@GiffysChannel 3 жыл бұрын
I see what you did there. Who knew there was such a thing as wholesome click-bait?
@eliuloarte993 3 жыл бұрын
This cats getting hella breaddd up with whatever says JP On at.
@cyberpope2137 3 жыл бұрын
Best sort of clickbait - use a catchy title to mask real content
@bluelotus369 3 жыл бұрын
sneaky....
@glovaldebenito 2 жыл бұрын
It’s so confusing.. I have a friend who’s sent me a couple of his videos and he’s always like: please ignore the title 😂😂 on my own I’d probably never come across this man’s talks haha
@TinaFriesen 2 жыл бұрын
Become the kind of person who will attract the kind of person you want to be with. Do you want to attract someone who is living below their capabilities and doesn't care about the pain they are causing to themselves and others?
@mrmyorky5634 2 жыл бұрын
12 years ago, in the midst of a period of confusion, I decided to write down on paper what my real wants and desires in life were rather that having a mass of jumbled up expectations that were mostly unfulfilled and still in my head. I looked at that paper on most days and realized just how powerfully it confirmed that I now had a real direction. As Jordan say's, the world really did seem to 'reconfigure itself', not in an immediately obvious way, but opportunities and choices became clearer and easier to make along with the realization that I'd been going in a direction that was not right for me. The key for me is staying true to what you truly want from life and being truthful to yourself.
@katielung6515 Жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏
@HaycravingHorse 9 ай бұрын
"How misleading do you want the title to be?" This channel: "yes"
@YourNickIsTaken 3 жыл бұрын
0:00 to avoid inner chaos start make order in your own living space 9:34 on communication in relationships
@StalkedHuman 2 ай бұрын
Keep things simple. Let's go Yankees 🎉 FJB, OMB, CYR
@YourNickIsTaken 2 ай бұрын
@@StalkedHuman TLA FTW
@gr8fuldad815 3 жыл бұрын
It's a really good message. Woman (good women) want a man who is competent which can be confused with confidence. Competency is much more and is a true confidence without the messy overuse of Ego. You attract people based on your competency. Cleaning the room is not about being organized it's about taking CONTROL of your surroundings. Great message, far from easy but it's a pattern of behavior just like bad patterns of behavior.
@StalkedHuman 2 ай бұрын
What use is that? Society's hierarchy is corrupt. Being complicit in this is good? There's worse things than death. Consider the trouble with having competency in a wicked society
@StalkedHuman 2 ай бұрын
My point is, the competency in temporal power is not necessarily a good thing.
@decus9544 Ай бұрын
That sounds like it would be reasonable but that is not my experience. My experience is that what women are attracted to is actually neither confidence or competence, but arrogance.
@christinagates7502 3 жыл бұрын
@7:30 He talks about having your emotions and your thoughts come into synch-this is exactly what finding your intention is about! Intention is everything!
@ilag3686 3 жыл бұрын
Wherever I catch myself about to make a poor decision, Jordan Peterson’s voice pops in my head reinforcing the right choice- such an influential human
@josezamora1639 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@dillbickle8114 3 жыл бұрын
Haven't been in a physical class for so long I almost started writing notes through this lecture and caught myself wondering when the midterm is going to be.
@koaladelespace 3 жыл бұрын
thats some serious trauma my dude, but i have to say i relate unfortunately
@jamesthornton9399 3 жыл бұрын
He seems to have something to say. It is just so hard to untangle.
@emmabrennan2058 3 жыл бұрын
I took notes, but just on an app on my phone which I'll probably never revisit.
@xaviermill7440 2 жыл бұрын
Bicky Gill then you are already avoiding a lesson from Prof. Peterson! He was once asked how to remember everything for longer periods. He told to not take notes while one on a lesson, lecture or in presentation, try to analyse, break it down, think it out and then write what you remember. Our brain shrink the bigger information into smaller essay(some kind of) kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mc5laLZ507LXj4E.html
@cloaked2562 2 жыл бұрын
while you already have 4 other exams to study for this week XD, that plus booze
@netizenkane2230 3 жыл бұрын
This guy is intense. I would say something more witty but really he makes so many good points and so seamlessly integrates his research into the discussion that it is pretty overwhelming trying to comment on his presentations. The man has a way with words. An orator, and a scholar.
