For more help ask more than arabic person to translate : *التَّوَكُّلُ مِنْ أَعْظَمِ وَسَائِلِ الْحِفَاظِ عَلَى أَفْرَادِ الْأُسْرَةِ مِنَ الْأَمْرَاضِ الْعَصَبِيَّةِ: قَالَ الْعَلَّامَةُ السَّعْدِيُّ -رَحِمَهُ اللهُ-: ((وَمِنْ أَعْظَمِ الْعِلَاجَاتِ لِأَمْرَاضِ الْقَلْبِ الْعَصَبِيَّةِ، بَلْ وَأَيْضًا لِلْأَمْرَاضِ الْبَدَنِيَّةِ: قُوَّةُ الْقَلْبِ وَعَدَمُ انْزِعَاجِهِ وَانْفِعَالِهِ لِلْأَوْهَامِ وَالْخَيَالَاتِ الَّتِي تَجْلِبُهَا الْأَفْكَارُ السَّيِّئَةُ)). وَهَلْ لِلْقَلْبِ أَمْرَاضٌ عَصَبِيَّةٌ؟ نَعَمْ، هَذِهِ هِيَ الَّتِي يَقُولُ عَنْهَا الْأَطِبَّاءُ هِيَ ((الْأَمْرَاضُ النَّفْسُ جِسْمِيَّةٌ))، يَعْنِي الْأَمْرَاضَ الْجَسَدِيَّةَ الَّتِي تَكُونُ نَاشِئَةً عَنْ اخْتِلَالَاتٍ نَفْسِيَّةٍ. وَأَبْرَزُ ذَلِكَ وَأَوْضَحُهُ مَا يَتَعَلَّقُ بِارْتِفَاعِ ضَغْطِ الدَّمِ، وَمَرَضِ السُّكَّرِيِّ، وَكَذِلَكَ قُرْحَةُ الْمَعِدَةِ، إِلَى أَمُورٍ كَثِيرَةٍ. فَكُلُّ ذَلِكَ إِنَّمَا يُؤَدِّي إِلَيْهِ الْقَلَقُ الزَّائِدُ، وَالْاضْطِرَابُ، وَالْعَصَبِيَّةُ، وَعَدَمُ التَّمَاسُكِ النَّفْسِيِّ، فَتُؤَدِّي هَذِهِ الْحَالُ إِلَى جُمْلَةٍ مِنْ هَذِهِ الْأَمْرَاضِ، إِنْ لَمْ تُؤَدِّ إِلَيْهَا كُلِّهَا. فَيَقُولُ: ((وَمِنْ أَعْظَمِ الْعِلَاجَاتِ لِأَمْرَاضِ الْقَلْبِ الْعَصَبِيَّةِ، بَلْ وَأَيْضًا لِلْأَمْرَاضِ الْبَدَنِيَّةِ: قُوَّةُ الْقَلْبِ وَعَدَمُ انْزِعَاجِهِ وَانْفِعَالِهِ لِلْأَوْهَامِ وَالْخَيَالَاتِ الَّتِي تَجْلِبُهَا الْأَفْكَارُ السَّيِّئَةُ؛ لِأَنَّ الْإِنْسَانَ مَتَى اسْتَسْلَمَ لِلْخَيَالَاتِ، وَانْفَعَلَ قَلْبُهُ لِلْمُؤَثِّرَاتِ؛ مِنَ الْخَوْفِ مِنَ الْأَمْرَاضِ وَغَيْرِهَا، وَمِنَ الْغَضَبُ وَالتَّشْوُّشِ مِنَ الْأَسْبَابِ الْمُؤْلِمَةِ، وَمِنْ تَوَقُّعِ حُدُوثِ الْمَكَارِهِ وَزَوَالِ الْمَحَابِّ، أَوْقَعَهُ ذَلِكَ فِي الْهُمُومِ وَالْغُمُومِ وَالْأَمْرَاضِ الْقَلْبِيَّةِ وَالْبَدَنِيَّةِ، وَالِانْهِيَارِ الْعَصَبِيِّ الَّذِي لَهُ آثَارُهُ السَّيِّئَةُ الَّتِي قَدْ شَاهَدَ النَّاسُ مَضَارَّهَا الْكَثِيرَةَ. وَمَتَى اعْتَمَدَ الْقَلْبُ عَلَى اللهِ، وَتَوَكَّلَ عَلَيْهِ، وَلَمْ يَسْتَسْلِمْ لِلْأَوْهَامِ وَلَا مَلَكَتْهُ الْخَيَالَاتُ السَّيِّئَةُ، وَوَثِقَ بِاللهِ، وَطَمِعَ فِي فَضْلِهِ، انْدَفَعَتْ عَنْهُ بِذَلِكَ الْهُمُومُ وَالْغُمُومُ، وَزَالَتْ عَنْهُ كَثِيرٌ مِنَ الْأَسْقَامِ الْبَدَنِيَّةِ وَالْقَلْبِيَّةِ، وَحَصَلَ لِلْقَلْبِ مِنَ الْقُوَّةِ وَالِانْشِرَاحِ وَالسُّرُورِ مَا لَا يُمْكِنُ التَّعْبِيرُ عَنْهُ. فَكَمْ مُلِئَتِ الْمُسْتَشْفِيَاتُ مِنْ مَرْضَى الْأَوْهَامِ وَالْخَيَالَاتِ الْفَاسِدَةِ، وَكَمْ أَثَّرَتْ هَذِهِ الْأُمُورُ عَلَى قُلُوبِ كَثِيرِينَ مِنَ الْأَقْوِيَاءِ، فَضْلًا عَنِ الضُّعَفَاءِ، وَكَمْ أَدَّتْ إِلَى الْحُمْقِ وَالْجُنُونِ، وَالْمُعَافَى مَنْ عَافَاهُ اللهُ وَوَفَّقَهُ لِجِهَادِ نَفْسِهِ لِتَحْصِيلِ الْأَسْبَابِ النَّافِعَةِ الْمُقَوِّيَةِ لِلْقَلْبِ، الدَّافِعَةِ لِقَلَقِهِ، قَالَ تَعَالَى: {وَمَنْ يَتَوَكَّلْ عَلَى اللَّهِ فَهُوَ حَسْبُهُ}؛ أَيْ كَافِيهِ جَمِيعَ مَا يَهُمُّهُ مِنْ أَمْرِ دِينِهِ وَدُنْيَاهُ. فَالْمُتَوَكِّلُ عَلَى اللهِ قَوِيُّ الْقَلْبِ لَا تُؤَثِّرُ فِيهِ الْأَوْهَامُ، وَلَا تُزْعِجُهُ الْحَوَادِثُ لِعِلْمِهِ أَنَّ ذَلِكَ مِنْ ضَعْفِ النَّفْسِ، وَمِنَ الْخَوَرِ وَالْخَوْفِ الَّذِي لَا حَقِيقَةَ لَهُ. وَيَعْلَمُ مَعَ ذَلِكَ أَنَّ اللهَ قَدْ تَكَفَّلَ لِمَنْ تَوَكَّلَ عَلَيْهِ بِالْكِفَايَةِ التَّامَّةِ، فَيَثِقُ بِاللهِ وَيَطْمَئِنُّ لِوَعْدِهِ، فَيَزُولُ هَمُّهُ وَقَلَقُهُ، وَيَتَبَدَّلُ عُسْرُهُ يُسْرًا، وَتَرَحُهُ فَرَحًا، وَخَوْفُهُ أَمْنًا. فَنَسْأَلُهُ تَعَالَى الْعَافِيَةَ وَأَنْ يَتَفَضَّلَ عَلَيْنَا بِقُوَّةِ الْقَلْبِ وَثَبَاتِهِ بِالتَّوَكُّلِ الْكَامِلِ الَّذِي تَكَفَّلَ اللهُ لِأَهْلِهِ بِكُلِّ خَيْرٍ، وَدَفْعِ كُلِّ مَكْرُوهٍ وَضَيْرٍ)).

