@@andrewlennox4436 True but those rare few are welcome. The Shire did need to clean house 😂

Yes agree

Especially considering the MSM is actively brainwashing them

Great comment, and I agree wholeheartedly. A "return to normalcy" so to speak.

@@blueprince2330 What is normal? Isn't normal for one person different for another? I wholeheartedly agree that transitioning as a minor is dangerous and I don't know how anyone at such a young age is deemed able to make such a life changing decision. That doesn't negate the fact that grown adults feel the need to transition though and once someone is old enough to understand the ramifications of their decision, it should be up to them.

You're so right. It's a scam. It's all about performing unnecessary procedures in order to Make Money. Our lawmakers should step in to protect our very young and vulnerable from this sort of things.

Me too. It's devastating how young people are being treated and not really given choices. They seem to only get one side of the story.

Chloe is so strong. Going against the woke tide. But there are those of us who have her back! 🫂 to Chloe and everyone in her shoes.

Yeah this is absolutely horrible. In the future people will think "what in the world people were doing to each other in the name of this sick ideology"

​@@mary-janereallynotsarah684Cole

Mine too

just realize how evil this world really is. Sit with it. This is TRUTH

Me too, when I heard that my heart just broke.

Mine too

Yea, I highly agree!!!

It is.

Absolutely. He's explaining and assuring her that what happened to her was not her fault and that what has been done to her is horrific and cruel but is actively being fought against. Poor girl. Wish I could hug her and let her know there are so many of us that acknowledge her pain and support her in this necessary fight.

whew background noise distracting

Yes, his affirming words were incredible.

He is so brilliant that it is hard to believe they are trying to take his license. We live in a very crazy world!

I think his brilliance and compassion is the main reason they want to take it. Because I cannot believe the things I heard here. If they insist they are opposite of what they physically are, the doctor has to agree?? And then they give these wild untrue "facts" about suicide if they don't proceed with transitioning?? Rather than trying to help them understand themselves and the effects of transition, they choose something that shouldn't even be an option for a child .. I can't even believe this shit is legal can you imagine how many children like her have been victim to this I can't even find the correct words right now to make sense here it's difficult to wrap my mind around this. I just wonder who decided all of this was okay and the kind of people that actually agree with it Jeez.

My thoughts exactly!!

@@sallymote-yaffe6185 The goal behind pushing trans surgery & new sexual alternatives such as fluidity, pan-sexual, et al- is population control- a globalist priority. Tweens are an easy target. Dr. Josef Mengele is laughing from Hell.

The doctors didn't do this. She did it. She made the decision.

Yes. In my opinion all sane people must speak up. Especially those like yourself who have gone down this path. Perhaps this sounds stupid but even starting a petition, or petitions in support of Dr Peterson and against Canadian authority who wants to take his license or "re-educate" him would be a good place to start. If such a thing "went viral" it could turn the tide. PS. My father was an engineer and Mom a Jehovah's witness (want to be architect who chose being a wife and mother instead). I am neither but have great love for both (deceased) I was a tomboy but no one worried about that. Simpler times ? I was a teenager in the 1970's . Being a feminist in those days meant burning your bra and being angry at men.. Why would I want to do that? All the "men" in my life (father and bro) were wonderfully considerate and protective. And I needed that bra to stuff cotton balls in...🤣🤮

Amazing story. I would say that society in general is not responsible for what you got through, society is simply ignorant, they have no idea what these “transitions” actually do to your body and brain, but politicians and elites who promote this horror deserve something I cant say in youtube. Sadly, and being crude, to these people your issue is nothing but an opportunity to make profits and gain power, cause it does not only feed a monstrous medical industry, but also helps to play the political game of getting one part of the society to fight with the other, which gives then power. Its the golden egg chicken, just at the cost of people like you and society in general. Again, big congrats for having been brave enough to come back to the real you without comiting suic**e in the process, cause the amount of stress, sadness, lonelyness and frustation that go along with it can be overwhelming.

Thank you for sharing your personal story. I’m so glad that you are in a good place and God Willing it will continue. All the best❤

Beautifully articulated. God is faithful still 💚

Wow...

God doesn't exist

@@aeyorhyno you won't be saying that in the end

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I love Spain!

I agree with most everything you said but I don't think mr. Peterson said anything to Chloe about what she should have done. He's clearly saying that she was failed by every adult especially and sadly the medical community who has enough education and understanding of The Human Condition to make all of this borderline Criminal. The tragedy in all of this according to what he thinks should have been avoided at many different times and she stresses that by pointing out what they should have done in most instances and it's what they been trained to do. He is quite a credible Authority on all of this because he has the same education, and probably more, as these professionals should have and I think that he points out quite often that they know there's something fundamentally wrong with what is happening but are too afraid to do what's right because of the system they are in.

@@jilltooma6895 just to clarify i think he meant that what should have been done is the part that the "professionals" failed, nothing to do with what she did. I think we all realice she was a victim of the politics and current agenda on gender

mad respect for chloe

wtf was wrong with her parents? Or his parents? i cannot tell.

@@niledemitri3079 she’s a biological girl, she just has a deep voice because of the voice-drop cause by testosterone

Your daughter sounds more mature than most teenagers at that age. Good job momma. And I agree wholeheartedly, we need to educate more kids, not just girls, but also teenage boys so they won't get taken advantage by these perverted agendas.

@@Langley_Ackerman19 She's a fantastic young woman 🙂 Her mom left 11 years ago thou...her and her brother were raised by me 😁 And a very proud dad I am. Yes education of the the youth is critical.

Yes, and if any of this had been around in the 60,s i would, mistakenly, have thought i should have been made into a male. As it turned out, after much heart ache and 2 children, i was just this sort of woman. Sterotypes for females in earlier decades were stultifying. I believe that witnessing abuse can also be an issue for young girls.l would like to commend this womans honesty, thankyou.

Well done Dad. Children are smart, if you show them truth they will see it. In my case, as a divorced Dad it was all happening under my nose for years. It wasn't until the day before leaving for college that she dropped the bomb on me. It devastated me. Not because of the choice but because a I realized my own daughter had made me a stranger. It wasn't long before I became the enemy. I haven't seen her in a year and a half.....

@@chrislyman6946 I'm sorry to hear that mate. I can't even imagine how I would feel. Keep the lines open to her if you can. Communicate if you can also....never give up.

Yes I bought a smartphone for my kids because I feared for their safety when my husband and I were away at work and my daughter was exposed to the trans and woke madness. I battled for more than a year to get most of her back but 3rd year and it's not yet over though we've made progress as she wears make up and skirts again. I hope when she's 17, she'll be more mature. I'm hanging on for my child though it's exhausting. We do lock away her pc and phone, it helps to clear out the internet filth. But the bloody school asks for computers.

Why do you refer to HER as THEIR? She is an individual who has recognised that her journey to transgender was a mistake for her. Their is a designation for multiple people. She does not have multiple personalities unsure about their decision to transgender and then to stop. The question therefore is, are you supporting her decision and empathetic to her experience or are you toeing the party line to not be labelled transphobic. As parents we should talk to our kids - we gave birth to them it is therefore our responsibility. If they want to make adult decisions at a young age then they should be addressed in an adult fashion. Question their decisions and present factual evidence for them to consider. Medical practitioners are not infallible and should be held accountable for encouraging major surgery for young ones who do not have the ability to reason factually and base their decisions on what social media platforms are advocating. If their motive is money then they should be stopped from interaction with vulnerable minors. Girls who hang out with boys practicing boy activities are not necessarily wanting to be boys themselves and vice versa. Let children be children for as long as possible. Forcing them or allowing them into adulthood early leads to faulty decision making that in this young woman's case detrimental to her life. Why would a woman want to be a man in this modern age anyway? Women are desirable, and soft, yet we have a core that is strengthened by our power of reproduction - something no man is capable of and we are capable of doing anything we want to put our minds to. Why does she speak of women's silhouettes like someone from the 60's when hourglass figures were the rage. I am confused by this viewpoint. This hateful mutilation of young undeveloped individuals should be criminalised and all practitioners and advocates should be listed (like they do for pedophiles) as a warning to parents who are afraid of being cancelled by WOKE culture which is nothing but a bad nightmare we need to wake up from.

​@yvettepugin4035 nobody read anything you just said

@@MarkSmithhhhI did

The AI did a good job. How did you do it?

@@MarkSmithhhh LMAO ok I laughed way too hard at ur comment, cause I started to read theirs and it was just too long so I skipped right over it and then I came across your comment which made it 10X funnier, 😅thank you for the laugh.

I was thinking the same thing! Jordan is a national treasure of reason, intellect, and compassion! Why is he being silenced??!!

If they take his licence ..i just dont know what to say...as a fan it hurts me to think of how hurt he will be

@UCMMxCh0ArSs-dAT2kyc1fKw why the hell are you here?

Go away

@@antpage4106 what in the world are even you talking about?

Chloe, you are an engaging, courageous and an attractive young Woman. Stay strong, your life is just beginning. Get the help you need and know we are with you.

Yeah, those sick evil people were banking on their “patients” to kill themselves considering the trans suicide rate.

So that same child has no accountability... how many people was in her life telling her/ him, no that's not right, you're not old enough to make these decisions, I bet she/ he thought they knew everything, that's the consequences that everybody is subject to...

Why is it objectionable that 15 old boys didn't react positively? Were they wrong or was the psychopaths in the medical profession wrong?

@@zorroshadowblade3502 That’s why minors can’t have “informed consent”. Especially now where the young are finding their role models on TikTok and other social media. Chloe is just the tip of the iceberg. Right now drug companies and surgeons are getting rich on the gender disphoric. The tide will shift and they’ll get rich on de-transitioners. Hopefully Chloe and others suing those responsible for sterilizing and butchering the confused and disphoric will be successful and the profit motive will dry up for those monsters.

Jordan Peterson literally said a random female model wasn’t beautiful on his Twitter for no reason, he’s not a good person. He loves to demean women.

And has so much common sense.

I saw where he said ADHD boys are just normal boys because school is the opposite what a normal boy in a hunter gatherer society is designed to do. Exactly. As a dog trainer I see it all the time . Bored or aggressive dog gets put on meds ( tranquillisers) because owner who usually caused the problem can't be bothered to change what they do or do the initially constant dedicated work of changing the dog's behaviour . But no, they arent lazy and selfish, the dog is " anxious "!!Crap- , it's an untrained dog being an untrained dog in a bad environment that doesn't allow them to behave naturally. Let's call it what it is and take responsibility for changing it, not excuse crap owners/parents by tranquillising the problem and pretending it's a health problem.

Jordan Peterson is a charlatan and the court jester of any intellectual space he occupies

@@robinantonio8870Tell that to Governor Kristi Noem… her poor dog Cricket never stood a chance with her as the owner.

Ikr? Imagine this guy being your dad.

A remarkable human being. I would give him refuge in my home anytime. The guys honesty is something to behold.

@@wiederganger1959 I imagine his children are very psychologically balanced.

I can see Therapy at a psychological level but seeing this philosophical, it shows that people struggle with morality and pressured by the culture based on their ideology. It is truly saddening.

I sincerely feel for her. The adults didn't protect the child.

you act as if being trans is new? There are plenty of examples of hundreds of years ago trans people existing. We'd know more if the college of sex wasnt destroyed by Christians in Germany during the dark ages. For every de-transition story there are hundreds of successes. We should all remember that trans people make up about 2% of our population, less of those people get surgery, and far less of those people de-transition. So, there seem to be a lot of Cis straight people watching very long documentaries about people they very well may never meet. but sure have a lot of ways they want to use the federal and state governments to remove their freedom.

Parents need to listen to Dr Peterson talking with this young woman and her traumatic experience to get some insight into normal development. Parents need to talk and listen to their young teens.

​@@helenmacphee6594 There is no question thar "Parents need to talk and listen to their young teens." HOWEVER, just as importantly, parents really need to work to end the indoctrination, the grooming, of children by tv, by Big Tech, by schools, which is where the damage creating confusion in the children's minds starts! DAMMIT!

He's pretty.

@@Stefan-ox5sk wdym "he" ?

I agree. I think she's so pretty and the way she talks is very mature for her young age. She deserved so much better. What a courageous and wonderful person she has grown to be, making the most of her struggles and using her new found knowledge to protect other kids from the same misguided torture she was made to endure from such a young age.

I think she’s very beautiful too & it’s horrific that so many professionals urged this beautiful woman into transitioning

For sure. Most of our childhoods were stolen. But this is an entirely different animal masked as a good societal deed

Amen! Well stated

God bless her soul.

in a way this is an area that she needs to explore/understand to help her find peacefulness. The element of resentment pushing her new direction could be a part of it..... (as well as grief/ self disappointment for past path etc.)...... but also she needs to being mindful to ensure this path taking is not similar to the last..... aka...... gravitating toward a path that is giving her temporary positive affirmations... instead of one that is giving her a more balanced long term peace in the soul. It is going to be a long road. She will overcome though.... in time.

@Louis Steven sounds like your daughter's issues that classify her in Autism Spectrum were environmental related. Glad that worked out for you. It does some. Your a good dad to have pursued that avenue. You don't know till you try.

Yeah, that was pretty heartbreaking...

I know. It hurt me so much to see how hurt she is. And she started at 12! Imagine the kids who start taking crap as young as 8-9.