@metalgreymonster3431 2 жыл бұрын
You can say something witty it just doesn't mean in the end
@alexb.california3933 3 жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed the video more than I thought I was. I do at times often struggle with what Peterson says but manage to make the picture but this was good how you broke it down😎👍
@johnathanrichboi 2 жыл бұрын
His scenarios presented are good stuff for men to sit down and just talk about. 👏🏾
@octavioavila6548 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao the title is literally nothing about the video. Yet the video was hella good as always
@nicosaccardo6297 3 жыл бұрын
I though it was some kind if hidden message so came to the coments to find out! 😂
@aevitas_ 3 жыл бұрын
@@nicosaccardo6297 Well, he gives us advices on how to make ourselves more attractive to women through being more desirable for women, rather than giving the 5 tips to get women you're not going to believe the fifth.
@Rumo_Notna 3 жыл бұрын
you understood nothing, and everyone who liked this, why are you even here
@fluxbomb3376 3 жыл бұрын
@@Rumo_Notna its probably something like "lol thats funny, he didnt get it" or "I totally was looking for pick up tricks and he never talked about women:(" @Octavio Avila If you listen and put the meaning together you can absorb alot that will make you more attractive to be in a relationship with.
@drob128 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks. I was 6 minutes into the video and confused. I was like this advice is good but it applied to everyone. Good to know I'm not crazy.
@mikedicewrites 3 жыл бұрын
Hey random person scrolling down the comments.. Have an excellent day :)
@tomreinhard8916 3 жыл бұрын
hey! you too :)
@lordo3708 3 жыл бұрын
You too.
@alenemakrush5057 3 жыл бұрын
Yo this is awesome 😂 thanks man, I appreciate it! You have an excellent day too
@hosamfadel5440 3 жыл бұрын
Am scrolling up now 🙄
@abdolrahimtooraanian5615 3 жыл бұрын
it's actually midnight
@makingitlookeasy 2 жыл бұрын
I've always tried to improve myself but never read self improvement book because I wanted do it myself to be myself. Dr. Peterson's book at my current age of 66 can only help. Thank you.
@leoashura8086 Жыл бұрын
Students who had this man as a professor are lucky people.
@151daze 5 жыл бұрын
This video made me realize I’m a hoarder. I’m 24 still have school work from hs. Old checks my excuse is “ just Incase I need them again “
@af3349 4 жыл бұрын
Is being a hoarder bad?
@PearsAreOkay 4 жыл бұрын
@@af3349 yes
@rowdy7480 3 жыл бұрын
@@fredericmoresmau4303 you have to take some responsibility for what happened. I've found in my life, that when people fuck me over it was because I allowed it to happen. Once I stopped allowing people to treat my badly & stood up for myself, only the people who actually cared stayed in my life
@good6894 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I should probably finally empty out my hypodermic needles and dead mouse box's.
@canisterbottournament 3 жыл бұрын
@@rowdy7480 I say just be a jerk but also be hilarious, don't feel bad for hurting people, the people (mainly girls) from America that u hurt go at night and block guys, get political, straight up toxic, and are rude to others, falsely accuse too, and even tell others how big of a "creep" this guy is for sliding into their dms
@kerrymccarthy9713 3 жыл бұрын
New title - jordan peterson: how to improve your life
@subhadravm9973 3 жыл бұрын
That title works for almost all his videos...😁😁😁
@subhadravm9973 3 жыл бұрын
@Moshe’s Corner• 😁😁😁
@kiduskidane765 3 жыл бұрын
His book has the same title
@sqwacgaming696 3 жыл бұрын
Cleaning thy room shall clean thy mind
@Madabasto 2 жыл бұрын
What a golden words professor has said : a truth is a healer. 🥺👏👏👏👏👏
@ramiroarruda1938 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been in therapy before on a few occasions, and after a couple months or even less depending on how broad or narrow the therapist mind was just became sessions of repetitive repetition of the same shit in no time flat . Jordan brings something new every time he speaks on the same subject finding new and interesting ways to help understand the value in what he’s saying. He’s has put more time and effort in the practice of helping people than most that get paid for it . And Jordan gives so much of his talent away for nothing . His Altruism is second to none he’s as generous and genuine as they get a true gift to society .
@SuperSupersoda 3 жыл бұрын
TL;DW - Qui Gon Jinn was right when he told Anakin Skywalker "your focus determines your reality" 20 years ago.
@kgkel2612 3 жыл бұрын
Not just 20 years ago...a long, long time ago, in a galaxy far, far away...