This is how I felt today I wanted to give up. I finally reached out to a co worker and a lot of them have had my back but now I just feel like I’m asking for too much. I honestly left and did drunk karaoke 😂

Quit thinking like you’re losing hope. You eventually will. Change your perspective. Go reverse. A like each day do things you enjoy that provide hope. Then your mindset changes. You will then be a hopeful person.

Set a short term goal one that can be achieved in 7 days one that also is something you have been putting off. Do thus and take it seriously and it will give you a boost of confidence and any amount will help alot when you feel like giving up. Maybe this sounds lame but it's really helpful😊 Never forget to show yourself compassion you deserve love so 1love yourself

Thanks for sharing and I'm sure a lot of people here can relate

I've read your comment trying to improve my English I did get the general idea and I really experience the same suffering but I got stuck to understand some difficult vocabulary that u used 😂

The amount of finesse I feel the need to use to discuss any objections I have with others with them makes it clear I have a problem with confrontation. Also working on/through this, but I will be lucky if I'm ever able to address my family on an adult level. I deeply wish to do so, but I've been practicing all this in my outside of family life in the mean time, since family healing may not be possible. They are pretty entrenched in the denial of my mother's pathological behavior, but if I can't effect the past, I can still influence my future. Fight the good fight, friend.

@@WinkLinkletter see myself a lot in your words. family. sheesh. i stepped back a little from them and immediately got a scornful 'oh you think we're toxic is it?' I'd have never used that word but since "you" mention it... take care stranger. It does seem to get easier.

@@user-pj5gh2qc3c the more serious I try to be the more precise my vocab becomes, and also these videos and general academia bring that out in me :) but hey, any contact with a language is Always helpful, since words which were inaccessibly passive and hidden might wake up one day mid-speech!

That is really sad, so sorry to hear of your loss and everyone's loss for that matter, 18 years young, who knows how many lives would have been enriched by knowing her in the years ahead, such a tragic loss for all, so sad she felt suicide would escape her from her life, when truth be known she had it within her to overcome but it was momentarily hidden from her their life's circumstances etc Thank you for sharing, I wish things had turned out better for your sister and those that knew her

I am so VERY sorry for you, most of the people in pain put a smile on their faces.

My sincere condolences to you and your family. So important to share JP videos with everyone and hopefully save other from such sadness. Sending hugs across the miles

So, so sad. And more common than most think. God bless her and her family.

You will find strength bud

Me too his video are really articulate and helpful

The WORD psychologist ... on "LINE" with Jordan Peterson ... can make you feel as though you have had FREE therapy sessions. If you really think about it ... whether free ... or expensive ... psychologists do not agree with each other's type of therapy. So, it depends "entirely" on which "therapy" you have a DESIRE TO believe. Example ... this is what the psychologist Jordan Peterson perceives is his version of truth. “Gender identity and gender expression are not valid ideas. They are not true. There is no evidence for it. I don’t know what the options are, if you don’t identify as a man or a woman. There is an idea that there’s a gender section. I think that is an ill-informed opinion. Gender identity and sexual orientation are the same thing. I don’t believe these people, these terms, stand for good things. I think these people use these terms as a pretense that they stand for good things; as a pretense for them to carry on their nefarious activities.” In contrast … this is what the psychologist Phil McGraw perceives is his version of truth. … “Cleveland Clinic did a study on transgender brains, and when they did the study, they found that the brains of transgender people, their brain is actually more similar to the gender they identify with, than the gender they were assigned at birth. There is an actual brain difference. That is a neurological fact. There are fifty years of empirical evidence here. And there are distinct differences in the transgender brain versus the non-transgender brain.” From the book … When the Body Says No: The Cost of Hidden Stress … Author … Gabor Maté M.D. Studies in psychology-an art trying desperately to dress itself up in pure science-often find only what the particular researchers have the eyes to see.

I just found him recently, and he’s awesome. I can feel him in my heart . He’s like a father talking to his children. I like how straightforward he is about his message. Reality but with hope. I needed this in my life right now.

@@maryjibara What did Jordan says to your heart ... that your heart didn't feel before you heard Jordan speak. Can you please be precise?

@@maryjibara A psychologist with whom someone agrees ... has simply said what the "patient" believed "before" the therapist began to speak. Are you aware that psychologists prefer the word "patient" ... rather than the word "client?" The word “patient” suggests that the psychologist is mentally well … and that it is the patient that is mentally ill … which (when it comes down to it) might not always “be the case.” And are you aware that psychologists do NOT agree with each other's type of counsel. For instance ... Jordan Peterson does not believe that people can BE transgender. On the other hand ... the famous television star psychologist Doctor Phil McGraw DOES believe that those who are transgender not only exist … but that “THEY” have every right to respect and dignity. Concerning that subject of transgender … as a "patient" ... which psychologist's type of "counsel" would YOU support?"

People don't appreciate what they have. I have been listening to Jordan b peterson for years now and he has changed my perspective about life and the way I think. His words has really helped me better myself...

They are run by the WEF as is the USA now. People like JP are getting shadow banned soon to be banned period for hate speech. Very bad times are coming.

Honestly, I wonder what Jordan Peterson would make of Neon Genesis Evangelion.

I agree with you 💯 %!!