Your question has only a singular, tragically simple answer: ideology. When following a predetermined set of ideals handed to us by others, then logic and rational thinking are the first to leave.

At that moment, that broke me too. When she started to cry, I felt her pain and sorrow. And seeing Jordan also tear up, made it such a pathetically emotional moment. This poor girl is living with the legacy of the crazed trans agenda, which is supported by crazed trans medical so called professionals!! Yet, she is the strongest person to be leading the charge of detransitioners, with such dignity and grace, whilst trying to come to terms with what has been done to her body and psyche. Amazing human being.....

When I was in puberty I stayed off of social media if someone told me to cut my junk off I would have told them to go fuck themselves I can't imagine doing it because your so called "friends" told you to

Done for money.

I should hope so. Glad she’s getting some financial support.

Absolutely done for money. Big money for these immoral docs. This happens too many times to children. So sickening

She is.

Agreed. So brave and eloquent and intelligent. Very impressed by this young woman and so sad for her struggle to put her life back together

Agree completely she is beautiful and strong 😊

It doesn't take "courage" it takes selfishness and self-pity to blame others for your mistakes. He/She/It is just trying to get money for nothing with this frivolous lawsuit. Why does it not blame it's parents who allowed it to go through with this? Because the parents probably don't have a pot to piss in and there is no money there.

@@jasonknight9679 I don’t understand why you’re trying to talk logic about a young girl with an undeveloped frontal lobe and institutions and cultures who demonize and sometimes straight up remove children from homes unless their parents affirm their decided gender. It makes no sense to you? congratulations it doesn’t to most of the population. The reason why parents cannot be blamed is because they’re are guilt tripped and scared into believing this because of the threat of their kids removing themselves from the earth (you know what i mean). It’s straight up manipulation by the medical establishment to comply. Parents SEEK help through medical professionals, wouldn’t it make sense to believe mental health personnel who went to school for these things? They let them down and should be held accountable and responsible. The child is automatically free from responsibility because they have no idea what’s going on! Even with parental consent if medical providers provide this type of “treatment” to kids, they should be brought to the courts. it shouldn’t be PARENTS to tell doctors “please don’t take the healthy body parts off my daughter”. they should KNOW that it’s a bad idea. FULL STOP.

Where are the parents?

@@L_E_D_777 It is illegal to deny your child sex change if they want it. They will call it child abuse and take your child from you, raise it in poverty in a group home, and give them a sex change anyways. The parents are powerless because we allow people with bad ideas to vote. This is why democracy is dangerous, idiots are allowed to rule us.

That is where parents step in. They would have signed the surgical Consent Forms. Shame on them

@@cobar5342 The parents can say "well sorry you feel that way, we all make decisions in life and have to deal with them. You made the decision to transition, therefore it is not our fault".

@@cobar5342 Did you actually listen to this interview?

EXACTLY seeing as they're brains are STILL developing!!!! And even at 18 they're still NOT!!!! At 25 our brains are!!!!

Please use his right pronouns him and he

​@@christinacunnard9914 no, she transitioned to a he, now she is back to where she started

@@christinacunnard9914 please tell me you’re joking…

Chloe, she s a girl. Maybe you weren t pay attention

Please use his real pronouns People who are and have been pushing his fantasy on thinking that he could become a woman are the problem quite frankly evil

You nailed it exactly. It's terrifying to imagine how psychologically derailed we would all have been had we been manipulated by psychologists to disorient ourselves away from our biological sex before having had a chance to come to understand ourselves in terms of our own biological sex. I knew tomboys who grew up to be unbelievably beautiful women. I agree with you that this is terrifying. My heart breaks for children the way adults have complicated growing up.

Very well said, at 12 I thought I should be a boy, but grew out of the phase. Still a tomboy to this day, and a happy mother. I fear for these kids.

That's my story also. I was a tom boy, I played guitar, learned judo, my fav book characters who I wanted to become were males. The only female characters I could rely to was Eowina from Tolkien. Also a tom boy, who hated being a women. I hated my body, it grosed me out. And I felt it more or less until I became a mother and felt and learned what it means to be a women. I love my feminine energy, I love everything from body to soul. I think that if I would be growing up now I would've been trans. Or at least a non- binary. This would be a total f*ck up.

I’m 50 and this young woman was me back in the day! I too had major issues with not fitting in, body insecurities, fear of pregnancy, absolute stress about periods. Was surrounded with negative comments about being a woman. Not to mention the fear of being overpowered physically by men and their unwanted sexual advances. I actually wanted to be a boy, I wanted the safety of being a boy. If I had been born 30 years later I know I would have been in this young woman’s shoes! 😢 With a mutilated body too😟. I am balling my eyes out for this young woman! She was not given a chance, to become fully what she was meant to be. A mature woman! Because I was left alone to mature I became a Mother of three and now a grandmother! What is the matter with us humans! Let our children mature, let Mother nature be😢

Thanks so much for sharing an insight here. I hope people in going back to the 70's and 80's growing up it should have been okay to either be a "tomboy" or actually be attracted to one. I was born in 1982 in a small town where I had two notable crushes both on very assertive and competitive girls, both tomboys & still wonderfully cute in my opinion & respectfully "shapely", who may be considered Tomboyish yet masculine in ways to a limited degree. They both crushed hard on me also. One might laugh at this but I considered them both great people. I could imagine if they were bombarded with the literature of today they may have seriously considered physical changes. I am In no way against this, but now as a 40yr old my first thought is this: "Why is no one putting forward the contention that perhaps "The wisest time to make the best decision with bodily physical alternations with results that will repercuss into the next 40 to 50yrs of your remaining life may not be at best during puberty where ones ability to make rational thoughts and considerations is probably not just inopportune but terrible". Since those times I've only ever had heterosexual relationships, with obvious women lol. My proclivity has always been hetero & with no phobia I can honestly say women in a honorable & non-objectifying way are my thing. I'm into the normalities, with one exception which has carried on since those childhood years: A woman who cannot deal with a spider on their own is the biggest turnoff I've ever experienced. Not joking at all.

Its crazy they consider her autistic like they didn't even let her mature first

Agree, agree, agree. Well said

Actually, I actually was thinking the actually actual same actual thing. 😂

@@DinsAFK She has autism. She got diagnosed with it as an adult.

More mature than parents and the doctors that treated her apparently.

They need to be housed with the "General" prison population. And when an incarcerated father who loves his own Daughter(s) despite his own crime finds out what a Doctor ? has done to a young girl....well....there will soon be a vacant bed.

@@steveclujhawkins8063 I'm with you on that!!!

We are very long overdue with this "civilized" nonsense. Tolerance is abused to cover for literal evil. Time to embrace some more direct approach. If actions and deeds go without consequences, civilization is already abandoned. Than it is anarchy and barbarism. If that is what they want, SO BE IT!