@eferrari96 3 жыл бұрын
This is more motivating than anything to start something useful.
@Godofhel1 3 жыл бұрын
Motivation is worthless unless you start straight away. But instead you had the motivation to write this comment😀
@MiniatureMiss 3 жыл бұрын
I've tidied up my room, cleaned other rooms of the house, finished my studies for this semester with >90% passes and found some comfort with my absent father issues. Jordan 'internet dad' Peterson x
@Raccon_Detective. 2 жыл бұрын
02:03 Why you should even bother improving yourself 04:31 Start where you can start 04:50 Fix the things you repeat everyday
@souloftheage 3 жыл бұрын
During university finals, I always found it vital to first and constantly clean my room vs. studying my graduate material. Most PhDs I know have messy desks and they are truly brilliant as they put ALL their mental energy into their field of study, not their immediate surroundings.
@zachbriles2207 2 жыл бұрын
That’s a very small percent brother
@turbo8628 2 жыл бұрын
Or they put all their effort into their work and neglect everything else around them. A lot of progress is made, but it is not sustainable. This may help to explain why some very intelligent people end up doing crazy things. A life inbalance that eventually overcorrects itself.
@katielung6515 Жыл бұрын
This is my excuse to not clean my room, but I must get onto it as soon as possible . Amen
@proudatheist2042 Жыл бұрын
Big 5 Personality metrics and what's going on at universities can explain why you are seeing this.
@mississippisteeler95 4 жыл бұрын
I originally saw the title as misleading but I find the information the video to be of value. Anything we want in life and feel we have a barrier to does not just happen. We approach any goal with a step. Living in a cluttered room/house can directly represent our thoughts and lifestyle. Its a small step but changing that can make us just feel more positive about our outlook and ourselves. Definitely something to consider
@bobfranklin2572 3 жыл бұрын
I cleaned my room without hearing it from JP, and it's definitely helpfull. I actually find it fun and rewarding. Just work on you, when it comes to women. Make yourself proud of you, and others will be as well.
@rules4life337 Жыл бұрын
I'm learning so much about my life and events as I listen to this wonderful man! Thank you for your open mind and teachings!
@ivanthetactical6072 3 жыл бұрын
Did anyone else laugh out loud when he straight up called a bad relationship "a primate dominance hierarchy dispute" ?
@blinkypushbuttons 3 жыл бұрын
Yea well duh.
@jamesalex391 3 жыл бұрын
It's a funny way to put it but its true (in a BAD relationship that is)
@blinkypushbuttons 3 жыл бұрын
Big Sasquatch can’t have whatever he wants just by pounding his chest.
@blinkypushbuttons 3 жыл бұрын
Ivan The Tactical Men aren’t dominant. They’re just bullies. Now they’re putting skirts on and forcing everyone to say they’re women. Before that, they forced everyone to say God has a penis. Six thousand years of being special really did a number on the Doinguses.
@mixrable1212 3 жыл бұрын
@@blinkypushbuttons Nice troll m8, try harder next time
@themlglegend5891 3 жыл бұрын
"What you aim at determines how the world manifests itself to you."
@jeisonlucio 3 жыл бұрын
"A fanatic is a person who redoubles his effort after he has forgotten his aim".
@Splakyy 2 жыл бұрын
🔥
@dwd080376 2 жыл бұрын
I started improving my environment and it really affected me as my surrounding cleared up so did my self confidence
@colpyturn5112 2 жыл бұрын
The speech is fascinating but why is the title so misleading? It's called, "Why some men can't get women" and yet he doesn't even speak about that subject, at least not directly, even once in 15 minutes.
@BeczaBot 2 жыл бұрын
Ask the uploader.
@RCH422 3 жыл бұрын
Cleaning your room it does work .. having a vision about what you want with the hard work does manifest results.... he speaks the truth .. 🙏🏼❤️
@alexboardman733 3 жыл бұрын
Imagine being in Jordan Petersons class and hearing this stuff everyday and being amazed and then seeing other students working on stuff from different laptops on their computers like how can you not love what this guy has to say lol
@emmabrennan2058 3 жыл бұрын
I'm Australian and there's something so comforting about him saying words like 'rubbish', 'muck about' and 'tinkering' in that Canadian drawl. The last couple of minutes hit pretty hard.
@thoughtfox2409 3 жыл бұрын
This video really teached me two things about myself. 1. I don't clean my room often enough. 2. I am far to easily manipulated into doing things i don't really want to do...