Find a memory you think is a cornerstone of some undesirable behaviour you have to confront. Maybe its being shy around your crush in 5th grade and ever since you’re too shy around someone your attracted to and its affecting your ability to form a relationship, next time you see a someone you like go right up to them and start some small talk. Even if all you can do is just ask their name and you walk away awkward, at least you took a strike of a pick axe to that corner stone. Your beginning to form new memories to overwrite the old ones that define that experience. Thats how its done. 😝

This clip was from 7 years ago......

@@curated_euphoria_experience yeah?

@@curated_euphoria_experienceA decade is 10 years……………………………….

Yes mine started with my mother

He has so much to pack in! :)

when i watched this video it didnt even feel like a half hour video to me!

Dead right there! That’s why he keeps getting misinterpreted

Although it *is* hilarious when he answers an elaborate question with a straight up "No."

Honestly, I wonder what Jordan Peterson would make of Neon Genesis Evangelion.

The only God sent we truly have is Jesus himself and the Spirit 🙄

i can't, i already have choosed to die to not suffer or overcoming any of it, life is too much for me to bear, i didn't asked for any of it, why my damn parents bring me into this hell, i will never forgive me, hope they will suffer in eternity for their actions

I read this over three times, and the way you write makes it impossible to know what you are trying to say.

what you've written here makes it all more clear for me; you somehow managed to put these words together in a way I can apply it to my situation, so I'm grateful to you for helping me to map this out for myself

@@saidaseyidova I’m glad I was able to do that for you! I guess it’s all a matter of figuring out how to interpret these things for yourself, in your own words, so that they can be of benefit. :)

Who are you??? ;)

This is awesome

@@8teein :)

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Navigate life u say ....or Navigate ppls thoughts so u can be in control u think

All I here is heavy breathing

When the student is ready, the teacher will appear

You shouldn't say things like this because there is no way to know if this is true without actually experiencing it. Sayings like this can lodge in a person's mind and influence them to think a certain way that can be destructive. Maybe rephrase your statement to say, in my opinion, rather than a statement of fact.

@@helives2630 There is nothing worse than the loss of a child, it changes who you are and you are never the same again, my son died at the age of 28 (I donated a kidney) my daughter had an accident, at the age of 18, could not talk, walk blind feeding tube wheelchair for 20 years, she died at the age of 38, I have no fear now

​@@helives2630very good point

I think it's obvious from Connies voice is from experience. I recognise her sentiment in my own experience .

Or survive a deadly illness….

yes, but how is that related to this video?^^

@@hanswoast7 It's bot commented and bot likes. Moving on nothing to see here.

​@@hanswoast7if you don't understand why maybe just work hard and stick to ur family

Random thought

@@hanswoast7younger people may feel bullied into compliance or compromising decisions to get social acceptance or avoid ostracism. Social media suicides can result. To a young, undeveloped mind these realities are very emotional, big and real, they don't see it as something they can laugh off as we adults would.

Better than jackin'off, what most of this comments section does by himself in a dark living room. Lincoln practised public speaking alone in a forest.

In his undies with a pint of ice cream. 😂😂😂

Honestly, I wonder what Jordan Peterson would make of Neon Genesis Evangelion.

Honestly, I wonder what Jordan Peterson would make of Neon Genesis Evangelion.

@@shawnwarrynn8609 How come? I've never seen it, something you'd recommend?

@Vanity Star my mother bullied me atrociously from earliest times 'til I left home at 17. I am 70 and still recovering. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

who? snivellers who hide with forced smiles? people who complain about what shouldn't matter? snowflakes?

drivellers?

Well that's comparing apples to oranges, he wasn't talking about abused children, he was talking about being bullied. The only somewhat parallel I could draw is DV situations, but even then, it's not a direct parallel only similarity.

Never give up. You have an essence that no one has, has had or will have. God did not make a mistake in you. One foot in front of the other. Baby step to baby step reaches the goal. You be you. Praying for you.

Stop fighting and allow your emotions to come up

@@evarodriguez4319 God bless you and thanks so much!

@@alexb8926 Amen to that!

❤

memory reconsolidation does not exist in your world?

"Memory reconsolidation" is niche technical terminology. It's part of an elaborate system of explanation belonging to conventional psycho-science. I don't subscribe to that mythology. My experience has led me to a very different explanatory paradigm, one that I can operate competently. You seem not to understand what I said. You certainly aren't addressing it.@@reprogrammingmind