They need to be jailed

@@steveclujhawkins8063 Sad to see so many people tolerating the alphabetical indoctrination in schools, private corporations and public institutions…we are at war against evil people running the country

Interestingly if Chloe has goes to dr Jordan in first place who is far better clinician therapist and psychologist than supposed therapists and medical professionals then her suffering trauma and regret their transition could have been avoided

How was he able to share it if a “confidential” consultation? I guess laws are different in Canada because I’m not sure that even her permission would be enough in the U.S. because of HIPAA.

That what I was thinking too. We were watching a master at work. So impressive.

@@bellonasky2502 not literally. This was made to be shown to people. But it really came across as an in depth evaluation.

jordan peterson sounds like a transman, just like ben shapiro

@@alphabetpeople2902Looks like we’ve got a groomer in the chat.

@@hops4284 HE RAPES (ANIMALS TOO): L = LESBIAN (WOMAN ON WOMAN - HUMAN) GAY = (MAN ON MAN - HUMAN) BI SEXUAL = (MAN AND WOMAN COMBINED - HUMAN). T = TRANSGENDER (FRANKENSTEIN MEN AND WOMEN - HUMAN) Q = QUEER (ALL IN ORGIES, BI, GAY, AND LESBIAN). SO THAT COVERS ALL HUMAN SEXUAL BEHAVIOR. NOW, WHAT IS THE "+" FOR??? WE'LL SEE VERY SHORTLY. + = 🐈 🐕 🐢 🐇 🐒 🐴 🐍 🐦 YEAH, I LEARNED THIS ON JSTOR. THEY SAID THE "+" FULLY RESPRESENTS ZOOPHILIA. I GUESS THEY WERE ALL BORN WITH THE GENE TO PENETRSTE BEASTS ABD OR LET THE BEASTS KISS, LICK, AND FONDAL ON THEIR GENITALIA. WHAT NARRATIVE WILL WE HAVE NEXT??? WE MUST GET RID IF THE NOUNS "HUMAN," "BEAST," AND "ANIMALS".

@@jamesmullins1990 you are evil

I sincerely feel for her. The adults didn't protect the child.

So many uniformed, ignorant "professionals."

Chloe will hopefully be able to grit her teeth and get through this life by realizing that all of our bodies are just temporary housing.

GET THIS HIGHER UP We had twins and my wife couldn’t possibly breast feed all the time. It isn’t ideal but it is ok. You can find so many other ways to connect and provide for your children.

There are amazing mothers out there who donate their breastmilk to milk banks. Pasteurized Donor Human Milk. Safe and accessible❤️

I have a client and her breastfeeding was compromised by the hospital staff, where she had her baby. But she was stubborn to breastfeed for connection, so what she did was a combination of babywearing and faux breastfeeding through a tube attached to her nipple. In my clients case after several months of this she recovered her lactation fully. Of course not the case for Chloe after the surgery, but at the very least a viable alternative option to use with donated milk, once she gets to this point in her life. I wish her all the best. Great fighter

@@getarasciuc3612 Love your comment! And love your client! Way to be, both of you ❤️😊

No Stacey, there are trillionaires who are pushing this, and they worship the devil. This is going to get darker and darker until we literally have child sex orgies, before it gets better

🤦‍♀️💔

people in the future will look back on this as one of the worst catastrophes of history, worse than a world where slavery was accepted

Don’t forget electroshock therapy.

There are no 20 years. The end is 2027. Sorry for the bad news.

Your English is perfect and thank you for sharing your story!

Sorry for my bad English Proceeds to write the most perfect comment known to mankind.. I was just joking.. you're English is perfect buddy. Godspeed 👍

@@literallyme12 Thank you, I am really glad to hear it. 💕

👏👍❤❤🤗

Absolutely agree. I was the girly girl but my young years say junior year into my college years is where I became pretty. I had naturally curly hair and I hated it. This was in the 80’s. It was just a lot of work and frizzy and rain just ruined my hair. Swimming, which I lived on a lake, was a nightmare for me. All the girls hair dried so nice and strange and I’m sitting there with a giant head of fuzz. I love it now. People compliment it all the time. My daughter has it and goes through the same things I did but she has me and way better products. Her hair drys In beautiful spirals so I think she’s nuts for hating it. Lol

preach brother ✊

OMG

Your first reaction should be all it takes - where were her parents? parents are not supposed to be fixtures only to take advice from "experts" in raising their kids; they were not handcuffed while Mengele rolled over their daughter with experiments, they are supposed to be parents, not friends letting schools and social media raise their kids, or allow them to be isolated socially with fear during a BS COVID pandemic. Dang people wake the F-up and be parents and never trust your government and medical establishment without using your brain first.

Very true. Blood thirsty butchers!

My feelings exactly,I couldn’t help in my mind putting my sons and daughters in this situation and rage comes to me.We have got to put a stop to this pedofilia and sexual abuse

I am an autistic man who became obsessed with an autistic woman. She is a "he/they", fortunately she hasn't transitioned. I creeped her out and never spoke again with me. But it gives me SO MUCH peace knowing that I did nothing wrong. It's just the way men and women are different. We men are less social, less in "theory of mind". She's more social, outspoken, outgoing. It's like I finally know what happened.

@@ross_ulbright7779 😂

Agreed

i felt the same way in the first minute! 😭 ...my son is 10yo, i'm a 48yo mother... i was so moved by her retrospective that i was compelled to comment with my own experience, quite parallel to hers esp in body development. and same as you, i luckily grew up during a time not too far before this craziness. 1992 saw the birth of internet AND my HS graduation haha. yes. very lucky. and important to note, i think, how Dr Peterson responds to what she says. he qualifies it by telling her how her individual story fits into what is 'commonly' known about gender, puberty, and physiological development et al. no judgment AT ALL, no leading her to any conclusions. it must be a relief of sorts to hear that in response to her telling her story. what a confusing time made even more confusing by the confusion around gender etc and the confusion propogated by the maelstrom of expressed opinion in social media. i can't even imagine how solitary her experience has been! and never knowing how, for the most part, it was the same for most of her peers. social media really puts this 'third man' in the mix - the other personality/character created by the mix of the exchange between people...

I’m 27, female and currently pregnant. I didn’t cry at all over this, rather I’m purely disgusted this happened and is happening to many.

Same.... This is absolutely gut wrenching and heartbreaking. I was also a tomboy. Wishing I was born a boy. Hating that my budding breasts showed. Being a hardcore gamer mostly hanging with boys. I would've been mutilated if I grew up today. I didn't want to be a girl. But when I got older, I wanted to be a woman. I've breastfed two children for two years each. It would've broken me to not be able to..