@louisemc3680 3 жыл бұрын
'If you want to organize your psyche, you could start by organizing your room.' This is what I need to hear! I'v always suspected being untidy in your space makes you untidy in your mind or vice versa- both are the same thing. Somehow hearing Jordan Peterson say it gives me hope that I can overcome it. Thank you...
@xd4ve 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t think he was drawing such a direct conclusion. It was more about whether you fix the things that bother you and build an organized structure in your life that you’re happy with. The level of detail to which you can choose to organize your room can be defined by an infinite amount of different inconsequential things, so it’s just a matter of finding the point to which you start to feel satisfied with it or the process would be never ending. This is why he starts branching into the importance of defining life goals and aims after that.
@louisemc3680 3 жыл бұрын
xd4ve it was both.. and he WAS talking about literally tidying your room to feel less cluttered in your mind and he’s talked about this before. See many references from people about tidying their rooms...
@xd4ve 3 жыл бұрын
Louise MC yeah alright.. I was just trying to get out of doing the cleaning 🤷🏻♂️ have a great day
@louisemc3680 3 жыл бұрын
Ha! Good comeback line 👍
@Aqua.man045 2 жыл бұрын
I thought your avatar was spogoli for a sec
@undo9981 3 жыл бұрын
"Why some men can't get women" Here I am, with a now clean room, having fixed some stuff that's been annoying me and planning on looking into what I can do to increase my efficiency when doing the things I do on a daily basis.
@johnnyapoliyo421 3 жыл бұрын
May be when you get to busy for chasing women, then they start to look you appealing ... what a crap
@_Shivam_Shah 3 жыл бұрын
Could be because you didn't understand what he meant, you just scratched the surface and thought it was the key, but what actually is helpful is the deeper insight those words have, and they're not about getting girls, these things will help you get your life together and be more efficient and better than others.
@undo9981 3 жыл бұрын
@@_Shivam_Shah Umm.. no. I was merely stating that the advice he gave was helpful. It was unexpected, considering the title of the video, but it was helpful in its own right. I wasn't being sarcastic. I was being honest.
@Caleb-mj5cn 3 жыл бұрын
“You see what you aim at... so be careful what you aim at... because what you aim at determines the way the world manifests to you.” That is one powerful Jordan Peterson quote!
@amulyamishra5745 8 ай бұрын
Okay I hate to be that guy who brings his religious books into everything...but I must point out that...something along the similar lines has been said in verse in Hindu Upanishads in a Sanskrit axiom, "Yatha Drishti tatha Srishti" which literally means "As is outlook, so is universe"
@jg2977 8 ай бұрын
This confirms that I need to reorganize my closet. It bothers me that my long sleeve and short sleeve shirts are all mixed up and I have trouble finding a specific shirt sometimes.
@mikehoward2128 3 жыл бұрын
I thought at first that the title had nothing to do with the video. But, when you understand women want someone who will listen, actually listen, you realize the title is spot on.
@oliverdesvaux 3 жыл бұрын
That room thing is fricking mind-blowing!
@MrJimtimslim 3 жыл бұрын
I cleaned my room since I was a kid. Moved out young, still cleaned my room/house. Set up a business, still cleaning.....now someone else cleans it. I pay them well to do it. It works
@targor1511 2 жыл бұрын
You know what i appreciate about Dr. Jordon the most, and that is direct derive from this 15 min piece, is the fact that he fills in the mozaik of what I've come to understand through my experience of life while indicating at each point that there is so much more to this and its so much more complex yet simple at the same time.
@Coppretta 3 жыл бұрын
I do the “room cleaning” all the time. This video is Gold
@Coppretta 3 жыл бұрын
@John Monday oh heck Lol
@momsmushroomsjodyfoster5786 3 жыл бұрын
More than anything I wish I heard these things at the age of 16 or so. Either way I will pass it on to the youth in my life. Am feel grateful to have found this
@davebellamy4867 3 жыл бұрын
I just realised that Jordan is really worth listening to.
@laissezfaire9762 2 жыл бұрын
What did you think before?
@aprilturnerbracht8465 3 жыл бұрын
We've been working on cleaning our chaos. Started with the closet, then the laundry room, and now on to the garage and the kids' rooms!
@AdrianMark 3 жыл бұрын
I’m cleaning my room. 4 years later, after a major life loss. I’m already cleaning around the house, no questions about who causes the mess or why I need to clean it. Just doing it. Thanks JP
@sheogorathprinceofmadness2223 3 жыл бұрын
Good move, mate! I've been in your position. I know how it feels and it's hard. You're doing the right thing.