Very unfortunately my older brother had a vasectomy at 18!. He is now 62 and has gone on to help raise 3 children and 2 more for a short time. He was only 21 when he put his name on his future wife’s just born child’s birth certificate. That was only 3 years that he went from vasectomy to being dad when he didn’t have to be.

you know the fact the doctor around her let her do this is so disgusting when she herself barely understood what she was doing

Well at least tube tying and vasectomies are mostly reversible. Imagine if it was that easy to just get your ovaries removed.

​@@jesusofbulletsTubals are not reversed successfully hardly if ever. Most now are completely taken out. Vasectomy reversal is the same. Scar tissue developed in both cases but tubals are usually a removal and not "tied." Also have to account for ovarian dysfunction after a tubal......both my mom and sister went into menopause at 39-40 after theirs.

I had one of my ovaries taken out 3 years ago when I was 32. Yes I ready have 2 children but want more and I'm having extreme anger and regret that my doctor said I should remove the whole ovary instead of just the cysts. My new obgyn said in young women they usually don't want to remove the whole ovary unless it's cancer so it seems my other doctor went against the stand of care but there's nothing I can do about it now.

It wasn't being a girl, it was about growing up and and stop being a child. I am 61 and still remember how I hated having a chest and God forgive me, pubic hair. Hated, hated it. I put on the largest T shirt or sweat shirt I could find. Then at 40 you would find me in my best shape in form fitting clothes. Dr Peterson is so right. Most of us go through about 3 years of misery. You don't see a handsome boy in middle school, they all look goofy and covered with pimples. I didn't own a dress or skirt till about 10th grade. I think we all want to conserve the innocence and carelessness of being a child.

Do you think that may happen because most parents avoid talking about period? Here in Brazil, we speak openly about this, and no one seems to feel uncomfortable with it; even little boys know women go through it and understand they can get emotionally unstable sometimes. But when I went on a cultural exchange to the US, it seemed a tabu to talk about period, and they also considered it extremely disgusting, which I believe contributes to girls hating their bodies and the experience. They should know about it from an early age and they must understand that it is something natural, part of who they are; there's nothing wrong or unfair about it.

@@anacarolinarochasantos I think a lot of it is being sorted into the "woman" category. Adults tend to mostly treat boys and girls the same. And suddenly puberty hits and people stop thinking of you as "a kid" and suddenly there are expectations and restrictions that weren't there before. For myself, I was happy to be a girl, never wanted to be a boy, but I didn't want to grow up and be a woman. I saw that my dad and uncles were jolly and relaxed during family gatherings, and my mom and aunts were constantly working. And when I was about 13, my preferred ways of helping became strange. Like, while setting something up, I might find myself being pushed away from carrying tables and chairs, and toward wiping down the tables and getting the food ready. This pressure came from the adults' example mostly, but also from the boys not wanting me there and the girls giving me "you're so immature unlike us" vibes. I was pretty disgruntled about the whole thing for a while. (Honestly, still am, but I don't have the teen fervour, lol) I think that's natural. I'm a grown woman now, and am fine with myself not fitting into some kind of feminine mold. It feels weird and self-conscious as a teen, but you grow into yourself and it's fine. I'm not the stereotype of the anxious, gentle mother who loves to feed her family, but I'm fine with that. I'm the mom who encourages the kids to do things that in hindsight, were pretty dangerous and maybe a mistake, because it was fun and stretching for their confidence. I was the one to rough house with them, because it's fun! I'm definitely the emotional supporter and the one they run to for hugs like a "proper mother", but also I do wish that these creatures didn't have to eat so often, as I hate cooking! I have never felt "mom guilt" about leaving kids at a babysitter for the evening to go out and have fun, but I'm also completely obsessed with my children and love being a SAHM. I'm naturally quite strong, and much prefer physically difficult work to tediously detailed work, which apparently is more "masculine". However, I have a close group of friends that I need to see often, just to talk, which apparently is "feminine". I don't really wear makeup, but I like getting dressed up once in a while. What I'm saying is that I think the teens these days think that everyone needs to fit into a stereotype, and if they don't completely fit this mold, probably they need to change themselves to fit another mold. I feel very sorry for them. Life isn't like that, and I wish that was more acknowledged. It's so strange to me that in the age of "acceptance", it can't be okay to be a woman who doesn't think, look, and act like everyone might expect without having some sort of identity crisis. The lines are even more rigid than when I grew up in a very traditional area in the 80s and 90s. For me, although it was weird and embarrassing, the physical changes were not the biggest part of it. I felt quite strongly that I was not beautiful and never would be because I was big, round face, glasses, and there was a bit of despair and hopelessness there. I had accepted at age ten that I'd never look like a princess, I was more like a giant. So I decided that I wouldn't worry about it, and wouldn't try to be pretty with make-up because that would make it worse by making me look ridiculous. At least I didn't look hideous, and I'd work on having a good personality and hope that would be acceptable. Only in my 30s did I look back and think "oh, actually I was quite beautiful". I was Jennifer Lawrence (obviously not as pretty) during a time when beautiful meant Kiera Knightley.

@@er6730 Loved it. I find it a little funny cause i went through some similar things and others things quite the oposite 🤣 Unfortunately people don't learn with the mistakes from the past, i don't even know why we had history classes.. I agree 💯 that we should talk openly with our children, not only is our duty and responsibility, but also because we are in a world now where all the information about anything is in everywhere. So If we (as their safe people) don't talk about those things, first they will not be prepared, and second they will feel ir atracted to it (example sex) or reject it (body changes, etc) What is most important is people start to understand this, and understand how things work, specially mentally. We must accept ourselfs, and work to be the best version that we can be. Accepting our virtues, and our weaknessess. Because we are unique. A lot of people should do shadow work honestly. 🦋

@@furerorban9324 What in the world are you talking about?! 🤣

She is taking them to court!!!!

God bless this brave girl and her family. May the Great Spirit be with them and may Karma be paid.

I don't care about these messes, transitioned or not lol. Have fun with your broken brain, people.

@@swedanna Well, she asked for it. Screw her and her buyer's remorse.

​@@swedannashe can take the doctors to court, not the cancer community that pushed the child into doing this, is the sad part. I would beat them with Bamboo sticks for this...

let's say you knew someone that had a kid that felt awkward like you did when you were little and they were concerned about them being a target for alphabet movements what advice would you give. Like what to say to make it OK to be a bit awkward at times without being really awkward about it lol.

It's normal to be awkward about one's body chages in puberty. It's only evil and greed to make that transition into lucrative gender transitioning business!

I'm pretty sure men love them too lol.

I had a comment for you but I guess it was censored out I don't know, anyway people do have feelings especially when it comes to kids that's what makes us human, thank you for your service in the 82nd Airborne

Yes, I agree with you, sir! Also, I can't help, but think about the song titled "82nd all the way" by Sabaton... sorry, haha. Jokes aside, thank you for your service.

Amen, thank you for your service. ✝️

You're not the only one. Who isn't wrecked seeing that?

I was surprised that she started her transition mainly because she didn't think she was voluptuous enough and didn't think her breasts were large enough. But she was only 13. She could have looked more voluptuous by the time she reached her later teens. It's sad that it seems like nobody told her that. Plus, body trends change. In some eras, being thin instead of voluptuous was the trend. And men like various body types. But what really matters the most in the end is health, as she found out.

I suspect what saved you was time…being born into a cohort where this wasn’t a thing like it is now :-0

There are men that act a bit feminine, and women that act a bit masculine, and that's just the diversity of men and women in the world. If everyone could just accept themselves as who they are, there shouldn't be a need for transition, especially for children and teens.

​@@dark3031 This is a narrative that the hard-left seems to have a big problem with. When the conversation about the nuanced crossover between male and female behavior comes up, they demand that people frame this phenomenon as gender-fluidity or gender-neutrality when that particular relationship with gender is merely their prerogative. I'm gay and I view the subtle differences in my gender expression as only the flexibility of the male gender. I do not identify as a woman at all and I am very uncomfortable expressing myself in a feminine way. I recognize the femininity inside of me and embrace it, but all that nuance gets boiled down into a sense of maleness on my own terms. Sadly, the folks on the hard-left really don't like that. They think the system should have no rules, and I think it has rules, but that they can be bent and occasionally broken. They want to fixate on gender and turn it into their whole identity, I want my gender identity to be on the back-burner at all times. My identity far outweighs my gender identity. This all being said, the right is only coming around to issues like transitioning and gender expression because the left led the charge. Maybe the left goes too far sometimes, but they are also the champions of real freedom of expression. These conversations needed to be had.

@@Eragarev I'm sure everyone is OK with having these conversations, at an appropriate age. But watching at Chloe talked about her experiences in the video, it's just heart breaking how children and teens are being pushed into doing something so drastic and irreversible. Like some girls may just be feeling depressed or anxiety due to early puberty, and possibly a bit tomboyish, then there will be doctors or experts coming in to say "You're definitely a trans and you should transition, that's better for you".

I wonder why God doesn’t give people the help they need? 🤔

Sorr to hear this kelley, i imagine that is a huge loss that has you grieving too, its abominable that such procedures are promoted on children these days, what has happened to our world. i hope you get some peace and healing each and everyday.

God bless you. I can't imagine how hard that must've been let alone for a child to go through a mastectomy for vanity purposes.

This makes me so concerned for young people today. As a biological woman, I can say without a doubt that I couldn’t have anticipated how much certain things would mean to me down the road from childhood and adolescence. I couldn’t have known how much I would want a child from my own womb and to have the chance to feed that child with my own breasts. Having lost a baby was devastating so I can’t even imagine what it would have been like to wake up one day and realize I gave up the ability to even try entirely. And not being able to breastfeed my rainbow baby that we were blessed with after the loss was another horrible experience even though I am fully abled and breastfed my babies prior to that. It breaks my heart to hear that people are giving this choice to kids when they have no idea what they are accepting to put themselves through.

I'm in a similar position to you and I was thinking how much physical pain I Still experience from my mastectomy 6 years on let alone the upset emotionally... and just feel so much sadness for this young lady......

My mom survived stage 4 breast cancer she had to have an breast removed she's doing OK now, I lost an child hood cousin two months ago from breast cancer and an aunt it's bad in my family.

That's literally the thing they hate about him.

It’s only the rainbow mafia that is promoting this, along w the woke lunatics….I’ve seen a handful of transgendered individuals in my practice, 1 true hermaphrodite, and that’s exactly what we did, explore and question several topics in this area, so they understood, eyes wide open! None were even remotely children.

​@@skydriver5709 he has what they do not - a heart

@annafelka6636 ... Agreed 💯

Ain't no hate in that dude

Chloe! You are my hero. You can be an inspiration. Ask God to guide You!!

She’s going to save so many… her parents are insane!!! Love you Chloe not your fault! ❤

​@@SanctifiedLadyinsane? I wouldn't call them that. They just trusted what medical professionals told them. It's either this or a dead child. Like mr Peterson said, they were backed into a corner where they seemed to have to pick between bad choices, one being fatal. It's very very sad.

@@SanctifiedLadyshe doesn’t blame her parents.

I'm 65 and find I gotten hots for for her. I'll do the right and have her over at my place. We sit and talk watch some movie. Trust me no bedtime together just bit fun no hanky panky at first. Just nice relaxing time together.

Same. I had early periods, terrible cramps. I saw how much easier it was for my brother - I wanted to have that ease and “be a boy”. I had to stay home from school on the first 2 days of my period it was so bad. TG I didn’t grow up in the current environment. No way is a child that young able to comprehend the reality and consequences

Same here. I'm a tomboy and still am at the age of 50. Just because I like hanging out with the guys doesn't mean I want to turn into a man.

of course, it was but those operations failed back then just like they do right now it was not pushed since we had the last 4 clowns who are in office Hillery Bill Obama and Biden why hillery been all over the news saying joe biden doing a good job

this is so heartbreaking bc I was so much like her as a child and I turned out totally straight and fully feminine

I was a total Tom boy and am so grateful I was allowed to be one without being butchered!

Well said, Sir!

I’m here crying 😭 I’m an hour and twenty minutes in 1:20

Check out Boyce of Reason Podcast. He interviews detransitioners in an effort to get the word out about what's going on with children.

@jenny hubbock you may be right, that does happen. But I believe this man is sincere, cut Gaetano a break. This is a harrowing tale

Seriously buddy. I’m a grown ass man with a tear in my eye for this poor, misled, and butchered child. This stuff has to stop.

Exactly who would of thought a childhood w ur friends, playing chicken with the local train would be a far safer and socially beneficial upbringing🤙

Yes I also received this message

Absolutely!!

That is the message, but how to to achieve it? It would almost be impossible to avoid it.

Same! I took my daughters phone. She’s 15. She hates it but the social media is too much. There is no real way to monitor it accept to deny access. Adults can’t even handle social media. Children definitely can’t.

same here

Here’s three ❤

Yesssss

Absolutely x Chloe was just a perfect example of bravery n strength within x How one can go through what Chloe did and still appear unharmed is beyond belief 🕉

We saw the truth of it then and knew it would lead here,

No one is put through this fake medical practice that doesn't WANT it. I have no love for the surgeons, the establishment, OR the "tr@nz" people. Work on creating drugs that will fix their brains. We have stuff we can give people who think they are Napoleon. Do the same type of thing here.