@AdrianMark 3 жыл бұрын
@@sheogorathprinceofmadness2223 Thanks Sheogorath. Getting motivation from you just reminds me of how important doing this is, because I'm pretty sure I left the Wabbajack in one of these boxes...
@sheogorathprinceofmadness2223 3 жыл бұрын
@@AdrianMark I don't blame you. It's pretty shitty. 'Tis why I gave it to you mortals. 🙃
@AdrianMark 3 жыл бұрын
@@sheogorathprinceofmadness2223 Your wisdom and forethought surprise and impress me Prince :)
@AdrianMark 3 жыл бұрын
@tony montana that's the plan
@brendenseipke659 3 жыл бұрын
A very smart man. I understood everything he said, he is very good at explaining things.
@tonywright8294 3 жыл бұрын
You must be very smart to understand everything he said !
@colloquialprism 2 жыл бұрын
This is/was basically my whole problem. It took me years to realize and these past few ive been trying to figure out what to do. People around me have been hinting it and this clip really throws it all back to me. I was thinking about everything after this but this should be FIRST! These lines should be shown to many, it could really save them! If u do have a statement, don't hide it out of egoism! We underestimate some but all are as complex.
@HW.0029 3 жыл бұрын
The things you do everyday are the most important things. Reminds me about the speech of the Navy SEAL admiral, he said if you can’t get the little things right, you will never be able to do the big things right.
@RL-ko2sy 2 жыл бұрын
Make your bed everyday!
@djolly3438 3 жыл бұрын
For once I don’t feel like I’ve been scammed by click bait
@nahCmeR 3 жыл бұрын
It wasnt clickbait though it's just the truth. He told you the truth of reality, you listened to him and realized he was right. He wasnt lying to you, click bait lies to you so the person that did it can have power over you. If you dont fall for click bait but instead listen and read into what the person is saying you will realize they are lying and making up stories to make it seem like they know and they are always right. Dont believe it.
@momsmushroomsjodyfoster5786 3 жыл бұрын
I enjoy this guy and probably absorb and appreciate his wisdom more than those in attendance.
@starlighter930617 2 жыл бұрын
It's funny how when I was a child, my room was messy, but my life was okay. Now, my room is in order, but my life is in ruins. :D Problem is, I was visiting quite a few psychologists in the last 10 years, but me getting better was always just a temporary thing - like cleaning off the dust. For a short time, the room is clean, but then it gets dusty again.
@tonyzeni9186 2 жыл бұрын
The mind loves to revert back to the familiar inmo our issues are managed not cured...if you're not always on guard your brain reverts to old patterns inmo
@manuelgonzalesprada6548 2 жыл бұрын
7:29 whats your aim?
@laissezfaire9762 2 жыл бұрын
You expecting things to get better and stay that way? Life is change. Deal with it and keep working at it.
@user-qe4vd4lv5v 3 жыл бұрын
I listened to dozen of speakers , so far he is the best ,well spoken , delivery of info very well structurally organized ,thumbs up
@HamidMN 3 жыл бұрын
I call it MARGA - make a room great again
@kevinvelez-mora8177 3 жыл бұрын
Hamid MN, this is MARGA Country
@alexanderschmoldt2982 3 жыл бұрын
XD take a like
@Uzodesign 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you , thank you. That was great.😂😂
@johnathansinns5656 3 жыл бұрын
Those college kids are getting more than their (parent’s?) money’s worth.
@ColtraneTaylor 3 жыл бұрын
In Indian langages Marga means way (to do something).
@GIGroundNPound 3 жыл бұрын
I would drive 10 HOURS to see THIS man speak. What a treasure. A human being of this caliber comes around once every 300 years. One of the great minds of our time ladies and gentlemen. And he comes to help use our minds for SELF empowerment and the benefit of our fellow man.
@itsrobbylol 2 жыл бұрын
You would waste gas to listen to a transphobe moron who thinks women will stop facing sexual harassment in the workplace when they stop wearing makeup? He’s not a genius and definitely not someone to look up to
@Ricky_Evans1611 Жыл бұрын
Why when you could just listen to him online?
@jamesanthony5681 4 ай бұрын
Wow! 300 years is a long time. How does Professor Peterson compare against, say, Professor Irwin Corey?