She's a hero 😊🙏🛐💞

Cole not chloe

@🍄 FunGusAmonGus 🍄 fiscally poor :P

So did I and I did not transition. I am a female and I am also gay

@@nasch008 yeah i think growing up as a kid if youre gay can confuse the hell out of you especially if nobody around you talks about what homosexuality is and media and people in your life are straight or in the closet. you don’t even have sexual urges as a kid you just know you’re different and you don’t know what it is exactly you can’t pin point it until you get older

I'm so glad your parents didn't let you run with that. You were fortunate. Very happy for you !

In Melbourne Australia there’s a law that’s been passed. If your child tells you that they’re trans then you must accept it. You must allow them to start being treated as the opposite text. If you deny they are & offer to pray for them you will be gaoled. If you refuse treatment then you will lose custody of your child. This is horrific & true.

How? The surgeries are anywhere from $30-$70,000 it’s pretty easy to see why why they are allowing it. Have a lot a foreign born physicians in this country who will do anything for money which is a factor.

unrelated

@@pilipollo6193 ?

The protections we have in place today are sadly the results of tragedies that have happened over the years. Safety-seals on pill bottles, child-proofing products for households, seatbelts, and many more we made _after_ the loss of innocent lives. This will one day be looked at as another terrible mistake, like doctors telling patients to smoke cigarettes to help with a cough.

What always surprises me is that. Drinking and even tattooing requires a certain age. Which is minor and easy to reverse while changing your gender is possible at 12? What a paradox. Kids are kids and are in the hands of their parents because they don’t think right. Who are this people who allowed this a 12 years old ? In Australia it is 16. That is not even enough. It should be 25 when a persons brain is 100% developed. ….. I don’t know where this is going.

I couldn't believe it either. It is insanity. I wish this very video would be shown in every middle school and high school in the world.

@@happydaze7386 Money. That's how...highly immoral greedy fucks that will do anything to get money.

It's downright criminal. You can't vote or buy a lottery ticket until you're 18, but this is ok? Every single person involved with these transition surgeries on children are monsters. It's so damn predatory, especially telling the parents that it's either this or suicide. Not to mention doing this to confused and depressed young people. I can't believe activists think this is great and empowering. It's devastating.

This has been normal now for years. Doctors deny it, but records don't lie.

More than just the money. I hope they seize those doctors licenses. It’s time we start banning the psychopaths from hospitals.

@@Fred-wy7bt Actually it is the politicians that promote laws allowing children to have these life altering operations when they are going through puberty and are confused. These politicians should be charged with crimes against humanity.

She should sue her parents as well.

98-99% of transitioners have no regrets over their decision. And the minority not in that percentage primarily de-transitioned due to pressure around societal stigma and harassments afterwards, which makes sense. I have no monkey in this fight. I only follow what science and studies say. And so far 27 studies of over 8000 cases and medical professionals all side with these therapies. So like... I don't understand the passion people like you have against helping people live the lives that evidence heavily indicates they want to. Gender dysphoria has real consequences on quality of life (and I'd assume lifespan in general when you consider the high number of suicides) for these 98-99% of people, as real as this girl's alleged consequences. So I mean, mistakes can happen, sure, but like it seems to me this is a matter of which is doing the greater good for these individuals... and it's pretty clear this girl is in the extreme minority, but willing to sacrifice the potential improvements to live and pursuits of happiness of a huge majority of people. I dunno man sounds effed.

@@johnjingleheimersmith9259 not true. Like JP points out, no long term studies exist. It is taking YEARS for these folks to realize that transitioning didn't heal their traumas and did then. They THINK they are satisfied for years until they realize they're still plagued by their past. All we have as of now for evidence of long term outcome is anecdotal information. And what I am seeing is 2 to 3 new videos EVERY day onb you tube of detransitioners who've destroyed they natural bodies and are warning others not to do this until they've had the MONTHS, if not YEARS of weekly therapy that JP describes during this interview. Accepting your biology as it is naturally is healthy! These poor people are not mentally healthy.

@@JordanPeterson- Sad to see so many people tolerating the alphabetical indoctrination in schools, private corporations and public institutions…we are at war against evil people running the country

It’s definitely something. Don’t think he is playing that role exactly, but we can see a lot of those practical techniques and sensitivities shine through.

thanks for making me throw up

@@rickmcmillan6442 I’m sorry to hear that.

@@dvango7090 Yes, that’s a more accurate depiction.

I've thought the same thing about myself. I always wanted to be Indiana Jones or James Bond in imaginary play, if I wasn't a horse or dog lol. I liked knives, guns, catching toads and frogs, roughhousing with the dogs, etc. But I never felt like a boy ever. I could easily have fallen into the nonbinary trap in puberty. I felt ashamed and dirty when I got my menstrual cycle, and it took me years to really feel comfortable about that. I'm so glad my parents were traditional in the very real life way, ie every family member learned to cook, clean, do outside chores, helped cut and stack wood, hunt, fish, etc. I was very lucky that gender was not based on activities and color preferences but was very basic to biology and reality

I think it's because most kids have identity struggles and struggles with their sexuality. It's like he says in the video, these are experiences adolescents have had for decades. It is not uncommon but instead of educating them about real life, the people that are supposed to teach and protect them are medically castrating these kids. It is sick, it seems common sense we would allow them to grow to full maturity before giving them life altering drugs and surgeries, leaving them dependent on pharmaceuticals for life.

The same with my daughter. She was a tomboy. She had two older brothers she wanted to keep up with.

My thoughts exactly. I thought I was different and liked playing with boys more than girls. Im also more object oriented than person oriented. And I also didnt want to have kids until I was an adult. I am very lucky to not have been born in this geration. I am now a very happy and satisfied 30yo woman, mother and wife.

Me too.

Yes this needs to be talked about not hidden. It’s tragic what’s happening.

its not uncommon-laws should probably be changed(with regards to age of consent)

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The mainstream media, in fact all leftist media are squelching all these stories, all the truth. Believe it or not, there is an agenda to continue the push for convincing people, children and people of all ages, that being trans is not only the way to being healthier but necessary (over simplification) This is something I've been talking about and warning people for many years. Too long to go into, but my background, all my experiences gives me insite into all this and what's happening now, why it's be so expedited.

That's actually pretty normal and even below-average amount of bullying, at least where I grew up. I'm way more worried about the adults in her life, and their choices

It's weird cuz it's not right in any way and there's no excuse, but I think that happened after she started the treatment, so technically she look like a guy,,,

called being human, we deal with bullshit and overcome to become stronger

@@boxman2645 That sounds ok, good for you that you're so tough, but people are diverse and many get scarred for life by bullying. Is that the fault of the one bullied or of the bully? And it's never a 'fair game'. Victims get selected on character traits predicting 'weakness'. Bullies seldomly pick a known fighter as a victim, but tend to prey on physically weaker kids. Often of a much younger age. Bullies are after all about the most cowardous people around. They hide it by bullying. Every year again, kids get depressed because of bullying. Kids even die from being bullied. Now, you might think that's not a problem, I do.

@@arturama8581 you can learn to be tough.and beat man if you want.gyms and books out their

@@wijnandross3475 they don't support humans, only Trans-humans. It's as prejudice as it gets.

It's extremely sad that these certain individuals who use children to push and agenda.. Is PURE EVIL!! I feel horrible for the children who need help and protection but don't get it do to all the 🤬 brainwashing these individuals bestow upon the most vulnerable!! I hope this young lady can cope and get justice she/ so many others very much deserve!!

​@@nellanellaperched6767 they don't actually support trans people either, they're only using them for their political goals, and when they don't have enough for their goals? they prey in children like this and mutilate them, how disgusting

You seem the kind to call her “stunning and brace” when he was transitioning in the first place.

@@greyson7379 so you show contempt for that sort of thing? Please remember that those words exist outside of leftist political shit.

Good on you! ❤

You have lived experience, don't let them invalidate it.

You are powerful and continue to speak your truth bc it is so inspirational. Don’t fret those lost bc they weren’t your real friends. We have to ultimately live with our choices, not those who try to impose their ideals on us. You done what was right for you and it will continue to serve you ❤

In the book, Man's Search for Meaning, by Viktor E. Frankl, who was a concentration camp victim, Frankl talks about how tragedies can make you a better person, or a terrible person. You can rise above it spiritually, or you can become no better than an animal. Your struggles are still ongoing, as such things are, but it's made you a better person, Shelena. And that's really the whole point of life: to be tried and tested and refined. God bless you and don't ever stop fighting.

Sending prayers and strength your way to continuously make the right decision.

Your mom's character undeniably shines through. She did good raising you

She Is so brave and eloquent

Totally agree she is strong an will be able to help many with her voice.

I mean, this might sound crazy ... but ... she could try not LYING TO HER PARENTS AND HEALTHCARE PROVIDERS FOR YEARS. Just a thought.

I'm transgender and going through a full male puberty until 18 before I realised I was trans, I feel like I'm in the same shoes as Chole where I have all these male sex characteristics from my puberty that shouldn't be there and I need to transition to be perceived by people in life as a woman so I can just live like everyone else. I'm 20 now and on feminising hormones and my life is getting better and better but just like Chole, I will always have the effects of those years of testosterone for life and it hurts sometimes. Chole and I may have different circumstances with her being a cisgender woman who's biologically female being given testosterone treatment to essentially go through a male puberty whilst I'm a transgender woman who's biologically male and went through a male puberty naturally but we ultimately face the same consequences now of having to live with getting rid of reversible male sex characteristics and living with irreversible ones for life. The point is that my side of the story is not the only side that exists here and there will always be some detransitioners out there who need support after a detransition and ideally more help and support before gender-affirming care is provided to ensure that there are no other mental health issues like EDs, Social Anxiety, Sexual Trauma (as a symptom of sex abuse is wanting to be rid of one's genitals) or neurodivergence. - And if any other these are present, then they are treated with very special care and the patient is challenged much more so that they can fully separate the part of the their experiences of life rooting in gender dysphoria from the other experiences and parts of their life rooted in these other problems before any further action is taken. They should also be made fully aware of the fact that puberty blockers alone will flatline bone density development and stops sexual function, which can be especially irreversible when cross-sex hormones are added to start the development of the sex characteristics typically associated with the opposite biological sex. - But this is a sad reality that trans people have to face regardless of what they do in life because of the uncontrollable consequence of simply being born with a defect in their sex chromosomes that leads the sex anatomy of one biological sex and a brain structure that make it feel normal and natural to have the sex characteristics typically associated with the opposite biological sex to what they are. And because of this, them having to choose between either having the correct sex characteristics for them to live their lives whilst losing their fertility or keeping their fertility but having all the wrong sex characteristics on their body, some being for life. And just as equally importantly, Chole's side of the story is not the only side that exists either and whilst there are kids born cisgender who mistakenly go down this pathway, there are kdis who are born transgender and their brain structures are wired in birth from birth for it to just feel completely natural to have sex characteristics of the opposite biological sex to what they are and there is no such therapy or magical neurosurgery that can change this immutable part of their personhood they are born with. Gender affirming care (NOT SURGERY FOR MINORS. - I ABSOLUTELY BELIEVE ANY SURGERY RELATING TO GENDER-AFFIRMATION SHOULD BE 18+ AND NEVER PERFORMED ON MINORS, WHICH IS THE ONE THING I COMPLETELY AGREE WITH FOR CHOLE TO NOT HAVE HAD ANY SURGERY BELOW THE AGE OF 18) is still very much necessary for these kids if they figure out they're trans and can proceed with caution with people around them certain that there is absolutely no other mental health issue that could be the root of this experience of life and them being fully aware of the aforementioned implications of blockers without a cross-sex hormone for the critical period of bone density growth and the loss of fertility. Both of these sides, transgender transitioners and cisgender destransitioners, need to find a middle ground and unite to help make more people aware of trans people, what they truly experience so that people, especially teens, who suspect they're trans can have a very open-minded, safe, slow and comfortable exploration into what the immutable lifelong transgender experience of life from birth is like and if it is truly what they're experiencing or if there are mental health issues with self esteem, eating disorders, anxiety, depression or suicidality are the cause of discontent with thoughts of developing / a need to get rid of already existing sex characteristics on their bodies. This is to help the kids who are born trans and are trans for life, whether they or you like it or not, have a safe transition with support around them so that they develop the right sex characteristics that they need for life to thrive and for kids who are born cisgender and are cisgender for life to be directed away from transitioning when there is actually a different underlying cause for the dysphoria they are experiencing. If a teen transitions, realises that they were cisgender all along and then has to face a detransition with all the mental struggles with that then I believe hey should have all the love and support of people including the trans community on their side to help them through it.

Me too. It's so confusing when you're that young and getting boobs and hips. Thank God my parents just let me be

I am so happy about your relationship with your mother. So happy.. Motherly connection can overcome a lot of obstacles in a kind's life

It's great this was your experience, but my mom celebrating my journey when puberty started only made me hate it more. I HATED puberty and I just wanted someone to tell me those were normal feelings and that they understood where I was coming from; not celebrate it.

I think that’s a retrospective that our moms can be not wrong but still make us feel bad. A relic of puberty in itself honestly

​@@ashleypg1708 why does everyone make it sound like such an ordeal? Its not genuine.