@havenbastion 3 жыл бұрын
Getting one thing you didn't know out of a conversation is a rare thing indeed. It has to be a rare sort of conversation with a rare sort of person.
@staciepaul 3 жыл бұрын
I wonder if these kids know how blessed they are to have had a professor like this?
@Dystopikachu 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, yeah. I got my first actual girlfriend at 30, and MAGICALLY my home turned into a castle of absolute technological wonder and awe. My own words, mind. Now I'm single again and looking forward to integrating my toaster and my coffee maker with my open-source smarthome ecosystem so that I can keep statistical data on how long it takes my toaster to toast THAT specific piece of bread to just the right kind of brown and crispy. No need for video games anymore. No need for women either. No need for sex. Just statistical data analysis for the perfect coffee and the perfect toast, dude.
@treasurewuji8740 3 жыл бұрын
That's psychotherapy!!!!!!!
@redblackeagle13 3 жыл бұрын
How was the first break up experience?
@dteun 3 жыл бұрын
@@redblackeagle13 he went mgtow 😜
@HomeDefender30 3 жыл бұрын
Dude that’s the basis for fight club and why Edward Norton’s character goes insane in the first place...
@Dystopikachu 3 жыл бұрын
@@redblackeagle13 Horrible and liberating all at once. The narcissism was strong in this relationship, probably made it all the worse.
@RyukyuStyle 2 жыл бұрын
i just want to leave a comment for any struggling depressed guys out there. do not worry about if you can get women or not lol... focus on yourself, achieve, succeed. when you start winning, people take notice.
@wagfinpis 2 жыл бұрын
not only is everything in the excerpt true, but he is also understanding the reality of how life operates.
@tomtom21194 2 жыл бұрын
He has a gift for explaining complex things like this
@joevallone7313 3 жыл бұрын
When you think about the cost of college, there should be dozens of Peterson's teaching. He is one of a kind and professors can learn a thing or two.
@proudatheist2042 Жыл бұрын
Universities and colleges don't have much to a chance of attracting and keeping people with PhDs of Dr. Peterson's caliber unless they offer tenure more often to their professors. Many people with PhDs would rather work elsewhere than be an eternal part time maybe maybe not employee.
@joevallone7313 Жыл бұрын
@@proudatheist2042 You also need to curb your speech which what college was not supposed to be for.
@andrewpalacios1363 3 жыл бұрын
Such high-quality lectures. Thank you for the contributions to juman kind, Dr. Peterson! I would love to meet you!
@asiyaheibhlin 3 жыл бұрын
I have C-PTSD, major depressive disorder, and acute general anxiety disorder. When I am in a HUGE depression wave my house shows it. But then I try to fight it after a few days by saying "well, I can clean the dishes and the kitchen today. Then tomorrow I can clean the living room." But, usually, once I start cleaning I cannot stop until the whole house is completely clean (military inspection ready; I am prior military). But very seldomly I do only clean bit-by-bit. After I clean, no matter which way, I feel like I can breathe again. I can actually relax and feel a sense of accomplishment and self-respect and dignity. Your enviroment affects you just as much as you affect your enviroment. I am turning 26 this year and it has applied since I was a teenager.
@colleenshea2293 3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you and your mind and knowledge! And that your share it!
@Adrian_Estando 3 жыл бұрын
Those college kids are getting more than their (parent’s?) money’s worth.
@usernaames 3 жыл бұрын
Actually no, if you're paying tens or even hundreds of thousands of dollars, this is what you would expect to get in return.
@warelves8901 3 жыл бұрын
usernaames it’s the University of Toronto, if they are Canadian they pay roughly $6,100 while starting price for international students is $21,000-64,000.
@brotherindeed992 3 жыл бұрын
usernaames lol, I’m getting it for free
@Zesrii 3 жыл бұрын
Warelves Exactly. Sure we need to save money to go to university but it’s really cheap compared to the US (EVEN WITH TAXES, AMERICANS).
@jules_sxf 3 жыл бұрын
@Shutbyotch yeah same that bright futures scholarship came in clutchhh
@malcolmkirk3343 3 жыл бұрын
Boy, he nails it. This is why having ADHD is absolutely no fun. Yeah, you might be able come up with jokes easily, free-forming off the words and actions of those around you. But the inside "game" of the person with a.d.d., let alone a.d.h.d. is continuous stress, and lots of frustration and depression.
@chrisatcgh 3 жыл бұрын
Yes I can relate to that unfortunately.
@vincemaria3981 2 жыл бұрын
Me too
@almightydolla717 2 жыл бұрын
Hang in there brother I’m rooting for you
@justinlitynski2347 2 жыл бұрын
No . ADHD is Attention Deficit Hyper Domination. Learn to utilise it for your benefit. I did and it has benefited me to a great extent. The worst thing is to get set back by your fear of the unknown, most fear is the product of an over active imagination. That being said, the worst prison to live in is fear. The reason is that most of the walls are a product of your imagination. Remember this. The things in life you regret most are the risks you didn't take. Take it for what you will, you don't know me from Adam.
@enceladus4900 10 ай бұрын
@@justinlitynski2347 this is genuinely a great comment and a great advice, thank you fellow adhd stranger!
@matthewadams8294 3 жыл бұрын
As always. Spectacular video. Thank you.
@CruceEntertainment 8 ай бұрын
My guess is most people who don’t have a partner are those who deep down simply don’t want a partner. They say they “can’t find a partner”, but probably they just don’t want one. They don’t want some other person slowing them down, telling them how to live or what to do with their money, etc etc. We live in a world now where living alone and single is easier than it was 50, 100 or 200 years ago. And so we do.
@PS-lv1mr 5 ай бұрын
I hate to admit it but this is me lol. INTP loner vibes
@eduardohk5372 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks professor, I learned a lot
@JGComments 3 жыл бұрын
Effective people take massive action within their actual sphere of influence. Ineffective people spend all their time complaining about things outside of their sphere of influence and pounding their firsts against brick walls.
@subhrajyotisen7153 3 жыл бұрын
So what he is essentially saying is, communicate to your partner for a better relationship. It's a very basic ask, but it's one of the most important requirements, if not THE most important requirement for a good relationship. Sadly most of us fail to do so.
@uniquechannelnames 3 жыл бұрын
Right as he was talking about whether cleaning your living space is really cleaning up your mind, i was literally about to put a basket of clean clothes on the ground instead of putting it away. I realized that I put a smidge more chaos in my life with every out of place thing. Really changed my thinking. I don't agree with JP 100% on everything but I do believe he has kind intentions for us all, and wants to help people.
@Jormaukko 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes giving up the chase will get you further. This applies to both genders really, it's hard to deal with emotionally dependent people, especially if they have a crush on you. Reflect on yourself, if you're a guy, imagine if a girl you don't want to date keeps on wanting to date you. You probably are viewed in same light by the person you are trying to impress.
@johncoe6304 2 жыл бұрын
This guy has more energy than a 19 year old. So talented, smart. Love JP
@emaduddindhiman 2 жыл бұрын
What an art of talking...he speaks all the way to my mind..
@sirbughunter 2 жыл бұрын
Never had a real relationship. But I had some enslaving. I still want to find the best way to communicate with anyone in this whole wide world to this date. I want peace. Not war. Never war. Fascinating lecture! I would've loved to have him as my professor!
@davidmartin7163 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like I have a PhD in psychology from JP lol. I took a few psychology classes in college. They barely scratch the surface compared to JP. I have probably view/listened to hundreds of hours of his lectures. Each one never disappoints.
@maximuscomfort 3 жыл бұрын
He nails life and how to get the best out of it. Free therapy for my whale poo moods.
@BM-fz9yc 3 жыл бұрын
Imagine how lucky these kids are to take his class
@akomar93 3 жыл бұрын
@@BM-fz9yc da fuq??? 🤣
@BM-fz9yc 3 жыл бұрын
@@akomar93 someone left a comment under this like “repeat this alpha male mantra in the mirror every day ...” and I was responding to that lol
@akomar93 3 жыл бұрын
@@BM-fz9yc lmao idk wtf that means in response to your comment.
@BM-fz9yc 3 жыл бұрын
@@akomar93 well me either. But I had responded to him and he deleted his comment then I just looked like an idiot replying to myself with “I’m a girl” lol
@GAVRANOX 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, nothing more rewarding than watching a man in a existential crisis trance state.
@BarriosGroupie 8 ай бұрын
This is a gem of a video; mind-blowing.
@LeviKerrison 9 ай бұрын
The definition of highest self being thy self indistinguishable from your experiences is very true. You’ll also realise this when you’re around people that do nothing but criticise other people who do things in life, because they can’t do anything of worth themselves so in order for them to exist, they must break apart other people.
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